Quit Playing Dumb | Episode 21 | Give It To Me Straight Podcast

[@jorgeduranlargo4368]

John's reactions against minimum cheating attitudes give me 1000 years of life

[@Mytutorialvideos1]

We all need a Jon.

[@destineeconkle9968]

Love so much johns attitude to ZERO cheating at all lol. 😂😂😂👌🏻 this podcast is great. Y’all are entertaining af.

[@nickclements6146]

“If it’s wet, make it dry.” 1000% great advice from John

[@giveittomestraight]

😂😂

[@adriannahumbert6700]

I live for Jon's reactions, and Alex's laugh!

[@Xxflordeamorxx]

Not John saying he would go home with Kate Beckinsale but once Alex talks about being hit on, he’s pressed 😂😭

[@JoshuaGipson]

Quick suggestion and maybe it's been said before but It would be very entertaining to have people call in and ask their questions that way you both can get all the context you need and give more accurate advice lol because as a viewer I want more details too. Maybe not for all the questions but once a month or something as a "special question" lol idk just a thought that I thought I had

[@breebree7695]

Ooooo love this idea!

[@Luisdej]

This makes sense…they could go Live on their Tiktok and ask people to call in and then for the KZbin video edit out stuff that maybe they didn’t like or details too spicy

[@alliemanzo6434]

This is genius!

[@the_zuri_nutritionist]

Great idea!!!!

[@kailihawaii]

I literally choked on my coffee when John said “are you flicking your bean to him?” You guys are great

[@katelynherritt5588]

Lost it at "flicking your bean to him" 😂😂

[@aetank_yyteawu3436]

“He’s recently married” “he asked for my number” Yeah what a catch huh. Don’t see any red flags in him, you should totally leave your fiancé for a recently married guy…🙃

[@sbjaxj7541]

John's idea about the girl and surfer is 100 percent. That was her fault she did it, she immediately was attracted to him.

[@chris-gx7rs]

All you women do that

[@kevinking9752]

yeah, agreed. I think some people are so unprepared for the possibility of being attracted to someone else, so a crush like that to them must have SOME kind of significance, when it can be just that, a crush. We don't just instantly lose the ability to be attracted to other people upon entering a relationship, and knowing that makes you more prepared to distance yourself when it does. So agreed with John, she's being so careless there, it's almost comical that she truly had no idea that she was playing with fire here. What did she expect?

[@christopherlewis2194]

John better watch his wife because she made so many excuses for the surfer chick

[@1313aves]

After struggling with infertility for about three years now and having a severe stage 4 endometriosis diagnosis, one lap done and another surgery booked for sept, that question "when will you have kids" irks me. I think it's an inappropriate "small talk" question, mostly when asked to someone who is struggling with infertility or experienced a miscarriage. While it may seem like a well-intended question and sometimes they don't know your situation, I answer truthfully so they can perhaps think of a better question to ask next time. "Why don't you have kids yet?!?" "I'm infertile." *blank stare* or "when will you have kids?" "We have been trying for quite awhile and haven't been successful" *blank stare* like pleaaaaase think of better small talk questions that don't involve my husband and l's sex life! If I didn't announce a pregnancy or don't look pregnant, it's because I'm not!!!!! If someone wants to talk about expanding their family, THEY will bring it up.

[@kaylakurpik4712]

Discovered you guys on tik tok a few months back, and was pumped to hear you had a podcast. I look forward to it weekly and laugh my ass off throughout ❤ can’t get enough of the both of you!

[@westbeach400]

Omg!!!! Let Jon talk 😂😂😂😂. This is an old video and I ran out of new ones to watch. Now I see where the comments came from. I was like “she always lets him talk”. Man I miss you guys, come back!

[@wendyphillips1828]

Love you guys so much. I look forward to your videos now. I think you guys have a loving healthy relationship and that’s what I’m going for

[@mariahgalletta9783]

I Cannot believe he said "flicking your bean to him" this is fckin hilarious

[@Spores_n_Stuff]

Been following you guys for a while on IG, didn’t know you had a podcast until today! Glad to see you guys have one. I will be tuning in every ep!

[@juliaperri6528]

“Alex’s dusty crusty eggs” lmfao

[@zeev2944]

Love the podcast ever since I knew you guys had one I’ve been keeping up I’ve even watched some of the last ones u guys are just very entertaining😂😂

[@nurseaissa]

I watch your podcast on TV while I'm doing things around the house. Y'all are hysterical and sooo relatable. ❤ Thanks for keeping it real! P.S now my boyfriend is hooked on your podcast 💯💯#winning

[@giveittomestraight]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@breebree7695]

Love the pod! You guys are hilarious 😂❤

[@miahholmen3794]

I loved your tiktoks & found your podcast like a week ago. I have been trying to catch up ever since! 😍 I love that you guys are so open about not sure if you want kids....my husband & I are are the same way, depends on the day. Our family thinks we're weird so its nice to know we're not alone!! 😂😂

[@Kaylinsummer]

40:13 Alex said someone needing constant reassurance can get annoying but consider how your need of water would change when you’re in a dessert for a week. When you’re deprived of something, you crave it even more. The more someone is reassured, the less you need it

[@benitosantiago8602]

Yeah, but when is enough enough? The less confidence you have, the more reassurance you need. Not being confident in yourself, is an unattractive trait to most. I agree that some reassurance is definitely needed from time to time but when your whole image of yourself and your relationship relies on it is when it’s an issue and can become exhausting to uphold for the other person. This is of course, with the assumption that the other person hasn’t done anything to make you need the reassurance more.

[@beancheese3148]

Jealousy is an issue with self. Your partner will never be able to fulfill your need of reassurance. The best they can do is tell you how much they love you and express themselves with their love language. Especially if you don’t have a “words of affirmation” love language, it can be a little odd or even burdensome to your partner if they always affirm and you want more. The only way you can feel well in your skin is to be loving towards yourself.

[@brookeanderson2631]

You guys are awesome !

[@Kaylinsummer]

25:20 I would never invite an ex anything to a relatives funeral. And I would never go to an ex’s relatives funeral. If you had a close relationship with the deceased, send flowers to show respect. There’s no need to show your face. Also.. don’t you think it’s weird that his mom passed away & he’s thinking about how someone else is feeling about it. WHILE his girlfriend is thinking about making all the plans. It’s a deep rooted issue I think.

[@giveittomestraight]

Good take

[@TiffanySuggs1]

I can only focus on Jon’s shadow on the wall 😂

[@shelby_button]

4:50 that would 100% be my fiancé. He’d have lost it if someone yelled about our boys peeing in a place none of us even wanted to be 🤣🤣🤣

[@Dove_0034]

Get your bag frfr but there was no less than 8 ads on this video 😂

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[@jocelyn0]

Idc it’s not right to invite an ex FWB to Mom’s funeral. Girl you gotta say something, I see how people do weird things in times like these but that is exactly why you don’t let him get close to her at a time like this

[@Anyaface1]

I love both of you but i cant help but feel like this was more of a therapy session ❤

[@Everick8a]

You guys are so new to LA Its cute lol

[@jordanfreeman5033]

I loved this convo. To the giving the number out scenario, I don’t think you have to have issues in your relationship to do things like that. The OP even mentioned she had a great relationship. I have found that cheating is typically a boundary issue, not a relationship. You would be surprised in the amount of people who cheat, but later report to having good relationships on the people they cheated on. They want what they want, and blame the relationship as a way too cope. At least that’s my 2 cents

[@MyLady73]

Violence is always the answer Alex ☺

[@abcdisturbedchik]

I absolutely love when good food and beer/alcohol is served aat movie theaters. But be courteous and make sure your nachos or hot dog is prepared ready to go BEFORE the movie starts!

[@jasmingutierrez7723]

I understand Jon with the back stiffness 😢it’s so much worse at night.

[@abcdisturbedchik]

For the person asking about their partner waking up early. We have a 3 bedroom. My fiances work clothed are in that closet. We do have 2 bathrooms so he does use the one out of the room. But he can shower in your bathroom and change and get ready elsewhere if that's a possibility.

[@bpopp9839]

Team both seats down! Then both male and female has to lift it and put it back down.

[@lulul0l039]

Yes, No poop particles flying around👏 And wiping bodily fluids before you leave.

[@jerricalynn7719]

1. I live in FL, we have a pontoon 😂 not a yacht if you guys don’t mind my toddlers than please call me. 2. 25k to clean the woods sounds about the same for FL. Lol they wanted to charge my mom over 1k to remove debris from her backyard that was like already in a pile that my dad and brother had done lol.

[@raquellennan1760]

I've been here… I went to my ex partner's fathers funeral and his ex gf was there, I was cool in the setting but it was bit weird for me.

[@christopherlewis2194]

Alex had all that smoke about the guy in the workplace but when it comes to the surfer girl she's was so understanding the sisterhood is 🗑️

[@beccaparker8504]

My theory on the toilet seat situation is down BC both parties need the seat down only one needs the seat up….js

[@ultravioletxiv4702]

Alex’s dusty crusty eggs😂

[@christopherlewis2194]

Man flirting with older women at job=attention seeking Surfer girl= missing something in the relationship The sisterhood is 🗑️

[@amandadeleon6216]

California everywhere sets off illegal fireworks lol

[@Abe2586]

I have two names, my first name is unusual and some coworkers call me by my second name, because it's more common. I think it's because we weren't introduced but they read my name on emails. I hate it, but I won't get out of my way to correct them!

[@kevinking9752]

46:33 😆Let's get one thing straight: a stranger that offers to buy you a drink for no other reason other than existing, is hitting on you. He knows this, you know this, which is why Alex responded with 'I'm married'. What's the alternative, wait for him to buy you a drink so she can risk getting insulted for not saying it sooner? Have an entire convo with someone thinking it could go somewhere only for them to reveal 30 mins in that they're already married? So sure, you're uncomfortable, but so is she dude, you're the one who's making the move here! 😆 If he did indeed try to make you feel bad about it, that is such a low key dick move. I'm saying this as a guy too: a woman sets a boundary, even if it's expressed in a bit of an awkward way, just respect it, dude. Take a hint, say goodnight, or get that drink for her anyway. I've gotten this response from women I've approached at a bar and thanked them for telling me that they're in a relationship from the get go, and sometimes bought them a drink anyway and still had a chat. Because I've had a few extended convos with a few women who conveniently chose not to reveal they're not single. There's nothing wrong with wanting to feel wanted when you're out at a bar/club, but it's really at the expense of someone else in that case, and if I'd rather spend that time with someone who is single, then I should be able to do that and appreciate being given that option.

[@philipparish2990]

How much water is in the toilet for it to splash everywhere

[@cwilliams9011]

Hire goats they’ll eat up all the brush. Depending on how many come in it can take a matter or hours to days

[@caprice28]

I can pretty much guarantee that. If the surfer guy she met looked like Danny DeVito she wouldn't have given him his number no matter how interesting he was.

[@lulul0l039]

Yes, she would've only asked for his autograph. There needs to be boundaries while in relationship. Swapping phone numbers is highly sus. Monkey branching sucks

[@Krashingcruzes]

@jon I’m so 1,000,000,00% not getting eaten by a shark!

[@HwayVision]

Here from ig lol

[@philipparish2990]

Why not be honest about the position you are @ with having children

[@JRD_Youtube]

LA sounds awful.

[@deenanajia1850]

Dang it! 😩 came to see if there’s a new episode coz I had the itch to watch something that always makes me happy, YOU!… Turns out it’s only been 5 days 😭😭 I always watch your videos the day you post them! Come on timeee 🕰️🥲🥲