PULLING OUT MY OWN STENT | Kidney Stone Removal & Recovery (Graphic)

This past week has been my toughest week of the year and that's saying something... It has been a REALLY tough start to the year.
For anybody who will be watching this before pulling out their own stent i'm sorry.... This probably doesn't give you much hope! I am feeling much better now though and I finally feel like I am on the road to recovery.
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Until next time
Ella x

[@BrettStapleton-qd3qs]

Shout out to your partner for helping out!! Decades of dealing with similar issues and it never gets easier but someone to lean on is priceless. Let’s all remind ourselves how lucky we are to live in this age of modern medical marvels. Surely even a few decades to a hundred years or so ago kidney blockage/stone pain issues were, well…likely midevil for a lack of a better term. Keep fighting the good fight! Much Love from Cali ✌️

[@carmolitaverster8038]

Thank you so much for sharing...this is such a stressful situation. Doing mine tomorrow...😔 ...Your a survivor !!

[@ethericomusicyourmind1360]

heart going out to you on this one, really feel for you. Good luck girl.

[@sophiaem9278]

Hi Ella, i feel so sorry for you that you've been through so much pain. I was releaved to see once you could sit again. I hope you feel a bit better by now. Take care 🤗

[@Essentially-Ella]

Thank you Sophia. It's been a tough few weeks that's for sure! So glad to be feeling so much better now pain wise. A little weak and mentally physically exhausted but I should be fine by the end of the week with any luck. 😊 Hope you are well!

[@sophiaem9278]

@@Essentially-Ella so happy to hear you're doing better.

[@gozdec4908]

I removed mine myself at home and it wasn’t painful. But few hours later I had the worst cramps so be ready for that! Take pain killers and good luck everyone!

[@GreenMoon-kk9hu]

What is a good pain killer.

[@monibmt]

Thank you for sharing! I had the USR surgery and had stents left in and had the worst experience while in and even worse once taken out- also delayed sever pain after. No painkiller was doing anything and already took the strongest. They initially sent me without painkillers, even though I said I was in slot of pain! Pisses me off when they say most people are fine with stents, just a bit uncomfortable! I wish they would have it them selves! I know everyone reacts differently. But my body hates it! And the removal was even worse pain. After all that, they weren't even able to find the stone!! Which is why it was okay to remove the stent the next day, after the pain I was in. I can't believe you had to put up with for so long. I could barely talk, walk it eat. I hope things are better for you 💜

[@av8054]

My experience with a stent put in has been awful. I feel so much discomfort. I’m removing mine tomorrow. I feel nervous to remove it. Thank you for sharing your experience. I hope I feel better.

[@suzette8711]

How was it? I have to remove mine & im scared

[@nancyjewell3165]

I took mine out while I was in the shower.Easy as pie

[@smilingdog2219]

Thank you for sharing. I'm loosing sleep over my first stent removal in the morning. Bing watching videos on topic and yours is the real deal. I just want it over with.

[@Essentially-Ella]

Wishing you all the best. Just think how great it'll be for the stent to be gone!

[@cherripaterson6066]

poor sweet young lady, more brave than most, i wish theyd give you something for the pain, it broke my heart watching the video of the removel ,

[@Integrity-Speaks]

I felt depressed, and nauseated after my stone surgery. My stent pain wasn't bad, but my urine was reddish,pink 2 days then went back to normal color. I have to get my stent removed tomorrow. It was hard for me to drink enough fluids, after surgery I don't drink soda anymore just water, milk,juice. Thank for sharing your experience, glad you're feeling better.

[@Freyeesha]

The stents I've had with kidney stones have been so painful and debilitating, I too was told. It's rare to have problems and felt to feel I was a wimp.. I am. Having my last one removed this Wed and dreading it.. Keep, getting well darling.. Xxx

[@samanthaspecks574]

Just got discharged last week with string stent. Not first time I've had a stent or kidney surgery or many issues that follow. I know exactly how you feel with hospital experience. It's almost like you're a bother just because you're in chronic pain and have actual issues. I'm about to remove my stent now actually. Ty love 🖤 Best wishes and ty for letting me know I'm not alone.

[@Essentially-Ella]

I know it doesn't make it easier, but I hope knowing that you're not alone in this gives you some kind of comfort and I hope that you get some relief after removing your stent!

[@ArianaBellaney]

I have to keep mine in for two weeks 😢 Thanks for sharing, you uad me in tears with how relatable it feels. Im only at day 2 lol

[@stephshrop1]

I take both mine out today… this process of having stents since march has been so depressing. The pain, the feeling of not being able to do as much as you use to. It’s just been a lot. I plan on doing a lifestyle change though. Especially within my diet. May not stop these stones from reoccurring. But it’s worth trying

[@aevlive]

Thank you for providing a video of stent removal from a female's perspective, as I have only found one other. I seem to be fortunate ... so far ... that the major pain I have from my stent is the burning when I pee. I tried peeing using a sitz bath and it burned just the same. Once I have peed, I am basically good until the next time I have to pee. It's Wednesday, and I have been told to take the stent out on Saturday morning. I'm not looking forward to it, as I'll be on my own but I guess I'll have to give it a go when the time comes. Incidentally, I found a page that said to drink 3-4 cups of water one hour before removing, take pain medication and an extra dose of Tamusolin (basically build up a good full bladder and begin to urinate as you pull out the stent) and remove it in the morning in the shower or bath. Hoping it goes well. Thanks again for your video and I hope your kidney stone problems are behind you.

[@QuotableVibes101]

Thank you for sharing your experience it’s helped me. I just got my stent today for me I can’t feel the stent but the string feels like they are cutting me with every movement and it might be with how red the blood still is and the only Brief relief is laying in bed completely still until my member moves and get extremely bad pain and I was also sent home with no pain killers and told just to take Tylenol and ibuprofen and am kinda in disbelief of having to be like this for 5 days

[@brendacole5915]

You have the right as a patient to ask to be comfortable and not suffering….(nurse of 32 years and kidney stone sufferer too)may Everyone be comfortable and healing ❤️‍🩹

[@lameasscatlady]

I feel ya!! I was rushed into emergency surgery almost 5 weeks ago to have a stent placed with a 14mm kidney stone. At first the stent didn’t bother me much…but this week…I’M DONE!!! I’m so crabby and the pain is constant when I’m standing. I’m scheduled for stone removal and stent replacement next week. Kind of looking forward to it…but also not. 🫤 Thank you for being so brave and vulnerable while telling your story! 💜

[@bcghtKira]

I have to remove my stent tomorrow, I’m not ready!

[@mlsanphy]

Thank you!!!

[@iticklechickens]

I just got the go ahead to remove my stent. I am waiting till tomorrow when I can get more pain meds to pull it out. I really hope mine is not as bad as yours, but you vid gave me a little bit of what to expect.

[@Essentially-Ella]

Good luck! Let me know how it goes, I hope (like many of these other comments) that it is not as painful for you as it was for me 🤞

[@iticklechickens]

@@Essentially-Ella I just pulled mine out a few minutes ago. I think I was fortunate, because I had no pain at all. May have been due to the Norcos I took. I'm hoping that tomorrow will be pain free, but we will just have to see.

[@leespong-tk2zz]

Had surgery on 12th last week. Removed stent on Tuesday. Stent come out with no problem. Had a slight bit of pain after, but didn’t stop me doing my normal routine. Feel back to normal today. If your worried about stent removal, don’t. It’s a breeze.

[@parbatilakhan9159]

Hi Ella I have two stones 1.8cm and 8mm they put in a stent to drain my kidney because in Trinidad my hospital doesn't have a laser so have to wait until they receive one hopefully next year March 2023 .In the mean time they they will change it ,this is the most uncomfortable and painful ever I can't keep up my pee at all .I am peeing blood and it stings so much .This hurts more than the stone and they gave my three days of pain killers .You are so correct about this thing .So sorry for your pain hope you feel better soon .I'm feeling as though you are telling my story

[@Essentially-Ella]

I'm so sorry you are experiencing this right now too. That's why I posted this video... So people don't feel like they're the only ones who feel this way about stents! They are so painful. Peeing in water helps a bit with the stinging. I really hope your pain settles and you are able to get it sorted as quickly as possible but I really feel for you. ❤️

[@annelarsen100]

I have to take mine out tomorrow. I can't wait but I am terrified!

[@Essentially-Ella]

Hope it went well! Better out than in I'd say!

[@quinton9891]

Hey my dear. I am a Trans masculine being and I had a 9mm stone in my left kidney. They gave me a stint to pull out by myself with no instructions..... (still female below) I want to thankyou so much for sharing your experience. It's real. And inspiring. I too have to figure out how to do this, and like you.. I see myself having the same troubles as you. Thankyou so much for sharing your story.

[@Essentially-Ella]

Hello! Thank you for the lovely comment! I hope your stent removal goes as smoothly as possible! Honestly such an unpleasant experience but still so much better to have it out! Sending love ❤️

[@angeldelossantos5160]

They just removed a 9mm stone from my left kidney too & tomorrow morning I am pulling out the stent myself ! 😭

[@maddamhellfire]

I hope your next video you let us know that they have removed all the kidney stones from one or both kidneys. I watched before and after my surgery. My experience was more similar to yours than any of the other videos I watched. Thanks again

[@lauriedanque2527]

Bless you. I have to remove mine Thursday. Having a major panic attack 😮

[@Essentially-Ella]

I'm sorry! Out is better than in though. Lots of people don't struggle as much as I did so try to accept and allow it to be what it is for you. Sending love!

[@marcebrodie3862]

It happened to my two years ago, my pain was worse an hour after removing both stents for 24 hours I was in agony. I just had 24 stones removed 3 days ago, 9mm, 7 mm and numerous 3mm and I will have to remove two stents this coming Monday, and I am scared.

[@Malarkey-sh9od]

I had this exact same surgery today. I have to go back in 6 weeks to have the other kidney done. Not nice!

[@maddamhellfire]

Hello Ella thank you for making this video. I just had a kidney stone removed and a stent twice because the first one came out the day after the procedure. The struggle with that stent is real. Thank you for the true ordeal that people go through with a stent and the operation. You hit the nail right on the head. It feels like you are peeing hot lava. In America they let the string hang that's why they come out so easily. The stent is worse than the stone itself if you ask me. I have been in and out of the ER since the day of the surgery. See if they can give you Dilaudid and toradol, those two meds help with my pain for the stone and stent. Today I rewatch your video because I am not in pain for the first time in two weeks and able to comment. Can I ask does it feel like your whole reproductive system is having a spasm that's the only way to describe besides someone trying to rip it out of you.. also there's this medicine here in America called flomax. It relaxes the urethra muscle to help pass the stone naturally. They also give us zofran for neuase. I hope I was able to provide you with ways to ease your pain and thank you for the honesty of this whole situation.

[@Essentially-Ella]

Thank you so much for your comment. I hope you are feeling much better now! It is a constant struggle but I am doing ok now. I will for sure be refusing to be sent home with a sent next time though after my last few experiences.

[@leespong-tk2zz]

They give us paracetamol here in the uk. Too many lefty nurses. I had to speak to the doctor and he gave me pethidine. That stopped the agony after 20 mins.

[@Bloodette]

I just got mine removed it wasn't painful but did experience a burning sensation when going to the bathroom

[@heathercraven4407]

Same with me

[@Bloodette]

@@heathercraven4407 I went to my urologist they got it out for me

[@conorjames509]

I was told to take mine out after 4 days but I think I'm going to take it out tomorrow, how did any men find doing it how was you afterwards?

[@DanielladeMaria]

Is it normal to feel pain when removing your stent? I tried removing it myself but it felt like it got caught on something and was too painful it was like my body did not want it to get out 😔 would you recommend I go to the ER or see my surgeon.

[@lisawilliams7365]

I got stents put in for kidney stone Been 4 days. First Dr said remove in 2 days. Then said 4 days. I’m in so much pain. I want to take it out now. I have the string to remove at home. I’m just scared to pull

[@gentleoldmoviefan5680]

option to skip ahead to 11:57 in this video (placing TIMESTAMP here). I did a search, using KZbin search bar, of: how to remove ureteral stent with string at home One of the resulting videos I found, which was quite short (1:09 min.), had a Comment underneath it wherein the woman who was writing (and addressing it to other Ladies), said that a nurse had given her a suggestion for easier stent removal at home: Be urinating, with bladder relaxing as fully as you can in the process, while pulling on the string. It seems like that would be messy. However, it sounds like it might be worth it - to reduce pain and spasms which otherwise might happen (reduce one's bodily upset). Trade off: to clean up some urine mess (in the shower or bathtub, that is) rather than having pain or serious spasms resulting. Note: I have never tried this firsthand (i.e., done it myself). I'm just passing along this information in case it's useful to anyone else anticipating a personal removal of a ureteral stent -- with a string at home. I wonder why such advice is not more widely disseminated by doctors or other medical people? (If the technique works so well, that is.) Maybe liability concerns, or other fear based things, are taking precedence. The Y-tube video referenced, lasting just over 1 minute, has a female urologist speaking with an accent, in a very soft voice. It could lull some people to sleep, it seems.) I got more out of the Comment underneath, rather than from the video itself. Still, I am thankful she posted the video in the first place, and that the generous woman made the Comment underneath it.

[@nadiausman349]

M pregnant and had my stent surgery 5 days again please share any how is pregnant

[@gmeech67]

13 wow, I just had my 9th surgery for the same thing. Really bad kidney pain this time after surgery. I have one more for my left and then doing a metabolic work up to see why I keep producing stones.

[@Essentially-Ella]

Good luck finding answers! Hope you're feeling better now.

[@Carl-io1ov]

had my stent out yesterday, thankfully, I didn’t experience much pain with the stent, only when urinating….I put it down to taking Tamsulosin, had it 2 weeks before the op and carried on taking it until Sunday, I’d definitely recommend to anyone with kidney stones to ask about taking that medication, and if you require a stent as for an F4.8 it’s diameter is smaller than the usual F6 stent that is used, and there’s some data for both tamsulosin and using an F4.8 to help reduce uretal/bladder pain….I couldn’t take my stent out, I looked at it for 2 hours, had to go into hospital, it was uncomfortable, but over in seconds….

[@Essentially-Ella]

Thank you for sharing your experience and for the advice! I hope to never have a stent again but if I do have to I'll certainly be asking for the things you mentioned!

[@Carl-io1ov]

@@Essentially-Ella same here! Never want to experience that again! There is some data that states if the routine op was uncomplicated that a stent isn’t necessary…I know for many urologists that would be a grave sin, but the data shows otherwise here a link pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20615145/

[@Carl-io1ov]

I wish you all the best and let’s hope we stay stone free! I’m going to start taking magnesium citrate and potassium citrate to be on the safe side, I’ve been tracking what I’m eating and I’m usually low on magnesium and potassium, so will top up with a supplement….avoiding processed food and refined sugars, avoiding high oxolate food, drinking an ocean of water! X

[@Courtney_209]

Did you ever find out why you were having pain after the removal? I haven’t had any severe pain since before my surgery so I have to take my stent out in a few days and I thought the worst was over, now I’m kind of nervous.

[@Essentially-Ella]

I'm sorry that I've made you nervous! I have no idea what caused the pain but my best guess is that my body just hates stents. I think if you are not in pain with the stent then the pain after removal will likely be less?! Different bodies cope differently.. this was my experience but it might not be yours. 🤞 Also, removing it at home caused me more pain than ever, maybe the at home removal had something to do with it. Good luck!

[@lauraprendergast4378]

You poor lovely. Hope you are all better now. 😱 note to self, beg surgeon to take stent out in hospital! I don't think I can trust myself to do it!!!

[@erinmixon6331]

I don't get how people can deal with stents without pain medication. I bad some bad stones over a month ago that caused a blockage, then a severe infection which led to a stent. It stayed in for 3 weeks when it was only supposed to be a few days. 2 days ago, they removed the Stent, removed the last stone, and put in another stent but with a string. Yesterday and the day before if felt like someone was cutting me everytime I peed and they sent me home without meds. They told me to just take azo and ibuprofen, which hasn't really helped. They said to remove this stent tomorrow, but I'm not sure I can deal with it much longer. Ugh. It's so difficult trying to run errands and take care of my kid like this. 😮‍💨

[@stitchesntherapywithtee]

i just had two stents removed today. it was uncomfortable for sure. right now im dealing with the spasms in the kidney and bladder. that hurts 😢a bit. but a hot bath and to sleep i go. hopefully tomorrow will be a better day 🤷🏽‍♀️🤞🏽

[@Essentially-Ella]

I hope you are feeling better :)

[@stitchesntherapywithtee]

@@Essentially-Ella yes it took about two days for the spasms to stop. Now im just working hard to prevent anymore stones. the doctor saw some beginning to form, but i hope they dont 🫣

[@Essentially-Ella]

@@stitchesntherapywithtee Fingers crossed you are able to prevent more from forming in the future. Unfortunately mine seem to form no matter what!

[@stitchesntherapywithtee]

@@Essentially-Ella there is this supplement my Urologist suggested i hope it works, its called Theralith XR, its expensive and insurance doesn’t cover it but im willing to try anything. this is my second surgery and forth time passing stones.

[@wandalina8092]

I had stent and have one now it painful to walk stand set it horrible pain never get better

[@redfavela111]

I feel u going thru it now :(

[@parbatilakhan9159]

Ella hi My stent was placed in November and we are in January I ended up in the ER and the stent has moved I have a high fever and my knee has swollen up so bad that I can't walk and they sent me home .I can't afford private treatments and I'm in do much pain

[@Essentially-Ella]

Hi there. this sounds horrendous, I am so sorry. I'm not sure what country you are in but the fact that they've sent you home like that is awful! I think if you've got a fever, you should go back and insist they look at you again. Make sure you are very persistent if that is at all possible, infections are fairly common with stents and if left untreated this can lead to sepsis. I really feel for you and I hope you get the treatment you need. ❤️

[@parbatilakhan9159]

@@Essentially-Ella I am from Trinidad and Tobago

[@JimJoplin]

I didn't have anyone to help with the removal of my stent. I had to do it myself. And, I never want to experience that kind of pain again. Ever. (And I've passed 5mm circumference stones at home.)

[@janlandrum2481]

I can’t believe you removed your stent so soon!! Your urethra is still so swollen from the procedure. My doctor has me to leave mine in for a WEEK. I removed my own and it wasn’t painful at all and I had no pain after because my body had time to heal. Doctors have had years of training and know what they’re doing. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Essentially-Ella]

I'd like to remind you that this was my 13th operation, 11 of which I had my stent removed before even leaving the hospital (within 2 days) and that is what works for me. Doctors may have had years of training but I've been through this enough times to know what my body can and cannot cope with. My body cannot cope with a stent, I'm glad you had an easier experience though. Not all bodies are the same.

[@denisenall1179]

My stent was removed on jan. 18 th and it still hurts on 23rd but it is better then the stuck kidney stone

[@Essentially-Ella]

I hope you are feeling better now!

[@MdSultan-sc9yr]

Aug 24 I removed my kidney stent very painful 😢😢

[@yeezymunee]

Hey, that sounds awful. Did you manage to get a water distiller? It’s the ONLY water you should be drinking. I did send some links to the comment section after our last discussion but I noticed the they got removed. I know Jonathan from Planet Kambo (saw your Kambo video). I’ll send him a text now. Feel free get in touch if you want to discuss further. All the best. Dan

[@Essentially-Ella]

Hey Dan. Did the comments get removed?? I got one! And I've been loving using it so thank you so much for that recommendation. Hopefully I'll start to see some difference in the speed at which I'm forming stones. 🤞Feels so much cleaner and nicer to drink, now I almost can't stand the taste of tap water! 😬 I'm only drinking distilled at the moment. I'll probably make a video about it at some point. All the best x

[@yeezymunee]

@@Essentially-Ella it was some links and videos etc. I don’t think KZbin allows links in the comments. Sooooooo glad to hear that have one! Lots of drinking if you can. Great to hear that you’ve noticed some difference. I’m confident it will have a positive impact in the near future! If you would like those links, I can a request to view your email in your about section. Good luck!!! Really happy you’ve started! Take care!!

[@tanyawithnell8325]

Watching this right now as I've just had stones removed and today I've to remove stent 😭

[@Essentially-Ella]

Wishing you the best. Not everybodys experiences are the same and there are definitely people that cope better with the stent /removal process so fingers crossed for you. 🤞

[@nicolamatthews5254]

Removed my stent yesterday. This is second time with stent. The pain about 45 minutes after is awful. For 2 days bladder and kidney spasms is terrible. I would rather have to go through child birth. Doctor says mild discomfort! Absolutely awful.

[@Essentially-Ella]

Thank you for sharing. Definitely makes me feel validated when women compare it to child birth!

[@nicolamatthews5254]

@Essentially-Ella how are you? Did you get your new surgery on your orther kidney? X

[@noticiasfaisca2685]

delay removal? try 4 months,unwill to remove the tube,,that is torture i m considering send them to court,coz this tube caused me anything but trouble septecemia,infections,colic pain,fever,chills,inability move,because the nephrostomy wound got deeply infected and foul smelly..need to stitch it 4 times in 3 months

[@noticiasfaisca2685]

have they done a uretrocospy on you? to place a urethral stent? otherwise why the use of having it place altogether,it is like jumping from the oven straight into fire,they need give us time for our bodies to h eal itself from the pain of having these foreigner objects inside,my nephrostomy bag,they are playing russia roulette with and does not want to remove,since march 2 UNLESS i undergo urethroscospy