True Love or Tragic Romance? British Women and Their Death Row Husbands

[@wwg1wga291]

My jaw dropped when I heard she was still married to another inmate on death row.she's a very lonely woman.does all that traveling,stays in motel rooms and has weddings alone.quite sad really.

[@DrMelody8]

Or just maybe it is her 'gift', her own contribution to the humanity, a 'calling' that no one but her and those like her could comprehend, a part of her human soul's story/journey in this finite life. Each to their own, without the need for harsh judgement.

[@taradiane]

in the same unit no less

[@jeanlind7540]

Absolutely!

[@jeanlind7540]

@@taradiane Wow. Speechless!!

[@bees.857]

I didn't see that coming at all

[@stephanieconsi4825]

I had to stop right after she said she would give her life for him to have his. I can only imagine how that made her children feel. I kept an open mind until that level of ridiculousness came out of her mouth.

[@fifipips4553]

my thoughts exactly, what a stupid thing to say...

[@mo3755]

On that note I think I'll exit now too. Thanks

[@nadinebeaumont7284]

She's obviously delusional

[@BigShah7]

Well said

[@katerinagiannioudi401]

She's with a very disturbed mind.

[@d.d.storms]

I worked in one of the largest prisons in the US for 20 years. These inmates are highly manipulative and cunning. Trust, he’s only giving this woman attention because he’s facing the death penalty and know he couldn’t find anyone else dumb enough to give him the time of day.

[@bmooremoore4460]

✔️

[@cheryljohnson1632]

Ikr, Chi county jail nurse 25 yrs. The other nurses schooled me, ‘ These ppl not in her bc they didn’t go to Sunday school’ meaning , these are not nice ppl to deal with. I’ve see nurses fired, Soc workers fired by a darn paraplegic , that was known gang member in for murder . He didn’t fool with me .

[@joycewashington993]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@beehungry6190]

Absolutely and these women are psychopaths in their own accord

[@bgipper4109]

Right, and he has nothing but time to be “in love” with this lady. She’s just a way to spend time.

[@stephanieconsi4825]

I think it’s very honorable that she wants to connect with people who faced death the way she has. Perhaps she could share her time with other leukemia patients.

[@SonaDubna]

What Is honorable in this case? This woman Is completely debil

[@michelleisawesome1081]

@@stephanieconsi4825 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@StephenMcClaren-zs8vk]

Listen: my bro is on death row in California and he used to always tell me that women in the U.K. are a whole lot more empathetic towards their struggle. Was surprised to see this.

[@janecooper1425]

What a tragedy for your family as well as the victims

[@keishawilliams7546]

He meant desperate

[@lilianmflores9384]

Sorry to hear about your brother. I think the US legal system has a lot of flaws. The death penalty, as it is today, is one of them.

[@ashleyvestal9030]

Women: Please..... if you don't choose to have a man who is not incarcerated, do not find one who is. After two divorces, I can attest that it is ok to be single and dedicate all your time to your kids/grandkids/ animals. No need at all to bring in a prisoner.

[@samuellopez1957]

Love Your Comment. Very Well Said

[@cholieandresa]

After my divorce in 2009 I just focused everything on my kids. If someone came in to date or what not, in those days they never met my children. One week my darlings would be with me, and the next they would be with their dad. That has worked so well. So when the kids are away the mouse will play…? Is that the saying? Lol Seriously tho… in the USA/America, reform is something not even brought to the table to help inmates. All we do is lock them away, toss the key until they are turned out. Jails/prisons here are privatized so they can make money. If you know anyone in prison, ask them how much a cup of noodles is, ask them how much deodorant is, shampoo, etc etc etc… it honestly is sad

[@nonithenya]

Everyone's story is different.

[@sallyyanne]

Well said! 👏🏼

[@mellanieriley1295]

I let go of a guy that is now encarcerated who received 5 years. Nothing serious, just troubles that followed him from age 18 freshly. I am single now, I'm spending all of my time and life with my kids/ grandkids and I'm loving it! They are the true loves of my life. He still calls when he gets free phone calls and I speak with him to keep his spirits high but we both know its over, and thats ok with me. Happily single!!

[@kjwsmother2647]

Her obsession with being with men she can’t really have and watching them be killed is troubling and I don’t believe she will push the divorce now unless she finds someone else !

[@josephinetracy1485]

There's a haughty supremacist mentality lurking around somewhere in her psyche, I know it..

[@gritsNgravy-fn5ic]

And, she will. Those were ABSOLUTE lies that were said about Texas. No Black jurors were EVER removed from the jury. He also had a criminal history since he was 12. And, I mean violent crimes, too. If you look back at a post I wrote, you can see what crimes they committed.

[@maxinemcclurd1288]

I wonder how she was hurt in the past to seek validation from men she will never have to interact with in person. I think she is terribly afraid .

[@katbar6066]

Bit nuts I think.

[@lizzlebizzle5003]

She’s passed away.

[@MBoldman50]

"He's always been there for me." In prison he has no choice.

[@ricardosommelier1130]

Mark....... LET HER ALONE... She is reading...

[@MegaSid19]

@@ricardosommelier1130 She died 9 years ago.

[@IrisFlowerAndRainbow]

@@MegaSid19 She's dead? Where did you get that information?

[@Kenzie_McIntyre]

@@MegaSid19 really??? how do u know that ?

[@jackieridley8465]

😂🤣😂

[@TomikaKelly]

😐 I'm uncomfortable with them recording the ending. Her mourning and hugging his deceased body...regardless of the circumstances, that felt like a VERY private and vulnerable moment.

[@219nes]

True. In the end we are human and feel those moments.

[@shh_you_are_wrong]

@Donnell0303 ironic for a cold hearted killer

[@TamaraGKing]

He did say he wanted them to document everything though

[@pk6810]

I'm sure they would of had consent to do so.

[@hazell1593]

I have to admit the end was very heart breaking. Sandie may have been seen as naive but her loyalty and love are undeniable (yes I know she passed away).

[@amina-pr8xt]

Do you know what she died from?!

[@hazell1593]

@@amina-pr8xt I have read it was due to heart failure

[@amina-pr8xt]

@@hazell1593 😥

[@lisabauer3553]

Who passed away?

[@LilttleTeaCup]

I feel bad for the lady who thought she could understand the inmates on death row because she once faced death from her leukemia. I hope one day she will understand that she didn't kill anyone. These people are evil and took someone else's life. Not the same.

[@dia.6213]

Chenni I'd be more convinced of their guilt if the US legal system was functioning at the level it should be but it isn't . .

[@Bonnielikescats]

Even if they're guilty, do they deserve death?

[@LilttleTeaCup]

@@Bonnielikescats Ok, I'm against the death penalty. I think some people can be reformed and changed, but that doesn't mean they deserve their freedom. I just don't think people should be romanticizing a relationship with an inmate. Of course, I know there are innocent people being wrongfully convicted. Maybe this guy was innocent, but I have to consider the victims' families too. She said she felt bad for the prisoners and thought they deserve a friend, at the same time she felt bad for the families. The real victims were the ones killed and had their lives and future taken away from them. If I were one of the victim's families, I would feel quite angry and sick that random strangers would show the killers mercy when the killers showed none to their victims.

[@Bonnielikescats]

@@LilttleTeaCup fair enough

[@LilttleTeaCup]

@@Bonnielikescats Like Rihanna says, they found love in a hopeless place =(

[@replicas10]

Whereas I agree with many of her sentiments, I can't help feeling that this woman isn't 100% in the head.

[@DrMelody8]

To love the lovely = Human. To love the 'unlovely' (including the 'dehumanised', 'undeserving' and hated-upon by others) = Divine. The ‘Higher-Way’ gifts of Forgiveness, Compassion and Love are precious, regardless of whether or not anyone else can fathom it.

[@laravonstaden1838]

You are more empathic than I!

[@5thdimension625]

She’s delusional. These women always have an unprocessed trauma history which leads them to an emotionally unavailable man. This is their idea of intimacy. Pathetic really

[@deloreslate4028]

What is about these women and American death row inmates? They are are obsessed with them. It’s so strange to me.

[@5thdimension625]

@Donnell Okafor bigtime crazy.

[@dianebach1301]

It’s too bad she can’t meet someone who’s not incarcerated and have someone to share life with

[@kevinhenderson5520]

Yeah, but all the melancholy, and attention from sadness wouldn't be there.. misery loves company, and some of us relish in it

[@laravonstaden1838]

@@kevinhenderson5520 I agree. There is something macabre about her getting involved with this in the first instance. There is so much she could do for people suffering back here in England that would be more practical. One good thing to come from it was that she seemed a great comfort to his mother. As a Mum myself of a son who has, thankfully, never been in trouble with the law, I knew I could not even comprehend what this loving lady might be feeling. I hope she was able to come to terms with it and carry on living a fulfilling life.

[@MsNooneinparticular]

Nothing stopping her except her own bizarre focus on these psychopaths. Some people (usually women) don't WANT real relationships; they want a fantasy.

[@setfreemiss]

Deep down inside she doesn't want a man who is free to be with her. She loves all the "excitement" around being in love with a man on death row and the drama of trying to free him before he is executed.

[@bees.857]

I'm trying to understand how she's unemployed and flying to Texas all the time, staying in hotels etc. They said she has children and grandchildren, been married 5 times so it's not like she's alone? Everything about this woman boggles my mind.

[@leezlvontrapp]

Oh….as someone said above, she died suddenly about nine years ago…. Respect to her and RIP. She was lost but she tried and she gave those without hope some and those without love some. Bless her. RIP Sandie…😢

[@denisecrawford7876]

is she dead too?

[@lizzlebizzle5003]

@@denisecrawford7876 Yes it appears she died also.

[@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax]

And guess what? Her boy toy went and sought out someone else after her.

[@Cdc-jq4ry]

@@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax he was executed many years ago

[@lizzlebizzle5003]

@@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax Did you watch the documentary?

[@d.d.storms]

This woman has a typical co-dependent personality . She has a need to be needed so she seeks out vulnerable men who will allow her to take care of them.

[@lisabauer3553]

And where did you get your psychology or sociology degree?

[@MsNooneinparticular]

"Blanton and his twin brother, Robert, and Robert's girlfriend LaToya Mayberry, went to the apartment of Carlos Garza, 20, an acquaintance of theirs. While Mayberry waited in the car, the twins kicked in the door of Garza's apartment and went inside. Two shots were fired, one of them hitting Garza in the forehead. After taking some jewelry and cash, and looking for drugs to steal, the twins returned to the car, and drove away. Blanton took jewelry from the victim which was later pawned for $79." -- For those curious about his crime.

[@amberrj.]

I'm honestly shocked that he got the death penalty for this.

[@ausendundeinenacht1]

Out of interest How do u KNOW this????

[@11Christys11]

@@ausendundeinenacht1- It’s facts of the case. You can Google it. Doesn’t matter which one pulled the trigger…..law of parties

[@janine5540]

A murder in the commission of a second felony-- Armed robbery, burglary, breaking and entry, etc. They stacked the felonies and he got death @@amberrj.

[@Pakman0812]

Im free feel sorry for me😢

[@cookshackcuisinista]

A long-distance relationship where one person is unattainable allows for a perfect fantasy in our minds. I'm not judging her but I think for those of us who entertain these things and who have been involved with some of the wrong people in our own lives, something went awry in our young lives.

[@TomikaKelly]

I think it gives her a sense of purpose.

[@katbrown1449]

This os far more than that. This is 100 percent delusional not partial. She need s help

[@katbrown1449]

@@TomikaKelly mm. Good point i hadn't thought of that

[@YONCE8701]

@Tomika Kelly Yeah i guess... This is almost an obsession tbh.... sad if you think about it. This is way past a bored desperate "housewife". I mean she was already married to another‼️😮‍💨 I hope she is ok now and didn't jump into another relationship with an inmate.

[@YONCE8701]

@Doc Man 😅...... I can't!

[@legendarygigolo823]

Ok...she survived leukemia which felt like a death sentence so instead of reaching out to fellow leukemia patients or people with fatal illnesses, she reaches out to vile disgusting murderers? What? There is something going on in her head, something not good.

[@carolyndavison6095]

Survived leukemia after so many years of treatment and she’s smoking!! Yep, she definitely has something messing with her brain function.

[@DrMelody8]

To love the lovely = Human. To love the 'unlovely' (including the 'dehumanised', 'undeserving' and hated-upon by others) = Divine. The ‘Higher-Way’ gifts of Forgiveness, Compassion and Love are precious, regardless of whether or not anyone else can fathom it.

[@jeanlind7540]

I’m not opposed to helping death row inmates if there is chance they are innocent, like Innocence Project. In UK we don’t have death penalty so why doesn’t she be part of helping to prove people’s innocence?

[@portcityminis]

Seeing her finally be able to hold him was just so heartbreaking. Sandy you are an amazing woman for giving that man love and comfort when he needed it the most. Bless you

[@joystratton4658]

She's filling a void inside herself!! It's not about those inmates. It's all about her

[@stuh8550]

I don’t think you can insert a brain into a ho! 🤔 Not sure it’s ever been tried…

[@brendarigotti843]

I thought the same in beginning when she said she's been writing to prisoners in the U.S.A.. to help& be a penpal... Hmmmm. So much time & dedication.. She wanted to be loved & admired. That's normal... She enjoys it.

[@Flower-ck2bs]

@@brendarigotti843 not normal in this case. She abuses them psychologically.

[@MarieORourke-e3v]

Completely agree.

[@JohnMccann-ld3yr]

She loves the attention and everyone feeling sorry for her when he was executed , I think there is something wrong with woman that marry death row inmates, if he was exonerated and got out I would guarantee she would have ran a mile.complete narcissist.

[@pessoafixe1]

The moment Reg says he's no snitch i lost all empathy for him. Pretty sure no therapist would tell her to see him die would be a good idea. Was also wondering about her job, so much time and travel expenses to enterttain these "relationships" definitely doesn't come cheap. the ending with reg's voiceover while she was hugging his corpse was an amazing way to end the documentary.

[@lindaoheff9169]

She’s unemployed…I suspect she’s saving her government checks

[@tundrawomansays694]

@@lindaoheff9169 Those must be extremely generous benefits! It sure doesn’t work that way in the US.

[@rt66vintage16]

@@lindaoheff9169 there are 3 other people in her house, maybe they get benefits or maybe her son works, idk. It does seem like an expensive hobby.

[@liseklerekoper2441]

The UK government is funding all of this by the unemployment benefits she most definitely is receiving to some degree. Maybe if she actually had a job she wouldn’t have all the time to do this, but that’s probably why she doesn’t get a job as this is her life, as sad & desperate as it is.

[@brendaguerin5423]

Am I the only one that feels like he is reading a script

[@demijour1234]

I could not understand why Sandie said she would trade places with Reg. She has two children, one who still lives with her at home and a grandchild. So, she is okay not seeing them ever again? I mean when her kids hear this, how do you think they will feel? That they are secondary to you and Reg is First to you. I know Reg said that he is innocent and he will never snitch on who the real murderer is. However, his twin brother testified that he did it and they have Reg on the pawn shop camera selling Carlos Garza's jewelry he stole. Plus when he got arrested, he had more of Carlos's jewelry on him. How can he explain that and I read he got $79 for the jewelry at the pawn shop. Also, I don.t know what to think of Sandie when she was already married to another deathrow inmate. She is not in love, she is in love with the idea of being in love.

[@meesheemulan]

I Most Definitely Agree 💯

[@margotstamateris3583]

She has died however after seeing that she said that I would not be able to see her again. I would be furious!!

[@pk6810]

I think she was a very vulnerable lady who needed to be needed. A shame really, time wasted on prison relationships when she could of met a man who was decent and available to her in every way.

[@richardlippincott8881]

wow. No DNA? No weapon? Shiatty defense and 2 guys who signed a confession against him (under duress)!! Poor guy.

[@athenaatwar475]

Not to mention that the concept of the death penalty is a planned, legal form of murder when we know damn well our justice system is flawed beyond recognition. Particularly for those on death row who are black men with few resources. I feel for anybody in these kinds of situations.

[@jeanlind7540]

I truly agree & I don’t think he should be there but she’s nuts. Who will she marry next?

[@mistyrhodes3783]

This piece doesn’t talk about his past criminal history. There is more to this story.

[@Flaschenteufel]

Mjeah only in a gang, video footage and him caught with the dead man's belongings. He is such an innocent angel.

[@Fortis_Bellator]

Slow down, hoss. Reginald Blanton was not innocent. He was executed for his crimes, because he kicked in a young man's door, robbed, and murdered him. He is on video pawning the jewelry he stole, not even 30 min later. There is other evidence too. These videos are meant to pull at heart strings. The 20 yr old, hispanic victims family, deserved justice and they got it.

[@connierenna-xf9um]

I once had a friend who had helped me through very hard times, someone very loyal. Apparently , at this same time she was seeing and was in love with a man who was incarcerated whom she visited on a regular basis and to whom she brought cigarettes and other requests . We discussed the situation and whether this was a healthy thing, but, as I wasn’t in any position myself to talk at the time, we let the subject drop. Later on, after we went our separate ways again and my life had a semblance of order, I heard through the grapevine that she had been arrested through her involvement with this particular prisoner. He had convinced her to be a “mule” and she got caught. Truly tragic. The guy was only concerned about himself and what he could get out of their relationship.

[@scarletsletter4466]

I worked with a lady (nurse) who also got caught & arrested for muling drugs for a prisoner. This was a middle aged LPN which is an advanced type of nurse. The whole thing was ridiculous & sad, but some women have this deep need to be “needed”

[@Pakman0812]

Ugh why can't I can't find none of these great women I'm not in prison and plan on not going whats what's wrong with this world

[@lisabauer3553]

Well I mean you have to have intuition and boundaries

[@lynnalexander9674]

For a mother to say she wd die for her condemned prisoner is just sad. She needs to get her priorities in order ffs.

[@bonitajanssen745]

Nothing comes before God, at THAT includes your kids. REPENT, AND PUT GOD FIRST, or you will be LAST.

[@NEGAN_Jane]

Sandie passed away in 2013. RIP Sandie. You're with Reg now, in a better place.

[@pussy2goodpearson523]

How did she pass?

[@nikkiejones4606]

Aww how sad. Rip to both of them.

[@davinastanton3865]

@@nikkiejones4606 This is so very sad. Rest in Eternal Peace to them both. They are together now. 😔

[@ravenhoule948]

Omgosh are you serious? Why is this documentary being recommended atleast 10 yrs later? So then he was executed

[@janlundberg5924]

Wow. She died so young.

[@lilyrrichard236]

I know 2 women who reached a point in life where they only have relationships with men who are incarcerated. I know one reason they do that is because they have trust issues. The women don't have to deal with the man cheating on them with other women. Or being abusive. It's a much more controllable type of relationship.

[@jub8891]

what happens when they get out?

[@laravonstaden1838]

@@jub8891 Trouble. A lot of trouble!

[@laravonstaden1838]

I think what you have described is much more common than we may guess. I also get the feeling that she might have a bit of a morbid obsession with death.

[@Lalo6169]

Very eye opening

[@jaywholoveseveryone1721]

Oh, they cheat while in prison.

[@clairelicciardo6198]

I love how she “knows” he is innocent.

[@samuellopez1957]

Yeah That's Right. She Must Have a 6th Sense. What Loser She Is. Lol

[@Reesa601]

Well, based on what I've read and saw, he very well could be innocent.

[@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax]

@@Reesa601 they could always be innocent, except they aren't the majority of the time. The chances of them being innocent are slim to none.

[@Reesa601]

@@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax I believe there are innocent people rotting away. I know not everyone is innocent but there are some that are.

[@allispossible8447]

She was his alibi - that's how she knows🙄

[@CR-tc2zv]

Empathy is an important trait, but we need to have boundaries, so we can keep ourselves safe. In saying that, I do feel so sorry for Reginald's mum. Her pain is very obvious.

[@teekolinski491]

I starting tearing up when Sandie met up with Reggie's mom & they both cried. This kind of union is not for me but I respect it. Everyone deserves love. Sandie's heart is so pure.

[@bonitajanssen745]

So many hateful and mean people in these comments, because they don’t realize that self-righteousness is a crime, and a sin! God bless your kind heart. ❤️

[@coolkingww2d-daygillespie196]

I totally agree with you sweetheart

[@jasonarthur7815]

Just wondering how this gal can afford to go back and forth across the pond so much if she is unemployed....but otherwise, great doc!!! Fascinating stuff 👌

[@athenafearon3853]

@@Angelofloveandhappiness calm down,most of us was thinking the same thing😂

[@debratolbert7926]

@@athenafearon3853 yep

[@asham76]

Probably on high end sickness benefit

[@daffydaggers3156]

I beg to differ! “Fascinating”only if you’re interested in the tawdry, seedy side of life!!

[@jenniferniziol4293]

@@daffydaggers3156 we obviously are

[@MagdaleneDivine]

And honestly some people enjoy being sad. She's preparing to be a widow and moves forward regardless. It's kind of a form of Mauchausen by proxy only with sadness instead of illness. You know how some people see a funeral as their moment to shine and gather sympathy for their own sadness instead of the person who has died. Like notice how she jumped right into a protest march to free "her fiance" and is the center of the action and gets to gather sympathy and admiration from his family and friends and even get a bit of camera attention while in this demonstration that's supposed to be about someone else

[@dia.6213]

Scorpions Oracle . It would be odd if Sandie wasn't in the protest march to free Reginald .

[@yerneedsry]

Mental problems for sure..

[@erinjoy377]

Ummm…my immediate thought response to the vibe of her presence at the protest was that she felt uncomfortable, she seemed like she felt uncomfortable/awkward almost…and your focused on the protest of which like 10 people were there… point being I don’t believe she was doing this for attention 😢 The only thing that shined whilst at his funeral was her pretty blonde hair…she was alone… first time she could touch this man in “real” life was in his postmortem state.

[@shirleymartin5825]

Scorpions Oracle I think you àre so so correct. This is her way of getting so much attention and all of them saying "oh what a wonderful woman she is" this is what she gets turned on to make her with a huge ego.

[@Flaschenteufel]

Münchhausen by proxy..?

[@bonniedunbar6717]

When she said she would trade places with him I think he would have gladly done it .

[@Jaceson90210]

This was a very profound and disturbing in-depth look at the human brain, spirit and heart. I can judge away but that wont make me a better human being by degrading anyone. At the end of the day no mater how unreasonable , atrocious or unforgivable someone’s actions are… when the sun rises and sets each day…love is what saves our sanity.

[@marge6581]

❤

[@shanny4306]

❤

[@cholieandresa]

The relationship she built with the mother is something special. Mama lost her son, lost out seeing him get married, seeing him do anything… full stop. So for that, for what this woman gave to show love, mama is happy.

[@coym5452]

I like her I know god is going to keep her ☮️

[@linalicious415]

@@coym5452 I agree because she had a very big beautiful heart and truly cared.

[@laravonstaden1838]

Does anyone remember the old saying that always rings true? “The devil makes work for idle hands.” This is a great example of it. She is unemployed, probably bored with life, and these prisoners are safely locked up on another continent. It can only be a game she plays. If that sounds harsh, I apologise. The truth is sometimes a bitter pill!

[@danis4054]

I looked into this case and there’s a strong chance he was innocent. If so, I wouldn’t exactly call what she does the devil’s work 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@laravonstaden1838]

@@danis4054 An interesting point. However, they were never likely to meet and my point is about her, not him. She had no connection to these people and she forged the whole idea. If she was truly altruistic she would not have allowed herself to get personally involved, romantically. It would - and did - lead to unnecessary additional suffering for one or both of them.

[@danis4054]

@@laravonstaden1838 true. Just sad to me all around.

[@DrMelody8]

Or just maybe it is her 'gift', her own contribution to humanity, a 'calling' that no one but her and those like her could comprehend, a part of her human soul's story/journey in this finite life. Each to their own, without the need for harsh judgement.

[@jeanlind7540]

How does she afford to go from UK to Texas + chauffeur driven car?

[@LouisaRodriguez714]

Nobody has to approve of what this lady is doing just like nobody has to approve of what you do in your life.. She's not hurting anybody by visiting this man. Good for you Sandy. You do what makes you happy.

[@amina-pr8xt]

So true

[@janefriel6895]

Some of the comments here are just an example of the world we live in.People are so nasty and judgmental. This woman wasn't harming anyone. Her friendship with the prisoners mother was so heartwarming. She has more compassion than all these people here put together.

[@nikkijayne4451]

She died. In 2013.she was a very kind lady. Would help anyone that needed it.

[@prettybwillowbee7584]

That's right 👍🏾

[@MermaidDolphinNYC]

MermaidDolphinNYC 1 second ago Moat Americans are against death row. You have no idea how many people have been exonerated. There are only a few states that still execute people. Other developed Western countries do not have such.

[@Pikaqueen18]

When i read all the means comments in the comments section, it breaks my heart, Sandie was my friend, a real one, someone with one of the biggest heart i ever known, she passed away a few years ago and reading people who didnt know her at all, judging her and spitting on her like that is really a sad thing...Rest in peace Sandie

[@christac1526]

Do you really think she had all her screws right in her brsin ?

[@blueamenaa749]

She seems like a very sweet person. It's so sad she isn't here anymore. Its no one business to judge her relationship. She was an angel. I hope she's at peace.

[@jenniferdaulby5519]

I feel for her children. She said she'd take his place, but how must the kids feel?

[@laurawirtjes7225]

How did she afford the trips to USA if she was unemployed?

[@MagdaleneDivine]

There are charities that will pay for tickets to visit husbands or wives or family of incarcerated people. Yeah. I'm not kidding

[@laurawirtjes7225]

@@MagdaleneDivine O.M.G!

[@MagdaleneDivine]

@@laurawirtjes7225 yeah. Usually it's used for when a prisoner is released. Like I served my time in North Carolina and I'm from Texas. Someone must have donated that money to help me get home. Its sad when it's used like this though.

[@MagdaleneDivine]

@@laurawirtjes7225 like I couldn't believe that people out there cared enough to help me, a convicted felon to get me back home. It was so amazing and every day I'm thankful for people who care like that. Bit it's sad that people will abuse charities like this. Seriously it made me cry when the Sargent said my ticket was taken care of.

[@MagdaleneDivine]

@John Smith back in the 90s and early 2000s Southwest Airlines was the bomb with their less than 99$ deals. Damn I. Miss the 90s.

[@jolo3118]

Jail talk 101. I fell for it in my late 20s and actually married some jackhole I didn't know. It stems from loneliness and a bit of being sick of being cheated on. We know they can't cheat ( at least with another woman) while they're locked up and that gives a feeling of safety. All the while, you are most definitely NOT the only woman they're connecting with. Also, you can call ALL of the shots in the relationship. It's sad really but you won't listen to anyone until you see for yourself that it's just jail talk/ letter writing 101 and they almost always know exactly what to say to get you to "fall in love". And at times tattoo their initials on your neck. A forever stamp of my stupidity. 🤦‍♀️ I'm now 50, and still have that damn thing.

[@darkmaiden1776]

you may not realize this, but you are very funny. I love how you express yourself. I hope your life got better and that your much happier now. 💕

[@brianal7143]

You're 100% correct. My sister fell for the same thing with the father of her kids. He got locked up and became the most attentive, expressive, loving man in the world. Got released and cheated on her with at least two other women, left their family. PRISON TALK.

[@samw7419]

Why haven't you covered up the tattoo?

[@liseklerekoper2441]

I couldn’t agree more that the stems from issues this woman had long before she started connecting with men in prison. It’s the deep insecurities, the need for control, the desperate neediness, and the false sense of “safety“ she gets from remaining connected to men who can’t stray in the true sense of the word.

[@dmgsoultogetherness6667]

jackhole 🤣 love it

[@lucylove8087]

RIP Sandy, I truly hope you are now at peace. So sad that she died 4 years after him. She was so delusional and lonely it was just sad. This whole documentary was sad and not on the evil inmates but on her and her delusions and linking it to her childhood 😢

[@coym5452]

It’s so sad to see this another black man is being killed for something he don’t do 💔

[@nichole2058]

How did she die?

[@freehugs8670]

@@nichole2058 heart failure, it was sudden

[@teresafraser3049]

She died of a broken heart 💔

[@pagandeva2000]

Did you know Sandy? And when you say she was delusional, what do you mean? Did she ever develop another relationship?

[@samusvikerness661]

I do believe almost every human being is deserving of having someone to talk to. True loneliness is a torture.

[@nirlamejia]

well said ♥️

[@annacastillo5804]

Yes , but she can fine someone nice

[@przetrwanie]

tell that persons family that he killed. what a stupid comment. did you come up with it yourself or people that you talk to helped you out

[@liseklerekoper2441]

Human connection is central to life having any meaning but seriously, there are a lot more positive places she can connect to people & a lot healthier people she can connect with. Her choosing this route is about deep-seated issues I’m sure she’s carried for years. That fact should have her marching straight into a skilled therapist’s office but instead she does this.

[@beehungry6190]

True, a psychopath on death rowe? What does that say about her?

[@mandyjane1234]

As soon as anyone i had never met called his queen, I would run a mile. Its the classic term catfishers use

[@vienogola1421]

and babe even when you are 96 years old with one hoof in the grave, they call you babe...ostensibly from an oil rig.

[@kathleenmedlyn]

That's the thing about being on death row, there may be many people who are innocent and they are going to die for nothing.

[@tundrawomansays694]

OOPS, I spelled the last name with a typo incorrectly, it’s Grisham but for what ever reason I can’t get the correction to edit in my comment above.

[@tundrawomansays694]

We’ve killed innocent people, believe me and far more than “a couple.”

[@gabriellahedarv1782]

I feel for her. She has a good heart. There are obviously some psychological issues at play here, but she’s been a great support for Reggie’s mom and that’s a good thing. I realize that this is outside of the scope of this documentary, but Reggie’s twin brother Robert was his co-defendant and Robert’s girlfriend testified against him/them. It would’ve been interesting if that was mentioned when talking about witnesses and jury members.

[@davidginchereau]

Yes she is caring. But it's mental illness

[@MermaidDolphinNYC]

MermaidDolphinNYC 1 second ago Moat Americans are against death row. You have no idea how many people have been exonerated. There are only a few states that still execute people. Other developed Western countries do not have such.

[@pagandeva2000]

Did the twin do any time as well?

[@babyofmyfamily]

He was murdered a few years after Reggie's execution!!!

[@linalicious415]

Reggie's mother is a very beautiful woman inside & out. My heart definitely breaks for her. I'm glad that she was able to become close with her son's fiancé.

[@anthonyb8600]

Reg Blanton received a lethal injection in 2009. Sandie passed away around 3 years later.

[@dinteague4456]

😔

[@blackbeauty7125]

Is reggie mom is alive

[@vjc2270]

I think I’d like to start writing to Sandie’s cousin Robin! 😂 His comments were so considered and generous. “It makes them happy and it’s not hurting anyone”. Hear hear! He seems like a lovely fellow.

[@ashleyalonzo9363]

😆

[@ausendundeinenacht1]

yeah

[@gee7simply76]

😂

[@Sarah24871]

I hear ya, he seems like such a sweetheart. And his tattoos are banging!

[@Kenzie_McIntyre]

go for it ...at least you could actually see him in person

[@oceanjoker3544]

The big surprise, for me, was that she was married to another death row inmate.

[@TomikaKelly]

The even bigger surprise is that other death row inmate was cheating on her with other women.b

[@oceanjoker3544]

@@TomikaKelly not really a surprise for me.

[@liseklerekoper2441]

Really? I wasn’t surprised by that at all because look at her pattern and what needs are so desperate that she’s trying to fulfill.

[@cameron6249]

@@TomikaKellycheating how, with letters? 🤣

[@tonyda2656]

His Twin brother - who I think he may have refused to Snitch on - is the one is referring to in protecting his family. It was to him - he was maybe giving his loyalty. The brother was murdered in a drive-by into his auto - 5 years later.

[@jeanlind7540]

That is terrible background.

[@askapril814]

My brother was friends with two brothers. One took a life sentence for his younger brother who killed a carry out clerk and later on he was murdered at a party while his brother is still in prison serving a sentence for something he didn’t do, so I understand it does happen. What the sibling doesn’t understand is that no matter what they do to protect their family member a person can’t run from what they put out in the world.

[@superstar7849]

You're right & Sandie died unexpectedly in 2013.

[@jennebeattie3168]

@@superstar7849 oh dear! That's so sad 😔

[@ntrovato7049]

@@superstar7849 oh god, well at least they are together.. (if we want to believe in the afterlife)….

[@evlyine1973]

It is quite unfornate she believed he was innocent. His excuse to not save himself because he isn't a snitch is the biggest pile of B.S. I have ever heard. I do not care how you were raised, when your life is on the line, you give up the truth and save yourself. He chose not to do this even though it will kill his mother and girlfriend...he was guilty.

[@litty4553]

Supposedly to save his twin brother

[@Truthseeker_48]

Oh my goodness. Even if he did kill someone… he shouldnt be executed for it. Many people out here have killed multiple people and didn’t get sentenced to death! Texas is evil

[@126missday]

Maybe he is innocent there was no dna evidence so what evidence do they have? the fact that he’s a black man seems to be enough to make him guilty in the sight of that state it’s diplorable May God handle all evil doers not just some even those who are lawmakers because they are the worse!!!!

[@dr.andmrs.phibes7454]

Apparently, you did not grow up in the inner city. Being labeled in a snitch is one of the greatest shames that can be labeled with.

[@dr.andmrs.phibes7454]

@@126missday please read Michelle Alexander's book, "The New Jim Crow."

[@dorthealove4117]

I just wanna know how his Mother is doing after showing his lifeless body at the end of this video. I'm a Mother, and a Mother unconditionally loves her child no matter what.

[@pk6810]

True.

[@sumcrazychic2832]

Sometimes it's safer for a women to be in a relationship with a man that's unattainable. Sometimes what we might perceive as crazy or unhinged is safe for someone else. We are no one to judge.

[@jeanlind7540]

Fair comment.

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

I've been there... and I agree.

[@cheryljohnson1632]

Not judging as ppl call it, as my ex Pastor would say, ‘im not judging, ima fruit inspector, the Bible teaches, ‘ we know ppl by the fruits they bear.

[@samw7419]

That's not a relationship it's a pen pal.

[@girisha_laxmi11]

I agree as well

[@coconutfallsyt3030]

You didn’t expect a death row inmate to be executed? Wow , she hit every stupid branch on the way down…ridiculous

[@tundrawomansays694]

Depends on what state you’re in but many get their sentences reduced to life without parole.

[@rt66vintage16]

Texas doesn't mess around in the death chamber.

[@user-wickedflower]

@@tundrawomansays694 that was only because of a change of law got them commuted to life terms regardless of where their cases stood at that time.

[@Nille0212]

He was executed 10/27/09. He didn't mention Sandy in his last statement, unless he called her Dre. He did say "...Dre my queen..." when giving his last statement. According to the TDCJ website, he committed this crime with his brother, Robert Blanton. It doesn't say what his brother's punishment was, and upon searching his information he was not in the system as of 01/21/23.

[@gorgeous.akosua]

Oh my gosh I was about to watch this. 😂 Spoiler alert would have been nice

[@sodvine3486]

I say murder in his eyes at the very end. Wow

[@tonyda2656]

Dre - is theother brother who with Sandy - (his Queen) witnessed his execution. So he was recognizing them both - Dre...my Queen. By the way - His Twin brother - who I think he may have refused to Snitch on - is the one is referring to in protecting his family. It was to him - he was maybe giving his loyalty. The brother Robert was murdered in a drive-by into his auto - 5 years later.

[@jeanlind7540]

@@tonyda2656 Very sad to be poor & black.

[@NEGAN_Jane]

It was; Dre, My Queen. Dre is his brother. He was addressing Dre and Sandie.

[@lancerice2392]

Is it just me or does reg have a very soft relaxing voice? Like too bad he is in that situation, he would kill it in the ASMR GAME. I randomly got tingles from him talking

[@jcny11]

His charm is part of what got him in trouble.

[@chrisnewton9081]

Why she not spend her time dating single men dying of cancer? She could also hug them.

[@meganlatchman6370]

So sad she can’t find someone outside of death row

[@tundrawomansays694]

I’m not sure she even looked especially after multiple failed marriages.

[@Tengobaila3]

That was such a sad story. God bless them.

[@terriharrigan891]

I feel these women are super lonely and sadly become desperate enough to chase after someone who realistically is unobtainable. Very sad for them. Only positive side is both people have someone to talk to and possibly imagine a real relationship on the outside. I think that the death row inmate would be happy to have anyone regardless of who they are. They really don’t have any choice.

[@DrMelody8]

Or just maybe it is her 'gift', her own contribution to humanity, a 'calling' that no one but her and those like her could comprehend, a part of her human soul's story/journey in this finite life. Each to their own, without the need for harsh judgement.

[@deloreslate4028]

@@DrMelody8 spoken like someone that is in a relationship with an inmate somewhere in this world.

[@DrMelody8]

​@@deloreslate4028 Haha! LOL. I feel sorry for you throwing around such a pathetic and ridiculous judgement that couldn't be farther from the truth and evidently originates out of a very tiny and unexpanded mind. May you come to the place of growth and expansion of your heart/mind, finding the higher way of third sight, wisdom, evolution and higher forms of thought. Blessings on your life.

[@jeanlind7540]

She is quite attractive & speaks well so I don’t understand why she’s serial death row wife? I am British & opposed to capital punishment, however if she wants to help she should join The Innocence Project who do real good in helping wrongly convicted men.

[@deloreslate4028]

@@dia.6213 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Not even my name but what are you like 8 or something. Grow up!

[@omariwest9068]

I stopped listening after they said - but she has a problem. She’s still married to her third husband, who is also a prisoner on death row in the same unit. Yeah - this is where pathology meets insanity. Enough.

[@gobshyteguru2695]

Not all people in prison are bad or guilty! In all fairness, Reggies case appears dodgy, even if he committed, the death sentence for killing one person seems extreme in the absence of torture etc

[@traceygriffiths8594]

I agree. I’m anti death penalty. But the reason he got it was because he robbed from the person he killed. If indeed he did do it

[@LindaCasey]

Some folks just fall in love with the intoxication of being in love. Who safer to live out your fantasy with than with a death row inmate? Everyone is deserving of love though and they say that there's a lid for every jar. I wish these two a joyous life, however long it's lived. My only concern is, if she had leukemia as a child, why would she then subject her lungs to the poisonous ravages of smoke?

[@tundrawomansays694]

It’s her drug of choice. Why would people smoke crack, Yk?

[@Summertime420]

Sorry and no offense! But I giggled when I read “there’s a lid to every jar!” Tell that to my Tupperware cupboard! 😂 definitely Not! 😊

[@LindaCasey]

@@Summertime420 I hear ya!!🤣

[@jeanlind7540]

I read a piece about Yorkshire Ripper, Peter Sutcliffe’s time when he was transferred to Broadmoor, a man who had murdered so many woman. Because Broadmoor had a more relaxed system than the high security prison he had come from he had hundreds of women writing to him & visiting him & in KZbin documentary he is heard in a phone conversation to his brother telling him how many visitors he had and how a 21 year old was coming to see him. I really don’t get it, are these women thrill seekers?

[@marciajones2993]

Ted Bundy got a woman to marry him in court, when he was on trial for murdering women. Don’t understand it are they that desperate for a man.

[@sharonrodriguez9592]

They are sick in the head.

[@tundrawomansays694]

I’m sure there are as many reasons/motivations as there are people.

[@brianal7143]

They all think they can change him, want to feel special

[@nikkijayne4451]

You have just as many men writing to women inmates. Its just not talked about as often.

[@Bella-zq6nb]

It works because they won't get out. She can have a "relationship" without any risk.

[@gabrieladickson2826]

Regardless of what maybe happened , there is this moment where we have to stand back with our judgment and give her and his family support. This can’t be easy.

[@cleodontina1]

I can understand your empathy but we don't have to support this. It's madness!

[@teresafraser3049]

The fact that she died from a broken heart 💔 4 years later says of how deep her love for him truly was. They are now together in spirit 🙌 ❤❤🙌 which nothing can break them apart ever because we are all eternal beings of God ❤❤

[@tonybeam]

A long term relationship will be possible given that prisoners remain on death row for so many years.

[@Shylablack]

I have a prison penpal, he isn’t on death row. I Researched for about three months on being a prison penpal. I said in my first letter I wanted to give him hope, friendship and support only. He has never asked for any money, he has only recently got a tablet in which he can message me and make phone calls. However, he said it was up to me if we were to talk on the phone. He is totally respectful and doesn’t pressurise me. My advice is to do proper research open a POBox and don’t judge let them Open up to you about what happened.

[@ms.chrisie8040]

à. w qdwwq to

[@Flaschenteufel]

You realize those people are there for a reason?

[@Shylablack]

@@Flaschenteufel I do, he was in a car in which his passenger went to buy something and ended up killing said seller. He was classed as the ”get away driver”

[@Flaschenteufel]

@@Shylablack So he only helped a killer. That's great. And besides that everybody has a bad day and randomly kills a shopkeeper i guess. Gl with that one...

[@MagdaleneDivine]

I think Sandy finds comfort in comforting people who shouldn't be comforted. When Russell died his twin sister was left to heal herself. Russell was a chronic inmate and she knew him before the schizophrenia took over. Finding someone who is also grieving an "unlovable " person is comfort in itself I suppose. Deep down She wants to be close to people but only at arm's length. She knows she doesn't have to fully commit to any of these connections she makes. It's a form of serial monogamy.

[@shakey2421]

His twin brother Robert and his girlfriend were not charged in exchange for their testimonies against Reginald (Robert was present and participated in the robbery while his girlfriend waited in the car). Robert was none the less gunned down while driving in 2014, 5 years after Reginald's execution. I feel so awful for their mother.

[@PaulaLauhead]

I want to know if it would make Sandy cry knowing Ridge dos'nt have long

[@Lmlm8168]

I couldn’t imagine this being my mom. Someone on death row , convicted of taking one or multiple lives, gets more of my moms attention than me 🙄

[@thebaddest163]

My mom dated a man who had 2 life sentences from when I was age 4-14. I can confirm that he did get a lot more attention than me. My mom was consumed with writing letters to him. She wrote letters everyday up into the late hours of the night for years. She even pressured me to write letters to him too. She believed that his sentence would get overturned and he would be released and they would get married.

[@pk6810]

​@@thebaddest163that must of been hard to get your young head around. I hope your mum moved on from this and found a meaningful relationship.

[@vincesilva1128]

She is not in love with Reg, she is in love with attracting pain and suffering. For some psychological reason she entertains feeling of psychological pain. That’s why she is falling in love with many death row prisoners.

[@mistyrhodes3783]

She has a severe fear of intimacy. A ‘normal’ local man would be intimidating because it would require her to be vulnerable. She is clearly in love with being with love. There’s a real issue called Love Addiction.

[@TomikaKelly]

I think k it makes her feel useful and it gives her a sense of purpose and idenity, like a pet project. It'd never be me, but if it makes them both happy then they're grown so hey.

[@Weissguys6]

Her poor child.

[@Glm867]

I agree everyone deserves to have friends IF They’re innocent OR they’re sincerely sorry for their transgressions 🤷‍♀️ but that’s just me. However, she’s gotta be EXTREMELY Careful with these people b/c they’re often working quite a few kind and generous women at the SAME time…

[@Casinogirl56]

I was just about to say that.

[@kumamonshi1361]

RIP Sandie and Reginald. You are finally together and at peace 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@LAStars-sratS]

I think it’s ‘Safe’ to love someone you can never be with. Words are one thing, actions are another. Who is he when he isn’t controlled and in jail? When he is out in the world with temptations, how would that relationship change? I think they would have a zero chance of making it long term. Once the honeymoon phase was over, it would be a downhill ride. She is a sweet woman, I hope she gets good counselling.

[@rt66vintage16]

Yes, exactly. In the real world they'd be living with his mother, and he'd be hooking up with his old friends. I'd give the relationship six weeks.

[@delilah9334]

Oh my word, I was not expecting the ending of her hugging his corpse

[@onebumne]

This is hilarious. He had no principles, he killed a man without just cause. He couldn’t snitch, because there was nobody to snitch on.

[@danis4054]

We didn’t realize you had the entire case study and evidence in your couch cushions along with that law degree…it must be down in there somewhere. Keep digging.

[@juanitarichards1074]

Innocent people are executed all the time in the USA and elsewhere....thats why the death penalty has been abolished in civilized countries. The Innocence Project has helped many people get of Death Row or free from life sentences and the are dedicated professionals who virtually retry cases and get DNA tests that had never been done.....to prove a convicted persons innocence.

[@Flaschenteufel]

@@danis4054 Well there is video footage and him selling the victims goods so....how come you're so sure he was innocent?

[@danis4054]

@@Flaschenteufel bc the person he refused to snitch on was his twin brother.

[@Onlyasking-b3s]

At this point if he was truly innocent and truly knew who the murderer was he would tell. That's just how it is when you're facing death if you have a truth to let out you will

[@nathanurick8320]

Well now that her love has been put to death I bet her info is being passed around to other death row inmates.

[@TamaraTAM_LAKALLE]

no cuz she is not more alive since 2013

[@TamaraTAM_LAKALLE]

@Donnell Okafor i know .. but my answer was about this woman ,cuz she is death in 2013

[@TamaraTAM_LAKALLE]

@Donnell Okafor yes , i am from France

[@donnawentz2221]

@Donnell Okafor I looked him up and he was executed in 2009. She witnessed his execution

[@drofnats1962]

Very Sad, RIP Sandie, RIP to the Man who was Murdered for $79.

[@blackbeauty7125]

Who was murder for $79 dollars

[@OOceaneyess]

Saying that she would put herself in his shoes if he could have his life is sad to hear. Would HE say that if SHE was about to die? It's also sad to read in these comments that she has passed away. These women who give their life and love to lifers have to love themselves more to realize that they deserve more. R.I.P Sandie and Reggie. 🙏

[@leahgushu]

They are together in heaven nw

[@tyrahjayy1839]

This was a good & interesting documentary. And The ending was so sad 😢

[@chad5893]

BS this woman wasnt expecting to get into a relationship....this is what she was looking for the entire time. Also, as an American, looking at this through the lens of Brits is fascinating.

[@laravonstaden1838]

That’s about the size of it, Chad. I am British but I have a brain. This woman is unemployed and bored. She is not in love, she is chasing a bit of intrigue and excitement. She has probably watched too many American movies for her own good.

[@marilynmay8375]

@@laravonstaden1838 Being unemployed, how can she afford these trips to the US? You have to know what my first thought is.

[@jeanlind7540]

I’m British & totally agree.

[@laravonstaden1838]

@Donnell Okafor exactly right!

[@laravonstaden1838]

@@marilynmay8375 The unemployment money that people can draw on from the government is only sufficient to get food, some fuel in your home and manage your day to day existence. It’s also a mystery to me where she got her money for flights and accommodation. Perhaps she was paid by the film production company?

[@ScottyDonknow]

I thought my life was sad and pointless and then I came to know about this piece of work.

[@Sue700]

😄

[@jonyvisa7031]

😂😂😳

[@tundrawomansays694]

Your life is valuable and so are you. This lady has her own stuff to deal with and she’s not hurting anyone. Some people collect coins or stamps and apparently as I just learned, some people collect prisoners! Not my thing either!

[@ricardosommelier1130]

Scotty....... WHAT DO YOU MEAN.. ????

[@cucar8363]

[@thebaddest163]

My mom dated a man named John who was in prison with 2 life sentences. She started dating him when I was about 4, and since my dad was not in the picture she introduced this man to me as "Papa". She was also an inmates activist, which is how she met him, and she wrote a ton of letters to him and other inmates. She'd try to help people get legal help for inmates and she'd do a lot of work on behalf of them. She helped John the most though, and she believed that she would be able to get his sentence overturned and that he would come home to us. This went on for 10 years. She would always talk about all the things we were going to do when "papa gets home". She even went as far to buy fishing poles and maps, saying that we were all going to travel together when he got out. Of course that never happened, she eventually left John because he was verbally abusive in his letters and started dating another incarcerated man for the next 7 years.

[@aoc092]

@@thebaddest163 sounds like your situation was tough, and possibly confusing for the '4 year old' you.

[@_love_cats-889]

That guy is a major manipulator, even his voice says a lot about him

[@aidaofearth]

I can't believe the government is allowed to execute healthy re-formable people like this!! (not to mention possibly innocent). this is so inhumane and upsetting

[@Tamaratuneday]

If this man had money and good lawyers I think it would've been a different outcome because it is ppl in jail prison death row who are innocent 🤔 😳I would be devastated if this was my son I can only imagine how this mother feels knowing her son innocent and you can't protect him or help him only God is in control of this situation.

[@sherrylang2845]

I feel so sorry for her struggle; feeling empathy for the inmates that possibly don’t have a chance!! Maybe they are innocent however she must live her free life and move on! God Bless Her Heart!

[@user-ke8st8jc1v]

She is a dumb delusional and pathetic woman wasting her life and money with a hardened criminal instead of spending time with her children and grandchildren .

[@Onlyasking-b3s]

It's her family I have sympathy for because she wasted so much of her life thinking about Reg that I'm sure their love was neglected

[@brenda1005]

@@Onlyasking-b3s 100% correct.

[@11Christys11]

Both are dead

[@tundrawomansays694]

But she *didn’t want to “move on.”* To her, these relationships were real, brought her life meaning and happiness and clearly she chose them knowing full well the implications. I don’t tell other adult what they “must do” because no one asked my opinion, Yk? What seems crazy to us isn’t to others.

[@portcityminis]

I know why women do this. Because they know they have all the power and the men won't leave them. They know these men are really desperate for someone.

[@katsoriano9262]

This guy just reeks of cunning and master manipulation. He’s a snake and I can see straight through his BS. How was she so delusional?! It’s sad.

[@jcny11]

Agree. That soft voice and the eyes are part of the package.

[@silkbuttons]

This is really tragic for her that her self esteem was so low this is what she aimed for, guys on death row. It was like a hobby and a lifestyle , gave her structure and things to do in her life, made her feel, made her feel important. I hope she got the help she needed afterward so she could get a real relationship for herself. While she helped a mans last moments, she doesn’t have to be a modern day martyr, she is not Joan of Arc, she is doing all of this out of complete boredom and loneliness and emptiness and no self love. Sad.

[@tirissymone]

I was extremely curious to hear Reg’s voice and hearing his parts in the interview I immediately felt a sense of unease about him. The tone in his delivery just seemed very slick in a pimp-like manner and his answers didn’t seem genuine at all. It’s clear he was attempting to portray himself as one way to those who can’t see through him.

[@Sashenka979]

She said she’s unemployed but have the money to travel? We, the tax payers are paying for all this foolishness Also, he’s on the death row. Must have committed some horrible crimes. How charming he is. Tell this to the victims families

[@tangie06_33]

Sandie is unemployed and spends all her time writing inmates and hosting websites about inmates. Sounds like Sandie is living on the dole and needs to go get a job and a real life.

[@daffydaggers3156]

How is she financing all this?!? She’s unemployed!! Again, truly “Loony Tunes!!”

[@scorbunny7737]

Why is it anybody's business how she is financing this all? The judgement here is what is "loony tunes".

[@Onlyasking-b3s]

@@scorbunny7737 she made it everybody's business when she decided to make it public

[@BrendaBaBoom]

Yup. Unemployed and entertaining lowlifes. 🥺

[@daffydaggers3156]

@@BrendaBaBoom It’s unfathomable that she’s in such a state of insecurity, that she’d avail herself to such miscreant-Sots. Pathetic and quite disgusting…

[@samw7419]

Probably alimony.

[@tomi-jon8798]

"When the poisons go in give me a little smile so I know your ok"????? Like WTF?? This lady is seriously ill. She needs help yesterday. My goodness what a messed up selfish thing to request. I believe she intentionally sought out an inmate on death row to maybe get sympathy or see someone die even. It just smells a little fishy to me. Maybe the first guy she married wasn't close enough to his execution date so she hooked up with Reg. What a banger this documentary was lmao

[@TomikaKelly]

She wants to know that he isn't in pain during the execution.

[@aprilshorty4094]

She passed away

[@taika.melissa2798]

I thought it was a very strange thing to say, how could someone really say they are OK during their execution?

[@meesheemulan]

@@taika.melissa2798 they can't but I heard the lethal injection is a peaceful way to die I heard they put them to sleep first with the first needle then the other dose of medicine They stick in shuts there organs and stuff in the body down I forgotten the last dose what it does but they want Feel anything they want even know if their Dead because the medicine they use to put them to sleep knock em Out in seconds so he want even have time to smile let alone move his body to wave or anything because they always scrap them down to a bed.

[@liseklerekoper2441]

Completely agree with you, and I think her desperate attempts to be needed and valued drive so much of this attention seeking and victimhood behavior. She needs to spend less time writing letters and more time working with a skilled therapist.

[@proudmarinemomma827]

She’d have been better off finding someone who had battled cancer as well, if she wanted to be with someone who’d battled for their life. These inmates will lie and tell you what you want to hear for their own selfish desires. Of course that man claimed to be innocent, he was waiting on his appeal from the Supreme Court. Yes, their can be innocent people in there but it certainly isn’t the majority. She also wasn’t present for his court appearance to know all of the details. She missed out on a real loving physical relationship with someone who could have been wonderful for her.

[@marge6581]

This was such a sad story, very intense. May they rest in peace.

[@rondoemalone6857]

My brother and my son were in prison. I hate to say this but most of the women that just use . To send them money Because they get so lonesome. And the women call them and come to vist. Some of them fall in love and want to leave their husband's. 😥

[@11Christys11]

Yep! And lord help us when they show up at the same time

[@marciabernard3820]

@@hopesgirl9483 lol