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[@andersonnguyen7801]

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[@jimhalpert994]

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[@lilyd.6107]

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[@yslroses]

"i dont think that parents realize the pressure that they're putting on their kids now" yes say it louder!

[@abstractions1816]

Yes. My girlfriend is suffocated by pressure by her mother to the point where she's struggling to do anything and her mum is completely blind to it. Parents really do need to realise.

[@edxenvertigo6701]

say it louder so the people in the back can hear you! ✊🏼

[@moopercccurry1442]

we love fortnite *says reallllllyyy reallly loud*

[@nickthongpaseuth4246]

The thing is it's even the real life

[@zitlali8350]

Yes please

[@JishinDX]

One of the problems with bullying is that no parent wants to think their kid is a villain. They minimize and excuse terrible behavior and fight administrators who try to discipline their kids and enforce the existing rules. Parents of both the victims and bullies can be willfully blind to the warning signs because they don't want to see them.

[@adonaitdaniel3422]

So?

[@shhhparkyarky6391]

that’s what a good parent is i i would want my parents thinking the worst of me thinking i’m a horrible person

[@carlaijahlee5006]

Shhhparky Arky true but as a parent you have to be mindful of the traits and characteristics of a bully and or victim. And if you can see signs of your kid being a bully you have to notice and talk about it. You can’t keep excusing your child because you don’t want to believe there a bully. You go off of their actions.

[@anonymoussmith187]

When today's parents call you lazy and get angry when really they don't realise what their kids are actually going through

[@thankubiebs5414]

Joshua Smith My parents.

[@rihem8481]

the story of my lifeee

[@T2G-DJT]

Mona Lisa I fucking *hate* parents who go like “You should be grateful”. When I complain about how my mom always puts black peppers in my food, she always goes “You should be grateful because there are kids starving in Africa”.

[@ballou1778]

My situation exactly. They think I'm pouting, having an attitude... But no, I just want to end it all..

[@xionstevens4955]

Yup...😔

[@zain4526]

school: "Don't watch 13 reasons why because it romanticizes suicide" school:"Let's make our students read Romeo and Juliet!!"

[@kaylalalawatersss56]

Everyone wants to say their love is like Romeo and Juliet. So maybe they don't relate as much as they do to 13RW but they still understand and believe their love is like it.

[@TrekBeatTK]

Romeo and Juliet doesn't romanticize suicide. It's tragedy. The trouble is teachers who have been teaching it wrong for years.

[@jpest17]

It romanticizes suicide by making it literally romantic.

[@Kangkung88]

13 reason why make highschool girls like "u go girl u're our hero" fck that. Teenage girls always like badboy, they always thinking bad boy gonna change and always treat u better.

[@naonix96]

Literally no school says to not watch 13RW

[@disintegratedcolors910]

"I don't think that the parents realize the pressure that they're putting on there kids now."

[@xaifer2485]

4.2k likes and no comments 😑

[@thaankyoou3881]

@@xaifer2485 no replies needed. The comment was blunt and to the point. The quote was enough. Sometimes words are not needed after the initial message

[@adonaitdaniel1282]

@@thaankyoou3881 True

[@immalemonnyyy7967]

It's actually their not there in this case

[@analishalovesyou98]

CLAYS SCENE WITH THE NEW KIDS WILL FOREVER BE MY FAVORITE SCENE

[@annahtz9437]

YAS

[@aileenhenderson6095]

SAME

[@brianascarlett9286]

It's legendary. 😎😎🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@septembergirlworld]

For sure!

[@aurea8043]

FACTS

[@zoelycavalli9247]

I'm dealing with suicidal thoughts and I can tell you that this show doesn't glamorize suicide, it's just show you how suicide can destroy everything around it and it make you think about that so I think that can prevent suicide

[@miramougharbel6626]

It doesn't glamorize suicide and I agree with what you're saying but have you talked to anyone about all of the thoughts that are roaming in your head?

[@nothingreal7137]

zoely cavalli Is there anyone you would like to talk to? There's also plenty of proffesionals around who are willing to hear u out besides from me

[@zoelycavalli9247]

Yeah I tried to see someone but the person was just like the counselor and after that I saw someone else but it didn't feel right you know ? The persone couldn't understand me and it hurt me more than anything else

[@zoelycavalli9247]

I have no one Well you see how it is but it's make me uncomfortable to speak about it on youtube you know... :)

[@emilysarahmunch]

zoely cavalli stay strong ❤❤

[@rhonanastill4197]

You should get teachers to react to this

[@trg1408]

Cameron Astill For real!

[@sitowat]

Cameron Astill yes

[@DocHollywoodMD]

I feel like I heard at least three of these parents say they work in school, so I think this was basically both

[@Just_niaxx]

Yes teachers don’t do shit!!!

[@myflatratsafrisbee50]

Austin is thicc emo potato RIGHT?!

[@FaithBetta]

Bless these parents. They're very open minded.

[@fingerguns2374]

Yeah they're really great

[@mahatvanirgude2317]

well Asian parents are short minded that's for sure.

[@xav96]

Mahatva Nirgude not all. please don’t put all asian parents into a box

[@mahatvanirgude2317]

@@xav96 Dude I am Asian too that's why. I said that.

[@narutosgurl331]

I need these parents..

[@krisevans3554]

psychology teachers react 13 reasons why. I want to see how differently they react.

[@tat-tv7305]

Kris Evans yes

[@rarIRL]

Kris Evans hells yeah

[@patriciapat2106]

yes awesome idea!

[@carysmcarthurlewis492]

watch Kati Morton's video on it, she's a psychologist.

[@emmadavis3369]

My school district sent out an email labeled "Reasons to Keep Your Teen From Watching 13 Reasons Why". This makes me angry because it needs to be addressed, not forbidden.

[@yumizu4490]

Emma Davis yeah ive heard thats been happening and i thought that was really stupid

[@vre4179]

Emma Davis so did mine!

[@Misierbobo]

Best way to get people to watch something is to ban it. Your school unwittingly​ did you a favour :)

[@AnakinSkywalker-mi5cz]

It does glorify suicide

[@user-nx3kt9rw5d]

But it glorifies suicide, it makes it look like a good way to get attention

[@kleptozach411]

Bullies do not care about this show, they see it as an opportunity to make jokes at school because most kids around them have seen it.

[@JohnTTM]

Sadly that's the truth

[@elysian4083]

yes. somebody literally asked me “ you gonna pull a hannah baker? “ because i was crying about a guy leaking my nudes..

[@wh3rearemynuggetz]

amanda delgado i can’t believe someone would say that to you. i’m so sorry

[@septembergirlworld]

But now people know that is not ok and can stop this

[@corey1846]

@@elysian4083 that's deeply revolting, I'm sorry that happened.

[@GreySanz]

Was really interesting watching adult males react too because we tend to see all these caring loving mothers type of stuff in media and seeing that guys also have sensitivity and feelings was nice

[@jacobsmith5501]

Have you ever thought that Romeo and Juliet could be interpreted as glorifying suicide?

[@TheCherryhui2000]

yep and it's kinda story that teachers would recommend you to read it and write a bookreport about it 😒

[@xotrinox1722]

Yes but not many teenagers relate to Romeo and Juliet like if they show this then it will remind teenagers x

[@nellybelly9782]

@@xotrinox1722 teenagers kinda do relate to that type of thing its when you are getting into relationships and believe they are the one

[@qiqisupremacy3716]

clara hui thing is, 13 reasons why prides itself in accurate representation of mental health/illness when it romantics and glamourises it, Romeo and Juliet doesn’t glamorous itself in accurate mental health, it is a play on tragedy in which studies themes, they aren’t the same in anyway

[@hannahchitty-finch7738]

Not really the same thing. As others have said, students don't relate to it. The characters are set centuries beforehand with different problems and different lives. And most teens get bored with the story. It just seems satirical in the idiocy of the situation. 13 Reasons Why is more relatable and relevant

[@philseyelash7079]

tHE PARENT WHO SAID "WELCOME TO YOUR TAPE" IS MY FAVOURITE

[@heyyyitsellie6799]

I really like these parents. my parents think suicide from bullying is a load of rubbish. they dont understand what we (as teens) actualy go through and the presure.

[@heyyyitsellie6799]

Just clearing up I DONT have suicidal thoughts niether do I self harm. I just have many friends who deffinately do.

[@sawvanpa]

spell check...

[@adonaitdaniel1282]

@LAYLA PARHAMS Good

[@xxmichiirik]

My parents say that people do it for attention and I’m like ☹️

[@Lizards_Lounge]

Yea, caus your parents were never kids...

[@CupiieeCakee]

Let's stop calling it bullying and say what it is, assault and harassment. When one adult does it to another we use these terms and sometimes it's punishable by law. We need to do the same with teens.

[@MsCartoon23]

Totally agree, no more "kids will be kids" bullshit.

[@CupiieeCakee]

@Arc Clone Trooper Maybe what I said didn't come out right because we're almost saying the same thing. I just don't see why we need to use a different word when we're talking about children and young adults. Maybe if children were taught from a young age that bullying is really assault and harassment, and we used these words instead they'd understand the magnitude of the situation and the consequences it could have for the perpetrators and victims/survivors.

[@drmhr8890]

Rebecca Totally agree. Teens aren't stupid they need to understand what they're really doing.

[@basicb1381]

Rebecca Yes!

[@demonic_myst4503]

it allready is acept if u want to prove harasment in court u need to meet the standards the therapist was trying to reach with his questions to hannah which people get so offended by

[@katteeperry1268]

Can elders react so we can have another generation's perspective on the issue?

[@mariagehrke6995]

yes

[@alexmendez28]

I like the fact that some of them are teachers because they see the problem from another point of view.

[@bluenosethebaby]

i love how opened minded the people are on here, FBE did a great job choosing them

[@kennedymitchell4061]

They teach Romeo & Juliet in every English class, 13 reasons why doesn't glorify suicide anymore than the things we are required to study.

[@nyjahking9583]

Kennedy Mitchell Their deaths aren't nearly so graphic

[@hughmungus3504]

Kennedy Mitchell 13 reasons why is more relatable.

[@kristinaramirez2285]

mystery 2578 nothing says poisoning yourself is as graphic as splitting open a vein in your bathroom right

[@kennedymitchell4061]

Hugh Mungus Teenage romance is pretty relatable.

[@farren2864]

"I had a student come to me in tears because they were thrown against the lockers, I told them they needed to tell someone." DUDE THEY ARE TELLING SOMEONE. DIDNT THEY JUST TELL YOU? TELL THEIR PARENTS/GARDIANS AND TELL THEM WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON!! BECAUSE WE ALL KNOW NO HIGH SCHOOL/MIDDLE SCHOOLER IS GONNA GO RUNNING TO THEIR MOM ABOUT A BULLY!!

[@winter6849]

Mitchy not me, if that happens to me imma tell my mom

[@reisbob7786]

Calm down girl be nice

[@kheilahv706]

(if he's a counsellor) then the adult can't tell anyone without the students permission. So, he has to get the kid to want to speak up about the harassment otherwise, he can't do a lot about it except just talk him through it. If the kid doesn't want to get others involved there's not much he can do about it.

[@itscoolthough419]

+Kheilah V (T-Kheilah) I don't think he's a counselor though, i believe he's a history teacher.

[@napalm_lipbalm86]

I knew a girl who pushed someone I to a locker cause that person was bullying her. And it never happened again! The school did nothing about the bullying before, so she took it into her own hands. And made an example cause alot.of.other kids seen it happen and stopped bullying her too!

[@marcusnguyen8600]

DO TEACHERS REACT TO 13 REASONS WHY!!!

[@dace9205]

oh my God yessssssssssssssss

[@j.kino.nutrition]

Hey can y'all please do a teachers react to 13 reasons why??

[@Apple13556]

Yes

[@sascha2689]

i love that one of the adults knew "you were one of the reasons why".

[@infinitehype]

I'm gonna say it. The man with the hat looks like a cool dad

[@MonicaMae]

I love how the parents knew some of the quotes

[@Karaphoebic]

"Toxic masculinity right there" 😂

[@JustAnotherLondoner]

Kara Boudjan I mean.. she wasn't wrong.

[@Karaphoebic]

I know. It cracked me up

[@Emmie1223]

@Trips it’s not. But the toxic masculinity she was talking about was that he was too scared to lose friends so he showed her nudes to his friends, because they kept pressuring him.

[@TheRubyGamersTRG]

Why the laughing emoji... she was right

[@adonaitdaniel1282]

@@Emmie1223 ye

[@lucaleone4331]

i think I cried the hardest when the mom found the body. I honestly cant imagine that. It was awful.

[@scripted6934]

Not everyone can talk to their parents about this, not every parent is the kind, caring, loving type.

[@nicolenguyen4497]

Unfortunately the is so true 😞😔

[@sociallymatti]

That's why the School Admin needs to step up.

[@khloecohen4831]

My "parents" were horrible.

[@arieltaylor6670]

I'm in middle school and my school actually sent emails to all parents/guardians talking about the show, bc so many kids were talking about it in class. The email highlighted how parents should stay involved in their children's lives (nobody in our school has attempted suicide , but it's always safe to make sure the situation is in a good place)

[@chlovlogs4848]

Ariel Taylor same with my school

[@krissy51809]

"ugh, poor clay" same

[@emilyemica]

For me, the show wasn't glorifying suicide, it was showing me how horrible it actually is and what it does to people around you. It reminded me that the smallest thing that you say or do can have a huge impact on a another person.

[@kaileywalker3658]

Ema Snow me too

[@t-manthemadhatter6432]

This was needed. My school had a suicide less than a month ago, and they're right. Everyone became so nice instantly, and now that the kindness is over no-one has even mentioned my classmates name. We need to make a difference about suicide prevention.

[@andre-gamingcontent1707]

A kid in my first semester commited suicide, did your school just become kind of creepy and quiet? I remember during lunch it was just so quiet and depressing

[@nelly7059]

if 13 reasons why glorifies suicide than why do schools broadcast romeo and juliet????

[@cc__tv8283]

Nelly_0528 CAN SE JUST GIVE THIS PERSON A ROUND OF APPLAUSE

[@lauriebeabea]

Nelly_0528 Romeo and Juliet doesn't glorify it at all. It was an accidental suicide due to miscommunication.

[@nelly7059]

Romeo and Juliet both committed suicide for love whereas Hannah committed suicide because she did not feel loved, she felt worthless

[@hebaali8286]

13rw is trash and romeo and juliet is one of the most famous, well written tradegies. they are NOT comparable :)

[@lollel7759]

I would agree if you were comparing the BOOK to Romeo and Juliet, this show sucks

[@kneecole198]

It's all about conversation. One of the things I noticed in the show is that Hannah really didn't talk to her parents about all the things going on for her. It's essential that everyone feels they're able to vocalize they're feelings. Often people get the impression that their feelings aren't valid or they aren't allowed to feel sad. This needs to end everyone should be promoted to vocalize what's up and that they're not being dramatic.

[@Meowrk92]

Don't forget that Hannah's parents brushed off a lot of signs. Parents need to know what to look for.

[@antonialaurengarlaschelli1764]

I'm shocked to hear about the number of suicides each of these parents/teachers has experienced! I live in Italy and it is NOT common for a teenager to commit suicide. I think the US has a big issue to address...

[@fandomtrash4348]

Antonia Lauren Garlaschelli I'm from the US and I completely agree with that statement

[@antonialaurengarlaschelli1764]

Glad to know someone is paying attention

[@antonialaurengarlaschelli1764]

The video shows Americans and the show also is set in the US so that's obviously why I said what I said.

[@antonialaurengarlaschelli1764]

DigEwolf of course kids and bullied and joked around with everywhere in the world, I just question why it leads so many more to a final gesture in the US

[@rullahalhassan6686]

There’s some questions that disguise suicide as accidents and I’ve seen it happen in my country. So when you see the charts and the paperwork you don’t see the real number unless you do heavy research. They do this because they see it either a sin, or shameful to the family

[@alexisfulton22]

The counselor dude pissed me off

[@txbrah6200]

and not bryce or monty?

[@faffywhosmilesatdeath5953]

@@txbrah6200 interesting fact, Lex can hate all of them too. Implying that he's fine with Bryce or Monty simply because he mentioned the counselor specifically is dumb.

[@bogwinkled]

@@faffywhosmilesatdeath5953 seriously 🙄 idk where they got that from

[@iiyohshia]

The only person that pissed me off was Ani

[@zachariefleurimond1034]

But the counselor was right... If she didnt say no if she didnt tell him to stop if she doesnt wanna involve the cops or tell her parents then there's no other option then move o

[@lemonnat4390]

I just think its sad that it had to take a Netflix series to show kids not to be mean to eachother

[@Lli99CFC]

I sincerely don't understand why people think this show is glorified. The suicide scene itself is one of the most difficult things I've ever watched, they don't make it look appealing. We see the effect it's had on her parents, on Clay - the devastation that those who were close to her feel is palpable. It also raises awareness to a whole host of prevalent issues and as this comment testifies, it instigates discussion. The programme is so incredibly emotive and for me I think they've done well to show how the smallest thing can affect someone, it makes us reconsider the way we treat others.

[@SudinJoseph]

Lli99CFC Please go to Google and search for Laxmi Agarwal. And if you are wise enough you'll understand what my point is.

[@Ambir91]

Lli99CFC i didn't like it bc it seems like it was meant more to shock than to give a message. Knowing there's gonna be a 2nd season just reforces what i've said.

[@Lli99CFC]

Ambir91 I think it has made people more open to express their thoughts, the show also displays how a lack of discussion/dialogue can be disastrous. Hannah felt she was alone, had no one to turn to as Mr Porter had let her down. Had he been more sensitive, and thoughtful, which would have represented progressive discussion then the outcome would have been different. I respect your view, but I disagree. Also we have many unanswered things from series 1 e.g what's happened to Alex, will Bryce go to prison,

[@Lli99CFC]

c32 I can see that to a degree, and I respect your view, but you also see at the start of the series people saying that she was lying, still dismissing her after death. I think it shows how terminal her decision is and the devastation that Hannah's death implicates is very powerful. Her parents are a wreck, Clay is devastated, Tony looks after Clay because he knows that he isn't emotionally stable.

[@Lli99CFC]

Olivia Finkelstein I can see where you're coming from, but for large parts negativity/ negative perceptions of Hannah still exist after her death.

[@sugarsholly]

I really hope season 2 will include the mental health side of things... because that's such a HUGE factor in suicide.

[@gemma2965]

I'm 13, and my school sent out an email warning parents. I watched it soon after. I have a friend who's suicidal. When I talked to her about 13 Reasons Why she said she cries whenever she watches it because she wishes more people would actually watch it and learn that their actions have consequences. I think not only is the show entertaining, but it also teaches kids that every action has consequences.

[@superroach3397]

bruh...kzbin.info/www/bejne/fF60k4drfr-tjas

[@ncares2174]

Is she ok rn? 😭

[@michaelalvarez2416]

Romeo and juliet was about suicide and I think it is romantized more and that is shown in high school so something to think about

[@Sarah-oj2ix]

mikey alvareZ romeo and juliet was written in the 17th century: suicide wasn't a problem back then. So yes, there is a difference.

[@brownmovies866]

Sarah What she said!

[@TheJuliana0901]

how the hell suicide wasn't a problem? people only learnt to care about each other in this century?

[@luvcaitlen9455]

Sarah why do we still study it now then ? Surely we should be watching shows like 13 reasons why which depict situations that are going on right now , rather than reading a book about two people and their outdated and romanticised suicides

[@lollel7759]

​@@luvcaitlen9455 maybe your teacher is doing it wrong, you should be analysing the way it was written and what the author tried to portray, its being promote cause its shakespeare, who is known as an amazing writer who knows his way through words. They should have use a better work of him thought you should be READING books like 13rw for the situation going on right now if you want, not the show adaptations always screw it up and dont portray the situation like it was originally...damn this world needs to learn about reading

[@rileykeller1135]

Dear everyone, If you're reading this, it applies to you. If you're not reading this, it applies to you. I know you've heard the same story over and over, but I'm gonna tell you again. Not one single person on this planet can dictate you're self worth, except you. You can't believe them when they tell you're a freak and slam you against a locker. You can't believe them when they say nobody cares about you and that you're worthless, because if they can't see how beautiful and special you are, they are truly blind. I'm not some cliche guidance counselor or something, I'm 13. I hope that you know how amazing you are, and that you're loved. So please, stay alive. If not for you, then for me. I hope this helped.

[@35caliber.]

thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@rileykeller1135]

fawnsoap ❤️

[@oof.4526]

Riley Keller thankyou😕💗

[@rileykeller1135]

Anonnymous af no, thank you ❤️

[@rileykeller1135]

An Unknown Somebody Awe I'm so glad it helped ❤️

[@chlobo1013]

My principal sent an email to every parent at the school saying not to watch it but of course I still watched it😂😂😂

[@edgartoetoe5848]

Why he would do that?

[@cocamila]

EdgarToe Toe probably because they saw themselves in the teachers from the tv show. Although it might have been due to its sensitive and perhaps triggering subjects.

[@adonaitdaniel1282]

@@cocamila ye

[@adonaitdaniel1282]

Same

[@superroach3397]

@@cocamila No...this video is probably why they warned the students not to watch it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fF60k4drfr-tjas

[@meetingskylar34]

i read the book years ago when i was in middle school, i'm so glad it was made into a series this year, raising serious issues like this.

[@tinacook8760]

25 years ago my only child a son took his own life. I haven't watched this show but I think I may now. His suicide was do to peer pressure along with drugs & alcohol and a bad friend. It's not easy to live with. I miss him so bad. 😭

[@jackaverysnoodles9111]

My dad wouldn't let me watch it on my own so he watched it with me and I am glad he did, it helped me truly understand what people go through and how to help other people.

[@anastasial.8507]

I really love how Scott puts everything into words. He's so intelligent and well spoken, what I have in mind for a "cool" parent.

[@jellypinklover9884]

there's a kid who committed suicide in my school. Like they said, it sparked conversation. Just now they're talking about it. It's been 3 years. For the First year, we planted a tree. It was the Mark tree (Mark was the name of the guy who committed suicide). Every year, we would eat outside around the tree and his parents would give gifts. It's heartbreaking it really is. It's definitly affected all of us.

[@niya.nights]

it's amazing how many people actually watch this with their parents. me and my mom watched this together, and it really made me see the world around me differently. I analyze the things I say to others in school and I pay more attention in the halls now

[@sebisdumb4138]

the thing with the show is that most suicide is from mental illnesses like depression and anxiety and the show doesn't talk about any of that. depression is so horrible and even though there are pills to help you can still feel horrible all the time and anxiety can make you worry so much that you can never leave you're house and make you insane

[@lilnightmare109]

Coming from a former suicidal person, this show did bring awareness but it also glorified it as well. Telling a suicidal person to "be strong" and "you're stronger than this" isn't enough at times really, all you can do is listen because just listening to them pour their hearts out and being there for them as a shoulder to cry on as well as getting into counseling can do so much. I can't tell you all how many kids I have saved in my short 18 years of life. Kids around my age that are going through it. They tell me they are tired of hearing those words and they just want someone to listen so please. If you have a friend that is suicidal or a child please, listen comfort them and get them the help they deserve. I had a friend who listened and got me help and I still thank her till this day.

[@kimberlygolda7631]

MiSs NiGhtmArE soo trueeeeeee!!!!!! listen and give them support. pushing them to 'stay strong' will most likely make them feel even more desperate

[@StephanieJean6]

I had my dad read the book a number of years ago. My mom and I both have been suicidal at some point in our lifetime (my mom attempted when she was 25 and myself twice when I was 16 and 20). My dad has never lived with those thoughts so when I was 17 I had him read the book right after I finished it. I thought it was a way for him to somehow see into my mind in a way and it really helped him understand to a degree what I personally had gone through. Though neither of me parents have watched the show it has sparked talk in my house as well as in their work lives (my mom working in a church and my dad a software company). I think it's important to talk about these things

[@jalynf768]

The parents in the video are so wonderful... love how aware and understanding they are gives me a lot of hope

[@RosaMartinez-rc5zq]

i went to a counselor at my school a few years back for help and i believe that scene where hannah reaches out for help is very realistic because the teacher that was there was literally doing a ton of other things rather than sitting down with me and being focused on what i had to say

[@khloecohen4831]

Really....some people critizised that scene because of course,they would say they would pay attention...but they really wouldn't....

[@finntastic8967]

Her parents's scenes after her suicide were so hard and heartbreaking to watch.

[@KCsFunHouse]

The book is absolutely amazing and I made my HS aged daughter read it long before this came out. I haven't had the chance to sit down and watch this but I want to. The book didn't glorify suicide at all and as a parent you are responsible to talk to your children from a young age about things like this it's so so so important .

[@leahdavis8446]

I was looking for this comment! How someone read the book long before this came out. I also want to watch this too, I haven't yet... The book was SOOOOOO dang good! I actually want to re read it, I have it somewhere in my room I need to look for it lol. It was such an amazing book I keep saying it I know but it was definitely one of the best reads! Ugh I hate how people are saying it "glamorizes suicide" the book didn't at all and I don't think, well from the looks of it, this doesn't either, but sad to say, people really think that it does. Did you get a chance to watch it?? I know you posted this comment like 4 years ago and I'm just now replying to it lol. So I'm just wondering what you thought of it if you got a chance to watch it?? 😊😊💕💕

[@lucyu4618]

Do teachers react to 13 reasons why

[@tiaramaheswari1875]

we need more videos like this. the kind of conversation that really have an impact to society. and bullying is one of the major problem that teenagers dealing with today. good job.

[@React]

These shows over the years have episodes trying to directly speak to regular people to discuss these types of issues and hope it starts conversations like you are describing, appreciate the comment. - FBE Team

[@tiaramaheswari1875]

by all means, i was bullied as well. i was talking about the discussion, if more people and parents more aware of how bad and how awful the impact of bullying is, then there will be more bullied kids that will get help. :)

[@justhiraeth3285]

Nobody is asking suicidal people what they think about the show.

[@floods8891]

Who tf just says, "yeah I'm suicidal, interview me!"

[@justhiraeth3285]

There are many depressive people who are open about their thoughts, this show tries to teach us that we need to talk but only a few really get it, i'm not saying there should be interviews or smth like that, just talk to those who need it. Watching this show while having a depression is anything but easy

[@cinnamon5675]

Floods They could do people that used to be

[@amberb8075]

My parents have no clue that this show even exists and I really wish they did..

[@icklesquish89]

maybe you should tell them :)

[@rahulragoo9775]

@@icklesquish89 some parents, even if they don't know it, sometimes act as bullies and NOT ALL PARENTS ARE OPEN-MINDED

[@icklesquish89]

@@rahulragoo9775 that is very true, then again you maybe don't have to confess to watching it yourself...

[@adonaitdaniel1282]

Same

[@Leah-sf3zv]

Im a middle schooler and I watched a little bit of the show. People in my middle school think it's inappropriate but I honestly think it's important to know about whats going on.

[@karenalejandra3580]

i love the fact that the parents that watched the series have completely understood how their children might be feeling. We all need to talk about this, and think about it, and understand the importance of it

[@LPSOLID]

Seeing her parents' condition after the suicide, struck me the most. They were the hardest scenes to watch.

[@meagan8631]

I do appreciate their honest opinions about the show. It has incredibly touchy subjects and for them to understand what people in our generation can go through is amazing. It was created to create a conversation and that's exactly what it's doing.

[@mrcrow7013]

"This is 13 reasons why" "Oh god 13 reasons why" "Welcome to your tape"

[@MagatsuUjio]

I've never appreciated the parents more than I have with this episode. Thank you for sharing, caring, and understanding.

[@ruthannett]

MagatsuUjio That is such a genuine, respectful comment. 😊

[@calebhughes3946]

The locker monologue from Clay is the most powerful and best part of the show.

[@panicatthechemicallarrydis8543]

I'm glad Suicide is being talked about again, and I hope parents discuss this show and I hope some teens realize that their actions and words do hurt people. Sadly in my school we don't talk about suicide.

[@lucinka1306]

absolutely agree. It is great that you've made parents to react to this. Of course there will be a lot of different opinions (even from parents) but it is so important to just have a few people thinking like that. Suicide, depression, anxiety, media and bullying and many more are problems. And we need to take an action, we need to at least talk about it.

[@catalinagomezroca6257]

"mental ilness is why she did it" THANK YOU MRS

[@gamerjohnbot]

YEAH THEIR WAS SOMETHING WRONG WITH HER WAY OF THINKING

[@capybaking3149]

Catalina Gomez Nah, not necessarily. She was blinded by rage, so much so she took her own life. She's a complicated character, and is still the protagonist, but she isn't a hero.

[@Oreo321_]

When some of them started crying!!! 😭

[@ninjadegroot]

Did you intentionally not have tbe parents react to the scene in which Hannah dies and her mother finds her body? Would've been interesting to see their reactions to that particulair part of the series.

[@Emily-wb6td]

Nina de Groot probably too much gore for KZbin guidelines, and super emotional for parents. It would've been another good topic though

[@valorian1965]

Emily Ribeiro Too much gore? They've had teens react to Outlast which is has WAY more gore than 13 Reasons Why. It would be very emotional to watch though.

[@trent956]

This show had the opposite effect on me than what most parents think it does. I watched this show while suicidal and contemplating killing myself. After seeing the effects of hannahs death on her true friends and her parents was devastating and i would never want that for those who care about me. Watching this made me slowly escape my suicidal thoughts. This show helped me

[@hipheart113]

Trentifer I'm so glad this show helped you. I'm so happy you're still here

[@Marlzing]

I'm so glad you're still here. Proud of you for keeping on going. Never give up on yourself, you're worth far more than you'll ever imagine.

[@kledhs2890]

Trentifer I think you are very brave to share this with us, I'm glad you're still with us I hope you'll have a wonderfull life :)

[@cancancan5300]

Good to know this show helped you man. I know what it's like even tried it but it's strange what can help you

[@Charadepinot]

Teachers: 'Please do not watch 13 Reasons Why for it has depression and suicide.' Also Teachers: 'Come watch out play of Romeo and Juliet!'

[@Intr0vertical]

Chanello Marshmallow Romeo and Juliet was made as a tragedy.

[@TheDunnDusted]

And what was '13 Reasons why'? A comedy?

[@Intr0vertical]

Dunne N' dusted It was a show made to show consequences of actions but they showed it in a stupid way because it was practically just a revenge story modernised.Meanwhile Romeo and Juliet was a story about the Naivety of young love.

[@MiaMoreMwah]

I believe the show is fetishizing suicide and self-harm, even though I myself haven't watched the show, I cannot because of how gut-wrenchingly disgusting the horrible excuse for a show sounds like it is

[@foziamusatafa]

Chanello Marshmallow u are absolutely right

[@omeglefriendly1218]

this show is important. i read the book two years before and it makes a big difference.

[@markusthomas8630]

I was bullied pretty badly when I was in middle school and high school and I can remember there were days that I cold couldn't get out of bed because I'd just cry and cry. I can relate to Hannah when she goes to the counselor because it happened to me. "Move on" "girls will be girls" "boys will be boys." And I can tell you I was suicidal almost my entire senior year. People need to talk about this more. Bullying needs to be taken care of. Some people are born with thick skin and some aren't. It's awful to think that some people still think that bullying isn't a thing...

[@khloecohen4831]

OR they STILL want to ignore it.

[@karinazayd6769]

Those people are such a good parents

[@Zamoxino]

well you never know... most of the ppl behaves differently in public you can't judge a book by its cover

[@RoguePlutonia]

"13 reasons why" cast react to parents and teens react to "13 reasons why"

[@DariaStanHD]

It's a TV series EVERY PARENT should see...I mean look at the adults in the series...they have NO idea how our children feel, what they are going through....they don't even know the personality of their own child....so yeah you need to watch it!

[@river165]

as a teenager, seeing adults speak about this aside from people who i've been around, i find this great. i understand the aspect of seeing the glorification of the topics, whilst at the same time, however, i don't believe it is glorifying suicide. more specifically, clay thinking he could have "loved her back to life.", because while he thought that, as really anyone who had even dealt with a suicide close to them, you do believe those things because you wish that you could have, not that you actually could have either way. i don't find it glorifying suicide, or mental illnesses. and as someone who has been where hannah was, i'm grateful for the topics and all the talk it has brung on, good or bad; because then it is being spoken of. and as the one woman says, it's like a mirror being placed in front of adults, who simply do not want to believe their children are capable or doing such things, that they just want to blame other reasons why than the obvious reasons.

[@karinisvetcool]

It doesn't actually "spawn more suicides" when they talk about it on the news. It starts conversations on how to prevent it

[@VinkPepijn]

Karin KaPOW while completely ignoring mental health issues

[@MrSoBitchy]

Pepijn Vink not really they didn't ignore it. They talked about situational depression which HAPPENS. They didn't invalidate it.

[@victoriasouthall9537]

i relate because my sister commetied suicide when she was 14 because people cyber bullyed her i tryied to stop them but they just laughed at me im sry for all peoples faimlys who dealed with i love u mccaylee dont bully plz

[@jessicag7181]

ian Southall ♥️♥️♥️

[@fernandopineda5503]

I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope you and your family are doing good❤️

[@kenziechitty2447]

After watching this series I have completely changed my lifestyle I am more involved in people's lives to make sure that no one has to go through what Hannah did especially alone it counts to be there for someone and I would have rather tried to help than have to live with the fact that I did nothing it really hurts

[@-kairios-4641]

My school just handed out papers to parents about the show. I read it and gave it to my mom to let her know about the show without me telling her. She said the complete opposite from these parents. She asked me if I had ever watched it and she seemed mad so I said no "good. don't ever watch it". I was so angry at her. She has always been too scared to talk about it. When my parents found out about my self harm, they were angry at me and basically told me I was an idiot for it. they never tried to help and even now they're just too scared to talk about it. but it's real and it's happening in your own city or state or even school and you can't run away from it no matter how hard you try

[@-kairios-4641]

Kathi Quinzel Thank you. I have gotten past the self harm, about 7 months clean. I still feel depression coming back sometimes but I've been able to get through it thanks to my siblings and the few friends I have left. I really appreciate your comment though! :)

[@marcirobertson1323]

I agree with Kathi! You're a very strong person. Please seek help if you need it

[@worldbyvera9774]

Keren Ortega my parents do the same thing.

[@-kairios-4641]

Kathi Quinzel Marci Robertson thank you both! I do want to help other people as much as I can and with how you guys responded to this comment I can tell you that you will help other people with how encouraging you are! You have definitely helped me even if it's just a little bit :)

[@wonderlandisalanguage9646]

How are you doing today ?

[@ripulikone]

I've been suicidal at several points in my life. I've even attempted suicide. And I think the show did the opposite of glorifying suicide. It just pushed those thoughts even further away from me when seeing how it affected her parents. It helped me, because it really made me realise that suicide isn't an option. That it wrecks and havocs everything and everyone around you, especially your parents. So I really do not see how that is glorifying suicide.

[@ripulikone]

Mustapha Massoudi Fucked up? How?

[@ripulikone]

Macy Adams Thank you ❤️ I just want you to know that I am glad you are here. Your presence is important, and the fact that you've fought and made it is truly remarkable.

[@silstabberangerismyjustice7598]

Tyler and no one cares

[@ripulikone]

Sil Stabber | Anger is my justice Well, you do, clearly, since you felt obligated to read my entire comment and then reply.

[@cancancan5300]

Good to know this show helped you. I know what it's like even tried it but it's strange what can help you

[@GenTrollHD]

The unfinished Tetris in the back is really hurting me.

[@chloemorris8558]

Gen Sid same honestly

[@bonbon-qr2xp]

I wish my parents watch such things i wish they knew

[@JayDaKingOfDaWrld]

it's ok I went through this to people are they for you

[@taylorclark644]

My mum doesn't like the fact I watch this. She thinks it brainwashes you into committing suicide like okay mum okay.

[@mirtajordan7095]

Ihavenojams same with my mom

[@raphaelalexander3692]

Get her some help.

[@ririx7990]

she's not far off

[@michellen7273]

Ihavenojams I read your comment but I was distracted by hope

[@aidancook7170]

the show didn't glorify suicide, the viewers did

[@DSTM4774]

I love how the parents are feeling it! I think that this series is not for teenagers only, but also (and mostly) for parents

[@raexonia]

This video had me teared up.... I don't care how people react to this comment... this topic needs to become more well known... I'm a teen myself and I have related so much to this video it just hurts watching it😟

[@drumesing2763]

I think they were crying more than Teens, because they have children and they imagine being at Hannah's Parents place. It must be, really, really scary, more than imagining Hannah's distress

[@imkevinberry]

I'd love to hear the perspective of the elders. Teens were raised in the tech age, adults who had it half their life, and elders who didn't have it. They'll have a different outlook and feelings on it I'd like to hear.

[@kimberlycook4675]

To the people who say that 13 Reasons Why "glorifies suicide" let me tell you this. The book, that the show is based on, has been out for 10 years! 13 Reasons Why has been around for a long time a DECADE people. For me at least it shows the reality and consequences it.

[@bigbangtheorymanic]

What's that got to do with anything? Perhaps the book glorifies suicide as well

[@measelcatches3202]

@@bigbangtheorymanic exactly

[@meeuwmans]

man when i saw the scene of hannah in with her wrists slit it fucked me up. it's triggering as shit for certain people yk

[@nicolewilson1669]

I watched the entire series on my dad and we had a heartfelt take on it. The show is very heartbreaking yet inspirational at the same time.

[@katiehamilton7130]

In my school.. . About a week after the show came out, the school banned us from talking about it. We weren't allowed to discuss it with teachers or other students. I feel like this is completely insane and we should be talking about it.. the point of the show was to raise awareness and get people to realize what they're actions can do

[@lancebot8224]

Katie Hamilton its cause schools want control over anything

[@PurpleButterfly333]

Katie Hamilton Wow that doesn't seem like the right response at all! School's are supposed to hold a support system for their students not stop them talking about issues they could be confused about or struggling with themselves or have concern for someone else.