r/AITA Exposed Brothers Malintent Actions Forcing Brother Out Of Fathers Will

[@MarkNarrations]

Hey lovely people, hope you're weekend is as awesome as you!

[@Park-Kim_VMin]

@Mark Hope you do too You spicy so-and-so

[@phoenix5044]

My weekend really is doing awesome

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

You too🤗🤗💜💜

[@Pidgeyato]

No u

[@Tammohawk1]

We might actually get rain this weekend. Our drought stricken land could use it.

[@helenafarkas4534]

story one: YOUR selfishness? HE'S the one trying to claim his inheritance before your dad is even DEAD. no, wait, not even HIS inheritance, YOUR inheritance. NTA

[@jackspring7709]

He's a slimebag. I'm glad the father did something about it.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

@@jackspring7709 Me too. Greedy Garbage Brother can pound sand.

[@ChrisAndCats]

Exactly. If the op felt bad, they could do the trust with his share as mentioned in the comments of the video.

[@bonnieelizabeth2629]

But their are gonna starve with Only 4.5 million

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

​@@bonnieelizabeth2629 Is that so? Then his wife might want to get a second job.

[@eponymoususer8923]

As far as Hannah is concerned, some lessons hurt. It’s traumatic. I feel like he should have allowed her to run off as soon as it was too much and then showed her that she wasn’t ready for that, and use that to show her other things she’s not ready for.

[@jeffdredd1172]

He didn't keep her there though did he? Comments kept saying he forced her to sit through it but he just told her she could watch it if she wanted and she sat through the whole thing...she should have left but she was being stubborn. Maybe she's learned her lesson now.

[@toothless3835]

@@jeffdredd1172 Yeah. She's old enough to have been informed "this is a scary movie. You don't want to watch it. If you do, you got to stay through it all." And he didn't make her not hide during scary parts. Or force her to watch it clockwork orange style. He gave her a choice. She chose poorly. She'll get over it.

[@novabomb564]

The father was actually trying to parent and not give into his daughter so nta. He didn't hold her there and could have ran off at any time but she wanted to prove a point, the people saying that the family room should be for everyone or no one is just giving in to her selfish behavior and punishing the others

[@spoopsfordays4311]

"Don't sue your sibling or you lose your inheritance." "So what if I did just that?" "You lose your inheritance." *shocked pikachu face*

[@MarkNarrations]

Haha!

[@ladyv5655]

Darwin was right.

[@maurer3d]

That and the fact that the dad is still alive. Who hires a lawyer to sue the estate before there is an estate to sue. Sounds like the brother was planning on hiring a hitman, to speed up the inheritance.

[@lancerevell5979]

One simple rule..... and he bolloxed it. 🙄

[@WolfgangDoW]

@@maurer3d cutting his nose off te spite his face

[@Jeremy-The-Bullfrog]

Story 1: It's not OP's decision, It's her, still very alive, father's, nobody should be treating her like it is.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

I agree with you. And quite frankly, I don't blame Dad for changing his will. I would too. If he's willing to screw over his sister, imagine what would happen if Dad becomes old and frail and needs him. Entitled family members are a huge pet peeve of mine.

[@dracawyn]

Story 3: "they're just kids! They don't know any better!" Yeah, because you, as their mother, haven't taught them any better.

[@janicewilcox8590]

I wanna like this 112 times or so

[@jackspring7709]

Oh, nice one! :D

[@wmdkitty]

I unliked this, like, five times, just so I could like it again.

[@lancerevell5979]

Yep, kids must be taught. Simple parenting. If I had to pick this junk up, it goes to the landfill. If I accidentally run over a bike, best pray my car isn't damaged! A new tire isn't cheap, and neighbor would be billed.

[@jackspring7709]

@@wmdkitty Lol.

[@SLTheOneAndAwesome19]

Story 6: NTA. I'm vegan and living with my non-vegan partner. I never put pressure on him to not eat meat. My only condition is that I won't cook meat for him. If I see that he left food out, I go to him and ask, "Hey, are you still eating that?" before tossing it. It's common courtesy.

[@KyrieChii]

That is a healthy way to cohabitate. He's being intentionally petty & inconsiderate, & there is obviously a serious lack of respect for OP in that household/relationship that I'm sure probably extends to other areas of their life.

[@lenabluejay1166]

Agreed! I’m vegetarian, (I’d like to go vegan but don’t think I could) and I will respect others’ choices as long as they respect my choice too.

[@pezchef7577]

I liked how he stated the living room is a mutual place, so why don't you abid by what I want. so much contradiction in one statement.

[@FlamesofJagger]

Story 2: I can't believe the girlfriend said that mowing the law is a 'guys' job. My 60something year old mother and I alternate mowing the lawn at home. We don't complain about it much, other than not having time to do regularly because we both work during the week.

[@ceeshnia]

Right? I just got in from mowing mine, and it's only halfway done because it's stupidly big and I needed to let it cool before putting more gas in.

[@Steampunkkids]

Seriously it’s stupid! My Dad had me using ride-on mower when I was 14 and the push-mower at 16. I spent every summer until I moved permanently out-of-state mowing those two acres of land. Girl Power with the Lawn Mower!

[@ceeshnia]

@@Steampunkkids We have our mowers, we have our axes, we have our weed whackers, and we have our hatchets! Don't mess with us!

[@leviathan8215]

Yeah using sexist excuses when you don’t want to do some thing is super low

[@Steampunkkids]

@@ceeshnia You know it! We are no fragile flowers who are afraid to get our nails chipped!!!

[@macylouwho1187]

“Mowing the lawn is a man’s job” 😂. What a flippin’ entitled princess! My mother is in her 60’s and she still mows her lawn with both a rider and a push mower. My husband works six days a week so “I” mow what amounts to a city block of land on our property about once a week depending on growth rate. That includes the trim mowing with a push mower. And yes, you can do this in manicured long nails like I do, Princess. Is it dirty? Yes. Hot? Yes. Are you too special to have to do that? Nope. In this day and age of equality and women’s rights-why should men have to do everything hard to do? Why is it always on them? Hell, my neighbor is the mayor and a state police officer, and his petite cute little stylish wife with great clothes and perfectly cut/styled/highlighted hair goes out and mows their yard. Granted, she’s got a big powerful riding lawn mower that makes short work of it-but hey she does it herself every week. If we can do it, you can do it. Suck it up, buttercup 😉

[@brigidtheirish]

Exactly! Dad's disabled, so mowing fell to Mom, my sisters, and me until my little brother was old enough. Usually required two or three of us just to get that wretched thing started and often had to do it in shifts because of how big our yard was, but he managed. An old man in our neighborhood often mowed for us, too. He did it for several folks in the neighborhood, since there were quite a few elderly folks and he had a riding mower, but he said he did it specifically for us because it didn't seem right seeing girls out mowing all summer. We appreciated the help, but I think it stung at Dad's pride a bit. He's got kind of a love-hate relationship with his disability centered around comedic potential and some *deep* seeded insecurities.

[@ashh4929]

Well wtf?! Ya mean I've been doing it wrong and should have had a man mowing my lawn all these years?! I am depressed. Lmao But seriously if he was to say something like "dishes are womans work" how long do you think this dudes nut sack would last? And honestly it it beyond ballsy for the brother to say "you're kicking us when we're down". Uh honey no, reevaluate that entire statement and just how easy you all have it. I hate mowing with a passion but I'd damn sure do no question if that was one of the only things asked by someone fronting a roof over my head.

[@aikikaname6508]

It’s not even that physically arduous! She can pay a teenager the price of an Uber eats if it’s that traumatic

[@lauracrabb7169]

To be fair, I had my husband teach me how to mow the yard. Spoiler: I’m weak. I’m good at household chores and can carry a child in both arms while running. However, that lawnmower kicked my butt.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

My sister and I are girls and we had no problem with doing yardwork.

[@BritInvLvr]

Story 4: so glad to read the reactions to OP’s entitlement. I have anxiety and panic attacks but I would not make a disabled person stand for me. You learn coping mechanisms to handle uncomfortable situations. Especially if the ride is only five minutes.

[@ViixenVox]

I absolutely agree that OP shouldn't have asked, however while they definitely were in the wrong, I can understand asking especially since they have a service animal. Op was in the wrong for pushing it. Sometimes coping mechanisms by themselves cannot help, should you know them and use them? Absolutely. However when it's to the point that you are using a service animal, those mechanisms might not help as much as with either people. Again you should absolutely know/use them, just wanted to add on to the comment lol

[@gilesclone]

I think it was ok for OP to ask, but once he said no, she needed to either leave the bus or deal with it. Her disability is valid but so is his and he was there first

[@jennstewart3003]

Story 3: "They are just kids. They don't know any better." Umm gee I wonder whose fault that is. Me: "then today you should start teaching them better. Get it off my driveway."

[@anonymousbrooks8194]

Story 1. It was literally on the first page, "DO NOT SUE YOUR SIBLING FOR THEIR SHARE OF THE INHERITANCE!" What does the brother do? Sue their sibling for the Share inheritance. I guess he's not that bright or bright at all.

[@TigersandBearsOhMy]

You're the one who isn't bright. Come on. That story makes zero logical sense. It's fake. It's rage bait so people can justify their hatred for straight, catholic, conservative, men, with children. It's 100% of what reddit hates.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Either that or he's too selfish to care.

[@anarchylove92]

Story 5: I was a stubborn little shit at times and thought I could do anything. My parents of course were on that. One time I was bitching about wanting to eat a whole jalapeño like my dad did. He didn't let me and said I can't handle it. After bitching for a while, he told if he let's me and I cry, ill have to listen to him. Of course he was right and I learned that lesson. Some kids require a hard lesson

[@Neithie]

I do agree with that. But there's letting them teach tehmselves a hard lesson... like starting to eat a hot jalapeno... but then forcing them to keep going even though they've already learnt the lesson. So I'd totally let my kid start to watch a scary movie and when they realize that...OOPS...it is too scary!... its best to let them retreat. Pride a bit bruised but lessson learnt.

[@nikofluff7122]

That's not the same as what op did I went through what op did but all my childhood I'm the only sibling who isnt in jail for murder, dead, and doesnt have 3 therapists Dont do this shit to your kids Or they might kill their family or themselves

[@ImLasu]

​@@nikofluff7122 I agree that's it not really good way, buy before verdict I would need to know why does she throw tantrum and her mother connection with it?

[@ghostygirl02]

“We need the money! We can’t afford another kid!” STOP HAVING KIDS THEN!

[@maddy8328]

@@phoenixfire8978 gross

[@maddy8328]

@Melody Ackerman wtaf....

[@llcdrdndgrbd]

Catholic tho

[@SakuraMoonflower]

Dude, that's what I said! *High fives*

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Say it louder, for the people in the back!

[@aikikaname6508]

Story 6: If he can’t stand being around meat, he should have married a vegan. He probably didn’t because he’s too militant for vegetarians and sane vegans and he probably couldn’t stand the vegans with his attitude. I can almost see him being even more belligerent with vegans/veggies for being ‘fake’ because they eat avocados or whatever

[@clairebear-96]

Story 6 husband is definitely TA, and I’m a vegetarian who’s also grossed out by meat and doesn’t like the way it smells 😂 what an asshole! I think it’s fair for her to expect him to wash the dishes

[@Gloria-ro4vn]

Bro isn't planing on suing because he's having another child; he's suing because you are GAY. Keep the money and set up a trust, he CAN'T touch, for the kids, he would use the money to get the kids to abide by his sanctimonious beliefs and rules.

[@t.matthies3049]

Exactly! Even with just half, he'd be getting enough that he can invest and probably at least double the income he's making now (although depending on how long their dad lasts, most or all of his kids might be grown by than). If any of it was actually about money, he went about it in the most moronic way possible.

[@taetannim3581]

Everybody jumped straight to the phobic thing. He could just be greedy.

[@paigemosher8697]

@@taetannim3581 The money he would have gotten would be plenty to pay for the new child's expenses for years. He is a Roman Catholic with conservative views. The dots aren't that hard to connect.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

I pity those poor babies to be honest. Especially if one of them tells their father they're like OP, gay or at the very least, bisexual. God forbid that happens.

[@delilahbelle2125]

I LOVE that OP is "selfish" for honoring the terms of the will, but the brother is just "looking out for his family." The brother and his wife are HUGE AHs, and OP should take the whole $8.4M if that's what comes to them when their father passes.

[@svgamer7160]

Just like all the other meat stories: "When the vegan throws away meat, the butcher gets paid twice.":

[@ashh4929]

Yup and it's fools like this that give vegan/vegetarians the lable of batshit crazy wackadoodles.

[@rumooooni]

That's the best response damn

[@JUMALATION1]

Story 4: I ofc don't know the layout of this particular bus, but many buses where I live have solid half walls in the middle section. Worst case scenario, if OP really fears a panic attack, just sit on the floor for the 5 minute ride, with the back against one of these walls. I absolutely do sympathize with people having anxiety disorders but some physical disorders may make it very difficult to get up and get down in vehicle seats.

[@viviennelee2215]

Yeah I empathize because I also have a panic disorder but can't afford a service dog, and hearing that story made me second hand anxious because I couldnt imagine asking someone for their seat drawing extra attention to me I would be feeling so embarrassed if they said no and panic and feel so entitled if they said yes and panic also

[@viviennelee2215]

They could stand with they're back to the windows and used the service dog as comfort as well isn't that why they have it

[@wolfiebunnyshopofficial3923]

@@viviennelee2215 Liked the first comment, don't like this one. Service dogs for panic disorders aren't just there as a comfort cuddle. They're specifically trained to cater to the needs of their handler (in my case, severe PTSD, so a lot of training for my big boy.) "Just stand against the window and snuggle the pup!" is an extremely rude and uneducated comment to make.

[@dawncooper5308]

1st story: brother is only suing her because he doesn't like her being liberal AND a lesbian. That's it. It has nothing to do with having another child. Self righteous, hypocrisy right there. Smh 😡

[@pippo17173]

Its so obvious. Like ok, I get people don't like the current political climate but really? All this for the money to not fall to people you hate on the other side. No matter where you stand, that is just fucking low.

[@anndownsouth5070]

And the sad thing is that the "problem" about them having so many children is all on the fact that he is a devout Roman Catholic, therefore not using birth control.

[@brigidtheirish]

No kidding. I'm Catholic, too, and take the rules of the Church *very* seriously. Including basic things like honestly, humility, and *not being a greedy asshole.*

[@technicaldifficulties368]

@@brigidtheirish Yeah, the outspoken greedy pieces of crap who use religion to justify their abhorrent behavior ruin it for the people who take what they should from it. Just being a good person.

[@brigidtheirish]

@@technicaldifficulties368 And that twisted interpretation of the Bible is what a lot of non-Christians accept as what the Bible *is.* Or try going with the "people have been rewriting it to fit there agenda etc." line when historical *fact* is that most of the differences in Bible versions are down to translation problems (looking at you, King James) or leaving parts out (the apocrypha). There's also the various problems with interpretation, like taking verses out of context, whether that be narrative, historical, cultural, or linguistic.

[@sunsparr]

I love Story 5 where Reddit pretends they never watched scary movies as a kid and had nightmares afterward.

[@thetiredcynic]

Right but forcing the kid to sit through it even if they want to run away they can’t? That’s messed up.

[@totitelevisionshow]

@@thetiredcynici mean i think it’s because the kid needs to learn, if the kid can run away midway through the lesson what’s the point

[@geoffrupert]

Story 4 - I'm sure there was more than 1 seat assigned for disabled on the bus. Would be great for OP to explain why she chose this man as the one to vacate the seat over all others

[@Daydream_N]

Because "He didn't look disabled" which makes op an even bigger ass

[@Park-Kim_VMin]

Story 1. NTA it was in their father's will that one forfeit The inheritance if one sues the other one so karma strikes again. Story 2. NTA they've been doing the same thing if they own their own home, and they're not having to pay anything to live there with you so they should at least be doing that. Y'all had an agreement it sounds like they're not wanting to keep the agreement, I also hope you had one where they if they don't keep the agreement then they have to go because that would only be fair.

[@andreawalker8343]

Story 2 reminds me of when I was a teenager staying at a camp to help clean up after Hurricane Katrina. My youth leader asked for some “strong boys” to stay back and help mow the camp. To prove a point, my tiny ass insisted and I spent the day mowing away without a self-propeller. If my 100 and some change little teenage ass could mow acres in the Louisiana summer, this woman would survive. NTA.

[@dracawyn]

Story 6: this attitude is why do many people find vegans insufferable.

[@KyrieChii]

And they're not smart enough to realize that they're hurting their own cause...but I think people like that place more importance on 'feeling superior' to those who disagree with them than actually furthering their cause.

[@MariMotherofGoblins]

Story 1: "Because now his family will suffer due to my selfishness" Hot take: your brother's family is suffering financially because they can't figure out where babies come from/how they are made. Things that are cheaper than a baby: condoms.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

I think they do know where babies come from. They're just too immature and irresponsible to use condoms, birth control pills, etc.

[@fridaytax]

No they are Roman Catholics. God told them not to use birth control, talking through his holy glove puppet, the Pope.

[@tabortoothtiger7580]

​@@PrincessQ-fj9lynope, they're using their religion as an excuse to have a bunch of children.

[@BexsBoxofConfusion]

Story 1: dad can live 30 more years. Brother is planning for money that he might not receive for many years yet. Yikes. Tacky. My dad turned 72 this year and is luckily very fit and spry. Has there been health concerns in the past? Yes. But the dad is only 64, that’s no age.

[@GMAMEC]

Right, I have several family members over the age of 90.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

My thoughts exactly! My parents are in their early 50s and they're still thriving. So is one of my grandmothers who's in her 70s! Seriously, why do people always loom over their aging or dying relatives like vultures?! ಠ⁠︵⁠ಠ Last time I checked, you're not entitled to an inheritance. Some would rightfully say, you'll be lucky if you don't have to continue paying off any debt your parents and other relatives might have. Greed is a deadly sin for a reason guys.

[@Tyanna01]

Last Story: When OP pointed out that her husband eats his food in the common areas of the house and he countered with "so you're staying you're disgusted with my cooking?" you knew this wasn't about the rules or what was fair or anything of the sort. He punished her for leaving meat out, and now is pissed she stood up for herself. He sound vindictive and spiteful, and also someone who is 'always' right. Aka, he sounds like a stereotypical vegan. He's the type giving all vegans a bad rep.

[@brigidtheirish]

Probably isn't getting the right nutrients in his diet. It's making him cranky.

[@janicewilcox8590]

Yes exactly. Self-righteous veganism. Talk about toxic.

[@lsmmoore1]

@@janicewilcox8590 And the fact that folks like him are loud voices are why you hear a lot about produce waste and see efforts to prevent that on the part of companies - but there aren't similar efforts to prevent meat and dairy waste, although those types of food wastes would have an arguably larger negative impact on the environment than produce waste would. And also there are many ways to preserve meat and dairy, including traditional methods, modern methods, and also the dog and cat food method.

[@wmdkitty]

Typical vegan behavior, really.

[@LoveableNiki]

Story 4: YTA. Once the man said he was disabled, OP should have left him alone.

[@Liz-eb5de]

No they could have paid someone to do it as they are living there REMT FRWW

[@Liz-eb5de]

*RENT FREE

[@LoveableNiki]

@@Liz-eb5de Story 4 is about a transit bus.

[@wolfiebunnyshopofficial3923]

I have a physical knee disability that requires use of a cane and have dealt with severe PTSD that cause violent panic attacks. I can tell you which one actually hurts worse. Don't act like she had zero right.

[@LoveableNiki]

@@wolfiebunnyshopofficial3923 I have never seen a disabled person be asked to move for another disabled person. I have seen the driver asked a non-disabled person not in the disabled section to move. There should be a contest of who's disability is worse. If accommodations cannot be made, the second person has to wait for the next bus.

[@taviabaldwin265]

The fifth story with the entitled 9-year-old: at some point we're going to have to accept that we did a very bad job raising our children and they are going to end up either entitled or traumatized in one way or another. That being said I was raised on horror movies. Gore is good!!!

[@streamerssaymyname]

9 is very young to be watching horror movies, let alone movies rated for adults. My family also liked to watch horror movies when I was young and when I had a room to myself I would keep a light and even a radio on to drown out the anxiety I developed. I still have insomnia when not sleeping with my partner. Horror movies don't even scare me anymore but the anxiety stays.

[@jackspring7709]

@@streamerssaymyname That's bad. I'm sorry to hear that :/

[@nikofluff7122]

Yikes Please dont have kids

[@ThiccOgreBoi69]

@@streamerssaymyname i was raised on horror movies like Jaws, and Tremors from the age of 3, but the thing is that my mom ALWAYS watched the behind the scenes making of the movie part first that was almost always included on dvd movies back then. She told me the fake blood was ketchup, and explained how everything was made. She even stopped the movies when i started to get scared at all and reminded me that it was all make believe and reminded me how they did all that stuff. Now im not a fan of jaws, but thats because i find it boring, im just not a big fan of it. But i absolutely love horror movies now, especially paranormal ones. Letting young kids watch horror movies is fine, but not stuff like childs play thats rated for adults, thats just ridiculous, and you gotta explain to them how things were made/done and remind them throughout the movie, and pause it when they need a break.

[@saratronus]

I have a sickening feeling that in story 5 when the OP says she has tantrum he really means that she gets upset like Moody afterwards We all been around a Moody kid or at least seen one and TV. They just don't talk to you And give you angry faces the whole time And get slightly sarcastic

[@paden1865able]

I mow the lawn, cut out unwanted trees, and clear out the fence line, as well as household chores. My husband works his butt off and I will do what I can to make sure he gets to rest. The girlfriend shouldn't shirk off by claiming certain tasks are gender specific, not in today's world. That flies like a lead balloon.

[@Undomaranel]

Depends on your circles and where you live. I for one always wanted to help out chairs and stuff up after church events but was turned away because I would be denying the men their duties, and as a woman I was supposed to be chatting with friends. Lol, I was 15 in the 2000s in a small town and had no friends to talk to, and I was not going to chit chat with useless old ladies complaining and gossiping when that was exactly what the scriptures told us not to do, enabling hypocrits. But they felt the men did their duties so the women should do theirs... but then failed to give women duties beyond "bring the food". It was awful; why turn away willing help just because they're in a khaki skirt?

[@brigidtheirish]

@@Undomaranel I know, right? My family is pretty religious, heck, my maternal grandpa was a *deacon* and the most active and stable fixture in our parish for most of his life. When the high school called him all concerned because one of his daughter wanted to take (gasp!) shop class, his response was, "So? Let her!" This was back in the *'70s.* My mom owns the household power tools and has a black belt in soo bak doh, which Dad *delights* in.

[@Mewse1203]

Story 6: NTA all he had to do was ask her if she was done with it. Also his argument of "lack of consideration for his health " is nonsense. He's a vegan BY CHOICE. The living room is shared space which means she's allowed to put her stuff there. Shared space doesn't necessarily mean "you aren't allowed to do this because I'm here." It means "we're both allowed to do stuff." The only inconsiderate person is the one wasting an animal's sacrifice and throwing away other's stuff. He caused OP to do extra work therefore HE has to do extra work.

[@damien678]

S4, I'm glad they both apologised to each other before OP got off the bus. It's great to see disabled solidarity even after a conflict like that

[@BrotherBarakiel996]

I feel like they just said that to save face, the story ended differently the first time and then they whip out this new info. Nah I call bullshit.

[@elevin8858]

If op needs specific seating that badly, they can get a doctors note and apply for paratransit. I have multiple disabilities and my doctor helped me apply.

[@atinyevil1383]

Story 5: I grew up this way with me not being allowed in the common area when the adults were watching an adult movie. There were 3 adults and I was the only kid and they didn’t want me to walk by and be traumatized by what I might see. So I don’t think that’s an AH thing to do. Letting her sit through it, though, was a bad idea.

[@DemonicGoddess]

Honestly she pushed to do it and wouldnt take no, everyone claims "she is a moody child" but its a tantrum when you argue toss a fit and refuse ruining peoples time. I think she learned what you KNEW horror movies are for adults now she knows this doesnt solve the tantrums but it solved the movie issues. Unless saying "hi im chucky" instantly stops her lol.

[@cozettapierce8239]

My son traumatized ME when I was watching the first Child's Play movie. He was around 4 and snuck into the living room while I was watching it when Chucky was after the woman in the kitchen. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw a small head moving down below the arm of the couch. I nearly ran out of the room before hearing him giggling. After that he watched shows with me. Neither of my children were banned from watching horror movies because we discussed real from fake. They only shows they were not allowed to watch when really young were psychological thrillers that were based on real events, or realistically plausible. Those types terrify me to this day. Horror movies, we have our own roasting of how people act/react to what is going on...ie: dumb choices.

[@Sirens.Lullaby]

for story 5, i relate to hannah as i also wanted to do whatever my older sibling was doing up until i was ~9/10 BUT the way op writes abt their child makes it sound like hannah is 3-5

[@saratronus]

I have a sickening feeling that in story 5 when the OP says she has tantrum he really means that she gets upset like Moody afterwards We all been around a Moody kid or at least seen one and TV. They just don't talk to you And give you angry faces the whole time And get slightly sarcastic

[@DemonicGoddess]

@@saratronus i doupt this, because from what i understand both parents dont like this behavior. Sounds like an entitled child or an up and coming child who thinks because this person can she can. Do i think OP is the Ah no.. Every one gets scared of monsters honestly its normally 9 when it happens zombies its fantasy is it real to the kid sure, but in time it will pass unless she lives some where of known vodoo docs and or cults then she should be fine. "should"

[@saratronus]

@@DemonicGoddess I'm sorry did you miss the part where the mother was gushing all about the sister-in-law. Where they were just Yes she talking to each other It's the whole reason hope he made this post Because the Sister-in-law was so friendly and warm and welcoming to the parents but not OP.

[@DemonicGoddess]

@@saratronus We are talking about the movie one?

[@janicewilcox8590]

"kicking them when they're down" - no, brother is the only one down

[@Bleg94]

After he did lay himself on the ground

[@janicewilcox8590]

@@Bleg94 lol

[@videofan1010]

I would donate toys away after asking multiple times. What's the mother going to do? Sue me for leaving her stuff on my property?

[@BlaizC]

Story 1: I don't understand. The will specifically states that if one child sues the other, then they lose their inheritance. As soon as brother's lawyer sent a letter or filed a motion, brother would lose his inheritance.

[@ScooterBond1970]

I found that to be pretty sus. Then there's the detail that bro not only bragged about his plan like a cartoon supervillain, but left physical evidence of intent right out in the open. Super sus.

[@jackiewepps4694]

Story 3: "They were just kids and didn't know better." Well, then make them know better. That's your job as the parent! OP's NTA. It's not their job to parent other people's children.

[@youarehere594]

Story 3, knew someone in Florida when we lived there that had a similar problem. Where we lived in Florida there was such a thing as a community officer and she spoke to said officer and a few days later the officer showed up and started picking up the toys and putting them in his vehicle. Mom freaked out and asked what he was doing and he looked at her and said, I'm picking up abandoned toys. She got the message.

[@helenconnor3714]

Lawn mowing story, I have always wanted to mow the lawn. Husband has never let me as he sees it as one if his chores. Definitely a bit frustrating, as truthfully it looks like fun (we have a riding mower with a bagger). I keep hoping that he will have a trip that keeps him gone for a couple weeks in the summer, so I get the chance to do it!

[@wascawywabbit0987]

Please don't do it alone. Make sure someone is there with you for safety reasons. It is unfamiliar machinery to you and it could be dangerous. That said, have fun!

[@shithead1029384756]

Mowing with a sit down rider is pretty easy. Usually i see people with them have larger lawns so... if ya do, have a good tall beverage and some good tunes. (It's honestly kinda boring) but depending on what kind, prolly less complicated than driving a car

[@helenconnor3714]

We have almost an acre of lawn on flat land. Takes awhile to mow, lol.

[@shithead1029384756]

@@helenconnor3714 that ain't too bad then. Some men are oddly particular about how the lawn gets mowed. Always thought it odd

[@eponymoususer8923]

Op with the messy neighbors. I’m concerned for the well being of 5 children being supervised by a 6 year old. I’d document how often those children are unsupervised with video, then call CPS; don’t exaggerate or lie, just give them your observation. Admit that it’s inconvenient that they leave stuff in your driveway so Lazy mom doesn’t try to spin it on you.

[@zakeena82]

Story 4 : Why didn't anyone else let them sit on another seat after that ? it's not like they couldn't ask to sit on a non-disabled seat... on the condition there was a kind hearted person... I feel like it's common sense ... ???

[@Tishanfas]

The way OP put it, I was under the impression that the disabled seat was the only one that fit their needs. Admittedly, I find it more bizarre that the disabled seat is at the back of the bus, given that, if you can't walk far, it makes it harder to access.

[@elenizvelez8681]

Yes isn’t there a rules were if there’s no seats left and there’s a disabled person you should give up your seat like why didn’t anyone else just give up their seats

[@zakeena82]

@@Tishanfas well, if it's like in my country, the handicapped place is at the back of the bus bit there's 2 doors : front and back. And most of the times you should use the front but you also can use the back.

[@zakeena82]

@@elenizvelez8681 i'm not sure but this should be like a unsaid rule or something.

[@paigemosher8697]

@@Tishanfas Yeah, that's a good point. Unless there's a set of doors closer to those seats, it sounds like the bus might be poorly laid out.

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Hey you yes you remember to take care of yourself gosh darn it, you are always valid, and I love you and care about you so please take care of yourself 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@bethanntay]

Thank you. You as well. Keep being wonderful!.

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

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[@Park-Kim_VMin]

You too

[@FlamesofJagger]

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[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@Park-Kim_VMin 🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜

[@ResidentMilf]

If you put 4 million dollars in a savings account, you could live off the interest plus a decently paying part-time job. Brother's a lying liar who lies.

[@thedestroyasystem]

Story 5: Bit off topic, but I’m sick of people diluting the word “traumatized”. Trauma is a severely upsetting event that impacts your mental well-being and behavior for a significant portion of, if not all of, the rest of your life. Watching one scary movie too young is not trauma. It’s not good, and OP is the asshole for it, but we need to stop using these serious terms for more trivial matters because it lessens the impact when those who’ve been through trauma attempt to tell their stories.

[@MistrzSzopen]

Tbh I was once jumpScared as a very young kid (not frist jump scare but this one shook me) and I've got very interesting symthoms from this, like I wasnt scared but i was SAD, maybe depressed and I got suicidal thoughts, like a real deppresion? It was confusing. I remember it crealy I would burst into tears randomly and often, and not from being scared but from actuall sadness that had no place to come from. Shit was werid and lasted for abouth a month?? Like I was crying all the fckn time for a month XD. I'm not sayng it was trauma but it was werid and left an impact, so I think OP could very well hurt the child, after all, children brains can take way less than adult ones. And she was forced to wach it so it can resemble a traumatic experience even if it's not something very terrible.

[@Pastel_Dreams]

5th Story: NTA. I'm not going to lie, that was hilarious. 😂 Speaking from personal experience as the youngest of my sibling group, I understand wanting to be able to do all the cool big kid stuff with your older siblings. But, Hannah needs to learn there's a reason why there are just some stuff she can't do with her older siblings just yet.

[@Zarakem1]

As the youngest of my siblings, I second this. 9 years is way too old to be throwing tantrums and as OP said talking didn't work so he showed her why there is some stuff she can't do just yet. I honestly don't understand all the YTA. Better to learn in this way that really hurt herself badly, which she already almost did, she could have broken a bone/hit her head and not just hurt her ankle.

[@darkshadow5581]

@@Zarakem1 I'm pretty sure they are just hating because of the rule, ignoring that they have literally zero context on how their house is. It could have 10 TV's each with its separate streaming service accounts, or that TV could be the only one in the entire house. As for actually having her learn something, If a injured ankle doesn't teach her, no amount of physical punishments will, so having her freak herself out is the only way I can think of lol.

[@amandab8433]

I honestly don't think he was the AH. There's a 6 and 8 year age gap between my daughter and son's. She learned pretty quickly that there are just some things that her brothers could do that she couldn't. Scary movie watching being one of them. She wasn't "traumatized" for life, she did stop putting up a stink when she was told no though. As she got older they started including her on the things they did that she showed an interest in. They all are incredibly close to one another.

[@Pastel_Dreams]

I mean honestly, who among us didn't watch something scary and inappropriate at a young age?

[@carolroberts4614]

In 1963 I was 10, and I watched the original Doctor Who from behind the sofa! They look so game now, like 50's sci fi, but I was very properly spooked by the Daleks!I love the old sci movies now.

[@rachaelclark8465]

Story 1) Do as your father said. Get a lawyer. It's not your problem your brother refuses to ware a "rain coat ".

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Whoever is reading this i send hugs and great vibes. Drink water, eat food, nap, take a break, take care of yourself gosh darn it. And if you don't I swear I will find you and keep you in a cottage and take care of you. 🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜

[@katiesmith2031]

Hugs and great vibes back 🤗🤗💙💙🤗🤗💙💙

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

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[@stephanien6237]

Two disabled people, both of whom feel that the other one “doesn’t look disabled”. I’m not sure what the OP means by “disabled seating is meant for everyone-so YOU need to move out of the seat because I want it more”. Yikes!

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

Story 1 - if brother and SIL end up destitute, that’s on them. No one is forcing him to have more children.

[@TsukiKageTora]

Story 1 is shady. It may be because I watch a lot of crime shows, but it truly sounds like the brother is going to try to kill their dad and (or not) his sister and make it look like an accident to get the full inheritance sooner than later

[@sunsiter]

My mom always taught us that a job doesn't care what your plumbing is it just needs to be done.

[@KE-hr4sb]

Story 1: NTA, and tell your brother he needs to learn "Don't count your chickens before they hatch," (in other words, if you can't afford the children you have without counting on money you don't currently possess, don't have more children). Secondly, his own greed tripped him up. 4 mil is *plenty,* but he decided to try to steal your share too. If that isn't enough evidence for "family," he KNEW about the rules. It's stated on the first damn page of the will, and it was reiterated to both of you multiple times. He was warned not to stick his hand on the stove. He did it anyway. Now he has to deal with being burned. If your family continues to give you shit, tell them a) he must not have wanted an inheritance cause he voluntarily forfeited his share, b) he won't be struggling due to YOUR selfishness, but actually his own, c) they are welcome to finance brother's lifestyle, and d) that you will be cutting anyone off that doesn't remove their nose from your business immediately. If necessary, follow through with a cease and desist for harassment from your lawyer. Sounds like your entire family needs a healthy lesson in actions having consequences. Story 3: NTA. My dad worked with EMS as a firefighter, and one horrible day his job was to hold back the parent that had accidentally backed over their own child as the EMTs worked on the kid. Cars have blind spots, it's your property; you'd be liable in an accident. This could be nothing, or a nightmare waiting to happen.

[@jemase7931]

How about " Hannah, go to your room. If you are going to pitch a fit, do it there." But yeah, the whole situation is weird.

[@Angelkitty604]

I don't get the YTA votes for story 5, or why watching "inappropriate" movies in the common area is wrong. The majority of the household members, excluding the mother since she wasn't there, wanted to watch a movie together, including the 9 year old. Why should the majority of the household have to displace themselves to watch a horror movie in private spaces to accommodate one person? Does this not also breed entitlement? And also, from the sounds of it, OP didn't actually force his daughter to watch the movie, he just told her that if she wanted to watch it with them, then she had to stay for it. It's not like OP held her hands to her side so she couldn't cover her eyes. If she really didn't want to be there, she could have just gotten up and left and I'm sure OP would have let her. I grew up in a household that had no restrictions on what I watched. Of course, there were certain scenes I was told to close my eyes for, but other than that, if I wanted to watch what everyone else was watching, I was more than welcome to, and if I couldn't handle it, I was more than welcome to go back to my room and play there. This is how I learned what movies were and were not for me. I had watched plenty of horror movies before the age of 9 and wasn't traumatized, so the 9 year old will be fine. She'll most likely get over her fear of dolls within the month. I think that this was a good teaching moment for the kid. It taught her that maybe you shouldn't always get what you want and it'll teach her to think twice before demanding to be included in something that is not "appropriate" for her. Or maybe it awakened her love for horror movies.

[@terryp2517]

Inheritance Suit: NTA. He was planning to sue OP out of her own inheritance and if he had taken it, he wouldn't have done anything good for OP. I say keep it all and set up something where brother can't touch it but can be used for his kids only.

[@roowyrm9576]

The disability issue is such a difficult one. Invisible disabilities make life even harder. In this case the able bodied woman is the one who should have considered moving. Unfortunately, in this case, OP was an A'hole, but maybe they can learn from this.

[@Nickelbag610]

Story 5: I learned a similar way. My aunt was babysitting me and she wanted to watch I think Bride of Chucky and put me down for a nap. I snuck down and hid behind the couch and watched it. It didn't tramatized me but I didn't try that shit again. Thought it probably left it's mark because my favorite movie as an 8 year old was Hostal.

[@Aralyn187]

Listening while shaving my legs. As aunt Gale from Bob's Burgers says, "It distracts me from the pain." Lol

[@stephanien6237]

Just because you have chosen to not use birth control and have more children than you think you can afford does not make this the responsibility of others. Suing your sister, completely against your father’s wishes, for her share of your inheritance is a scummy, and dare I say non-Christian thing to do.

[@maurer3d]

Story 4: YTA, disability seating is always prioritized to physically disabled before emotionally disabled (and pregnant woman depending on where you live). Story 5: YTA, for everything in the story. Forcing her to sit thru the movie, letting her watch the movie, letting the kids run the house just to avoid "tantrums". Oh and the rule that lets people take over the living room...

[@ONW4V3R]

If you think S5 is TA you're the kind of parents that raise tantrums throwing adult idiots at starbucks. Just FYI.

[@paigemosher8697]

@@ONW4V3R You very clearly did NOT read that section properly. It was because he let his daughter carry on with these tantrums for so long that it got to the point where he felt he had to TRAUMATIZE HER to get her to stop. Clearly your parents didn't love you enough to teach you even basic reading comprehension, or else I wouldn't have to correct such a stupid mistake.

[@jackwatt8988]

5": on the condition she sits through the entire movie - what? That's insane. Just be a parent and either make her go to another room or make the decision that the older ones can resume the movie later. If OP is going to let the little one watch a movie that's too old for her, it's reasonable to let her leave as soon as she's scared, but to force her to watch the entire thing is insane.

[@JD-mh8be]

Story 2: if yard work is a man's job is she doing all the cooking/cleaning since that's a woman's job?

[@arleneroberts8886]

It’s your money, Nta. Treat them the same as they treat you.

[@arleneroberts8886]

His children are his responsibility, he can pay for there school.

[@laurenmentink7401]

The Texas Chainsaw Massacre was loosely based on a true story. Leatherface was based on Ed Gein. He was more horrific than the movie version.

[@paigemosher8697]

Oh God, don't remind me. That furniture is freaking horrific.

[@dragonriderabens9761]

Story 1: "I don't think he needs the money, I think he's suing for a different reason" I 100% agree, and I suspect their vastly different political views is a big part of it, if not the sole reason

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Me too. It could also be just plain greed.

[@fcold9402]

3. Having stuff run over is the consequence to leaving your crap in any driveway, let alone someone elses driveway. NTA. As far as i am concerned if that property is abandoned on your property, you can throw it in trash. In fact i would do that on next trash day.

[@rosemaryconstable5620]

So there’s a clause saying that if either sued, they would lose their half? Ok, let him sue. Also, they can’t survive on $4mill?

[@geoffreyrodgers5373]

Story 6: "got sidetracked and spent 6 minutes on the phone. " When I get sidetracked I spend an hour at least 😂😂

[@ThePinkBinks]

At least it wasn’t Seed of Chucky… 😂

[@seankeller1560]

for the child's play one either everyone who has a problem with a chid being forced to sit through child's play. They need to grow up or I should probably see someone. Because right now I am 30yrs old. A list of movies I was forced to see in theaters, Feel free to do the dates for when they came out. All final destinations, darkness falls, Ring, most Friday 13th and Halloweens. House of Wax remake (the one with Paris Hilton.) and more I just can't remember them all. Each one was usually met with a well we Saw x movie for you last week so now it's our turn.

[@Joe-lb8qn]

Is this the 1950's still? Mowing the lawn is a guys job? WTF? She'd quickly kick up a fuss if he told her to get back in the kitchen, cook his dinners and shut up unless the topic is knitting.

[@jenniferstewarts4851]

Ok, disabled seating. I have vasovagle syncope, compressed disk in my back, and arthritis in my hip. the back and hip alone, are enough to keep me seated, and i've passed on busses that were to crowded so i couldn't sit. but the kicker is the Syncope events. with these my blood pressure will drop to 58 over 47... oh yes, the staff at the pharmacy and the ambulance staff BOTH took my blood pressure, and had no idea how i was still conscious... in my defense, i had bad tunnel vision, and was laying on the floor... BUT still mostly conscious. If i'm feeling one of these events coming on, dizzyness, nausia, tingling in the arms and fingers, tunnel visions (sparklies in the eyes), i have to sit down, period... its sit down, lay down, or pass out... well here i am in the disabled seat, when some one with the wheelchair comes on the bus, the bus driver tells me i have to move, i look at him, and say... "I don't think i can, " panting softly... the other "seat" was taken by a baby stroller, and the rest of the bus was filled... "If you can help me stand, and move to another seat..." driver told me to move, so.. i tried... i made it about 4 steps before passing out. hosptial doctors :syncopy attack?" i nod... "well your fine go home." i look at the last blood presure reading, 90 over 70... "nope, no way, i'm not moving from this bed till i'm 110 over 90 at min... come back in 20 min... doctor looks at me, looks at the machine... "Your call, just get some fluids in you."

[@jeaniebee3657]

i am disabled and we have a service through our public transportation where they have a service that will come to your house and pick you up and will also bring you home. OP should check into this with the transportation company. they would have to qualify but its not very hard just a doctors note and paper work then an interview with the rep from the transportation company.

[@wmdkitty]

PTSD won't qualify, it has to be a physical disability.

[@ThePinkBinks]

Honestly I’d be most worried that a driveway with blind spots may contain a child I’d run over when I’d become used to random crap that shouldn’t be there.

[@agathoklesmartinios8414]

Story 6: As a sidenote, I have heard from people who have been vegetarian or vegan for a long time that they do start to smell a weird and disgusting smell coming from meat. So the husband might not have been lying about the smell he detected. However, it should have been very clear that it was freshly prepared food and not something that had been rotting for days. OP is NTA, the husband is.

[@AnymousScreams]

I've been pescetarian for 15 years. Chicken smells awful to me, and may be the worst smell to me. OP's husband needs to know the difference at this point. Even I know people eating meat around me have the right to and also cook non-spoiled meat. I never care if people cook or eat meat around me.

[@paigemosher8697]

@@AnymousScreams I eat chicken all the time and raw chicken smells bad to me. That's not just a you thing, I don't think.

[@krism8335]

Tell vegan man that he better stay on guard because any food he leaves in my sight is getting tossed hell my petty ass would put meat or animal products in every last bit of food then serve the divorce papers

[@paigemosher8697]

THIS. If he can't respect my boundaries, I'm walking all over his and I won't hear a word of complaint from him because of it.

[@MizTameRumors]

Story 4...Really rocking up on someone because they ' don't look disabled' when you have a mental illness and don't either? That's some level of bs right there.

[@hekatsees9449]

Handicap seating in bus story: My entire perspective changed when I heard the small update. OP and the gentleman spoke after and ended up apologizing to each other... This bit of information helped me to realize that in this particular incident, not being handicapped myself, I am unqualified to legitimately or rightly render an opinion… I had an opinion formed until I heard the update. Then I remembered, yet again, why it’s best not to jump to conclusion; which is one of my bad habits… Maybe they could’ve shared the seat… Lol…

[@paigemosher8697]

I appreciate you staying in your lane. That's something a lot of able-bodied/ able-minded people seem to be unable to do, so it's nice to see someone who knows when it isn't their place to comment and can accept that. Also, considering his disability, probably not a good idea...

[@cheekyftoro8962]

Physical always trumps mental op was an entitled ass. Look at it this way she had a panic attack she was embarrassed no long term effects. The man if standing could have fallen injured himself or others if he took them down with him or fell on them he could have broken a hip leaving him permanently wheelchair bound or at least months of pain. Disabled seating is not simply for everyone disabled it's for those who need it and while op needed it. It is still 1st come 1st serve. Op was not wrong to ask but they were very wrong to insist once it was clear the man was disabled and entitled seeing as the man needed it more. It is also widely recognised in the older differently abled community that assisted acsses facilities come with priority to those that need it more. Because they remember not having it available.

[@cheekyftoro8962]

​@@paigemosher8697isn't their place bs. I am a woman so I shouldn't comment on men's issues. I am straight so I shouldn't have an opinion on issues facing the lgbtq community. You don't need to pe a part of a certain community to be an allie and to speak out when something is wrong. We are one society one people one world and while something may nit effect us all directly it effects the environment we live in the inclusiveness of society. Herhaos if you yourself where on the front lines campaigning for acssesiblity fir those differently able you would understand how important it is to have the entire community involved.

[@raincandy1653]

My dad once forced me to watch Childs Play and I was so scared that I ran behind a couch and started crying my eyes out during the movie. I could not sleep at night with dolls even just being on the floor, I had to put them in a closet. It got so bad that I had a freaking panic attack from being in a room filled with dolls. The Dad is the AH and hopefully, his daughter won't be as traumatized as I was

[@AngelaVEdwards]

Mark is right: Chuckie _is_ one scary MoFo. And having a young child sit through such a movie is insane. I agree with the idea that movies that aren't appropriate for everyone need to stay out of the "common areas" and be watched in bedrooms or a den that can have the door closed or whatever. The idea that other people have to be relegated to their bedrooms because other people are watching a movie is punishing the person who has to go to their room. That's not fair at all.

[@ThiccOgreBoi69]

100% this. My family use to watch movies with nudity and other inappropriate things in them, and you know what i did when i was sent to my room?? I snuck out and sat somewhere they couldnt see me so that i could watch it. And its caused issues for me in my teenage years and so far my adulthood as well.

[@serpentmaster1323]

Did anyone else’s heart skip a beat on story 3? “Am I the Ahole for threatening to run over my neighbors kids…. Toys?” Ack. Listen to the whole question first, yikes!😂

[@rayfordreed9304]

Story 1: NTA, how is OP the selfish one when brother wanted to sue for the full amount? Story 2: NTA, maybe she can hire someone, why would OP hire someone to take care of someone else's issue? Story 3: NTA, OP said a fact, if you put stuff where cars go then cars may go over it Story 4: YTA, it's first come, first serve. If it's for all types of disabilities, it's also for that man's disability Story 5: YTA, the rule is pretty dumb. If OP wanted to teach that lesson (should have been taught by then), but at least let her sit there then let her go when she learns it Story 6: ESH, they both sound childish to me

[@StaraptorEagle]

Agree with your opinion on story 6.

[@DemonicGoddess]

Disagree on 5, kid ruined the movie night with her interfering and then fussing how it wasnt fair etc. He gave her a choice and now she knows when its adult / horror she isnt to watch for she sees bad things. And 9 is still a early stage 11 is when its to late. because thats when the habbits are more ingrained.

[@sunisbest1234]

The story about watching a scary movie reminded me of neighbours we had years ago. Their youngest was around 4 or 5. They wouldn't allow him to watch 'The Simpson's ' because it was inappropriate for kids. Ok. However, he was allowed to watch 'Chuckie' movies. All of them! And even had a Chuckie doll. 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️ 🤣😂🤣 Sometimes wonder how that kid turned out.

[@15oClock]

1. Lou just saved OP and her father's bacon. Would you want to give money to greedy people like her brother? 2. Jake couldn't do it, but someone had to do it. "It's a man's job" is just an excuse; she just didn't wanna do it. 3. Why can't they keep to their property? And five kids under the age of 7 is sending up alarm bells for me. 4. You never ask a disabled person for their seating. How OP's been able to float through life like this is shocking. 5. Hannah didn't learn anything; it just freaked her out! This isn't how to you unspoil a child, not even close. 6. The natural conclusion of self righteous vegan: Food waste! Nothing can be done for it except a divorce.

[@DemonicGoddess]

5 i think is personally a good way to make her understand not all movies are for her not the "tantrums" but 9 is also a reasonable age to be scared straight and there is far worse horror movies out there. OR actual facts like a rock striking earth is more likely then a possed doll, a solar wave wiping out elctricity sending us for 50 years into the stone and iron ages, vs a doll saying "here little timmy".

[@ViixenVox]

4. Op is also disabled! However, still very in the wrong. As they are disabled themselves, they should know better

[@robertx8020]

Story 2 : NTA And the SIL is sexist 'it's a man's (guy) task' ? Just imagine a man saying about any task "well that is women's work" He would be ripped apart!

[@Mewse1203]

Story 4: ESH the disabled seating is for anyone with a disability but it's first come first serve. Additionally, demanding someone to stand with a physical disability that makes it difficult to stand up when your disability does not make it difficult to stand is an asshole move. OP didn't need to sit, she needed everyone in view in front of her and there were other ways of attempting that. Playing "who has it worse" is also an asshole move. Asking was fine, but Op should have found another way to cope when he said no. OP is going to experience this again and again and needs to find additional ways to manage her symptoms when things don't go perfectly. The other person should not have chimed in as it was none of her business. It wasn't rude to ask someone if they minded moving. It was rude to demand when they said no, but the lady should have minded her business. Finally, the old man is also an asshole because OP DOES have a disability and calling her " a big baby" is uncalled for when she has real mental health issues. If we reverse the situation, and say something similar towhat he said to her, it was like calling him "lazy" for sitting there. She was having a panic attack. That doesn't make her a big baby and denigrating it wasn't right.

[@cheekyftoro8962]

Disabled seating is NOT for anyone with a disability. Disabled seat is for people with a disability that makes them unstable wile standing in a moving bus. Or a hazard if they are in the isle. Someone who is deaf is disabled yet has no right or need to sit in disabled seating. It is also not first come first serve. Wheelchairs take priority. Over everyone else. Op was being entitled and trying to bully a disabled man into giving up his seat. While you might just let that happen because its non of your business other people stand up when other people are being treated badly.

[@ViixenVox]

@@cheekyftoro8962 op also has a service dog! Which is one reason they might want that seating other than not being able to have someone behind them due to immense trauma. I think both were the ah here because they both ignored that the other has invisible disabilities and they of all people should understand what that's like.

[@atinyevil1383]

Story 4: YTA or ESH with more weight on OP. Idk why OP couldn’t ask someone who isn’t disabled for a seat. I don’t know why they needed the disabled seat and ONLY the disabled seat.

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Perfect timing I'm baking for a party I'm hosting later and I've been listening to the waffle cast🤗🤗💜💜

[@GreenSkye42]

May your baked goods turn out amazing!!!

[@paden1865able]

Making a dress for my grand niece's rag doll, it's going to be a confection of lace, ruffles, and satin. (She loves the toys I make, so she gets a special treat. Lol!) Just kind of sitting on my butt and sewing. 😁

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@GreenSkye42 thanks m8 I hope you can find your book

[@MarkNarrations]

Oooo what you baking?!

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@MarkNarrations chocolate chip cookies and apple pie tarts

[@jellysquid8077]

In regards to story 1, *OP's* selfishness?! The whole thing only happened because her brother was plotting to steal all of *her* inheritance!

[@darkshadow5581]

Story 5 NTA. I had the same thing done to me, and it personally worked. Way I see it, they've tried less extreme ways to stop it, and it didn't work. Everyone getting upset about not letting kids watch non-age appropriate movies don't even seem to care that watching in private might not be possible, and it seems instead of locking them inside their rooms, they just pause when they come out, which is normal.

[@Russman67]

Story 6: OH FFS! He threw away OP's good, which was likely still warm if she just got a phone call and the phone call lasted 6 minutes. And then has to go through this fake gagging thing over her eating meat. Do they have sex? Does he kiss her? Does he realize that his lips are touching someone who is eating this meat? Not the asshole and let that injured ball of petty wash the dishes.

[@paigemosher8697]

Honestly, if I was OP, I'd make him do ALL the chores for at least a week. He needs to learn quickly just how gravely unacceptable that kind of attitude is.

[@sammyk.6457]

I’ve sprained both my ankles twice (not at the same time thank goodness) and I even accepted my diploma and a bad sprain with no crutches, I know I shouldn’t compare situations but walking on my sprains helped them heal faster

[@streamerssaymyname]

Walking on your sprains also can injure them worse. It really depends on the level of sprain. If your sprains didn't require a brace or cast then likely it was fine to walk on. It would be obvious if it did.

[@technicaldifficulties368]

If this was true nobody would go to the doctor for sprains. You don't sound like you had a sprain honestly

[@grandparedpill2695]

First story: your father said stand strong, obviously he's the person who wrote the will, and he doesn't think you're an a******.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Yep. This. At this point, Father's opinion is the only one that matters. 😊

[@PathIsntReal]

Sounds like Story 4’s OP was a victim of a stand attack by Cheap Trick.

[@IsMgb45]

found the jojo fan! High five brother o/

[@benjamincharlton1388]

Good explanation

[@paigemosher8697]

I didn't want to say it, but that's exactly what came to mind for me.

[@greytala]

I absolutely LOVED the very last comment on the last story.

[@jadedflames2809]

Story 4: also, if it's a 5 minute ride, what's stopping OP from freaking walking to their destination unless I'm missing something?

[@lily-zg6io]

Also, whilst it's true priority seats are for everyone, there's an unspoken rule that there's a bit of a "hierarchy" of who gets the seat: 1. People that can't stand/hold onto the pole 2. People with a disability that allows them to stand 3. the Elderly 4. Pregnant people 5. Anyone that gets here first and doesn't fit the previous category

[@brigidtheirish]

What I wonder is how she manages to *cross the street* with that restriction of hers. Does she wait with her back pressed against a wall until there are no people in sight and hope traffic is clear?

[@jadedflames2809]

@@brigidtheirish maybe with the service dog perhaps? I just feel like OP wants other people to cater to their disability rather than actually working on it

[@Bleg94]

@@lily-zg6io I would put pregnant and elderly on the same position but not on place 3 but place 2 A pregnant woman or elderly person falling is way worse than a panic attack imo

[@Bleg94]

@@jadedflames2809 I also didn't know that anxiety is a disability ... atleast to me it seems like something you can learn to handle ... I myself did get panic attacks as a teenager when in a mass of people, a little therapy and practice helped me gain control over it and now it is almost completely away, only a little unease is left

[@melhawl3685]

Hannah is a brat and deserves what she got. And no, sitting in your room while others enjoy an adult program is fine. The world does not revolve around kids. My mother made me sit through Halloween when I was 8. I survived. I had thrown a fit to watch it and yes it's scared me. But I learned a lesson.