r/AccidentalAlly - ah yes, "Punishment"

[@DaveCM]

Years ago, a coworker of mine told me about his mom putting an LGBTQ flag sticker on her car. She liked rainbows, so she bought it and stuck it on her car. He told her what it was and she said, "maybe that explains why some young people honked and gave me a thumbs up at a stoplight." But, she wasn't homophobic though.

[@Disheartthorn]

Huh, neat.

[@vulpesrocktails918]

An accidental ally in the best possible way lol

[@demetria-n]

When I was but a young child I quite enjoyed rainbows. Around 2015-16 when people started putting them out more frequently, I saw them and said how much I liked the rainbow flag. My mother wouldn't tell me what it meant, and I only found out later on.

[@goji5052]

@@demetria-n I mean, it wouldn't be too disappointing unless you were actively against it

[@demetria-n]

@@goji5052 It just made me love the flag more :D

[@andWaiting]

My nana is a real odd one. She is vaguely racist, judges almost entirely on appearances and is very two faced. I was terrified to come out as bi to her. Imagine my surprise when she looks at me confused and said "everyone is like that?" And then proceeded to tell me about her whirlwind romance with a female friend in Germany while her cheating and abusive husband was stationed there. Turns out the issues she had with my mother becoming a lesbian wasn't about her being gay, it was about her "sloppy fashion sense that couldn't attract a mirror, let alone human being" . Big surprise

[@MouldMadeMind]

I love selective bigotry.

[@tooth_butter9258]

LMAOOO “sloppy fashion sense that couldn’t attract a mirror, let alone a human being” IS SENDING ME

[@wormsign2637]

Level 5 Gay Level 100 Bisexual

[@llSuperSnivyll]

"My daughter, I'm less concerned that you like other women and more that you are NOT going to get them if you stay like this."

[@RonLarhz]

Lol.... Weirdly wholesome?

[@parkketler7088]

I remember explaining transgender people to my grandmother (as i had a crush on a trans man at the time). I told her that the individual is born the wrong physical gender (using words she would understand best) and its like they're stuck in a body that doesn't match their mind. I remember her turning to me with this really sad face and saying "that sounds awful". I was kind of taken aback and thought she might have been messing with me. This was in 2019 and I figured everyone had their own ideas on how they thought it worked. She was really struck in that moment and it was interesting to see such a genuine reaction when she understood.

[@Nickys_Corner]

Aww I’m giving ur grandma a virtual hug it’s so nice to see accepting people in the older generation

[@TAOSpades4730]

Nothing to do with the actually comment, but, love your profile picture

[@Moon_Savior]

Aww, I love wholesome content, gives me hope

[@noodlepoodlegirl]

my grandma was the same way. When I came out to her she was cool! She was born in the 1920s, and her upbringing taught her that that kind of stuff is sick, not OK. But she was old enough to be over all that, and she listen to her heart. I actually came out to her because my girlfriend was getting evicted from her apartment, and I was really worried about her and didn’t know what to do, so I confided in my grandma. “Why doesn’t she stay with us while she looks for a new place?” was her response. I miss my grandma so much.

[@GemGirl2009]

🥹

[@fluffymoth87]

"You'll never be a real woman." "I'm not even trans." This has been playing in my head on repeat for about an hour now. It's so perfect. XD

[@apel66sinka]

for some reason this reminds me of "You took everything from me!" "I dont even know who you are." (from what movie scene was it?)

[@UnionThorax]

@@apel66sinkaAvengers Endgame. Wanda(The Scarlet Witch): “You took Everything from me…” Thanos: “I don’t even know who you are” Wanda: You will…

[@vivid-therian-dreams]

@@apel66sinka as a warrior cats head, my immediate thought was "Mapleshade to sandstorm near the end of the great battle-"

[@hippieyoda1993]

Somehow it’s even worse. It’s actually ‘you will never be a real *women* ‘😂

[@dx1450]

Alabamans: "In order to stop gay weddings, we're going to ban all weddings." Also Alabamans: "Why are so many people just living together without getting married? Soon nobody will bother getting married!"

[@zorochu5647]

Please don't say Alabamans I don't want to be affiliated

[@giorgarospanagakis9573]

Hey Joe i have a suggestion Try to talk about gay marriage to your ISIS masters. They would be so understanding

[@_ColaDev]

@@zorochu5647 bro what

[@Cyuutie]

@@zorochu5647 do you live in alabama ?good luck if so

[@Iris_echos]

I don't even understand the point of getting married? It's expensive, you have to say words in front of people, it's a waste of time when you could be inside curled up in a blanket with your cat sitting on you watching Larry Stylinson clips!

[@oats3815]

When was in middle school transitioning to high school I finally came out as lesbian and still am one till this day, I was living with my grandma and she wasn't very supportive of me so in conclusion she said "This Summer I'm sending you away to a sleep away camp so they can fix you" I asked what it was for and she said where the lgbt kids go to get fixed. So long story short that's where I found my girlfriend and went to a camp filled with cute girls who where also gay

[@commandercorl1544]

Haha, I wonder if that'll happen to me if I come out as gay to my parents. Maybe they could send me to a conversion camp of all boys?

[@MaxIsHere1029]

I'm just imagining your grandma as a shocked Pikachu face that you got a girlfriend from going to that camp lol

[@kpflyn]

@@MaxIsHere1029 _their grandma was_ *surprised*

[@Cinnabun9]

Lol you pulled an uno reverse card on her good job

[@Cosmicdaydreamer]

Plot twist: the grandma was actually okay with it and only did this so you could find a girlfriend

[@Super_Panda_BS]

Fun animal fact: The pangolin is able to roll up into an armour-plated ball, so lions can’t eat them.

[@averagesnail5437]

woah! like my dad!

[@Purple_Sweater]

That's awesome

[@kokirij0167]

@@averagesnail5437 I have several questions

[@intangerbline3683]

@@kokirij0167 They are a snail.

[@Phoenix-np1iu]

i love pangolins

[@ari-berry...]

fun fact: once Ireland almost accidentally outlawed heterosexual marriage

[@FoxGlove8]

How what why We need the story

[@Joetino]

Someone’s a beer-drinking fighter

[@breadfordinnerbestie]

i choked on my spit seeing this comment that’s hilarious

[@QUBIQUBED]

Yeah no it was literally just a translation error...

[@ari-berry...]

@@QUBIQUBED yeah that's why i said accidentally

[@francenkovcan5211]

funny thing to me is that this subreddit basically boils down to: person with a strong opinion against something are completely ignorant about what it is

[@idislikemints]

Basically. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Also, "person (...) is", not "are".

[@Yawyna124]

@@idislikemints Actually, I think they accidentally a word. "person with a strong opinion against something *they* are completely ignorant about what it is," is how the clause could read while using "are".

[@kevinchong5424]

Dunning-Kruger in full effect

[@alecLogan]

It’s weird, right? People influenced media to be more about shock value than truth, and in turn that influenced people to be more about knee-jerk intense reactions instead of _actually_ considering anything they’re talking about beyond the label they think (somehow) infringes on them in any way.

[@OriginalCreatorSama]

They're too stupid to know what they're actually afraid of xD

[@richardctaylor79]

I love it when these phobic people show themselves to be stupid and/or ignorant.... it also shows that the education around these issues is severely lacking....

[@wulferikgebhardt5312]

Agreed! These people should should be glad that english has such a ready-made option with "they/them". With other languages, it's much harder to properly use gender-neutral language. I.e. in german, the available options mostly include special characters, are barely pronounceable, or imported wholesale from another language (as far as I'm aware). It's probably worse with romantic languages were everything is gendered. Boggles my mind why using "they/them" isn't a non-issue yet.

[@thefurry7165]

@@wulferikgebhardt5312 **cries in Spanish**

[@Celediev]

Then again on the other side some people take the ACTUAL plural form "they" as a gatcha for people who don't usually use they/them. Like the post at 5:27. There's stupid people on both sides of every argument.

[@thefurry7165]

@@Celediev actually they/them is gender neutral so it's technically correct to use it for people who don't use they/them Like I'm not a native English speaker and even I know that lmao

[@tsumugishirogane2300]

@@wulferikgebhardt5312 in italy our equal of they/them was used as courtesy (now it’s considered something only old people used) and it can be used both in first and third person

[@Hedge-cj9kz]

When I was 12 my mother sent me to a all girls camp. Right after I came out as lesbian. As a method of “discipline”. One of the best summers of my life :)

[@janishughesfan56]

i dont get whats with parents and doing this, when youre literally attracted to girls LMAO

[@PH3NNYLEN]

@@janishughesfan56 idk maybe they think that the straightness of other girls is going to pass onto the child or something?

[@door-chan]

Maybe they think they're getting influenced by boys to like girls...? That doesn't make sense either but it's the first thing that came to mind

[@beryyjams]

@@door-chan maybe as a oh you think you like girls? how bout now! thing, to try and disprove it by forcing her around them, which still makes about as much sense as not supporting yuour daughter in the first place, but its the only thing i can think of

[@erynn7175]

@@janishughesfan56 fr they should be sending them to a camp that has the oppsite gender not a camp where they are others like them

[@temp3608]

''You'll never be a woman!'' ''I'm not even trans!'' **wheezes internally**

[@crypticlol]

that's the best part of the video

[@Fizzy_cat_]

I read that at the exact same time as he said that

[@OutcastSpartan]

I want to know what reddit they found that on.

[@nihtgengalastnamegoeshere7526]

"Dad, I'm bisexual." "NOT IN MY HOUSE YOU AIN'T! I RAISED A LESBIAN, DARN IT! ALL GIRLS SCHOOL FOR YOU!" "...okay dad..."

[@Ajehy]

I have a friend whose dad hoped she’d be a lesbian because “most men are horrible and I’m scared for you.” She’s pan, and dating an AFAB NB, so I guess he got his wish?

[@rmeows5087]

Assigned female at birth

[@anib8863]

@leet man AFAB = “assigned female at birth”

[@ink2812]

Omg I LOVE this, I want to hear this argument😋

[@damiantobli5189]

@@Ajehy the Afab part isn't really important, since...yk....they're non binary?

[@RGC_animation]

"If you're gay you'll never get any women!" "Well..."

[@Randsomm]

Ah what a What a nightmare

[@supergachastudios9730]

The horror

[@chenqing1012]

The horror😱😕😑☺

[@Hekskskdkdkskbjsjh]

“So you’re aroace not feeling sexual attraction is a turn off” *what*

[@supergachastudios9730]

@@Hekskskdkdkskbjsjh I Sure hope it is

[@alphathesupreme2238]

Daughter: comes out as bi Parents: We punish you by sending you to an all girls school Girl: I see this as an absolute win

[@Snurphle]

As a lesbian, I support this comment

[@phantomflair5546]

She’s bi, so actually it would be a punishment because she would only be around one of the genders she’s attracted to.

[@angeldust7084]

My dad actually tried this and now I have a boyfriend

[@shin9562]

As a lesbian I would love this if only the girls in my country weren't all mid

[@Miss_Tenebriss]

That's what you call a win win situation. Parents happy because they can punish their kid and kid happy because of all the cute girls 😂

[@petergaley314]

"Oh, you're lesbian? Well why don't you SMOKE A WHOLE PACK of girls!"

[@katyungodly]

Underrated comment lol

[@SombryIsBadAtArt]

I think the most common mistake transphobic people make is when they think "trans woman" or "trans man" means someone who hasnt transitioned yet. Thats so funny seeing them accidentally support trans people :)

[@AngelDustBrainrot]

Yeah! Sadly, I’m genderfluid, so I don’t get this validation, but it’s just funny to see idiots being supportive.

[@masonmalo1471]

I will be honest I also mixed it up at first but that is because I was an idiot I figured it out eventually

[@imacouchpotato6793]

My parents do it on accident but they always clarify

[@orangegreen3579]

I’m actually a huge supporter of transgender type things and LGBTQ+ in general. I mixed that up a lot when I first understood at around age 10… my brain sometimes struggles with saying and thinking the correct things. So supporters make those mistakes too.

[@Kristy2641]

You know what else is kinda funny but is also kinda embarrassing :D Before I understoud what a trans man or woman was I would try to be supportive but only end up offending people 🥲

[@jessik1810]

I hate the argument that you're only a "real woman" when you have a period/ can have children. Like what about infertile women? Women after they went thru menopause? Do they just stop being women? Besides it is incredibly sexist to judge women based on their ability to bear children.

[@Yawyna124]

@Tom Morrison Ikr? I think the common reason for it is, "people will be more careful around the vehicle", but nobody, ever, is going to follow the idea: "Oh, yeah, I was definitely going to intentionally crash into you and run you off the road prior to learning that there was a baby in your vehicle." Edit: apparently, they can have the other use of letting emergency responders know that there is/was a child in the vehicle? That seems more reasonable.

[@esmee6308]

I've met quite a few people who are of the believe that women aren't women (yet) when they haven't, won't or are incapable of giving birth. Though that stupidity just sticks with me since it's meant to be an insult towards me.

[@satanslittleprince]

YES! You are my favorite person now, thank you.

[@Jaydee8652]

@Tom Morrison, I don’t understand why you would hate them, they’re for Emergency Services, its like hating police tape or fire exit signs. Yeah they aren’t exactly necessary but they can be useful.

[@vukkulvar9769]

@Tom Morrison The "baby on board" sign is not for other people to drive carefully, it's for car crashes so they know to look for the baby.

[@DefectiveDictionary777]

If anyone claims that science "disproves" gender as an identity, kindly remind them that anthropology exists, and it whole point is to study society and social constructs, including gender identity.

[@SeanPat1001]

True, but anthropology also tells us the concepts of gender vary greatly between different cultures.

[@aubreyackermann8432]

Lots of cultures had three or more recognized and socially acceptable genders

[@Iyashikei-t4u]

Not only that but neuroscience has more and more studies proving that trans and non-binary and the likes are completely natural and are doing a great job at making sure we know more and more about gender and sexuality in general. The stuff homophobes and transphobes call science is horribly dated at best.

[@catisadinosaurrawr2449]

Thank you, my family tries to disprove me being non-binary by saying I'll always be the gender I was born because of science. I needed to hear this.

[@AngelDustBrainrot]

@@catisadinosaurrawr2449 Same! Once my parents said “You just became a woman(this was right after I got my first period), why are you changing it now!?” It was so frustrating. Hope you’ve found supportive people in your life! ❤️

[@tortie-mawmginger5426]

I’m a cis woman and I wear my hair very short. I’m losing my hair and it’s the only way I can make it look like I have any hair. Anyway, I work at a doctor’s office. It is usually assumed that I’m a lesbian. Apparently it’s about your haircut, not who you are attracted to. Why would they care? I don’t bother correcting them. If they try to ask me questions about LGBTQ I just deflect and tell them I don’t talk about my personal life at work, thank you. This keeps everything nice and short and I can go about my work. My coworkers - Why don’t you ever tell these people you’re not gay!?!? Me: Because I don’t care. Coworkers: So you just let everyone think you’re a lesbian?!?! Me: So? What, exactly, is wrong with being a lesbian? Coworkers: ... Me: Exactly.

[@Shaytan.666]

This right here. And if we lgbtq+ people try to correct them it's always ,,You don't have to let them know that, no one wants to know or why do you have to make it to your entire personality? It's not a personality trait." 🤡

[@sakuraemerald3288]

When I came out as non-binary (they/them) my dad said “We say ‘they’ when we don’t know the gender of a person, but we know your gender.” I just told him “then pretend you don’t.”

[@wajmgirl]

“You’re already pretending to be a decent person, Keep going.”

[@Raychases1fan]

hello fellow non binary person

[@jaydeleon8094]

so is non-binary just what you identify yourself as or are you actually non-binary?

[@sakuraemerald3288]

@@jaydeleon8094 ...yes????

[@golwenlothlindel]

@Jay DeLeon uhhh… most people have a clear innate sense of being a gender. If you don’t… you have some soul-searching to do friend. Your comment has the same energy as those “straight” women who are like “you’re not bisexual, women are just always attractive.” 🙂

[@DemonQueenIshino]

Half this video is anti-LGBTQ+ people getting confused by the terminology and I absolutely love it, it's just hilarious how they try to be mean but end up being so wholesome

[@elizabethafton1883]

Yeah this is hilarious if I wasn’t grounded and watching on my school iPad I would be lmao but I just keep a straight face showing no emotion because my parents want my only entertainment while grounded to be books

[@potatoe972]

I have nothing against LGBT people and all the terminology still confuses me a lot. Like what’s the difference between bi and pan? I looked it up and the first result was “It’s confusing”. What does that mean?!

[@NintendoRaptor]

@@elizabethafton1883if you would rather use a school ipad than read a book, you need to get some better books.

[@sakurafecke]

I was asked my sexuality and responded "Aroace", they asked "what's that?." I gave the definition. Thr best part was that someone said "Why would you do that? No one will like you." I was like "THATS THE POINT."

[@Just_your_casual_therian]

Some people just don't get it

[@user-GreenGrapeGamer227]

oh so you don't love anyone hmm (start talk and walking) nobody will love you

[@eagelswift]

Hi fellow AroAce! My friend likes to joke about how she feels lonely and wanting a boyfriend, then says “you’re so lucky you don’t have to deal with this”😂

[@bethanymiddleton5758]

I think I'm Aromantic

[@Just_your_casual_therian]

@@bethanymiddleton5758 That’s cool! (I’m Demi-sexual)

[@_november_june_]

I love how you don't just poke fun at these people but you also explain and correct their mistakes in a way that they'll hopefully understand because it's not only funny but sad that people actually belive these things.

[@vilena5308]

Nicely said. Though the comments are funny they also make me despair a little. I guess it evens out... ^^;

[@YourFriendlyShapeShifterFriend]

*ya their whole life was a lie*

[@Bored_Overthinker]

That's for my favorite things about people like the click, they actually go in and correct errors so that the audience isn't confused on why it's wrong, and so that the audience does not repeat the errors.

[@milkarmyleader1862]

I’m really happy you’re ACTUALLY supportive instead of being fake. I haven’t came out as non-binary yet but knowing that you’ll support me and my gender and sexuality really helps me out. It helps out everyone who has shit parents. You’re amazing Click, we all love you dearly. Thank you for everything Click, you’re always gonna be a huge part of my life at least. Edit: how dare all of you! just reading these made tears well up in my eyes! This channel as a really supportive community. And as an update I'm not coming out to them. I asked to change my name and they did the whole "do you know how hard it was to pick that name" rant. So they don't get to know shit. Thank you for all the kind replies!

[@Ajehy]

I will also support you, if the opinion of a rando with a cat PFP helps at all. (Not a fake, my partner is non-binary)

[@pheonix5524]

Hey isk if it will sound rude and i'm sorry if i do but, how can you feel like not being female/male like i can understand feeling like a boy when you are in a girl but not being any gender is kinda... shady? I just don't understand and i want to know how non binari feels

[@memyfriend123]

@@pheonix5524 I'm non-binary, though I don't know if my answer will be the same as their's. I don't really know how to explain, but it's just that neither gender really feels right. Like how a trans man doesn't feel right in a woman's body, or how a trans woman doesn't feel right in a man's body, except I feel that with both genders. I know I'm not being very clear, but I still hope this is in some way helpful to you

[@SamVimes27]

Take all the support you need from me. Giving support and raising my children to see everyone as equal no matter what is the best I can do as a white, hetero guy.

[@tetronadionoxide5275]

@@pheonix5524 now i can only imagine someone non-binary just hiding around corners like "hey kid...you uh...you want some gender? i don't have one so i don't need em but uh...i can give you a few...for a price" non binary people are cool i am not hating on them or calling them shady. my imagination just decided this information was important to share.

[@poppythedogofwonders]

You know, for the people saying being gay or trans is 'against nature' I love how nature itself debunks their claim, like: There's plenty of examples of animals being gay and bisexual (mostly bi but you get the point), animals like Koalas, lions, elephants, sheep/rams, ect. And then trans, like, clownfish. Clownfish have a dominant female and smaller male, if the female dies the male puts on weight and transitions into a female. And I'm just- There's nothing more natural than animals, they are the natural world so like ??? Their statement is actually factually false.

[@liviwaslost]

And gay penguins

[@thunderiegacha9117]

the lord has spoken to be precise, he's good with LGBTQ+ people.

[@chatboulon743]

THANK YOU!! Idiot: Homosexuality is unnatural! Me: *looks at nature* ...100% wrong!

[@internetlurker1850]

And there are plenty of animals that socially act as one gender, but still identify as their gender(non-binary, but not the neutral kind), like saf05.

[@PrototypeSpaceMonkey]

And the whole "You're born as either male or female" thing is clearly false as well. A friend of my mom's was born intersex and has been asexual all their life. It's not even that uncommon. How can anything that happens in nature at a statistically significant rate be "unnatural"? It's just that these troglodytes live such insular lives that anything that happens outside their tiny data set is unthinkable to them. They make up fake rules in their head to keep a complex world that scares and confuses them more easily understandable.

[@sollieus]

as I've always said I don't care what you're going by just wash your damn hands after going to the bathroom.

[@Gregariousness1]

Facts

[@crisveinte6511]

So true

[@ryawncawdor6381]

9:10 Many years ago I was sent to pick up this guy from the airport so I could bring him to our armored unit. I find him and his stereotypical Colonel father at the airport, his father is just harping at him going "Look, I know you didn't want to do any of this military stuff but your mom and I are fed up with you being such a girl. You're a man. You can't be having these thoughts and wants of other men" and all these other things I can hear as I am approaching because this dude is just being all military ham loud. And he gets to the end of his rant/speach going "So this is for your own good, a tank unit will be what makes you a REAL man." And it was at this point I knew why I was specifically chosen to pick this guy up from the airport. I adjust my uniform, an put on the best bounce skip I have had an go right up to the guy an go roughly "Hey there new bestie, you ready to go start your career locked away in a big ol' tank with three other sweaty men for months on end with no other contact but their sweaty bodies in such a confined locked place?" Put my arm around his hips, put my hand into his back pocket, wink at his Colonel father. An proceed to push him along with me in my skip making him have to skip with me. Slowly the words I say to him dawn upon him an his face just lights up in the biggest brightest smile. While the words also dawn on his machoman father and his face just sinks into the deepest frown of shock I ever seen on a person. The guy met his future husband on a deployment and are still together. Good job dad!

[@hellmark6666]

Bless you!

[@John_Weiss]

OMG that's _perfect!_

[@huhhuh9598]

This deserves to be pinned, we can sadly never see the priceless face of the father but we can still marvel at our envision of it.

[@Ajehy]

At that moment the dad knew, he fucked up.

[@seanboorum4370]

That's super sweet 😊

[@KreaterK]

4:50 Pride Ghost is only scary to homophobes. It spends its nights cuddling with those who struggle with feeling unsafe in a homophobic situation, terrifying those who dare be hateful to those in need of support. All praise to the Pride Ghost!

[@ink2812]

This is true now. I’m making this a thing, this is a D&D creature now>:3

[@kittynet200mewmewpower]

👀 how do you summon it

[@emero.a.scythe1786]

@@ink2812 Hell yeah!

[@mars-z8o]

@@ink2812 YEY

[@greenwayjanus2588]

Sounds like this ghost has a hard time accepting people who don't support LGBT.

[@idislikemints]

My brother, a very opinionated homophobe (and transphobe), wore a t-shirt with rainbow colors on the sleeves and with the following text on the back: "she/her he/his they/them" I kept looking at it. I wanted to laugh and also face-palm.

[@Sr_ECO]

Tell your brother that shirt would offend the lgbt community, so he will wear with pride on the streets

[@chrisb.3353]

@@Sr_ECO lol "with pride"

[@seanboorum4370]

They could just be in denial bit their subconscious knows 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@a_d3mon]

Accidental ally stuff there...

[@MinaSimp21]

I cackled when he said “daddy, I’ve been a bad boy- I mean father I have sinned ..”

[@eldritchteletubby9319]

I'm a trans man, and I have a medical condition that makes me incapable of menstruating. If the criteria for being a woman is menstruation, then I'm all good.

[@hellmark6666]

Love your username

[@juliaf_]

Hmm postmenopausal women and women on continuous hormonal birth control must not be women either lol Also the reason continuous birth control isn't the norm is cause people think they need the period to be healthy when in reality it's really no worse than BC with a pause

[@eldritchteletubby9319]

@@juliaf_ Pregnant women don't menstruate. Pregnant👏women👏 aren't👏real👏women👏

[@artemis-8821]

@@eldritchteletubby9319 pregnant women can still menstruate but it's rare, your comments are funny op

[@bethany508]

@@artemis-8821 no they cant- if they menstruate I hate to break it to you thats a hemorrhage or a miscarriage. Please go back to school-

[@sashimiroll5055]

I am a closeted transwoman (mtf), and the amount of times people have tried to insult me by telling me I’m really feminine or stuff like that, and is some of the most validating comments I ever received. I love it.

[@bestaround3323]

You are a real woman.

[@ARCHIVED9610]

❤

[@ARCHIVED9610]

@@bestaround3323 your username is so correct!!

[@SteveTholomule]

Ik as a closeted nonbinary person receiving comments of people being confused about my gender are hilarious and validating

[@alinabreidscheid7480]

You rock queen❤

[@pheonix7206]

Hey, know you probably won't see this, but thank you for being so supportive of the lgbtq+ community! :) you helped me a lot when I came out as nonbinary and didn't get a lot of support from my family

[@railedb0x503]

I woke up after like a 30 minute nap because I had a nightmare about the Elmo you drew. I was all 3-D and it was chasing me screaming. Advertisements

[@blakezummo264]

You'll always have support in this fanbase, I hope your family comes around but you'll have us internet strangers and fellow lgbtq+ members in your corner. Sending love and good vibes your way

[@TheClick]

I know you will find people who accepts you

[@dollyowl]

@@TheClick king

[@rookiechauffeur]

@@TheClick GREATEST MAN

[@Maggotier-t5o]

Back in middle school I had just discovered that I was asexual, and I sat next to a kid who always went “THAT’S GAY” whenever his friends said anything. One day they were talking about who they thought were hot, and I was somehow pulled into the conversation. When I told them I was ace, I was genuinely expecting that kid to blow up into a flurry of “OH MY GOD UR GAY!”. But instead, he asked what that was, asked me some inoffensive, non-intrusive questions, and then went, “Oh ok” and immediately went back to talking with his friends and saying “THATS GAAY”. Me&my friends joked that if he saw his friends walking close to each other, he’d be like “THATS GAY YOURE GAY OMG” but if he saw an actual homosexual couple he would be perfectly okay with that.

[@valeriocampana3080]

Sorry for the late reply So i'm a cis male, and in my group of Friends (20-25) only 1-2 are homophobic (Just disgusted not heavy stuff) We ALWAYS, call eachother "GAY" "YOU'RE SO FUCKING GAY" but in a funny way, same thing when we call eachother racial insults (they are all the same nationality, we qre italian) So in the end, Words like the F Word (the bad One) and gay-lesbian, used as insults are changing and becoming Just non-sense I love this kind of stuff that happens (same thing as the N-word, now Just used for jokes) This not only helps killing homophobia and stuff but switches the meaning of a bad Word into a playful one

[@valeriocampana3080]

Because Just the fact that Words like this exists, means that there Is a difference For example, if the n-word doesnt exist, there would be much less racism, because there Will not be any actual Words for insulting black people A sentence that i love but dont Remember where It comes from Is: "your Words shape your thoughts"

[@svenhefrind4861]

I love how JKR writes about people turning into completely different species, but doesn't like someone saying they're a different gender

[@Alex_Vir]

JKR "You will never be a real werwolf!" Lupin "ARE YOU FZCKING KIDDING ME?"

[@LupusGr3y]

People exaggerate JKR's position a lot. She was never anti-trans, there was just a few areas where she doesn't fully embrace it. And while we might disagree with those few areas, I feel that is not enough to brand her as transphobic. Sometimes it feels like LGBT is too fanatical.

[@Alex_Vir]

@@LupusGr3y she litteraly equated menstruating to being a woman…

[@LupusGr3y]

@@Alex_Vir Yes, she was referring to biological gender if you read the context, even if the analogy still isn't perfect. So as it often is, it is taken out of context that makes it a lot more nuanced than simply being transphobic. And we need to be able to talk about the nuances. They are kind of important.

[@eMorphized]

@@LupusGr3y She could be misconstruing her words. It is easy to be fooled into TERFism if you happen to have a certain set of beliefs before encountering that particular brand of transphobia, and Joanne happened to fall into that exact set of prerequisite beliefs. It's sad more than anything.

[@Radechanicalarsonist]

My homophobic mother said she hates the LGBT and then supports the fact i said "i will never EVER have shrex with ANYONE" thanks for supporting my asexuality mom!

[@shurale123]

Funny)))

[@Fan_girly57]

Oh my god!!! 😂😂😂

[@ramchipqsi7131]

I read Shrek....

[@A.R_69]

​@@ramchipqsi7131i mean.... Can u blame ur brain for reading the x as an k considering sex is sometimes censored as shrek?

[@CelestialSteorra]

My dad said he'd never let me bring anyone home after I came out to him as ace as "Punishment for being a sinful gay"...Thanks dad! (I swear, His brain is smoother then this head.)

[@it_steatime]

I have story for you: one of my friends is non-binary but they didn't really came out at that time (they were originally a girl) and some guy wanted to make fun of them: "Heyy! You look like both gender together if you wear that!" Then he started laughing. That was beautiful and boosted their ego to actually came out publicly

[@TREX-pv2on]

Your friend: thanks :) The guy: ...what?

[@pika1222]

Fun fact: I used to unironically think that the Trans flag was the straight flag. This was before I was cultured and now whenever I see people making the same mistake, it brings me joy, because it means I wasn’t the only dumbass who thought this

[@crypticlol]

honestly, a blue-pink gradient style flag could work really well as a straight flag the current straight flag is just boring

[@the.axolotlgirl]

I want homophobes to think it is a straight flag so when a friend points it out they get scared for life

[@Maggotier-t5o]

I used to genuinely think the trans flag was the bi flag, but that was because I hadn’t seen the real bi flag yet/known what trans meant.

[@theacroway2056]

@@crypticlol the tower of killjoys flag

[@glenchapman3899]

The two sticks and the sun experiment has a fun twist. We dont actually know the exact length of the unit of measurement he used (Stadia) So historians are a little divided about the accuracy of his work. He either got pretty close, or virtually bang on (within 900 miles of the correct number) There is a fairly regular world wide school experiment where upwards of 10,000 kids from all around the planet checks Eratosthenes results.

[@a_d3mon]

I don't think many schools in the southern US do that... I know for a fact mine didn't

[@WardancerHB]

@@a_d3mon I know it's actually quite sad, but your comment made me laugh.

[@a_d3mon]

@@WardancerHB what's sadder is that's probably the same reason why a lot of conspiracy nuts here in the US tend to be from the south... US school system preaches memorization and regurgitation for the most part because it's still trying to produce yes-men and factory workers instead of getting with the times and teaching critical thinking as well as trying to get kids thinking hard about what they want to do with their life.

[@eMorphized]

@@a_d3mon Sadly, the Southern states tend to be behind the times economically compared to the rest of the Union, and have been that way since the very beginning. They're catching up, but it will be a long time before San Antonio rivals San Diego.

[@a_d3mon]

@@eMorphized economically, education, morality... basically everything.

[@Master_Conner]

Forget Click falling in love with One Topic, he is now becoming One Topic. And I’m all for it.

[@bundroid9793]

He wants to relate to his love more

[@bloomph]

self love ❤️

[@ilikedarknes3351]

@@FukYubtch Click made a video about an lgbtq sub reddit, like OT does and The click likes to be a bit flirty with OT from time to time. So basically Forget Click being flirty/falling in love with OT he is now becoming OT by making the same type of videos I hope that made sense lmao

[@sealessseadog2735]

*consume the weak*

[@vernemeton]

didn't OT recently make a furry video? maybe they are becoming more and more like the other, the way some couples sometimes do? (or, you know, content. requested. stuff.)

[@NotJpTem]

this entire subreddit is just people trying to insult trans people and failing miserably which is funny

[@vukkulvar9769]

Half of it is boring though. All the "transmen will never be real women" is said with transmen meaning MTF, not FTM. All the "transwomen will never be real men" is said with transwomen meaning FTM, not MTF. It's not accidental ally. When one says "A penis doesn't make you a man", that's the funny shit worth of the sub.

[@grunge-616]

@@vukkulvar9769 If you have a penis that makes you a man though... lol :)

[@retrochimdev3868]

@@vukkulvar9769 Yes that's what they mean but that's not what trans women and trans men means so that's why it's accidental ally

[@vukkulvar9769]

@@retrochimdev3868 That's what transwoman and transman mean in their circles. They use different definitions.

[@retrochimdev3868]

@@vukkulvar9769 Well that's not the right definition

[@Thatpsycho-1110]

0:10 thank you i just showered for dnd tonight

[@MaceJones-nf2cs]

Società Italiana Aviazione

[@poorly-DRaWN]

nice

[@jordikozminski4210]

The one about “no man would want you” is honestly a ‘you’re fired’ ‘but I don’t even work here’ moment

[@Leering_Cloud]

Girls Bisexual. Dad puts her in all girls school to teach her a lesson for liking girls. Girl comes out a lesbian. Girl: " Thanks Dad. You pushed me to one side instead" XD

[@MLWJ1993]

Perhaps it wasn't on accident, at least he now doesn't get to worry as much about her "accidentally" getting pregnant 😂

[@intoxicatedcoffee]

bro my story lol. i used to be bi in high school but my parents sent me to an all girls college to keep me away from guys. they didn't know i was bisexual. and now I'm a lesbian lmao

[@dro1562]

He was like: "Hell naw, if my daughter can't decide what to like; I'll do it for her" selective bigotry at its finest

[@Lululoveluv]

okay but as a lesbian, I would love that punishment. There's different reasons, less moaning in class, MAYBE calmer, and there is a bigger chance that there is a baggy jeans (IN MA BAGGY BAGGY BAGGY BAGGY BAGGY BAGGY JEANS), oversized shirt, wolfcut girl there

[@GenXWildChildCreatress]

I have an elderly relative who is extremely homophobic - I’m pansexual myself, and my husband is very much an ally to the LBGTQ+ community, so there’s been a few ugly arguments through the years. Several years back this person put a rainbow sticker on the back hatch of her car - nobody said a word, and it became the behind the scenes family joke between all of us. Then one day while I was dropping off some groceries for her, and found her out in the garage, furiously attempting to remove the bumper sticker…when I asked her why, she snapped “Oh as if you didn’t know!” at me and went on one of her well-worn tirades about homosexuality being disgusting, blah blah blah, and then complained bitterly that she couldn’t get the sticker off. So I told her that I’d heard that Coke (the soda, not the other thing, lol) worked really well to remove glue and that she should liberally apply it to both the sticker and the surrounding area and leave it to soak for at least 24 hours and left. Ps: Hey - I wasn’t lying…it DID remove the sticker & residue (along with the paint in that entire area 😇).

[@microqueen69]

Devious!

[@nasdfghidgf8081]

I love this perfect just perfect ending

[@efulmer8675]

This is awesome! I laughed so hard.

[@Minceraft69]

Loool. I have quite a few relatives who I'd like to do that to. (Also, I can just imagine suggesting using the other type of coke to get it off)

[@Konpekikaminari]

Played her like a fiddle

[@ladyalicent705]

“Super Straight” sounds like compensating for the same thing Lord Farquaad is with his Big Castle

[@YourManMichael]

Remember folks, pronouns DO NOT equal gender. You can be cis while being okay with all pronouns, you can be non-binary and not prefer they/them pronouns, and etc!

[@yumikodazaiswaifu]

This is quite useful, thank you, I didn't really know that until now

[@taika3471]

YES! THANK YOU

[@OmniscientWarrior]

While the are neuter pronouns (I, we, us, they...), there are also gendered pronouns (he, she, girls...)- ones that are defined by gender. There is also ones that a neuter but use masculine form [this can lead to some confusion in some cases] (he, man, guys...). And there are words for things that cannot have gender (it... that is all I can think of at the moment); this is reserved for objects and a few other things like rocks and trees. And words that can be applied regardless of gender status (this, those, that...).

[@eMorphized]

@@OmniscientWarrior Except for the fact that that is just how they're normally used, and they can be used in other ways. Gym teachers often will call an exclusively male group "ladies", for example.

[@OmniscientWarrior]

@@eMorphized That is you missing the use of sarcasm or trying to belittle someone in a manner to motivate someone to strive harder. That is a case of calling a group of males with an incorrect pronoun to say that they need to push themselves to become faster and/or stronger to become of physical stature equal to that of a man, but right now they are lacking. Sarcasm is to use something in a manner that it doesn't fit. Like I will sometimes feign protest to not do what I was asked but saying, "You're not my real [insert opposite gender parental title here]." I do this to everyone, including parents. E.G. My dad asks me to do something and I respond, "I don't have to listen to you. You're not my real mom." But both of those don't work if some pronouns don't have a gender value behind them.

[@TheSchuyler75]

i asked my teen if they were a furry irl and they reminded me they don’t want me watching the click to which i replied “UWU “ and though they wanted to be mad they couldn’t help but laugh. as a mother i’ve never felt any better feeling than making my teen laugh…..even if it’s at my expense

[@idislikemints]

We need more parents like you.

[@ilikedarknes3351]

Awh thats really cute, I hope you guys are doing well :)

[@kiwii_kid42]

UVU

[@TheAetherleaf]

@@kiwii_kid42 UWU

[@kiwii_kid42]

@@TheAetherleaf UMU

[@kaineedshelp]

Shortly after my grandmother died, I came out as bisexual. I hated to think about what she would have thought of me, as we were very close. When telling this to my mother, she told me a story she had heard from a staff member at my grandmother's old age home. The staff member's son was getting married to another man, and their entire family cut them off. Because she worked in a home full of old people, she was scared to say anything. Cautiously, she mentioned it to my grandmother. A day after her son got married, my grandmother came to her late at night saying: "Well? I'm waiting, show me pictures of the wedding!" My grandmother was 80, and this came as an extremely pleasant surprise. R.I.P, Granny💜

[@previously-._.-katu]

I'm sorry for your loss. Your grandma seemed like an amazing person!

[@MysteryGuradian]

RIP 😔

[@Jellybeansatdusk]

Go Granny ❤

[@syedmujtaba9825]

@@Jellybeansatdusk😅

[@elizabethafton1883]

Sorry for your loss, my grandma is homophobic and I’m constantly worried my parents will tell her I’m Bi since they found out while going through my phone and they grounded me for lying to them so I’m constantly worried they lied to me or will change their mind to prove a point that lying is bad and teach me a lesson. If my grandma looked at the KZbin videos I watch she would kill me for watching lgbtqia+ videos or TikTok stuff. To make this worse I cry almost any time an adult scolds me for anything (with the exception of a teacher or principal yelling at the whole grade because at school I’m a good kid I just break about 20 rules at home)

[@jamdva8176]

"Daddy, I've been a bad boy. Father, I have sinned" Holy shyte, man, that's some daddy issues right on our bingo chart!

[@SecondDraft]

I'm transitioning, male to female. I would work really hard on my appearance, got myself looking a cute kind of way. One day, I wasn't feeling it. I was just meh... what ever. I threw on some pants, threw on my boy's hoodie I wore back in high school and just went out to get some food. I thought I looked like I did back in high school. Get up the cashier to take my order "Can I help you ma'am?" Woah, wait, what? O_O

[@cloudyyysan]

scoreee!!

[@omegadragons321]

proud of u 👍

[@SecondDraft]

@@omegadragons321

[@Thatbo2599]

Get help

[@queenoonaofdreamland1418]

@@Thatbo2599 What do you mean by that? Why would she have to get help?

[@joyrose7304]

My dad: No men will ever want you! My Mom: *silently cracking up in the back ground because she know I'm ace*

[@screaming_cat2007]

That’s a sitcom waiting to happen

[@joyrose7304]

@@screaming_cat2007 My life is basically a sitcom and I hate it

[@screaming_cat2007]

@@joyrose7304 film it and you get very rich very fast

[@trakinasdelimao]

hey, but ace isnt having no sexual interess? i didnt understood the joke. would be happy if you explain :)

[@joyrose7304]

@@trakinasdelimao Well, it was more fun to me because I'm aro/very not interested rather than because I'm ace but my mom didn't know that, It does say a lot more about how both my parents see relationships than anything Honestly, it's just a turn-off your brain and basque in the feeling of accidental validation kind of joke :)

[@asriel4881]

As a spaniard myself, I can confirm that having gaysper (that's how we call the rainbow ghost at 5:14 ) as an emote would be absolutely hilarious

[@jennoscura2381]

LOL Gaysper! Was it La Falange that made gaysper o hay otros fascistas en España?

[@asriel4881]

@@jennoscura2381 Fortunately, la Falange is kinda dead. It was created by a far right party called Vox. They are technically not fascists but they look up to them in almost every single way possible, so yeah, I guess you could consider them neofascists

[@luciphyx.2733]

Gaysper. Omg that's so cute. How did they create something so cute with such evil behind it..

[@arfansthename]

oh cuz casper...

[@DoYouWannaGetBigShotInTheChest]

​@@luciphyx.2733GAYSTER BLAYSTER ATTACK!

[@silvia-narity]

For anyone who needs some actual validation: You're amazing! Being gay/bi/pan etc and/or non-binary/trans/fluid/etc doesn't make you a worse person. Accept who you are, because you're incredibly cute and awesome! Even if you're cis and straight, you're a great person! It doesn't make you """BoRinG""" or """bLanD""", it's who you are and I love you! Thank you

[@Hekskskdkdkskbjsjh]

Wow you included a lot ty -sincerely youre local aroace invading Denmark

[@lottilicious]

Thank you 🥹

[@ascende_superius]

That's so sweet thank youuu

[@rori..2191]

I'm straight but thank you for this comment

[@dkpolice2010]

Being gay,bi,pan,trans,ninja,helicopter,lesbian doesn’t matter What matter is if you are a dick or not

[@Cammi_Rosalie]

If you're wondering, "Where the hell is my Straight Pride month?!" "Where is my straight rights march or parade?" Just be thankful that you are not subject to the hate, fear, violence and discrimination that necessitates a straight pride month, march or parade. We're not doing it to be "in your face" We're doing it to let the bigots and haters know that we are who we are. And that no amount of their hate or more appropriately their fear, (because that is ultimately where it begins) will make us go away. We're here. We're among you. Most of you see us every day. You interact with us, ride the bus or maybe even carpool with us. You live next door and never even realize it. We're real. We're not ashamed. We love who we love, and are who we are. We live our lives. We do this in the face of violence, hate bigotry, and discrimination. We go on even when some of us are KILLED for being who we are. We feel. We cry. We remember. We honor. We carry on. We pull together. We love. We laugh. We smile. We care. We try. We do. We just are. And we always will, because we will not be forced to live a life that is not ours to live. We are proud of that! THAT is what Pride means to me. Some still judge others by the amount of melanin in their skin. Society at large has rejected such bias and discrimination. Yet people like myself are largely judged by something equally as uncontrollable as skin tone. Our identities. If somebody is not harming you, creeping on you, messing with kids, or doing other harm by living their lives, then LET THEM BE! There are bad apples in every bunch. Just like society rejects a killer or r@pist, we too, reject the monsters among humanity. Regardless of their preference or identities. Look, I don't want some big LGBT++ superiority thing. We're not superior. We're not inferior either. WE ARE ALL HUMAN! We just want to live our lives as we see fit, in peace. I don't want to be in your face. I just want to be.

[@alexshemwell8320]

We have to stand up and say we're proud because a lot of people have told us to be ashamed of who we are. It's not because we're better than anyone.

[@door-chan]

You could say that every other month is the straight month...

[@coffeezombie6813]

3 weeks and this only had 24 likes? I wish I could give you more than one like for this. This needs to be posted on every social media platform out there. Very well said and well written. THANK YOU for putting it into words that so many of us could never come up with.

[@jackriver8385]

Every month is cishet month, we only get one. And during that month there's also usually more hate thrown our way because at that time we are more visible and big corporations try to capitalise off of our fight for our basic human rights, dignity, and respect.

[@sxmplyblossom8048]

damn! Such an underrated comment! Great job.

[@flamingdeadcat3079]

The fact that people can transition so flawlessly you can't tell a difference is amazing...

[@JDM-is-my-name]

Makes you proud to be alive

[@jennoscura2381]

Yea some people can. I am jelly of the trans women who pass as cis. I unfortunately don't. But I could easily see a transphobe thinking I am FtoM; especially when I am in butch mode.

[@OriginalCreatorSama]

It also proves that gender and sex are fluid since it's so easy to add or subtract a few chemicals and entirely change how someone looks/sounds.

[@1SKRAAC1D]

@@jennoscura2381 what does FtoM mean

[@jennoscura2381]

@@1SKRAAC1D Female to Male

[@soliasilverman5037]

The little rat in the back of my mind is like “nobody ever cares about us straight people anymore! It’s like we don’t exist!” And than I remember… I’m gay

[@PlushiePoogle]

Randomly got recommended your channel today and I gotta say, YT finally did something right! I've only watched 3 of your videos so far but I've laughed more in the last hour or so than I have all week!

[@someoneinacrysis8114]

same thing happened to me last year lol

[@theinfamouslemon]

@@someoneinacrysis8114 me too

[@donotlikepie3356]

Fun fact: when I was young I was afraid of referring to trans people as a gender because of people like this always confusing me about what trans men or women meant and I didn't want to misgender anyone.

[@Christinathegirl-77]

The same concept Applys to far shightnes and short shightnes in Glasses. People are alway confused, witch of them mean that you are abel to see in the distence or in the near in.

[@i_have_no.life.]

Same and I was always too scared to ask and anytime I'd look it up I'd get more confused lol

[@i_have_no.life.]

I think I only finally understood when I saw the queer community consistently using ftm, mtf, afab, amab.

[@CassieReynolds-se7rh]

I still have to allow myself a second to mentally connect the pronouns to the person, despite knowing which goes with which (does that sound wrong?) to make sure I’m right

[@alicewilloughby4318]

9:10 -I've heard that, in the old days, fathers who suspected their sons of being gay would often send them to sea. On a ship with all men. Yes, on the assumption that fresh sea air and lots of hard work and "manly" discipline would somehow straighten them out. Doubt if it worked. 10:14 - I love this! 😁😁😁

[@TheLocal_Lesbian]

3:34 Mango flew too perfectly there

[@verlice.]

One time my dad found out i was trans and blamed it on the milk my mom buys LMAO

[@genericname2747]

Nobody chooses to be trans. They're made trans through the power of Trans Milk

[@maybe_minty_fresh]

drink the trans milk

[@verlice.]

@@maybe_minty_fresh don't worry, i did

[@maybe_minty_fresh]

@@verlice. phew, things would’ve gone out of hand otherwise

[@littlearies3862]

Water makes the frogs gay. Milk makes humans trans. Explains my very inconsistent habits regarding milk.

[@sebastianrubin7476]

I think the dad who sent his bi daughter to an all-girl school was trying to use the logic of forcing someone to smoke a whole pack of cigarettes to stop them from smoking. I'm not sure what that would imply for his mental state, but then, the entire story made me question whether he had a mind to begin with.

[@atg4eva]

"You're not allowed to like boys, only girls"

[@kor1sh0k53]

Tbh he just made it less an option for her to find an opossite-gender partner, which is definetely what he wanted... geez did he forgot how to think

[@nymph0logyyx]

I love how Alabama allows incest but not gay marriage so ironic 💀💀

[@spykillergames8402]

@@jamescara7286 until two female cousins want to marry then they are all for it....since more incest....

[@katyungodly]

I grew up in Alabama, can confirm

[@Chaotic_evil_duck]

All the incest made them stupid

[@gachamelzz]

MEL FAN ❤❤

[@nymph0logyyx]

@@gachamelzz YESSSSSS

[@BenRollinsActor]

Screw being an emote on the Discord server, the Rainbow Ghost needs to be a plushie.

[@piperjaycie]

I would love that!!

[@OmniscientWarrior]

Not sure how well it would work as a plushie, but it can make a cute pin/button.

[@chatboulon743]

@@OmniscientWarrior Yes. A pin or even a sticker would work better for rainbow ghost. That little guy is adorable af.

[@Clara_Page]

I came across that rainbow ghost the other day but I didn't know it's origins...I thought it was the icon for an LGBTQIA+ social app

[@badgermacfeegal618]

Agreed!

[@judgementbird2248]

If anyone was ever curious, there IS a straight flag It is Literally just a black and white striped flag lmao

[@Bunneeee]

💀💀💀

[@grobbelaarthibaud]

I'm straight, rip we got the most boring flag here- atleast it's not Red, black and white.. if you get what I mean.

[@Sacred_Rain]

@@grobbelaarthibaudYeah, big RIP, straight flag is so boring. Wish we had a better flag than just- black and white. Sad

[@94DeathAngel]

I guess that makes sense, it's the opposite of the rainbow. But that's hella boring. we got cooler flags with better colors. 😎

[@flaxyus996]

​@@grobbelaarthibaudas a Russian, that hits close to home💀 also I think there is a cis flag which is pink and blue? Like bi but without purple or smthn

[@blooming.error.2227]

I once had a panic attack in class because my teacher yelled at me no proper reason. Two weeks prior she told us to prepare a presentation about something, I don't even remember my topic... Anyways, she also told us that in case we had the next wednesday free we didn't have to do it. We had the wednesday off. So of course I did not do the presentation. Half of the class didn't. But. She decided to scold my friend and straight up yell at me. Because of that I started to panic. As I was full on crying she thought that it would be a great idea to misgender me together with the transphobic kids. Later another girl noticed that I wasn't just crying. I was allowed to go outside and stayed away from class for half an hour. Half a year later I work in a flower shop. My Co-workers respect my pronouns and call me by my name. Not my Deadname. I feel so much more respected there. Plus I am like a learning experience for everyone else because I am the first trans male. I get respected by my family and finally (after a year of coming out) get into trans therapy. I am pretty happy now. But I still hate this lady. She obviously didn't like me and I know it wasn't only because I was trans. I did some pretty respect less things. But still it wasn't necessary for her to tell me "I would never be a boy.".

[@BadabingBadaboom69]

True Disrespect the person, not their gender If someone (preferably a cis person) ever tells you that they won't respect someone's gender due to their personality, try misgendering them when they are being mean/rude and watch them steam with anger Funny how much hypocrisy is in this world

[@cigarettedaydr3am]

that's horrible! im glad you got away from that teacher though!

[@hefrogintheswamp7789]

The one with the dad being homophobic and putting his bisexual daughter in an all girls school killed me 🤣

[@Randsomm]

Impossible punishments

[@liketrainslol420funni]

The true punishment would have been sending her to an all boys school

[@LexiJay8446]

All he did was give the kid a chance with the ladies instead of doing the impossible "fixing" the "problem"😂😂😂😂

[@RonLarhz]

I'm not sure if i regret not going to girl school tho. On one hand I've heard many positive stories of people having girlfriends there but on the other hand, since all girl school in my country is christian school, there were punishments and discrimination.... I was in mix sch and was bullied/ostracised and of cos no girlfriend 😩

[@fart63]

⁠@@RonLarhzas a lesbian I went to an all girls middle school and it was fucking horrible. All of them are different. And if yours is religious, there’s almost no chance of it being a supportive environment.

[@Froggediah]

I'm here to state a fact. Being Christian doesn't make you LGBTQphobic. Being hyper religious does, or having belief in incorrect religious belfies does, but not being Christian in general.

[@eurodara]

well, depends on what version of Christianity it is

[@chrisb.3353]

Well I'm just going to say it here, but I'm Chris (5:42 lol) and I'm saying that first off you're right, being Christian doesn't make you LGBTQphobic as I'm also Christian (funny coincidence there) and I fully believe that whatever a person decides, is their choice and that we should accept them for who they are.👍There are some people who aren't like me though and indeed are as you described, hyper religious and disagree with my opinion though. And second: don't steal my identity lol

[@internetlurker1850]

Yeah, the NIV really messed up translations, replacing pederasty(it is basically pedophilia) with homophobia(the reason why there are few things against pedophilia in the bible, because there originally was, but people replaced pederasty with gay people) and also replacing malakoi(soft) with homosexual or effeminate(the word homosexual didn't even exist yet), and also re-contextualizing things to make them seem like they are against gay people, but the bible doesn't really say anything against being gay.

[@PrototypeSpaceMonkey]

I went to a christian primary school and had a classmate that was clearly unhappy as a boy. She got along really well with the other girls, and none of the students or teachers ever gave her any crap (for as far as I could tell) even though it was common knowledge that she dressed like a girl at home. I hear she recently completed her transition, but last I heard she still considers herself a christian.

[@olivers.7821]

Still religions suck

[@Katspaw156]

"If I had a nickel for every time a homophobe thought that the trans flag was the straight flag, I would have two nickels, which isn't a lot but it's weird that it happened twice"

[@GhostAnimationStudio]

As an aromatic and asexual the rainbow ghost is like the perfect representation of myself as if a line represents attraction (as in how we say straight or bent) then those without are representatively non-existent aka a ghost!

[@Hekskskdkdkskbjsjh]

I’m a lesbian aroace so I’m a ghost with slightly more opacity haha

[@dartdart1651]

@@Hekskskdkdkskbjsjh how are you a lesbian and aroace? Genuinely curious -

[@Lili-ef1yd]

i love being aromatic 🤩

[@musilovesbooks]

im ace :) so, ya like garlic bread?

[@GhostAnimationStudio]

@@musilovesbooks I’ll live on the stuff for eternity

[@supremeplatypus7192]

This subreddit is just "Transphobes don't know shit lol" a thousand times and I love it

[@Amayawolf_01]

It's funny hearing Click say "booba" because I love boba tea so much that my mom got me a shirt with a ghost drinking boba and it says "Boo-ba" Right over my chest. I'm a woman, I don't have a big chest, but I think it's hilarious.

[@thatoneartkid_]

3:34 Go fourth my boy! *mango breaks something glass* And at this moment click knew he f*cked up

[@FaerieWithAHalo]

“Are you a god” On several levels. IT’S TOUGH TO BE A GOD!

[@hellmark6666]

Road to el Dorado?

[@chatboulon743]

@@hellmark6666 Most likely. It's the only acceptable answer.

[@hellmark6666]

@@chatboulon743 😆

[@ink2812]

Y e s

[@-Breen-]

... TREAD WHERE MORTALS HAVE NO TROD

[@Vahlee-A]

As a straight man of color it's so painful hearing stories of trans people who have to endure this shit from hateful cisgender people. I know two personally. They are human, looking for acceptance in an unaccepting world. One of them said I was the first person to acknowledge his preferred pronouns (transitioned to male). The others in his own family don't, mostly because his mom won't let them. I love these two people to death, they're the best humans I've ever known, so when others don't acknowledge their preferred pronouns, they're both extremely hurt. Those who aren't part of the LGBT community can't fully understand how painful it is, not even me. EDIT Monday February 21, 2022 - I've since come out as nonbinary. I don't like the stigma of being a man, all the macho expectations that society creates for men, or knowing that I've contributed to the suffering of women.

[@John_Weiss]

Dude, you _rock!_

[@biscutboi813]

I can understand what its like trying to be accepted even though youre on the trans spectrum (I'm nervous to call myself trans, but I'm around there). Its hard. Really is. Those two people you know are strong and loved, and I'm happy you show them that.

[@Vahlee-A]

@@biscutboi813- I am not trans. I'm just an ally of the trans community trying to understand what trans people go through and help other people show compassion for them.

[@gayfrogribbit]

Dude you're awesome.

[@Ajehy]

You rock. Allies unite!

[@Notmyname1593]

That last "never calling anyone them (and history stuff)" guy would not have loved to greet/ speak to a king/ queen a couple centuries ago.

[@MaesonBeck-fo8kd]

I never understood transphobia. I’m a trans man and I’ve been told that I can’t get a girlfriend (I’m bi-curious leaning toward an attraction to men) and I’m like “but cis men can’t do what I do, though?” When they respond with confusion I return my the main points -I understand why feminists are advocating for equality -I get when people complain about their period, that shite hurts -I can find the cl¡t

[@hoshitoshi]

i will never understand why all these transphobes just can't understand the fact that a transman is a man, a transwoman is a woman, etc. like... why the HELL would i call myself a "transwoman" if i identify as a dude, that's so contradictory. their confusion makes for great entertainment though, lmaoo

[@noobatredstone3001]

It makes sense if you’re only looking at what the word is composed of and ignore the context

[@thehotwheelsreviews]

If a transphobe made the terms for some whatever reason, that's what they'd be, so that's probably what transphobes think

[@SoulQueenoD]

They don't even understand pronouns, it makes sense that they don't understand what trans means

[@Ceracio]

Because to come to that conclusion, they would have to put themselves in someone else's shoes, which they're obviously incapable of, seeing as they are transphobic.

[@JoylessBurrito]

I kinda think it's because _they_ don't see trans people as the gender they identify as. They think of a person transitioning MTF as a man pretending to be a woman, not as a woman, so they the "man" in "transman" is the gender assigned at birth.

[@Mx.RumpusParable]

I truly love it when the idea for “fixing the gay” in someone is sending them into single-sex or hyper-gendered stereotype situations…. Single sex schools, the military, gay conversion camps that are liberal arts school stereotypes in the woods…. I’m pansexual and my earliest girl-on-girl games was thanks to Girl Scouts overnights after parents left the troop(s) alone for the evening to have our OBVIOUSLY totally G rated fun because we all had the same genitals.

[@spidersae2wswd54]

so,you favorite part of ya house is the kitchen jesus this has to be to one of the most unfunny joke i ever did

[@Unresponsive13]

@@spidersae2wswd54 At least you're aware of it, and meant it as a joke. Some people are like that unironically.

[@localheaddealer1382]

​@@Unresponsive13 oh my, people like jokes like that?

[@kagarinne]

I told my mom how I was feeling weird in my body again, and how I desperately wanted to be a guy again but didn't wanna make crazy decisions. She didn't answer me, and I started overthinking it the entire day and even went into a close call anxiety attack. I came home from school the other day and my mom greeted me with "How'd my son enjoy school?" I cried. she's 30 and uses no labels herself, she said she experimented a lot in highschool so she'll always understand how i feel. she said she went through crazy transitions but back in the day for her, they didn't use labels except tell you that you were 'moraaly incorrect' she told me these words. "Go with the flow." "You're young, keep experimenting."

[@mcsuperplayer]

this right here is a W mother

[@meh9677]

I'm glad you have such an open-minded mom! She may not entirely understand what you're going through or may not know how to help you at all times, but i'm sure she's someone you'll always be able to depend on!💜

[@PrettiestPrincipleInLife]

6:56 J.K DARLING PLEASE, YOURE KILLING ME 👏 🤣

[@OriginalCreatorSama]

"I don't know what a 'cis' is but it shouldn't be allowed in front of children!" You're absolutely right, sir, you shouldn't be anywhere near children. EDIT: typos

[@Depressed_Spider]

@Richdragon To be fair, children are pretty scary. Especially if they're very fresh, then they're all like "Hmm, delicious plutonium!"

[@Depressed_Spider]

@Richdragon Cooking is hard. You need to get everything just right. Such a job would just stress me out and kill me. FIguratively. Not literally. That would be plutonium.

[@electrorage4158]

Well that's cool. Solve hate with more hate

[@SeanPat1001]

A few things came to mind while watching this video. 1. The Japanese language has pronouns but people seldom use them and many words which have gender pairs in English I have simply one form in Japanese. For example, “自の” can mean “his” or “her.” Looking at Japanese literature, it seems that there is a general uncertainty about gender in the culture as well. That is, young men are uncertain about what it means to be a man. This was played on in the manga/anime “ Ramana 1/2“ in which a teenage boy could be transformed into a girl if splashed with cold water. This manga/anime is very popular in Japan. 2. About 50 years ago I read a very interesting paper describing the fact that approximately one or two babies per 10,000 births are sexually indeterminate at birth. Back then, doctors would either flip a coin or ask the parents whether they wanted a boy or a girl and then make a surgical “adjustment”. So, I wondered how many of that generation were actually of one gender and were surgically altered to appear to be of another. Life would have been much simpler if people had just waited until puberty. At the very least, life would be easier if one could state TBD, instead of being forced to designate either M or F on a birth certificate. I noticed that a lot of people use the term, “designated at birth.“ I wonder how many of them actually know what that means. 3. Of course transgender issues involve the individual psyche, as well as any physical attributes, and are much more complicated than a visual inspection at birth. Perhaps, we should adopt the German convention of referring to children as neuter and not identify them sexually until they have completed puberty. 4. Some straight women cannot conceive children, either. It’s not like transgender is creating a new problem. Disclaimer. These are all personal observations and not based on any qualifications I have. Please feel free to ignore them completely.

[@deletedflame8424]

Small correction from a German. Children are very much still gendered from birth. Same conventions with pink or blue clothes, same stereotypes and socialization as much of the rest of the western world.

[@SeanPat1001]

@@deletedflame8424 Ah! Even at the age of 75, I can learn something new. Danke Schöne 😁

[@giboi03]

If you're interested, there's also a manga that expands upon you thoughts and the Ranma 1/2 themes called Seibetsu "Mona Lisa" No Kimi E A world where kids are quite literally genderless until puberty, where they naturally start to steer towards one of the two gender identities. And if you're wondering about how sexuality comes into play, don't worry, they get existential with that later on.

[@peoniibud]

Chinese didn’t really have “genders” until we had contact with yt people, there a comic that explains it on tumblr that really resonated with me

[@OmniscientWarrior]

@@deletedflame8424 The irony of people using colors to define gender. Pink is a subset of red and red is considered masculine. Blue is also considered a more gentle color and thus considered feminine. Somewhere, someone decided to try to swap things around a bit, and it caught on but only partially.

[@aromanticfranziskavonkarma]

my favorite breed of accidental allies are the ones who say "you'll never be a real woman/man".. but to the wrong trans person

[@BrokenLonelynLost]

Yes I was very disturbed by the ban on marriage here in Alabama simply because they didn’t want to marry gay couples it was so ridiculous

[@Tea-nj7db]

i told my friend i was a lesbian the other day and he said 'would you date a trans man?' and i said 'no- they arent a gi- do you mean trans woman???' and he went 'oh yeah a trans woman sorry'- (HE IS A TRANS MAN HIMSELF- HOW IS IT SO CONFUSING-)

[@SevyS7]

I find it easier if people say mtf or ftm tbh

[@Gecko730]

@@SevyS7 what does mtf means?

[@SevyS7]

@@Gecko730 male to female, ftm is vice versa

[@mythicalist]

@@Gecko730 "Male to female"

[@LCLcommitssocialsuicide]

@@Gecko730 male to female

[@allhailexoticanimals8866]

Click: God Forsaken Creature His Discord: “UWU Wholesome beans only OwO no cursed content here.” Me: *Confused Screaming*

[@bundroid9793]

I joined it yesterday. It was wholesome cursed in my opinion, lol

[@rainbowkittyz9629]

"You are now Chris." "Oh." I died sbhbhsvgbg💀💀

[@kitturstars]

I read this the same time he said that

[@LittleHelperFan]

Jesu Chris

[@rosiefay7283]

3:50 "So, you were *looking* at them...?"

[@lizard_977]

I choked on rice 🤣

[@someone-re7sq]

this one time i told my grandma about a gay couple i saw on accident forgetting that she probably has no idea that exists she went "wait that exists?" and i said "yeah" and she simply told me to continue luv u grandma

[@amethyst1062]

Ah. When I was 7 I thought it was only possible for a man to love a woman and a woman to love a man and I hated dating in general I subconsciously had a crush on all the boys in my friend group but didn’t want to date them or anyone at all since that would be weird since my entire school(all the kids) hated dating since we thought it was just trouble Years later I’m biro ace

[@7SillySins]

@@amethyst1062I thought so too because I had never met an LGBT+ person so I always thought I only had crushes on boys in my classes, but in reality they were just inflated attractions that lasted a few weeks cause I liked the they physically looked. It wasn’t until I was 10-11 in 5th grade when I had a huge crush on a girl in my class, that I realized it was possible to like someone of the same gender. And later I found out that my older half sister was a lesbian and my parents were supportive of her, so I had no problems with accepting my own sexuality

[@keirfarnum6811]

Someone must have convinced some phobes that the trans flag is the straight flag and it took off. Whoever they are, they’re a genius and I salute them. ✊🏻

[@PidgeyHowler]

Not all non-binary people even use they/them. There are plenty of enby people who use he or she. I may prefer they, but I am personally fully comfortable with she as well. Doesn't bother me at all.

[@penksglid7475]

Same lol, I feel like they fits me more, but as long as someone supports me for who I am it doesn't matter what pronouns they use :)

[@ilikedarknes3351]

I am nonbinary and use they/he pronouns I would be perfectly fine being called he/him only I can tell by hearing people talk about pronouns and connecting it to gender, the allies for the most part seem to only know 5 genders Female (she/her) demigirl (she/they) nonbinary (they/them) demiboy (he/they) Male (he/him) And they typically think that nonbinary means agender I can't blame them because thats how I thought too I wish people were more educated about this though.

[@buffbarneystan3280]

Enby here, will verify. Im cool with literally anything besides she/her lol

[@anastasiao4036]

I feel like I may be non-binary since I don't care at all what you call me. She, he, they, penguin, waste of space, whatever.

[@miraru_ch]

@@anastasiao4036 so genderfluid?

[@hopeanuolifani8314]

10:03 I hate how people think g*y people have robbed the rainbow. The flag has same colours, but does NOT mean the same thing This is a regular rainbow: 🌈 This is the flag:🏳️‍🌈 The rainbow also has lighter colours that the flag

[@progenitor_amborella]

You know how Hawaii has had the rainbow the rainbow🌈 on their driver’s licenses and license plates since forever? Would it surprise you to hear that suddenly some specific legislators want to remove them? 🤦‍♂️

[@inker_monkey]

why’d you censor gay 😭😭

[@hopeanuolifani8314]

@@inker_monkey not sure what words youtube allows

[@kitchensink_xan]

As a non-binary person who leans to a more masculine personality, I love all the support we get from Click, please, keep helping us out as LGBTQ+ youth, it’s hell ;-;

[@BadabingBadaboom69]

America?

[@JanMaynz]

Enby? More like enBOY! Eh, eh? I knew the joke was terrible before I even clicked to comment and still felt like sharing the lameness. I am proud, as I tell all tellers of lame jokes to be. (All dad jokes are lame jokes, but not all lame jokes are dad jokes)

[@BrayThyBrat]

4:52 They probably hired an artist and told them "Make a ghost with pride Colors" And the artist thought they were supportive so they made it cute And they just didn't realize it was a cute ghost.

[@fridayweekend7775]

A hug to everyone who isn’t sure of their identity and sexuality yet: **hug* Take your time And anyway you’re perfect

[@tyraboden2800]

didn't know I needed that, thanks :)

[@fridayweekend7775]

@@tyraboden2800 😊

[@vinylcreeks]

Thanks 💙💙

[@murdocdean]

Thank u😭

[@GoodEevee]

Thank

[@himynameisace]

9:53 fun fact: gay can also mean colorful. It can also mean jolly/happy. That's probably what it meant.

[@heatherkirk6265]

lol the “I’m not even trans” one I relate to. one time I was at the grocery store and I handed my reusable bags to the cashier and she was like “oh these bags smell like girl!” (weird comment to begin with), and made other really weird comments about how feminine I was (I was wearing a grey beanie, jeans, a hoodie, and my hair was in a bun under my hat). so finally, after paying, I said “I guess that would make sense, given that I’m a girl.” and then walked away. it was really bizarre.