r/AmITheA**hole For Not Giving my Boyfriend my $4,000,000 Inheritance?

[@rSlash]

If you inherited $4m and your boyfriend/girlfriend wanted some, would you give it to them?

[@Lashed_0]

Probably

[@gedewidi6666]

500,000 dollars seems enough for them; unless they are in severe debt

[@haylee4297]

hell no

[@ShatteredSprit]

No, I guess in that case I'd be viewed as the asshole by some people. If we end up getting married a prenup would be signed, I take no chances when it comes to money, especially when it comes to such a high value as that.

[@janis7077]

She isn't getting a single penny of the money, I don't mind spending some of it on her, but if she straight up wants money, nope.

[@mostar1219]

What kind of logic is “I’m the one in the wrong because I called someone out for insulting me in a foreign language by continuing the customer service process in said language”?

[@sweetsugarystars2378]

Customer service is weird af. They could get on a worker for the smallest shit so it's understandable for them to be worried.

[@alexn9647]

Customer service. How dare she make the customer uncomfortable even tho he blatantly insulted her ya know?

[@duckeh1952]

Its "customer is always right" policy. I love things like this happen. No people. Dont insult others thinking they can't possible understand your language.

[@carlybrown5418]

I honestly doubt anyone said anything to her about it & she just wanted a reason to post the story. Lol.

[@kimdupont3731]

My bff respond all the time when someone insults her in mandarin, and it’s funny as hell.

[@ReyJ]

When you have natural red hair dying it can destroy it really easily, if you're not careful. It's best to leave it alone. She's right, a wig would sit weird with longer hair. Plus wigs can be expensive, itchy, hot, etc. She's completely right to not go.

[@CyderSpyder]

Rey Jackson I can testify to that. I had natural fiery red hair. I dyed it and let it grow back out but, it was never the same again. Only this year has the red really started to show.

[@mbr7156]

@@CyderSpyder exactly... you just don't mess with any shade of red hair... i'm on the coppery end of the ginger spectrum... and it's really photosensitive too.. sunlight and i are not friends

[@EC-oo8fx]

gingers have souls

[@rowdy6274]

@@CyderSpyder yeah even the temporary dyes won't come out. I once dyed my hair for Halloween where it said "gone after 3 washes". It stayed for maybe 3/4 of a year

[@rhenaissancepoet]

I agree, my hair is barely ginger any more. I dyed my hair a lot in school because I was bullied for having ginger hair, now I'm 24 and even when not dyed, my hair is practically brown with just a hint of red (that shows more in the sun)

[@victoriablanc761]

this bride is worried that this woman's beautiful hair will upstage her at the wedding. that's why. she doesn't want anyone prettier or with nicer hair than her in her wedding pics.

[@lorieharris2776]

Or the groom has a thing for strawberry blondes. At least it sounds like the bride thinks so.

[@ZombieSazza]

Honestly as someone with ginger hair it made me really sad knowing that she expected her bridesmaid to dye her hair, felt entitled to argue that she should dye her hair, and was upset because she didn’t want to risk ruining gorgeous her red hair, and it very likely was out of jealousy. Just kills me inside. I’ve done hair modelling for hair dressing friends when they were at college, they styled my hair, won a local competition and we got to go to some massive international competition in Blackpool, essentially a really cool weekend in a foreign country (from Scotland) and to a place I’d never been too before! Never got asked to dye my hair, my hairdresser just asked that I don’t use hair product (I don’t anyway so this made it much easier) and that the morning of the competition she’d need to fully wash and dry my hair with a hair dryer. Not once was I expected or told to dye my hair, if anything she was extremely happy that I’m ginger. So yeah, it kills me knowing there’s this woman expecting a ginger to dye her hair, potentially damage her hair, somehow feels entitled to even ask this, and is likely jealous, it’s so fucking stupid and sad.

[@bostonrailfan2427]

bridezilla at work there, the line is drawn at demanding changes to natural hair colors on attendees and bridesmaidd

[@imaspecialgirllalala]

@@ZombieSazza yes. If someone told me I’d have to cut my hair off, I wouldn’t attend. My hair is almost mid-thigh after growing it out for 4 years and although it’s brown so I would have to chemically alter my hair in some form to get a real color shift, I just wouldn’t do it. For people with Virgin lighter hair, their hair takes in the pigment so well that even temporary color (not nearly as harsh as semi, Demi, or regular permanent color) can stay in the hair so long. The ONLY thing I could think of is using like brown Halloween type hair color spray but even that wouldn’t make for as neat of a look. My husband has natural ginger hair and it’s so beautiful that if my children come out with his hair genes, I’ll never color their natural hair and embrace the beauty of it.

[@atomicbomba]

Girl with the inheritance, whatever you do, DO NOT let that guy get you pregnant.

[@akl2k7]

Yeah, she needs to keep close eye on all her birth control.

[@missluciddreams3472]

Exactly!

[@thunberbolttwo3953]

Atomicbomba she needs to dump his ass right away.

[@bigmackium8844]

I mean if he can get her pregnant he is a millionare

[@ChaChaChaddio]

@@bigmackium8844 no shit

[@KittenLover1522]

“AITA for my sister calling my daughter a racial slur and then cutting her out of my life” seems like a better title for that one

[@JezebelNeverDied]

Right? I would have tapped out when they were talking crap on my DH. But once you start talking trash on kids...out the door.

[@smarti1809]

Facts. You're making fun of my baby and don't even want to see her because you assume my husband has covid because he's Asian? Pass

[@ghostingvivi]

ZeR0_L1ES I read that and i just said rude but then I read it again

[@bullymaguire632]

Can someone type the racial slur she said, please? I'm learning English and I would like to know

[@terramarini6880]

@@bullymaguire632 In this case ignorance truly is bliss, I say we let that word die starting with you.

[@justdenks]

If some girl calls me ugly, I'm calling her ugly. I'm not an ass for doing that it's what literally everyone would probably do.

[@user-mr1ev9ty8t]

I have no sympathy for the moron who believes insulting an instigator is “stooping to their level!” and doesn’t understand the difference between reactive insults and unprovoked insults

[@aguywithafairlyrudename9307]

Me too, if somebody said "you'd be flirting with me if I wasn't so obviously out your league" id be throwing hands. People like that deserved to be knocked down a peg or ten.

[@Kenny1one_2]

I'm a something something of true gender equality Forgot the quote

[@karenmathews900]

@@Kenny1one_2

[@HusbandoCollector]

Yep I'll probably come back tenfold as well

[@LoveableNiki]

The bride & cousin story: sounds like the bride is jealous of the cousin's appearance. Stay home, girl. Don't go anywhere you'd be uncomfortable. The family will have to deal.

[@TheGuruStud]

I bet she's caught her fiance looking at her, too. 100% she feels inferior.

[@justsomelochnessmonsterony8265]

I feel like shes scared of her mom, she literally said she wanted to get rid of her, yeah she sucks for asking her that, but she clearly wanted to get rid of her, but something about her mom stopped her

[@dionesdisciple3329]

Totally thought the same.

[@matthewwilson9749]

It’s a wedding, not anything so important that security needs to be there to monitor hair colour. Disgraceful!

[@KnittingGirl28]

The hair in the pics she linked weren't even THAT red, bride is making it sound like its Ronald mc Donald hair and gonna stick out like a sore rhum and it won't. If anything I think she probably lokey jelly and doesn't want her cousin to out shine her( the cousins hair is really pretty and would definitely draw eyes in my opinion)

[@kangthao5121]

Go bald, problem solved.

[@vickiechandler3112]

right and they will be checking to make sure guests are wearing those colors too or no entrance. Now there is me who is petty and would wear the brightest red or hot pink thing i could find with a tiny blue bow or purple broach... She said you have to wear it , she didnt say exactly how much. ...OOOO wait------go full on Red Hat Society ----they wear purple and red with pride and their hats are usually very outlandish and large and extremely attention getting. ....group for older ladies who have earned it...if you havent hit that age yet you wear lavendar and pink....LOL The bride would be livid

[@TraceyJeanne]

The fact that she feels like she has to hide from door dash drivers just to avoid getting hit on id pretty sad and annoying to deal with as a girl but she definitely should not of insulted your looks and acted like that So she deserved your response

[@starbird3939]

Yeah. These delivery dudes should not be asking any of these folks out who just want to pick up a pizza. That’s creepy considering they now know their address.

[@rubyblue444]

Have....not HAVE. SMH

[@samanthamorocco9612]

Even if the cousins hair was “Merida red”, those colors don’t clash with blue green or purple. They would look good.

[@Leslie58]

Yep. The bride had no sense of color contrast.

[@5ugar5kullnunya90]

I was thinking the same thing. When first hearing bridezilla side I thought maybe her cousin had like bright green hair or something equally cool but not necessarily appropriate for a wedding NOT the poor girls natural hair. And this Bish is also expecting others to cut their hair. Like not a trim the edges to make it look nice a full on cut. She posted it to face book. What is her obsession with hair. I think she might be going crazy in the last stages of her pregnancy. Maybe she'll stop being that way after a few months of not being pregnant.

[@ivytaylor1494]

5ugar5kull nunya she’s probably just insecure about her own hair and doesn’t want anyone to look better than her, it’s completely ridiculous though

[@samanthamorocco9612]

I didn’t even notice that it said she was pregnant. I had a baby and I was pregnant and for my baby shower I was pretty anal about what the venue looked like but not about what my family was wearing!

[@kyliestaraway2492]

But, she might be to outstanding

[@DarkDreamsAndMoonlitNights]

Rslash: *Says he is married* All of the audience: *Surprised Pikachu face.*

[@vintagecameragirl]

The puppy needed a mother

[@thomasjones6216]

He's mentioned it 3 or 4 times now...

[@no_imdirty_dan2329]

@@thomasjones6216 and these comments appear EVERY time he says it

[@oliverlund2519]

@@thomasjones6216 hmmm, first time I ever noticed it. Hes mentioned significant others but personally I have never picked up on him being married. Any chance you could link the other times he mentioned it?

[@DarkDreamsAndMoonlitNights]

@@vintagecameragirlTrue, Yugo needs a Mum.

[@TraceyJeanne]

He broke his gift then wanted a new one... hell no That’s a lesson to not break expensive gifts from your parents I never understood the logic in breaking your own stuff when you’re mad He needs to learn new coping mechanisms Punch a pillow or some shit Edit: he’s 17 ????? Oh hell no

[@Xavier-ev3tw]

Im 12 and i save up for my own stuff phone pc etc. I ask for stuff when its my birthday or christmas

[@wjmackenzie955]

The post noted he was in therapy for the anger issues, somlikenwith every single other story, we d9nt have all the info and are getting only one side. But we can be fairly confident that he is in the process. Im not excusing the breaking things part at all, but therapy is a process that takes time, its not where you go for one visit and everything is magically fixed. When i was younger I had anger issues too, which is to be expected when you grew up being called tubby tubby 2x4, faggot, and other vile shit to the point of wanting to commit suicide at 15, and then gas lighted into thinking I was in the wrong. That the dad admitted he knew he was the asshole, and flat out laughing at his kid instead of being a father... yeah, kid was wrong for destroying stuff, and the father was an asshole by being a mentally abusive jackass laughing at his kid like that.

[@officialpopeyes414]

@@wjmackenzie955 I would laugh too he shouldn't have broke the chair actions have consciences

[@wjmackenzie955]

@@officialpopeyes414 good indication you are not suited to be a parent, nor have any clue how to raise children to understand actuons have consequences without being an abuser.

[@elyseibarra2861]

@@wjmackenzie955 The father felt bad for doing it and didn't mean to laugh. Since we are bringing up the past and making this story personal i remember one time my mother told me to stop running around and when i hurt myself she laughed. Was that an ahole thing to do? Yes. Did she apologize and never do that again? Yes. We don't know the whole story it might be worse it might be better. Sorry you had a tough time but maybe you shouldn't be watching these videos if you are going to start commenting how other commenters shouldn't have kids and are abusers as well. If it triggers you snake discovery has amazing videos on snakes, game grumps plays old school games, strictly dumpling eats food from all over the world. There's videos that will make you feel better instead of getting triggered. Have a good day!

[@ianmacfarlane1241]

I cannot believe the nerve if the "bridezilla" asking her friend to dye her hair or wear a wig because she has red hair - kinda gobsmacked TBH.

[@shadowmossess]

That & her sister (if i remember correctly) had red hair, maybe a bit more red, and a little shorter than hers wasn't asked to do it just the cousin

[@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables]

That was her cousin and yeah, I agree that she's a bridezilla.

[@amyill9280]

I'm kinda surprised that rSlash only gave her an a-hole score of 2/5. I would give her 4/5 at _least_

[@mama2pokemon]

I would give that one 5/5 buttholes. Do you have any idea how long it takes to grow hair to that length? And how much effort it takes to care for it properly? I have natural strawberry blonde hair down to the small of my back (I can't get it to grow any longer). I would choose my hair over some entitled brideszilla any day.

[@zohad9227]

The bride was too self conscious and thought that a single guest flaunting their natural hair would take the attention away from her... she’s just jealous that the cousin stands out naturally.

[@PyroGobbo]

First story: give the kid tools to repair the chair.

[@thalyasylos2745]

That's what I would do. I would kind of blame myself for not teaching coping skills to my kid when he was younger.

[@thalyasylos2745]

If he is struggling with a mental illness, laughing is NEVER a good option.

[@juliameyer10313]

Also about that story, he was the butthole. My best friend has also anger issues and the thing with those are, it's an issue for the person as well. Everytime my bestie bursts out (she get's more vocal and starts to scream instead of breaking things) she is so sad, frustrated and all about broken after. She really can't control herself and needs love, understanding an patience (she's in therapie as well). It's hard if someone doesn't understand it but having one of the parents laugh in your face afterwards is simply cruel. Is the son entitled to a new chair? No. Could fixing it (maybe even together) help? Absolutely. But just because you're technically right doesn't mean you're not a scumbag.

[@danfaquikKzjeahH578]

Fing noob in 1st Story of Video hahahaha

[@taild_fox7889]

i would upgrade his chair into a stool

[@robertcardinal]

you answered in his native language, that's some next level customer service

[@All54321]

“I wanted to meet my first granddaughter!” Not after you literal ignored your own daughter about her and avoided them you don’t.

[@TheRainman614]

Sounds like a Maury Povich episode.

[@thndrgrrrl]

Im guessing the groom in the "dye your hair" story had casually expressed (or maybe not casually) how much he loves long red hair at some point and the bride is having a "get away from my bone!" moment.

[@thetruegamer194]

R

[@Kifflington]

Yep, my guess was the redhead is attractive and the bride's worried about being outshone. I mean, short brown bob? Is there anything plainer?

[@BenedictRucker]

Kifflington short black

[@ProjectEdge]

@@BenedictRucker maybe that would stand out for being a real dark contrast.

[@snaildude268]

@@Kifflington this

[@hothotheat3000]

OP’s first mistake was telling her boyfriend about the money. OP’s second mistake was not immediately dumping the guy when he pressured her to cover his expenses.

[@mrFiiSKiiS]

That last one reads weird to me. It's not like the normal "Oh, I came into some money and my SO is blatantly trying to get a cut" we see here all the time. She conveniently leaves out pretty much every detail about their life before the money and pretty much every detail about her boyfriend other than his suggestions that seemingly paint him in a bad light. Like, it's a hugely different story if they were both struggling to make ends meet then she gets this huge inheritance and basically just says, "Keep struggling peasant," towards him. The part about starting a joint savings especially stands out. She didn't say he wanted her to put her inheritance in it, just that they should start one. Which if your planning on being together long-term is not a bad idea. I mean, if I'm with someone for a year and a half, live with them, and am planning on continuing to do so, and all the sudden I've got enough money that just by slapping it into the S&P 500 I can net $400k a year (10% annual ROI historically), I'm not going to make them keep struggling to make rent while I sit on my ass drawing pictures and playing video games all day. That's kinda fucked up. Like, did she just shove this money into her bank account and plans to just dwindle away at it until she dies? I don't think there's enough info to make any judgement on that one.

[@cryptfire3158]

@@mrFiiSKiiS I'm sort of amazed at how quickly your breakdown of things brings a whole new way to look at this. I agree. Another thing i don't hear talked about much is the following. (WARNING, this becomes a bit of a ramble). A proper long term relationship heading toward marriage, always has elements of power, control over each other, and that's how it is supposed to be. When i say power, i don't mean resorting to force, but what i mean is that through the love and care the person has toward you, you will naturally have input (power) and control in the relationship, in the form of them being concerned of what you want and need. Both persons should feel power (King and Queen analogy i guess), and if both are mature enough as people, and understanding enough of the needs of the other person, things should always work out. Also, i know our world is full of weird people, and some couples just choose to remain fairly independent from each other, and yet somehow they continue that way as if it's normal. That's fine if that's what they want to do, but i'd need more. Anyway, back to the story. To me, what is the purpose of dating, if it's not toward the goal of a union, even if we forget about marriage, but what commitment level was there, how mature are they, are they playing games? is there love? You don't need to be married for the relationship to start falling into place. To cut right to my conclusion. If this boyfriend is a decent guy, and he's mature enough, finding love is often trial and error, but in the process there is probably all the sparks (seeds) that potentially will become a long enduring flame. And if this is the case, then i'd understand if the boyfriend wants the girl to be quite sharing. But from the girlfriend perspective, don't rush if your not sure where this relationship is going, and if he shows increasing levels of commitment, then so can you (financial or otherwise).

[@mrFiiSKiiS]

@Tiffany Hollo Because they were broke? Because all the real life issues that cause couples to put off things like that are, effectively, gone? Because he sees the woman he loves being stupid with her money? Who knows, but the way that one is written doesn't read like other similar situations. Nothing she says about him is unreasonable, or money hungry behavior.

[@calipo5110]

@@mrFiiSKiiS are you serious? How do you know for a fact they were broke. And there are plenty of things that say he is unreasonable and money-hungry.

[@mrFiiSKiiS]

@@calipo5110 Their total rent/utilities is only $1200. Also, most people of their age range aren't making exorbitant salaries. What says he was money hungry? That he's pissed his girlfriend is pissing her inheritance away because she doesn't know how to grow her wealth? Because she is expecting him, the man she supposedly cares about, to struggle while she sits on her ass doodling and playing games? She's the one that's fucked up here, not him.

[@Minuntilini]

"He wanted a medium light roast. So I responded to him with a medium light roast"

[@susamogus5693]

I see what you did there...

[@Tr1tay]

ᴅᴀɴɢ

[@Animelover-ft2lv]

haahhaah

[@nataliecohen9658]

“Dark”

[@jordanknight3519]

Insisting someone dye their hair for your wedding because of colour themes is like insisting someone get fake-tanned for your wedding because their skin's too pale and only the bride's allowed to wear white.

[@jessicataylor7174]

Imagine the outrage if a non-white was asked to lighten their skin to match the wedding party! Same damn thing! Dyeing her hair will wreck it permanently and it's literally a part of her identity...even if it was dyed hair asking her to change it is repulsive to me. What does she want most, this person or a crappy colour theme? I'm agreeing with you but so mad about it I needed to rant lol :D

[@maddyterrell0]

Why should someone's hair color even have to he considered for a wedding color palette? One person's hair color shouldn't matter that much and a wedding is supposed to be a day of happiness, not strict rules on colors. All people should be able to enjoy a wedding and not be pestered to change something that's obviously important to them. Asking someone to change their hair (which is, for most people, a way to show who they are) or even hide it for a wedding is absolutely despicable. They are who they are and shouldn't have a bride tell them that they HAVE to be someone else for a day because it "doesn't match". That's not all, while dyeing your hair may not seem to be a big deal, however it is. It may be for "one day" however, it would take more than a single day before that dye is completely out of their hair. Also, some dyes could ruin a natural hair color and even literally can damage a person's hair. I believe there are some properties in the dye that can weaken the hair shaft bringing on a potential increase of hair breakage or loss of hair. My sister used to dye her hair a lot and since then, I still find tons of her hairs lying around the house (which I also tend to feel repulsed by touching or seeing hair strands not attached to a head). And then going on to hiding the hair with a wig, finding a comfortable and well-fitting wig that's a specific style and hair color can be pretty difficult. While you can easily find a wig online, the chances of it being comfortable and actually looking decent on you are pretty low. And say if the person felt uncomfortable even wearing a comfortably-fitting wig, that defeats the purpose of a wedding. During a wedding, people should be focused on being happy and having an overall good time, in which that experience could be ruined if you're uncomfortable wearing something unnecessary against your own will. All in all, what that bride tried to force on them was pretty wrong and unjustifiable.

[@blooddragon805]

Bright ginger hair would not ruin your colour scheme, you’re just worried that people would look at her more than they look at you. I think you know that blue and green looks gorgeous with flaming ginger hair, and that she will look amazing. Don’t be so insecure, and let her enjoy your wedding. People are here for you anyway, you’ll be fine.

[@spydersoup8447]

Yeah, Amy clearly left that part out and just mention that strawberry blonde will ruin the color scheme and the photos just to hope that people will take her side. That would also explain why she used Merida red to describe Ella's hair, when it really isn't as I imagined based on Ella's description.

[@Spitestar]

That guy in the last story doesn't want a girlfriend... he wants a sugar mommy.

[@EC-oo8fx]

"sugar mommy" made my day. have a cookie in exchange

[@lomein9774]

@@EC-oo8fx oioi gonna have to ask u to hand over the cookie

[@EC-oo8fx]

@@lomein9774 oh god oh man

[@ShimadaHideo]

@@EC-oo8fx surrender the cookie and your free trial of living will continue

[@prinegonbevaris1788]

I think you are unfair to the guy. As the post sugguests, they both have been together before the inheritage and the girl was not expecting to inherit wealth. So calling him a golddigger is a bit uncalled for, isn't it? To be fair, I am a bit torn about this one. First of all, he has not right to demand anything from her, neigher the rent, nor a joint account. If anything, it is her's to give, if she wants to. Having that said, depending on their situation it might be not unreasonable for her to pay the whole rent (the joint account however, totally is in my eyes). Why? In many relationships where both partners have a shared appartment, but different levels of income, it is common for an uneven contribution to basic costs. Lets shift that example a little and look at a situation, where one partner is working a cashier, the other one is working a lawyer. In a relationship where there is clearly an inequality in income, most people would probably agree, that their share on costs should not be equal. I think, a lot of people would call the lawyer cheap, if he demanded half the rent or expect for the partner to pay half on dates, ect. Most would agree, that he can afford to spend more in the relationship without expecting his lesser earning partner to do the same, even if it meant the partner to be struggleing. So again, depending on the circumstances with her having so much money put by, something like paying the whole rent alone should not be as much of a big deal to her. But it should be her free decision, if she is willing to do this, him demanding it or pressuring for it is unacceptable.

[@mostar1219]

When did they decide that they were going to go from being racists to the sudden change in attitude? You don’t do that and expect the couple to let bygones be bygones

[@gaaraxnaru]

Not trying to totally blame victim here, but it sounds like OP let her family get away with a lot of racist stuff, before the baby came along. They probably thought this time would be no different. Honestly, if my family acted that way to someone I loved, they would have been long gone before I even married the guy. Shoot, even if I didn't stay with him, I wouldn't feel comfortable being related to such horrible people, let alone staying in contact with them.

[@franl155]

And racism isn't that easily exorcised. It'd come back in time. Good for you, OP

[@MiraTheWarlock]

@@gaaraxnaru People are often conditioned to put up with a lot of shit because 'family', to some it takes a while before that one event that's the final straw happens

[@rachelfox8108]

They're only apologising because they're banned from seeing the grandchild-- they were only interested in amending their ways when there was something in it for them? That's insidious. And if they weren't going to change for the husband, it's simply best not to expose that little girl to that racism from her own family, especially while she's young enough to think it's okay.

[@christianboi7690]

Rachel Fox I’m not excusing their actions, but you only heard one side of the story and your automatically attributing a ton of Animus to them. I have no idea who they are and the only thing I’ve ever heard about them Is that they said something racist once, don’t you think that’s a bit hasty to immediately villainies them, with no greater knowledge than that.

[@xelectrix]

I find it so strange that people are more focused one how their wedding looks rather than who is there. I feel like the important thing should be celebrating with the people you love.

[@RepellentJeff]

“I really don’t want to come across as a bridezilla...” Sorry sweetheart, but when you’re asking your cousin to dye their natural hair color or wear a wig because you’re worried about someone’s freaking hair ruining your photos, you have LONG since crossed that line.

[@1972cjn]

That's what I was thinking 2/5 is way low on the scale, she's a 5/5 in my opinion!

[@ivytaylor1494]

She’s literally just trying to make her look ugly it’s disgusting

[@DianaLogg]

She’s definitely a bridezilla. Absolutely the asshole. Merida-cousin has every right not to dye it or wear a wig. Bride is a nightmare.

[@Jacky.c.v]

ivy taylor she’s definitely afraid the cousin is stealing her show. She has long, beautiful ginger hair, the bridezilla is probably jelly af

[@speedy01247]

If the hair was dyed it would be ok but not natural color as it would be absurd to have someone change their natural hair color for this.

[@janputz4157]

So about that barrista: She has a customer that speaks in a foreign language that she coincidentally speaks as well. So she replies and proceeds to interact with the guy in most likely mother language. The way I see it she did more than just her job and gave it her all to provide excellent service :)

[@jessiealexander3515]

I’m half Chinese and half white and if any of my family had ever said anything like that about either of my parents or me and my brothers, we wouldn’t be talking to those “family members” anymore. I think I might die inside if I ever heard that. I’m just thankful that all my family is very loving and inclusive.

[@meridianx9020]

Quite right, Jessie. These people will continue to make racist 'jokes' about, and to, the child. The OP did exactly the right thing, by cutting them off. What horrible people.

[@spydersoup8447]

@@meridianx9020 And I get the feeling that if OP hadn't cut her family out and let them see her daughter, they would treat her like trash and make her feel like she has a terrible father and how it's bad and awful that she has his genes and that they wish that she was 100% white, which would be very horrible.

[@sardiniegenie]

"AITA for not letting my racist family interfere with my interracial family?" Not being involved with racist family members has been the best thing my parents could have done when I was growing up. I didn't miss them then and I don't miss them now.

[@prestongarvey875]

Alexandrea thegreat you made a gem of a comment congratulations

[@Kristanni20X6]

I just came up with a term for that: second-hand racism

[@crustymustard8420]

The Starbucks story: She was perfectly pleasant and spoke to the guest in a language that they seemed more comfortable in. That sounds like grade A customer service to me. EDIT: I totally forgot that I had a similar story happen when I was working at my university. It had a planetarium attached so I was the guy who ran the shows and everything. One day, my box office person didn't come in, so I had to cover ticket sales as well. While I was there, I had 2 hispanic ladies come up and ask for tickets. I had to clarify what type of ticket (Student, Senior, Kid, etc.), so I asked with my normal customer service voice "Two adult tickets?" Now, I don't speak Spanish. All I know is the Spanish that I learned in high school, and even then it's a bit fuzzy. I cant SPEAK it. I can understand the basic gist of most everything that is said. One of the ladies turned to the other and said (basically): "No shit, you fat dumbass," then just a polite "yes, two adults" in English. I ran the shows as well, so I closed box office up to get ready to start the show. While the computers were booting and I was getting things ready, I was searching google translate on my phone to make sure what I was saying was correct (or, at least if it wasn't, it would be funny regardless). I opened the doors and announced that the show was starting soon. The two ladies were off looking at a couple of the space posters on the wall. I waited for all the other guests to go into the dome, then stepped over to the ladies and said "Ma'am (I couldn't figure out how to properly say that in spanish and didn't wanna call her an elephant or something), la presentación comenzará en 5 minutos" Both of their eyes went wide and they looked at me in horror. I either got it right and they realized that I understood what they said, or I called them a goat. Either way, that look was so funny. tl;dr: Ladies called me fat and stupid in Spanish, I subtly let them know I knew what they said.

[@linsyb]

Totally agree. Plus if he would have done that in the netherlands (im dutch) he would have bin called out way worse xD

[@17931793248650]

She went far above the call of duty. Not just grade A customer service.

[@nicodifictional540]

I am just studying Spanish but that sounds right! And I think that ma'am = Señora

[@sagesaria]

She put him in his place without humiliating him or even directly saying "hey, that wasn't nice of you to say." Kill 'em with kindness :)

[@forvergone4784]

Ah yes, subtly

[@Simon-oy7kf]

OMG, asking someone to change their natural hair color for a goddamm wedding? I can't imagine having that much arrogance and nerve. If you hate the way someone looks, don't look at them.

[@82dorrin]

"AmITheA**hole For Not Giving my Boyfriend my $4,000,000 Inheritance?" Umm... no. You're not. It's YOUR inheritance. Next question.

[@Abbenxena]

the correct response to your boyfriend/girlfriend telling you to pay all the bills and give them the money is "either you can be happy with your money, pay half the bills and we can be together, or you can pay ALL the bills, have no money left afterward and be single, and I'll just go buy my own house"

[@iconoclad]

However, common law relationships give him entitlement to 50% of your income in some jurisdictions.

[@ryelydude]

@@iconoclad tf

[@The-One-True-dorkybum]

@@iconoclad if Ur not married then U have to be together for at least 5 years consistently to be entitled to anything unless stated in a will

[@iconoclad]

@@The-One-True-dorkybum It depends on your jurisdiction, in Australia it is more like two or three years and you only need to cohabit for an average of three or four nights a week. It's hard to google because google only brings back American opinions despite adding localities to the search term.

[@wonderbread239]

I know for a fact that the “temporary” hair dye does NOT wash out in the time it says. I dyed my hair back in November (in is now February 2020) and it is still colored. Granted it has faded quite a bit but it never fully washed out. I don’t mind it but can understand people who wouldn’t be happy with that.

[@timonix2]

I was thinking about "party hair colors". I have used them before for halloween and most were gone by the time i got home the same day and everything was gone by the first shower. I think it's basically just food coloring. But I guess that was something way more substancial.

[@greenie15]

@@timonix2 yeah, I've used them quite a bit, but the ones I've used also works like hairspray, gets kinda sticky n stuff if u use a lot, which "Merida" would have to do.but of course, there's also the issue of cutting of the hair that's been saved up for 6 years

[@idc8693]

The “temporary colors” usually develop your hair too so either way it’ll never look like your natural color until it grows out which is BULL POOPY

[@supertaati8107]

Yeah I died my hair blue with directions IN OCTOBER but its still blue today (end of June)

[@pitu3578]

I once dyed my hair (naturally a darker brown) red with a no bleach box mix, and although the red washed out, the hair is now a lighter shade of brown. Its grown out alot, but you can still tell its two different colors qhen I striaghten it

[@Lauren.E.O]

The story about the chair...laughing makes perfect sense. It’s normal that he might want a new one, and I appreciate that he’s already in therapy for his massive anger issues, but there is nothing “fair” about having parents replace it.

[@user-kj7xb3nf5u]

Nah, you're doing the right thing by sending him to therapy to overcome his anger issues. You gave him a gift to reward him for his progress and he dropped the ball.

[@MstangMch4]

I think if he having temper tantrums at age 17, the Mom done effed up!! As that doesn't suddenly come out of nowhere!! Odds are she had been letting him get by with it his whole life!!

[@user-kj7xb3nf5u]

@@MstangMch4 good point. It would be interesting to know if there are any issues at home. He could be having problems at school too though

[@xTwilightWolvesx]

MstangMch4 Yes, that can “come out from nowhere,” or at least something similar. Anger issues can be a mental issue rather than anything to do with the parenting, hence why the guy’s in therapy for it. Would a bad parent really care about their child’s wellbeing enough to get therapy for them? Therapy’s not cheap, you know...

[@emisswag2799]

As a natural ginger, I can tell you that that bride is absolutely crazy! I would personally not go to that wedding. I might dye my hair in the future, but it wouldn’t be fully dyed and it would be for myself, not for someone else’s wedding. Sorry your poor pictures got ruined, but your basically telling someone to cover up a big part of themselves and their identity up, just for your aesthetic.

[@rebeccas2801]

Emily Mull it would’ve looked beautiful too! Ginger hair with blue and green dress? That sounds amazing

[@emisswag2799]

Rebecca S I know right! Imagine if it was a dark navy, sea green dress with long red hair down her back. Gorgeous!

[@enidc6678]

These stories make me so grateful for my family, no divas and if someone had a moment, the fam would laugh it off, tell them they’re wrong and move on. I can only imagine my mother hearing ANYONE demand a natural ginger dye their hair, she’d be riding for that ginger stranger so hard. Especially when she described peacock green and blue as the colors I thought, oh you mean a color scheme that will look fantastic for a redhead? Bride is jealous, and her family not immediately shaming her into dropping that dream is so weird to me. Jesus, some folks really show their whole ass when it’s time to be a bride.

[@milily57]

I’m in fact what you would call flaming Merida red/ginger and when I was 8 I went to my aunt (Emma)’s wedding she told me that i would where a pastel green bridesmaid dress because she said “it matched my hair and looked incredible! So I need to we’re the pastel green version of the dress” honestly I love her so much 😂 my aunt Emma is now married 5 years (I’m 13 now) and I hope she stays married to her husband for ever there the best 💖

[@spochan4]

Inheritance story - drop him. how can a someone be like that. I get maybe asking for help if you are really struggling (though I'd expect repayment or something later) and even being jealous of situation to an extent, but in no way is it ok to pressure someone into a joint account with THEIR money when you are dating. I'm surprised it didn't end with her dropping him.

[@joannavelez5179]

Definitely. I would say if she hasn't already, to ensure only she can touch that money. And get the heck out that relationship ASAP

[@nickbukovac8468]

I disagree with the joint account aspect, but if she really liked the guy, or was nearly in łövè so much to already have moved in together with him why was it such a hassle to pay rent for the apartment when you’re sitting on 4 million dollars? Or even paying full amount for a little while. Also, what would be your reaction if the genders were switched or if it was YOUR boyfriend with the money

[@AzureDemonicGod]

@@nickbukovac8468 Ya, no. Never put stuff in a joint account unless you trust the person wholeheartedly and know they won't use it for their own personal reasons. My mother learned that the hard way and the person was her fiance . Also, I'm guessing that they had a deal before she got the money, so It's A**holeish to assume that the deal has changed just cause the situation has changed, honor deals you make, if stuff changes, so what, if it's not life threatening then stay with it.

[@Lea-ep1bi]

I don't get it either. I myself feel bad and awkward when I ask my mum for lunch money and I'm still a student.

[@ayshaalmarar1819]

@Viktor Samoja I understand a joint account for the living expenses or if they are saving for something specific (house/wedding) but to ask them for something else when they're not comfortable with is a red flag.

[@CleverClover2023]

No one should have to put up with verbal abuse and harassment from customers.....doesnt matter what area of a store or business you are in. Rude customers should absolutely be called out and kicked out! In my 15yrs of retail slavery ive been insulted, threatened with physical violence, called names, been followed home ( i now own a gun because of that), had things thrown at me. Had associates and managers threaten me, scream at me, hit me, sexual assault, ect. And I took all that abuse without knowing its ok to fight back. It IS ok to fight back! Dont take shit from anyone....period.

[@JaelinBezel]

Not too long before i left, the store i used to work at started carrying pepperspray keychains and stun guns. This is a farm supply store in middle america we’re talking about and everyone there seemed to agree it was a good thing, including me.

[@SilverVolo]

Wdym sexual assault? Like rape?

[@velvetdarksoul8741]

@@JaelinBezel I feel like im one of the few women who never gave a shit at any retail job and just fought with problem customers all the time Like I told a manager who scolded me once, your paying me minimum wage to work a job I hate, with money that will never allow me to support myself because its 10$an hour and all that without giving me full time because you say there isn't any I could leave at any time and I domt care I quit a month later

[@Ari2011100]

wow, that sucks. I couldn't imagine that, i think i would just quit if that would happen to me. I've been working at a gas station for about 8 months now, where 8 out of 10 employees and the boss are women. We have lots of rude custumers, both from low and high class backgrounds. Thankfully, our boss is totally fine with, and even encourages us to kick people out, ban them from the store and or cuss back at them if they are really rude or insulting. She's awesome.

[@scp049hasbreachedcontianme9]

@@SilverVolo Not necessarily. It is generally forceful inappropriate contact, such as groping, unsolicited slaps on the ass, etc. Though rape is sexual assault, not all sexual assault is rape. Hope that helped to clear it up

[@amarjs6617]

the second story OP: i am 21 and my husband is 27 Me: okay OP: we have been dating for 4 years Me: wait...

[@AddyLeigh]

THAT'S WHAT I WAS THINKING. Obviously, the family having issues with him because of his race, but I can see why there were some issues now

[@Mariet31]

Yep... I can believe OP was talking so casually.

[@jacob3988]

I don't see an issue. 18 19 20 21. Nothing involving a minor

[@rockcortez5606]

@@jacob3988 she was 17 if you subtract 21-4

[@jacob3988]

@@rockcortez5606 you assume exactly 4 years and that she just turned 21

[@RevokFarthis]

Last story: Goku; "Uh, is that a red flag?" Piccolo; "Crimson."

[@gen4john660]

Little abridged reference... nice

[@trajectoryunown]

Nice. Just done done binging the series. (At least from ep 14)

[@tanuki2898]

Made me laugh like a hyena for a few seconds. Very nice.

[@Tishmooface]

at my wedding one of my guests had BRIGHT pink hair and she was in all my photos. never once asked her to change it before hand as it looked amazing on her =)

[@daniellealghul6594]

Your wedding sounds amazing and I bet she looked amazing. I'm trying to picture it though, was it just a lot pink and all over the head or was it bright hot pink?

[@Tishmooface]

@@daniellealghul6594 full head of hot pink

[@madisonthornton1888]

The woman who didn’t dye her hair was completely right. I dyed my blonde hair green with temporary dye and it’s still in nearly a year later

[@md.abulkalamazad6847]

My mom dyed her hair brown to hid white spots and it stays at least 6 months

[@maddiemcnugget1076]

I feel like “Ella’s” hair would look nice with the green and blue. Idk what “Amy” is talking about. “Amy” probably doesn’t want someone to stand out more than her

[@2Ten1Ryu]

Also, apart from stories from the U.S. I have never even heard that colour scemes were souch a big thing. Never in my wildest dreams would I ask people to change ANYTHING on their appearance to match the style of a wedding. It's so absurd to me.

[@felciajacintha6613]

I totally agree the cousin is the butthole . But I respect her decision

[@Didi-vp3sj]

@@felciajacintha6613 which one?

[@lilypower8716]

I get the wig, kinda, but cutting hair is crossing every line. If not wanting others to stand out is the case I get it, it’s her special day but do NOT ask people to cut their hair for ONE DAY.

[@curlykoala696]

Ella's hair would've been complimented by the colour scheme, including the purple (seriously if Ella's hair was actually Merida red, purple and green would look gorgeous on her)

[@rollothecat2010]

The bride who demands bridesmaid dye her hair: Bridesmaid should bow out and not attend the wedding. (Since bride has said she would have security bar her from entry anyway.) I may seem harsh but no one has the right to tell you to dye your hair. And cut it. Honestly, sounds like bride is jealous of your hair and is doing this to hurt you.

[@shrekisloveshrekislive2090]

Or she just wants a perfect wedding since that only happens about once in your life normally

[@MartinFinnerup]

@@shrekisloveshrekislive2090 She's till obviously being a massive bridezilla about it. I do think it's fine to ask, and that as long as the bride paid for it, trying on a wig would be fine, but demanding it that way is too much. Yes it's her day, but she's the one who gave the ultimatum, so when people take her up on it, she shouldn't be surprised.

[@stoptrollingme8499]

Martin Finnerup exactly

[@stoptrollingme8499]

Hiccups At least from what I remember, I think she said, that she tried hair dye on one of her strands and it completely turned it black, and the color never came out.

[@dicklang2756]

The bride is so out of line asking this, tell her to go jump!

[@avocadotoast3087]

The one who told that girl to dye her for her wedding even if it’s only temporarily I dyed my hair black with one of those wash outs it said it would last around 2 weeks (4 washes) it lasted 6 months

[@turnbluebaby]

The cousin shouldn't have to alter her hair, i used a semi-permanent color, and when it washed out my hair was permanently stained with a greenish tone from the undertones of a BROWN semi-permanent color.

[@DianaLogg]

Danielle Stoner same here! I dyed mine black for a costume and the green was still there a year later.

[@turnbluebaby]

Diana Logg Hahahaha they need to be more specific that the MAIN color washes out, but the undertones can seriously stain your hair for good

[@scp049hasbreachedcontianme9]

I dyed my hair with semi permanent dye a few months back and my hair is still ginger. Well, more ginger than usual. Can confirm as well, it does not wash out completely.

[@LittleBlueAngelDuck]

Guys, now we know that Rslash is married to an asian woman who was probably the girl who jumped out of the car trying to grab Rslash' drink. We're getting slowly closer to Know things about Mrs Rslash.

[@Sebastian-dw2yr]

What? Where did he said that?

[@ivytaylor1494]

Glad to know I’m not the only one strongly in his personal life lol

[@LittleBlueAngelDuck]

@@Sebastian-dw2yr he said he's married in a TIFU episode where one op grabbed a Strangers leg and Rslash told the story how he wanted to grab the leg of his wife, but accidentally grabbed his brother's leg.

[@bobrandomness1055]

I think they are asking about the drink story, i don't remember the episode but he said he had a drink his then girlfriend (mostly sure he said girlfriend but not completely sure) really really liked and messed with her regarding it. Which ended up involving her jumping out of said car

[@aniusers]

I remember the drink story from one vid with the very rare wine or smthn? and Rslash mentions about his similar story where she jumps our of the car only to realize she grabbed the wrong drink.

[@thesmartgene]

The mom with the angry son was absolutely correct. The son should buy a new one himself, whether through chores or getting a part time job.

[@RiceCakesGG]

Okay.. when you “spoke” in Dutch you legit sounded like a sims LOL

[@ceptspelmenis958]

thats what I was thinking.

[@sirrmobreadings6978]

@Lara SCHROEDER definitely, i got a mini stroke trying to blindly understand it hahaha

[@Larchkty0324]

I can't believe that bride would demand anyome dye or cut their hair for a flipping wedding. That is beyond reasonable expectations. I'm just baffled by the audacity of it.

[@W-EYE.O]

"Oh your baby has (racial slur) eyes just like your husband!" *later* "Pleaseeee I'm sorry for being racist to your baby and husband! Can I see your baby which I think is a (racial slur)!"

[@TT-fy6hk]

Bride was jealous of her cousins hair, point blank. I wouldn't go to that wedding...

[@jessicataylor7174]

Same but I'd still send a present because I'm nice like that...a nice big bottle of 'merida red' hair dye for the jealous b*tch hahaha

[@MstangMch4]

@@jessicataylor7174 or just fancy shampoo, for redheads!!

[@jessicataylor7174]

@@MstangMch4 x decants hair dye into shampoo bottle x Good plan Mstang, good plan! 😂

[@dx1450]

Yeah, there's more going on there than just color schemes...

[@barbarasims354]

I’m thinking she wants you to cut and dye tour hair because you will out shine her at her own wedding lol . You must be very pretty for her to only focus on you so directly.

[@jessicataylor7174]

Facts!

[@SilveryBlue1010]

My thought exactly!

[@notanactiveaccountina]

7:00 “i’m actually married to an asian girl” Me: *impossible*

[@winifycodm]

I wouldnt marry an asian girlfriend Because I cant get one

[@piyushsharma3991]

I have a small pp so I don't even have any option other than an Asian girl

[@Kenny1one_2]

Yall get relationship? Im lonely

[@mahirmannan1561]

I will me married to an Asian girl Karen: impossible Me: I'm ASIAN

[@wardkeith8385]

@@winifycodm c

[@Fernanda-jx6ep]

the boyfriend is in the wrong, like, they haven't been together for that long. And even if they were, is important to make a prenup, just in case. my boyfriend gets uncomfortable when I buy him sushi, I can't imagine him expecting all that

[@OmniscientWarrior]

I would get uncomfortable if someone bought me sushi. Kelp really upsets my stomach.

[@Fernanda-jx6ep]

@@OmniscientWarrior haha i meant in the matter of spending my money on him

[@velvetdarksoul8741]

@@Fernanda-jx6ep I've always been the type who just uses their own money The whole other person paying for stuff on dates always seemed stupid to me, like why should i make em pay 10$ for a burger I can buy myself, why make them buy me something I want when I can buy it myself Yeah the whole concept of people buying gifts for someone to buy their love has never sat with me

[@Fernanda-jx6ep]

@@velvetdarksoul8741 I mean, sometimes I pay everything, sometimes he pays everything, sometimes we pay for our own stuff, sometimes I gift him something, sometimes he does. what I meant is that, I can't imagine being with someone so entitled to their SO's money, when in my relationship is totally the opposite. And besides, giving a gift is not about buying someone in every case, I think you misunderstood everything I said

[@velvetdarksoul8741]

@@Fernanda-jx6ep i didn't misunderstand anything that's just my opinion on relationships But im Asexual so i don't think the same way in terms of liking a person that you do, to me holding hand is an invasion of my perosnal space which is why I stopped daring in HS

[@twitchsopamanxx]

Pfft, ive had people break my gifts before and ask me for a new one, and i reply "maybe next year"

[@franl155]

My probably response would be: "It wasn't broken when I gave it to you. You broke it, you fix it. Or you replace it."

[@darklight4992]

7:47 as a Dutch person I laughed here, I understand everything that’s written and all I can tell you bc I’m not the best at explaining pronunciations is the ‘nou’ is pronounced the same way as ‘now’

[@humanoid251]

Oooh rSlash’s wife is Asian? I love the random tidbits we get about his life here and there. He worked at Subway, got fired from a corporate job, has a puppo, has a multi story house(I think? Apartments can’t be multistory can they?) with rent exceeding $500/month, he’s married, he had that funny chai tea drink thing, and now this. Is this what tv show people call “character development?” 👀

[@desertkil]

I think multistory apartments exist, didn't look into it that much but a quick look showed me maisonette's/duplex's might be words for them but idk

[@verybored822]

Yeah multistory apartments do exist

[@michellelewis7665]

Townhouses are multistory apartments.

[@RealShrigmaMale]

Penthouses can be multiple stories but probably not regular apartments.

[@aniusers]

we be like detectives piecing together the ambiguous life of rSlash.

[@amywilson9591]

Guaranteed they would play favorites with their grandchildren if OP didn’t cut them out.

[@BerriBoi150]

"it says it washes out in 14 washes" My hair dye was supposed to wash out after 10. Didn't happen. Not that I'm complaining tho. I love having pink hair 😍

[@Chuckf66]

Yeah. I have some grey in my beard. A few months ago, I allowed my 13yo niece to colour my beard with a flame orange "temporary" colour that "washes out in 6 washes!". Bearing in mind I wash it at least once daily, 2 months later, the grey patch was STILL pale orange.....

[@the_rachel_sam]

Oh hell no. I have legit have Merida hair. I would never dye or cut my hair for even my sister’s wedding. I tried “temporary dye” in middle school and it literally lasted for almost a full year, and I was on the swim team with constant exposure to chlorine.

[@lunargames5246]

Awesome, red hair is pretty cool I've got jet black naturally but I've seen dyed tips it really pops depending on the color. Also who hates on someone with red hair that's like having naturally white hair it's awesome. Also you can cut tips.

[@aresmope7135]

For the chair one I asked my mom if she would do the same that OP did and she literally said "I would laugh a lot and then slap you for being so stupid" I love my mom 😂😂😂

[@bulentozer9967]

4M$ inheritance girl, if you ever see this, find a fresh lawyer who handles big big money. Don't let anyone coming to you on their own. Even family.

[@David-cz9ej]

rSlash: "I never pre read posts" Also rSlash: "here are some puppy-bloopers!"

[@All54321]

He tries to the best he can ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ There was another one where he didn’t use his first reaction. But he did add it at the end because GEEZ that moment......

[@greenie15]

I think he means he has recordings of the first read, but obv he doesn't always use them. Kinda clumsily put, since he definitely doesn't only use the 1st-read recording

[@anonymouscanadian9839]

I think he edits what he has to cut out and doesn’t reread the entire post. Notice how he always says the line that was interrupted multiple times in every puppy bloopers.

[@MartinFinnerup]

The other comments here explains it well enough. I'd like to see you try to do every single story here in one take, with a playful puppy around.

[@wta1518]

rSlash puppybloopers are just when Yugo interrupts him. He doesn’t preread the posts, he just cuts out the parts where the dog interrupts him.

[@disneydork100]

If my family talked about my hypothetical partner or child like that I would not be responsible for my actions. Good for her for being civil.

[@RavenLunacy44]

Honestly the dad laughing is the most realistic way to introduce him to the real world lmao

[@kawaiipotato2505]

Carlie M Or mom! Or gender-neutral parent!

[@HarveMoone]

@@kawaiipotato2505 what?

[@jeffsenigma]

@@HarveMoone they're saying that you dont know if the parent is the dad or the mom. The story never made mention of who the parent was. Also, the parent could be genderfluid as well. You never know.

[@HarveMoone]

@@jeffsenigma ooh I didn't even clock that. It makes sense now ty

[@jeffsenigma]

@@HarveMoone np. I had the same thought then it clicked that the parent's gender hadn't been noted.

[@starbird3939]

Inhearitance OP: Break up with this dude now. He only sees you as a wallet now.

[@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables]

Exactly!

[@Harrier42861]

I think the two stories really show just how big a deal getting both sides of the story can be.

[@assassintwinat8]

1st story: OP's kid needs to grow the hell up. He's months away from being a legal adult and has to learn that he can't use his parents as a crutch to enable his anger issues. 2nd story: You didn't have to straight up tell her that she wasn't attractive, could have simply said "I'm not attracted to you" or "I personally don't find you that attractive." She, however, also didn't have to straight up tell you that you weren't attractive. 3rd story: Fuck those racist assholes. If they don't want to act like family, they don't get to call themselves family. 4th story: If you get flack for your sass, you can claim that you felt he'd be more comfortable completing his order in Dutch, and you were both able and willing to accommodate him. 5th story: Bride's definitely in the wrong here. That's her cousin's _natural_ hair color. I can understand if maybe it were a new color that she'd recently gotten, and even then it seems like a weird request, but no. Is she asking anyone with any other hair color to do this? No, it's just Ella's hair, and it's her natural hair. What I honestly hope happens is that Amy sees that she's in the wrong, apologizes to Ella, and Ella goes to the wedding. Maybe the mention of Disney princesses is making me too optimistic, though. 6th story: You've been together a year and a half??? Fuck him, he ain't entitled to shit. And I can guaran-damn-tee that if you started a joint account with that inheritance, he'd be using it for way more than just rent. He'd spend the money on him and claim he was spending it on "us."

[@speedy01247]

They need to teach him that HE is the one who will quite literally be paying for his anger problems in the near future and odds are he won't make near enough to afford that.

[@sadpotato3386]

Look, if your child is throwing fits at a game.. when they start doing that then immediately take it away and make em do something else. Also not the asshole.

[@TotallyNotALolicon]

My parents did that with me and when ever they tried to make me do something else I just sat there stoic and they just got fed up and left me to my own devices (while keeping my games) and then a week or whatever later they would give it back and then I would go do the stuff they tried to make me do play outside go over to friends houses stuff like that Still don’t know why I did it

[@ukchanak]

This story reminds me of people with Aspergers (my husband has it, and a few friends we have also have it). But even when they have that, they need to learn that actions have consequences. :-(

[@flamelily2086]

Sad potato The "child" throwing a fit is not a child he is a 17 year adolescent who is old enough to know better.

[@sadpotato3386]

@@flamelily2086 It probably started when he was younger.

[@jonaswilliams6322]

Ive been watching rSlash for so long. And just realised he's married... Ive heard him say it so idk why i just realised. I now want to see his wife

[@bonda_racing3579]

Even better the guys had his first kid! I just found out a few weeks about it. Welcome to the club.

[@jonaswilliams6322]

@@bonda_racing3579 Really??? Damnn good for him

[@FlyingHeadbutt100]

The barista speaking Dutch knew they were in the right, they just wanted to tell us. Nicely played all round

[@gumbygomes3278]

Rslash: I’m actually married Me: 😯

[@onedudeontheinternet6185]

Wait he is?

[@kpopgamer4369]

I paused and said whoa wait what? really loud. Why you no tell us?

[@jameseubanks3477]

@@onedudeontheinternet6185 he said he was after the story with the Asian dude and the racist family Edit. Story details

[@awsomegamer8277]

my exact thought why diden't he tell us

[@astribragdoe]

@@awsomegamer8277 He has already told us, many times. He's been mentioning it throughout his videos 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@hojmatros5102]

I would've given him the wrong order and then appologized by saying "Sorry, I'm not very intelligent and haven't learned how to use my brain."

[@mergrew0110]

I've noticed on many of this kind of KZbin post that the wedding seems to be more important than the marriage. For me personally, the money spent on some elaborate weddings would be better spent on a house, or school fund.

[@franl155]

If I ever get married [highly unlikely] it'll be a civil ceremony and a small reception after. All I need. Some women talk of their "dream" [aka "unrealistic fantasy"] wedding - ie HER dream, not the groom's - on which she's prepared to spend thousands - and then she'll wake up and realise that she's broke and can't afford to set up her "dream" home. Of course, a lot of these brides seem to expect other people to shell out those thousands!

[@jessicataylor7174]

The photos are more important than the people in them. That's so hurtful and whether her hair was naturally red or not I can not imagine asking someone I love to change a single thing about themselves for a few pics. It's so out of order it riled me. :(

[@villageidiot7584]

The one where the bride asked her cousin to dye her hair.. asking people to dye their hair is actually really personal, as people have a very strong psychological attachment to their hair. Not to mention how a good wig can be really expensive and that’s a lot to drop for a single wear. Also, red/red tinted hair often looks phenomenal with the shades of blue and green that I’d associate with a “peacock theme,” especially the blue, so the bride was just a clown all around.

[@athenastewart9167]

Which is probably the real point of the whole thing. The bridesmaid would have looked amazing in those colors, as they are very complimentary to red hair; the bride didn't want the bridesmaid to get more attention. Asking someone to die their hair for one day? Absolutely the a*hole.

[@ondiiina]

@@athenastewart9167 Plus she also seemed to have a problem with the length of the hair. A "short bob brunette wig" is ultra specific and sus. The bride probably thought that the cousin wouldn't look good with it or she would at least look "invisible"/not standing out. It's obvious she's insecure and jealous. That's why she's so ridiculous and makes outrageous demands. The worst is that it's possible she knows it would ruin her cousin's hair. At this point, she plainly hates her for some reason since she doesn't have a problem with her other cousin's hair. Maybe because she's pregnant and thus not "competition"? So yeah. She's DEFINITELY the asshole. She's sabotaging her cousin's appearance. I do hope that the cousin would go to the wedding, look STUNNING but also a pleasant guest just to piss her off. That's petty but it also down the drama in their family and make everyone happy except for the bride (who will be in no place to complain or be mad because she's look even more like a brat and be shunned by everyone). I doubt security will stop her. Not only because she's family but because it was probably an empty threat.

[@thxcc_7969]

The first kid pulled a markaplier while he was playing getting over it

[@haze969]

Exactly the first thing that came to my mind

[@Kenny1one_2]

@@haze969 everywhere I go, I see him

[@anneliesvandenbos1700]

Omg it is dutch! I love how he tries to say the Dutch words. We’re not all that rude luckily.

[@rebeccaconlon9743]

15:27 red flags... Major red flags... He's a leech...

[@ditisxandar144]

I'm Dutch and I really enjoyed your pronunciation, thank you for not skipping over it!

[@maximumdigital-9252]

“I’m married to an Asian girl” ROFL okay I hella pictured you still in highschool, living with parents 😂

[@floydlooney6837]

He can get married in high school, especially if mom and dad are okay with it. :p

[@durps8815]

I was thinking college/uni, living in an apartment, but married? That came straight from left field lol

[@batulraza4203]

I was thinking girlfriend, still about 20 LMFAO

[@spydersoup8447]

It may seem like he's still in high school, but I like to imagine that he's actually somewhere in his 20s.

[@thedyingunicorn]

For the one about being having an Asian kid I had an almost identical situation when my daughter was to be born. The night before I was to go into the hospital to have my daughter my mother screamed at me from the moment I woke up until I was hospitalized for the stress she put me under. Called my fiancé and I the n word because we were seeing a chiropractor and apparently only that type of person sees one (we were both in a wreck the week prior with back injuries) said that blacks and whites don’t mix essentially blamed me for my father not being there for the birth of his first grandkid implying it was because I was with my fiancé. My fiancé is black. My daughter is biracial. The reason my mother blew up on me was because I said I didn’t want people smoking around my newborn. According to her only ‘n’s are against that and she hates my fiancé’s entire family because of that despite me being the one to make that decision. I entirely agree with fully cutting off a family like that. When you have mixed kids you don’t put up with any kind of racism from your family (from anyone for that matter). Even if it doesn’t ultimately involve your kid. If someone will say something about another person they’ll say it about your kid too. Maybe just behind your back. Family or not. A racist does not deserve to be in anyone’s life.

[@eaglefan2569]

What kind of idiot thinks chiropractors are a racial thing? I go to the chiropractor for scoliosis and the rest of my family do adjustments with fair frequency because it's a lot healthier for your overall structure. It's far healthier to get chiropractor adjustments than to not. So sorry you had to deal with that. Hope you and your loved ones are doing well!

[@melaniekamminga6773]

As a Dutch person hearing you pronouncing Dutch sentences is absolute gold, thank you for making my day ! I appreciate that you tried it !

[@kirox34]

The wedding hair color story had me dropping my jaw...its interesting to hear peoples justifications of their crazy requests from their own perspectives rather than an other person's view of the situation. In regards to her requests...she is totally out of line even thinking it was appropriate to ask someone that.

[@All54321]

8:51 I love these “I can speak in multiple languages too” stories. Mainly just because the other person is always just shocked

[@vilmamaritz8265]

Me too, and people are shocked when you understand their language. I might laugh at his Dutch, but people have laughed at my English as I am Afrikaans speaking.

[@wesselesc8990]

@@vilmamaritz8265 i love Afrikaans, i am dutch and remember a wie is de mol? (who is the mole?) Season of 2013 where they went to South Africa and in 1 of the episodes they needed to write a dictee (don't know english word) in Afrikaans after to South African people red the sentences, and the people were so Nice and kind to Them in the challanges with locals (the kids too)

[@vilmamaritz8265]

@@wesselesc8990 Thank you. Interesting. I spent four days in the Netherlands and loved it. Highlight was the polder museum, and another one, De Nachtwach. I had no idea it would be so huge.

[@wesselesc8990]

@@vilmamaritz8265 i've never been to either of those 😂 (i am 17)

[@tharaven2864]

I'm dutch and i half died of laughter and half died inside when he tried to speak dutch

[@aldranova]

more Importantly......WHEN THE HECK DID YOU GET MARRIED!?! I need to congratulate you!

[@LittleBlueAngelDuck]

He told us that some videos ago too 🤔

[@songohan3321]

Yeah I remember him mentioning it a couple of times.

[@aldranova]

I don't recall in which one xD

[@LittleBlueAngelDuck]

@@aldranova If I remember correctly, it was in a Tifu video, one op accidentally grabbed a strangers leg and Rslash told us the story that he thought his wife was sitting next to him and he just wanted to grab her leg, but grabbed his brother's leg.

[@claire6650]

"i dont want to be bridezilla but im gonna act like a complete bradzilla"

[@Grenadreams]

🤣🤣🤣

[@nekolalia3389]

petition for 'bradzilla' to replace 'groomzilla'

[@lexalina132]

🥺🥺 my sister has the most beautiful hair i've ever seen, like think shiney penny fresh off the press. I can't even imagine asking her to dye in dark brown or to cover it up, it's a part of her. What a bridezilla in that wedding one! Geez!

[@terriz7791]

I'm so confused about these wedding stories. I got married 31 years ago and I would have never thought to ask someone to dye their hair, or anything like it. I picked friends that I loved, not people who would look good in the wedding photos. I'm also blown away when I hear people say "you need to spend so much on a wedding present or go to this very expensive place for a bachelorette party. It's especially true for the time we got married. We were in our mid 20's and broke as a joke. When our friends got married, we had to take money from our food budget to pay for everything. I certainly didn't have the money to go to Vegas or take a bachelorette party on a cruise. Not to mention having to take one of my 3 weeks vacation to spend it with a bunch of drunk women and not my family. I don't remember any of this being normal. It's all crazy shit

[@mariejordan13]

When he stared trying to pronounce Dutch I’m like dear god that’s worst than someone trying to speak in German that doesn’t know the language

[@JDthegamer209]

As someone currently learning a new language (German specifically), I 100% agree. When somebody who does not know anything about speaking a foreign language, it's really funny when they try to pronounce words in another language with an English accent.

[@vilmamaritz8265]

Well, I also laughed, but at least I can speak Afrikaans so read/understand Dutch and Flemish. People have laughed at my English.

[@Solvita_]

the barista dutch story made me laugh so hard because it was my first time hearing rSlash try and pronounce words in a language I speak. He sounded like a sim XD

[@laylagrimna3805]

I broke down laughing when you talked Dutch I still can't stop laughing, I'm from Holland/ the Netherlands so it sounded really funny, love the you just go for it attitude. I love you vid's

[@hajawi911]

Hair colour: washes out in 7 washes My hair: is still blue months later Me: hmmm 🤔🤔 (I want it to be, just saying most of the time it doesn't wash out)

[@chubsieee]

I like how your PFP shows your hair so it just proves your point

[@brookalinithegreat8443]

Blue is supposed to be the hardest color to wash out lmaooo rip

[@infiredkitty7_army344]

What brands? My mum won't let me permanently dye mine, so if those take forever to wash out, sign me up lol

[@wta1518]

Because it washes out in seven washes, for most people it lasts a week or two, for you it lasts a month.

[@pigeon1118]

@@infiredkitty7_army344 I dyed my hair (blue) with lime crime brand and it lasted almost 7 or 8 months (give or take as it did fade a bit) but it lasted me a long while, and they have a more temporary formula as well :)

[@trogdortheburninator3621]

I really don't get why people go so mental over weddings. Seriously, just have fun with the one you love, marriage is just for documentation.

[@jacqulyynw]

As a natural dark auburn headed woman can confirm "washes out in 4-6 or 8-10 weeks" is total BS. Last time I did temp dye it took over six months to mostly, somewhat wash/ fade/ grow out and there is still some down near my ends... I "temp" dyed my hair in May of 2018.

[@10Raccoon]

Then there is me where I have chocolate brown hair and no matter how lightly I bleach my hair, nothing sticks for more than 2 weeks at best. Hair dye sucks.

[@jacqulyynw]

@@10Raccoon I feel like the devil is involved in that industry as well as women's lingerie/ clothing industry. Why else would everything we need cost 2-3x what the men pay.

[@markchang2964]

6:56 As a parent, it is good to protect your child from harm. You made a good choice. Though you will eventually have to talk with your daughter about them.

[@becca53444]

Oh no I would 500% disown my family if they treated my husband and newborn child like that. Nope.

[@cm4n63]

Rslash: what you are hearing is my first reaction to these posts R/puppybloopers: am i a joke to you

[@MartinFinnerup]

I'd like to see you try to do every single story here in one take, with a playful puppy around. He uses the first take when possible, and rerecords those that are interrupted. Seems fairly obvious.

[@wta1518]

He probably just edits out the certain parts where Yugo is being an entitled dog