Quality Good Men CAN'T RESIST Women With These 7 Habits!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@theposhfamily876]

I definitely believe that as we heal, we will be able to attract and choose high quality men!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@barbarap.2527]

Yes heal and start to get out there You can heal and still meet folks.

[@jayc5756]

Facts!

[@theposhfamily876]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@dianaross1055]

@Living With The Grooms true that ✊🏼💜 perfectly right on point 💜💜💜 feel the same way you responded ✊🏼💜

[@mara11333]

My quality man enjoys the way I have my “self love” days. Doing my facials, hair and nails. He loves when I go to the kitchen and bake my special breads and meals. He always requests pictures. I’m just me. But I’m highly educated, self sufficient, faithful Christian and very happy. I’m highly selective in the men I even talk to. He’s talking marriage 🥰

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@jayc5756]

Exactly

[@mara11333]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks That took a lot of work on my part. I allowed a marriage to destroy me years ago. I set out then to restore and rebuild myself. Lol

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

@@mara11333 I'm sorry to hear about that, but I'm glad you are now on a path to healing 🙌❤

[@nickandchrismom]

Beautiful, sis. May you continue to flourish dear and happy Juneteenth

[@jackie41083]

My definition of a high-quality man is someone who has worked on himself and healed (or is in the conscious process of healing) his traumas and issues. No one’s perfect, but I hope for a man who truly wants a peaceful, honest, healthy relationship.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@jackie41083]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks ❤️❤️

[@LebogangT0]

Totally agree!!Not how much he makes and his ability to provide😏

[@ms.evegene]

That's how I am as a woman a black woman. But NOW. I won't ever waste my time looking at a guy. He has to sY something to me 1st always. These dudes are too girly and they cry all the time

[@s.lemonaideforall]

Right on

[@theap6044]

"We don't wait, we prepare to receive"🙌🏾. Love that. Great video

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@theap6044]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks My pleasure. 🙂❤

[@Indisbeauty]

I love that you said don't be a push over. You can 100% be living in your feminine energy and still set boundaries!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@julzc536]

Needed this. As I’m going through healing from a low quality man I can see that it was not me it was him. I’ll never be good enough for somebody who isn’t even quality himself.

[@shariB2012]

I totally agree as I am going through the same healing process with what I thought was a good, high quality man; however turns out he is a severe narc and it had me questioning myself when it was him all along who didn't have pure intentions.

[@maceyr.6583]

Gurl I- 😭

[@goddessoflight74]

When our vibrations are high, we are connected. It then becomes so much easier to weed out toxicity and bring in positivity. We all deserve loving partners that are designed only for us. Nothing wrong with having a high priority of a standard. These standards typically come from highly desired, well-disciplined, and grounded individuals. And to me that’s a beautiful thing. You are hitting marks with these points. This is very helpful advice.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@lynnettewells4178]

I remembered a couple of years ago I heard one of the best explanations from a woman who worked out and got up every morning did her makeup. She said that she did it because she wanted her husband to desire her still after all the years she was married. I agree with that. I want my man to want me and I like it when he thinks I am pretty. I also like it when he looks like he cares about his appearance. I want to desire hime as well.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@marcilk7534]

That’s why I don’t wear full makeup on first dates. I save it for special occasions. I want a guy who thinks I’m pretty without makeup, and appreciates me making a little extra effort for him. But certainly it does impact the types of men I attract.

[@GalaxyFluke]

I’m single never married, no kids and want those things. I work out everyday and do my makeup because it makes ME feel good. I value looking put together and it helps you feel put together.

[@prettyshay5041]

Glad to see I'm a Woman who's on point. This explains why I've been Married to my high quality Man for 10 almost 11 yrs , been together 17 yrs total. Even when we separated at one point, he came back. A high quality Man ain't letting go of a high quality Woman ❤️.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@alwaysgrowing7273]

Wow…the feminine energy really had me take a step back and evaluate. I lost my feminine energy in my marriage. I was hurt so many times that I hardened myself. Around kids though I was at ease-kind, gentle, affectionate. I wasn’t threatened. I thought I wasn’t feminine! I am! Thank you so much! I will let my guard down and have boundaries because I know how to do both.

[@AnaRamirez-fh6cw]

He's correct about hanging with "low quality men," it's no different than hanging out with women who have no self respect. That definitely sends a message in a social setting. I personally don't like to be embarrassed under those circumstances; because of course it will reflect on me. And I also totally agree, a sense of humor is very important as well as good communication skills.

[@enryiggins2878]

Thank you for bringing attention to being attentive and feminine. I’ve known (and disconnected from) many women who behave so masculinely and shout from the rooftops how they “don’t need no man” and then cry themselves to sleep every night because no man wants them. Energy is real and needs to be reciprocated and balanced. Femininity, courtesy and attentiveness are not weaknesses; they are quite the opposite and show strength and abundance.

[@AuntieBianca]

Your so right I spoiled my husband for 28 years until he passed but we had a beautiful life I miss him..trying to date now and it’s so hard..I’ll just be myself and listen to your advice

[@Goldenheart2911]

Taking time to heal your inner wounds can transform your lives in ways you can't even imagine. When two high quality healthy people can connect on a deep emotional and spiritual level, understand and empathize with one another, share similar goals and values, embrace their imperfections, make each other laugh and want the best for each other then there truly is no limit to where their love can take them. When you are secure and trust in yourself you will be secure and trust in your partner. 💛 Great video Stephan 💯🎯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@Goldenheart2911]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks The huge take away from this video is to be able to laugh a lot, appreciate the little things and not take life so seriously. 💛

[@char-dea9749]

STEPHAN SIR I HAD TO PUT DOWN MY LUNCH AND PAUSE THE VIDEO! When you said do not allow for his actions to dictate my own! WHOO CHILD! That hit me b/c I have never viewed it that way but you are RIGHT! I do not wait to say "Hello, how can i help u?" to my customers, I do it automatically b/c its my job. Just like it is my job to walk in my feminine energy/power. Never again will I allow someone else decisions to CONTROL what I do. If they are unworthy of my attention, I will treat him just like my irate customers. I'll say "have a nice day" and walk away.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@MissSeaSea]

Going through a bad breakup with the former love of my life, but I want to thank you so much. Pages like yours are really helping me heal and make myself stop wallowing and smile again. Thanks to you and some of your buddies with these amazing videos, I’m getting my confidence back in check in record time. I can’t tell you how much it means to me, Tysm! And thank you for recognizing women that are considerate and subservient to our men. That’s why some of us are so lost and alone, many men just don’t appreciate good women these days, and Vice verse, with we women. I think the outside world and other people’s perspectives have too much of an impact on the decisions people make for themselves anymore, and people are afraid to follow their hearts. That makes me so sad. I’ll find it someday with some dude/chick. Thanks again for helping me keep the faith that it’s not too late for me

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@ghanaianqueen7891]

you will find love again ! I remeber a year ago i was under one of Stephens videos just like you thanking him for advice as i just got out of a relationship- fast forward to this year i am in the best relationship ive ever been in with the love of my life! Your time will come -heal and be patient. Will come sooner than you expect

[@MissSeaSea]

@@ghanaianqueen7891 I’ve been alone for six long years. The man I love has been in prison for two, and while he was away, it was like we had this amazing and beautiful relationship. And we were sooo in love. But he has always refused to commit to me, and with them forcing him to parole to another state, he doesn’t even care to attempt to make things work for us. I’m absolutely broken. He just got out yesterday..... was excited to jump into some random vajayjay and had the audacity to ask if I wanted video footage! He’s just a monster, and I wish it didn’t still hurt sooo badly, but I’m trying very hard to just be strong and understand that no matter how much I love him and give of myself, nothing I say or do will ever make him love me. It’s one of the most difficult and painful things I’ve ever fought through. I’m trying very hard not to think that he may be with another woman at this very moment. So be it. Perhaps she will give him something I can’t. I truly only want him to find the happiness he could not find in me. Even if it is heart breaking for me. I love him. All I can do is let him go

[@marcilk7534]

I’m in a new relationship with a wonderful man. He thinks the world of me. I want to make sure over the course of time that I don’t start taking him for granted or relax on the special qualities that make us closer in the beginning of the relationship.

[@tinker2217]

You say you're a Queen? Then treat YOURSELF like a Queen. 🙌🏿❤

[@gigipeters5953]

When you’re at your best, then the quality man you desire will show up. We will find each other because we both showed up at our best. That is what I learned from this important information. Thanks! ❤️👍🏼

[@melaniebrie1556]

Your knowledge is profound and your delivery is immaculate. Grateful I came across your channel at this very specific time of healing in my life. God is good and blessings to you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@mar.v2878]

Happy you posted, legit in another room crying because I finally understand I was doing too much and he doesn’t want me like I want him. So it’s time to walk

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@gracemitchell373]

Just start to love on yourself more and more each day go out and have fun do the things you love to do and you gonna see who gonna be attracted to you it does work three yrs ago I find peace through God trust him believe him have faith put him first in all and everything you and watch him work he have a partner for each and everyone of us ❤️❤️

[@mar.v2878]

@@gracemitchell373 thank you so much❤️❤️❤️

[@user-mb9jx5tx9y]

You’ll feel better walking out

[@gracemitchell373]

@@user-mb9jx5tx9y Listen let me share with you guys my dad was very active in life before he past away also my mom I grew with seven brothers ok so I see and knows what they capable of doing what I taught they still living in me when a man step to me and I say what I ofto say they know right there and then am not to play games with I believe when you becomes too emotional attached that’s where they hurt you the most they say I have none cause they want me to let down my guard I just be I can’t with their bs I teach my children also don’t let no man plays with their head am dead serious enjoy life

[@eileenstuffs]

“Show up for life”. Best thing you said in this video!

[@queenofsheba7145]

Scenario One: Was at the grocery store this past Sunday. I'm in sweats, wearing a NBA team hat and absolutely no make-up, plus I'm wearing a mask. Not one, but 2 different men approach me; we talked about sports and one asked me out. Scenario 2: Attended a wedding dressed to kill. Nothing but stares from the men.🤔 Scenario 3: "You're just not his type", says the sister of a man I really liked and dated briefly. 3 weeks later my sister and I see him in line at Target with a BBW munching on a king size bag of Doritos.😐. So this proves "looking good" is relative and based on conceptions and interpretations of what a man believes is attractive. But it all boils down to what I BELIEVE about ME. My two cents.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

[@queenofsheba7145]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're welcome!

[@quatishajames42]

😂 The scenarios are too funny.

[@queenofsheba7145]

@@quatishajames42 😂

[@misskizzz]

I love this! Thank you! New subscriber here😃 I got out of a toxic relationship 3 years ago and I have spent that time loving myself, building my confidence, working out, etc. and it feels so good to be happy and free from all of that unnecessary drama that people tend to bring into your life. This video helped me see that I am on the right track when seeking a life partner, and taking my time to be selective being as though I rushed into those previous relationships which ended rather quickly because I'm no pushover 😅 Thank you!💝

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Welcome aboard. I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

[@anomalybutterfly910]

You are spot on with preparing for the right man! I’m not actively looking. I’m enjoying life. I always wanted to take dance classes,and I am now taking classes..

[@iamczcz]

You say it how it is. You talk about things no one NO ONE else talk about that are hella important thank you please please keep it up with the raw and brutal realness

[@yessi4113]

Being attentive should come naturally I definitely agree .. def a good quality to have.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@jessxj5521]

It’s good to see videos about high quality men who deserve only the best from us to reciprocate the same to them . The right man deserves it all too.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@janellamurphy5665]

WOW!!! GOOD MESSAGE THANK YOU STEPHAN🙋🏿‍♀️🙋🏿‍♀️💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

[@wilhelmenawright5042]

Stephan Speaks you're keeping it real, I love your videos I came across your videos recently. I was watching how you can tell, when a man loves you, I was blown away, by that I just want you to know that particular video confirmed to me that the, man I'm with really do love me, he's definitely serious and I am definitely serious about him. We're going to get marry some time next year when he comes back to the states. I hope woman who watch your videos will pay attention take notes if need be. Because you're a man you're speaking from a man point of view and your experience as man., thank you may God continue to bless you are a blessing.

[@Katrica670]

Being selective is soooo true and soooo important! Thank you!❤️❤️😊😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@cosmeticsandpurseswithevelyn]

How about learning to love yourself first before getting involved with a man. That took a lifetime for me to learn towards the end when I enjoy and love being ALONE traquility is priceless. God will let me know when its time I get messages from time to time on dating apps but Im NOT in a hurry!

[@pambrown3863]

Absolutely 100% correct!! I had to end a relationship as I wasny treated right. I expected more from a Christian man!! He thought I was a push over...he thought wrong !!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@GypsiesandInk]

On the topic of #3 Being Selective. From my own personal experience, even if it isn't how a man perceives you. If you have been damaged by a prior relationship, it will carry over into a new relationship. I have been single/celibate for the last 5 years to allow myself to be the best version of myself. To heal and grow into who I want to be as a person and as a partner. I know this will be a beautiful component in my next relationship. Because of my healing and growth will allow me to truly see if the man is going to be right for me. And if I am right for him.

[@desiraeking4047]

When you explained how women can be vulnerable with children as opposed to men.... amazing explanation. Just brilliant, the part where you mention its because children do not pose a threat to us. It clicked for me, so thank you so much for all that you do on this channel and the way you explain everything! 👌👌❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@Breannaaa]

I appreciate all your videos‼️🔥🔥 Road to 1 million🎉

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much, I appreciate that!

[@user-mb9jx5tx9y]

2:48-3:11 so true. It doesn’t always have to be that you’ve been thru stuff to be insecure. Some women are just insecure within themselves. This resonates bc I’m trying to build my self esteem and see my value so I dont project that onto someone else

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@karavictoria25]

You have a preacher's heart. I love to listen to you and hear your sincerity and sensitivity in delivering a passionate message on these soul issues we face. We were made for connection and with God's help through vessels like you, we'll repair these damaged roads and experience what it was meant to be. God bless!

[@zaqanahzahkjv6467]

Hi Stephan I'm new to your channel and man you captured me on being feminine. Thank you! I appreciate it 💯👏🏼👏🏼💪🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for subscribing welcome aboard and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified each time I release a new video ❤ 🙏

[@bettyb5413]

Always so wise and compassionate. I developed complicated grief after a difficult breakup last year. I started watching your videoes a month ago, and they help me so much. They give me the reality check i’ve needed and empathy and support at the same time. Thank you so much Stephan. God bless❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@crystalssuch6818]

Does his quality include emotional availability, emotional intelligence and emotional maturity? A supportive man? Compassionate? Patient? Kind? Loving? Thoughtful? Respectful? Healthy concern and protectiveness? Courteous towards all people? Communicates his gratitude and appreciation making her feel and know he cherishes her? These are the traits of a quality man I’m looking for.

[@avejaly8065]

🙌🏽💯🥳🥳🥳

[@kiwi5118]

Bingo!!

[@AJweathersby]

Are you any or all those things *in mens eyes?* So many women get caught up with making a list of wants and demands for men, that they don’t stop to consider if the kind of man they’re describing would want them. Men have standards and demands to.

[@claressaslife9290]

Number 7 put the icing on the cake! Don't be a doormat! use your masculine energy when necessary! Great video

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@pamelak.j5538]

Thank you…. So much ….. for clarifying and distinguishing the difference between “high value” and high quality 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad it was helpful 🙏

[@liztowers2058]

Im so lonely:( stupid me started seeing a guy 7 weeks ago and we somehow ended up FWB. Due to my need for company. I feel SO happy when im there we watch some music videos, Talk..laugh...eat..he makes me steak which i love...than we do our "thing". And when i leave i cry. Everytime i cry . I havent slept over. He never asks me to. He never takes me anywhere. But treats me like a GF behind closed doors. Its confusing but he clearly isnt for me. He has trauma and some ptsd and is doing counseling weekly for it. He is helping himself.......but i feel like i am just siting here waiting. I fell in love with him weeks ago. He told me he likes me a lot and im fantastic etc etc..but i need more actions. Less words. Its time to cut it off. Im crushed.

[@carolhernandezhernandez9073]

I am very attentive towards everything when it comes to a man it's like pleasing someone making him feel wanted and cared for it's very loving sometimes depends on how the woman feels about that man

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@chemuleitich3970]

True

[@renee167]

Thanks for providing your insight and advice on this topic! Confidence has somewhat been a struggle for me, not in the looks department but sometimes feeling as if I’m not enough. Most of my exes made me feel this way because they always had a side piece. Anyways I had to pray and let that go and realize that if a man is not satisfied with one woman, then that’s just who he is. My confidence levels have improved and therefore, I know that when GOD sends the one into my life, I will be enough for him and we will be able to both have a healthy happy relationship!! 😊😊.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@jayc5756]

Exactly. Wish you the best sis

[@renee167]

@@jayc5756 Thanks!

[@renee167]

Thanks I'm glad that my words inspired you!!! I pray that you receive the person who is right for you as well!!

[@jayc5756]

@Living With The Grooms Super Facts!!! 💯

[@chevycreezy]

I’m am sort of tomboy-ish and have really been working on the femininity piece lately because my husband is really masculine. I think he has noticed a difference. I have been researching that topic to get more in-depth details. And thank you for mentioning not being a pushover, because I’ve had that issue as well and am starting to put my 🦶🏻 down. You are doing great and helping so many, thank you!!!

[@MrsGlades7]

You got my undivided attention with THIS ONE RIGHT HERE!!!! This is TOO Good honey… Just TOO good!!!!! Every word!!! This is the truth… I’m not trying to boost your head up Steph,(lol) but man… Not one word was off…. Not one word I disagree with…. Thanks for this! This confirms that I’m on the right path… 😇🙌🏽😭

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@luvjahnlive1]

It’s sad that many of us women (MYSELF included) have missed opportunities with high quality men bc we used to call them “corny” 😩😩 and disclaimer: I am definitely a nerd and when all my nerdy black male friends had crushes on me, I would brush them off bc I was looking past them…they are all married and home owners now with thriving careers. I’m single with a thriving career and ova here getting dating advice from a 🇭🇹 dude 🙃🤦🏾‍♀️😁 LOVE YOU Stephan 😘😘🤣🤣👌🏾👌🏾🙏🏾

[@maybee...]

If there is one video that all women should see it is this one, period! Take this information assimilate into your thought process, live it, breathe it, let it become you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏

[@dianaross1055]

you always a spiritual healer to my strength and heart. grateful for your teaching and knowledge and channel ✊🏼👑 you the best and enjoy watching a handsome young man and intelligent and woke young man 💜💜✊🏼 you go prince 👑 😃🥰 ✊🏼💜

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@dianaross1055]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks why thank you 👒👒and appreciate you as well ✊🏼also forgot to tell you, that you is also so so funny. 🥰💜 I like the way you be laughing too.. 👍🏼😊🙂🤗👑

[@lizwhite1284]

You are AMAZING!!! Where have you been all my life?!?! I LOVE your videos !!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@danielleemch8991]

Confidence is very attractive it looks good on everybody and being in the moment of what you were doing and not being outcome oriented and working on yourself everyday I'm falling in love with me I'm happy I'm healing I'm healthy working on past stuff and learning from it using it to help me grow thanking God everyday and being grateful for all that I have 🥰❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@venaetheartist8067]

This was wonderful 👏👏 I especially loved what you said about feminine energy .... wonderful words of wisdom overall

[@jessmrrrt]

You have no idea how much you have help me with my break up… im an established girl., forced to be a single mom and that is a hard pill to swallow but i know my worth. Thank you

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

[@camillesutton7564]

Thank you Not waiting, but preparing to receive. Faith and works. Wow really deep 👍👍

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You are so welcome ❤

[@medginejeanpierre9220]

Thanks for your advice and I am glad that I subscribe to your tube Channel. You are very good looking and your hair is amazing 😍❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you and welcome aboard!

[@rachelgodoy4410]

Thank you for sharing.. Your an inspiration to Women and Men.. Stay bless much love to you.🥰

[@brendafuller1806]

Thank you for addressing “High Quality Men” 🙏🏽👏🏽

[@ceasiar2033]

Once again, you ain’t never lie! I was shaking my head in agreement with almost ALL the traits you mentioned. Oh and CRACKED UP about having a sense a humor. Please no prune faces ladies. Lmco. 🤦🏾‍♀️😹

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@amarielove27]

I watch a lot of your videos from time to time because they land on my fyp the are over all informative. But this one hits different, great deliverance!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@syzygy4365]

I just want to say thank you for creating this video. Many of these topics you've pointed out ar we topics women need to hear after they've faced traumatic damage. God bless you, and I hope to see more of you in the near future. In the meantime, I'll be holding my head high, and embracing my feminine energy. 🥰

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@AmandaCC88]

Great info! Thanks Stefan! What about dating while healing? I wonder what you have to say on that.

[@steph_steph876]

I agree with you Stephan, making sure your appearance is on point does add to the confidence for sure.👏👏👏 These points are good!!💯💯💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@zanelemagwaza825]

23:32 hit differently 😂🤣 walls up ⬆️ it over 🤦🏽‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️ Thank you for this video, very much appreciated Keep it up!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤ 🙏

[@mstra2341]

This is true! One time, there was a guy ahead of me as we were entering a store. He thought I was going to beat him to it. It turns out, I opened the door, held it and allow him to enter first. He looked at me in a very impressive, and appreciative way! But before that, he had an expression on his face like an attitude that I was going to jump ahead of him and enter the store, first.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@airbullet9331]

Everything on the list is a Wow! Especially number 4! Thank you Stephan!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@briasia319]

idk how i ran across this video but i hope us ladies of today are not altering ourselves for men.. the man who desires you and finds you attractive will do all of these things for YOU, your job is simply to reciprocate 💜 stay blessed

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@coachzaynab355]

Thank you for point #1 exactly going through this!!! It really helped!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@happinessmuro7968]

💪💪💪 now am geting strength to go foward 😄realy i hv meet strengtherning topic 👊big up brother stephan

[@olgatalksmotlhabane8206]

Stephan, you have no idea how much your video's have healed me and in turn changed my life😢I view myself so differently now☺️You are a beautiful blessing💞 and in all honesty I love your soul🌷I also really do think that you're genuinely funny😂. I always mention you in my conversations 🙂 that's the impact you have made on my life. I'm your biggest fan😁🇿🇦

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@theresabell2492]

Hi Mr Stephan I always enjoy your videos thank u for sharing.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@perfectlyimperfect1980]

I’m watching your videos and literally saying what you say before you say them. I agree 100%

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@zeal4god402]

Stephan, we need you to stay as healthy as possible because your a tremendous blessing and asset to us. Your not a portable chimney. Why smoke when you can pray 🙏. CBD cookies, oils, teas and aromatherapy with essential oils is healthier

[@lydiarooker]

Thank you Stephan. You're always on point. I know this year I will attract love with your advice. You've never lead me wrong.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you receive the partner who is truly best for you, the partner God has for you ❤ 🙏

[@gertiewarnick5596]

Thank you, Stephan! You are such a blessing. It is hard not to love you, even when I don't always agree with all you say. However, it is all true!

[@krixttysimon2705]

Is giving everything, learning and growing. Thank you Stephan

[@karenlynch8348]

Stephan ! Hugs 🤗 & love ❤️ to YOU! Thank you for such genuine, solid good advice! You are one of the few Men I actually trust. I need to hear this!!!

[@ultimateoptimist5217]

The issue is it's very very hard to find quality men these days, especially in and around major cities. I think I will just play the lottery. My chances of winning is higher than finding a quality man.🤔

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Kindly don’t say that, there are a lot of good men out there!

[@talaunanturner]

They're out there. You just have to trust God to bring him to you.

[@nanvon937]

There ARE high quality Men !! Work on yourself, as Stephen says. My Man is high quality... I Had To And Still Have Too Work on ME. MY CONFIDENCE! HE Loves ME...Not Others that admire him and react to him...In Their Way!! It's not always easy... But, totally worth the outcome in our relationship ! Believe In YOU ! I also Believe in God...Who I Know Helps Us. Hugs to You.

[@Melissa-qg1ho]

😄😄😄

[@ultimateoptimist5217]

I didn't say they don't exist. I said they are very hard to find in and around major cities. And yes I am a queen and a very high value woman. God bless!

[@valishaedwards3947]

This is my first time looking at your video, it was on point. It was amazing ireminded me to be 100% unapologetic me!!! I know this but will no longer let my bad experiences change me!!

[@gsssparks]

I did all the mentioned things and not only did he leave me, but he tried to destroy my self-esteem in the process. He actually told me that I’m not worthy

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@elvirasydney7349]

Thank you for your time by sharing wonderful views on relationships. I am taking notes since I am recently in a relationship, and I have trust issues because of my last relationships...I am praying that I don't bring it in my present relationship.... May God continues to bless you Stephan 🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️ This video will help you build trust in a relationship 👉kzbin.info/www/bejne/bGLcq6Spa8aUmpo

[@nisey6890]

Hi Stephan, I just saw the part of your video where you state that if women deal with low quality men they are a reflection of you I am sorry but I have to disagree with you. A whole lot of men do not show their low quality behaviors or even colors until they have you 100%. We are not a reflection of these men they are their own person. In my situation, I dealt with men that are “low quality” because they lied about who they really were. These were “Decepticons” in my eyes. They act like they are established or looking for similar things but they lie after they have you in their hands. Now that I have matured my mindset is definitely more cautious about these type of men. Thank you for this video it was needed to hear you are definitely a man with wisdom. God bless 🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

[@MichelleStrickland59]

🌞thank-you. Cur my hair since I last listened, but you are correct. I can't spend much time around a dude that irresponsible and undisciplined. Nope I'm still single and love it. If I can't interact with someone that compliments my energy then no can do.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@Denmosocial]

Stephan, would love to exchange some banter over a podcast. What is the best way I can reach you brother? Keep up the good work!

[@urainaheyward190]

I took notes on this one.❤️❤️💙 Valuable info!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@annasosie162]

Stephan, I really enjoy your videos there so true and to the point! Also it is very important to look great for yourself and your significant other. Also it is so important to stand up for yourself!! Take care your awesome….

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@inspiring_healing]

You're really good Stephan. Thanks for your help !!!

[@elizabethmccleer3427]

Stephan, i have been enjoying your posts, and video’s for some time. I especially enjoy how you include The Almighty in relationships. I have a question about one of your comments…”The walls we put up to guard us, also block our blessings.” Can you give me some scripture to support this assertion? Thank you so much!

[@susananavarrete2801]

Thank you for addressing the number five on your list (19:10) "putting effort into your appearance." I know I asked you a few videos ago about making a video on how to re-attract an ex partner and I feel like everything you said in this video is solid, specifically about not looking the way I used to look when I was younger, but at least making the effort to still look good for myself and in turn looking good for my (ex)partner or new partner, who ever that may be. So again, thanks for going over this topic which led into number six on your list. I struggle with femininity, and I am definitely not good with kids, don't want em', don't wanna be around em', I'll pay a premium to stay in adult-only resorts or areas, go to places when I know kids are in school and are not on school vacations hahaha! It's a win-win for me, avoid em' and cheaper pricing cuz you know establishments increase prices on weekends and summer vacations when schools are out. Don't hate the player, hate the game... I'm just doing me when prices are cheaper lol

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@anitamoses4071]

Interesting video You always have interesting videos I love watching your videos

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@aniabrandt7]

You are really great man Stephan, enjoyed your personal experience

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@fromaqueensperspective]

Honestly, Stephan I think every woman wants to be vulnerable but I think trust is the key to really leaving oneself open and also if with someone I can trust I won’t be afraid to let him take care of his business! For me Stephan trust is key.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@butterflytiffany]

About to hit 1 milli. Congratulations 🎉🥳

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙌

[@katiemayall9427]

I absolutely love your videos Stephan! Whoever ends up with you is a very lucky women 😁

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!

[@brookebenton8192]

Ladies need to know looking your best is the best version of you. Not perfection or having to fix your perceived flaws. Plastic surgery isn't needed unless you want it. So many women fall into that trap and actually end up attracting the wrong men.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@paulinespalding7601]

I truly enjoy watching and listening to you. This is helping my situationship right now.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@nfor_honorine8692]

Facts!!!!! Your videos are super educative. You had my undivided attention. I will love to be part of your coaching program Sir. Question: Please is there a difference between connection and compatibility?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

This video will help give you the clarity that you need 👉 kzbin.info/www/bejne/lWmkXmehf5h9aNE

[@justme37928]

That was very Enlightening Thank you stephan ❤️💯🙌🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@Liz-pp7bo]

This is great advice thank you so much! I need this now that I’m in a new relationship, sometimes I think I can’t be because I’m still struggling with myself. I just want to thank you for putting out these great videos!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏