r/Prorevenge How I Got My Sexist Boss Fired

[@hershy1594]

Honestly the story about the surprise gay visit to the boss was nuclear revenge. He made fun of a mentally disabled kid and then he lost the wife, kids, and house.

[@joshuamanwell5514]

Yeah and he just made his kids deal with divorced parents and a wife dealing with being a single mother so yeah nuclear revenge but also OP is just a pos in that story

[@ketytro2288]

That guy said one thing wrong this could have handle better way than that. But I this that was too far

[@sugarkane1571]

I think he had it coming to him. Sure, punishing him for this one isolated incident is disproportionate, but the boss is a serial douchebag and definitely not his first run in with pissing people off. Just think of it as karma building up rather than this one time he insulted a disabled person.

[@Elucidus4]

@@sugarkane1571 Yeah, sorry Karma would be if he had actually been cheating on his wife, they destroyed that family, including the wife and child's life...because he was mean to people. That's not karma, that's being a douchebag to him. People can justify horrendous acts based on the smallest infractions today, doesn't make it right.

[@fanfictiondreamer7836]

I disagree, his family needed to be told about how he made fun of a mentally disabled kid. The nuclear revenge would have been far more severe than what was mentioned in the story. That guy deserved so much worse. It takes a special kind of scummy creature to make fun of someone with a mental disability.

[@thenecroticraptor8338]

Story 1: I will _never_ not find it funny how even the guys that Dorian left alone wanted him gone.

[@TomDarkwulf87]

That says a LOT about just how much of a scumbag he is

[@nikoisland6731]

Well yeah I wouldnt want to work with that shit

[@jessicaraelene5276]

Why? Shouldn't they want to protect the women they work with? Kudos to them.

[@Chspas]

What Jessica said. I would never want to work with anyone who didn’t treat all his workers with respect.

[@samsmith4242]

@@jessicaraelene5276 Not even that. You want to be associated with him? I mean, they didn’t sound unattractive and that scumbag made the workplace a pain to talk to people with

[@vincentstuart9562]

"Housekeeping had cleaned out everything in his office.....except the name plate which the night staff took as a trophy." I have no idea why but this got me really good.

[@varahunter68]

cackled when he got to that

[@richewilson6394]

The staff should've went to the press on that hospital with the sexual harassment and go to court for the emotional damages.

[@tiredman99]

EMOTIONAL DAMAGE!

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

@Wolf-dog Cat-dog 2.0 these types are practically the norm in this industry. Workplace bullying is a major cause of the nursing shortage in the U.S. over 150,000 nurses graduate each year, and always still a shortage because of how many are legit driven away. 17-30% leave within the first year of employment, and upto a staggering 56% leave within the 2nd year. HR and management rarely help staff.....that is why even after everything they had about the horrible stuff he was doing AT WORK they knew they had to keep looking, because admin only fears bad press, and they could easily blame Dorian for his own work actions and would just do a suspension at most....it was having it pointed out about the lack of a background check that turned it into more than just a slap on the wrist.

[@black1917]

@@SoManyRandomRamblings Hence why they should always go public.

[@itsjustmaddisen]

@@tiredman99 That’s a lotta damage-

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

@@black1917 I wish they would...... it would expose over 60% of all facilities as being super toxic. But hospitals have a budget of millions annually, set aside specifically for covering up their misdeeds. It is planned to hide it always, pay offs of medical staff are budgeted for, and is how many actually get real pay, and why they stay at these places.

[@xKCAZxLEADER]

First Story: Glad that the harasser does get fired. People who harass other co-workers are the worst and it sounds like OP was working in a horrible clinic. I’m so glad that everyone came together to get rid of Dorian, Kip, and Dr Steve Second Story: Rob sounds like an immature child. If OP didn’t mention that he was their former boss, I’d think he was a child. Rob deserved to lose everyone in his family. Jake is a massive bro for what he did 😂 Third Story: Monica is the type of person who causes people to mistrust daycares. Not being able to come inside to get the kid is a huge red flag Fourth Story: Another reason why people mistrust daycares

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

@Wolf-dog Cat-dog 2.0 bullies are so common in the medical field it is insane. The workplace bullying institute has said they get more reports from the medical field than any other industry.

[@charliegone1652]

My mother used to work in a daycare, while she tried to follow the rules...the bosses never did. They'd taken in more kids than they should at times and spread them out. They wouldn't properly vet new hires, etc..luckily one of the workers there reported them and they fixed the issues..but boy does she have stories to tell for months about the parents of certain children....let me tell you...

[@floxer]

Did someone else hear the name of the first poster as "I'm hurting cats" and was like wtf

[@adrianne7882]

@@floxer I turned on the subtitles and they show it as being "I'm HURDING cats".

[@floxer]

@@adrianne7882 Uhm... The name is at the bottom left, it is "IAMHERDINGCATZ".

[@Dog_in_tree]

I could never trust a daycare after hearing so many horror stories. Hell, I wouldn't trust a doggy daycare either, especially after working at a few.

[@supersonicgirl1]

I don’t blame you at all.

[@shanelbryant5638]

One of my aunts found an in home daycare for my cousin when he was about 2 months old. She had to pull a late shift and sent my older cousin to pick him up, meaning she was about 2-3 hours early and she caught the sitter smoking weed in the room with him with no ventilation. (I say this because the weed smoking wasn’t even the issue where we lived, it was being high with the baby and exposing them to secondhand smoke)

[@JessFirefox]

I used to work at a daycare and oh the stories I could tell. That's why I became a sahm when my kid was born

[@I_want_White_Cheddar_Popcorn]

Head down to GA, theres an amazing place called Dog Spot

[@joselynayala6943]

Sorry 😞

[@princess_shymiera]

The daycare story brings me back to my toddler years. A boy had given me hard bite marks on my arm (I still have the polaroid to prove it). The kid was never punished because, as it turned out, a reletive of his worked there. Mom pulled me out of there and the place shut down a couple years later

[@vaporean_boylove.0w083]

My guardians, (Mom, Dad, Uncle, and Grandma) would probably go in there and chewed out their brains if I came home with harsh bite marks. Hell would have come early XD

[@stefanpariyski3709]

I love how simple, yet impactful the setup of the second story is. It took just two (probably rather short) conversations to screw the boss over big time.

[@kervinsantos5808]

I would even say that it was just dumb luck too

[@charleneblack2792]

My kids daycare was on the news for 3 carers being convicted of child abuse. My daughter was 2, my son 8 months. They were there 2 weeks & my daughter had cried every single day. My husband witnessed a carer dragging a kid across the floor. My son would be sitting in the exact spot we left him in. 2 months after pulling them out, they were on the news. I've been a stay at home mom who homeschools ever since. I'm terrified to send them to any school.

[@justarandomviewer6756]

Oh god that’s honestly terrible to think what your kids had to witness under the care of those people. Hope they’re doing good

[@General_C]

Private daycares are radically different from a public school. Trust me, public schools do NOT get away with shit like that for long. I'd know. I just graduated.

[@10Raccoon]

@@General_C Whether you like it or not, a lot of shit goes on in public schools and it is only getting worse. Having been in public school and home schooled, I would much rather home school my kids because there was a lot more opportunity in it.

[@thereareantsbehindyoureyes7529]

@@10Raccoon public school is awful but nothing compares to the isolation and depression that comes from being homeschooled

[@st4rpt_603]

I understand and simpatize with your fear, but please allow them to have interaction with other people, don't shelter them too much otherwise they will have difficulties with social interaction and/or possibly a fear of social interaction due to it.

[@Martynde]

The Rob story - how will he learn not to be mean if he doesn’t know being mean is what caused his life to fall apart? The two incidents are entirely unrelated to him.

[@sockjim9016]

Agreed. Obviously I can’t speak for op or the kid but as a developmentally disabled person myself (autism), I wouldn’t wish that kind of thing on someone who insulted me like that, awful as it is. After all, it’s not like the guy is learning a lesson or getting put in his place; he’s just getting his life ruined for, as far as he knows, no reason. That’s just cruelty for cruelty’s sake.

[@Arob4343]

I agree. I think OP’s brother (and kinda op) are the bigger buttholes in that one. They ruined the Rob’s life and he doesn’t know why. They screwed up his daughter’s life. And all over…a rude comment? Rob was like a 2/5 but the ‘protagonists’ are like 3.5/5 for me

[@firesong7825]

Don't think the intention was to teach him anything, instead it was only to get revenge.

[@pusheenqueen519]

Revenge doesn't mean teaching a lesson. F*ck this dude, his family is better off without him. The story mentions this incident was just the final straw for his wife, this dude is an all around jerk and his daughter is probably happier not having him around.

[@twiceshy9773]

Yep, that was the only problem I had with this story- this wasn't "revenge", it was more like karma

[@skunkrat01]

Something similar happened in my hometown of Melbourne Australia. I think it was a 2 year old girl, had been left in her daycare, door locked, lights off, no one there etc. It was around the corner from my sister's house, who also had a two year old kid and would have put her into that very daycare. It was a massive story for several days, leading to governmental reviews and all sorts. But seriously, how hard is it to count how many kids have gone in, and how many have left, and reconcile those numbers??!?

[@10Raccoon]

I have a friend that works for the daycare run in our church and he told me how every kid has to be signed in by an approved adult and signed out by an approved adult because of stuff like this and issues with non-custodial parents

[@richardp5920]

Story 3: if your kid starts experiencing potty training regression after starting at a new daycare, look into that right away. More than once I’ve seen reports that overbooked daycares will put toddler-aged kids (or older) in diapers, so that they don’t have to deal with bathroom trips.

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

It can also indicate psychological abuse....so most definitely look into that warning sign, it is a major red flag.

[@cristinaolteanu4649]

A colleague of mine told me about the time her daughter was little and she put her into kindergarden (about 3yo) and she wasn't yet potty trained. Well, the teacher/carer's way of potty train the kids was to leave the kids without nappy on and if they had an accident to shame them in front of the other kids, ENCOURAGING the others to laugh too 🤮 The poor little girl managed to be potty train in about 2 weeks, which was good, but with what price?

[@PoochieCollins]

@@cristinaolteanu4649 what happened to the nasty child carer who did that?

[@JokesInBase13]

My mom ran a home daycare when I was in middle/high school and let me tell you, the regulation book on that sort of business is FORMITABLE and requires a lot of dedication to maintain, BUT even WORSE is the federal income tax. Home-based daycares have a COMPLETELY different set of IRS rules to follow and it used to take me and my mom 4 solid DAYS of work to put everything together (and she couldn't just hire someone because most tax professionals had no idea how to do them because it was so niche), so if they really wanted to drive things home with this lady, I'm betting an IRS audit would turn up quite a bit of tax evasion...

[@justarandomviewer6756]

I can only imagine the mountains of paperwork you guys had to deal with.

[@vaporean_boylove.0w083]

IRS is the irl boogie man for adults!

[@jonmendelson1104]

The boss losing his family story reminds me of something I used to do with some of my friends. If we saw someone we recognized out in public and they didn't see us, we'd tell the friend we were with about how we knew the person, and then the friend would go over to the person and say something like "oh hey Bob, how are you? I met you at that conference in that place." 9 out of 10 times, the person would "remember" meeting the friend, even though they had never met before.

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

That's funny! My brother likes calling someone by their name and asking how they are doing by reading their name tag when they aren't at work. Often they either are shocked on how he knows their name or they also pretend to remember him. Most of the time they are shocked and they forget they still have their name tag on.

[@Center-For-I.E.D.Mismanagement]

First story: OP: "Yes, I had three bosses." Wow. An actual Office Space scenario.

[@samhainnc9416]

2nd story. If it was true. Fine Bob deserved 'revenge' because he was a horrible person. But you also potentially ruined the lives of others who were innocent. Wife and daughter could have still loved him but now he doesn't see his child much because of I guess the divorce for cheating and him being assumed gay. So good job hurting more innocent people for the revenge on one.

[@MrKingArthurhk]

The first story reminds me why there are abandoned hospitals for urban explorers to go around filming.

[@hyzenthlayrose2176]

"Our next Reddit post is from IAmHerdingCatz" Dude at first I heard that as "I'm HURTING Cats" and got very concerned lmao

[@josephnorris4095]

Last story: Holy crap, I am imagining the dad smashing the front door window, breaking in and getting his son out of there.

[@adrianne7882]

If I was in that situation, I would do this exact thing, along with suing them and giving ALL the news channels a heads up on what happened!

[@rekardo3]

A chemist froze himself at -273. 15°c, everyone said he was crazy but he was 0K

[@FierceCat04]

High iq joke.

[@fendviyo]

👉👉💨💨

[@MiraMotou]

😂

[@jiogcyihsugyiocjfdoivhphvw6821]

booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

[@DaemonwarriorJulius]

Took me a moment but r/technicallythetruth

[@metademetra]

I'm not sure #2 actually happened. Is a stranger saying "yeah we totally had sex in your house" really enough evidence to say that Rob really did cheat??? Presumably this is a person from work. And Rob may have reasonably talked about the Baby Yoda plushie at work. I don't think someone's final word would be "yep I will divorce you immediately."

[@PoochieCollins]

The handful of pretty specific details about the man's preferences and life would be strong evidence that the "gay" man's story was true, as well as that it's normally so weird that someone would fake a stunt like that.

[@YamiNoSensei13]

It's implied that wifey was tired of Rob's general unpleasantness anyway, and this was either the last straw, or a convenient excuse to get out

[@blackcreators]

🤣 The Rob story reminded me of this. I had a girlfriend that worked at a fast food joint. Her manager was a real piece of work, a complete jerk. Once he even called my girlfriend c u next Tuesday (him and I got in a fistfight over they one). So a couple weeks later I'm out to dinner with some friends. I see this jerk walk in with his parents and his new fiancee and it instantly hit me what I wanted to do. One of my friends, Debbie, was a crazy girl that would do anything for a laugh or to get back at someone. I tell her the deal with the guy and ask her to get some tears going (she could cry at will) and to go over to his table and say the following: "Mike, I'm so sorry. The tests came back positive so you need to make an appointment". She delivered her lines perfectly and ran from the restaurant wailing. Mike's fiancee broke up with him immediately threw the ring in his face and left. His parents spent a good half hour yelling at him. People say I was mean but I like to consider myself creatively malicious 😁

[@RealCoolstriker64]

“Hi boss, I’m resigning. I just wanted to let you know that calling my cousin the r word wasn’t very nice.” Wink and walk away

[@lifewuzonceezr]

right!!! why did they continue to work for a toxic person?

[@RealCoolstriker64]

@@lifewuzonceezr no that’s what I would’ve done at the cookout

[@Ilovepointlessstorys]

I would say the one with the boss, and getting his wife to divorce him was more nuclear revenge. Just for the fact that those two situations did not equal each other. Yeah it was a D bag move call the kid that word. Does not equate to now you’re going to lose your family.

[@ladyvee2090]

The guy didn't even love his wife. And if he's gonna treat a special needs kid that way why should he be trusted with other children?

[@KhadaJhin04]

The story is fake, felt like it was written by a 15 year old, the hoops in logic, the weird outcome, the cringe typical meanie boss insult, that's not how real life people interact or react.

[@Shadowgod1000]

Thank you, going after that relationship is completely unjustified and inappropriate. You want to get them fired because he is a crappy boss, I wouldn't complain I'd be like you know what he's shown that he's not a good person to be a boss. But trying to ruin a marriage, completely uncalled for and don't forget there's a daughter so now you're making her have a broken family. Honestly the "protagonist" could be viewed as a bigger villain than the antagonist.

[@Shadowgod1000]

@@ladyvee2090 He doesn't really have a relationship with the other children, he does clearly love his daughter though and that does change the dynamic. I agree he is crap and if they got him fired then I would think that's fair, but don't forget the daughter now has a broken family. One action does not justify another.

[@robertlowther6979]

@@Shadowgod1000 glad to see someone else remembered that there was an innocent child there when the cousin pulled what they did. Yeah, hurt feelings don't equal destroyed family

[@franciscojaviermendezrinco1902]

Fourth story: It sounded too short of an aftermath, leave a kid in a closed and abandoned building goes from child endagerment to child abuse.

[@dinochickrox5649]

That last story reminds me of why my mom took me out of daycare. I was three at the time, and my ear started hurting really bad one day. All day I told the staff and I was brushed off. Later when my mom picked me up, I told her my ear had been all day. When she took my to the doctors they found out I had a bad ear infection. My mom was pissed and took me out immediately.

[@sarah-my1xp]

This boy in school used to bully me and my brother, who is autistic. He send me messages saying “your brother is a r*****”. He got in trouble at the time bc we finally had enough and reported his harassment. I bumped into him a few years ago on a night out and he tried to come onto me in front of his friends. I pulled my phone out, found the messages and showed them to him, asking if he remembered sending them. His friends were very interested to read them 😅

[@CB-yn3gr]

As someone who's been struggling with Autism (atypical) my whole life (was diagnosed at 14. I'm 15 now) the second story makes me really happy.

[@pugking1233]

I have Autism too diagnosed at 13 now im 19 all I can say is it gets easier to deal with but there will always be a few jerks that will think you're stupid because you have Autism don't let them bother you

[@CB-yn3gr]

@@pugking1233 Thank you! To be honest, I haven't really met anyone who's made fun of my diagnose, but it'll probably happen someday. Btw, your words reminded me of a quote from Bojack Horseman: "It gets easier. Every day, it gets a little easier. But you gotta do it every day. That's the hard part. But it does get easier." - Jogging Baboon (S2 EP12)

[@General_C]

@@CB-yn3gr there's gonna be one. Weaponize your diagnosis and run circles around those fucks. It'll be hilarious.

[@AbyssalPrince]

Same I was diagnosed at 5 now 29 and I have also been diagnosed with bi-polar Scysophina , add , adhd , anxiety and depression around 18

[@kayleebrasseaux4736]

I have azbergers disease which is a form of autism. As a toddler I was also diagnosed with ADHD, and bi-polar disorders. As a teenager I developed terrible anxiety and I would get frequent panic/anxiety attacks. The schools I went to had no idea how to approach these and I honestly got in trouble for little things and was made to believe I was a trouble kid. One of my schools had this system where if you didn’t do homework for two days, you were given a slip for your parent to sign and if you failed to get it signed you’d get detention. Well, my disabilities made me very forgetful at times and I’d forget to give my slip to my mom. Needless to say, I got detention a lot. As for the homework slip, I just really hated math they’d make us write out every single step to “show how you got the answer” with at least four division problems per homework assignment. It was very difficult to stay motivated to write these out at times so I would simply not do them after a while. Yeah, I struggled, but nobody tried to help me in any way shape or form and I would be punished for it. It was a huge blow to my self esteem especially when the teachers would constantly call me out about these during detention btw, saying “you’re here again? Figures. Well, here is the assignment, write this down for next hour word for word. You know the drill.” And it would be the literal handbook of rules and regulations for the school. At one part, I knew them by heart but it’s not that I was bad, I just wasn’t motivated to do four math problems that took ten minutes total to do, yeah it wasn’t a lot but it was combined with similar tedious assignments like writing down our spelling page four times in pencil. Then we’d have to study like fifteen vocabulary words by writing them down and memorize dates in history, you get the picture. It was the same in eight subjects every single day. It was a nightmare and just physically and mentally exhausting. And then to top it off, a lot of my classmates found me being different and would single me out by just straight up being fake friends. To say I was stressed was an understatement and it really affected me all the way through high school and I’m still learning and recovering from this. I’m 23 now.

[@doodlefox.0.5]

The last story make my heart drop..why would anyone in their right mind leave a baby alone in a crib??

[@Snowshowslow]

In a locked building, no less! Wth...

[@retroshiba9283]

Something about story 2 seems excessive. Yes, the boss is a terrible person for making fun of a disabled person but, fabricating a story and making them out to be gay when they're not and destroying a marriage and family is a little to much. but now the damage is done.

[@melaniefiscus]

I had a similar experience when I had my daughter. I worked full time in the city had to drive almost over an hour to get to work. We set up daycare so we could drop off at 6am and every single time I had to ring the doorbell or something cause she wasn't awake. Ended up losing my job and reporting the daycare cause she had 0 help 2 newborns and like 6 older kids.

[@jiogcyihsugyiocjfdoivhphvw6821]

the revenge at the park with friend trying to kiss the boss is the best story ive ever heard. totally savage and i wouldve paid thousands to see it

[@Kiefsti]

I'm cry laughing, it's brilliant 😂

[@cardinalchaos2278]

The best kind of revenge.

[@pandoraeve9751]

Truly, he's stronger than any US marine.

[@N0xiety]

That story sounds as fake as it comes tbh

[@jiogcyihsugyiocjfdoivhphvw6821]

@@N0xiety ive seen faker. and i would be disappointed if it was a lie

[@Tues48]

Look second guy was wrong but I don't think he shouldn't be able to see his kid over it. That's the thing about these revenge subs, sometimes they just go too far and the revenge doesn't fit the crime.

[@wingracer1614]

If he really is banned from seeing his kids, there's some other reason for it. No judge is going to refuse to allow at least supervised visitation on unsubstantiated claims.

[@Tues48]

@@wingracer1614 ok but one of the claims would have been the cheating that never happened. Some judges don't award custody or visitation to cheaters.

[@wingracer1614]

@@Tues48 Doesn't work that way. You would have to show that the cheating somehow negatively impacted their ability to take care of the child. Like if you abandoned the child to go see the affair partner or if the affair partner was an abuser or something. The wife claiming you cheated with zero evidence of anything isn't enough. Of course family courts/judges do have a lot of discretion so one certainly could rule as such anyway but one parent not getting due process is absolutely grounds for appeal.

[@francescaperron2003]

I recently had my own sexism conflict at work. I work in construction and I am the only female working there. I am 163 cm (5"4) and weigh 72 kg (158 lbs) because I am very muscular. I usually get to carry the heavier things because I am one of the strongest workers. One of my coworkers is a man from Afghanistan. He is shorter and lighter than me. On my first day of work he tried to take an object I was carrying because "He is a man, he can carry it and I can instead go measure something". I told him "No it's fine it's not too heavy for me". Ever since then he has refused to look at me or speak to me. He even told my boss that in his country women don't work and I shouldn't be there. Unfortunatly he still hasn't been fired, instead he rarely shows up to work so he can avoid me.

[@Kiefsti]

Go measure something? Measure his weak ass arms.

[@redbeardedmusician]

Your boss is a coward then if he didn’t immediately squash that shit. I ran a lumber yard/hardware store for years and had to deal with sexist customers regarding females I’d hired. Banned at least two regulars, embarrassed quite a few more.

[@ramenbomberdeluxe4958]

Honestly, you wanna know what’s sad? People never want to believe the stories with open bigotry in them because it’s “sooooo unrealistic” or “nothing like this happens anymore, bigotry is gone!” or some nonsense. I believe you OP. Also, props on being buff, not many women feel comfortable being so because societal pressures and bullying to keep them “palatable and thin”.

[@francescaperron2003]

@@redbeardedmusician I won't talk badly about my boss, but I have many times tried to tell him about this and he just doesn't see the issue. Also thank you for being a good man

[@francescaperron2003]

@@ramenbomberdeluxe4958 Thanks! I used to feel fat but now I just feel strong. I'm very low in body fat but curvy and muscular. Never really fit in until I started working jobs that my body type was perfect for

[@Zalera44]

That second story if fucking disgusting. How can people find it funny to destroy someone's life with a lie like that???

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

Story 1. Finally one hospital succeeded at cleaning house. Dorian types are super common in the medical field.

[@thatonegirlgamer3772]

Imagine being called a slur by your boss in front of a patient. I’d quit on the spot… Edit: this isn’t to say I blame any of them for staying, I just wouldn’t tolerate it.

[@eddiekalista3222]

Daycare Story: My wife is a preschool teacher, so I’m keenly aware of ratio. In our state, Infants is 1 teacher to 4 kids (1/4), toddlers is 1/12, and school age is 1/14. And none of that includes things like square footage of the place being used for care. The agency that handles licensing and standards is incredibly strict, diligently follows any tip, and has the ability to walk in at any time. To give an idea of how serious a call to licensing is, she had a child who was hitting kids, punching/biting teachers, and saying sexual things to everyone. When this kid finally got expelled (that’s a story in itself), the parent made a call to licensing in retaliation, because her angel isn’t a bad kid, it’s just boys being boys. Her call was literally “they kicked my kid out because they don’t like him”. Licensing descended like the plagues of Egypt, and they wanted blood. Thankfully, the staff kept records of the kids behavior, communication with the parents, and I think they even produced footage from the security cameras. And even then, licensing was treating them like terrible teachers. It’s that serious.

[@carlcouslin7535]

Last story, I would have called police and asked them to send an officer as I was going to break the door in, and if I find my child there I want whoever left my kid behind charged with child abandonment.

[@baryonyxwalkeri3957]

Last story: "[...] The workers left him asleep in a crib in one of the back rooms and left for the day." That's kidnapping. Literally.

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

🙄😒😏🤭

[@wingracer1614]

No it's not. It's neglect and/or abandonment but not kidnapping.

[@baryonyxwalkeri3957]

@@wingracer1614 They took the kid and let him nap there. So it's kidnapping...

[@wingracer1614]

@@baryonyxwalkeri3957 He was at the daycare. The father took him there. That's not kidnapping. The only way it's kidnapping is if someone at the daycare took him out of the daycare.

[@hermeticbear]

They left an infant alone in a back room and left the entire building? OMG 😲😲😲😲😲

[@kerribottriell-baxter7345]

OMG with that last one, I think that story actually made headlines around the world from wherever this was from! Similar incidents have occurred here, including the death of children being left on the care buses of the centres.

[@ldannu5627]

When I was a nurse at a senior home , there was this nurse who said of patient,that she never have had $ex, and it was in front of the patient ,and when I complained about it ,I got reprimanded ! ! Quit working there a little while later.. I hated it there!p

[@silverflight01]

Story 2: Never make fun of disabled people. That'll leave you with consequences you should've forseen

[@AbyssalPrince]

Epically if they have friends are made out of chaos AND spite

[@Snowshowslow]

These were not consequences anyone could have foreseen 🤣

[@robertlowther6979]

So you're perfectly fine with the op and their cousin conspiring to do what they did in front of an innocent child?

[@Shadowgod1000]

I agree that you shouldn't make fun of disabled people or really anyone, but the revenge was definitely not on par with the action. Especially look at it from the daughter's point of view, her family just got ripped in half and I didn't pay attention to see if there was an actual age of the daughterless or not, but she might not understand why she can't live with both my parents anymore.

[@costelinha1867]

Never indeed. Make fun of disabled people, and soon karma will bring hell to your life.

[@Caffeinatedwife]

3rd story is exactly why I'm a stay at home mom. I was in daycare before I could talk and I have so so so many bad personal stories of bad daycares and afterschool care.

[@thetruth1816]

Story 1 : why wasn't the HR person removed from their duty ?? Or did I just miss it ??

[@thegrimharvest]

HR would likely only investigate themselves and find they did nothing wrong.

[@thetruth1816]

@@thegrimharvest wouldn't shock me..

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

They weren't removed because although we feel they handled it incorrectly, within that industry workplace bullying is the norm not the exception. According to the workplace bullying institute they get more reports from the medical field than any other. Ever wonder why there's ALWAYS a nursing shortage even though more than 150,000 nurses graduate each year.... bullying legit drives away a vast majority of them. 17-30% leave the field within the first year of employment, and that increases up to a staggering 56% before finishing their 2nd year in the industry. The people above HR don't care if it is mishandled, handling these situations improperly is standard.

[@bigredskye]

She was promoted. (I'm the OP.) The hiring manager was also promoted.

[@BrooklyKnight]

Stories like #2 always give me pause, mainly cuz I'm not sure if the situation feels like a play on a stereotype about LGBTQ+ people or not, resulting in me not knowing if I should grimace or laugh and instead I just.... don't react.

[@PoochieCollins]

The fake gay person act didn't make gay people as a group look bad, so it felt fine to me to revel in bad boss getting payback.

[@ketytro2288]

That guy said one thing wrong this could have handle better way than that. But I this that was too far. Maybe he could have been a good father or good husband. But just because op friend feel bad and op don't have ball to say to his boss he set up a hitman. I think that is future.

[@ketytro2288]

@@PoochieCollins a guy act like a gay guy. And destroy a perfect family. That is a great way

[@TheSolidMidgetOfficial]

First story. I want to know. When OP was asked. That question about the greatest accomplishment. Did they sit there for 7 mins, reliving what happened to them in story form? After that, they snap back from their out of body experiences to tell them what their greatest accomplishment is?

[@lekiscool]

First Story. My first job was like this. Although not a nursing thing. The higher ups at the job went on omission because most people working there were 16-20 and didn’t know that the weird stuff wasn’t normal.

[@HasufelyArod]

My only request to you, rSlash (Dabney), would be that you included the title that the story has. I looked for the NuclearRevenge story where one twin is evil, malignant and rude to the other sibling, basically braking him physically and mentally to the point that he even impregnates the former's girlfriend and the rude evil gets his parents to kick the kinder twin out after coming out as bisexual, then years later as the evil twin is his deathbed and asks the twin to save him, the other says naturally no and disowns him and his family, thus achiving his revenge. I wanted to read the post and it's an emotional roller coaster. I luckily found it, and the name it was really long. The name of that story, which you read is: Entitled twin who got my girlfriend pregnant & entitled parents try to get me to donate my kidney after they disown me for being bi I found it in r/EntitledParents too.

[@privateeyety5735]

That story sounds familiar I think he did it b4

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

@@privateeyety5735 I think you misunderstood their post..... they were asking Dabney to read out the title as the OP wrote it (not to summarize it) since they went looking for that particular story, and they would have found it easier had they been given the actual title as written by the OP in rslash's video.

[@HasufelyArod]

@@SoManyRandomRamblings or even better, include the link of the effing story

[@EMShelley]

I did mouse control work for a "daycare" once during lock down. It was a two-story, old school house. They wanted me to put poison and snap traps everywhere, which I didn't want to do because a kid could easily hurt themselves. But apparently it was alright to do so,, not because they weren't in business, but because they're running it online. ...a daycare. They're running a daycare remotely somehow....... Sure.

[@SebaBress]

Haha, the second story is hilarious. Just imagine you're a teen girl in the park with your family and some asshole just comes by, tells lies about your dad and makes your parents divorce. She probably laughed so much at that one. Completely justified for that insult from someone whose opinion, as OP said, "shouldn't matter".

[@andrewaime9111]

The dude in story 1 did a flashback and I imagined it in my head lol

[@richardmetzler7909]

The second story rubs me the wrong way. If someone deserves revenge, it should be related to something that person actually did, not some completely made-up lie.

[@skorpiongod]

It was more nuclear revenge territory for sure

[@kodahansen8080]

Yeah, especially as it took his daughter away from him. Men unalive themselves for things like that.

[@gl15col]

They broke up his family and made his wife and daughter suffer too. That's way more messed up than an admittedly cruel comment. Let's get some sense of proportion here.

[@redbeardedmusician]

Speaking as a single father, the pain of being separated from your children is high up there. Assuming “Rob” is real, why wouldn’t you just call him out on his behavior? He has no idea what transpired which means he’ll never learn the lesson, never grow as a person…you just punished his innocent child.

[@adamdaman6784]

Yea I feel bad for the teen

[@Shadowgod1000]

For the second story I re-listened to it a few times and while I agree that he's a crappy person, I think the revenge was way too far. Trying to get someone's wife to divorce them because they're a prick isn't a good reason. Them being a lion king bastard sure because you're not really lying, you're just showing the true colors, where this is something completely unrelated. If someone went up to the wife and told her what happened, that would be one thing. But for many people cheating is a line that is immediate deal breaker, so convincing someone that they are just for revenge that has nothing to do with that is wrong and if I was the boss in that scenario I would definitely figure out who that is and ruin their life because they effectively ruined mine, I would also figure out the connection probably and I would probably also find a legal way to bury them because that's slander. Granted I wouldn't to be a prick to start with, two wrongs don't make a right and there's a system in place whether or not the system is effective is a different story but one does not equate the other.

[@raidernation7427]

The 2nd story borders on Nuclear Revenge. Deserved but Damn. Jake is Savage as hell. 😂 👍👍

[@erenthebombjaeger]

Last story reminds me of something I saw on the news. A poor little girl was left all alone with the lights off and locked inside at a daycare when the mother was a little late. The staff had left the small child alone and had gone home leaving her crying for her mom. The mom had to call them to u lock the door because even she couldn’t get in all she could see was her crying child behind the glass door :(

[@katherinezimmerman6997]

Holy s***. As a new mom, that last story is literally my worst nightmare.

[@musicallydisneyamvs6731]

Story 3.) Reminds me of my racist preschool teacher. She lied through her teeth to make sure I was held back. My mom got a social worker involved & found out the truth.

[@tannerarmstrong1496]

The baby yoda story was an overreaction. He was a jerk and upset someone for about 20 minutes and OP ruined his entire life. OP is the greater villian here

[@audreym3908]

Last story: 13 kids + 6 infants with 1 caretaker: that's illegal Isabella (TPN) who has 38 kids with 5 infants: 13? That's child's play.

[@SABRMatt2010]

Story 2: I know this is pro revenge but HOLY CRAP! That is NOT COOL at all. NOT COOL. I know the guy was terrible, but think of the other people that had nothing to do with his being an a-hole who got hurt by that. Reckless and immoral in every way.

[@willowsliquideyeliner7537]

I’ve literally stayed up till 3am on a school morning just to get my daily dose of rSlash in💀

[@jiogcyihsugyiocjfdoivhphvw6821]

except that isnt when the stories are uploaded

[@878manu]

@@jiogcyihsugyiocjfdoivhphvw6821 ye fuck op. There is nothing like Timezones

[@maocow6292]

@@jiogcyihsugyiocjfdoivhphvw6821 different time zones

[@willowsliquideyeliner7537]

@@jiogcyihsugyiocjfdoivhphvw6821 except for me it is? Your forgetting time zones exist😭

[@st33lw0lf6]

@@jiogcyihsugyiocjfdoivhphvw6821 Time zones exist

[@spicydiarrhea5662]

I *love* when LGBTPQIA community wins against injustice racism and bigotry! 💪💪🏳‍🌈

[@mcgovemj]

Sexual harassment is *never* OK.

[@gl15col]

The child care thing happens because not many people want to do that kind of work for the low pay they get. If the US would help with child care more people would be available to work, as it's so expensive if you have a minimum wage job it cost's more for childcare than you make...

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

True. So true. Even people who make more than double minimum wage cannot afford it. I worked alongside a Surgical Assist (who I know made more than $30/hr cuz her job was further up the ladder than mine) and she often complained that childcare was so expensive that she would have more take home money if she was on welfare. Not because welfare paid much at all, it doesn't, (especially compared to cost of living where we were) but because of the savings from being able to not have to pay for childcare.

[@kirstinserise1927]

Story 1) I'm a nurses assistant and this made me start sweating and get goosebumps.

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

Scary how common/relatable workplace issues are in the medical field

[@uniqueapplewood7702]

I would never trust a daycare after my experience in one. When I was 6yrs old, we went on a field trip where during the trip, I fell of the high bar and broke both bones in my arm. Instead of calling 911, they continued with the trip, because they "didn't want to ruin it for the other kids". My mom was so mad when she came to get me and took me to the hospital. I never went back, and now 24 years later, I can still feel the places where the bones were broken at.

[@Mithandune]

With day care story, it reminds me in early 90's when I was in kindergarten. I was left alone for a couple of hours by a teacher in the room, cause television came by, take picked my class, but teacher decide I shouldn't be on playground with other kids when they were filming, so I was sitting, walking 5 year old child doing nothing in empty class :)

[@pandoraeve9751]

Was there any reason why they decided you shouldn't be there? That's so weird.

[@Mithandune]

@@pandoraeve9751 I dunno, teacher just come to me and said i'm staying alone, she didn't said anything more, she took kids, closed the class leaving me alone and left.

[@lauras.9294]

Story 3: I'm training to be a childcare worker in Germany. Becoming a childcare worker takes around 3-5(2-4 years of school and 1 year of practical training) years here and I'm currently in my 4th year. Daycares are usually more public(private ones are rare and even they are bigger facilities than just 1 or 2 people in ca private home) and they are incredibly well regulated. There are a lot of laws surrounding all of that. Here, this womand would never have been able to open this kind of business. For cildren from 3 - 6 years old, you have to have at least 2 people for 20-25 kids there at all times, but for children unter 3 the ratio is 1 caretaker to 3-5 kids(depends on the state in germany and also on the exact ages). Sarah must have been completely overwhelmed, you simply cannot take care of so many toddlers and 6 INFANTS at once, that is absolutely impossible.

[@donaldham308]

I still remember when MaineDOT walked someone out and sent out a memo that no one was to talk to him about anything. I was younger and more naive because now, I’d take that as a challenge because I’ll talk to whoever I damn well please.

[@zacharyzwickl5860]

That last story reminds me of this one bad daycare my mom regrets hiring. I was like 3 or 4 at the time. The way she delt with me was terrible since all she did was kept me alone in a tiny windowless room with a football shaped toy chest. Her resoning for shunning me a room because I was too old to be the babys and too old to be with my sister and the other older kids. And what didn't helped being alone in that oversized broom closet was that at the time I was had a bad habit of getting ear infections. One I remember being dropped off by my mom and shortly after I yelled at for a 49er's poster having a tiny rip on it that I had nothing to do with. The incident that caused my mom to get me and my sister out of the daycare lady's care was that after the daycare lady had a big fight with her husband one of them over night left the house where the daycare was being operated from and the next morning the other chased them down. Needless to say the daycare was shut down for a couple of days. And for that week my mom readjusted the payment since there was a few day where survives was not provided. The daycare lady did not liked that and had an argument with my mom and tge two of them went to court over a sum of like $75. My mom only spoke to the judge for like a minute and won the lawsuit because the daycare lady kept on talking over everyone. The judge only geanted like $35 to my mom which the lady never paid.

[@katherineknapp4370]

Man, the reasons behind all of the ProRevenge breaks my heart! But I'm thankful that Prorevnge was taken, to every single OP y'all are superheroes in my eyes!

[@lwolfstar7618]

I wish all harasser bosses would get what they deserve. Too many just get away with it

[@adamdaman6784]

I’m sorry but the second story was just horrible. Yes what he said to Ben was really horrible, but you went and destroyed the guys marriage over a lie, the guy now lost his daughter and his house.

[@NEMOfishZ92]

It's pro revenge not petty revenge They are not always fair

[@wintertoastie315]

Not being allowed to wright incident reports because it "makes him look bad" I would've walked out right then and there

[@jakubmroz4761]

Damn that second story was so overkill.

[@Shadowgod1000]

So I was catching up to the podcast on Spotify, listen to this post again and the story about ruining the guy's marriage and relationship with his daughter and it makes me all the more upset, doing that to a guy can cause him to have a very bad reaction and say if you like killed himself that would be 100% on you and your cousin. That is one of the very clear examples of the revenge not justifying the crime. It reminds me of a story that rslash covered (a year and a half two years ago I want to say) about this HOA that were targeting him and adding fines sending people to cause grass and bill him for it so he destroyed the grass, and they were able to get him evicted from his own home because of certain things and they drove him to point that he went into an HOA meeting with guns and shot a few people. While that revenge was very extreme, and I don't condone his actions, I can't overly fault him for it because they pushed him the point that he felt like that was his only response. He hit his breaking point which let him do say that killing people is justified for what they did to it. I'll be honest, if someone went out of their way to ruin my whole life, I don't know what I would do, I mean again I wouldn't say the kind of stuff that he said, but earlier this year some people lied and cost me my job and as terrible that was and what it made me think about is nothing compared to losing my family, and if someone calls me to lose what I love most then I don't know how I would respond, whether it's me getting revenge on the person that lied which if I was push enough could lead me to beating him to death or killing myself, and that would maybe seem very extreme, but if you push someone to their breaking point, then it is your fault. OP and her cousin we're wrong, as I think I said in an earlier response to this, if they would have set him up to get fired then I think that's decently justified. If he can't be how a good boss should be, then he doesn't deserve that job and if his wife would leave them because he can't provide any more than that's just a result of that action, which would be collateral dance, but overall justified, specifically going after his marriage, when the incident had nothing to do with that is not justice.

[@songohan3321]

Wait. In the first story, did they fire one harasser just to hire another one?

[@thetruth1816]

Is Dan Snyder ( Washington redskins owner) the one hiring these people??

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

Yes. Bullying is the norm not the exception in the medical field. First guy was only gotten rid of when it was exposed they didn't do a background check otherwise his only punishment would have been a short suspension. That was why even after they had all that proof of horrible stuff he was doing AT WORK, they knew they had to keep digging, they knew they needed more, because bullying is considered commonplace and to be expected when working in the medical field. It's the biggest cause of the perpetual nursing shortage. 17-30% are driven away before they finish their first year in the field and that increases upto a staggering 56% leave the industry before finishing their 2nd year. Bad bosses in medical facilities are the norm. That's why you will notice only a few places ever have the same staff for many years.....nursing staff max is usually about 7 years at a place. On the rare occasion a good workplace is found people will not give up their jobs and will work at the same place their entire careers. But those places are rare.

[@CrystalNibarger]

I just want to know in that last story If the parents ended up suing the company because you don't freaking do that.

[@silverflight01]

Story 3: I've seen so many stories of abusive people in the position of child care. Like, why does it happen so much

[@skorpiongod]

Because you never see the stories of the daycares running safely and normally. Because that's not news worthy.

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

Because just like bullies are drawn to other care industries (like nursing) it is because they enjoy having power over others, that is why so many bullies take care of young, feeble, infirm, and/or elderly. They want to always feel powerful over people around them.

[@RandomIvan101]

When your dyslexia kicks in and you kept reading 'sexiest'

[@zen4realfightman426]

Great bit of advice no matter how much you care about your job don't just follow orders blindly make sure if you're going to follow orders that you have the evidence to throw that person who gave you the orders under the bus

[@thefreack1997]

This vid is currently helping me go thru a hurricane after effect and flash fluds

[@ninomitchell2039]

Life lesson from ahsley's story: sometimes disabled people know were "different" and a lot of those people are self conscious.

[@EonStryker]

Wow, that was swift revenge in story 2, Jake pulled that off so effectively. Bravo! Lol

[@hitmewithacliche]

I'm not sure how comfy I am with the idea of pretending someone had gay sex as revenge. It's one of those things that doesn't seem homophobic on the surface but is just snother way of throwing lgbt people under the bus. Like when people tell women to say they're trans to get men off them like that doesn't get actual trans women unalived. Lying to form the revenge is bad enough but throwing gay people under the bus as if that's the worst thing he coulda done just seems off to me.

[@maranathaschraag5757]

"non-clinical staff were allowed to pass meds"!!!! this is ssssooooo dangerous!! not to mention illegal! I'm having palpitations just thinking about it....

[@fire_fly1386]

Omg I would’ve called the cops immediately after finding out my child had been left alone

[@BVBGirl-3313]

My mom dropped me off at a daycare at like a year old(they both worked) and she told me for some reason she felt she had to call the daycare. When she called they told her they couldnt find me. Who loses year old baby. 😱 They then actually hung up on my mom to go search for me. 🙃 So my mom calls her boss to tell she needs to use leave for a family emergency, turned the car around and floored it back to the daycare. They called her as she was racing back to tell her they had found me under the administers desk asleep. 🤨🤔 Who the eef knows what happened, I was too young to remember. My mother however still drove to the daycare and pulled me out immediately. Afterwards she always did suprise visits after running background checks to put me in the right ones.(we moved later on then that one had a lice issue due to neglected bunnies and the last one was the best and the best times of my childhood, the majority of the teachers were great and im still friends with one of the kids i met there, then i aged out and went to an after school program before sports became like a daycare lmao)

[@madambutterfly1997]

That is a momentous achievement. To bring down an entire SH conspiracy in the company

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

Agreed super momentous, since they rarely succeed. Usually they keep getting away with it until they do it someone not employed with them.

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

Agreed super momentous, since they rarely succeed. Usually they keep getting away with it until they do it someone not employed with them.

[@DarkEinherjar]

The sad thing about the first story is that the people running the unit didn't learn their lesson... I guess sometimes the only way for them to learn is to go under.

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

True. They kinda don't feel like they need to learn their lessen since that type of hostile work environment is the norm within the medical field. The workplace bullying institute gets most reports filed coming from the medical industry than any other.

[@kat_n_fandom]

Story 1: kudos to the Night Shift who felt they needed to go the extra mile to help the other shifts

[@primordialsoupgod2850]

I'm just into the second story and 8 think I'm going to skip since this already sounds so fucking fake it's making my food taste like plastic

[@ramenbomberdeluxe4958]

How? Because you think that bigotry doesn’t happen ever? Grow up lol

[@1crazysushiluver91]

That first one made me so happy 🤣🤣

[@Cookie-nc2tf]

Story 2 has already been read on this channel. Luv ur vids

[@sealand000]

Plot twist: Rob watched this video and found out who was behind the episode.

[@christopherandresen9790]

a friend of mine did something similar to the last just that he was working in a company that lets say have some delicate data on their servers. They have some contracts with goverment and so they have the habit that if you try to hack into their system (and be it just an empty laptop) they would basically flood your system with virus and trojan programs. They have a server setup only for that purpose. Well my friend got these calls all the time so he asked his IT department for help and they just gave him a laptop that was connected to a sandbox network with only that special server and the laptop connected to it. After the caller "convinced" him into letting him remote into his laptop the phonecall suddenly lost connection like if something cut them off. He never got a call back...

[@gwenstephan67]

Jesus, that last story.... I used to work at a daycare and ratios are serious business. Iirc, it's 4 infants to 1 adult, 6 1-2 yr olds per adult, and 10 3 yr olds per adult. How much do you wanna bet she wasn't changing their son's diaper all day?

[@jojofox4566]

Sounds like Dorian was speedrunning to be the worst person possible

[@Hezenii]

Baby got left in the backrooms 😱 hope no smilers got him!!!