REAL LIFE MESSY HOUSE CLEANING FOR MOMS TOO DEPRESSED TO CLEAN HOUSE/ MESSY TO MINIMAL MAMA

REAL LIFE MESSY HOUSE CLEANING FOR MOMS TOO DEPRESSED TO CLEAN HOUSE/ MESSY TO MINIMAL MAMA
Welcome back Mighty Mamas & Mighty People! I have been too depressed to clean my house these days and this day I had to just get my butt up and do the thang! I wanted to share it with all of to you bring you that cleaning motivation if you have been too depressed to clean house too or maybe your anxiety has been high and you just need a friend to clean with today! I am here for you and I hope my video brings you exactly what you are looking for today! You can start cleaning your house right now with me! Let's get cleaning together!
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I am in no way, shape or form providing medical advice here on my channel. I am just a Mom sharing my struggle with cleaning house while living with depression and anxiety and my own personal experiences and challenges with living with mental illness and keeping my home clean, decluttered and organized. Please seek professional medical treatment from a doctor if you feel that your mental illness is interfering with your daily activities and or causing you to feel hopeless or you are having suicidal thoughts. This channel is only a space for us who share common experiences with the struggle of mental illness and have a place of connection to feel less alone. I have listed some helpful resources down below if you are need. Thank you! 💪🏻🦋🙏🏼
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[@elle_nolt]

My guess is Autism not bipolar. People burn us out. Women are better at masking there symptoms and if you have a child with autism it’s more likely to be what they have. I have just discovered I’m autism. I have ocd, dyslexia, anxiety, and depression. I find the anxiety and depression comes in waves. The busier I am the more likely I’m to burn out and have higher anxiety and depression. I also struggle with adrenal fatigue. Iv been researching autism in adults and people often get misdiagnosed with bipolar, anxiety, depression or ocd. Maybe that’s why meds don’t work. It’s not the real issue there’s a bigger umbrella. Lots of love❤️

[@T_C158]

I agree with this. I have done a lot of research myself bc of my son who struggles with social anxiety and found I resonate with autism and I am working on being tested..

[@elle_nolt]

@@T_C158 I hope you find someone. I haven’t looked in my area. A few weeks ago it was a light switch and everything made sense. Why always feel different and people don’t take me seriously because they don’t understand me. I have gotten so many comments how well I do with parenting my autistic son and that’s because I understand him. I just realized how much in the past year I used him as a crutch. I would say it’s to much for him when it was to much for both of us. They say a lot of moms end up diagnosing themselves after having a child with ASD. Males have a stronger way of showing signs and females are good at covering up the signs.

[@T_C158]

@@elle_nolt so true. I have to travel to the next state over since no one in Vermont does it for adults. I struggle with phones calls. So I haven’t had the courage to call yet. But talk to your doctor. Mine was so understanding when I brought it up. I’ve had her as a doc for 12ish years she’s been through all my ups and downs.

[@mua3588]

Autism or adhd. Symptoms are very similar. I am on both spectrums but it was the adhd that burned me out, because my mind never relaxes ever

[@T_C158]

@@mua3588 same. I can’t get it to just stop and I don’t like the way meds make me feel… I have to remind myself to take it day by day. Don’t have high expectations and make list 😁

[@delphineblue]

This is why I love KZbin--I so appreciate people like you who share your life journeys and challenges. It's so helpful and I hope it's a type of catharsis for you. Take care.

[@hollyhawk1492]

Yes! “Why do we value a clean home over self care?” I’m so guilty of that. Thanks for the reminder that I’m just as important! 💕

[@MightyMama]

Don't forget it Holly! You deserve the best!♡

[@caramelfrappuccino234]

Yess

[@SaraTimmy]

For some people like myself a clean home is self care. I always feel 1000% better with a clean home.

[@annieo54]

I look at you and saw myself in my 30s and then a friend of mine asked me two questions.. Who got those toys out? and Why are there so many? Thing is you have turned yourself into the maid and stripped yourself of your own identity .. It’s hard to hear, but small wonder you are depressed, stressed and worn out. If you don’t get the toy out, you don’t put it away. Three toys per child and the rest goes in the attic or donated. You don’t MAKE the kids do it..if they don’t the natural consequence is lose the toy for a week. Your plate is your plate, not a platter. If he says he’s hungry: one he isn’t going to starve while you finish your plate..or fix him his own plate from the fridge.. I’m telling you from personal experience, if you want to be respected, now is the time to start..you can hate me, or dismiss what I say, but you will come to regret it..it took me a long time to stop being the maid, but the day I started my life got better..I quit being depressed, removing toys freed the home and the girls learned very quickly how to put the first toy away before getting another and they were 3 and 4 when they learned it! And for me at 8 p.m. the girls were in bed or in their room and my husband and I had two hours on our own..think about it

[@itsacarolbthing5221]

Highly constructive comment!

[@bettywhittington9654]

Sounds tough, but it's the truth. Worked for me too.

[@paigerileytrivett5702]

I had to hear this hard truth from my grandma a few years ago and even though it’s far from perfect at my home it really changed my household and mental health for the better.

[@JT-yc7ud]

Exactly what I thought! You can't do everything yourself!! You will keep burning up again and again! It's not going to get better. Children need to learn that not everything in life comes that easy. As a matter of fact, my children love doing small tasks for me!

[@val99star]

I totally get your comment about not having energy to micromanage your kids while cleaning a disaster. Your mental health sharing is so helpful. You put words to what many of us feel. Thank you for sharing! 💕

[@hopesmith7470]

Hey! I just wanted to let you know, as someone diagnosed with bipolar 2, taking antidepressants when bipolar is actually super likely to cause adverse reactions. I understand hesitation with meds. I’m the same way. A mood stabilizer like topamax would NOT cause those feelings as it isn’t an antidepressant. Also, it was helpful and convenient that a side effect was weight loss. Good luck on your journey!

[@HiImHipster]

THIS!! bipolar people should NOT take antidepressants alone, they need to be paired with a mood stabilizer or antiphychotic or they can cause so many issues

[@reagankinard]

Yes! I have bipolar 2 also and was prescribed an antidepressant alone before being diagnosed and had major negative side effects! Once I was prescribed latuda and then Vraylar for my bipolar disorder it has so positively changed my life, saved my marriage, the list goes on and on! I would encourage you to go and see a specialist who can clearly identify what’s going on and place you on the proper treatment plan!

[@joelching614]

@@reagankinard I am so glad to see these meds helped you. I wish my bipolar sis would get on the correct meds. She started clexa and was manic all the time. Now, she doesn't take anything, but self-medicates with drugs.

[@Desimercado]

Mama, just by looking at your house in the beginning of the video I can tell you’re a good mama. I can tell your babies are happy & have fun making memories. ❤️ My cleaning “power hour” is at around 8 pm at night thats when kids are in bed. Don’t give up, you are doing great. I know it can be hard but we can do hard things!

[@amandaraecampos]

It’s the sweetest thing seeing your daughter playing with the little one to distract him from interrupting Momma while she’s trying to clean. She probably doesn’t even know how helpful that is and how much Momma appreciates it. Love your sweet family. You go Momma! These videos inspire me so very much. Thank you.

[@alisimon1196]

Don't feel guilty about a thing! I for one appreciate the realness of your channel. So many cleaning channels are "my super messy house hehe" then it's cleaner than my best days. Your words are kind, gracious and gentle. Practice what you preach be gentle on yourself as well. We'll all be here for it after you get back from a health break!

[@MiaMultitool]

After three weeks of demotivation, I started to clean and get all the stuff back together. Thank you for your video and nice words :) Greetings from Germany ^^

[@NaDine-rv2wc]

Liebe Grüße aus Bayern 😅😘

[@Schrumpelkartoffel]

@@NaDine-rv2wc ha, ebenso liebe Grüße aus Bayern 😅❤️

[@gigipaz5959]

Hey Mama! New subscriber here. I've gone back and watched a few of your previous videos. Based on what I've seen so far, you're minimalist journey will greatly help with your level of depression as your home becomes less cluttered. You will also be doing self care as you find yourself cleaning less because you have less clutter! I say this with love, the number of toys that your children have in the living room consumes most of the space. You can pull half and place them in tubs in the garage. (Do this while the kids are asleep) In a month's time pull out the tub and place the current toys in the tub and store it. It will be like Christmas for the kids when they see the "new" toys appear each month.

[@SaraTimmy]

I absolutely agree! The less stuff i have and especially after i get rid of a bunch of stuff I always feel so much better!

[@tiffanymedvetz141]

I love this! I struggle with OCD, which is actually a form of anxiety. Cleaning and organizing is my outlet, but it's not like everyone thinks. I have constant thoughts of, "This needs to be done." But I also have thoughts of, "It's never clean. Why do I bother??" There's me, my boyfriend, our three kids, two cats, and my Mom lives with us. You can imagine that our house never stays clean. Lol. These videos help so much though to get and stay motivated! I'm so glad this video popped up on my homescreen!❤

[@MightyMama]

Hi Tiffany! I am so happy you found me and this community! We are not alone and now we can clean declutter and organize our hones together! Stay Mighty Mama! 💪🤎🦋🙏

[@deannaburris905]

Oh so do i very badly.

[@fujidenzo_kid4147]

Ive been consistent with my apartment cleaning ever since I saw your channel. Thank you!

[@katietayler144]

I have diagnosed bipolar 2 and medication saved my life. Certain Anti depression meds have a tendency to cause suicidal ideation. Bipolar meds work differently mostly. To anyone reading this please please seek medical attention and if you are diagnosed with bipolar I highly recommend trying medication because it’s such a dangerous type of mental illness. Love to everyone ❤️

[@smangelchi]

I wholeheartedly agree. I’ve also been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Medication has definitely changed my life. I used to wonder how people around me seemed to function so easily.. Also, a reminder for y’all that medication is not a magical solution. I’ve tried and tested many different medications and finally found what works for me. It took a while though, but when you get there it’s amazing!

[@christamckee3997]

Yes would love a video of how you deal without being medicated! I suffer so bad and can’t get anything done, I feel like my house looks like a hoarder show! I’m OCD and such a perfectionist that I don’t know where to start, I’m on 7 different medications and they do nothing for me!

[@EasyNaturalLiving]

At least you seem very self-reflective, so you are always at a good starting point. Do some little thing every day, even if it is just a single drawer or box 👍🏻

[@lidiasoares5675]

The fact that you asked for prayers, the Lord already heard you and may your wishes be granted for yourself and your friend in South Africa. Thank you for allowing us into your home and sharing your struggles and successes with us. May God bless you abundantly

[@victoriastewart6770]

Hi, I have recently found your channel (I’m in the UK, Scotland). It’s so refreshing & comforting to find someone who has the same struggles/issues and how you cope. Thanks so much for your content!! Xx

[@teresalincoln4450]

I just worked 8 hrs. then drove an hour in a hot traffic jam. Came home to a mess in the kitchen. Tired and feeling defeated I naturally went to my bed. I came across your video and just tidied up the kitchen,fed the humming birds, and now taking my daughter to scouts feeling much better and accomplished. Thank you for fighting the good fight while helping others to do the same.

[@kimalonzo2145]

💞💞💞💞💞

[@christyb7455]

I have terrible anxiety and I've been taking magnesium supplements and it helps. Yes please do a sit down video❤

[@tammygagnon996]

Thanks Christy, I will try magnesium. How much do you take?

[@marcylivingston590]

@@tammygagnon996 i would love a video like that

[@hmusgrove]

@@tammygagnon996 My doc prescribed 500 mg/day of magnesium. If you take a multivitamin, take the magnesium at a different time. I take a multivitamin in the morning and the magnesium at bedtime. Doc says it will help with insomnia and migraines, as well. I’ve been taking it for a month, and it takes a while to help, so don’t expect a quick fix.

[@tammygagnon996]

Thank you Christy.

[@regdesousa9763]

I was prescribed magnesium because of low amounts in my system …I was getting a lot of cramps and pain …I did not realize it helped with that also but I have been feeling better all the way around !!

[@plantmommamiranda4573]

I swear every voice over you do in these anxiety and depression videos is like you are reading my life story out loud. Or I'm looking around like is she watching me. 👀 lol. Seriously though, I'm struggling hard with getting off my couch lately. So thank you for making these videos for people like me.

[@Minniebol]

Forties wow. Whatever ur doing is clearly working. I thought you were late 20s mid 30s at a push. You are helping me so much over these last few days. Your channel is changing my life. Who knew watching a mam clean and organise her home could motivate me. Thank so much. Greatly appreciated x

[@sandywalburn7196]

Love your videos. I’m 67 and I have struggled for years with depression. I have been getting B-12 shots once a month now. It’s been about 5 months now getting them, and I have to be honest, they have made a world of difference for me. I had a complete knee replacement a year ago, then had my other knee replaced in February, and I really hit a walk of completely no energy and anxiety. Since I’ve been getting the B-12 shots I have so much more energy and it’s amazing how they are helping at my anxiety and depression. I hope this might help someone out there. Check with your doctor. They really do help. Love you sweetie.😁❤️

[@angieaguiniga8778]

I have been diagnosed since the 90s. The best but hardest thing to do is push through the hard days. Pushing through makes the other days easier and give you something to reflect back on from your own experience.

[@judybeckner6559]

I also have major depression and generalized anxiety disorder. I stopped taking my two anti depression meds & after two years decided to start taking them again. I feel so much better, but I do have a few side effects. I decided the side effects are worth suffering through because generally I feel so much better. I know it’s different for everyone, but I was sorry to hear you are completely against taking prescribed medication. It took trying several med combos before the doctor found the right combo to help me. I really do feel so much better on the meds than I did not taking anything & I have learned to deal with the side effects. Thanks for your honesty and I appreciate your videos.

[@MightyMama]

Hey Judy! I am so glad you found a solution. Thats all that matters. Everyone requires something different unfortunately that is the challenge in treating mental illness. I did try a variety and all the same response. My doctor said its best I stay off meds and try alternstive options. I do have some good options that work well for me. I am in a much better place then even a year ago. Thanks for sharing your heart. Stay Mighty!♡

[@k-l5684]

i have anxiety depression and OCD. medicine never really helped me and i tried basically everything under the sun for 11 years. im off of it now and feel better than i have in my entire life (still struggle a ton but i can at least keep a clean house now!). dont be pressured to take anything that doesn't help/makes your mental health worse. so many times i've heard "you just must not have found the right one" or "it's impossible that SSRIs didnt help". at one point i was on 3 medications and i was still miserable and had no motivation. just do what is best for your body and your health!

[@peachpie6548]

I'm not a muma, but I find this so incredibly helpful! My stepmum is really struggling with her mental health & what seems like undiagnosed depression. I don't know how to subtly send her your video? Lol... I don't want to be like "clean your house" but I really think your videos will help her realise she isn't alone & it's so normal to struggle with these things!!!

[@kendramiller8419]

Oh honey don’t apologize! I am so grateful to hear your voice any time! We all need to refill our own cups and I know what it’s like to have that empty feeling. You never have to apologize. We are lucky and blessed to get any of your content. You are a blessing to many! Much love and many hugs to you!

[@MightyMama]

Hi Kendra! Thank you so much for your kind words and for being here for me too! I am do grateful for all of you. Stay Mighty! 💪🤎🙏

[@Minniebol]

I love your freedom banner too♥️ I get the vibe that u homeschool ur kids because of the utter state of the education system and modern life. Hats off to you x

[@madisonfox9978]

Love the motivation!!! So, I was originally diagnosed with severe anxiety, panic attacks, depression and cptsd. Probably for about 15 years, those were my diagnosis's. Nothing was helping me, anti depressants/anti anxiety medications made it worse. It became so unbearable I sought out a psychiatrist who also specialized in diagnosing. ( I was starting to think Autism/Adhd) I went through a crazy long set of tests and was diagnosed with Bipolar 2 (longer boughts of depression, followed my episodes of mania. Bipolar 1 doesn't suffer as badly from depression and has full blown mania, having to have such terrible episodes they are hospitalized.) I also had a comorbid diagnosis of borderline personality, ADHD and cptsd. It has explained EVERYTHING that I couldn't explain was wrong with me since I was a child!!! I finally got on medications and they have truly saved my life. (I too was one who hated medications after none worked etc.) I got a psychiatrist and my mood is far more stabilized, I'm able to stay motivated and focused, where before I struggled to do anything. Would sit and think about everything I needed to clean and do, yet I just physically could not make myself get up to do anything. Feeling better than I have in my whole life now! My suggestion would be to definitely see if you can get a diagnosis. Even if you opt to not take medications (I truly now am an advocate as no matter what I tried, did or took holistaclly worked) , there are so many books out there that can help! I hope I didn't ramble too much and I gave some helpful advice! :)

[@christym7806]

I just found you. Thank you for your realness. Journalling has been so life changing for me. Putting pen to paper takes so much off my mind and I feel much lighter from it. Definitely give it a try.

[@carriechinn8104]

I do too and lists help me!

[@meganrasey4377]

You have been speaking everything I have thinking and feeling about depression. THANK YOU for your honesty and for sharing your real life. I'm so glad I found your channel. I definitely feel less alone in my struggles knowing I'm truly not the only one with these feelings and struggles.

[@Ergmermerg]

I had an adverse/suicidal reaction to a medication as well. But after six years I decided my life was bad enough that I needed to try again with a different medication. It was 1000% worth it. It was really scary, but myself, my doctor, and my husband all knew what to look out for. Just remember it could be different next time and it's a tool in your toolbox

[@deborahhopper4832]

Wish I could have watched you when I was going through depression after having my last baby😊this would have helped so much!

[@clairescrazylife9015]

i’ve been diagnosed with bipolar I. i have extreme depressive episodes along with manic and mixed (features of depression and mania) episodes. when i’m manic, i’m very motivated, fixated, and energetic. i get a lot of stuff done but am also impulsive and start a lot of projects i don’t finish. my last manic episode, i redid our laundry room over the course of two weeks between the hours of 2am and 5am before starting my day.

[@ShortyyThicc87]

Iktr to this💜

[@cynthiathornton2617]

Hello thank you for sharing your message with me. I too am depressed and have been most of my life. The pandemic contributed to my lack of motivation to even try and clean without any guests coming over. I’m 70 years old and have a lot of pain to deal with which only makes the motivation harder but watching your video has helped me greatly. I’m really proud of you showing your house when you get behind because of your depression. You are an inspiration to me. Thanks again and God bless you in your efforts.

[@imasweetmeet4u]

I have seen hundreds and hundreds of these videos. Your videos speak to me. You actually show a home that look lived in. Thank you for that. Also, I really appreciate your opening up your home and giving us access into how you live.

[@leslieporter7418]

Please don't self-diagnose!!!! I speak from experience - see a professional!!! Even if you don't want to take prescription drugs, a professional diagnosis "takes out the guess work" and ALL the "what if's" that can just exasperated us. A good medical professional has more tools than a prescription pad - they can point you to other way to cope...understanding what you're dealing with is half the battle...

[@moussaka4738]

Thank you for being so REAL and TRANSPARENT in your struggles. You have a community of people going through similar circumstances who hide it trying to be the 'perfect' parent. Perfect does not exist.. doing the best you can each day and forgiving yourself when some days are worse than others; always remember that you are loved and appreciated

[@scoobyloo3157]

This looks like a typical ADHD situation. I have ADHD and it's almost impossible to be motivated on under-active days. But on hyperactive days WOW! There's no stopping me 😁 Watching you clean your house in these stages is SO addictive and also SO motivating. I must just ask though, why doesn't your husband help you out with the cleaning now and again? If he knows how you struggle with this stuff, surely he should be sympathetic? I also remember you saying that he 'told you off' for cleaning one room when you should have been cleaning a different one'? (I'm paraphrasing, of course.) All of us that have mental difficulties need a bit of support in our lives sometimes and that's necessary to be able to cope with those problems. A problem shared is a problem halved, springs to mind.. ❤

[@SharaLee60]

Hi there! ♥️ So sorry you have your illnesses. I might have depression 😕 sometimes but I'm 72yrs old. But I do like hearing about you & watch you talk about cleaning & 😏decluttering etc. I do need to clean & declutter & organize my sewing craft room and which I will do soon. I got some bins & containers etc to help make it possible. I love sewing & scrapbooking. So I need to make my room for sewing & crafting! I just have to be careful & not fall or my hips will pop out of there socket & that hurts extremely bad. I have to go the hospital to have it put back in. 😪 I also have shoulder replacements, knee replacements beside my hips replacements. So I really need 😩 to be careful getting up & down & walking or I'll fall. But I can sit in my room & go through things that's easier for me. I used to clean like you do now, when my kids were little & there 4, 2 boys & 2 girls. So I understand! I think I 🤔 might of had bipolar & depression etc back then, When I think about it 🤔. So you do inspire me. Thanks 😊 so much. I'll get it done soon. God Bless! ♥️😉

[@Jennifer-nz2ss]

This was very good. I also think its good to get them to help you. I gives them a job and a goal to get it done. Both of them seem interested but, kids want to play. So let them do both. Its good for them to help with all of this. It may be another job for mama but you will be VERY HAPPY you taught them to help out and put things back. Keep on going and have your family go on the journey to. Do what you can. We all understand and can really relate.

[@randijohn8155]

Hi mighty mama! I seen you haven't posted in awhile I hope everything's ok I still always come bk to your vids when I'm feeling down or overwhelmed with the daily chores. Your helping trust me 😊😊😊💪

[@sibongilethwala7080]

Thank you for being honest about your struggles. I sometimes feel like I'm the only one who things are hard for without reason.

[@MightyMama]

Nope! You are not alone!♡ The struggle is real! Stay Mighty! 💪🙏

[@robinwoods756]

I would love to see how your painting and redoing your house. I cleaned my kids rooms until they left home. In the summer they would keep their rooms picked up but that's all I ask of them. They are grown and married now and they are great housekeepers. Because they learn watching you day after day. I was also a working mom and they are too. They remind me of myself at their age.

[@MightyMama]

Thanks Robin! I appreciate you sharing this with me. I feel the same as you and since its summer theybare helping more daily. I am more laxed during school year because their number one job us to be a good student. Kids have enough pressure in this life. Thanks friend! Stay Mighty!♡

[@candiceleigh4107]

I have BAD depression and anxiety. My kids KNOW how to clean. They will pick up their toys. But, when I’m doing a HUGE clean up, I don’t let my kids do stuff. Because I crank the music up and just clean and get lost. Every now and then I’ll include them. But most of the time they are playing in their rooms or watching tv. If I need their help. They are there. I was diagnosed with bipolar one. It sucks. But I use uh natural things and coping skills to deal with it. Stay strong momma. We do got this.

[@SkitAWulf242]

Not a momma, unless you count four-legged kids, but I've just started going thru your videos. They've really helped me realize some truths in my life that I was unaware of as you talked about your own struggles. It really came at a good time, especially as I'm trying to get in a better place with my life. Subscribed!

[@fionarykenberg8263]

I found your channel last night and have been binge watching your videos.. wow girl...my favourite youtube channel. Live this!!

[@carolhensley3857]

A clean house makes you feel better

[@cheldamunien5477]

Hi. I'm watching you from South Africa. I love your honesty and how relatable you are.

[@MightyMama]

Thank you for being here and God bless you, your family and your country. 🙏🤎🦋💪 Stay Mighty!

[@onairwitherika4644]

so motivating!! I can attest to the cortisol levels in a clean home. I went from depressive/manic to calm and happy after getting real with being minimal. So easy to clean, not a lot of toys to clean up etc. We have a short life to live, and we dont get any days or time back. We deserve to be the best versions of ourselves and to celebrate life!! Keep going Mama, keep getting rid of things, you will feel so good the more hard on it you become. Especially kids toys. So hard to get rid of them but kids are resilient and imaginative and function better in a clean and simple space.

[@anne_tlc]

Needed this so much Laura. You help so much more than you will know with your chat through the videos. Take care, Anne x

[@nancyojeda4844]

Be good to yourself, Happy Mama Happy Life

[@cherylhoward9441]

Great job sweet friend. You did such an amazing job. Stay strong. We are all here for each other! I love you! We all do that are here. Just know you have a family here and we can be strong for you when you can’t be the strong one. ❤️

[@MightyMama]

Thank you Cheryl! Now your making me cry! Love you too!♡

[@Ann65.]

Hi Laura. I have to say that your videos have helped when I’ve been feeling particularly low but have needed to offer at least a reasonable ‘facade’ to family and visitors…. As I said previously, often 5minutes of cleaning can lead into ten and then fifteen minutes, which in turn makes you feel that you’ve accomplished something. Depression and anxiety can be so debilitating and I applaud you for these videos. Yes, please consider doing a sit down video, I’m sure many of us would find it helpful. You are so straightforward and relatable. Have a wonderful day.

[@kamiksss]

Please keep my friend Ruth in your prayers too! I’m devastated over the violence in SA, I did a medical missions trip in 2018 and I fell in love with SA, I left my heart there I swear! Thank you for all your videos, they truly help me as I have ocd, anxiety and depression and your words are so relatable

[@thespooniemom8195]

I deal with a panic disorder on top of being disabled from cancer treatments. I stay at home as a result and the entire house falls on my shoulders. It’s a struggle, but you help motivate me.

[@kimalonzo2145]

💞💞💞💞💞

[@MightyMama]

Sending you lots of love and prayers🙏🤎🙏🤎🙏🤎🙏🤎 I will share some tips soon in a video on how Inprevent oanic attacks. If you do start to feel one coming on just slow deep breaths and counting backwards from 100 and go stand barefoot in your grass! Sounds cray but does work! Stay Mighty you are not alone!♡

[@CJ-bs7zl]

“Be the best version of yourself and show up as her” - I have this written on the front page of my mindfulness journal

[@Ashleylov3su]

Your words were extremely inspiring and helpful.

[@EGORElicious]

I completely feel you on the medications. I tried a new med and it gave me suicidal thoughts that landed me in the hospital because I was terrified! I will never trust a mental health doctor ever again. I begged to get back on the meds I was on before that and it took a long time to feel like myself again. Gah I'm never trying new meds again that are for depression. Heck no! I also hear ya on the kids, you clean up, turn around and it's messy again lol

[@MightyMama]

Yes girl! Same! It made me paranoid and suucidal! Good for you for taking control over your mind and body. I really think we know ourselves and needs better than any stranger (doctor). Stay Mighty Mama!♡

[@psiworeit]

You said all the things in this video I am going through and omgggg I have thyroid issues and that adrenal fatigue makes soo much sense to me!!

[@amandalashley3819]

I relate to you so much. I go through the same cycle of feeling good and then suddenly not having any energy, I call it hitting a brick wall. I'm pretty sure for me it's adrenal gland fatigue, but then again bipolar runs in my family, while it would be interesting to know I don't plan on getting a formal diagnosis because like you I won't take prescription meds, I always have the worst reaction possible. I totally feel you about getting kids to help, it's my heart's desire to teach my kids to clean up and take care of themselves and when I'm in a good place I do that but like you said, sometimes Mama's just not there. When I feel myself slipping into the dark pit micromanaging my kids and trying to get them to help out is the quickest way to drain the last little bit of energy I have.

[@MightyMama]

Hi Amanda! Yes to all of this! You just get me! And I get you! Thank you so much for being here for me! I appreciate you more than you know. It feels so good to be understood. Stay Mighty! We got this life girl! xo Stay Mighty!

[@tiffanytempleton2201]

Oh my gosh! This is exactly my situation. So nice to know we are not alone! Xoxo

[@peggys430]

Ladies, I applaud you! I became a single mom 25 years ago. My kids are 27 & 29 now. They were 4 & 2. Part of keeping things is that I could never afford to replace if I needed it down the road. My house is messy & cluttered- My kids are not! My kids are neat & borderline minimalists. Anyway.... good on you for staying away from psych meds & diagnosis. Find doctor that does Somatic therapy. Check out Dr Peter Breggin. His books & videos. He exposed the psych drug treatment industry & suicide when put on these drugs

[@traceysartandcraft]

I'm a bit late to this video but can I just say, you can really tell your children do clean up as your daughter did a wonderful and organised job of cleaning the table and I have 5 children so I know what a well taught child looks like. 💖💕 I love cleaning it's my therepy but my life EBS and flows like yours and for 21 years I've been living the messy mama life XXX you are not alone

[@dorrymayne6819]

Thank you for this video. You motivated and encouraged me today. And I relate a lot to what you go through. God bless you!

[@stephanieengler7545]

When I was little I was always taught if u get something out u must pick it up before u get something else out right now I live my parents but I was also have anxiety and depression, but I am the opposite my room has be clean at all time, I make sure I put thing always as I go

[@ashleysmith8367]

I love that you decorate all out for July 4th! USA!

[@toughasamother4507]

I can relate to your channel so much. It all gets so overwhelming sometimes. Your true words and true REAL home helps me to know I am not a lone and not as worthless as I can feel sometimes. Thank you for sharing. ❤️

[@alisonhawke1813]

Yay! I’m literally cleaning my house right now and debating KZbin or background music…….. mighty mama won hands down. Happy 🧹 🧼 🧽💕❤️

[@MightyMama]

Awwe! Thanks Alison! This made my day! And my name is Laura! We are all Mighty Mamas! xo Keep going! Get it girl!! xo💪🏻🤎🦋🙏🏼

[@saragarcia8007]

Crei que solo a mi me gustaba escuchar gente hablando mientras hago cosas 😅ya veo que no soy la única. Me gusta escuchar lo que dice Laura aprendo mucho sobre mi misma. Gracias 🙏💕

[@alisonhawke1813]

@@MightyMama 😍💕🙏

[@divergent_danielle_louise]

This is the exact same way I ended up here today too 😅

[@alejandrasaenz2699]

The kitchen and living room cleaning never ends....especially when you have kids, I have 4 kids and I feel like I’m always cooking, washing dishes and picking up....

[@marynadeysel8656]

Thank you so much. All you share has helped me a lot. I also suffer from anxiety and deppresion, and since covid, it has worsened. But trying my best, by the grace of God, to stay afloat. I also stay in South-Africa and my heart skipped a beat when you asked for prayer for our country. We feel so forgotten on this side of the planet. It is very difficult for us. Me and my husband owns our own small business but are really struggling to keep afloat and all of us need your prayers. We pray every single night. The violance, unfairness, poverty, young people having no jobs. I't all just mounts. God bless you and America. Sarah M Deysel South-Africa

[@ericahudson887]

I feel everything you talk about!' I always feel a mess, I just don’t understand why I check out so much it’s exhausting!

[@samantitadechile]

I look at you and I literally see myself....lol..love your videos mama, loveee them so much, i have been watching them since a couple of days ago...i still have some more to go, but they are fun and is like you are talking to me in every video, i struggle with the same things you do, i got ocd and im extremmeelly perfeccionist...if i see a messy place my head is all messyyy toooo....struggle with all the mess and depression and anxiety because of the cleaning. Few weeks ago i started to watch "the minimalists" these 2 amazing guys who teach how to become minimalistic, and on the way i found you, your videos are so great!!! I m in this journey now, soo i know i will do it too, thanks for your words, they are soo awesomee to know im not alone on this!!! thanks mighty mama!

[@kayrichards6637]

Yes girly..you are so speaking the truth for so many!! I deal with ADHD and new health issues and my home had definitely suffered because of it all...and l recently made the decision to take back my home which l love to decorate etc...and make it beautiful again!! Keep up the great work and videos..its inspiring to me!! Thank you😊

[@SheWolfMom]

I get “burn out” when I overdue it. That’s why I anticipate things and try to avoid things that I think might burn me out and that just causes anxiety 😝 yes we need to take better care of ourselves, can’t take care of others if we aren’t healthy ourselves!

[@MightyMama]

Yes this is a good idea. I definitely overdo it most days. My tracking is really starting to show me that. I am going to start making some changes soon. I am too old for this stress! lol!

[@jodistancil5815]

This video is just what I needed, today! I would love the sit down video! You are helping SO many of us. Thank you for doing these types of videos. Much love to you! ❤❤

[@nancyojeda4844]

Yes please do share what you do for your anxiety when you were talking about it i could relate

[@karlaknutson85]

Hey, we're almost the same age, i turn 43 in July! I also struggle with keeping a clean house, i have anxiety disorder & major depression disorder, and i think ptsd. I lost my dad over 20 years ago & my mom over a year ago. Life's tough, i hear you, lets tackle this mess!

[@MightyMama]

Hello Karla! I'm so sorry for your losses.🙏 I will be praying for you. I oray for all of my friends here. Thabk you for sharing. I love to know people my age are here watching because it seems YT is a younger world and it makes me feel less awkward about being here!🤣 In the end we all have to do what makes us happy regardless of our age! So welcome to the journey! I hope you will subscribe and catch up to where we are currently. I think it will help you alot! I love meetimg new friends here! Stay Mighty & God bless!💪🙏🤎🦋

[@discovr4me]

When I'm going thru my anxiety and depression..I don't want anyone around me. I just need to focus. When my kids were little I'd get them a drink, a snack and set up within activity and or movie and then I could get some time to focus without kids running around asking a million questions and messing up what I just cleaned. As they became big kids I'd put in my earbuds and say unless you are broken, bleeding or the house is burning down.... leave me alone to get my cleaning done. Lol

[@sheenatozier8343]

Thank you!!! I just subscribed. You are Amazing. I am overwhelmed with my house and laundry.

[@Sarah-hc6kj]

I don’t know if anyone mentioned this before but when people who are bipolar are misdiagnosed with unipolar depression, anti-depressants can have really bad results. It’s actually a sign that any healthcare professionals should be looking for when treating depression. I will say I was diagnosed with bipolar II this year and SSRIs were terrible for me. I use a mood stabilizer now (what people with bipolar take) and it’s helped a lot. I know you said you don’t want to try medications again, but it’s worth noting that your care plan may have been for the wrong diagnosis. Thanks for your motivation videos.

[@marciapickens7444]

Awe, you don't need to apologize for getting behind on your videos. You need to take care of yourself & your family first! I do love your videos, so I'll be waiting for you, no matter how long it takes.

[@tristybrooke33]

Finally an honest person!!

[@ashleysmith8367]

Thanks for the lime away tip! It works great!

[@T_C158]

I relate to this video SO much!! Tfs 💚💚💚

[@joankirch8635]

Yes do share home reminders please

[@perryh.5306]

I won't let my mom clean....I clean everything for her! BUT....I still do it to her complete satisfaction!

[@amandacampbell1979]

I am bi-polar 1. I feel you are too! I get highs and lows. I also have depression, anxiety, PTSD, OCD.

[@freckledcrafts86]

Small suggestion: maybe don't worry about decorating for smaller holidays, it's just one more task you're giving yourself. I see and hear you momma, it's hard but you are doing your best and that is great 💗

[@freckledcrafts86]

And I would totally declutter the kid's toys, they can end up with so much they pull so much out without even playing with it. If they have less the mess is less and they aren't overwhelmed

[@danazzimmerman5534]

Give yourself some grace mama! We all have struggles and we all understand!! Just know we are all here for you when you are ready to come back!!! Anytime! You are my motivation! You have made me come to realize, it’s ok not to be ok every day of my life. Thank you so so much! Keep being mighty❤️❤️

[@MightyMama]

Hello my sweet friend! Tysm! I just get in my own head soem days and then I think up all the things and most are probably just lies because I am still so messed up in my head. Lol! I appreciate you so much! Makes me feel accepted in life finally!♡ Stay Mighty! Xo

[@danazzimmerman5534]

@@MightyMama I am the very same way! I’m in my own head wayyyy too much!! You are a wonderful woman! We are just wired differently!! At least that’s what I tell myself!😁😂. We are strong and we are mighty ❤️❤️

[@danazzimmerman5534]

You are totally accepted!! You make me feel I am too!!

[@sherimcgill5139]

Hi, I’m new here! I have lots of anxiety and a little depression and OCD. I’m not a mama, but I understand your struggles with cleaning. If I’m not up to doing a perfect job at it, I don’t do it at all. This in turn starts the cycle of dirty house/clean house. I’ve tried every method out there to overcome this, but nothing has worked long term. Thanks for sharing your story on here. The video is definitely motivating.

[@ndzalamafreak9963]

I'm watching this about 3 months after you posted,I'm watching from Johannesburg. Thank you for your prayers

[@peggys430]

I wish I knew how to DM you! I'm a 62yo version of you & discovered your channel. I'm your biggest cheerleader & you have a lot of wisdom! I just got off psych meds after being on them for 25 years. I've had appts 2x week with a psychiatrist that helps people wean off meds, since March 2020. They are dangerous to get off of so kudos to you for not getting on them.The mind body connection is real. James Gordon wrote the books "Unstuck" & "Transforming Trauma" & goes into details on different things, to live with or alleviate depression & anxiety. They are great handbooks on how to treat depression/anxiety/PTSD,etc. (I've experienced it all) Breathing, mindfulness, journaling, art, sense of humor, friendships, food, etc. so many tools I didn't use "correctly". It's all about life. Everything is a tool, but we don't always know how to use them correctly. The clutter in my house & my response to it, reflects my mental health. I've known this & you are the most relatable to me, of all the "decluttering" videos.

[@manishasud]

Yes u r right Laura... Last couple of days I was ignoring my health for keeping home tidy n clean. But I will make sure this coming weekend I ll just gonna enjoy it full on. Thanku for reminding me 🙏 v moms really need this ...keep uploading ...happy decluttering 👍 take a good care of yourself 👍 bye

[@joelgordon6483]

Good job! 👍 I am a single bachelor man with two cats are my children and they are making my house a mess too 😆. I do have tireness and stress trying to clean up the house. I try to take it slow and clean up the house one day at a time. Thank you so much for sharing your story and may God bless you and your 👪 family.

[@bethrod5582]

Thank You!!🙏💖 I appreciate you very much!!!🌹💞🌹

[@rosepetal970]

I’m new to your channel just came across it I have high anxiety and depression I just can’t seem to get motivated at all trying to push myself is very hard to do I have always had this but it’s worse this time I don’t even want to leave the house thank you for sharing this 😊👍

[@MightyMama]

Hi Laura and thank you for being here! I understand exactly what you are going through. I also could not leave my house for like 2 years after my 3rd PPD. I am finally able to drive to store as long as my husband or my oldest is with me. I cant drive alone still. My panic attacks have mostly happened on the road and when I was driving so its been a difficult fear to overcome but I refuse to allow it to control my life anymore. We are stronger than our mental illness. If I can do this I promise you can too! I hope yoy subscribed to stick around in this community. I think it can help you. You are not alone and no need to suffer in silence anymore. Stay Mighty & God bless! I will be prayi g for you daily.🙏💪🤎🦋

[@ThisMainerMom]

My daughter takes a Chinese supplement called "astragalus" for her adrenal fatigue. Maybe research that one too if you have never heard of it? Love that you take it a room at a time without bouncing around. Love that you started with the bathroom. Often we start with the clutter and then burn out before we ever disinfect the bathroom!! Praying God helps you and provides the answers you need! 💐

[@joanncummings154]

Whenever I need a push to get started I get my coffee and watch you or others that do this too and it really does motivate me! Sometimes I go a little crazy cleaning and my husband says”Will you quit watching that cleaning stuff!!”

[@MightyMama]

🤣🤣🤣 I love this! Thank you for being here! Stay Mighty!♡

[@paynegirl09]

Sitting here on my couch because i have no motivation to clean. I feel every word of what you are saying on total burn out. I have super highs where i feel i can get it all done but lately its just not there. It is nice to know that i am not the only person. Thank you for being a real person in such a fake word

[@annwilliams9214]

Do not put yourself down or apologize for not getting vlogs out super fast. Life happens. I will say that when you are motivated, you whip your home into shape. Everything looks wonderful. Also, consider minimizing the toy collection. Kids are good with downsizing if they know they are helping another child without. It seems the toys reproduce overnight. 🙄

[@kellydarlington5843]

hi mighty mama im in the uk and i just wanted thanks for sharing your journey with us. i enjoy your videos they help me to get motivated to clean my own home. i have schizophenia and one of the side effects of medication is lack of motivation. im glad im not alone