REAL LIFE PAIN GUYS FEEL BUT ONLY OK FOR CELEBS TO SHOW

Real life pain and emotion men are capable of and have felt in life but are afraid to show or have been put down for showing by a lot of women. But those same women will see a male celebrity in same display of emotion and say its sexy or a real man for being so raw and in some cases even question or say real men are not like this. I wonder why as men we are so confused all the time!!!