reacting to more r/anticonsumption

[@Ryanneey]

I can't believe all this pro-business rhetoric lately! This feels like a newer concept in the past few years. Businesses aren't charities, and it's not your civic duty to spend your money at these establishments to ensure they are successful.

[@Iquey]

It is definitely some serious internalized capitalism brainwashing. I can understand wanting to support a small business but the fortune 500 don't need saving. 😂😭

[@LadyCoyKoi]

Unfortunately, it is part of the monetary-market system. This society survives on this form of economic system that needs big businesses. Is there an alternative system? Yes. It's called resource-based economy. Redistributing isn't hard... Amazon has shown the ability to redistribute resources in even remote places is possible. However, the powers that be would never support such system, because it strips away their power and control over others.

[@vvitch-mist20]

People will act like buying from Walmart is helping the economy, before they ever step in a Mom and Pop shop. People always think about small businesses when workers demand to be paid more for their labor, but then never try to spend their money at the same store.

[@lucidtofu]

Yes! Ik it's not really new anymore but especially with many people lately participating in bds, there's so many people voicing out that pro-consumption rhetoric! Cause for one, what you said, business arent charities, and two, massive worldwide chain companies should not be the subject of your charity. We give money to charities because they have value, if not for us directly (the way business do), then for the greater societal good, but businesses don't have the responsibility to provide that value.

[@emkab100]

Bds movement was really an eye-opener for me, knowing how much of our money is going towards war has made me change my shopping habits so much.

[@Noemie_Robidoux]

As a disabled women who lives alone, I've decided that being eco-concious was not going to be my battle ground. I use a wheelchair, I have mental health issues, I work full time and I believe that choosing the easy options (amazon, single use, pre-cooked meals etc.) gives me the mental space and energy to live a fulfilling life and I believe I can contribute and be more impactful on society that way. it's not that I don't care. it's that I have to chose where I put my energy.

[@shawnaripari]

thanks so much for sharing your perspective!

[@alice_rabbit8345]

Well said!!

[@Aster_Risk]

I choose not to shop at places like Amazon because I have more choices. I think people with mobility issues and other disabilities should be excluded from the judgment of that. I would rather you use Amazon and plastic packaging and not starve to death.

[@LadyCoyKoi]

Exactly! If a better alternative comes along that provides accessibility for all, we all would practice and use that. Right now, the convenience and accessibility of Amazon makes it a God send for many people.

[@optimisticfrogcollective]

You gotta preserve those spoons where you can 💖 I totally get it and am in the same boat

[@charmedvenuss]

Regarding sustainability and disability overlap: I have autism and chronic illness. When you have a disability you are often predisposed to guilt anyway, the world makes you feel guilty for being a burden. Turning that guilt onto your individual propensity for single use items isn't nearly as helpful as examining your shopping habits. I often have to eat certain premade foods and fast food just for my own mental healths sake, but it does me little good to focus on that. What does help me reduce my imprint is the fact that I stopped shopping for clothes, and I don't shop as an activity anymore. I'm not buying a hoard of books just to unhaul a ton of books. It's OVER consumption thats the sticking point we need to work on, not the amount of consumption you need to literally live. What you need to live is a NEED, and everyones real life needs are different, its convincing ourselves that wants are needs thats digging us into a hole.

[@palasiksivain]

as a fellow autistic and chronically ill person, this is super important! thank you for this comment!

[@Eddysig]

fr. If you're intentional and setting your own goals to be aware, mindful, and not overly wasteful etc, then you're doing as you should. Ppl loooove to generalize and assume things about probably very broad populations w various contexts. I also feel like it's ironically the ppl who don't think for themselves at all who are telling others what to do. Appreciate this fr a different perspective and so real the truth about making progress and doing what's right for your situation while still making an effort to like 'be better' for the environment etc. We are all different we can all contribute in our own ways.... whatever happened to mentalities like that yk?

[@charmedvenuss]

@@AerynK YES I think specifically of plastic straws all the time when this conversation comes up. I have several disabled friends who NEED to use them for various reasons and i would hate for them to feel like a burden on the planet for a distinct need. So I try and not let myself feel the same way for a very similar need.

[@slavbarbie]

Who needs fast food for mental health. That's like saying "I need alcohol for my mental health". The mental gymnastics... I have mental illness too so don't come at me personally.

[@charmedvenuss]

@slavbarbie did you not actually read the comment? I have Autism. Eating foods with inconsistent textures can affect the mental well being of autistic people. Often fast foods have the most consistent textures because of how they're cooked. Think before you comment.

[@katleigh4513]

"Jesus Saves, I Spend" Petition to replace America's "Land of the Free, Home of the Brave"

[@BeepBoop14]

LMAO

[@Waywardwindfall]

I’ve been trying so hard to get “land of the sick, because of the rich.” As a new statement. But people don’t like it.

[@aesinam]

​@@Waywardwindfallis it because of the rich or because many of you have convinced yourselves that anything that helps all of you is communism?

[@Leunan]

I know it's a bare minimum level of respect for others but I admire you for your stance on not taking people's real stories struggling with addiction and turning it into a content farm for your KZbin. I am very glad to have found your channel!

[@Feverm00n]

The most recent thing I’ve been contending with is being “okay” with purchasing any kind of food (even ones that might be less eco friendly) as I take my first solo baby steps to recover from anorexia after treatment.

[@Hellswarmglow]

"capitalism has infiltrated religion!" Oh, hon.... Let me tell you about megachurches 😢

[@shawnaripari]

I immediately started to take the back as soon as I said it. I was like daaaamn....

[@Hellswarmglow]

@@AerynK Now see all your favorites perform their greatest hits! Like "salt pillar lady" and "crumbling defense walls" and other classics you could read about for free, right here for only $499 and probably some leftover COVID from the last show!

[@averysspookshowspectacular6205]

Hah, yeah, capitalism is what makes organized religion go round, ever since religion became a thing.

[@lizzyp1414]

Totally agree about the beeswax covers. They were never easy for me to use, and I basically have barely used them since purchasing them. :( It's just way easier to put things away in like glass or tupperware containers that you probably already have...

[@Iquey]

Thank you for not using the shopping addiction reddit for content. It shows a respectful boundary that people working theough compulsions are already being brave enough to be vulnerable about it on an anonymous platform. I agree that people's somewhat safe communities online to be open about their private suffering or struggling just isn't something you want to pillage content from. It's not really the same as am i the asshole threads because in those subreddits they talk about interactions with another person or group of people, so there's already a bilateral information exposing going on, but reddits like shoppingaddiction feel more personal and unilateral.

[@blueditto]

thank you for not reacting to shoppingaddiction! i lurk there to help myself with my own shopping addiction and agree that it would feel icky to react to people trying to resolve their issues.

[@coolchameleon21]

fr. i think it’s so weird to kick people when they’re down and lurk in spaces that are dedicated to give people a place to vent/seek advice/get help just to make fun of them. that’s just low.

[@marlyd]

Imagine being active on that sub and then coming to channels like these for more inspiration and seeing your own posts being talked about in the video and the comments.

[@DanaeWilding]

My partners and I are maximalists and collectors, but have really taken steps to be critical about what purchases we make. Ive been able to realize that I get the same joy of purchasing from just browsing items, now we browse and thrift and look and are open about the fact that we love to "look at junk". Sometimes we just go "wow look at all this junk" as we happily pursue items. Purchases do happen, but usually from second hand places, and being vocal about enjoying looking at -garbage- has helped us flip the consuming switch. Sometimes you can consume with your eyes and be satified.

[@selkrasouza6262]

For myself, I found out that I can get just as much enjoyment from browsing items than I would’ve from purchasing them by just by taking out my mini sketchbook and doodling them down. I can use them as inspiration for later art projects if I want. That’s my way of “owning” the items in a way besides buying it.

[@KagamineKataRINa]

@@selkrasouza6262thats awesome. i do similar. i write down or screenshot items im interested in and plan to DIY them later. and if i never feel like DIYing said item, guess i never cared for it enough anyway

[@IronWangCreates]

Me and my old flatmate had a physical Pinterest board in our place and it was so funny how it replaced actually buying things! We had a really small flat, so we had this idea that if we wanted to buy something, we’d print it out and stick it on our little notice board and then if we still wanted it later we’d get it. And then what actually happened was we’d just print out cool things we saw and stick them up and then get the same effect as buying it. So instead of buying a cool toaster we just had a picture of it on the notice board for like 10 months. Turns out we just liked how they looked and got the same feeling from just having a picture of it.

[@tinywalnut6337]

When we were kids and wanted something we saw in a store, my mom would give it to us and let us hold it while she shopped. When we got to the cash register, she would take it away from us. If we didn't complain, she knew we didn't really want it. If we protested (which apparently was fairly rare), she would usually buy it for us. I do a lot of thrift shopping, but I've learned to do the same thing. I'll carry an item around with me while I shop, then examine what I have in my cart before I get to the register. Often times I will put things back; the things I simply can't part with come home with me. My home is full of carefully curated handmade and secondhand things that other people didn't want. I love the idea of giving them a loving home. I also love repurposing things and creating clever items I see on KZbin or Amazon, or finding those things second hand. Sometimes people just want something because it's bright and shiny and new, or because they just want a new thing.

[@gerard8290]

10$??? For cards???? I am spoiled by the dollar tree 50 cent birthday cards. But passing one card back and forth is such a cute idea!

[@shawnaripari]

I was at walmart not too long ago looking at cards and the hallmark ones were $12.95. Saw some for $8.95 but those were the cheapest I saw.

[@DustfeatherOfFire]

Yeah, I wondered whether this was maybe an American/Canadian thing specifically as they're usually around £3 each here (still more than I'd want to pay for a mass-produced greeting card, but I'll occasionally buy them from small-scale artists or photographers)

[@JustJerseyJo95]

I just don't buy cards anymore. I'm not spending $10+ on a card, nor driving a half hour to go to the dollar store. I'd rather spend that $10 or more towards a gift

[@slimecorn]

Yeah that threw off hard lol, they’re like $1-$5 here and I’m in the US outside of a larger city. I can only assume she’s in a HCOL area cause I’d be mad too if they cost that much lmao.

[@Eddysig]

fr!! and my family used to always just make them like $0 vs $10 is just bruh

[@BenchWench]

Wrt the whole sustainable materials for clothes thing: there is a similar argument that happens in yarn-craft circles (crochet, knitting, etc). A lot of people argue for or against natural vs synthetic fibers with similar arguments that others have for clothing. It's a very nuanced subject and so many things come down to affordability and availability per individual. Not everyone can afford the more expensive wools, despite many arguing it's probably the most "ethical" overall since we domesticated sheep specifically for their wool and they cannot survive in the wild without humans as a result. My take is as long as you are intending to use the thing made until it cannot be repaired reasonably, use the materials you can afford.

[@bobothefool3037]

R/shoppingaddiction is a support group. Definitely don't react to it. These are people trying to cope and looking for support. Turning that into entertainment would be so fucked up.

[@rachel3620]

My family and I just send a pic of whatever card we would have purchased and send it to each other. We just throw them away anyway. When I declutter, cards are one of the first things to go.

[@tinywalnut6337]

I love this idea! ♥️

[@ashmarie5049]

I struggle very heavily with mental illness and constant fatigue and recently have been developing joint pain (probably work associated lol). BUT I started doing really simple crock pot meal prep 2 times a week and will prep freezer waffles while the crock is potting. It helped me cut down on food waste, plastic waste, and lots of time and pain and the mental struggle with everyday tasks. I cycle through a few different meals. I also do grocery pick up through aldi so I can be sure of the prices and am able to really think through what I’m buying. It’s been immensely helpful with my anxiety of crowded places and food

[@coolchameleon21]

@@ashmarie5049 hi! would you mind sharing some recipes you like to make?

[@Sunflowerlee85]

The conversation about disability, chronic illness, and neurodivergence is so important. New to the channel and I really enjoy your videos. 🍑🍉

[@Ryanneey]

You should consider publishing these videos as audio podcasts. I was just thinking it would be nice to have these accessible on the go.

[@faeriesmak]

That would be amazing!

[@LMurphy]

I listen on my commute to and from work everyday! You don’t necessarily have to watch, you can just listen!

[@Financiallyfreeauthor]

I hate getting cards. It’s like someone sending me trash for me to feel guilty about throwing out.

[@Lau-x4t]

I love your videos you literally make every point I want to and just shed light on everything I hate (consumerism) thank you for all the great work!

[@beautyandthebeaker]

I’m autistic and have anxiety disorders and such things. I am not sure if that contributes to the guilt factor, but I will absolutely beat myself up for shopping. I go to stores and usually buy nothing, or maybe 1-2 items. When I first started my channel (two years ago), I thought I had to do a massive Sephora haul, because that’s what people were doing. So I went and spent like $500 at Sephora. And then I had a MASSIVE panic attack in the parking lot. I could not even drive home. I went back into the store and returned all but one item before I could drive. Recently, I bought one single eyeliner. I still have guilt about buying this eyeliner from over a month ago. I’m a scientist, yeah? So I find this very illogical because my husband and I (with no kids and no pets, both with amazing jobs), we are so blessed to be in a position where we don’t have financial worries. However, I will still feel guilty about buying one eyeliner! I don’t understand where the guilt originated from! I need to find “the origin of guilt”…….

[@SuburbanSkiəs]

As someone with ASD and severe anxiety, I totally sympathize with you. I absolutely love collecting antiques and merchandise yet I end up anxious as hell whenever I end up paying more than $50 no matter the circumstance.

[@SimplyKatieWalks]

I have psoratic arthritis. Is it environmentally conscious to have 18 pairs of arthritis gloves. Probably not, but.. but.. but.. what if i cant get them?? I think with my "disability" needs and wants get blurred a lot.

[@CAGChannel1]

Dump,the guilt. We have dealt with life and death over here, and I have backups upon backups , and everyone would when you realize that not having these things could be the difference between functionality/ life and death. When it’s my kid, backups away. If the backups upon backups give you peace in functionality, please please drop all guilt as much as you can. Hugs!

[@SimplyKatieWalks]

@CAGChannel1 thanks for your comment! My (irrational?) Fear is that I'll run out of money and won't be able to buy them when needed. I think that's my fear with many other things as well.

[@CAGChannel1]

@@SimplyKatieWalks perfectly ok, so get the backups upon backups for functionality and sleep better! There’s nothing like significant physical ailments for oneself or family member to boil down what’s needed for functionality and to keep alive. I, personally, will never feel any guilt for having stockpiles of those items for my daughters who both have a chromosome triplication.

[@Lost-in-Hades]

​@@fenflies I do the same thing! I want copies of my favorite music and movies, etc. Something that helps me is looking for it second hand. Not only is it cheaper, but I can prevent myself from buying something new and save something from the landfill

[@alice_rabbit8345]

@@SimplyKatieWalksI use an insulin pump. I’m glad to have a stock pile of supplies since I lost my job recently.

[@DustfeatherOfFire]

Regarding sustainable choices I make as a neurodivergent person (specifically I have ADHD), here are some: 1. I found a company that sells toilet rolls made of recycled paper (also packaged in paper rather than plastic) and I order these in bulk twice a year, which means that I almost never have to worry about forgetting and running out. Their name is 'Who Gives a Crap?' if anyone's interested :) 2. Soap bars! I find this is a way I can indulge my spending habit and get the "shopping dopamine" without buying useless things, as I get a lot of sensory enjoyment out of nice scented soap, and buying it in bar form rather than in a bottle means less or no plastic waste. Most of the soap bars I buy are from small businesses/craftspeople (as are the soap dishes I use in my bathroom and kitchen). I also use solid bars for other things like shampoo and shaving soap now. 3. Washable period pads - similarly to point #1, something you really don't want to run out of, and in this case I can just put them in the wash with the rest of my laundry. Much comfier than the disposable ones too, and not full of plastic. Obviously remembering to do the laundry is another kettle of fish, but I'd have to rely on my (very poor) memory either way, so better to do so in a way that reduces waste! 4. Plastic-free deodorant - this one's a bit expensive but I've actually found solid deodorant to be more effective than roll-on, which I used previously (spray isn't good for my asthma). The company I use is called Kutis and I like their scents a lot :) And things that haven't worked for me: 1. Recycled/biodegradable cat litter. Takes a lot of effort and function for me to consistently clean out the litter tray, so one of the compromises I've had to make is getting the clay clumping stuff that's much easier to dispose of, even if it's not the most environmentally friendly option. 2. Conditioner bars - while pretty much everything else has worked well for me in bar form, I just have too much hair for conditioner bars to work for me 😭 3. Bamboo toothbrushes - set off my gag reflex for some reason? Also the bristles were much too soft. Really not a nice sensory experience. There were two in the pack I bought, and I was going to give the other one to a friend, only to discover that it had gone mouldy in the cupboard. Honestly bamboo seems to be bad in general for attracting mould, as I've had the same problem with soap dishes in the past.

[@robnessvic]

You can buy plastic-free conditioner in liquid form if you want! I plan on buying the refillable shampoo and conditioner in metal bottles from Wild (not quite sure if that’s available worldwide but there might be similar companies)

[@DustfeatherOfFire]

@@robnessvic I'm fortunate to live in a town with several wholefood/eco shops that do refills (one of which I work in - yay for staff discounts :D) so that helps a lot too! Much easier to access things like this if they're within walking distance :)

[@Saphira_29]

I relate so much to the bamboo toothbrush thing! I get sensory issues - goosebumps all over my arms and gag reflex. I gave it up after three days 😅good to know it’s not just me haha

[@VeeBlack]

I get the conditioner concentrate bars from ethique. They will be melted in hot water and then you can put them in a glass pump bottle (or whatever you want to use) for your use. I also agree with the toothbrushes and the cat litter. We all do whatever we can and a little bit is better than nothing.

[@ronnie-lynn]

I use electric toothbrush and yes the little heads are plastic waste a few times a year. It would take 4 or more of them to = a regular size tooth brush. So better! Also I live by a bulk store, so I bring my bottles I have 1 for hand soap, dish soap, shampoo, conditioner, body wash, body lotion and face wash. I pre fill my nice bottles and dodge the plastic waste. 😊

[@billybee9659]

I’m such a quiet watcher, but I just have to say I’m so pleased with your success. The channel is doing so well. Keep up the great content.

[@dylanmagoiofthethalasso4032]

I LOVE that you included the disabled, mental illness post! My Mom was on oxygen for the past 12 years and my Dad has been on oxygen for the past 4ish years and both of them, especially my Mom, used A LOT of plastic and single used items. Oxygen hoses are supposed to be changed out every 2 weeks or so or elese they will get too stiff, the bed pads most likely had some form of plastic in them plus the wrapper was plastic, we had a small stack of bed side pans that we collected from the hospital which were just a waste because we didn't use them and most if not all medical things are single use and are wrapped in some form of plastic and there's more items to this list. I have been my Mom's caregiver for 12 years up until she died last year and my Dad's back in 2017. When my Mom died I got into the IDGAF mindset a bit and started to make my life easier and one of those things is that we bought a small handful of Wal-Mart reusable grocery bags which was inadvertently a sustainable choice. Over the past 7 months or so I have been buying a 1.5 liter single use water bottle and been reusing it for a month or so then I throw it away then buy a new one. I definitely want to be more anticonsumption, sustainable/ eco-friendly but loving with my Dad is making that impossible. We try and alternate every week going in person shopping and getting our groceries delivered. I find that reusing a gift card or bag funny 😂🤣 but not a bad idea.

[@ronnie-lynn]

I am chronically ill, and I have to administer myself intermuscular injections on a daily basis multiple and it’s a lot of waste even the syringes, just so much plastic waste. Each individual thing in a sterile wrapper from the syringe to the needle I use to draw the medication to the needle I used to inject the medication, the 4 medication vile (one is glass ampule) too the alcohol swab the Band-Aid And that’s just one injection. It bothers me a lot, but I try my best to let it go. I wish my Pharmacy would take back the pill bottles and reuse them also because I know that I would fill a black garbage bag full of plastic pill bottles in a year. So gross. 🤢

[@dylanmagoiofthethalasso4032]

@@ronnie-lynn Yeah, I hear ya about the pill bottles. I wish that Pharmacies would take back medicines too because SOMEHOW we have almost a stockpile of old medicine but that would most likely cause issues do to bad people lacing the pills or what have you.

[@PBnJessica]

That's really respectful of you to not want to react to those sub reddits. While I think three would be value for this channel, I really love how respectful you are towards them 🩷

[@jewellscott]

Have you read Brave New World? If you haven't, I think you'd like it. It's about a dystopian utopia that thrives on consumerism and pleasure. "But old clothes are beastly," continued the untiring whisper. "We always throw away old clothes. Ending is better than mending, ending is better than mending, ending is better..."

[@shawnaripari]

I have but it's been a WHILE. It might hit harder as an adult with a very different mindset so thanks for the rec!

[@CAGChannel1]

When you have a child fighting for his or her life, you stand in awe of plastics. Every tube bag, line, beeping thing, bandage, on and on and on were created using fossil fuels, and I am forever grateful. Natali Morris talks well about her realization that fossil fuels saved her daughter’s life too. When it comes to my daughter’s life, her well being comes first, period. And no parent, none, none , none, should feel a pinch of guilt for all the disposable products keeping their kid alive. Oooh, I get so mad, sorry!.!

[@sophielegay4104]

I don't like plastic at all but I never thought of getting rid of it when they are useful, especially in your case! Plastic does have its use but I'm pretty sure the majority of it is basically useless: decors, toys... All of that could be made in better material and not end up so much in landfills as it would break less and be sold.

[@CAGChannel1]

@@sophielegay4104 every blessing can be abused, but I am so, so grateful for fossil fuels, and I think it’s important to remember what they do and ALLLLL the things that are made from them, not just things that various entities mark as “bad.”

[@nessamcness2399]

Yes plastic is essential in hospitals 100%

[@Nemrai]

But the problem with fossil fuels isn't useful things like that. It is that we're affecting the climate by burning most of it, and adding enormous amounts of co2 to the atmosphere. It is that we're making a lot of unneeded things with plastics that end up in nature and causes problems there.

[@syddlinden8966]

I been "zero waste" since like 2018 and food is a big spot where I've had to choose getting the calories I need vs avoiding waste. I'm autistic and I need my safe foods: certain cereals (plastic bags), ramen (plastic wrapper, foam cup), rice a roni... I do what I can but I can't compromise on foods cause it results in not eating or full-blown meltdowns. Also, takeout. It always generates so much fucking water but if I want sushi I'm not going to eat anything else until i get that sushi cause that's just how my food needs work. Re cotton thing: I go plant fingers cause they don't shed micro plastic and I think that's a WAY bigger issue than the growing of cotton. Plastic generation is ALSO way wise for the environment than growing cotton cause it's a petroleum byproduct. I just about plastic fibers as much as possible since going "zero waste". Biggest thing with reducing waste: It's more important for everyone to reduce imperfectly than for a very few of us to do so perfectly.

[@thebrittannytaylor]

"Jesus Saves, I Spend" was originally used on a UNIF muscle tee back in the mid 2010s. It also had a dollar sign crossed with a cross. I still own that shirt.

[@Financiallyfreeauthor]

Did you see the thing recently about how some luxury brands are actually using Shein clothes and taking off the label and jacking up the price? High price doesn’t even mean higher quality 😢

[@jjjosie_]

in my family we have the same birthday and christmas cards which come out each year! we’ve been using the same ones for about 10 years and it’s nice getting the same ones out each year because by the time it comes round again you’ve forgotten what it looked like anyway!

[@sarw522]

Re: the $15 - $30 purchases. What helps me the most in avoiding these types of purchases is keeping a dollar-by-dollar monthly budget - a critical aspect of which is that immediately after I buy something, I subtract it from the money I have for that category. Seeing the immediate impact of those purchases (as in, "oh now I only have X amount of money in this category left") helps me avoid those kinds of purchases much more than in the past.

[@kinzie1031]

Get in bestie, we're seizing the means of production. 🍑🍉

[@shawnaripari]

this comment is everything!!!

[@kinzie1031]

@@shawnaripari omg thank you! Your videos are truly inspiring, they helped me be more of a mindful consumer and break out of some really bad habits. Keep up the great work 🙌

[@AlexandrineFortin]

I have very high anxiety and OCD related to germs. I don’t believe I’ll ever be able to stop using disposable cleaning products (wipes, sponges, toilet sponges). I’m doing my best to reduce everything else I can to compensate.

[@CAGChannel1]

Hugs and drop,the guilt as much as you can!

[@baymewx]

My family is a "make your own card" type of family, and I honestly love to have all of the art made by my family members on my wall as a keepsake. it costs pennies to make, and is worth a lifetime of love and happiness

[@LouisasKnitKnacks]

Zero waste kitchen supplies: I make sponges out of old towels (stained, ripped, or otherwise no good for donating), a piece of scrap fabric, and the mesh bag from onions or other produce for a scrubby side. They can go through the washer and dryer and last multiple years before the mesh bag inevitably gets torn.

[@amanda_ash]

We are a neurodivergent and disabled family. It’s really hard, even more so with a kid. They want so much plastic junk. They grow out of everything so fast. They want to fit in with their peers, which is difficult, so I end up making sure they have some of the trendy items. Tweens can be brutal, and a lot of them have no concept of ecological impact, they just want to show off that their family has money (I blame the parents and social media). I also live in a place that’s very conservative, so nothing caters to low-waste. There’s no recycling here. My husband does not care, like a lot of hyper masculine men. He’s not going to inconvenience himself. I just try to buy less and less. I have a long list of things I no longer buy (candles, nail polish, face masks, etc). I also have some products I like from Ethique, anihana, and Blueland. Try to use a lot of reusable things. Try to repair things. It’s easy to feel like you’re never doing enough in the low-waste/zero-waste community.

[@emmanarotzky6565]

I agree that sometimes you have to buy things you don’t want to support for the sake of your kid’s social life, it’s annoying but school is brutal. But your kids also need a better role model than your husband who doesn’t care about the planet and his own impact. Kids can have a consumerist phase while they’re buying some of the trendy stuff to fit in, but they need to see that the adults around them have grown out of that phase so that they associate it with dumb kid stuff when they get older instead of “just what everyone does”. They need to hear adults talking about environmental impacts and taking steps to change what they can in their own lives.

[@_Cortney-]

Yes, I’ve been trying to figure out the kid trinket thing. My son goes to tutoring and trinkets are a reward every time. I have donated them back to the preschool at times so they can use them as rewards again. Luckily, my kids are not obsessed with trends.

[@ronnie-lynn]

13:57 I am chronically ill, and I have to administer myself intermuscular injections on a daily basis multiple and it’s a lot of waste even the syringes, just so much plastic waste. Each individual thing in a sterile wrapper from the syringe to the needle I use to draw the medication to the needle I used to inject the medication, the 4 medication vile (one is glass ampule) too the alcohol swab the Band-Aid And that’s just one injection. It bothers me a lot, but I try my best to let it go. I wish my Pharmacy would take back the pill bottles and reuse them also because I know that I would fill a black garbage bag full of plastic pill bottles in a year. So gross. 🤢

[@billiebluesheepie2907]

Please don’t feel bad - I can’t pee 🚽 by myself and have to use single use catheters every single time - that’s a special lubricated sterile plastic straw, in its own packaging, 4 to 6 times a day, and ‘the area’ needs careful cleaning before and after…! I also rely on lots of medication with its extensive blister packaging.

[@alycenx]

100% on the disability thing - my sibling and I both have neurological disabilities that are different and not comparable, what works for me will not for them. I am plant based, they aren’t, but I think it’s something I can help environmentally, for example. They have a medical aid to help with food preparation, I don’t. It’s just about choices that you make and the resources you have. I can speak for me, sometimes I have to order in that’s just it. But for shopping, I don’t impulse shop and have a short list of brands I go to and all items brought into my home or wardrobe are meticulously researched, thought about, and left on year-two year long wishlists. I’m lucky to have what I NEED, anything to add is a want.

[@irregularstuff5290]

About materials: if you're dead set on going fully eco friendly, I would recommend looking into linen and wool. I've heard that c-nnabis is the most sustainable, but for obvious reasons there are very few brands that actually use it, so linen is like second best. Also wool, especially from local private farms. I'm not sure how much of it is possible to get as an existing clothes because I was more looking into wool itself, but it's very good winter material. Also actual leather. Avoid plastic one if you can afford it, if you can - I've heard that stores for metallheads can have some goods that would last you long years and will desappear after use from the face of the planet.

[@WinterBlossomX]

Ca*nabis is not used for fabric, as it's grown for medicinal purposes. Its twin sister hemp is a fiber plant, which is widely used and easily accessible.

[@irregularstuff5290]

@@WinterBlossomX thanks, I definitely showed my lack of vocabulary here x)

[@roserowson8270]

Linen hemp and bamboo are the most sustainable fabrics and wildly available.

[@angelanemeth8251]

The greeting card idea at the end was so cute!! My family is not big into cards but with friends I started giving them 'seed' cards (the cards that have seeds in them that you can plant and get wildflowers or even carrots grow).

[@okestperson6016]

I may have some type of neurodivergence and my favorite accessible hack is frozen chopped peppers and onions from Walmart. I will not make food if I have to chop things. So this is both sustainable and unsustainable. I have a lot less food waste cause I don’t have to worry about veggies going bad, but also it comes in plastic

[@Wanda-v4b]

I do a huge bulk chop of the things I tend to use (onions, shallots, etc.) and then put them in freezer bags so it’s ready to go when I need it. When I’m actually cooking there is very little chopping and it saves a lot of money. This might be a helpful way to go depending on why you don’t want to chop things.

[@peaches65835]

I have chronic fatigue syndrome and try to balance sustainability with surviving. My favourite sustainable things are: - downloading digital audiobooks from my local library, - I only leave the house a few days a weeks so I need to buy far less clothes and accessories, - using washable period undies. Practices that balance out even: - buying individually wrapped foods. Yes there's more packaging, but the items keep alot longer so it doesn't go off before I can eat it (spoiled food was a big pet peeve of mine), - using disposable paper plates and cups when Im incapable of doing the dishes. Yes resources are used to make the items, but most can be recycled. Practices I have just had to accept I can not be sustainable with: - the use of disposable ziploc bags for leftovers in the freezer which I eat on super low energy days, - buying prechopped vegetables in plastic bags, - I had to give up on my worm farm because I didn't have the energy to maintain it.

[@AlexHider]

Amazon used to have the spend report freely available and guess what, last year I had to hunt for that shit and consult the oracles just to get the file. It was hard, and they made it hard to find on purpose because they don’t want people to get a good look at how much Chinese tat they buy.

[@RaspberryDevil]

I appreciate the thought you put into choosing the group to react to 🍑 There is a lot to think about again, thank you for sharing your opinions with us :) I'm from a greeting card family as well! But my mum loves crafts so we make them ourselves. Sometimes I see cute cards though, so I buy them - though I never spend more than 4 Euros on a single card :')

[@ginnysvec4809]

I love getting and giving cards!! But I now go to TJ’s and they’re like a dollar. Plus they’re so cute and much more unique. Those 5-10$ cards are tooooo much.

[@Saezimmerman]

😊 I feel like - if it’s something you really enjoy, then that’s lovely. Personally, I’ve always found it stressful because so many of my “greeting card people” do spend so much $$$ on them & I don’t scrapbook or memory box. I don’t have a use for them and I throw them out (feeling guilty the whole time.). That said, the exchanging the same card thing is cute & a crafty person could also use them + some sturdy product packaging to make nice gift boxes.

[@nicoleszacharia2624]

i agree, i don't like the bees wax things. i also don't like the reusable silicone things that are supposed to replace ziplocks - they get weird and are hard to clearn properly. we just try and avoid plastic bags when we can, reuse plastic bags as much as possible (rinse out ziplocks, that kind of thing) and take them to plastic film recycling. maybe not perfect, but something and it works for us

[@anerdygoldenagesoprano]

I'm autistic and chronically ill. I have a stainless steel container that I throw in my same lunchbox i've had since I started college. It's great at holding my main meal. My family also reuses plastic items to a reasonable degree. Our containers are generally glass, but we use the plastic more than once. I eat convenience foods sometimes when I dont have the energy for cooking. I have cut down massively on my purchases of takeout. I have collections of things that make me happy as decor, but I have slowed down there. One of my special interests is getting a ton of new merchandise lately, but I only allowed myself one new item, a single new doll for my display. I have a well curated makeup bag and closet; I have a lot of clothes/skincare/makeup/accessories/jewelry, but I know what I have and I generally use them. I'm transitioning to buying less (especially clothes) and only buying new from specific brands. I don't buy new clothes now if the brand doesn't have at least a "Good" rating on Good On You I keep my birthday and Christmas cards :) I only get them from close family

[@brittany7288]

For greeting cards, I grew up with a crafty mom, so we often made cards. I’ve also cut the front off cute greeting cards I’ve received and glued/taped it onto a completely blank card bought in a pack from a craft store that I can then write inside. Or take the cute front and glue/tape a piece of paper to the back to create a greeting “post card”. I also buy cards at dollar store type stores. Love the idea of exchanging the same greeting card for years though!

[@KirstAngel]

As far as produce bags go, I don't use them at all unless it's something loose like green beans. I figure I'm going to wash the produce anyway, there's no harm in putting it in the cart with nothing covering it. I do usually use the plastic bags when I need them, but then those get reused for my cat, so it works out.

[@PetCrazzy]

It’s a big struggle trying to balance accessibility, health, and sustainability (I fall in the 3 categories disabled, chronically ill, & neurodivergent). I go through a lot more plastic waste than I would if I weren’t ill, (gloves, wipes endless plastic pill bottles) Plus the many times that I cannot avoid needing to use a ride service or have my partner drive when public transit is unavailable/unmanageable. I try to buy in bulk to reduce packaging waste and reuse as many containers, cardboard boxes, and bags as possible, but I can’t help but feel I’m not even making a dent in the list of practices underconsumption & sustainability groups promote. Even meal prepping can be difficult so I tend to end up with many small single-serving snacks and drinks just to get any nutrients into me. On the other hand, most of my clothes are many years old and I don’t shop very often. If I do, it’s usually the thrift store or I spend weeks weighing pros and cons just out of fear of spending on an already low income. I would honestly love to hear what works for others in the chronic illness/disabled community!

[@meganvictoria6550]

its crazy, im a psw of 5 years, we use wipes, briefs,gloves and pads 2-3 times a day (I work with 1 person with a disability), and I cannot stop thinking about how we can do things more substainably here. its hard since when it comes to things like that, it can become a hazard using reusable alternatives when we do what we do, and I am stuuumped.

[@sophiezhang2485]

There is a reason why medical waste is exempt from the zero waste movement! As they like to say, no such thing as the good old days of reusable medical equipment.

[@kaylenn52090]

I love greeting cards but Aldi has them for $0.99 and they are cute. But I come from a family that reuses gift bags and sometimes tissue paper. My husband has learned over the years to keep the bags and so has my mother in law. She doesn't even ask anymore, she just folds them up for me 😄

[@worldsoull]

Living with a chronic illness, I have found getting meal delivery service has been a huge game changer (I don't drive, so carrying lots of groceries from 1 shop or doing many shops would increase my fatigue). There are some non-environmentally friendly cons to it such as the delivery, and the individual packaging. However, I actually think I waste less because I only get the amount of ingredients I need (also so hard to shop for a single person) and I then also tend to get less take away or ready meals. My service of choice is Gousto (better recipes than Hello Fresh imo, and less packaging that is also all recyclable!)

[@tinywalnut6337]

I am one of those people who has to have a very specific or the more appropriate version of something, which means i have to do a LOT of looking--where that's on Amazon, Etsy, or a thrift store. Often times, through this process, i will either decide against the purchase altogether; decide to make it myself; or find it second hand instead. It's a weirdly effective deterrent against impulse buying.

[@morganwentworth2041]

When I was deep in my ED recovery and needed "safety foods" that were palateable enough for me to eat regardless that could go into my air fryer. A big one was frozen chicken tenders. Now I'm in a much better place with regard to ED, but I still deal with mental illnesses. Now my safety food is cottage cheese, because I can have a very basic lunch with that and fruit and have it be delicious and high protein

[@razzledazzle5933]

Greeting cards are hard. I love it when people write little messages in it for me. But just the signed ones...they sometimes end up in the trash. Shhhhh...its a secret. 😂

[@goofygoofymf]

Dollar stores for greeting cards. They have some cute ones at my local dollar tree and that's where I've been going since I moved so close to one.

[@deltasaves]

New to following you. Thank you for having nuance in this space as i found a lot of continued uber consumerism or insistence on buying certain things or getting rid of certain things because some "head honcho" said so. Ive had some of these arguements in leftist spaces, one famously about having a car. The person so against vehicles not realizing or cared that MANY people do notnlive where there is public transportation or its safe to walk. Im also a nurse and need to be able to get to my job at the time from a rural area. Im also not able to walk 6 hours to and from work daily... Absolute brain rotting "arguements" happen without really thinking about how having to repurchase true needs wouldnt be possible for many, making it a class issue.

[@vvitch-mist20]

13:36 A much as I would love to be zero waste, she is a type 1 diabetic so not only do I have actual medical waste to contend with, but I use a lot of single use alcohol wipes, needles, and her insulin tubes have to go into the garbage. I try to minimize waste with getting reusable plastic straws, as well as not buying bottles of water or reusing bottles when I have the need for it, however I create waste every month. 31:02 I don't think tanning leather should be considered as "unsustainable" as leather has been a staple product in human fashion for the entirety of humanity, and ik it sounds like splitting hairs, but I think it's important to keep this in mind because leather as a material isn't a problem. The problem is how people treat leather goods. Leather shouldn't be tossed into the garbage unless it can't be repurpose in some form or fashion. It's why I hate vegan leather as a concept since that's just plastic.

[@Fiberedfolios]

Pre-made meals have been a godsend for me when I’m not able to do anything, things that are easy for me to prepare without causing too much pain. I’ve always felt bad but then stopped doing so because whatever makes my life easier when it’s already so bloody difficult I refuse to feel guilty for. Haha took a while to get there

[@alice_rabbit8345]

I have depression and some days I don’t get out of bed. I live alone and just make myself quick meals and use paper plates. I just don’t have the mental or physical energy to do dishes. The person that wanted the plant themed bag clips and coasters would be supporting a small business. As an Etsy seller I appreciate when someone supports my shop.

[@IronWangCreates]

Also as a maker, that zero waste stater bag is so funny to me. I could make the beeswax wrap and the string pouch for maybe £10. If I made a tote as well that goes up to maybe £20. Or I could get one for £15 new. A lunch box for like £10 MAX, and a tumbler the same price. I could recreate that whole kit for £40. There’s is just super expensive because it’s *aesthetic*, and it’s so aggravating that a big way brands and trying to make money off zero waste is by giving people this idea that zero waste looks a certain way.

[@IronWangCreates]

I set myself a goal this year to reduce my clothing impact, so I could only buy second hand or make it myself. I’m still spending money, but I’m spending a lot less? Because I only really get second hand from charity shops and I can’t online shop with that, I have to physically go in. And with making my clothes, I subconsciously now think a lot harder about what I want to make and how much use I’ll get out of it, how many outfits I can use it with etc Because getting new clothing is no longer something that can be done in one click, or by walking into a shop and buying something on a whim because of a trend, I’ve really reduced the amount of clothing I’ve gained this year

[@emmettnet]

🍑🍉 i respect and appreciate your choice not to react to the shopping addiction forums. very much enjoyed your reactions and commentary in this video! one other thing you can do with greeting cards is to use them for scrapbooking or junk journalling -- not that that's everyone's thing, but it's a great way to turn it into something memorable than just throwing it out. :)

[@SpiritedSamantha]

I’ve been hand making my greetings cards for my friends & family and I enjoy it. I think it’s meaningful and I don’t spend much on them but I like doing it.

[@emmanarotzky6565]

I don’t buy greeting cards, I get tons of them for free from random charities when they send out their mailers asking for donations. Way more than I could ever use.

[@Emi-cl2rt]

Found your channel last week. Love your videos! Keep it up :)

[@faeriesmak]

Thanks so much for representing disabled and autistic people! As a person with AuDHD I really appreciate it. I have been trying to buy less because I don’t need anything. I am 49. I have everything that I need. At this point I am working on lowering the amount of responsibility that I have. For me that looks like less things to maintain, less social engagements, less pets, and one of my sons moved out. I spent about 22 years in burnout from parenting kids withAuDHD, running my own part time small business, and also taking care of my elderly mother who also has AuDHD. I have been unsubscribing from marketing emails, avoiding online window shopping, and I am trying really hard not to look at any shorts (I don’t have Tik Tok). I also had to unsubscribe from a lot of beauty You Tube because I LOVE makeup and don’t need anymore influence in that subject. As far as plant shaped chip clips go…I just started using clothes pins. They are usually wooden with a metal spring, better for the environment. They are cheap and they last longer than chip clips.

[@meg659]

That zero waste kit is so ridiculous

[@IronWangCreates]

That kit is a great example of how brands are trying to monetise zero-waste by convincing you that zero-waste has an aesthetic. Telling you that being zero waste means all your stuff is made from glass, stainless steel, wood and unbleached cotton.

[@Browndrea]

I'm so glad that giving greeting cards aren't a thing in my country cause those prices are ridiculous

[@ElizabethStewartSpeaks]

🍑🍉I found your channel several weeks ago. And I wasn't aware just how badly I had been yearning for content like yours. You've come into my life at just the perfect moment. And I'm so thankful to be able to listen to your well worded thoughts and work towards my goals. Thank you for all your time and effort that you've put into your content for years ❤

[@SimplyKatieWalks]

Shawna is the best! She's absolutely changed my life for the better.🎉

[@shawnaripari]

you are so sweet and I'm so glad that my content has been helpful with achieving your goals 💕 thanks so much for being here

[@jillb9220]

I think there is more consumerism these days because a lot of things are cheaper (comparatively) and there are just so many avenues to advertise now. It used to only be in tv commercials, in magazines, and billboards to advertise. There also seems to be more random things, items, gadgets, etc available these days that we didn’t have before….

[@Irrlichtwinter]

pro tip for greeting cards: get affordable card stock, cut it into cards, take a sharpy, draw a funny doodle on it... lovingly hand made gift card 🥰it doesn't even have to be pretty, nobody cares what is *on* a gift card anyway, it's the though that counts. This idea that 'fast fashion items don't last long' is so weird to me... My family has always bought as affordable as possible, and I still wear some of the H&M jeans I got as a 13 year old (I'm 30 now). How long something lasts also depends on if you throw it away once it has little flaws, or if you sew over the flaw or put on a patch etc. I thrift most of my clothing now, but what fast fashion I've bought for myself (again from H&M, because that's some of the most affordable decent quality clothing to get around here) has held up just fine. To me, buying higher priced clothing feels like a risk, because there's no actual *guarantee* that it will hold up proportional to its price.

[@elven_grandma3138]

My particular blend of disabilities & chronic illnesses actually gives me a unique perspective on the "but it's for disabled people" argument, because I have an autoimmune condition that causes me to react to (among other things) plastic & (the majority of) synthetic materials. Since items designed for disabled people are inevitably made out of plastic &/or synthetics, I have to get super creative in order to find items made of natural materials that I can actually use - which are usually either secondhand or sustainably made, since everything not for disabled people is also made out of plastic these days! I'm always grateful when people point out that various products are intended for disabled people, because it's important to remember, but it's also kind of frustrating that the conversation frequently ends there, as if the fact that the product being designed for disabled people makes it exempt from further criticism, even though plastic (in spite of it's many useful properties) is not always the best material for the job, even for disabled people, & assistive devices can be cheaply & shoddily made (& then overpriced), too, & sometimes there are (or could be) better alternatives, even for disabled people. It's often presented as if there's no middle ground: either you use no products that might help you (impossible for most disabled people) or you buy cheap tat from amazon because it's "assistive". If you actually want/need that middle ground, like I do, you have to do the work yourself. I get that it's hard to account for everyone, since disabled people's needs are so very varied, but I wish we could take a more nuanced approach to the discussion, rather than just stopping at "disabled people have to choose between buying things & being able to do things", because it's very isolating to be effectively excluded from the conversation as an exception to the rule ("assistive devices don't count as overconsumption", "do what you can" - okay, but how, the person making the post was literally asking for practical advice on how other people find their balance, & the top result was a bunch of platitudes!). Sometimes what we actually need & what is currently available don't match up. Just as a lot of people buy too many clothes because nothing fits right, but they all fit differently, disabled people can end up buying "assistive items" that don't actually do what they need, but are still better than nothing. Being actually included in the wider conversation, having knowledgeable abled people who are good at research actually seek out companies that are trying to be not only ethical & sustainable, but also inclusive (for instance: I know there are some underwear companies out there that make underwear that not only considers various body types, but also ostomy bags, & I know about them, because of general creators talking about them!) Would go a long way towards easing the tension between the desire to reduce consumption & the inability to avoid certain products that a lot of eco-concious disabled people feel - a tension which isn't actually assuaged by being told "it's okay to be an exception to the rule".

[@elven_grandma3138]

Decided to come back & add some of the general tips I think people could still give disabled & chronically ill folks: Shop second hand. Being disabled doesn't actually preclude you from shopping second hand, but as soon as assistive devices enter the chat, people often act as if the only way to get them is to but them via amazon. Yes, being disabled can be expensive, but buying from amazon isn't the only way to save money. Buying second hand can seem like a lot more effort, especially if you have any form of chronic fatigue, but honestly, unless you're buying via a direct link, all shopping is exhausting these days; either wading through various assistive device websites (which are rarely accesible - seriously, why are websites aimed at disabled people somehow less accessible than the general internet?!) Or the overwhelming number of repeat options on amazon (or whatever underpriced website you go to) to find the right product. Sometimes shopping second hand actually feels easier! Not all assistive stuff will be equally represented, but if it's the type of gadget that has made it's way into the general "useful stuff" market, chances are higher that you can find it - For instance; since kitchenware includes a lot of gadgets, & disabilities & chronic illnesses often have a heavy impact on food prep, eating, & cleanup, there's a lot of overlap there, making it a good place to narrow down your search & start looking. A significant percentage of assistive device users are also elderly, meaning they wind up using their items for a relatively short time, & their relatives may put these items up for sale after their deaths. These are more likely to be bigger ticket items (recliners, scooters, rollators, etc), but some people will sell things in bundles, which can actually be more energy saving than having to buy all the items individually yourself. Don't forget to check out free use/giveaway sites, too; sometimes people would rather get rid of things by giving them away, rather than selling them on - especially if they have somewhat painful memories attached, like a loved one's death - but don't want to just throw them away. There are also lots of buyback/secondhand programmes for larger mobility aids. My mum got our stairlift via a company that specialises in removing & re-installing stairlifts. Not only did that mean it was cheaper & more sustainable, but when it broke down, they were able to replace the chair & motor portion with another, without having to replace the whole thing. (They also offer maintenance, something we don't talk about as often as buying or not buying, but which can go a long way to making sure we don't have to keep replacing things, & is ofyen harder for disabled & chronically ill folks to do themselves.) More general electronics are also both extra useful/energy saving for disabled people, & widely available refurbished or second hand.

[@elven_grandma3138]

(I keep writing mini essays, so I'm going to do one tip per comment) Kind of similar to "buy second hand", but "research vintage options". (Also advice that gets given to everyone, but often gets an "if you need to, buy new" addendum for disabled people that makes it seem as if there are few to no vintage options.) Disabled people existed in the past! As did elderly people. And people who just wanted to make their own lives easier. And whilst there wasn't the overwhelming amount of assistive devices there are today, you might still be able to find a handy/"quirky" gadget or two, that's still useful for you even if it's not specifcally labelled as "assistive". More generally, though, a lot of vintage stuff is better designed & longer lasting than the modern equivalent. It's not always heavier & bulkier, either, even if it has less plastic. (Though plastic has been around for along time now, & I'm pretty sure even vintage plastic is often better quality than the modern equivalent thanks to planned obsolescence, & the shodifaction of everything caused by ever cheaper & faster production methods.) Vintage furniture can also be sturdier (for those of us who need to lean on things a lot!) More ergonomically designed (the mid-20th century saw a big push in designing around people's bodies & needs), &/or supportive (so many modern chairs/seating options are just slabs!)

[@elven_grandma3138]

Learn about materials. Knowing what stuff is made of, how it's made, & the properties of its basic components can go a long way towards making concious buying choices. We often talk a lot about the impact of various materials at the production & end of life stage, but knowing how they'll act during their lifespan can be just as - if not more - important as a consumer. Disabled people have a higher rate of allergies & material sensitivities than the general population, & knowing about the risks & advantages of various materials can help avoid/combat these issues. (E.g.: buying VOC-free paints benefits both the environment & people with respiratory issues). Knowing about the properties of various fabrics & fibres can help you choose clothes that will actually be the most comfortable for you (especially if you have sensitive skin, have to sit/lie in the same position for prolonged periods of time, etc), in a way that basic descriptors like "soft" can't always do. - As can knowing the basics of clothing construction. It also helps with knowing which clothes are better to buy both generally & second hand; which fabrics are more likely to last, which fabrics are softer after they've been worn several times/"worn in" (& might therefore be better bought secondhand), etc. A lot of chronically ill & disabled folks have to pay more attention to hygeine. Knowing the properties of various materials; which have antimicrobial properties, which are easiest to clean effectively, which can be cleaned at higher temperatures, thus more effectively sterilising them (as opposed to the ever-ubiquitous "wipe clean", which can actually leave plenty of germs behind) can make it easier to control the cleanliness of your environment. Whilst this might not have much impact on the amount of cleaning supplies or single use items you need (though being able to sterilise things via heat may have some impact on the types/number of products you need to use), it can give added peace of mind (which is priceless), & can allow you to make more informed choices about what items to buy (rather than just relying on a "hygenic" label), making it easier to shop second hand, knowing what items you can clean effectively once you own them (& which items to avoid). It also helps with estimating an item's weight. It can also help with making informed decisions about things you do need to buy new: which items are likely to last (even when being cleaned regularly), which items will be easier to clean, etc.

[@elven_grandma3138]

Shop/eat seasonally. (Even if you are buying pre-prepped stuff, this can still reduce the impact.) It sounds like a lot of work, but many supermarkets will have various products labelled as seasonal (either in displays, or online) which are also often on offer, as there is a high supply when it's in season. Not only is buying seasonal produce better for the environment, it also often costs less, & can add variety to your diet without forcing you to do a ton of planning, since the supermarket already did the work figuring out what's in season for you.

[@fsldjfklasdj]

I got my first wheelchair from a flea market before I could get insurance to cover one that was fitted to me. ​@@elven_grandma3138

[@katherineburtt2502]

For the greeting card thing I am all for getting a bunch of generic blank cards from the craft store and using those. If I can’t think of my own thing to say to someone, why am I giving them a card? Like I can buy a pack of 40 cards and envelops for like 6 dollars, so it’s like 15 cents instead of $10. The only exception I make is for very young kids because a fun, sensory card is more fun for them and they can’t read.

[@isabellerininger6249]

We were a greeting card family for my whole upbringing. We switched to photo cards so the recipient could cut out the photo (it’s an actual real photo not from a home printer) and keep it or put it in a frame. Less waste🥰…. And then the internet happened. Now I send maybe 2 cards a year. Graduation gifts/money, condolences to close people (only), and the elderly/not online. That’s it-those are who get cards now. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m actually surprised Hallmark is still in business.

[@jessicah23]

I hate buying greeting cards. I also find it quite meaningless to receive one especially if there is very little written inside. When my best friends and I do give each other cards, we write so much in them that the card itself doesn’t matter. I prefer to make cards myself or write a letter (on cute stationary from Etsy… still cheaper than cards) so if someone gets a card from the store from me, it often means I forgot / ran out of time to do something more meaningful or don’t feel close enough to them to dedicate the time and energy to something better. It’s strange that spending money on a commercially-made card to give in addition to a gift has been so normalized - the people in the greeting card industry must be so pleased with themselves.

[@JudelovesRiver12]

I like hearing you talk 😅 you are so chill and intelligent

[@palasiksivain]

10 dollars for greeting cards???? omg, the americas are truly a different ball pit entirely, while we in finland be buying cards for a bit over a euro max

[@slimecorn]

I think she likes in an expensive area cause they’re $1-$5 here in my experience

[@sungexpression9093]

dollar tree brings out fifty cent cards on mother's day and father's day. i dislike the 1.25 price rise that seems to have bene done out of greed, but definitely take advantageo f the 50cent giftcards. i think handmade cards get so much shade for no reason

[@shawnaripari]

Since the majority of my audience is American this is good to know! I've gone to the Canadian equivalent for $1 and $2 cards and have liked them!

[@nikkired5584]

I am religious and that Jesus shirt is WILD 😦

[@Saezimmerman]

Business & Economics Click Bait - “People don’t save enough to cover a minor emergency”. Also Business & Economics Click Bait - “The Consumers aren’t spending enough!” - MAKE UP YOUR MIND! ETA: Would love to see someone talk about the consumption/resources tied up in the Christian Consumer Complex & The Resources hoarded by neighborhood churches. We’re a long way from the home churches & lay leaders of the 1st century CE.

[@wiktoriajurkiewicz3144]

Being sustainable is for people who can afford it. Regular people buy food, hygiene products and cleaning products from market which are in plastic containers. Also if cotton is bad what do I buy if I want to buy duvet covers for example? Silk? Can't afford it

[@roserowson8270]

Silk is terrible for the environment. Linen hemp and bamboo are the most sustainable fabrics. Or any fabric second hand of course!

[@Genevieve_vds]

I love the birthday card idea

[@Jezzie]

Where are you buying your greeting cards? The most expensive I've seen them here where I live in Canada is $5! They're generally $1.50-$2.00 CAD here.

[@morethan1]

I wouldnt call myself pro- or anti-small business, but your small business isnt more important than anything or anyone else in this world. You are not owed a prosperous business - if your idea doesnt pan out then it doesnt pan out, but dont blame individuals for not buying things they dont want or need.

[@tinywalnut6337]

Girl did you just say "means of production"? 😍

[@morethan1]

This may be a dumb question but why does it matter that cotton uses a lot of water? The water doesnt disappear after you use it on the crops, it evaporates and continues on in the water cycle right?

[@shawnaripari]

My understanding is that some of the concern is water diversion from local supplies to farm cotton leaving these communities in a state of stress. There's been mismanaging of water resources so water has been lost as a result). There's also concerns of polluting local water supplies as a result of heavy pesticide use. I am by no means an expert on this and am learning myself.

[@morethan1]

@@shawnaripari thank you for the response! That all makes sense

[@tomjones2157]

@@morethan1 Actually they truck in WAY more water to farm vegan supplies like blueberries, avocados ect than cotton. But no one wants to talk about it. "Big polyester" is really pushing the anti-cotton thing right now to take the spotlight off themselves

[@LMurphy]

When businesses overuse water, it puts a strain on the water supply, which makes it more difficult to provide clean drinking water to everyone who needs it. Many communities around the world (even in the United States) struggle to access water.

[@geniej2378]

Regarding pro-business rhetoric- I’m reading an excellent book called “The World for Sale” about the traders of natural resources (which fuel the global economy). They keep referring to the “entrepreneurial spirit” which allows traders to exploit both sides of buying and selling to make profits. This has challenged my opinion of what it means to be entrepreneurial and if it’s a good or bad trait.

[@emmanarotzky6565]

The solid cloth produce bags let you lie to the self checkout machine :p

[@cassielin9628]

I appreciate you not sharing posts from r/shoppingaddiction and r/nobuy. I appreciate you respecting the individuals posting there and the sub's rules.

[@BB-ny7sl]

Is that a CauseBox mug? I used to love CauseBox! Would be interested in a video on how subscription boxes fuel overconsumption

[@Thejennmachine]

I’m all for the blank cards that are cheap even receiving them either the message is sweet and I’ll keep it for a while or I’ll enjoy the effort for a moment and toss it with no guilt because I know the person didn’t spend $10 on it

[@emory5533]

I literally just want something I can open and eat or microwave and eat. I will pick the easiest option every. single. Time. This means stuff like protein bars, popcorn, fruit, cereal. Cheese and crackers. Making a sandwich is unappealing because it still has steps. A SANDWICH. I don't know why I'm like this. Everyone says to meal plan, and I think about how I should meal plan, I should freeze things, I should do this or that, but I never end up doing them. I'm either out of time or out of energy. I've been very tempted by meal delivery services, but ultimately they're too expensive for me. Today I bought a pre-made salad and it made me feel good for actually eating a salad even though it would be cheaper to make my own but I also run the risk of my produce rotting before I finish it which almost always happens. Pre-made salad kits have plastic that can't be recycled, though. 🤦 In an ideal world I would go to the farmer's market for food and get what I need for the week and be able to cook for myself and clean but I'm too busy hyperfixating on something to actually take care of myself. I wonder if getting diagnosed with ADHD and getting a prescription could help, but I just feel like I'm on so many prescriptions already and ADHD medicine seems to be hard to get a lot of the time

[@Cy4nC4t]

The Jesus shirt is super funny to me but I’m not religious. I appreciate this def unintentional look into how religion and capitalism are related. I would dare to say they fuel each other

[@immortalalia]

I would also love to see late state capitalism post too. 🍑🍉 also would love colonization connected to over consumption.

[@ninabeena83]

Omfgggg greeting cards are the WORST! Like I get the sentiment behind it and all but my goodness, they have gotten so expensive lately! It literally pains me to buy them - mainly for older people - because if you don’t you will 100% be looked at sideways 😖

[@personal.victoria]

The sooner it fails, the less damage will happen.