This surely is one of the best videos of yours all these years. So, thank you for that. I'm in somewhat same situation you are in and at the same time so different. Am a Japanese man married to American woman for good over 40 years with no kids (my choice first and regret for the rest of my life). Your videos always get me something to think about life and family, and I can easily say you have done the best you could do in your life. So, again thank you so much for the videos especially this one. Am 70 years old. No tears here, but I say life is what happens when you are busy making or not making other plans.