Reacting To BAD Dating Advice On TikTok | Courtney Ryan

[@mbw365]

"I'm so independent...I don't need a man..." is the female equivalent of a man saying "I'm an alpha male..." If you have to say it, you're not....

[@duncanmcauley7932]

Underrated comment

[@noonebossesthegarnet2890]

Replying to this comment so more people can see it.

[@chris1990ish1]

👏🏿

[@BeControversialAlways]

Upvote! ... I'm trying here.

[@BryCity]

"Any man who must say, I am the King, is no true King." - Tywin Lannister

[@patrickthrush8793]

I guess if she has an espresso machine at home she has food at home too so I don't need to feed her the first date either!!! Love you Courtney!!

[@jambajoby32]

Ha! Got em

[@CourtneyRyan]

Lmao true! 😂 thanks for watching!

[@feliciab5019]

Exactly! :)

[@Jawsjawsjawsrg]

Not all people have food at home. We know people that live in the twin cities and go out to eat for every meal, there pans have dust on them.

[@arvyarvy4242]

Spot on!!😁

[@cityman2312]

That Tik Tok weirdo thinks walking is beneath her? My girlfriend and I go on walks regularly, and it suits us just fine.

[@deadcell4837]

She sounded absolutely awfull and i hope no man lowers himself into dating her

[@habsom1406]

I agree, I think walking side by side is kinda romantic.

[@Jerome616]

Nothing is better for growing closer than spending time just one on one with no distractions and no pressure of sex or physical romance. Just talking and learning about each other is the essence of a relationship.

[@habsom1406]

@@Jerome616 Totally agree!

[@TheSwedishCarGuy]

@@Jerome616 Agree!

[@r.matthews594]

My gf and I had our first date at a museum and had a couple glasses of wine after, talked, got to know each other. it will be six years this October. We're watching this shaking our heads. Keep up the good work Courtney.

[@TheSwedishCarGuy]

CONGRATS on 6 years :D

[@ThingsILikke]

I doubt your girlfriend showed up to the date looking as good as the girl in the first tick tock if you weren’t at all worried about impressing her

[@unknownwitch5042]

That sounds like a dream date I wish I could also find someone like that

[@depressedaf3603]

6 years and still not a wife… 🤭

[@nicknordstrom774]

That hit hard. The women that say they don’t need men are the same women that are gaining their income from men on onlyfans.

[@deadcell4837]

They dont see the hypocricy

[@senamdzodzomenyo8790]

You're so right

[@Juli-sh7qu]

Well getting money from men in exchange for work is something else. But when you say i dont need mens money but want the guy to pay is bullshit

[@antonioaguirre9295]

So are they suppose to accept only women's money? Y'all don't make any fucking sense 😑

[@neberboi]

No sex workers would say something like that. It's the usually women who hit the wall or those that are not having luck with men that would say something like that.

[@texasfan8892]

Damn, seems like I lucked out with my girlfriend. She's just as happy hanging out and watching TV or playing video games as she is going out to a nice place to eat or going to the movies. It's not about what you do that matters, it's about who you do it with.

[@lookfeelbehealthy6320]

Yes! I've met a few girls like this too. They ARE out there!

[@stevephillips3541]

This shall change ....

[@whatislife6988]

How long you been together?

[@TheGhjgjgjgjgjg]

Tyrone be calling soon...

[@hoppergrasa]

This is so true! I love nothing more than doing the simplest things with my guy. Just watching the sunset or watching movies and taking walks. those are the moments you cherish most!

[@billydillis6747]

"Is a guy gonna want you if you act like that?" unfortunately there are lots of men who will validate toxic behaviour/mentality if the woman looks half decent.

[@Weesson]

100%

[@CourtneyRyan]

Ugh, I know. Can’t complain about something if you allow it 👏🏼 what you allow is what will continue!

[@aaronharlow2137]

Yup. A lot of guys can overlook or justify toxic behavior as a trade off for having an attractive woman. Not worth it!

[@peagames2002]

Been left by many guys mainly because I don't look beautiful, don't wear make up. Though I do have made very good friends from my past exes, we don't love each other anymore, but are ready to support and help each other to find that significant other that they can synch with.

[@robfromjersey7899]

Everybody wants equality until it's time to be equal.

[@Shah-of-the-Shinebox]

Welcome to the world of 2021

[@Damone7653]

@@Shah-of-the-Shinebox Spit Shine Tommy never needed to be equal.

[@bambina5604]

I want equality in every way.

[@_vinterthorn]

That's partly because many people confuse equality with egality.

[@Damone7653]

@Chinon Chinan I just had coffee with Spit Shine Tommy... he treated!

[@klaspeppar5619]

“There are no feminists in a house fire” - Bill Burr

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂 hahaha that was it

[@ByzatineLives1453]

Bill Burr is awesomme!

[@klaspeppar5619]

@Penderyn Lewsyn and this is relevant because of?

[@stevephillips3541]

or plumbers

[@12Messenger]

Go ahead masculine ass woman save the family dont act feminine now

[@ats4670]

You’re definitely one of the most self-aware and honest females on KZbin. Keep doing what you do 👍

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you! 😂

[@eric_martindale1711]

Agreed. There are a lot of men out there that would say, “you don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish…“ I think that there can be some truth to that, and I would reference the first video Courtney commented on. However, I have found Courtney to be, as you said, extremely self-aware (and balanced); and she is a great complement to the solid male coaches out there.

[@kamilkukowski5369]

@@CourtneyRyan aren't you "the unicorn" from the "hot crazy matrix" ?

[@lifeinthebuff]

@@kamilkukowski5369 yes, she is! 👌

[@ashen_jes4260]

Not tryna bring politics into this but she has to be a Republican js

[@Penelope416]

To the strong and independent feminists: You can't want special treatment and equality at the same time. lmao

[@CourtneyRyan]

👏🏼😂

[@antonioaguirre9295]

That's good because I don't want special treatment

[@TheReaperLSX]

They want it to work both ways in their favor but they simply can't. Their delusional mindsets are just laughable lol.

[@Penelope416]

@@TheReaperLSX Yeah exactly. 💯

[@leeway9083]

... yes you can? You can definitely want equality, especially in larger society and still have your own relationship dynamics. Straight up part of feminism is reworking the idea that wanting to be traditionally feminine = weak. If the guy paying for everything in a relationship, or a woman being a stay at home mother while the guy makes money is what works for people, then good for them, and part of feminism is empowering women to do that too if that’s what they want. Also, why should women have to compromise wanting a traditionally romantic relationship with having general equality? Isn’t that fucked up? We shouldn’t be basing whether or not women deserve to be equal (in pay/safety/being objectified) on if they pay for a meal. Basically being entitled really not cool but people can be feminist/want equality and still enjoy traditional relationship dynamics

[@h12180]

I'm a young man and I was raised on old school tradition. I just ran into your channel and you seem like such a great person. I love when you call these overzealous women on their bs. They want a man to accept them for who they are but expect the world from us. It's just sad anymore.

[@leninfranco9328]

And the sad part about this, is that these girls have lots of followers.

[@CourtneyRyan]

I know 🥲

[@gmeister3022]

Haha, rest assured that it's not due to their character. It's a shame that these people get a voice, but that's how it is. We know better than to pay attention, though.

[@meungawa]

Low-value, low life fulfillment, low gratitude, hollow, mobile phone addicted followers. This is why Courtney’s mentality and advice is what those types and all of us should be internalizing and what they should be attracted to. Not cheesy, superficial nonsense. It won’t can’t lead to meaningful fulfillment.

[@stevec3526]

The problem is that so many women hear this garbage and believe it...

[@EduardoSantos-pv8yo]

And many of them agree with their crazy ideas...

[@marcobaula8054]

"She is not a dog..." but if a dog would have money she will definitely go with...

[@CourtneyRyan]

Hahaha

[@mortenlarsen7220]

Dogs are loyal as hell tho, so being called a dog is the best thing ever.

[@Sean-zz2lj]

@@mortenlarsen7220 dogs are only loyal if you're the one feeding them, seen my dog quickly become my friends dog when I started working away. Calling someone a dog here in Australia is the biggest insult you can dish out

[@mortenlarsen7220]

@@Sean-zz2lj Sounds like you are not a dog person, ive had several dogs and feeding them is not the only way they stay loyal. Dogs stay loyal to a fault.

[@csnoopy]

“You deserve what you earn. You earn what you work for”

[@CourtneyRyan]

Yes!!

[@FriendlyBatDoom]

That was deep

[@deadcell4837]

My question is though: what makes a desirable man and what makes a desirable woman these days? Men: wealth? Women: looks?

[@lukeparisot7252]

@@deadcell4837 status for blokes and looks for chicks But there's a lot more to it than that as well

[@deadcell4837]

@@lukeparisot7252 a womans attraction to a man can be varied i think. There are men they find sexually attractive, then there are those they find attractive because of status, then ones they find attractive because of money and the prospect of an easy life. Youll find the younger women (teens to early twenties) are more into sexual attraction (looks, bravado) but as they get older, they start to look at financial attraction and the settling down ability.

[@Zoologic21]

1:30 - That’s fucking funny how Courtney is so taken aback by the video that she’s left motionless and speechless.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Lol 😂😂

[@YesPlease1]

I can definitely judge someone based off of one video 😬. Gooood luck to that girl

[@leneckbreaker]

I wish someone would ask me on a walk or coffee date or a hike 🤦‍♀️ I think it’s so cute

[@DeepGroudon67]

Would you like to go on a walk with me?

[@sleazymiguel6882]

@@DeepGroudon67 what she say and her actions are different

[@Justtobe7]

Hike with a stranger? Not afraid of being found dead at all?? That's so dangerous

[@generalferret7129]

Same. I’m not a coffee fan, but if a man took me on a walk or a hike, that’d be so nice!

[@Justtobe7]

@@generalferret7129 Hike with a stranger? Are you not afraid of being killed??

[@nothingpersonal1000]

"we're gonna get DINNER!"... Notice she didn't say she doesn't want a dinner date because she can cook her own food 🤔🤔

[@michaelellis772]

You think she can cook? All she knows is McDonald's and charge her phone.

[@nothingpersonal1000]

@@michaelellis772 all she knows is eat hot Cheetos and lie

[@Kashban]

Because she can't LOL

[@michaelellis772]

@@nothingpersonal1000 Glad I'm not the only man of culture

[@nothingpersonal1000]

@@michaelellis772 *takes off helmet* I am no man .... .... Just kidding yes I am

[@kameronclark515]

I was literally watching Bill Burr right before I played the video. Shoutout to Billy!

[@Gutch220]

#1 - hard pass, (simple things matter) #2 - all women want equality until it's time to storm Omaha Beach

[@bartallen9530]

I was just thinking something similar. They want to be soldiers until its time to enter "No Mans Land" or invade Normandy.

[@kryptonite754]

Underrated comment

[@mrcrhartman]

Two people know when there is chemistry, and when there is, the "date" could be standing on the sidewalk making googly eyes. Real mutual attraction bypasses all this crazyness.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Exactly

[@catdobson2311]

Oh my gosh,yes. Before I was dating my partner, we literally stood out talking for ages,about loads of things. And when it started raining,I didn't want the chatting to end, even over coffee. Three years and going strong

[@deadcell4837]

Internet dating has killed this. Its all about a good CV now, rather than chemistry.

[@mrcrhartman]

@@deadcell4837 CHOOSING to date on the internet will make this harder. Every young person I know in a good LTR met in person, and through a mutual activity such as sports or work or school or through other friends, NEVER on an app, RARELY by "cold approaching" in clubs or on the street. There is still free choice as to how to go about things.

[@deadcell4837]

@@mrcrhartman oh absolutely, but i think the internet has made it harder for such interactions, as people have become more socially awkward

[@fit-unitd.o.o.8501]

I just LOVE your face expression after watching videos like that! LOL

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂👏🏼

[@adi_LDN]

She has a very calming voice. She’d be perfect for ASMR

[@NindyoHapsari]

So glad I found you through Hafeez. It's refreshing to see a classy woman speaking with such grace and eloquence. And she's spitting facts too!

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you so much! I’m glad you found me, too! ❤️ always love to hear from likeminded ladies!

[@Bauks]

I like the TikTok response to that first girl from that one dude who said, "if your face and neck are two different colors were going swimming for a first date." LoL 🤣

[@davidperdomo2782]

Just found your channel the other day and gotta say you are by far one of my favorite KZbinrs, super straight forward and to the point. Love your videos!

[@chrispark7010]

I just heard a collective sigh from my ancestors when that white girl was talking about chopstick skills. Yeah like you hold them properly

[@Xatruch504]

Courtney is the kind of lady anyone would ask for a date, not only is her looks, but also her being so calm and also she has a lot of common sense when she talks, would enjoy spending time with her a lot.

[@123SuperBeast]

"I dunno if you know who Bill Burr is but.." You're too wholesome lol

[@jpoeng]

I don’t think she *quite* realizes how strong the RP is in her viewer base… 🤣🤣🤷‍♂️

[@JoeJ-8282]

Courtney, you are one of the few women out there who actually admit and can see the problems with modern society on BOTH sides, both with men AND women, not just always blaming one s3x or the other, as many people tend to do... This realization and awareness that you have is a rare trait for anyone to have, but it is one reason that I like watching your videos; because you are usually fair and relatively unbiased, which is what this world needs more of, especially nowadays! I hope to meet and get to know a girl like you myself... Your BF is a very lucky guy to have a GF with your level of intellect and genuine realness and good nature! Thanks for your videos and what you do, keep up the great advice!

[@keralytekid]

It's very obvious from watching her reaction to these advice videos that Courtney Ryan is a very emotionally healthy woman. She has done the work and my guess, raised well. Thank you, Courtney.

[@coreyrhymer89]

I appreciate the fact that you bring to light that texting someone you were on a date with doesn't have a time frame. I think that's important to know who's playing games and who isn't. Great point to make and very useful information

[@justindivito1279]

Women like you with your mindset are essential to our society. Time to start a new Era of authenticity 👍

[@Lonstermash]

"Pick and choose feminism".... You hit the nail on the head, Courtney. I hope your boyfriend realizes how fortunate he is to be with someone of your character combined with stunning looks

[@ZodyCheste]

I absolutely loved this one Courtney! I agree, if we want equality it should mean 50/50 in all aspects. Also this is something we should know about our partner before the first date. For instance there are some guys who get upset if she pays her part just like there are girls who expect the guy to pay for it all. But if it up front then there wont be an issue on the date.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Totally agree! 👏🏼

[@ZodyCheste]

@timber wolf balanced is a synonym of equal: synonyms ... evenly matched · evenly balanced · even · balanced · level · evenly proportioned · well matched · on a par · on an equal footing · fifty-fifty · level pegging · neck and neck

[@cocoskirt]

Yep, massive red flag when the women I’m talking to thinks that she doesn’t have to make an effort to impress me and behaves like it’s just me that needs to do the work and make a good impression. Reeks of entitlement, self-centredness and an over inflated ego. Won’t waste any time there once that’s established. People need to learn humility and the value of a relationship. It takes two to tango.

[@klausmatrajt8480]

"She is not like, the worst thing ever". Complements by Courtney Ryan. hahaha all love girl!

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😂👏🏼 I tried to be nice hahaha

[@malia9641]

As a teenager, I can say that going for a coffee date or a walk in a park is totally fine, mostly because it is more casual and you really get to talk with the person you're on a date with

[@johncalonius6161]

That first one was like a hostile job interview. I’m surprised she didn’t demand that u bring your resume and three letters of recommendation. I feel sorry for anyone like this. They’re never really happy without years of intense therapy they don’t have the insight to acquire. The additional issue is they may have children someday and on it goes.

[@Heyitsbrittany]

As someone married nearly 2 decades, I don't think the first girl was wrong. Dinner has always been a standard first date option. She didn't say Michelin stars. She didn't say she'd never go grab coffee. But she does appear to want a traditional role and relationship, which means she probably expects the man to true to pursue and impress like men are wired to do. A walk as a first date? Nah, I'd pass, too. Feels like you had to pencil me into the part of your day between points A and B. And I agree with no bars on first (or second) dates.

[@user-id7mx6fh3n]

I can’t agree on the third one - if you know anything about men you know that texting him first if he hasn’t yet won’t do anything good, if he hasn’t texted you after a good weekend date by the end of the next work week - forget he ever existed. If a guy had a god date he WILL text you within the next few days, if he didn’t than he either didn’t have a good date or he isn’t looking for a relationship right now. Guys aren’t playing games, if they like you they’ll let you know, you won’t have to guess.

[@genesisspace5331]

I disagree some guys are straight scared to do so

[@user-id7mx6fh3n]

@@genesisspace5331 why? If they weren’t scared to go on a date and have a good time, why would they be scared all of a sudden?

[@genesisspace5331]

@@user-id7mx6fh3n don’t you ever get this feeling to be scared to actually text them

[@user-id7mx6fh3n]

@@genesisspace5331 nope, I felt anxious wether a guy is going to respond the way I want him to or not, but ultimately if they don’t - they don’t, just move one and find someone who will. Honestly if someone is just scared of texting someone they like and had good time with, they should deal with their issues first (therapy perhaps?) cause they are clearly not ready for dating.

[@dpauley7724]

My goodness. Where do I find a woman like you? Smart, knows the difference between a man and woman, understand both need to earn what one has, and most importantly beautiful. Always enjoy watching you speak truth

[@ahmed2527]

Your facial expressions are precious. I keep laughing like a maniac. Thanks Courtney. I am literally done with all of the manipulative things/shits. I will be happily single forever. You take care and stay safe.

[@storageaddict]

Teddy's sincerely a lucky guy. You have such a great head on your shoulders. Your thought processes are refreshing these days. Great video as usual.

[@Armando316]

I’m all for standards. My wife and I met through friends having a get together at a bar for drinks and we go on all types of simple and fun dates. I feel that some women have this major entitlement and spoiled attitude because they know they’re attractive. Acting like you’re above a walk or a coffee date just makes her so unattractive. A lot of these Tik tok/IG “dating coaches” give some of the most questionable tips and advice I’ve ever heard. I think people like her have a real hard time forming real connections because they come with these check lists of what they expect in a mate and it all just leads to a lot of shallow, empty relationships.

[@walkerb1734]

EXCELLENT video! Especially the part about equality…until the check comes. So refreshing that you pointed that injustice out!

[@seanybzebra]

Courtney, your shocked face after the first part of the video was amazing 😂😂😂

[@Mancer1980]

Just started following your channel - it's fantastic to see a woman giving advice like this - keep up the great work! Guys and girls NEED to follow content like this.

[@thochaos13]

Watching Courtney's videos restores my faith in women.

[@thochaos13]

Just to further clarify: I'm not a "He-Man Women-Haters Club" member, but what I see on social media really makes me want to become a monk. There are still real people out there who aren't the worst ever. You just have to look past the garbage that the algorithms want to push on you at every turn.

[@jackr2287]

Same dude. Bout two weeks ago started to watch some JustPearlyThings and... faith in humanity and my future cratered looking at the aired material during that period. Found a few other shows scrolling that eventually led me here, and here there's at least some hope, and some folks forming a counter to that bullshit.

[@andrewwoolstencroft9987]

Been watching your channel over a year now after discovering it through Teddys (thanks Teddy 👍) and I have to say this is one of my favourite videos so far! "There's so much beauty in the small things in life." What a wonderful person and example you are. And I think that, even more than the admittedly great advice you give, is one of the most important things guys can take from this video. That there are, kind, considerate and genuine women out there that see through the BS and the materialism like you do. I hope guys take inspiration from this and one day find themselves to be as lucky as Teddy clearly is. Well done Courtney! X

[@hmcvideo76]

Sometimes I make sure you're on KZbin when my girlfriend comes in the door and then I tell her that I want my daughter to be like you. It's rubbing off, she's more classy now than ever! Thanks, Courtney.

[@irenej7884]

I’m so happy I found ur channel! I feel like I was all alone when it came to dating cuz I kept getting all these tik tok vids and it just made me confused on relationships! Thank u for ur insight

[@lugadoo]

When Courtney (as a girl) says "Yikes, that was rough..." That means if a girl says something like that to you guys. It means get the hell out of there NOW! 😂

[@Matt-bg5wg]

Coffee dates during daylight hours are the best. Not a big time commitment for either of you, she feels safe because it's during the day. You don't have to spend too much. Obviously a nice coffee shop, not Starbucks. If it goes well and you hit it off it's really easy to suggest the 2nd date, which can then be drinks or dinner. For one thing, you know by then if you actually WANT to spend more time with her.

[@brandenvaldez3896]

So glad you referenced Bill Burr! One of my favorite comedians! Great taste! 👍

[@CourtneyRyan]

I love him! Too funny 😂

[@danielandanthony8939]

I happened to just stumble on this channel and I’m pleasantly surprised. Such great logical viewpoints being shared by her. Definitely subbing.

[@dorkga1092]

Thanks for doing these videos! You have a refreshing, down-to-earth perspective🙌 The biggest lesson I get from your videos so far (new subscriber) is how people can look as physically beautiful as possible, but if their attitude sucks or they act entitled and rude, they quickly become ugly. It's crazy how our brains work like that haha

[@bjornjohansson1716]

A horrible creature is in charge of the thing men want the most - Patrice O'Neal The only winning move is not to play, this is too much of a mess.

[@bskee001]

Of course not all of them are horrible creatures, but there certainly are a lot of them, especially these days.

[@Thewrightbrotha]

Black Phillip! “This show is trying to help women understand why we hate you.” “We don’t hate you as in we want to kill you, it’s the bullshit we have to go through to get P****.” “Men want to get p*** without having to give up time. Women want time without having to give up p****.”

[@bskee001]

@@Thewrightbrotha Patrice O’Neil...miss that guy so damn much!

[@iggydisalvo]

Courtney my respect towards you grows more and more. You’re an intelligent person. Kudos to you.

[@quinceykirkland1227]

I just subscribed because you seem logical and intelligent. Keep it up, some people need better advice. The problem with social media is everyone thinks they are right. Very few actually are...

[@LordHolley]

I have always been very attracted to truly independent women. I want a partner who is a peer, I want a woman who wants me, not a woman who "needs" me.

[@antonioaguirre9295]

@ad izzle no bro that's leeching off and unhealthy obessesion. Very "if they leave me, then we both dead" sort of creeper abusive vibe

[@antonioaguirre9295]

@ad izzle bro this isn't a game this is real life. I don't need anyone but I want people that are in my life exception maybe my family but even then it's not so much need as much as intense want. People need companionship but it's not a checklist.

[@antonioaguirre9295]

@ad izzle what emotions are that?

[@animalgirl89]

@ad izzle "what do girls need from guys? We asked a man"

[@shreddedcardigan3972]

@ad izzle listen, that mentality seems kinda unhealthy. That “ I need you, I am incomplete without you” attitude can end up very obsessive and toxic. You are just as complete without a relationship as you are with one.

[@aiaki807]

I think the reason why women want men to initiate and do a lot of the work is because a woman's interest has been used against them as a weapon throughout history. When men did it, it was for ego and control, when women did it, it was for survival.

[@Nah-ah]

I was watching a video of Matthew Hussey question a lady in the audience, after she said she wanted a real men (not a pu**y) or something along those lines. He asked “why do you want a man then if you are strong and independent?” And the lady didn’t know how to answer that! This is the issue - strong and independent women these days want to date but they’re so strong and independent men don’t feel like they can compliment or give anything of any value to these kinds of women. Let a man play his part bc he has a part to play towards your dating success. And it’s also so much fun when men and women play their part, don’t you think?! I think it’s great! 😍

[@livsstilen]

The thing is that they all think they are 10, and deserves that 1% who is able to build her a castle 🏰 " Show me the money NOW!"

[@Sean-zz2lj]

"what have you done to deserve that" that was gold!

[@claytoncrawford]

Dear Courtney Ryan.... You are absolutely right about women being accountable for their own actions and words, because for any woman to scroll through my cellphone to see who I have texted or go onto my COMPUTER to see all my FILES or for women who believe or MEN think they are ENTITLED -- BAGH!! .... Our culture has insisted MEN must be the breadwinner because for far too long MEN have not been held accountable for denying women a role in business and everyday issues in society..... Men and Women need to participate with one another as a TEAM... It takes effort to raise a family... It takes effort to earn money rather than stealing.... It takes effort to teach kids instead of hitting kids. It takes effort to listen to a woman rather than smacking a woman... It's easier to get lost in drugs rather than dealing with issues... The relationship games have spun out of control.... Always in Good Taste... CHEERS!! ... Courtney is so cool....

[@mediasawdust2458]

"This was a great video to watch being recorded" - Fly in room

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😂😂

[@_TommyP]

this is amazing! normal dating advice, Send the text, but don't text more than 75 percent of the last text unless that text was on a full moon then you must not text, with the exception that it's a full moon in the month of may.

[@Dandeeman26]

I'm fine taking a girl to dinner. But I'm not ok with being someone's slave so the 1st girl is a turn off.Hillarious the 2nd guy made the girl split the bill. Not what I'd do but still funny!

[@Dandeeman26]

@ad izzle happens. I won't go out with her again. What's more a waste of time in my opinion is not trying at all.

[@ThingsILikke]

You just cannot afford the first girl. Her hair and face cost probably $3,000. She would not be caught dead in a pub with broke dudes- older men that are surgeons and lawyers go for chicks like her because they can impress her. She’s not the type that would attract mediocre dudes that want every thing for cheap.

[@ryanbarker3978]

The message at the end of this video is awesome. People need to let go of their preconceived notions about modern dating and remember we are just human beings. I do think it is important to check somebody behaving like this before you just move on though. I agree that continued unreciprocated effort spells the end of a relationship and that the behavior is a huge red flag, but there are also plenty of good people out there doing this to you even though they actually genuinely like you. Modern dating's abysmal state has left a lot of people with low confidence in their dating lives which gets them more caught up in thinking about how they're supposed to act versus how much they actually like you. This certainly doesn't excuse the behavior, but the fact is that if you're dating someone who is uncomfortable, you're probably not dating the real person. Sometimes all someone needs to open up to you is an a bit of a push towards reality and a second chance.

[@peterceccarelli5846]

The girl in the first video looks so snug as she talks about a date where the guy pays everything & barely gets a💋 while a “chad” who she rarely hears from gets invited over “ late nite” for” desert” lol

[@angellondian7628]

That is the woman’s equivalent to “why buy the cow” …

[@peterceccarelli5846]

ANGEL LONDIAN the only time sex matters to a girl on a first date is, who order’s FIRST from the menu lol . That’s why now even smart women would rather have a coffee or casual drink for starters.

[@peterceccarelli5846]

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[@1tse1]

My husband and I met at work. When we started seeing each other all we would do was go to the parks, talk and people watch. It's been 9 years 💞

[@ducky4u16]

💞💞

[@levibondjr4650]

Beautiful!!

[@madwax1360]

If this materializes into a brawl with the first blonde chick (and I'm talking about hand to hand combat) , I got my money on Court!

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂💀

[@GMRod]

Ok. I've stumbled upon your channel a few days ago, and have LOVED every single word that comes outta your mouth, have been recommending it to friends and stuff. But now you mentioned BILL BURR. That went over the top, I'm now a true fan. You ROCK hahahah! Keep up the good work.

[@komandorbentus2731]

Jeez, I met such one girl...the best definition is "leech" - she has showed so many red flags, that I stopped any comunication with her. 1) Getting mad at print house employee because a saved document file she gave to print resulted in incorrect print (not employee fault that we gave incorrect file, also computer mishaps can happen) and she had to pay literally just 0.5 $ more for corrected print because employee corrected our mistake in file saving and even managed to make high quality print - it was a technical drawing for her project so she could pass her course finally. 2) Why she offered to participate for dancing lessons as a partner for dance and not coming to lessons leaving me without partner to dance... There was any information about absence or even "sorry" - couple times in a row. 3) Calling on phone and asking if I am at home and she can borrow money out of blue, without telling a reason and what happened - I wasn't at home, so I declined. 4) Not wanting to do anything with her project to pass final engineer exam, then wanting me to help while deadline is close and not even saying "thank you" after passing first part, where without my help she was unable to pass. So I didn't bother if she passed last part. Communication cut off. This is sad. Meet a girl with a kind of look that hits your hormones and you get that false first good impression after first talk, but if you listen and observe longer then you spot such a turn off. But it happens and I am happy I didn't went immediately for close relationship.

[@edavila007]

That's exactly it. Don't ever think with your d*ck. Gas, grass, ass - nobody rides free.

[@OnderHassan]

My parents would often say that there are more bad and toxic people in the world than there are good. I used to think they were being pessimistic, but as I've gotten older it's getting more and more clear that they are right. So I don't blame men who are opting out of dating and marriage and feel sorry for the genuine good girls out there who are mostly affected. The time, resources, and heartache it takes trawling through the cesspit and minefield just to find these girls, in the end, isn't worth the effort. By that point, we're too tired, wounded, and jaded to keep trying.

[@zodden01]

Your facial expressions when you hear something strange are priceless...Love it !

[@jpoeng]

It is funny, she’s very expressive.

[@TruckGuy89]

What I don’t get is why do people have to “ text “ after a date? Whatever happened to a phone call? This texting crap is what’s ruining society when it comes to communication.

[@ssorbeats]

there is a reason i don’t want to be in a relationship in this generation

[@Anduwaithe]

The whole topic of who pays for the first date (when the couple is heterosexual) is very interesting. I recently read a survey of about 300,000 people asking for their opinions on this, and it varied a lot by sex and geography. Men are more likely than women to think that the man should pay, and people living in culturally conservative and religious parts of the US are more likely to think that the man should pay than those who live elsewhere. In my own state, which is very culturally liberal and irreligious, there's actually a larger percentage of women who think that one should go Dutch on a first date than think that the man should pay. And very large numbers of the survey respondents simply had no opinion one way or the other.

[@jleano609]

Yes but what women say on a survey and what they actually think when the guy suggests they go Dutch may be two very different things…..

[@Anduwaithe]

@@jleano609 Indeed; what we believe in the abstract doesn't always match up with how we behave in practice. That's why, if I'm the one who did the asking out, I go with the "No, this is my treat. You can get it next time" approach. Assuming I want to see them a second time, that is.

[@GeneralGnn]

I love how real Courtney is. Damn Teddy picked a high value lady

[@DavidLawsonGeneva]

Wow, I was as shocked as you were at the first princess entitled video. I couldn't believe I was hearing this and I didn't know that women like this exist. I have a loving relationship and have no interest in dating, but I always follow your videos for the sheer pleasure and your wisdom is always 100% spot on! I think I'm speaking for all men followers in that we all love your videos as they also incorporate, life-style choices such as what to wear, what accessories a man needs etc. All I can say for men here is that we just want more videos from you, but perhaps we're all greedy! :)

[@devilsadvocacy]

It’s about 1 in 3 millennial and Gen Z women who think that it is perfectly OK to use a guy for a foodie call. I’m convinced that Gen Z will be the last in human history as we are simply going to stop reproducing

[@LEVIAHAN]

Love your diversity in your content Courtney. Keep up the good work

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you! ❤️

[@fizzyj8470]

DARLINGGGG!!! As soon as u mentioned Bill Burr and the picking and choosing aspect of feminism I hit that subscribe button soooo fast!!

[@dixsusu]

The first one was a narcisist . The second one was a borderline . The third one was a narcisist .

[@brodkadpm]

Great advise on all points Courtney and I agree with you - 50/50, mutual respect and no pressure for either party involved. It should flow, no feel like it's forced or you being taken advantage of.

[@jamessupan1]

I rather choose to walk at the park with my dog, seat on the ground while watching some other people's behavior. Dating a princess wannabes are toxic, not fun to share your heart.

[@bigfatbean4623]

This is like the first video of hers I’ve actually sat down and watched from start to finish and Courtney seems like a really nice person wish I could find somebody like that

[@jpoeng]

You need to look for more conservative or “old fashioned” women who aren’t entitled modern f3minists. CR is from the Midwest, where that’s more common than the coasts. (In the US, don’t know where you are.)

[@blastechee-3546]

Courtney's face at 1:32-1:34. Speechless

[@TheJereld]

Really cute.

[@ScienceBacked022]

You are so refreshing. Thank you for the content.

[@chansinging91]

A woman may not *need* a man in many scenarios, not only those with onlyfans or sugar daddies, please...there are many successful women, who don't need a man, who own businesses, or have high positions and yet they will expect the man to pay and they will find men, who will gladly pay on dates. Why? Because at the end of the day, women and men are not equal,and this has nothing to do with needing or not needing a man or being independent, because the woman CAN of course pay her own bill, but she gives the man the option to be a gentleman, which many men appreciate, there are other reasons as well, but I will not go into them in this comment. By saying that those women are on "onlyfans", or with sugar daddies, which only a very little minority of women actually are, you are in fact bashing women...just like the comment about the filter, you could've just left it out. It's not classy. Sorry.

[@gmoney537]

You're just mad because she's speaking facts. Women hate when other women call them out and you're one of them that I see. You're independent, pay for your own ish. It's 2021, it's fair when both parties go half. No one wants another bill. They want a partner.

[@chansinging91]

@@gmoney537 first of all, I'm not mad. I don't like having to bring other women down to make men like you more, which is what she's doing, maybe even subconsciously. I pay for my own dishes and more, I will not protest that my partner pays for me if we go out together, this works for me, if it's not what works for you- great. I think that my comment was quite factual as well. As long as other women are not put down, go 50-50 all you like. 🙂

[@gmoney537]

@@chansinging91 she's not putting other people down. She is just speaking facts. One thing I don't like is that women will attack other women and call them pick me if they tell the truth about other women. Sorry that she's exposing other women and telling us how women really are especially when guys aren't around and when they're around other women. And girls like you get mad because it's the truth

[@11Reaper9]

@@gmoney537 she sound toxic and doesn’t realize it

[@chansinging91]

@@11Reaper9 toxic to whom? To you? Okay. You don't have to date, interact etc. with me. "Toxic" is a highly overused term nowadays. I believe that I sound reasonable, if you don't like it, then interact with people who don't sound toxic to you. I had people in this comment section not entirely agree with me, but still be respectful, your comment is just for the sake of making a comment.

[@dannydavis6659]

This is why the dating scene is such a minefield, so much conflicting, self entitled advice out there. Finding a beautiful partner who based and doesn't have unrealistic and misguided expectations is so hard to find. As I've got older life experience has taught me that you need someone who wants you as much as you want them. If they are interested in you they will make the effort, if your the one constantly keeping the momentum going after a reasonable effort you need to ask yourself is this worth it. There is no value in flogging a dead horse. We need more Courtney Ryan's out there for us guys.

[@CathDaddy]

Can we also get a hair and makeup routine, because you look wonderful!! 😂💝

[@CourtneyRyan]

You are so sweet! Thank you 💗💗

[@SnakeEyes111]

I dated a feminist, wouldn't let me pay for anything, that ended horribly.

[@primitivesoulsgaming1971]

funniest part of this vid, courtney trying not to say "bit**" so she doesnt get demonetized

[@habsom1406]

Hallelujah, this woman Courtney is so grounded. Thanks for being honest and calling out unacceptable female behaviour. These videos should be used as training tools in school.

[@ChromeGamers]

Seems like a rather conservative view on feminism, it's nice to see. Don't know if you'll ever even see this, but I'd like to know more about your political views. You just got a sub.

[@andrewgoss6486]

That first chick isn't attractive or young enough to get a date from me. She is a hard pass for me.

[@TurnOntheBrightLights.]

💯

[@fredymendez855]

The scary part is these zoomers are gona believe all of this toxic info. A girl I like follows a bunch of these tik tok dating advice folks and I wonder how much of this information is she taking too heart and she’s not a zoomer lol

[@visaman]

Zoomers.? Boomers with ZIP?

[@michellequiroz5899]

I am a girl and I watch your videos! I love it! I share your wisdom to my brother. I always felt like I was the odd one out since I didn't have these ideologies and rules about dating. I just focus on the chemistry, the attraction, and overall not playing with someone's emotions. I really enjoy your videos Courtney! keep up the great work! Video suggestion: how feminism is ruining relationships (the extreme feminisim)