That's why it's not worth to go seeking your old gf or bf because too much time has passed. You will not get what you're expecting unless you compromise and work with what you got, not with what you remembered.
@herko3112 жыл бұрын
3 tug lawm ces tim Koj 100%
@maipha85602 жыл бұрын
This guy sounds like a control freak. He is the problem and not willing to admit to it.
Zaj neej need no mas , Xav Hnov tus niam sab thiab nas.
@nploojsiabhlubheuly77972 жыл бұрын
Koj yeej phem Nrog nws tu siab cas nws cia koj nco nws mus ib sim xwb..es tseem yuav yuam kev lawm os Kuv ntseeg tias nws tseem tu siab tshaj koj..
@ncouazooxwbya15522 жыл бұрын
This is called midlife criss. Everyone needs to understand that we all have to goes through the stages of midlife criss and we both of the couple needs to prepare ourselves for this!!
@lylychanel11102 жыл бұрын
Xe
@cofisher57082 жыл бұрын
From my point of view, no one( man or woman) is worth it. Many of these stories i listen to love is the problem. Some one is always waiting for that true love or the one that got away. Sorry no such thing. Life is too short to wait for anyone.
@mxiong13452 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh. A typical old Hmong man who only think of his ego. It’s no wonder he can’t hold down a marriage.
@YajMorey812 жыл бұрын
The problem is you, not the wives. You expect them to adapt to your rules and you refused to adapt to theirs? That’s not how we live life, it goes both way!
@lindabjen84012 жыл бұрын
He is the problem, I don’t think he sees it.
@heysoniher2 жыл бұрын
This sounds like a you problem. You want her to change for you instead of accepting her for who she is. The little girl you remember is now a woman.
@hmongsiabzoo2 жыл бұрын
It’s because you’re in love with a fantasy or an ideal girl. Reality hits hard.
@Llis33222 жыл бұрын
This guy is the problem. Divorce multiple times then you're the problem!!
@soualee92182 жыл бұрын
Koj ces yeej phen thiab os yog koj tsis phem ces yeej tsis 2-3 tug li koj ko li os koj yuav tau hloov thiab.
@hmongsiabzoo2 жыл бұрын
It’s because you’re in love with a girl you’re imagining to be naïve who you can mold and shape her into your ideal girl. She’s already a mature mom and niam tsev lawm os. Just respect and love her for who she is.
@sugiang25742 жыл бұрын
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@ntxoovntxoo84132 жыл бұрын
I think learning how to compromise with another person is not easy. It takes time and hard work. You need to let go of the expectations you have for her and learn to accept her for who she is today. Stop comparing her to when you both were young. It will just complicate things even more. I hope you both will find happiness. 😊 Best wish and good luck!
@nkaujhmoobvwj2 жыл бұрын
Lol...that's why the old folks say don't married the ex.
@maryly092 жыл бұрын
Sounds to me that you, sir, are the problem. She was right. If she had married u in the first place, u would have divorced her. But unfortunately she knew better and still gave u a chance to prove her right.
@maovue44062 жыл бұрын
Brother, if you both really loved each other, you would work things out..no need to surrender to your will or surrender to her will. You say she "win" or you "win"...both your thinking are wrong. Both of you are wasting your time!!! Don't be stupid. .make smart decisions.
@a2dazgod5392 жыл бұрын
Whao!!! This is true wisdom
@hlubkojvue65982 жыл бұрын
Cov mu tau tus txiv hlub2 ces tejzaum yeej zoo li koj hais os tabsi cov mu tau tus txiv tsis hlub ces nws lubsiab tseem nyob rawv ntawm nws tus qub hluas nraug thiab lubsiab yeej tseem tsis tau hloov li os
@justforlove97842 жыл бұрын
Totally agree!
@tinatang86492 жыл бұрын
No , nej cov txiv neej siab me dhau lawm xwb os, niam txiv thaum twg sij hais txog nyiaj li koj ces yeej mus tsis tau
@xayvuestorychannel74912 жыл бұрын
😍👍👍👍👍
@Mai1nOnly2 жыл бұрын
I rather suffer alone than being with someone and suffering
@MLove4ever2 жыл бұрын
I love love this music
@mosvaj13852 жыл бұрын
Wow txaus tu siab tshaj li. Vaj tse kub nyhiab tag tshuav 2 lub qhov muag thiab tshuav daim nyob ntawm pob tw lawm xwb es yeej tsis muaj daim los hloov li lawm . So sad😭
@mandalyna12 жыл бұрын
If you can't adjust yourself to three partners then most likely you're the problem. You probably don't want to knowledge your flaws. Marriage is about accepting the differences of your significant other and working issues together as they arise rather than finding reasons to leave.
@lindabjen84012 жыл бұрын
Amen sister!!!
@mrshanglily56472 жыл бұрын
People changed dude…and old dogs are hard to train. She’s not the same person anymore. Anyways, sounds like you both got issues! 🤪
@ncohluasnkauj85812 жыл бұрын
I’m guessing you both has issues. You two are old and ready to go. You two are very lucky to be together. Leave your different aside and start fresh from the day you two got married. Every body has issues in marriage, you just need to adjust to each other and when you do think about how much you two wanted each other in the beginning. Also never run away when things get rough. You should always end up in your bed and talk it over. Be an responsible adult don’t be like child.
@pameelee13982 жыл бұрын
Ua cas yuav hai tau tag kev cia siab ua luaj😭
@caaspasvang74272 жыл бұрын
Thaub aw koj ces mus tus qub tus tshiab los yeej Tsi txog twg os coj li koj na
Tshuas yog koj thiaj cia siab rau qub hluas nkauj xwb os thaub aw….
@lisvaj73752 жыл бұрын
Rule 101 to relationships is “Compromise.” This dude definitely does not have it. Sounds like she didn’t either.
@simvang71012 жыл бұрын
Niam hnub niam no los yeej ib yam os thaub. Tsov ces yog tsis tuag ces yeej yuav noj nqaij nawb.
@tsavvamhawjchannel7422 жыл бұрын
Niam ntsiab teev koj lam hais neej neeg kom zoo mloog xwb los yeej muaj tiag yog muaj tseeb no thaum koj tham koj zaj neej neeg xaus no thov koj pab ceeb toom rau peb cov poj niam hmoob uas nyob lub teb chaws ntawm koj ko nws yog tsiaj xwb naj es thov txim ntau nawb mog
@shoualo66242 жыл бұрын
Yog lawm; cia yus Yog tus nws khuv xim xwb zoo duas li Yog tus nws dhuav os.
@ncokojibleeg65042 жыл бұрын
Don't look back to ex bf or gf it is not good keep forward the life u have now pass it mean pass Don't think that's the one u lost is more better then the one u get
@praneea-nanpon79922 жыл бұрын
Koj siab heev dhau lawm xwb os Thaum ub nws tsi txawj ua phem rau koj los yog koj twb tsi tau yuav nws Es koj twb tsi tau ua phem rau nws ne Thaum koj tau nws lawm ce koj xav kom luag ywj koj siab xwb ce leej twg los yeej nrog koj nyob tsi tau li os
@NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb2 жыл бұрын
nyia nim muaj nyia ib lub siab
@myyang49312 жыл бұрын
You can’t change other, you can only change yourself, love it’s all about giving not receiving, you are too selfish.
@suelo6172 жыл бұрын
Nyuaj siab lau kwv tij yog lub neej nyuab npaum li ko tiag na
@vangchang22182 жыл бұрын
Tsis yog tim nws os tim koj 100 sees lawm
@amazinggrace81362 жыл бұрын
Stop living in the past. People change! Also, please get to know the person before you marry them. (Even if it’s your ex)
@Hangouttimez2 жыл бұрын
If it wasn’t meant to be in the first place, it’s not meant to be in the second
@SUPHOTRED2 жыл бұрын
😂 It’s been so long since I’ve heard of them “lights off church” 😂
@yilengyang33252 жыл бұрын
Thaub koj. Yeej phem os koj yog hom neeg siab kub kub tus twg los thiaj tsi xav yuav koj
@kanman45072 жыл бұрын
Ab cas mloog 2 los mas cov hmoob me kas sib nrauj heev dua lwm teb chaws
@pebtsevxeemthoj33912 жыл бұрын
Thaub laus ruam no khoos kom txhua tus poj niam nyob hauv koj qab tsij hwm xwb es. Tsi tim cov poj niam ntawv tabsi tim koj tus cwj pwm xyoo 1975 ua coj tim nplog tuaj nawb!
@chervang65502 жыл бұрын
Oh yo twb nco nco es nrauj ob peb tug poj niam lawm ces ua siab ntev uv os.Thiaj tsim nyog nqov nco nco os.
@hlubvimkoj43202 жыл бұрын
Dude do you know between new and old like??? …we always wants new things right?
@gaoie5302 жыл бұрын
Why not just love the person for who they are? Let a person be who they want to be. Let a person shine their brightest and just stand back and admire their glow and sparkle. People are at their happiest if they are truly living as themselves. It's obvious that she can live without you...but she cannot live without herself. So let her be. Just accept and love her as she is.
@maychovue85982 жыл бұрын
Yawg thaub no yog neeg tsis txawj coj kiag li ntag txhua yam yog Tim nws
@a2dazgod5392 жыл бұрын
I need to start my own church
@baobaivue99132 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kuelee91842 жыл бұрын
That's y I don't marry my old friend haha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 cia nco mus tas in sim zoo dua 😅😅😅😅😅
@zevang55082 жыл бұрын
Lub neej niaj hnub no txawv lub neej tim nplog thaum 75 lawm cov hluas nkauj hluas nraug thaum ub zais2 siab lub siab phem tus cwj pwm tseeb tiag ces yeej tsis kam qhia tawm los hos lub neej nyob teb chaws mekas yog qhov meej tseeb xav li cas ua tawm los li ntawv thiab poj niam muaj peev xwm khwv nyiaj tau ib yam li txiv neej lawm tus yawm txiv no ua neej rov qab lawm tiag.
@baobaivue99132 жыл бұрын
Im not on this grandpa side. He went through 4 wives. Purposely ignored the wife so she left him and then he wanna cry because he wasnt babied? He wants her to dress different but she was an official man’s wife and a mother so shes isnt comfortable so that upsets him? But like he said he cant change for her either?
@hmoobxwb71192 жыл бұрын
Tus qub tus tshiab los yog siv fwmchim tsa2 fwmchim xwb yeej tsis sib haum os.
@kbx57932 жыл бұрын
Thaub laus ruam! Yus twb yog tus phem los tseem tuaj piav tus vwm leg thiab na.
@suelo6172 жыл бұрын
Laj yog qub nkauj nraug mas tseem haj yam muaj lus sib tib tshaj nkauj nraug tshiab2 os
@seethoj20822 жыл бұрын
Thaub aw! Koj tuav tsum paub tias nws tus txiv yog tus laus ces yuav tau nws hlub nws tshaj ywj nws siab rshaj vim nej cov txiv beej yeej hlub niam yau tshaj ne. Ces thaum koj tau koj yuav yuam kom nws yoog koj uv koj es koj yuav ua tus tswj nws ces tsis work lawm na. Koj yuav tsum hlub nws twj nws kom tau raws li nws tus txiv thaub laus hlub nws mas thiaj work nawb. Yog koj tsis pauv koj tus kheej los yoog nws ces tsis tau.
@xyoojmeelauj73552 жыл бұрын
Txhob tias luag siab nyab laj mas ..tus siab nyab laj twb yog koj ntag ne .. qhov tsis haum twb yog koj coj li nyab laj ne .koj xav kom nws nyoo koj xwb ne ..
@maoxiong42422 жыл бұрын
Thaub awd nrse dim ces ntse loj xwb lo mas thiab tus tsis tau ces yeej zoo nkauj zoo nraug tshaj xwb yog koj tau nws thaum txov ces neb twb sib nrauj tag lawm os
@walee85302 жыл бұрын
Tus txiv hlob aw koj zaj dab neeg zoo rau koj sab ntau zog lawm es hais kom koj tus niam tsev ho tuaj dhuav nws txoj rau nws sab seb ho zoo li cas os nawb
@TheMrjxiong2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@meexiong92922 жыл бұрын
Txiv Neej cas pheej yuav ntshaw qhov nyuag kom poj niam nyoo koj ..cas yuav tsav fwjchim ua luaj li..txhob ua lub Neej dhuav siab npaum li koj o
@159nightangel2 жыл бұрын
Thaub laus aw. Lub neej koj nrauj 2 tug pojniam ces yog tim koj lawm los ma. Rau ncoo siab siab xav ma. Yog yuav tus qub hluas nkauj puag thaum hluas ces twb nrauj lawm os.
@normoua61652 жыл бұрын
Tus txiv tsev, qhov teeb meem ces vim neb nyias tsav nyias fwj chim thiaj tsis haum xeeb.
@kajsiab90002 жыл бұрын
CIA kom zoo li no thiab es sawv daws thiaj tsis muaj 2 plus.kuv ces xav tias cia ua chaw tshua ntshe yuav zoo dus. txhob thab rov yuav los ua yeeb ncuab txog hnub tuag haj yam tu siab xwb.
@Roses8602 жыл бұрын
Things change, people change. I'm sure you are not that young guy that was trying to console your gf when she lost her house to the fire. So much time has passed by. You and your wife needs to realize that and love each other for the person that you are today. Looks like both of you are hard headed and only want to do things the way you want too. No marriage is going to work out, does not matter whether you got married when you were both single or now if you are not willing to meet in the middle.
@niaglaussayaxangly88062 жыл бұрын
Your problem is you bought a lemon and hopefully when you got home it will turn to be an orange.
@lukemoua90272 жыл бұрын
Tsis yog nej tua caub fab es caub fab los hlawv nej tsev pob
@N.Ly002 жыл бұрын
It's not your girlfriend who has changed. It's you who has the problem and can't admit to it. Your problem is that you want her to change completely into this ideal person in your head. No one can do that. Why can't you just love her for who she is.
@anasiangirly2 жыл бұрын
It's simple. Koj ua tsis tau txiv which is why your first wife cheated on you and which is why your current wife won't submit to your or compromise. Women by nature will become submissive and won't compare you to their ex once they see your leadership.
@kathyher14162 жыл бұрын
Yog vim li ca koj thiaj cia siab sim neej no qub nkauj qub nrsug yuav sib hlub nws twb mu muaj nws lub neej yu twb muaj yu lub neej yuav ca sib haum na tij lauj aw yu coj yu txoj ke luag coj luag tcoj ke yeej tsi zoo li tim nplog li o
@hmoob-usalauj39342 жыл бұрын
Her ex husband trained her to be a good woman, wife, and mother... " you can't train an old dog new tricks." She is not the same person as you known her. You should know it's not meant to be back then and now you suffer. She's a strong woman and don't need you but you need her because you had 2 failed marriage.
@hmoobluv47832 жыл бұрын
Kwv tij, kuv paub neb qhov teeb meem yog dab tsi lawm os mog. Thaum koj tseem hluas ces nws yuav tsum mloog koj lus vim koj lub xav xaws muas txwv nkhaus cees nrog rau muav txwv ntau heev, tua npaum cas los tsis tas ces luag yuav yoog koj nawj. Ib qho los koj tseem zoo nraug ces lwm tus tseem ntsia2 koj thiab. Tam sim no ces kwv rab phom xeb2 thiab tsis muaj muas txwv lawm, koj yuav kom lawv hwm koj ces tsis muaj lawm os. Yog koj tsis muaj muas txws los koj muaj George Washington ntau ces nyaj lawv tseem yuav yoog koj thiab. Yog thaum 2 yam no tsis muaj lawm ces kav tsij mloog2 lus thiab ua kom ntxim hlub xwb lawv thiaj xav nrog koj nyob nawj.
@tophatmellon57392 жыл бұрын
Dude! U r the problem!! U seek her all ur life and finally u got her but u won't compromise with her. U only expect her to obey u only. U r a freak, dude! Tipical Hmong Guy.
@gracyyangchannel43372 жыл бұрын
Koj tus poj niam hais yog lawm... you want to control her and she doesn't like it
@yeethao99642 жыл бұрын
Yuav dhau 3 tug lawm ces yog tim koj tus kheej lawm xwb os tus Txiv tsev
@CelicaSierra2 жыл бұрын
Zoo li koj ntshaw nws dua nws thiaj saib tsis taus koj nws thiaj tsis kam hloov rau koj
@somman96392 жыл бұрын
Txho khaw khoom gub tsis zoo iv lawd
@nkaujhmoobtojsiab26032 жыл бұрын
yog li ces tim koj xwb koj tsis txov fwj chim koj yuav kom.luag nyoo.koj.xwb tsis tau yuav tsum ua kom.ob tog sib npaug thiaj li haum hos zoo li rab teev koj muab luj.kom sib rau koj tog nyav rau luag tog xwb tsis haum ib sim li nawb
@maitxhiablis99262 жыл бұрын
You are the issue dude
@evanandadamschannel83922 жыл бұрын
Koj yeej yog tus phem 1000 os
@nhialor79592 жыл бұрын
Kwv tij aw . Zoo nkoj li kuv zaj ntag . Kuv tus twb miss yuav Xf lawm
@kuvlubappleqabzib58862 жыл бұрын
Can't teach an old dog new tricks.
@Hotlips69ization2 жыл бұрын
That's what happened when you eat old left over food. You get diarrhea..
@leexiong57412 жыл бұрын
Hmoob txoj kev cai uas niam txiv tuag kom me nyuam tua nyuj yos ib qhov kev cai ruam. Yuav txog thaum twg hmoob li pauv?
@tsitxwvkojmuas12542 жыл бұрын
Tu niam lau aw koj tu txiv hai tag lawm ce koj ho hai koj zaj teb zaj no os seb leej twg zaj muaj ntsiab lu dua os thov hai koj zaj teb nawb
@cwaneng2 жыл бұрын
Ne cov laus mas yuam kev tag za taj zos xwb los tseem yauv muaj lus hais thiab koj txo ua li ne ua. Of course we moved out rom the cave you all raise us in. Still there are a few who still living in their cave. Pab tsis to lawm.
@moobxaavvaammeej57252 жыл бұрын
Brother, neb ob leeg tsi los hloov rau ib qhov, neb yuav sib yoog tsi tau. Neb ob leeg tuav tsum los set ib qhov common ground rau neb ob leeg los hloov ua ke thiaj zoo. Yuav kom nws hloov haum koj, kom koj hloov kom haum nws mas hloov tsi tau li os.
@maovue44062 жыл бұрын
Koj hais tau yog lawm. They also do too much comparison to their previous marriage and their young self. People change...they need to change for each other.
@suabcuayaj8772 жыл бұрын
Thaub koj lub neej puas ntaus ntaus zaus yog tim koj xwb..vim koj tsis txawj coj xwb. hloov koj tus kheej koj thiaj yuav ua tau tus txiv zoo rau yav tom ntej nawb.
@terryher34872 жыл бұрын
Can’t teach an old dog with a new tricks lol
@pajthao48132 жыл бұрын
Koj nrauj ntau tus dhau tus twg los koj tsis haum es tej zaum tim koj xwb os
@kittydanny28582 жыл бұрын
Li ko es tus g sib tau los txhob sib22 khuv xim lawm os nyias kav tsij mus hlub tus nyias yuav os es txhob pheej sib khuv xim os
@yilengyang33252 жыл бұрын
Coj poj niam mus church ces coj mus rau vaj tswv tus xib fwb aim xwb laub yom niaj hnub niam nov los tseem muaj quj qees li os hehehehe vaj tswv tus as cas ces yog tus niaj hnub sim hmoob tej poj niam
@vickysoung26872 жыл бұрын
Kuv xav kom koj los kho 3 ngi ntam nov. 1.hmoob kev dab qhuas. Qhov no koj ntau heev tabdis koj hais txog cov ntseeg ces ncauj loab pigvog. 2. Moob leeg thiab hmoob dawb. Koj yuavfau feeb kom meej !aj no yog mmob leeg losis hmmob dawb.
@yilengyang33252 жыл бұрын
@@vickysoung2687 kuv tsi tos taub koj hais dab tsi as kuv tsi tau hais txog moob leeg moob dlawb as
@sayyang7672 жыл бұрын
Thaub koj puav kas qhias xib fwb lub npe rau diaj teb paub. Ua xib fwb es ua lis no los Moob nes cov xib fwb mas zoo heem lis puav yog.
@maimoua13712 жыл бұрын
Hihihi li no Es Tuam yaj thiaj hu zaj nkauj ua fb nrov qeeg nkaws txhob tom hlub thaum laus no los mas. neb qhov zoo twb dua lawm tshuav qhov niag kho sev g ncaj pob dua hos koj tawv muag fiav cuag nas ntab lawm Es yuav tshuav qhov twg zoo lawm naw
@elizabethlee14842 жыл бұрын
txaus luag tshaj plaws cov niag neeg uas nco qub nkauj qub nraug li nej no os. nim nco tas tiam neej tab sis thaum kawg tau tseem tsis yog li yus txoj kev yus npau suav nruab hnub tau 20/30 xyoo. yus xav tau luag ces yus ham tsis kawg ywj luag thiab yoog rau luag xwb los as, luag twb tsis yog tus xav tau yus na niag txiv dev ruam. koj ces nyuam qhuav phim koj niag pog ntawv ua li rau koj xwb os. txaus luag tshaj plaws li os. cas tsis cia nyias ua nyias neej es sib tshua mus ib sim neej, es ho los thab plaub es kom ho laj sib ntxub txog hnub tuag os ntuj aw.
@pataoxiong2 жыл бұрын
THAUB NO TXAUS NTSHAI TSAWV NAWB!!! YOG KOJ TSIS HLOOV MAS XYOV KOJ YUAV PLAM TSAWG TUS ES KOJ LUB NEEJ MAM TIAV LAU...