Dad’s about to join the “My daughter never speaks to me and I have no idea why!” club. Good work dad.
@ahstiasummers55832 жыл бұрын
Aka the "missing missing reasons" or "estranged parents" club
@moosecat2 жыл бұрын
Just a friendly little reminder: threatening a member of the flight crew is a Federal felony...far-reaching consequences for momentary stupidity...
@aleshiawisch40972 жыл бұрын
i love how he says he will also sue the guy then threatens him with death
@moosecat2 жыл бұрын
@@aleshiawisch4097 Right! Pick a stupid threat, and stick with it; don't get wishy-washy when you're doing a dumb.
@sytherwusky2 жыл бұрын
After all the captains first priority is to protect the cockpit at all cost in order to do that they have similar powers to police and they can even arrest or restrain an unruly passenger until The pilot can get the plane down safely and federal law-enforcement ( in my case the Australian Federal police) can step in
@MaximNightFury Жыл бұрын
@@sytherwusky Isn't it legal for some planes to do manuvers to try and take possible threats off their feet?
@sytherwusky Жыл бұрын
@@MaximNightFury all I know is the maximum penalty is 10 years behind bars for anyone who assaults threatens or intimidate a crewmember
@NiamhCreates2 жыл бұрын
That last story is more than just an entitled parent. That "father" is straight up abusive.
@BeanManolo2 жыл бұрын
The fact he 'owns' her bank account and want her to get a specific job tells me the thing isn't about where OP's roommate works, but that he wants her to work a place where he can controls her, and also her money (kind of a way to keep her dependant of him); Instead all he got is her opening her own bank account (one he doesn't have access), and probably will get her to cut him off her life when she graduates and gets a job that'll allow her to pay for her rent by herself.
@FerreTrip2 жыл бұрын
Unless he somehow mends his ways, he's going straight to the old folks' home later in life.
@fdm21552 жыл бұрын
Yes, that level of control is oppression. I want to see the follow up story where OP goes full no contact as soon as she graduates. We all know it's coming.
@hardup98092 жыл бұрын
She can pay her own bills
@fdm21552 жыл бұрын
@@hardup9809 Doesn't sound like she's opposed to working and paying her own bills. Sounds like dad is making assistance with school contingent on allowing him to control every aspect of her life. Should also add that LOTS of law students work over ther summer. And whether or not you think she should have refused his help all around, she didn't do that. It doesn't change the fact that the dad's behavior is completely NUTS.
@silverflight012 жыл бұрын
Story 4: Not only is this father an abusive control-freak, but I can tell that he would verbally abuse retail-workers without hesitation. Anyone that abuses and insults retail workers are losers. They are extra losers if they abuse their children.
@insideAdirtyMind2 жыл бұрын
he will be surprised, when she goes no contact one day
@25Erix2 жыл бұрын
I work retail. The last thing I am is a lowlife addict. Guy is real piece of work (had a different choice of words but YT can't tell where said words are being directed at). Not all of us are inclined to go to college or had any interest in skilled work. I had no desire to go to college and not a single trade jumped out at me as something I could make a career out of. So retail it is.
@cu-81902 жыл бұрын
@@25Erix also that guy would probably be the first to complain if his favorite restaurant/shop or whatever had no staff to help him, bummer. retail jobs are necessary and the people who do them are just people like everyone else
@epsilon-eleven2 жыл бұрын
He's a classist, sexist narcissist, and he needs to be taken down a peg. When the daughter goes no-contact & the wife takes everything in the divorce, maybe he'll learn a lesson.
@fdm21552 жыл бұрын
Oh, HELL yeah. You know he's a full on Karen every time he goes to ANY store or restaurant. Definitely the 'do you know who I am?' type who will tell workers they are 'losers' who should get their lives together. Well dad, not everyone has a dad who'll pay for 8 years of college and all of their bills. And obviously not every service worker is a HS dropout. What a jackass.
@Yossarianthe862 жыл бұрын
Last story: the mom is NOT level headed. She goes the complete other way. She is complicite to abuse. That bullshit about his mom being in the hospital is no excuse. The dad blows chunks. I get that she is most likely a victim too, but it baffles me when people stand by and make excuses for the abusers of their children. The roommate is a very supportive individual, good on them.
@honeybelle12032 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I hope the mom can safely leave that pathetic excuse for a human and come to realize that both she and her daughter deserve so much better.
@epsilon-eleven2 жыл бұрын
Stockholm Syndrome is unfortunately a very powerful thing.
@KISSArmygroupie2 жыл бұрын
AGREED. That amount of control is definitely a form of abuse and the mother should be ashamed for just letting it happen. Thank goodness that poor girl has OP to depend on.
@papermintairplane2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I came here to write. She's not "level-headed", she's an enabler.
@fdm21552 жыл бұрын
@@KISSArmygroupie The mom no doubt believes 'he's a good provider' so it's okay if he's abusive. He just 'cares so much', right? Mom needs a good therapist and a divorce lawyer.
@BeanManolo2 жыл бұрын
About the first story: even if LAX was where Entitled Father lived, he'd still have to get a car ride anyway, since LAX was the final destination of the plane, but he got kicked out in Albuquerque. Whoops
@morgandouglas60142 жыл бұрын
Now he’s gonna have to figure out transportation to LAX and his family is probably going on the no-fly list. Hope the death threat was worth it.
@AshlynnTheFennec2 жыл бұрын
thats gonna be a horrible drive lol
@epsilon-eleven2 жыл бұрын
He's guaranteed to be on the no-fly list for life. Possibly his whole family, too.
@RobertWilson-no7iu2 жыл бұрын
Not sure if it's the same in the US but if it was I Europe he'd also get fined for the fuel, wages and fines the airline would have suffered
@AshlynnTheFennec2 жыл бұрын
@@epsilon-eleven oh most definitely
@NecroFlex2 жыл бұрын
"how, honestly, in post-9/11 are you gonna tell a crewmember that you're gonna murder them" I mean, even pre-9/11 that would have gotten you on a no-fly list.
@hannahhester83762 жыл бұрын
True! But yeah, not a good thing to say regardless.
@SuperDestroyerFox Жыл бұрын
It just is way more severe after 9/11
@gaxalee73922 жыл бұрын
I really hate when parents refuse to control their kids and excuse it by stating the adult to kid ratio. 1. Don’t have more kids than you feel you can handle alone(because you will at least sometimes be expected to handle them alone). 2. Don’t bring your kids somewhere that requires calm(ex. airplanes or theaters) if you can’t/won’t control them. 3. Daycare teachers can be qualified to care for up to 12 2-4 years of age kids without assistance so a 1:12 adult to kid ratio. These idiots have no excuse.
@captaineflowchapka55352 жыл бұрын
oly shit poor teacher
@TrancEII20102 жыл бұрын
Preach it. This should be emergency news broadcasted worldwide
@marjoriejohnston49052 жыл бұрын
You do get surprise multiples every now and again, especially when twins run in the mother's side of the family. I won't blame the parents for that one. If they have too many due to thinking having ten kids is a great idea, they're idiots. Or they could be too stupid to have dad get a vasectomy. Both of those, yeah, it's on the parents.
@PunakiviAddikti2 жыл бұрын
Hold it! The Karens wants to speak to your manager! Don't you know who they are?
@fdm21552 жыл бұрын
My mother had 10 children so she spent lots of time wrangling young children with just one other adult and not even that if dad was at work, right? I still remember my mother giving us the speech before going places. We all knew she would murder us if was acted crazy in public. 🤣🤣 This was back in the day when a parent could spank unruly kids in public and no one would bat an eyelash.
@thechosenone-gaming5022 жыл бұрын
I absolutely hate controlling parents all they want is to be 100% in charge cause they believe the world revolves around them when in fact is doesn't
@seanmurphy33572 жыл бұрын
Those types of parents deserve to suffer
@nicoleb6952 жыл бұрын
They're narcissists.
@swector_unit42572 жыл бұрын
My grandparents were like that to my mom uncles and aunt one of my uncle's took his life before i was even born and yes i am the first grandson but they still don't know why he did it but when my mom told me how abusive there were towards me and my little brother when we were i think 2 and 4 i thought is the abusivenss and being helicopter parents what led to his death.
@ceciasa33762 жыл бұрын
@@seanmurphy3357 Karma gets them one way or another because in the end, whatever kids they have that managed to remain sane end up leaving them because of their controlling ways.
@Juzokinnie2 жыл бұрын
My grandparents are controlling and sadly I have to live with them. They think they have a right to knowing what goes on in my head, what's on my computer, and what's on my phone. It feels very invasive and I plan on going low or no contact with them once I'm able to buy at least an apartment. Sometimes I feel guilty but I can't stand living with them.
@midnightbluefairy2 жыл бұрын
That father is guaranteeing he’ll never know his daughter and sealing his fate on losing her once she’s independent. Hope he enjoys hearing about his daughters wedding rather then walking her down the aisle, and that he’ll probably only see any future grandkids through Facebook pics via relatives. 😑
@akl2k72 жыл бұрын
And she'll probably try to call her to yell at her when those two things happen. Keyword: try. As soon as she sees it's him, she won't answer the phone, and if he calls her from an unknown number, as soon as she hears his screaming voice, she'll hang up and block the number. If I were her, I'd start putting the amount of money daddy dearest is spending on her each month into her own bank account that he has no access to so that when he cuts her off, she'll be fine.
@BloodRosen642 жыл бұрын
I dont understand why people are mean to flight attendants they work really hard to make sure everything is good for everyone. I know im at least on my best behavior if im on a plane not just for flight attendants but for everyone. To any flight attendants or Pilots on here keep up the good work and dont let wild karens and entilted people bring ya down!
@Snowshowslow2 жыл бұрын
Yup! Even if the flight attendants are annoying themselves (for example, once they rammed a drinks cart into my elbow from behind instead of just announcing they were there or asking me to pull it in - which I could have done without), the very worst thing I will do is glare at them. They are not wait staff (although those deserve to be treated with respect too), they are there to make sure everyone's safe. Let's not mess with that.
@mavisvioleta2 жыл бұрын
I feel people watch too many shows, that's why people said so casually: "I'm going to kill you" thinking that sounds so badass but in real life it has to be most stupid thing you can said, specially inside of a plane.
@epsilon-eleven2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, a lot of American gun-fetishists watch too many action movies & think they're real life.
@sleepyearth2 жыл бұрын
@@epsilon-eleven Well they can all gather in the stinking jail together and reminisce about their fetish then. Many of them don't deserve to see the sunlight.
@stephanien62372 жыл бұрын
It is really satisfying to hear that this type of bad behavior gets consequences. So tired of hearing people getting away with behavior like this, particularly with their kids watching.
@asterross2 жыл бұрын
The last story is awful. Her father is so controlling, it's no wonder she feels the need to hide things from him. She needs to set some serious boundaries with him asap, the moment she can. Cause this man is stomping all over them, and it's not going to just stop. He will be mad, sure. But she's an adult who needs to live her own life, and all he's doing is bringing her down.
@Nekulturny2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, shes got a job, she should really be working on going no contact with this guy.
@hardup98092 жыл бұрын
She can pay her own bills
@evadedenbach12262 жыл бұрын
@@Nekulturny I was going to say that. She needs to go no contact by any means necessary.
@ahstiasummers55832 жыл бұрын
Having boundaries and enforcing them are two different things. It's hard when abusive parents have any leverage over you (from intangible love and advice to tangible food or money) to force cooperation. Sometimes they're in love with having power over someone. Sometimes they rely on their kids to be surrogate spouses, adult friends, or therapists. Sometimes they vicariously live through their kids.
@Hybrid3012 жыл бұрын
I propose a new flight attendant creed “Silence is golden and duct tape is silver”
@mattwoodard25352 жыл бұрын
From news reports, this has happened! sm
@tiredman992 жыл бұрын
I've seen those videos. They're great honestly
@marjoriejohnston49052 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I remember a news story some time ago where passengers duct taped some drunk idiot to his seat because he was making a nuisance of himself.
@robertsmelt66382 жыл бұрын
Brilliant.
@Shay_Mendez2 жыл бұрын
Don't be an ass on a plane everybody! This is what the consequence looks like!
@limiv52722 жыл бұрын
How about 'don't be an ass' period
@wta15182 жыл бұрын
Especially in the US.
@Shay_Mendez2 жыл бұрын
@@limiv5272 Yeah that works too
@maieen26652 жыл бұрын
*First OP:* " ... Imagine being on a road trip with obnoxious kids from the west coast to the east coast!" A seven-hour road trip without kids is bad enough. I'd run out of the car screaming if I had to take a cross-country road trip with obnoxious kids. *Second OP:* OP is right; that story _is_ hilarious! So is the divorce court story. *Third OP:* I feel bad for OP's roommate. :/ I hope she goes NC with her dad as soon as she graduates, if not sooner, even if it means losing contact with her mom.
@wta15182 жыл бұрын
And 7 hours is more like LA to San Francisco, that's not even leaving California. I do not envy that guy.
@ReginaArtist2 жыл бұрын
You know, the whole controlling parent thing is true, but the opposite can be just as damaging. When I was in high school, my parents were getting a divorce. So, both parents took it different. My dad drowned himself in work, turning into a workaholic, neglecting everything else in his life. My mom decided to finally explore herself and find out all her passions she didn't have while married. That left me neglected 85 percent of the time when I lived with my mom, and 90 percent when I eventually lived with my dad. So, I acted out, of course. Not blaming them for my own stupid actions, just explaining the situation. My older sister saw the issues, and attempted to be the parent for me, which was needed, but I resisted as a rebellious teen would, not wanting my sister to be my parent. Well, she did break my trust of breaking into my phone, laptop, and accounts online eventually to be sure I was being safe, but that only made me more paranoid to leave stuff around her, let alone at home or anywhere. I also can't blame her for this situation since she was trying to step into the role of parent as a young 20 year old to a teenager. She didn't realize her errors, but it took literal years for me to get over my trust issues set from that, but I did thankfully passed high school, which I was on the road to not do, and went to get a job and to to college thanks to her push. So, despite these sort of situations, people can drown or thrive given enough. Not saying all of their actions were good, they weren't. I wasn't any better with my own either. We all needed to heal and grow. Mend things, which has happened mostly. Still an ongoing thing, but there is progress. Its been over 10 years.
@Juzokinnie2 жыл бұрын
You need to have the right balance. There definitely needs to be limits, but too strict limits will break somebody and they won't know how to deal with the real world.
@Icybubba2 жыл бұрын
Start out super strict while they are young, as they grow older and more mature start loosening the reigns, when they step out of line, tighten the leash again, and then loosen it again. By the time they're adults take them off the leash
@MsNoPixel2 жыл бұрын
The answer your looking for to your question about how entitled people go their entire lives without ever realizing their the problem/the ones in the wrong, is called *narcissism.*
@phoenix729992 жыл бұрын
"What do you mean, wrong? I only have to care about myself! Everyone else doesn't matter, because I am better than them!" It's weird. Let's all be glad we aren't like that.
@ScooterBond19702 жыл бұрын
In the words of actress Shannen Doherty: "The only person who NEEDS to be happy is ME."
@girl12132 жыл бұрын
Last story: Well the good thing about being a Pre-Law Student is that she'll likely use that knowledge against her father at some point. There will come a breaking point.
@condorboss33392 жыл бұрын
Can you spell 'restraining order'?
@cassiebrooke24902 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@cassiebrooke24902 жыл бұрын
@@condorboss3339 😂😂
@Floofy_34212 жыл бұрын
@@condorboss3339 LOL
@chakatfirepaw2 жыл бұрын
@@condorboss3339 The problem is that those can backfire as they can tell the abuser where you live and work. ("Oh, I have to stay away from the apartment building at 123 Whatnot St. and the offices of J.C. Dithers Construction Co?")
@yackohoopy2 жыл бұрын
Here’s a custody story for you. Back when I was married, my exwife’s father sued us for “grandparents rights”. The basis for his argument? I have a “fuck off” tattoo on my arm. Why did we stop letting him see the kids? He’s mentally ill. When he was on his meds, he was okay. When he would stop taking his meds, he would get drunk and high in front of our kids and instantly blamed his brother. On one occasion, my exwife and I went to go see “Lord Of The Rings: Return Of The King” in the theater and he had offered to watch the kids. My daughter pooped herself (she was 18 months old at the time) and he called me at the theater demanding that I come over to change my daughter. I said, “You offered to watch the kids. She is your responsibility right now. Change her”. He didn’t. When we came back from the movie, she had HORRIBLE diaper rash to the point that she was screaming and shaking from the pain of wiping her with diaper wipes when I cleaned her. After I got done, I yelled at him for not changing her. He tried to say that’s not what he agreed to. I said, “YES IT IS! THE SECOND WE DROPPED THEM OFF AFTER YOU OFFERED TO WATCH THEM, THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT YOU AGREED TO!” I told my exwife that I don’t want him watching the kids again. He apologized to her, not me, and she kept telling me that he should be allowed. I relented, like an idiot. On another occasion, I had stepped outside for a cigarette. My exwife showed up with my daughter (who was just old enough to start eating baby food) after being fed, so her face was messy. Her father showed up, grabbed my daughter and said in his baby speaking voice, “Mommy and daddy are slobs, aren’t they?”, all because we hadn’t cleaned her face yet. I yelled at him for just being an asshole. There are quite a few stories of this type of behavior. There were so many of these stories that by the time my daughter was 3 or 4 years old, we cut off all communication with her father. On another occasion, he was watching the news and a story came on about parents rubbing their kids noses into their dirty diapers like they were dogs. We had been watching the same news story. 30 seconds after the story finished, he was convinced that we were doing that to our kids as well. My first words to him after he had uttered those idiotic words, “WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU!?” He never liked me because I had ALWAYS stood up to him when his behavior got really bad. When we got divorced, my ex wife’s behavior became just as erratic.
@aclaymushroomwithaberet70842 жыл бұрын
wow, you are color blind.
@sytherwusky2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you save yourself
@thehiddenstump2 жыл бұрын
So… fun fact about personality disorders. Most personality disorders are “Egosyntonic”, meaning that the person with the disorder is incapable of seeing anything wrong with their behaviors. While other conditions like depression or anxiety are “Egodystonic”, meaning that people with those conditions can recognize that something is wrong with their behavior, people with narcissistic personality disorder do not have that capability. They may recognize that outcomes are not coming out as they would want but reaching the point where they might be willing to try behaviors that seem totally arbitrary and bothersome rather than continue behaviors they can literally see no problems with often takes years of therapy, if they can be talked into receiving therapy at all for what they see as a “non-issue”.
@PotterBrony822 жыл бұрын
I will always maintain that EVERYONE should work retail/service industry at least once in their lives, for at least 2 months or a summer breaks worth. Otherwise we end up with absolute AHs like that last dad, who think that not only are they just better than those workers, but that those workers are practically sub human.
@eeveefan1322 жыл бұрын
Two to three months is too light. Bump it up to one to two years. But generally, yeah, I agree with you and think that this should just become an actual law. If you don’t work at least a year or two of retail/customer service, then you will be legally disqualified from getting any other employment.
@FerreTrip2 жыл бұрын
@@eeveefan132 I couldn't handle even half a year, though QwQ
@eeveefan1322 жыл бұрын
@@FerreTrip Do you want to have a job, though?
@terra_the_nightingale1352 жыл бұрын
@@eeveefan132 oof, I think for a law then 1-2 years is too long if someone’s able to do something different. I would like to try it for a few months though for the money at some point but sadly can’t even try rn.
@eeveefan1322 жыл бұрын
@@terra_the_nightingale135 Then that’s your problem.
@kstricl2 жыл бұрын
Airlines have also been suing people for the costs associated with redirecting flights. So on top of the fines, they will likely have ten to hundreds of thousands of dollars in legal fees and judgement against them.
@stephanien62372 жыл бұрын
Amen! Love to hear that!
@danielbrant67402 жыл бұрын
_That_ seems a bit extreme if the air rager in question is financially supporting a family. You'd be punishing a generation of kids for the dumb decisions their parents made.
@ninomitchell20392 жыл бұрын
Between the parents I've seen with entitled parents and people LOVING the ability to have guns, I wouldn't be surprised if the plane guy says he's being patriotic. And I feel both of my grandmother's would be able to relate to the grandparents rights stories. My paternal gm would probably sue to see me and my one cousin and were 26 and 31 respectively, and my maternal gm would probably sue for rights of my mom and uncle, both at least in their late 40s.
@RunaRothstein2 жыл бұрын
This reminded me what happened to me 5 years. My best friend and I were going the zoo due to a a deal if you take cota tsr free, you get a free admission to the zoo. We took the bus and the bus was packed. On our way to the zoo, we got rear ended. The bus stopped. This is where we have the entitled dad comes in. He was upset and left the bus. Now, I didn't know what happened. But, he look the next bus. Later, the bus was pulled off to the side and the dad got arrested. We later found out that the person who rear ended us was a 16 year old boy who just got his license. The entitled dad assaulted the kid and stole his keys and wallet. It was on the abc 6 website a day later talking about the incident.
@Ayaforshort2 жыл бұрын
My mother is getting very close to 60, I'm almost 30. She treats me and my older brother like we are still teenagers. I honestly think it's a symptoms of some kind of personality disorder like narcissim or ASPD. But I did some personal assistant work for my aunt who does real-estate and my mom was PISSED and accused my aunt of stealing me from her like I was her actual property. She could not stand the idea that I'd be spending time with another relative for one day. I was staying with her after I lost my job, but I had to go after that.
@Quartzmonarch152 жыл бұрын
Rslash is my fav KZbinr for Reddit vids. I love listening to these while doing work. Thanks for another great vid!
@jainamshah88772 жыл бұрын
Finally some one I can agree with
@AkIsUkIro2 жыл бұрын
God that last story has me boiled! I am 28 and my mother is almost exactly like this. She wants to know where I am all the times, know who I'm interacting with and all their information, why I left the house (doctors appointmen) and I need to send her a picture as proof but she NEEDS to go with me next time, I need to call her at certain times to "make sure I'm still alive and not kidnapped", I can't hang out with people but "I don't understand why you never have any friends. You should have a boyfriend already." It's a wonder how I snuck a boyfriend in my life and got a kid.Thank God she doesn't control my bank account but I know that if I don't put my foot down she'll most likely try to. And, yeah, what RSlash said is true. Controlling parents don't make perfect kids. They just make kids good at sneaking. And kids who prefer isolation.
@stephanien62372 жыл бұрын
Is your mother also being abused by someone? Was she raised in an abusive setting? That is some creepy and definitely not normal behavior.
@AkIsUkIro2 жыл бұрын
@@stephanien6237 She was raised by my "strict" grandmother. Born and raised in Mexico and were well below the poverty line. I understand some if not MOST of her concerns stem from all of this, but it's so fu*ing extreme. She wants me to study and be successful but how tf can I do that if 1.) I can't socialize outside of my family members without supervision, and 2.) The only thing I can do is supervised online study and work at the same job my father does to make sure I'm not misbehaving? Jesus!
@danielbrant67402 жыл бұрын
Or at the very least, kids who cut ties from their parents.
@j.j.juggernaut97092 жыл бұрын
Excuse me but why are you letting her walk all over you in this manner. You're old enough to speak up already
@Bill_Oddie_Face_Mask2 жыл бұрын
Regarding RSlash’s reaction to Story 3: my father and his current wife are exactly like that. Their egos are so big they think the whole world is crazy and only they and a portion of their small circle of friends (three people out of maybe seven) are sane.
@condorboss33392 жыл бұрын
" _The whole world's crazy but me and thee. And I'm beginning to have doubts about thee_ "
@francescaperron20032 жыл бұрын
I'm born in Canada but have lived in Sweden since I was 6, so I have been on a plane many times. I have also traveled to Italy, England, France and Norway. I am really shocked but also thankful I have never had an entitled parent sighting.
@danielbrant67402 жыл бұрын
Give it time.
@rebeccap14412 жыл бұрын
Laughed my ass off when OP said they had to deplane in Albuquerque. Perfect place for those nutjobs.
@GiordanDiodato2 жыл бұрын
a better place would have been Portland
@RAC00NFANGIRL2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for those people
@lotusleaf13652 жыл бұрын
@@RAC00NFANGIRL no need to feel bad, they brought it upon themselves, unless you mean everyone else except the entitled people, if so, i'll head out
@eeveefan1322 жыл бұрын
@@lotusleaf1365 Pretty sure they were referring to the non-entitled people on the plane.
@lotusleaf13652 жыл бұрын
@@eeveefan132 i think so as well, i just wanted to make sure first, ya know? And darkshadow101, if you were talking about the non-entitled people, i'm sorry
@LynnCooks2 жыл бұрын
I have 4 children close in age. Since they were young, we traveled back & forth by plane between Utah to my home state of New Jersey once or twice a year. I always prepared my kids for the long flight & always packed things to keep them entertained. When they needed to get up & walk around I'd take 2 at a time & play "eye spy"... making it the first two vs the 2nd two. Or bring drawing paper & such so they could make pictures for the crew & passengers and such. As a parent with kids in public, you just have to be prepared and creative. It saves everyone's sanity & above all makes the trips fun.
@tiredman992 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Like you didn't bring anything they could have to keep themselves entertained?
@LynnCooks2 жыл бұрын
@Mitchell Leonard For real! As a parent...once your child turns 1...you realize busy kids are happy, content kids!? It's for my own benefit more than everyone else's 😜
@tiredman992 жыл бұрын
@@LynnCooks not a parent but often babysat my younger siblings, and yeah give them something they can throw or just beat up kind of and chew on they'll be happy
@davido.12332 жыл бұрын
Back in 2015, my family and I were flying to Toronto on a flight and this guy was drunk and started throwing a temper tantrum. I was also wearing headphones but I took them out when I heard the flight attendant yell for him to put his seat belt on and an RCMP officer started screaming at him and started restraining him. We had to divert to Thunder Bay to get them off the plane and the RCMP officer's vacation was ruined as a result, but I managed to thank him for his service before then. That event also got on the news.
@jazzssleepytime2 жыл бұрын
I have 4 kids. I never took them on a plane, but if I had, they WOULD NOT have been allowed to behave like that. I call BS on "I have 4 of them, what do you want me to do?" PARENT YOUR CHILDREN.
@sandracox43412 жыл бұрын
I have flown from Texas to Germany, and Arkansas to Turkey with two children two years and 10 months. They were entertained by items I brought to keep them entertained for the 8+ hour flights plus layovers. The worse thing that happened was my 10 month old had a massive diaper blowout ( poop up out of the back of the diaper) trying to change that nasty diaper in the tiny airplane toilet was a feat.
@danielbrant67402 жыл бұрын
At least you were smart enough to bring things for the kids to be entertained with. Makes you wonder why those moron parents with 4 spermspawns never thought of that.
@sandracox43412 жыл бұрын
@@danielbrant6740, they are too self absorbed. It only take a little extra planning. You pack a small backpack for each child with crayons, travel sized board games, and snacks. This is their carry on.
@jamesnorman91602 жыл бұрын
Lol, that last father sounds like he's ticking every single box of the kind of parent that their child wants nothing to do with anymore. Way to go, daddy-o!
@survivedandthriving2 жыл бұрын
The so-called level-head mother in the last story with the abusive father gets no pass. She is an enabler and therefor complicit in the abuse. Enablers compound the problem through gaslighting and making the target of the abuse question their own reality. The enablers' excuses also make it that much more difficult to find help + entrench stigmas against those who are targets of abuse and those who suffer mental illnesses and injuries as a result of the abuse. We, as a society, need to stop giving a pass to the enablers. The enablers are part of the problem and deserve no excuses.
@Max1996YT2 жыл бұрын
My mother comes to mind here. Even though my father's still got a very short fuse regarding anything that deviates from how he wants it done, no matter how slightly, my mother keeps siding with him, claiming it's only because of this condition where his right half got disabled, even if that didn't actually change a thing.
@survivedandthriving2 жыл бұрын
@@Max1996YT I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through that. I'm happy, however, that you realize your parents were in the wrong (too many of us who were targets of abuse take on the blame for it too - I know I did before therapy). My situation is reversed: abusive mother and enabling father. Too many people (including a horrific therapist I once had) make excuses for my enabling father as if he were innocent. NO. We (my siblings and I) were children who had virtually no other choice. He was an adult with options. He chose to throw his children under the bus to, make his life more comfortable with his spouse (my, ahem, mother). For me, because enablers make the excuses they also get none at all.
@ekvang20302 жыл бұрын
There really are two general types of entitled parents: The ones who don’t control their kids, and one’s who are too controlling. (P.s: I say generally because I know there are some E.P in the gray area or can change. But most fall into these categories)
@frosted_glaceon55132 жыл бұрын
On of my favorite episodes of Steven Universe was Nightmare Hospital. It basically taught the exact lesson you said. Parents tend to be strict to protect their kids, but a true loving parent would also be scared if they found out their kids aren't telling them things and have to hide.
@timothybarham63742 жыл бұрын
Regarding the first story, there's an incident that happened on 4-29-21 where a woman repeatedly hit a couple of flight attendants. She's facing up to 20 years in prison. She didn't threaten to kill anyone, so I know he'll most likely get at least 10 years and a huge fine for that one.
@Michelle0208922 жыл бұрын
In the second story, I hope that lawyer tells his partners about that visit. “you guys are not gonna believe what this old woman wanted to hire me for.” 🤣🤣🤣
@LadyOMyth2 жыл бұрын
Dang. My parents were overprotective growing up but that last story . . . wow. Just wow.
@zeldamarkedlink2 жыл бұрын
The Last Story with the helicopter dad pissed me off so much I had to pause and vent to myself about it. Like that dad is so controlling. I feel so sorry for that girl that she has to deal with a parent like that because nobody should have to deal with a parent like that. It's her life and he should not be dictating what she can and can't do especially if she's a grown woman. And he's doing all this because his mother's sick? I understand that people get stressed out and sometimes they lash out but that does not excuse his bad behavior towards his daughter. If my dad acted like that towards me, I would have put him in his place because there's no way my parents would treating me that way, I would not stand for it. The story pisses me off so much and I feel so sorry for that girl. That dad is going to end up in a nursing home.
@condorboss33392 жыл бұрын
First story: I'm surprised the plane was only two hours late. With all that going on, I figured it would be five hours or more.
@shyrastacy31272 жыл бұрын
Last story was best. This lady needs away from her father just to be able to have a life at all. And yes, the advice given by rslash is true. When you become a super crazy strict parent, your kids sneak around, hide things, and lie. But if you become your kids best friend, you become their "go to" person.
@tazhienunurbusinezz17032 жыл бұрын
Idk if those "unruly passengers" realize just how bad they are gonna get screwed. The fines alone can be tens of thousands. Ef around & find out, I guess, but a plane is an incredibly stupid place to do that.
@TheSilverLioness2 жыл бұрын
I really hope that that girl from the last story can go NC with her dad soon, and I hope she can be safe after that, because abusers can go ballistic in moments...
@IzzyCoventina2 жыл бұрын
As someone who used to work for Delta Airlines... It's NOT surprising what so ever 🤦🏼♀️ They were also the same people who called ME (in reservations) for a refund after "tHe wAy THeY tREatED mE & mY FAMILY!" 🤣
@nicolelawrence77222 жыл бұрын
#1 R/slash the no fly list only applies to the one airline, in this case American. There's a federal no fly list and that's separate. The airlines wanted to combine their no fly lists for unruly passengers because this happens so much lately. But republican senators blocked it because most of the issues are related to wearing masks. Grandma story - My husband's grandfather was sued by his side piece for not divorcing my husband's grandmother...his wife. She wanted a court to force a divorce and marriage. She got laughed out of court, and even though my husband's grandfather stayed with the side piece, he never divorced his wife. My husband's grandmother outlived both of them. When my husband's grandfather died his oldest daughter wanted the side piece acknowledged as a concubine in the obituary. The side piece ended up not being acknowledged at all.
@marjoriejohnston49052 жыл бұрын
Since the feds got involved, that one might be on the federal list. Or, at least the dad, since he was the one with the threats. Mom and kids will probably be on the company one, at least for a while. No idea how long those last.
@nicolelawrence77222 жыл бұрын
@@marjoriejohnston4905 Doesn't mean they'll be on the federal no fly list. If they were, why would the airlines be pushing to combine their lists? He lives in LA but got banned of American, it's hardly an inconvenience.
@DeviantLightDragon2 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, my father to this day complains that my mother is “keeping his children from seeing him“. I am the youngest. I am a 30 year old woman!! Some people are just delusional. It’s so hard for him to believe that we have our own lives, our own families, live all over the country, and don’t want to visit him because he’s a narcissistic sociopath. Yeesh.
@pauln072 жыл бұрын
Damn that story about the overcontrolling dad paying for rent lol. My dad has access to my bank account and pays my rent, I'm catching a train 2hours to go visit my dad not because he forced my but because we are both responsible adults who hang put like responsible people because we both want to. I'm so grateful my parents are reasonable people damn.
@sjonesie1 Жыл бұрын
"Why did you keep having kids" cracked me up. Like my wife says "never be outnumbered".
@Thebelladonnabelle2 жыл бұрын
Just got up and about to head off to school, what a great start to the day! Thanks Rslash!
@JasperCatProductions2 жыл бұрын
I hate screaming running children in a plane or a restaurant.
@thegreatstoneddragon94322 жыл бұрын
I hate screaming, running children.
@LtDan3342 жыл бұрын
Used to work at my local international airport and let me tell you, DO NOT mess around and find out near and especially in an airport. Feds run security and private companies run the airlines and BOTH will pass costs off to unruly people like this first story. companies have contracts and the airport has Federal Law. Dont win that stupid prize.
@jessaquino42862 жыл бұрын
Love having breakfast while listening to rSlash 😌 great start to the day
@marooniballooni037592 жыл бұрын
Same
@etcetera19952 жыл бұрын
Shame on the 'calm' mother. Her responsibility isn't to stay with a man who treats her child like shit.
@dengsuevang10352 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: it takes a week to drive from Carolina to California.
@d.phantomfan12162 жыл бұрын
Listening to these stories really makes me appreciate my parents.
@wightmamba80852 жыл бұрын
I live with an entitled sister in her mid 30s, she is incapable of clarity and thinking that she is fault, she blames my dad or younger sister (who lives 2 states away) and she lives off and with my parents and has no job.
rSlash, man... I believe it was 86 when my inlaws (six adults, two kids) drove from North Texas to Disney World and I am still very proud to say that I killed no one... Although, strangulation did cross my mind from time to time. Even with all of us packed into a Chevy Astro, none of us were anywhere close to being as bad as that airline family. As for that controlling jerk of a, supposed, father. Okay... I consider myself a very strict parent. The kids do too. However, I am the first one they come to when they have a problem. Everything from "Hey... I'm out drinking with people and I need a ride home." to, "My boyfriend/girlfriend had a huge fight. Can I come over to vent a while?" Yeah, I'm strict but no matter what the kids have always known I care deeply for them and their well-being. Also, I think young adults should work retail for a while to let them know the other side of the coin when dealing with other people. It teaches mutual respect for others. The, 'Be nice to the janitors because without them no business can run' concept was taught from the time they were old enough to understand.
@impagain2 жыл бұрын
I knew the second the guy made a death threat that the plane was being diverted. That's not something airlines take lightly. Now, thanks to him, his whole family almost certainly on a no-fly list. It's been happening all the time now that if someone makes a threat on themselves or someone else, they land the plane and arrest them. The FAA is done taking passengers shit.
@devinstewart10722 жыл бұрын
The first story is absolutely hilarious in an ironic sense. In less than 30 minutes, I have an interview with the TSA. 🤣
@Originella2 жыл бұрын
I hid stuff from my dad for *YEARS.* I've told him about it in the last couple of years, and his response is, "Why do you get so gleeful about lying to me?!" Um, because you were a straight up abusive person when you did find out I screwed up as a pre-teen and teenager...?
@hellefur66312 жыл бұрын
Two opposite stories. First one: No control over the children. Absolutly no interest in parenting. Last story: Absolutly overcontroling parent. Don't people know how to balance parenting?
@michaelcook62882 жыл бұрын
Story 1, stuff like this happens quite often. You don't read or check up on any news do you?
@nicolelawrence77222 жыл бұрын
I was like...which time?
@Yossarianthe862 жыл бұрын
I mean, he checked it out.
@XAnimeXChick2 жыл бұрын
I work at an airport as a cleaner and I've seen my fair share of entitled people, and I have mad respect for cabin crew. They're so nice but are so badass, they take no shit, there's signs everywhere telling people to be respectful on flights but there's still ding dongs and cabin crew handle them amazingly
@MGlBlaze2 жыл бұрын
I was willing to believe the first story, since there are definitely people like that in the world and a passenger on a plane threatening to hunt down and shoot one of the flight attendants is a BIG problem. Glad to see you turned up a news article from the same day as the reddit post, though - definitely good to actually check and confirm things.
@samanthawhitehead1482 жыл бұрын
As someone that had controlling parents growing up I would say she handled things really good. My dad also tried to control my spending when I was living on my own and paying my own bills. It got so bad that I completely ignored all phone calls and went and stayed at a friends house for a couple days so they didn’t know where I was. Looking back I know it probably scared them a bit. But it got the message across. They were still controlling, but they relaxed with my bank account.
@tiredman992 жыл бұрын
Oh boy. Threatening to shoot someone is bad, but doing so on the plane is much much worse
@Gashnaw2 жыл бұрын
"Am I the problem?" Make me think of that Simpsons episode Skinner: Am I so out of touch? No, it is the children who are wrong. so "Am I the problem?" "No, it is the world that is wrong."
@bibianaguadalupeislasherre98802 жыл бұрын
The last story should have a subreddit of its own called "Entitled Families" where some families think they deserve everything for themselves and no one else.
@shotjon29572 жыл бұрын
I would love to see that dad with a clean resume, no previous experience, try to get a job at an office or other higher job.
@timbo43742 жыл бұрын
I used to work for a major airline. You would be surprised at the absolutely insane things airline employees have to deal with. They don't realize that screwing around on an aircraft, or going onto an airfield is a federal offense, and can land them in a world of trouble, up to and including serving time in a federal prison. All over something totally stupid. Flights get diverted to have unruly passengers removed from the aircraft on a fairly regular basis, and those people end up in a world of legal problems. Those incidents don't always end up in the news.
@MrBounceoutboi2 жыл бұрын
Entitled person waking up from a nightmare: "oh my god it was scary, the world didn't revolve around me and I wasn't the center of everyone's attention, thank me it was a night mare. Oh boy 5am time to go enrich the lives of teenager workers at the local grocery store with my presence"
@JUMALATION12 жыл бұрын
My mom was the prime example of controlling behavior back when I was living with my parents as a legal adult. I was not allowed to store any sort of alcohol in my room, and my mom even poured out imported bottles hours after I got them as a gift. Right now I have zero official bank records of purchasing anything from a liquor store.
@tomm.catt.99112 жыл бұрын
Me: listens to this while at work, in a retail store The last story: Me: Wow, I'm a low-life addict now!
@Donkeyearsa2 жыл бұрын
It's not a matter of the number of cases of unruly passengers has increased its more that the flight crew is just having people arrested for the slightest perceived problem. Being cranky for any reason can get you arrested even if that its totally understandable and you are not actual being openly hostile to the flight crew. Where in the past the flight crew would put up with more than they really should now just doing something that would be extremely minor will now get you arrested. There are plenty of news reports on extremely minor issues that got someone arrested on a flight.
@AXN8322 жыл бұрын
Just bought a plane ticket right before watching this video.... I hope no entitled parents decide to take my flight
@realbadger2 жыл бұрын
No matter what goes down on a plane, I just wait it out. Interestingly enough, in college in the early 1980s, I worked with a co-op program, and got a job working reservation phone bank for now defunct PEOPLExpress airlines. At one point they had us assigned to work in the terminal itself (Newark Airport), helping station agents. It was more like shadowing than actually _doing_ anything, as I was only the equivalent of a paid intern. Well it so happened, on the night I was there, we ended up having some massive weather in various areas of the country, and it was delaying flights right and left. I shift ended at around 10:00 p.m. . The hallways were lined with seated passengers, as they were not enough seats to accommodate entire plane loads of several flights. Essentially the poor passengers were waiting for a plane to arrive to take them to Buffalo. Unfortunately, as the plane was arriving, and the passengers were all cheering that this was their escape from newark, station agents and I had been made aware that it was not going to be going to buffalo, but to a different Airport, is the rains in Buffalo are still too severe. At the end of our shift, two station agents and I walk the entire length of the corridor with people who are elated that they were going to escape, us in the silent night that they were not going to be going anywhere anytime soon, we found slightly bad, but we were smart enough to know we were not going to be the ones to tell them of their flight plight...
@bella-rolland Жыл бұрын
dad: how dare you get a job daughter: *because you don't give me money*
@gottathinkupanewone2 жыл бұрын
Story one: I hope that crazy flier can't rent a car to get back home, either. I hope he has to take a bus with his four undisciplined brats. Bus drivers take no crap!
@matthewmcdaid79622 жыл бұрын
Passenger Threatened to Kill Flight Attendant... I'm astonished. How did the pilot manage to come about and land at Albuquerque, off-load disruptive passengers, re-fuel, get a maintenance check and still arrive at Los Angeles only two hours late? Hats off to the pilot and co-pilot. Outstanding job of flying.
@365ral2 жыл бұрын
Story 1: OP made the RIGHT turn at Albuquerque. (Bugs Bunny, anyone?)
@fdm21552 жыл бұрын
The law student's dad is gonna be SO shocked when she goes full no contact about 10 minutes after graduation. 😆😆
@bronzegears62812 жыл бұрын
There's something magical about Dafney going off. Like its so satisfying to listen to
@cathy7861 Жыл бұрын
You're right! When you interfere with one of the plane attendants the penalties are quite steep. Not only is the fine high but the person can also get up to 10 years in jail. From what you've said, it couldn't happen to a better guy.
@amandabear7072 жыл бұрын
Even before 9/11 you couldn't get away with saying that on an airplane
@hay2bay2 жыл бұрын
Lmao 🤣 grandma sueing for 24 year old got me, I love my grandma and I know I'm lucky to have mine
@razemander2 жыл бұрын
My parents were very controlling of me, and it resulted in me being a shut in with basically no social life. I started arguments and discussions against it and it took me a full year to get them to relax. Parents need to realise that their 'precious babies' are people and not mindless pets.
@alexfromoz21032 жыл бұрын
That grandma trying to sue for visitation, while its kinda crazy its also kinda sweet. Like she wants you to be part of her life so bad that shes willing to go that far to get it.
@meganfenton41895 ай бұрын
Two hours is actually a remarkably short time to be late, considering what the actual hold up was.
@LilMizRandom092 жыл бұрын
That dad has a really creepy sense of agency over his daughters body.
@thewolfofdoyle2 жыл бұрын
The thing about narcissism and stupidity they can’t cure either one of them but you can cure a ham so instead of trying to cure a relative or person of their narcissistic tendencies or stupidity just go up and cure a ham lol 😂
@christianmichalsky28262 жыл бұрын
I have never felt something so relatable, like the last story, so much 😭
@Deas-Mhumhna2 жыл бұрын
Last story: very true. My siblings still hid stuff from our parents because they were strict. We even hid them while we lived in the house. They never wanted to hear from us and every conversation ended with "dont talk back to mee" and "my house. My rules". A big reason why I wanted to move out. And have been happy ever since.
@Gancanna2 жыл бұрын
Smart and considerate parents that travel a lot ALWAYS have something handy to occupy their kids.
@ashleyunderwood48552 жыл бұрын
“Everyone remain calm!!! I’m an Air Marshal!!” “Yeah I knew it I got your back John!!”