BURNING QUESTIONS ANSWERED IN LIVE STREAM Q&A! A WOMAN WHO MARRIED A PATHOLOGICAL LIAR PSYCHOPATH

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[@RealTalkWithYanie]

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[@ColdDiva]

I hope they call the movie or series “A Legion of Lies”.

[@BeautyNBrains86]

A legion of doom.

[@martinecooper6669]

Just call it The Legion

[@Long_live_Da_Bully]

Lmbo you won

[@headtonix]

​@@martinecooper6669 i think their is a movie called legion already 🤷🏽

[@kayabe856]

Someone call Tyler

[@kayabe856]

Her capitalizing on this story would be the biggest blessing. I wish her the best.

[@fuchsialocks592]

I only worry that he'll be trying to get a piece of that $ pie, as well.

[@sweet-lullabies]

@@fuchsialocks592 i agree ❤

[@bshatajshina]

That part

[@laurab5849]

Maybe they’re in on this together

[@sweet-lullabies]

@@laurab5849 plot twist 😂😂😂😂

[@xan-ax]

i did my laundry, cleaned the living room, my room, the kitchen, walked the cat,picked up my niece, and STILL had 4 more parts left plus the QnA😂😂

[@salutemimi81]

I was the same yesterday I got so much done But not walk the cat 😂😂😂

[@SW-oc2pp]

Walked the cat? Like on a leash? 😂 But I feel you...I literally traveled across time zones

[@Mally92]

Gurllllllyyyy fo real thou, did a whole 8 hour shift, delivering packages and taken her in.....all I can say is thank you god she got out while she could..❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@pinkdot602]

I have just under an hour left at work and here comes Yanie with the juice! Yaaasss💗

[@YannaTes_Positivity]

Omg I hired a cleaning lady for the first time yesterday and I think I'll never go back 😭🥰 I think I'm going to try a meal prep service next. Or maybe a laundry service. I got an appointment to get my car detailed instead of doing it myself.

[@so.many.obstacles]

When I broke up with an ex, I got rid of everything, including my panties.

[@Stylishheart101]

😂😂😂

[@BMynroeLoyren]

Yasssss Sis!!! 😂❤

[@enlightenedone7083]

Me too, girl! And them sheets!

[@Lilithslittlehelper]

Yes ma'am a whole spiritual cleanse

[@luvlee1293]

That's a good idea...

[@idontwantahandle22]

I read between the lines & I’m happy & relieved that her health was NOT impaired. Thank God.

[@SongSingsSoprano]

Are you thinking HIV?

[@idontwantahandle22]

@@SongSingsSoprano Yes, that was my guess. I’m sure that she won’t confirm or deny if that guess is correct, for obvious reasons. But like I said, I’m glad that HER health is okay & in the clear.

[@YahushaDollie]

I think so too because remember he was on POF fooling with a prostitute no condom she made it a point to say that and her health was not impacted thank Jesus!

[@Betty-rh4te]

​@SongSingsSoprano she said she believed cancer.

[@therantingshop7423]

Well in that case how would that impact her? Cancer can't be transmitted@@Betty-rh4te

[@Toni_313]

In her defense no sane person would think that ANYONE would go to this extent to lie and manipulate. This whole thing is diabolical. 🤯

[@analea6531]

I Will never imagine someone is fake talking to a brother, deceased uncle or cousin. Who would lie about someone’s daughter death and all those things 😮‍💨

[@msanyae8454]

I'd never, ever think someone talking on the phone at 6am for over 30 minutes was faking it. I mean, who's on the phone that early just chatting? So, thinking it was all fake? Crazy! And his lies, man, they're next-level. Like, why lie about some random grave being a family member's? And making up siblings when two brothers weren't enough? Seriously? I'm just lost on why he bothered with these tiny, pointless lies. He had her believing he was a Regional Manager, why go for VP? He already had the girl, so why add more lies on top of more lies? It's just beyond me.

[@nunyamindyub3255]

Seriously, geeze

[@itskashkashi]

I thank my stars that I encountered my pathological liar/ narc when I was still relatively young (18-21). Don't get me wrong, it was horrible, and it's been about 10 years and I'm still not entirely healed, but I learned the signs and got out before things like marriage and kids were a pressure.

[@bloochoob]

There wasn’t even any function or point or reason for many of the lies, how does he even remember the tangled web he weaves 🤪

[@browser37]

It’s sad we live in a time where the victim gets blamed & shamed. He got what was warranted and deserved.

[@EricaL2024]

She’s talking about a blk man. We know how that goes. They can do no wrong in the eyes of so many blk women.

[@PrayerOfMannesah]

She should never be blamed because they say women’s initiate most of the divorces, and this is what a lot of the stories of divorce look like it’s not fair and it’s not right and I’m glad that she told her story.

[@flooshoomoo7104]

He really got off easily. All this scamming, fraud and arrests and he’s pretty much scott free

[@Betty-rh4te]

She also took responsibility and blamed herself. She didn't marry him for love. She tolerated the lies because he was generous to her, paid her bills etc. She is aware she played a part in the situation by being desperate. She did not vet him or did any simple research on him.

[@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195]

Who shamed her ?? What did I miss??

[@jazmina1343]

This feels like a press conference.

[@albertamathurin7084]

Because it is 😂

[@beccf.s.8012]

It was!!!!

[@analea6531]

It is 😂😂😂and my nosey self was waiting for it

[@cynthiawhite9997]

And she is doing better than that White House Press Secretary! She is more coherent and organized!

[@ladyblue4180]

@@analea6531yes girl same!!

[@patriciasamo3364]

This woman is beautiful, smart, articulate and kind. Hope she heals and finds the happiness she deserves ❤❤

[@iamasuperstartoo]

I second that

[@analea6531]

So well spoken. She was immaculate with the timeline and didn’t repeat herself. I was hooked and gasping at work like it was a lifetime movie 😮‍💨

[@ABeautifulMess101]

@@analea6531They need to turn this into a lifetime movie 🍿😩

[@malloryharding882]

She is WAY too good for someone like Legion. She will absolutely find a wonderful man for herself.

[@simplymonica6888]

Yes. Beautiful woman, and a great storyteller. I hope she starts a KZbin channel. I’m not on the other platforms.

[@Lovelytrini82]

She seems nervous and I know that feeling. These men are monsters and it’s crazy how normal they appear to be

[@LadyLoveMsSunshine]

Very crazy. It's mind boggling.

[@CopperSkinnedMami]

When I say I was afraid before??? I’m even more scared now, men literally lie about the smallest and most ridiculous things, and that’s the problem 99.9% of the time.

[@rb5959]

I knew Legion was from that biblical story. It's the perfect name for him and his behavior.

[@selfesteem3447]

Those men you're talking about are called narcissist and everyone should learn about,... And also it's not just men, it's women who can be a narcissist. And when narcissists take it too far on the horrible crap they do -that's called a psychopath. See @Sam Vaknin please. Please everyone, Arm yourselves with the knowledge, And even if you do, there is still no guarantee,.. you will not fall victim to a narcissist. Just to reiterate, this is very important that everyone study this subject and learn everything they can, Very complex subject takes up to ten years to study extensively. Hopefully one would find this very fascinating. And can really get into it.

[@d.m.mullings7549]

She was not nervous on any of the episodes, I wonder why now? Wonder if its about the medical issues.

[@EricaL2024]

It would’ve been nice if they had watched all of the episodes before asking questions. I understand that everyone doesn’t have the time to watch it all, though. It’s just a pet peeve.

[@MScoachDANI]

I felt the same way while watching the live

[@so.many.obstacles]

Huge pet peeve. I host live webinars and people do this all the time.

[@meelahmak]

Right, and those are the same people saying she’s “long-winded” and they skipped over parts of the story. Asking these dumbass and redundant questions.

[@Laurenasmity]

YES EXACTLY!!

[@StacieGlows]

She was super gracious about those questions. I loved that. I know getting the same questions over and over again is super annoying. Especially when you clearly addressed them already.

[@serenelyfe5]

This story took my entire weekend! No matter what I was doing, I was listening to this story 😂 and I’m not ashamed! I love a great storyteller! I wish her the best and healing 😊.

[@HerAndSome]

Same same same!!

[@albertamathurin7084]

Here to say me too

[@pattysdaughter5639]

Me too and I had a 28 hour shift. The story is so interesting and deep I was hooked!

[@lakaybolden-noble4232]

LoL. Same girl.!! 😂

[@AquariusLoveeeee]

Me too 😐

[@kekef3620]

Unfortunately, as soon as she showed her face, the countdown to his reveal began. I hope she is safe frfr.

[@CaliGirlzDoItBest]

The RING was ONLY $34.99 ???!! Child! Whew, the fact he tried to pretend he got it from a local jeweler SMH!

[@DarthFurie]

My question is how couldn't she tell? Both of my diamond rings came with some type of authentication papers, it's important if you ever want to resell it and to know the value for insurance purposes. No cheap jewelry will shimmer like a diamond anyway

[@iadesigns]

​@DarthFurie like she said multiple times, she was desperate and overlooked things.

[@BeautyNBrains86]

She would've accepted a ring from the bubble gum machine at her level of desperation. She liked the facade of a man trying to take care of her & wife her. I hope she finds healing & learns her worth.

[@LaiLai..]

⁠@@fatonyalmitchell3281it does when he took her to look at rings and told her he would get the exact one she picked out. Let’s not be obtuse when we know this situation was bizarre .

[@LaiLai..]

@@fatonyalmitchell3281it matters when he took her ring browsing and said he would get the exact one she picked out. Let’s not be obtuse when this situation is bizarre. He was a liar.

[@Kinksgalore]

That creator releasing his info really put this woman's life in danger.🤬

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

Thats the narrative, but if he was going to do that, he would have imo.

[@thewrongshoes]

How so? With the TikTok going viral he could have found out he was being talked about regardless

[@katechipata9934]

If anything should happen to her, he will be the number 1 suspect.

[@talkswitTK]

@@LisaSoulLevelHealingexactly. If she was ever in danger she been in it and she put herself there 🤷‍♀️

[@RDCFemmes]

This is how predators and abusers keep on finding new victims because we love to stay silent

[@sheslaughter1]

I went in the dollar tree and the cashier was listening to this.

[@BlkOnyx0508]

😂😂😂😂

[@tae3327]

That’s what’s up 😂😂

[@curls4theworld]

😂😂

[@adventuresofasouthernbelle8989]

I walked into water aerobics and one of the people in there was listening to this

[@SamanthasUniverse]

😭😭

[@samanthalatrucka]

As a long distance truck driver i really appreciate these. Ive been appauled in different states

[@TheBohodiva]

Listen to The Lies He Told Me Next

[@malloryharding882]

@@TheBohodivaoooo ok I will listen too!

[@DeepBreathingMeditation]

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭 this was hilarious

[@MySingleLifeADollShow]

😂😂😂

[@tessa726]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@---mb6xq]

Who was putting the random stickers/filters on her? The sombrero took me out lol.

[@smcathe8754]

😂😂😂

[@so.many.obstacles]

With the mustache 😂

[@---mb6xq]

@@so.many.obstaclesi was trying to be focused but they had me cracking up lol.

[@tammiivibe]

I couldn't focus 😂😂😂😂😂

[@trecyyyyy3691]

The rose like stop this is serious 😩😂

[@iadesigns]

She should've posted on KZbin as well and secured her coins and her story.

[@albertamathurin7084]

Yes but I think she could still make money on tik Tok I hope she can at least

[@iadesigns]

@@albertamathurin7084 Not like KZbin

[@EmyN]

Hopefully she gets her movie deal

[@hellothere8347]

Rightttt I said that as will I wish she did on KZbin tik tok messy asf

[@beattinaleaf7026]

😊😊😮​@@albertamathurin7084

[@TheRealSahLence]

That woman who released that information without so much as a courtesy message was soooo wrong and then the fact that she made so many videos doubling down made her extra wrong.

[@DrTLEvans]

Right! Just doing the damn most. Putting this lady at risk. So careless

[@ProfNDKai]

💯 I hope whatever creator did that learns from this I don’t even care about her trying to double down in this instance in the future I hope miss mama learns to do better

[@thequietstorm12]

Was this on Tik Tok or KZbin?

[@ShixB]

It was on TikTok. He was getting exposed regardless.

[@CaliGirlzDoItBest]

I totally agree! Especially after seeing that he was bold enough to show up at her house after she warned him not to come. Thank God she's moved since. That creator was very insensitive.

[@IndigobluBeauty]

First, this was very COURAGEOUS to put this out for ladies to understand what we can be up against. Second, my takeaway from this and dealing with lying boyfriends in my life is to NOT give men/potential partners attributes they do not deserve, have not earned and to listen to my intuition. Please be safe out here people and love yourself, learn to decenter men, do background checks 💜

[@BeautyNBrains86]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Yasssss!!!!

[@broco6608]

The lessons to me are 1)women need slow way the f down and 2)all the vetting she did at the end of her relationship should have been done at the start - BEFORE sleeping with him, getting pregnant by him, and marrying him.

[@rosajohnson5212]

​@@broco6608Marrying him, is the part, that I'm trying to understand. She said that she was aware of some of his lies, before she married him. Even if you are pregnant, it doesn't make sense to marry the person. I also don't understand, why she took his things, because he paid the bills and why make things more difficult for him? It's obvious that he has a mental problem. Even the police woman pointed that out and she said she didn't care. So, is the problem that he lied, or realization that he was not going to be able to function well enough to maintain taking care of her?🤷

[@j.latrease8471]

​​@@rosajohnson5212 People like you sadden me. Why would she help someone who didn't want help and beyond help. He's been lying since childhood. He signed over the property In the house even though she gave him a chance to get all his things before he left. She didn't want him to have a reason to go back to her house. Lastly, she said that she applied for a better higher paying job so she could afford to live on her own. This woman is not some greedy heartless person. 🙄 Oh and she stated she was desperate to be married so that's why she went forth with the marriage. She took accountability for that.

[@rosajohnson5212]

@@j.latrease8471 Go on and be saddened.

[@Nettamorphosis]

She's spilling her own tea. Her honesty and communication style is refreshing.

[@salutemimi81]

I'm trying to understand why is she being blamed Held responsible Whatever For him being found She's not a celebrity She used aliases Yall just can't mind yall business and enoy the information And even if she did expose him that's her choice But yall had to go find him

[@beauphomasterpiece3795]

She gave enough details to find him though . That’s what happens when things are put out on the internet .

[@flooshoomoo7104]

It’s not her fault but it was a foreseeable risk.

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

He deserves every bit of exposure 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️​@@beauphomasterpiece3795

[@salutemimi81]

@@ot4625 This was weeks ago Shut up

[@Lightreign888]

Due to HIPAA laws she played her cards right. ❤ I was in tears after that final part. 😢Yanie we appreciate your commitment ❤

[@darriahlazard]

HIPAA only pertains to healthcare providers/agencies/facilities or employers. Regular people don’t have anything to do with HIPAA.

[@Lightreign888]

@@darriahlazard good to know I was under the impression it applied to married couples . Thanks !

[@simplymonica6888]

@@darriahlazardI literally came to comment this. Thank you for explaining so perfectly.

[@loumiwaters9050]

People who actually watched everything need to ask the questions because some of these people are asking questions that have already been answered. But some people are asking questions that are clearing things up, which is good! Thanks Yanie for this series ❤! I learned so much

[@PrayerOfMannesah]

Spoiler Alert: Exactly that’s what I said because if they watched the whole thing they would understand where his backstory came from. His backstory is his twin brother’s life.

[@NurseKayP]

Right. Some of the questions are common sense too. Someone asked what happened to the studio apartment? Well he moved in with her and was lying about buying a house so who would keep a whole other apartment. Seems common sense to me.

[@hell2thennnaw]

​@@NurseKayPshe answered a question saying "that actually stopped 3weeks after we got married" do you know what she was referring to? I couldn't see the question. Im curious to know lol

[@kikibridges1564]

@@hell2thennnaw intimacy

[@loumiwaters9050]

@@hell2thennnaw I believe she was referring to them being intimate. I recall her saying that had stopped

[@LoveAP-fk2cl]

Dating in Atlanta is scary. I have a similar story (so similar it is scary), but I caught on a few weeks after we got married and I filed for divorce immediately. Ladies, please conduct online background checks (including local courts) and take things slow.

[@ubiquitousseymone]

I am in Atlanta, as well. I have a similar story. I thought it was him for a sec

[@LoveAP-fk2cl]

@ubiquitousseymone There needs to be a support group for women dating in Atlanta because it is traumatizing, lol!

[@Mizzy4Royality]

Same! It’s bad bad.

[@OneTakeTuber]

Dating in any state is scary.

[@roxcyn]

Did y'all marry the same person? 😮

[@theamonetway9242]

GODS timing is perfect! There was warning before destruction when her tire blew out… the biggest blessing here is that she didn’t have a child by him…. GODS rejection was her protection

[@kayabe856]

Yes, it’s so important not to force things

[@LadyParris]

The tire😢 the miscarriage😢 the female realtor😢 God literally sent intervention 😮

[@hotchipandphilosophy]

The person who asked if BMW had reached out yet 😂

[@---mb6xq]

😂😂😂

[@so.many.obstacles]

😂😂😂 I haven’t gotten to that part yet but that is hilarious!

[@sarahjoe2457]

😂😂😂

[@ajoyner614]

The way I first read it as 'black male worship' and was confused 😂😂😂

[@hotchipandphilosophy]

@@ajoyner614 omg 😭😭

[@susuileamura]

He was clowning the shit out of her feelings

[@tonjamarshall4842]

That's what narcissists do.

[@EricaL2024]

He’s the one that got clowned in the end. He doesn’t have anyone! She has a great support system.

[@idanceforthestars]

@@EricaL2024exactly

[@justinebailey5333]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@SamanthasUniverse]

That's what y'all do!

[@thevelvetjournal]

Someone said Atlanta is Tubi at this point. 😂

[@xrp9889]

😂😂😂😅

[@faithinallthingsw4088]

It's the ratchet transplants here bringing their garbage people here. Born and raised Atlanta folks are genuine.

[@StarsabovetheEmeraldForest]

💯😂😂

[@shesruthless]

😆 🤣 😂 😹 Yes

[@SamanthasUniverse]

💀

[@BreeCrutch]

Baby, I got thru me ENTIRE work shift listening to Teesa!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@cdubya752]

That man is not going to stop, he’s going to keep scamming women. I’m glad his info was released

[@rosajohnson5212]

Why? She even said, herself, that she was aware of enough information before she married him. She knew that he was a liar, but married him because she was pregnant. That would have made it worse!!!

[@bobcat8654]

He didn't get anything so how didn't scam he was a liar

[@rosajohnson5212]

@@bobcat8654 That too! He paid all the bills, so how was he a scammer? You're right!

[@sms07v]

Now I understand she was hurt by the situation and all but this was not a scam. She found stuff out soon enough to leave and didn't. She chose to stay.

[@rosajohnson5212]

@@sms07v I agree.

[@max8038]

Is it me, or did she HINT at "illnesses"... She said the knee was a symptom. She also said "HER HEALTH" is intact, despite needing to lose weight. I am convinced he has a serious diagnosis.

[@MScoachDANI]

SAME

[@longhairgetinthere]

What do you think it is 😮

[@sheenalee7602]

I got that feeling too. He probably was looking for a nurse with a purse.

[@Cchee]

I hear double speak too perhaps this why she attracted him double speak=double life

[@PrayerOfMannesah]

You have to remember he’s a pathological liar so if he has a serious diagnosis just because he said it it doesn’t mean that’s what it is. He’s lied about everything the story of him being a CEO having a house and being married is his twin brothers life watch the whole thing, he has a twin brother that has his life together.

[@nikitamenser5397]

Dang people are mean, this lady wanted to share her story and possibly help someone and help herself to mend and they just kicked the ish out of her mentally

[@malloryharding882]

You are so right. People need to stop . I don’t even understand how anyone could watch her videos and dislike her. She’s so smart and sweet.

[@BeautyNBrains86]

This is so sad. Desperation will make you ignore some crazy things. I'm glad she got out, and God didn't want her to have that baby. She can still live the life she wants.

[@CreateYourBestVersion]

This happens a lot ~ more than you think. He knew the truth would come out eventually. Was his end game all along was to get you to fall deeply in love with him and then financially take care of him? My Sis went through something like this and ended up in the hospital ~ nervous breakdown 😢

[@couleuredgirl6314]

I hope she is okay 😊❤

[@onetiftif8626]

@CreateYourBestVersion, very likely. Narcs are master lovebombers; reel you in then flip the switch for their prey to financially support them,

[@Image8O4]

Yep I believe his end game was to be a bum in her home while she worked and took care of him (let's exclude the knee injury). But some ppl play a long con. They are nice and do things for you in the beginning so that you feel like you owe them something in return. Think tinder swindler. I had a co worker try and get over on me by buying my lunch 3 times (i did not ask, he offered/insisted). Then flipping the script one day and asked me if I can spot him. I immediately knew what this was. So I paid for his lunch that time and the next 2 times he asked. On the 4th I said nope. And left him with his food at the register.

[@come_on_barbie_123]

​@@Image8O4bingo!!!

[@trapnurselife]

Yes my ex husband pulled this

[@itzyzaza1806]

What was the need for someone to actually name him, when she went through the trouble of NOT NAMING HIM? There are a lot of people who look like him, so a pic alone would most likely not have exposed him.

[@milodavis1]

Naming him won’t help if he goes by many names and they did name him. They released all his info

[@Rene-cn4jc]

Honestly, at this point, ppl have to realize that once they start revealing their stories …especially one where there is a ‘villan’ the internet sleuths will start investigating. They don’t think about the repercussions.

[@ShixB]

I mean... Her whole story is about how she had to investigate to figure out who he was on the back end..

[@cece82gemini27]

There was a picture put out, like 3.

[@LaiLai..]

@@Rene-cn4jctrue . Also she was married to him and that’s public records.

[@goldenbuddafly]

This is just an observation, but the fact that the mens sector is eerily quiet regarding her story is very telling. I’m not expect it, but I haven’t heard or seen a peep from them not even to just show up for this woman, unless I just haven’t dug deep enough. I will say ladies expect to see 20+ stories from men with similar stories to hers about what women have done to them. This is not to be divisive, because I know it will be turned that way, but it’s like it’s not even happening on their end. Didn’t even stop their regular programming to acknowledge this, but most of us (minus myself) would have done it for them if the shoe was on the other foot. Again, it’s just an observation…😳

[@ShixB]

Oh, they will pipe up soon. They have the leaders of the brotherhood reviewing the footage & they will soon assemble their talking points.

[@CaliGirlzDoItBest]

This is a really good point.

[@PrayerOfMannesah]

Because that talking point they have that women initiate most of the divorces. The reason why is because this is usually the divorce story maybe not this extreme but they find out that he has another family across town a daughter in another state, Cheats after work, physical abuse, stuff like that a lot of women initiate divorces, because usually, in general, this is what happened.

[@ToniOne03]

@@ShixB😂😂

[@PrayerOfMannesah]

@@ShixByep. manisphere talking points: she should’ve chose better, sex before marriage, she doesn’t have the look for a 7 figure man, she’s looking for attention, : they’ll do anything to not hold him accountable a whole dude with a personality disorder. 😂 don’t take them serious. youtube is their only means of making legal money.

[@---mb6xq]

Yall its been 2 days. I fell asleep listening to this story friday and saturday night. Woke up saturday and sunday listening to more. Took a break for church and now I’m back. Lol did not expect to thoroughly enjoy my weekend like this but I’m here for it! So many lessons and reflections from this story!!

[@rickiesmith413]

I like this woman because we can all relate. Maybe we acted like her (or worse )or know someone like her. She’s helping the masses. Pray for her safety.

[@dominique2o06]

Yanie I'm realizing from the questions and context of questions listening skills by people are gone to 🗑️. Also many comment sections are completely reactional to one piece of info said as they ignore something else she's made clear. I'll prepare myself for more of this as KZbinrs conclude their reactions because if you haven't follow this story closely or taken it in completely you may miss key points yet still feel like giving your 2 cents. If this is just something you barely took in all of the info just hit 👍🏾 and wish her well. 💕

[@PrayerOfMannesah]

Facts 😂🎉

[@Camille4Real]

Reports say that education in the US is at an all-time low, people's attention span is the shortest it's ever been, and I believe it 😩

[@muahchelle21]

Lol even some of these comments... Like are yall watching the same video

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

I’m glad you said something because I am exhausted and then people are giving her a hard time saying omg this story time is so long the woman started off the story in a short 10 minute TikTok video in the first part, and then she went into detail, so if you wanted the synopsis of her story, she gave it in the beginning people don’t pay attention or they just have a short attention span and they’re not comprehending the information they are listening to. It’s crazy because I put the synopsis in the first part of my series on KZbin. That was the introduction to her story that she further went into detail about. 😭

[@Jamerian2010]

Period!!!! Very well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Da-dàdiva]

Girl!! You’ve really done us right by this. Thanks for the promptness and consistency!! ❤❤

[@Andyshotfries]

Legion needed to be exposed. That man is a dangerous weapon. Would you like for your daughter or sister to be tangled with him??? I can't believe people are saying his identity shouldn't be out here. Wow

[@warmspirits4u]

Facts!! He definitely needed to be exposed and others like him. I’ve dealt with 3 different guys over the years with the exact same characteristics and lies it’s scary.

[@bw1615]

The issue is the fact that the person who exposed him didn't make sure she was safe and could handle his identity being released! We can't claim to care for women's safety by directly jeopardizing someone's safety. All she had to do was reach out to her and make sure she was in a position for his identity to be released.

[@Andyshotfries]

@@bw1615 This is a viral story. More and more people are going to be exposing him. Should they all check in with the o p to make sure it's okay? That's not how the internet works.

[@7Mushrooms7]

I have mixed feelings about this. I agree he should be exposed to protect women, but that creator should've given her an heads up because this is a risk for her safety. He might retaliate against her.

[@AdventuresWithV]

He outted himself during her live so he obviously doesnt care that we know. Around 9 minutes into this video you can see him commenting saying she's lying and needs to tell everyone she cheated 😂

[@RestorativeRenaissance]

I’ve been painting my hallway while listening to this. Fascinating. Glad she seems well on the way to healing. The whole thing was crazy yet riveting.

[@---mb6xq]

This is top nominee for story of the year for 2024 😂

[@Ultraa_ray]

Love your @ !!

[@kimclark3569]

Auntie here. I'm happy she learned this lesson at her age. She learned an important lesson at a young age. If something does not feel right, trust THAT voice. Trust it, even if you only have a few data points. Onward. Thanks for sharing.

[@Bluntgirly]

Yesss

[@PettyIsMyMiddleName]

How old is she? She’s not that young.

[@NiciJanee]

The saddest part is coming to the realization that even the happy times were a lie!! I'm sending sooo much love and tight hugs to this beautiful lady. Her demeanor is relatable. I pray she recovers. Ptsd hits hard when the trauma comes from someone who "loves you" smh. I admire her bravery. I believe we all have a story, I'm afraid my ex would send someone to harm me though. He recently went on a viral singles show and showed his whole ass, telling lies, super demonic type behavior. I thank God for never giving up on me. Definitely was a lesson 🙏🏽🙏🏽🫶🏾

[@come_on_barbie_123]

Whatever blogger that exposed the weirdo and didnt consult with HER... thus putting her in possible danger? YUCK! youre that pressed??? Shame on them

[@soybeans8139]

I wish her the best and I hope that she is able to take the time she needs and she’s safe. She’s a wonderful communicator and she seems sincere.

[@deepDarrkdeepDarrk]

⚠️ If NOTHING ELSE> This makes me extra cautious with dudes!

[@SamanthasUniverse]

It SHOULD!

[@torritorrytorre]

I listened to this my entire 16 hr shift last night. Has me captivated! Wow

[@B0bbyLawton]

The emojis while she’s talking 💀

[@so.many.obstacles]

The cowboy hat with the mustache 😂

[@Blaquebarbgamer]

When her eyes turned green like she had super powers was cute 😂.

[@SmallBobby]

was not prepared lol. I'm not really on tiktok like that.

[@tab0108]

Why does tiktok do that?

[@Blaquebarbgamer]

@@tab0108 I was wondering about that too, it was good as hell 💀.

[@paigenicholespeaks6172]

The heart eats lies when it's hungry.

[@curls4theworld]

Phew!! I like this! I stay satiated with God’s truth.

[@alwaysandforeverados1455]

A narcissist will present themselves as the most accomplished person there is, they have a false sense of self. Proclaim to be the smartest person in the room.

[@pennyp630]

Straight to the top of the food chain!😅

[@Myaa1980]

I found this story this morning and spent my entire day watching and listening to it. It's almost 10:30pm and I just finished it. I pray that you find healing because that's the most important thing after a situation like that.

[@ColdDiva]

Just finished swifter/sweeping up all the popcorn that missed my mouth while watching these!😆

[@BlkOnyx0508]

😂😂😂

[@kenya1067]

😂😂

[@dejaedwards6546]

😂😂

[@stillhealing8811]

I think he was going through a narcissistic collapse is the reason that he lost all of that weight.

[@erobinson5942]

Yes that’s exactly it. Once they lose their supply they lose weight like crazy

[@albertamathurin7084]

I think he has AIDS

[@kenya1067]

​@@erobinson5942 ooo 😮 my that sounds absolutely evil. I never heard of that before.

[@softersideofc.c.5655]

Yep, he didn't have no supply

[@rosajohnson5212]

Well, she did say that he was only drinking Gatorade. Anyone would lose weight. I find it interesting that she didn't get angry with the lies, until his knee injury took him down. If he had still been throwing it in the sheets....🤷 IJS

[@Tye_Nicole4880]

Dating is definitely terrifying after dealing with such people. I pray for her healing. GOD is how I got through mentally

[@Cocotikihut]

I love her honesty when someone asked her, "Have you forgiven him?". She said, "No". Str8 like that 😂

[@sheslaughter1]

First Katt Williams now this lady (no disrespect i forgot her name). 2024 the year for calling out liars i guess.

[@arthuryoung9652]

Wow! This is truly a wild story. Considering the circumstances the narrator has done an extraodinary job narrating her life events.

[@a1ntcry1noveru]

The ring was $34.99 ??!! Lmaooo mannnnn that dude was TRIFLING

[@bkgurrll2947]

All I know is if Netflix Don't pick this up Tubi Might!! What a crazy story. Haven't been hooked on a long social media story since "Zola" was on Twitter. Very grateful that she is sharing her story to remind ladies on the red flags to look out for

[@NurseKayP]

Can you imagine one of those funny tubi originals? Some of those movies are wild and the quality is 👎🏼

[@mymysims3767]

Thank you Yanie for covering this! Be the change you want to see is most definitely you! Thank you we love you! Her accountability is on point and to be admired. Her spiritual connection with GOD is personal and I respect it. I can relate on so many levels. May GOD continue to protect her

[@Bree0074]

Okay I gotta say again; I can listen to this lady all day …. Tempted to watch the 50 parts again 😂😂

[@Lastdayone]

He needed to be exposed. I don’t understand why ppl think we owe any abuser or dark energy curtesy by not identifying them🤷🏾‍♀️. Honestly, it’s worse to not name them or put a face. Staying silent keeps you isolated. When you speak up, ppl become invested in your wellbeing. He’d be a fool to even step to her.

[@19babydiva]

He did not need to be exposed cause there are a thousand Legions in this world. She just wanted to caution other women of these types of dudes. You can take the life lessons without having to put a face on that man. And if the lady that exposed him was so concerned about protecting other women she would’ve first contacted this very one who told the story to make sure she is safe before releasing that information. But she didn’t, which leads me to believe she was out for cloud more than doing this with good intentions.

[@NurseKayP]

@@19babydivaI agree. While exposing him may protect other women from him specifically the lesson is in the bigger picture because there are a bunch more men out there like him and we aren’t going to have their pictures or names. And the person who exposed him just wanted to get the scoop. That’s how social media is. Unfortunately, this woman’s safety was not taking into consideration. While I think this woman is probably safe that is not always the case. Some narcs when they get exposed become even more dangerous.

[@EmyN]

Because that puts her in danger

[@Lastdayone]

We can agree to disagree. However, you all wouldn’t be saying this if you found yourself to be a victim of a known abuser: wether that be mentally, physically, or financially. A lot of women do not keep silent out of security, but out of shame & embarrassment. I just can’t stand when ppl aren’t being real. There are women who are in graves today because someone before them didn’t want to name the person. The sad part, these men know this. They operate better when you give them the courtesy of privacy. Furthermore, why would anyone record & publish 50 videos without having the forethought of the public finding him? I understand emotions run high with the Internet but you have to think logically. If I was that frightened of him, there’s no way I would have published those videos without securing my own safety first.

[@user-dq9rr9mv3f]

Damn I remember when I was 18, I met an older Gemini man who bragged about himself all day, drove a porche.. Somethjng about him seemed like a scam.. so I ghosted him:: Plus my aunty told me older men had worms, so yeah that was a no…

[@EbbinAndItFlows]

Yup, them worms’ll do it. I love your auntie so much!! 😂😂😂🪱🪱🪱

[@jassandranolen7140]

Omg lol all black elders had the same lines 😅

[@RealbyCina]

Not worms 🪱 😂😂😂

[@saraliburd7752]

Astrological signs have no bearing on these psychopathic narcissists -they are all signs

[@tessa726]

@@EbbinAndItFlowslmao! I’ve heard that to but I don’t know where the worms are😂😂😂

[@skrlreels2060]

Seriously, the person that asked, “what lead to the desperation?” I’m convinced that person is the same person who is delusional and has done some crazy things that they have not taken accountability for. That question made me mad.

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

😂 we got a lot of perfect Nancys

[@NurseKayP]

She may have been “desperate” and she admitted that, but the man was a first class liar. Some of us operate from a place of thinking people are generally good until they prove you wrong. Personally, it would not even cross my mind that someone would be faking whole conversations because who would do that.

[@rosajohnson5212]

​@@NurseKayPShe was extremely desperate. I'm not placing blame on her, by saying that, because everyone gets lonely, however, even she, admitted that after she found out about his lying issue, she still chose to marry him. Why???

[@SamanthasUniverse]

​@@rosajohnson5212Because society, including other women, pressure women to be married before we have children. At any costs. Or we are shamed incessantly for wanting children and not the man.

[@avalles463]

When we are too licky licky for things, we put ourselves in to dangerous situations. Regardless if it’s relationships, Jobs, or social status…..

[@Bree0074]

This sister needs to get paid every time she opens her mouth. The clarity and pure tone is unmatched !!!

[@ujasirinzuri4400]

My prayer is that she is in psychotherapy. She had some underlying issues of isolation, desperation, and self esteem issues. These men who are up to no good are like a hound dog. They will find you. So, again, praying she continues her healing and counseling for those deep rooted issues. Also, ladies don’t get caught up in love bombing. He has to have other attributes besides money.

[@malloryharding882]

It’s so sad, she is WAY too good for this mess.

[@Betty-rh4te]

He took lying to impress a woman to an extreme. 😮

[@saraliburd7752]

Classic psychopathic narcissistic behavior

[@jenniferbailey5914]

This story is very similar to mine except it took me 15 years to come to my senses. It took me 3 years to leave him and it took a protective order and a ton of court orders to get me my freedom. In the end I went dark and having been living a quiet life far far away from him. I’ve had a stack of counselling to help me heal but I will never ever trust again. Blessings to this lovely women. You are not alone!

[@salutemimi81]

I'm on time for this one I kept checking 😂😂😂 Count Ya days KZbin I'm a little worried tho because people really can't seem to balance boundaries and social media Why would they go find him and post him

[@AshleyMartinez_]

Why they keep asking about his knee 😂😂 who cares he’s probably lying about that too damn

[@tashawndajohnson]

Like really acting/getting himself sick because he didn't have anywhere to go! I mean, look how dedicated he was with the phone calls!🤷🏽‍♀️

[@EmyN]

He lost a lot of a weight though, we wanna know if it’s HIV

[@Bri-nc8yp]

@@EmyNthe way she said “but MY health FINE and it’s not my place to talk about someone else’s” Kinda made it seem like he does have HIV. Joint pain is a symptom

[@mainlevel6572]

I completely understand the handling of her safety, but these type of sociopaths/predators do not deserve anonymity. We keep protecting these abusers. Women need to know about these males that lurk in the darkness, awaiting women like her. THIS IS A CASE STUDY of a certain personality disorder. Women should and need to speak to each other, build community and heal together. She definitely has some faults and deficits that she’ll need to work and I pray for her during this journey. I’m sure she has PTSD from this and I won’t blame her for being a victim to this type of behavior. Most women are susceptible to this behavior bcs these are behaviors that woman don’t normally do. For the most part, it’s not in our wheelhouse. We all need to learn from this. This should have never gotten this far but she ignored herself for the sake and desire to be married.

[@raizzy33]

HOLD UP, the only good memory she had of their marriage is him buying her a Michael Kors purse then after going to the dealership to look at cars? So he didn't have any characteristics such as empathy, understanding, loving, provider, protector, family oriented etc. He didn't pretended to be a man of character just a fake high earning man? This relationship lack depth, both parties married for superficial reasons. Thank God she made it out alive.

[@EricaL2024]

He seemed like a great provider, at one point, but it was fake.

[@PrayerOfMannesah]

I wish you would’ve watched the whole series because she said that she said that she was desperate for a relationship and that she thought it was her turn. That doesn’t negate the fact of the things he did you just watch it and you wait till the end you will know that this isn’t about her he has a personality disorder and let her story show you that if somebody isn’t right for you, you cannot change them and There’s a whole Lotta other lessons in there too but she’s already stated this. She said part of the story makes her look bad because she ignored things. She said this you should watch the whole series.

[@flooshoomoo7104]

The dealership dates she is mentioning as a terrible experience. She says he would build up her hopes and put on a whole ruse just to play with her emotions knowing he had no intention or ability to get her the car

[@raizzy33]

@@PrayerOfMannesah I've watched the whole series. By her body language and the lies that she harbored on were all materialistic. She never once said that she was in love with him due to his character. She kept on emphazing about houses, cars, his fake 237,000 dollar salary as a VP, fake trip to London and Paris etc. All material. She even stated that when he told her about his company car "the $90,000 BMW " that he didn't drive home, that she was jealous due to him knowing that was her dream car and she was stuck driving an Altima. She even said in this video that she didn't love him, she loved the idea he presented, in other words a fantasy luxury life. I'm aware he's a con man but from the looks of it there weren't any substance in their relationship to begin with.

[@PrayerOfMannesah]

@@raizzy33are you serious? she said she was desperate of course now she isn’t going to say she loved him because he didn’t love her she doesn’t just talk about materials she also talks about the miscarriage she wanted the baby. Is that moral enough?

[@Tamereanbee]

He was living in his own fantasy world, that takes energy to pull off, & he was so comfortable with it. Smmfh

[@patriciahercules6852]

He wanted to be his twin.

[@NikeriaRay]

Girl!!! The updates on this story is going CRAZY!!!!!

[@PatriciaTerry-u7m]

I watched the entire video in one day. Outstanding job. Please ignore the ignorance of people giving their opinions, especially since they haven’t watched the entire video. Girl, God has you!! Peace and love to you. This will make a great Life Time movie.

[@MEMYDELG]

I am so sorry you went through this. If my son wasn't dead I would think you were talking about him

[@longhairgetinthere]

😮

[@kenya1067]

I'm so sorry about that.

[@ln8396]

Dang😮

[@idanceforthestars]

THIS IS THE WILDEST SHIT I HEARD THIS YEAR 😮😮😮😮

[@SamanthasUniverse]

Wow. Really?! Black males do this type of stuff to women all the time.

[@TeeaLynn]

It blows my mind the amount of women saying he should have been exposed. And if she didn’t want him being exposed, she should have kept it off the internet. How about sometimes we take a story as what it should be; a cautionary tale. We don’t need to see his face in order to not ignore red flags. We didn’t need to see his face in order to know, we should be running background checks and verify things being told to us. Y’all don’t care about warning other women about this ONE man, when there are thousands more just like him. Y’all just want to be nosey. And truth be told, him being exposed is not going to stop the next woman from falling into his trap. This very courageous woman came on the internet and gave us a lesson to be more careful and to vet these men. Don’t allow desperation to risk your lives. And just because this is social media doesn’t mean we have to lack morality.

[@shavonneross1952]

I how she finds everything she thought she had. Hopefully, she find complete peace.

[@Hismirah]

She will I believe

[@arod191]

An incorrect social is not grounds for an annulment?! That’s crazy! Do better GA

[@twanna9282]

This woman is excellent at telling her story very detailed!! Praying she now feels at peace with telling her story.. sorry this happened to her 😢

[@barbjohnson6268]

This brought back memories of my own ex. Thank you for your honesty. I pray you get all you're hoping for. ❤ 🙏

[@SamanthasUniverse]

32:09 I'm GLAD she addressed the desperation. I think MOST Women want to be married before having kids but there's not enough candidates out there for the job that women can find in time. This is WHY I wish other women and men would stop shaming single mothers like we chose it or like we had all these better options. Shaming women to get married can be dangerous. Women will overlook red flags and jump into anything to not be shamed and it can cost us our lives, money, etc.

[@ChayYP]

I was a licensed Realtor and would NEVER do a showing without some form of approval letter from a lender or proof of funds…people will waste your time and gas… just to window shop.

[@karindavis7809]

This lady is very smart and articulate. I pray that she heal and have a wonderful life.

[@diswatchingnconfused7194]

The wild part is he was covering the rent, they were doing ok with his actual job…she probably would have been ok if he didn’t fake his entire life

[@pureblacbeauty]

Unfortunately it was temp work , remember he was fired, showed fake bank statements. Probably was getting that big check everyone was getting during covid that wasn't working, that would have eventually stopped also.

[@malloryharding882]

Yep!!!! If he had just been kind and taken care of her in the ways that he could, things would have been fine!

[@bobcat8654]

She was too much of a golddigger

[@gorgeousfrazier5903]

She’s saying she’s not infected thank God!

[@bigelowkaryn]

That was so wrong for someone to release his info without her consent, someone could have contributed to her not being safe

[@jalexa76]

I hope she heals and finds happiness. I hope she makes money and gets a book deal and movie from her story. She did a good job keeping it confidential, but the internet is the internet.

[@golden_life0867]

He probably got a ppp loan and was paying the bills with that money, and then when it ran out he couldn’t figure out a new scheme quick enough.

[@albertamathurin7084]

Could be but a lot of the pictures of the accounts that he had were pictures from Google that he was trying to pass off as his own

[@Bri.Ann.]

This was my first thought

[@bobcat8654]

What scheme he didn't get any money from her

[@Godzooky]

I don’t believe she told one lie. I hope she makes a pretty coin from this. I wish her nothing but the best ♥️

[@shanelle_]

Im going to watch this on the stairmaster!😂

[@salutemimi81]

Whew chile Ya legs gon be burning and azz gon be azzin😂😂

[@shanelle_]

That's the plan!😂

[@salutemimi81]

@shanelle_ Go head gurl That summer bawdy😂😂 get it

[@JodyMay05]

2000 calories later 😂

[@rajigreen2475]

Who in God’s name has the creativity, patience, and audacity to contrive entire spoken conversations with themselves? Thank goodness she escaped this situation unscathed (physically). Sending healing vibes her way ❤

[@kiesha1024]

Like you really have to be a special kind of OFF to talk to yourself for MONTHS on end 😂

[@couleuredgirl6314]

A 3x on that knee could have needed knee surgery. Stress from trying to keep up with all these lies. That would take its toll on anybody. He knew the gig was up and had no plan b.

[@TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

😮

[@durhtyred]

Maam i first wanna say thank you for having the courage and bravery of telling your story im sorry that a person with such a good heart was taken on this emotional roller coaster of a ride and i am able to say that because of everything he put you through or you found out about him you still had a level of concern about his health and i totally understand why you didnt give in to it my prayer is that you are able to heal and open your heart and find the true love and respect that you deserve please dont give up on love. You are a beautiful strong intelligent women, hold your head high you are a survivor.

[@amols2169]

the animations on her face while she's talking is killing meeee omg