reading your assumptions about me | my life, my job, and when i'm leaving korea

[@caricakes]

It was brought to my attention that I cut out a question that is in my thumbnail lol so if you're curious about whether kurt and my relationship is fake...bahaha we could have both picked much easier people to "marry" if all we needed was a visa. we are slowly driving each other insane 😂😂😂i love my little wikipedia addict. (and if you really want the tea, we actually got married right when we were about to LEAVE korea, not for me to stay^^) 💖 FAQ What’s my job? (Non-teaching job in korea) - bit.ly/3aeNl6x Where do I live? (Korean apartment tour) - bit.ly/2kJK1Hk Where am I from? - bit.ly/2xzc7hz

[@marenhumblebee2736]

You just married an "opposite" ... neither of you might be "difficult(not easy)" with an "equal", but a night owl with a morning person... that must be challenging...😱😱😱 but this is just going by what you tell us about you guys... so what do we know 😅

[@tianna93]

THANK YOU FOR THAT SHAMPOO REC!!! OMMMGGG!!!!

[@nalaa9618]

He is a full on Virgo..ofc he isn't easy. But as long as you love and respect each other that's all that matters

[@MC-ko2mx]

@@nalaa9618 As an archetypal Cancerian, I have often wondered how I would get along with a "full on Virgo". Cry, probably, and sulk whenever corrected by the pedantic Virgo LOL

[@sportybeth]

I’ve literally been digging through your content to find an apartment tour of your current apartment and I’m almost certain you haven’t done one 😂 it looks so nice from the clips you can see in some videos though. That link to the one you’ve put in was 5 years ago. I just watched a video from 4 years ago where you said you found it but would do a tour soon and one from 3 years ago where you said you were looking for apartments but decided to stay in the current but no your 😂 I promise I’m not a stalker I just love apartment tours and yours looks so cool

[@sisselab]

I can vouch for you actually being the nicest ever in person 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@RaquelLimaAreia]

You two are too cute for words. 🌼🌼

[@caricakes]

Same to you 🥺

[@KristaWasHere86]

My two faves supporting each other .... my heart 😍😍😍

[@pockettangerine]

“i’m pretty much on the verge of tears at all times” LMAO ME

[@caricakes]

we need to start an 'about to cry club' hahaha

[@kikiflamingo2409]

Literally same LOL

[@ineeditonemoretime]

When she said that I was like LITERALLY she gets me

[@LeilaleilaZ]

Man I thought I was the only one who cried at like people dancing together and fet so dumbbb, so glad I'm not alne ;_;

[@keikoo]

For any curious subscribers: - Cari is nice in person lol. She has a dry sense or humor and is super super funny - She is tall. Lies. Fibs. FAIRYTALES lady just doesn't know numbers - She's high level in korean but it's just not on film. Especially listening

[@caricakes]

Ah, Keiko my skyscraper of a friend!! How’s the weather up there at that altitude?

[@keikoo]

@@caricakes i WILL be bringing my measuring tape the next time i see you

[@sharlainjapan]

This was a fun alternative to a Q&A video! Might do it as well when I’m in the mood for a cozy video~✨

[@missrandomreads]

OMG!!! My 2 favorite KZbinr!!!! Are you kidding me?????????

[@caricakes]

😍🙏

[@Setetoto]

Omg the crossover i needed!!

[@jenniree29]

@@missrandomreads Right?! I don't know why I was surprised. Lol. Makes me so happy tho.

[@elenethomas311]

This nook of your home has become like a comfort corner to me :)) Every time you upload, it's like a treat after studying

[@caricakes]

i love the little nook too^^

[@KianaDahling]

You being an INFJ makes so much sense as to why I LOVE your content lol. And by going through these comments, I see I am not alone! Hello fellow INFJs ☺️

[@caricakes]

its funny because we're supposed to be rare but i feel like everyone here is infj hahah

[@sejbomb]

Me toooo!! :)

[@deannascorner8112]

Hi INFJ! Us INFJs have a rare talent for seeking out other INFJs ❤️

[@v.a.l.i.a]

Infj here 🎉

[@Lemonadzz_]

I was sooo shocked when I found out cari, who is my favorite KZbinr, is the same MBTI as mee!!!! Hiii fellow INFJ!!!

[@robinsharpable]

My sister taught me the word "collective effervescence" which is like... When a bunch of people are all celebrating the same thing, feeling the same good vibes, etc. And that ALWAYS makes me cry. Crying at flash mobs. You're the cutest. ❤️ My step-mom cries at parades. 😂

[@caricakes]

Omg i love this hahah and parades get me so bad 😂

[@joanahenriques8863]

SAME! It's like the "team spirit" that gets me

[@katien3022]

“I’m pretty much on the verge of tears at all times” 😔🤚 hahaha so relatable. I’m excited, I get teary. I’m shocked, get teary, Sad, teary.

[@caricakes]

Hahaha glad we’re not alone!

[@jenniree29]

INFJs unite! I had a feeling you were. Plus, I’m also a Capricorn. And a redhead. Lol. We’d vibe. 😂

[@caricakes]

omg its like meeting a long lost twin hahahha

[@halamoheid9650]

Omg INFJ gang 💜

[@MillyIncorporation]

Yesss INFJ too 🙋‍♀️

[@MC-ko2mx]

INFJ Cancerian here, ayyyyy

[@deoksun_a]

INFJ Scorpio 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@selinaa19]

Title: “reading your assumptions about me” My only assumption about you: “you enjoy living in books more than this world”

[@caricakes]

often yes hahahha

[@liab563]

I cry at flash mobs too! Anything that has large groups moving or singing or expressing joy together, I’m a river of tears.

[@deeapaulitan7003]

I was saying “affinity!” Out loud, trying to help you out during the book wrap up vid!😂

[@caricakes]

gahhhhh i hate when i lose my words hahah thank you for the help ;)

[@laura-mt9ge]

I completely agree with you when you say it’s hard to re-meet up with friends. I have 3 friends who I’ve known for forever, who I keep in contact with regularly, but other than that, I just chat with ppl on and off. Mostly because I feel like they are busier than me, and might think I’m clingy 😂 Ps. I am an INFP, so I overthink things toooo much 😬😂

[@caricakes]

💯😭🙏

[@dilminis.warnakula82]

Me too.. and I am also an INFP..

[@BosjeI]

Speaking as a fellow INFJ here, this is so relatable! I love meeting new people, but I'm so bad at following up! And if I remember, I'm like well they're probably busy...

[@CircyPhèdre]

Same here!😁 You're not alone with this :) I find it really hard to, kind of "forge" a brand new friendship from scratch lol when you still trying to find the right rythm, balance and flow with that new person, often with practical things like (as you were saying) meeting up again, who should initiate(?), are they busy(?) etc. Once you find the flow, it's fine😄

[@joels9189]

You are legit, what you are doing is legit, and I really believe we are getting the real you on your channel. This takes much more talent than people think, so congrats and thank you for all you do.

[@debo2360]

Omg you’re channel is just a vibe 🥰

[@caricakes]

wahhh thank you!

[@margarethempleman5670]

YAS we are ready for this 🙌🏻

[@caricakes]

😍😍😍

[@jessicadorey7777]

hoooooooo the wanting to meet someone again after having a good time but fearing being a burden is speaking to me on a spiritual level I FEEL YOU

[@caricakes]

Ugh yes 🥺🥺🥺

[@hello.sistine]

Being a Capricorn and a INFJ too, some of these assumptions hits me too! That "you're not too friendly in person / yes and no because I'm nervous is relatable 😭🧡

[@caricakes]

definitely! quiet does not equal being mean hahah just suuuper nervous haha

[@tangerine33]

I was so surprised when you mentioned Hungarian! Hi, I'm one of your Hungarian subscribers, thank you for calling our language beautiful, it is really hard, indeed, haha

[@jessiewhoopwhoopohyeah9795]

hey cari! cant wait to watch ive actually read two of your book recommendations and currently on human acts. thanks for making my days better! stay safe!

[@caricakes]

omg YAY!!! stay safe too~

[@paigewhit4249]

i love that you call your grandma "grammy" - I call my grandma that as well and i don't hear it as often so it made me happy to hear it from you!

[@caricakes]

Yesss grammys are the best!

[@T_1.5]

After reading the thumbnail, all I can remember is a lady sincerely asking my mom who dyed my hair when I was three. I’m also a redhead, and that’s when I learned that some people are insane

[@caricakes]

LOL yes!! definitely had people asking my mom that (my mom, who has the same color hair as me...) when i was tiny lol

[@m.m.barton-howe]

As a natural redhead I've also had bizarre questions like that (since I was teeny tiny) I'll never understand some people...

[@EstherK-]

I'm natural red too and i love it 😅. As a child i got some stupid nicknames like 'Pumuckl' (a little guy in a german film for kids) or something like that 🤣 So what 🤣

[@Sthemingway]

"Dripping in Virgo" sounds like the name of a punk/emo album or a writing prompt. "He was dripping in Virgo, that much was true, but on occasion, another star sign would nose its way into the spotlight. It made his behavior unpredictable once a month and I never knew what he would order, so I couldn't have it ready-made when he walked into the door." ^J^

[@caricakes]

bahahah omg i LOVE IT

[@juliagats4302]

that was so well-written! love it 😍

[@exiebebe]

Omg I get teased so much for not drinking sodas/carbonated drinks because it hurts my tongue/mouth. All throughout my childhood kids called me weird for preferring water/juice over coke or sprite... You're the only other person I've heard where it also bothers them, I actually got kinda excited I wasn't alone haha

[@kzhrar]

As a fellow Virgo, I can relate to Kurt on his ways of traveling 😂😂 I love spontaneous, unplanned strolls so much when traveling hahaha

[@citydesk4527]

It's a balance I think: Satisfaction and striving. I guess you can be satisfied with where you are at the moment and want to be in a different position in the future.

[@lpchambers3681]

An only child, a kindred soul! Love to see it, woohoo

[@natscorner]

I love your sit down videos so much Cari, it feels like having a chat with a friend at home staying cosy. Have fun in the snow, I know I did last weekend 🥰

[@caricakes]

🥰🙏 that makes me so happy!!

[@aanchalmohanty3621]

Please do a book stack tour 🥺 I love the stacks in the back!

[@moralopez3213]

i feel like you're happier lately and it makes me want to be happier too !!

[@emilybaughman2339]

I cannot get over that BEAUTIFUL pink shirt 🥲

[@caricakes]

🥰💕

[@eleni7371]

Before I watch this video can I just say how much I love you as a person (for the little that I get to know you through this channel of course) and how I appreciate your channel? Like I'm so thankful for it! Okay now let me go watch the actual vid!

[@caricakes]

thank you so much ahhhh :''')

[@pauli_joy]

love ending January with a Cari video!

[@caricakes]

🥰🙏

[@misamoss186]

im also an INFJ! i heard we are pretty rare🧐

[@caricakes]

we're supposed to be but i think everyone involved with this channel is an infj hahaha

[@isenysoliz231]

@@caricakes i think so too... When you said you are an infj, i immediately thought "aww that makes a lot of sense"

[@kyrsten_kae]

"I'm pretty much on the verge of tears at all times." Oof, I've been attacked

[@caricakes]

:''')

[@autumnruiz8788]

Random but the carbonation of soda hurts my tongue too, so I don’t drink it. When I’m out and I reject an offer for soda, people ask why like if I’m on a diet or something. And when I explain that the carbonation hurts me, literally no one can understand like absolutely not a soul has said that they experience the same thing. AND NOW HERE YOU ARE MAKING ME FEEL SEEN. Thanks love you ❤️ Also, when you explained in your previous video that you hold back a lot of your personality and that you want to try and be more free with yourself, it definitely seems like you’re having more fun explaining things now. Like when you spoke about Thomas your personality came through a lot and I loved it.

[@sofijajoksimovic418]

Omg that thing about making friends...i can't believe someone finally said it, i thought i was the only one with that problem

[@ceceveg]

That thing you said about not following up after meeting new people and being terrible at making new friends.... SAAAAAME!! There are countless numbers in my phone and several people on my FB that I've added after meeting them once at a party/concert/whatever and it's weird reaching out and the longer you take, the weirder it is... ugh. Glad I'm not the only one

[@caricakes]

exactly ughhhhhh!!!

[@nalaa9618]

23 minutes of a Capricorn explaining her Capricorn personality and slightly mention my ABSOLUTE NIGHTMARE: A full on Virgo 😟😅👏🏼 Love from a double Sagittarius

[@caricakes]

To be fair he doesnt know his time of birth so i only know his sun sign but he’s just very very virgo in his actions haha

[@AnEmbarrassmentofBooks]

I understand your desire to live elsewhere, but I will SO miss your Korea travel and Seoul area videos. They are so calming.

[@KristaWasHere86]

I need a video of Cari explaining her and Kurt's love story TBH :D Do we have it somewhere? Hahahaha I just started watching Cari's vlogs mid last year so I was not able to go waaaaaaaay back and watch her old videos. Or maybe that is a good new vlog suggestion? A whole video dedicated to Kurt and all of the stories and fun facts about the marriage, the love story, doing all things Kurt in a day, etc 😍😍😍

[@cecileguilloton]

Such a nice and fun video ! I understand why I relate to you : same hobbies + similar personality : morning person, sensitive, not into parties, infp (so very close to infj) ! Thank you for your 2 amazing channels ❤️ love from France

[@caricakes]

Thank YOU!!

[@Ephemeralcreationsstudio]

Ah yes chatty time with Cari and learning more about her a good ending to the first week of school. Hello Cari lots of love. I hope you're doing well.

[@caricakes]

hope you're doing amazing too!

[@giovannacappelletti2185]

I found your channel just a few weeks ago and I absolutely love It! Your content is so interesting and catchy, I am going through a sort of marathon of your videos! Keep up the great work, much love from Italy ❤️

[@caricakes]

thank you so much!!!

[@jchienszegedy]

Wow, INFJ, 5'4", Hungarian heritage, from California... makes sense why your content really resonates with me, we're of the same clan

[@charlotte7538]

“Im pretty much on the verge of tears at all times” thats me too 😭😂

[@caricakes]

its a lifestyle ahaha

[@ReiyukaE]

About the crying thing - i feel you. In LotR when everyone bows for the hobbits? FULL ON SOBBING. But yes, close to tears (happy/compassionate mostly) at all times is a mood.

[@Karolina-vi2wt]

I never realized your name is Carolyn! That’s beautiful! My name is Karolina (Karo-lee-na) and I’ve always wanted to be called Kari by my friends but nobody ever stuck with it 🥺

[@caricakes]

ohhhh so pretty too!!!

[@katherynne8241]

!! I'm so excited to hear about this shampoo! I feel like lots of companies do not make anything for us redheads. How interesting! I'm definitely going to try it.

[@xinxuelan6464]

For me the things with arts is that it's a process; it comes in flows of passion and interest, and a project never ends, which reminds me of how a Qin player names their instrument, building a relationship with it.

[@julia-mf2jd]

omg cari!! i'm a capricorn infj too - probably why i rly love watching your videos

[@hadda]

This is a reminder to everyone that you don’t know people you watch on the internet 😘 Great video Cari 💕

[@robynloveschocolate]

Oh man that bit about crying at seeing humans all doing things together got me 😂 whenever I see things like speeches or even live singing I just get overwhelmed by all the good that people can do and I want to burst into tears and laugh like a maniac at the same time?? 🤣

[@aicta]

"I was supossed to be tall" We all think like that

[@SuelenBreier]

The lighting is perfect!! Don’t know what you’re talking about 😂 I was even gonna ask what kind of lighting you are using. I love the video!! 😘

[@AmyRodley]

Yay so excited for this video 🥰 and your outfit is so cute in this omg 😍

[@caricakes]

bahaha thanks! just my cozy house clothes 🥰

[@ayetrbiguib0917]

I don't care about what people say ... but subscribing to Cari's channel is one of the best decisions I have ever made XD

[@pattiwarren5531]

That would be a great bumper sticker... Instead of "I brake for turtles" it should be "I cry at flash mobs" :)

[@caricakes]

bahahhaha

[@helloTracey]

Oh! I'm the same way with alcohol & drugs etc - I don't like losing control of my body LOL. I can count on one hand how many times I've had a drink - it's just not for me and that's okay! I've often felt like the weird one for it too - there's a stigma around 'having a drink' when you're out and if you don't, you're the loser. It's so strange!

[@caricakes]

I feel you - i dont even take pain meds 😂😂😂

[@andreamiloshevska3219]

YESSSS, I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL, you inspired me to read more this year and I loved almost all of your book recs!! ❤️

[@caricakes]

THANK YOU and ahhh yessss!!

[@MISSJONASFOREVER2]

That explains it - you’re a Scorpio moon, I’m a Pisces moon, I definitely understand how it feels to be on the verge of tears at all times lol

[@tianna93]

THANK YOU FOR THAT SHAMPOO REC!!!! Omg!!!

[@SherBear88]

I always assume that you were probably like 5’7, 5’8.. I never pictured you with being 5’4. LOL!

[@caricakes]

bahaha yep that meeee!

[@FlyingElectra]

I did too ! I would have never guessed you were smaller than me !

[@emiliagauna1124]

infj queens only!!

[@caricakes]

👏👏👏

[@saratolca]

OMG!!!! The sharks and the pool thing it's totally ME! lol

[@ellasdream]

it's honestly crazy how many things i can relate to. i'm an infp but sometimes i feel like i'm listening to myself when i listen to you Cari 😂i feel exactly the same way with almost everything you talk about, much love and thank you for your company through these videos ❤ p.s. this is a good thing, thank you for making me feel less weird (11:48 plus everything else)😂

[@reikane5501]

I felt so many of these answers were very relatable

[@magneticgoddess1116]

I loved this vid!! Again you are so funny!! Lol 😂The way you word things catches me off guard and I’m suddenly giggling so much ie; “Kurt is literally dripping in ♍️ Virgo” lol I was thinking~ does your neighborhood having dog walking service? Maybe you guys could walk/play with someone else’s dog when they are gone a few days a week👍🏼😁

[@caricakes]

hahah thank you!! and i should definitely look into it! but the people in my building tend to walk their dogs in strollers haha they dont actually walk around!

[@magneticgoddess1116]

@@caricakes Dogs in strollers? Actually, I have seen that before but only a few times, where I live anyway (Minnesota) Well those puppies would be so happy to have you play with them, I hope it works for ya😊💕

[@williammartinez3947]

You are naturally hilarious. Love your channel.

[@christwithawhy7989]

I finally am on a break from work when you uploaded! So excited I can enjoy your video right now~

[@caricakes]

yay!! and same to you!!

[@christwithawhy7989]

@@caricakes Definitely trying, it's -38 degrees Celsius (-36.4 Fahrenheit) where I live currently.

[@celina6259]

The music 🥰 I always study to the „caricakes“ playlist on Spotify !! Love it

[@caricakes]

hehe im glad!!!

[@JeaSong]

sameeee :>

[@kaitlynpark461]

Hi, I'm Korean currently living in Canada😂. It's very amusing to watch my home country through your videos. Thank you so much, hope you enjoy your time in Korea. Take care!

[@flora729]

Hello long time subscriber here ! I have been watching your channel a lot this year and it definitely helped me go through many things ☺️ I moved to a different country to work and because of the corona I have to work from home and everything is closed so I don’t leave my house and I feel very lonely.... I got the habit of watching your videos while I eat, it feels as if we are having a conversation and I don’t feel too alone so thank you ☺️❤️ I recently read « the bear and the nightingale » by Katherine Arden and as we have quite similar tastes in books I am sure you would like it a lot too ! ☺️ It is book about russian folklore with faes, demons, a feminist heroine and in a winter setting : it was a magical experience reading it ☺️ Anyway I wish you a nice sunday !! Love from France ❤️☺️

[@caricakes]

ohhh thank you! that book is on my list :) glad we can be corona buddies and i hope your life in a new country is exciting! hope we can all get out and explore more safely this year!

[@monicam.7696]

Love your channel😄 Always rooting for you🥰

[@caricakes]

🥰 thank you!

[@annawilhelm9697]

What a fun vlog! 😁 I noticed some similarities, which are funny: - introvert - control freak/no drugs - no party person - Capricorn (I don't believe in star signs, too). I guess a lot of your viewers share similarities with you. 🤔

[@melinaillulina4286]

18:43 I can relate to that SO much! It's one of the reasons why I am so terrified of surgeries as well. Really loved this video, twas' so cozy

[@oceanheartz717]

finally! i can relate with someone who doesn't like carbonated drinks! my group of friends found it weird that i didn't like soft drinks but i couldn't help it because of how it felt on my tongue QwQ

[@alisonperea5895]

I'm early! Thanks for your videos, you're my favorite. 💜

[@caricakes]

thank you so much!

[@mbae123]

Cari: It's late, it's very dark so I'm sorry if the lighting is very strange The background: ✨✨✨ The lighting: ✨✨✨ Literally Cari: ✨✨✨ Sorry if you hate this mind of comment format guys 😅

[@lucilledatta2168]

It's so funny cause my blanket matches your jumper and my cat matches your hair. It's kind of rewarding watching this under my blanket with my cat on my lap (sorry you're allergic tho!)

[@caricakes]

bahahahha

[@peter_roth_8812]

I'm very sleepy, ready to jump into my bed but wait Korea Cari uploaded in the time zone GMT+9

[@caricakes]

hope you have a good night's sleep!!

[@AGalCanDream]

I honestly thought I was the only person that cries in groups, especially when they collectively react to something (like clapping). I'm so glad I'm not alone!

[@caricakes]

Yes!! Idk why it makes us do that but 🥺🥺🥺

[@divyakode9378]

This was such a fun video! I just realised we have so many similarities. Virtual High five ✋🏼 on that one. (INFJ, cry very easily, don’t like to party as much (or at all) and don’t like drinking, and don’t think they would live in the country they are in currently for long time).

[@jenniferromero571]

You are so respectful by not showing the person.

[@Karoliina.]

First comment🎉 greetings from winter wonderland❄👋❤🇫🇮

[@caricakes]

🥰🥰🥰

[@ellammakela]

Another Finnish fan here as well🥰

[@lilymarie7112]

I’m INFJ too!

[@caricakes]

introverts unite!!

[@louaneriga3222]

I recognize myself in you so much haha even if I'm an extrovert I can be nervous and I'm soooo bad at sending messages and stuff. I'm so open I can tell deep stuff about me to strangers but I don't have many friends... I don't really go out and spend a looot of time alone! Great video as always ❤️ you are so kind and genuine Also smart and loud teachers pet here! 😂

[@Giulia_C2222]

Oh I've been watching your videos for so long, that I was answering even before you, like" oh no way, why would they ever think that?" LOL

[@caricakes]

😂😂😂

[@jastav]

time flies with your videos! 😏 by the way very relatable topics, I also dont like to drive because its so stressful 😅

[@caricakes]

thank you! and i agree, if i could drive on empty roads always i'd be fine but when other cars are around i get so tense!

[@jastav]

@@caricakes same! 💯

[@mireyamaciasromero4803]

Wow I´m an INFJ type too and also I cry very easily lol. Honestly I love your channel and your vibe Cari, greetings from Mexico :)

[@caricakes]

i think infj are all cry babies but thats what makes us feelers hahaha

[@leejinkis1of1]

OMG the rich moms in Del Mar... YES hahaha. San Diego native here and I couldn't agree more about what you said about our overly nice personalities and such. I didn't really think about it until hearing you say it lol!

[@ninagarafall]

I've followed your videos for a while now and somehow I always assumed that you were a few years younger than me. I don't know why. But hearing that we're the same age just made me so happy for no reason haha.

[@caricakes]

Yay!!!!

[@lilifane]

I knew we had a very similar reading taste but I didn’t know we were practically twins when it comes to personality and opinions. 😂 Well, I‘m a pisces, brunette and hate cooking but that’s about all the differences. 😅 Really enjoyed this video!

[@caricakes]

😂😂😂

[@milenagiovanagiovana108]

omg I`m a huge fan of yours and I can`t believe we have the same mbti!! I love you videos

[@LovelyDray]

Omg I never knew we‘re the same age, great to know! ☺️

[@manon8826]

No wonder I recognize myself in you so much!! I am also multilingual, 1 m 63, a capricorn and an INFJ! Anyway, like this video as an alternative to a normal q&a :))

[@rupidm]

Thank you for sharing yourself. You're such a charming person.

[@mothshaped]

I'm also a 5'4 ginger INFJ capricorn who is slightly allergic to cats so that explains why I love your videos so much

[@VenieRay]

nice video, Cari! 💜