REASONS WHY FILIPINAS ARE A BETTER DEAL / The Age Gap

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@14kurtismiller]

Interesting.

[@javieritomac]

Very good subject of today pea it really keep me glue the whole video 📸.

[@jayTerry9]

Yep I'm going to share this video to everyone 😄😊

[@criscildano-og4015]

Hi Pea, can you make a video about the mandatory child support in the west while in the east it's not really imposed/forced. How insulting it is for a strong single mom to ask a child support from the biological father of the child.

[@nghtwtchmn129]

Pea, in the interest of what Americans call "full disclosure," you should probably report if you receive any support from dating sites or travel agencies, etc. (Not that's there's anything wrong with that.) And you would not have reveal the exact details.

[@betelcourt]

I met my Malay Wife in Singapore. We were both 19 years old. I knew her for 4 days and on the 5th day I asked her to marry me. We eventually married and we have been married for over 50 years. I would not trade my wife for any western woman.

[@IvanIvanov-vy7pt]

You have no one to compare her to.

[@nilakshandissanayake1379]

Very true 💖

[@BrotherK-ex2co]

You sound happy. You have already achieved what most can't.

[@themiseducationoftheameric7407]

Congratulations sir. And God Bless you both!

[@dohalimilqarasdeldemenanci8483]

@@IvanIvanov-vy7pt pretty much. It is like eating a 1 thing and then tell the world its the best food. I am glad he found a woman for him though.

[@aseasonedveteran5915]

My late Filipina wife of 41 years and I were both in our early 20s when we got married. We grew up together and both put 110 % into making our marriage beautiful through all those years. My wife would always tell her friends that every day was like our honeymoon. And I totally agree.

[@jasonjames4254]

You achieved something extremely rare that most can only dream of! May your golden years be filled with wonderful memories!

[@americansfirst1095]

On demand b js is a plus too. You not fooling us any.

[@WaffleKrushaTTV]

Sorry for your loss

[@hephzbah1130]

I’m sorry you lost your wife after so many years.

[@rafaelcarmany463]

@@americansfirst1095 That was an unnecessary remark. Cruel and Vicious. You don't even know this man or his late wife. You should be ashamed of yourself. You have an Ugly and Black Heart. Yes, "Americans First" - I am an America and I love America and Americans! We are an amazing people. But many of us reach out with strong, kind hands. We don't say harsh, cruel B*ll $h*t.

[@briane173]

I should probably consider myself lucky by this measure, because my Filipina wife was 7 years my _senior._ I was only 21 when she and I got married after 4 months of dating, and every friend and coworker I knew was convinced that I had made the biggest mistake I will ever make. Well -- one should never underestimate the loyalty and old-world values of a Filipina of _any_ age -- because our marriage lasted 42 years, three kids, and five grandkids before she passed away this year. My wife was as strong as they come - in every way. In the province she grew up in, marriage was forever; and she didn't take my commitment lightly. But because I knew her background, how industrious she was, how courageous she was, and how loyal she was, I knew that she would be a wonderful mother to my children -- and even at 21 that meant everything to me. So we married; I didn't regret a single moment in all our 42 years together. And the last five years were the best of all of them. And I miss her terribly. At my age I really have no desire to marry again, and maybe it's just been too soon after losing the love of my life. But if I were ever to want that companionship again, my guess is I'd gravitate toward a Filipina first. BUT -- it would have to be with a better understanding among her family members that hers and my needs and desires come first. She'd have to be well established either financially or in her career choice, but I won't allow her to be exploited, taken advantage of, and taken for granted by her own family members just because they think they've just hit the lottery. There is that tendency among Filipinos and it is perhaps their least appealing virtue.

[@retiredinbali9565]

Sorry for your loss Brian.

[@donaldthomas7753]

Sorry for your loss, Brian. Your wife was an amazing person and I hope you find happiness and peace in your life.

[@selohcin]

Brian, thanks for adding your story here. This is very helpful for us younger men who are trying to find a good-quality woman. I'm honored to hear your story and I hope the happy memories you have with your wife can help ease some of the pain and loneliness.

[@sheilagibson510]

My heart goes out to you.....so sorry for your loss!!! My son is married to a Filipina & yes she has to learn her family here comes 1st! Constantly sending money to the family then berating my son for not making enough to cover all their own bills!!!

[@luckylukekansai9594]

Sorry about your loss Sir. Thank you for sharing. 42 years is one long journey keeping that flame burning and a gift few people get to enjoy. She must have been someone very special. Reaffirming your love after her passing by sharing this with us, a brief snapshot yet leaving us with no doubt that despite the additional challenges an international marriage brings, your dear wife indeed checked all the boxes is a beautiful way of celebrating her life. Be well Sir.

[@JW_Cricbuzz]

Pea, you're 100% correct ! I am a citizen of the USA . I met my gf who is a Filipina 4 yrs ago. Yes, we have met in person. We've traveled all over the Philippines enjoying what I as a "westerner " consider normal, everyday fun. She thought was a luxury. That's what I love about her. The appreciation for simplicity. Sure, like all people, she too has her flaws. But nothing so bad to make me leave,, ever. Women here in the Americas are superficial and materialistic. Greedy and more money-hungrey than any Filipina. The first questions they usually ask when remotely interested are.. * What do you do for a living ? * What kind of car do you drive ? * Do you have your own place ? Answer in a way that doesnt satisfy them to any of those and they quickly make a excuse to leave the conversation and never see you again. Oh, and let's not forget how Anerican women want you to be perfect... * Perfect health, * perfect skin tone * perfect facial appearance. * perfect vocabulary * perfect height * perfect weight , the list is never ending. But like you pointed out, Filipina women only want to be loved.. That as well as your loyalty and for you not to be abusive. Where American women, they are always looking for that " bad boy ". The no joke guy who seriously just got out of prison ( seriously). Then they complain and act like they never expected it when. He gets abusive . Please,, how. Can people be so stupid ?! In short, I'd take an Asian women, specifically a Filipina woman over a " western " woman anyday. But I'd never in a million yrs trade my filipina gf. She may not be the richest etc. But shes the best person I ever met.

[@JW_Cricbuzz]

Pea, thanks for recognizing and " Hearting " My my comment / response. You can see more responses of mine in other videos of yours. However as I mentioned in before, if you wouldn't mind, you can see more of myself as well as my GF if you search " Jey Hey " On youtube. Or you can go to,,, kzbin.info/door/5eW7vPovECaw4O2ClW0eXA . Neither of us are pros when it comes to KZbin. We are still getting the hang of it. It's for her so she can get some extra income . As you know, in the Philippines, that extra 18 USD or 900 PHP can feed someone for a week. So even if that's all she gets in a month, it is HUGE! We would appreciate you or anyone that see's this if you would check out her channel. That way Pea, you can also see who I am, what my personality is like, and also get a better feel for what both me and my Filipina are like and how we relate to each other. I hope see see you there, and I look forward to your next video. Take care, " Ted Archer " ( J W )

[@overbank56]

I love your comment & feedback

[@erikd76]

Your absolutely right

[@johnscomments9854]

I just got back from meeting mine for the first time. When I saw how cheap everything was due to the exchange rate, I wanted to spend like a drunken sailor. She refused, saying don't waste money, even if it's not hers. I am hooked for sure, she is an amazing woman.

[@lincolnschappe9697]

Perfect commentary

[@johnc4757]

This is very perceptive. Thank you for this very accurate and informative video. I'm an American male, approaching my 60th birthday. My first wife was an American woman. I was a virgin when I married her, and I was a devout Christian. I was devoted to her, loved her, cared for her, and got metric tons of anger and hostility from her because I didn't make enough money in her eyes. I did my best as a machinist to provide for her and our son. She turned my son against me after the divorce. Oh, I was 30 when I married her. I am not a player. I have offered kindness, commitment, maturity, and love when trying to court American women. But I was treated like crap, with every American woman I ever dated long term. I don't do the Tinder crap. I have always wanted a lifetime marriage, commitment to one woman, and to be a father. And I finally found a wonderful, mature, kind, strong, sweet, loving, and very devoted Filipina woman for my true love in the Philippines. There is no comparison with Filipina and American women. No comparison whatsoever. We are talking different planets folks. If you are an American male, your chance of finding a quality wife in America is very slim. Go to the Philippines to any city or small town, close your eyes, and point in any direction, and chances are you are pointing at a very high quality woman.

[@OanhSchlesinger]

Oh my goodness! I can tell you have some healing to do. Not all Western women fall into the same category as your ex. Furthermore, I find it hard to believe she is 100% at fault. There are two sides to every story and until I hear it from her I don’t believe you 100 percent. Sorry

[@johnc4757]

@@OanhSchlesinger I have met some exceptional Western women. But there is an undertow in American culture that results in 50% of marriages failing. I never said I was perfect in my marriage. Marriage is a covenant between two imperfect people. But at least I tried, and gave 100% of my heart to my American ex-wife. As an example, I was a healthy guy (and still am), who had spent many years studying nutrition and health related topics before I met her. When my wife was married to me, she ate fruit smoothies, regular meals, but we avoided fast food, etc. But one of the stipulations of staying married to her was that I had to "eat like normal people." She said she would divorce me if I didn't relax my standards. She weighed 140 pounds when married to me, and after the divorce, she blossomed to over 260 pounds by consuming mountains of fast food. She even got our son hooked on fast food and he became very obese. So, no, I am not perfect, but I tried. On our honeymoon, she gave me a list of all the things she hated about me. Yes, you read that right, on our honeymoon. Helluva time to let someone know you hate them. I'm not judging all American women. I am judging the cultural differences between America and the Philippines. They are night and day. By the way, I don't consider Filipina women to be subservient. On the contrary, if I cross my current Filipina fiancé, she'll put the fear of God in me. And that's why I love and cherish her. I might have stated things harshly. Apologies if I offended you. But American culture is on the decline. Americans are getting angrier, more divided, more hostile, and it has become a dysfunctional society as a whole. And marriage and family and not high priorities, generally speaking, in America, whereas in the Philippines, marriage and family is generally everything. When you hurt your own child to spite your ex, that tells you everything you need to know. My son became morbidly obese from being fed a constant stream of fast food. I provided vitamins to my son, and I found out later my ex-wife had hidden the vitamins in her cabinet and had never given the vitamins to my son. What more can I say?

[@econdude3811]

@@OanhSchlesinger I believe John C

[@georgevigil7001]

@@OanhSchlesinger I believe Jon C and by your immediately defensive reply, something hit a nerve.

[@georgevigil7001]

@@econdude3811 Same!

[@sbelanger23]

A little over 24 hours ago I lost my filipina gf to lung cancer, she fought for 11 months non stop even at her last moments she was still fighting, she never smoked, she was an angel. 32 years old she was to young. Been thru so much during those months, did work overtime far away from her to pay her the best health care she can have, her family did not have money to provide for it, couldnt be there by her side and pay the bill that was to much made the choice to give her all chance to live, wish I could share our story one day if I have the strength, want the world to know who my angel was. I feel so much pain, I don’t know how I will be able to make it without her, I keep asking her to help me going thru this, she is the most amazing woman. I got to watch this channel since the day I met her online 2 years ago, I was gathering some information to get to know more about her life there while she was sleeping she was always amazed when she woke up and I knew so much about it. Im from Canada, she is from Cagayan de oro. I miss her so much, I feel so much unbearable pain 😭

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Im so devastated to hear that, Simon! She was way too young 😢😢😢 If I could take some of your pain, I would 🥺

[@sbelanger23]

@@TheFilipinaPea thank you for taking the time to read my message, trying to vent the pain that I am carrying. I'm all by myself going through this. Feels good knowing you actually took the time to read, your channel helped our relationship, I got to know her culture watching your videos every time she went to bed, it was daytime for me.

[@armanifloyd]

I am so sorry for your loss! May God keep you during this time.

[@malcolmbrown5331]

I am so sorry for your loss. 🙏🙏 Last year I Lost my Filipina wife due to multiple medical issues. We were married almost 38 years.

[@FreddieAllan-h3g]

They weave their way into our lives and our hearts .. sorry for your loss mate

[@chaoticdemise4494]

I married a Thai. Still married after 7 years, and trust me, it's beyond amazing than any of my previous girlfriends. I would never pick a girl over my wife, I am hers, and she is mine.

[@JoFa876]

I married a Thai, 9 years ago. Win win!

[@andresdeks]

Happily married to my Filipina wife. She has adapted amazingly to farm life in Tanzania, my only regret is that I did not meet her earlier in my life.

[@rolandet]

'She was never yours, it was just your turn' Very well spoken !

[@ainoskimusic]

1ST time I've ever heard that said by a woman, This lady isn't afraid to speak up.

[@salty_eyez6804]

Tha truth

[@vladimirnicolas4502]

Western life

[@dippin1523]

yup, been there done that.

[@mariesal3558]

My Filipina mom made sure to teach me how to be a lady and be lady-like. I kind of resisted while growing up in the states, I wanted to be like my American friends so much , but thankfully my mom’s teachings and example stuck.

[@mariocomparini3701]

As a Westerner and married to a Filipina, this video was just right.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Mario - glad you concur 👍❤️

[@levytorregrosaoliver6716]

I am a Westerner Filipino, Married to a Filipina.."

[@pumba6099]

She's an oracle of truth this chick

[@maxyl12]

am from south-western filipino married to a south-western filipina

[@shughl1]

This video was nothing short of an UPPERCUT launched by the Filipina Pea. The subtleties, jabs, historical overview and the end cut aways was an absolute hit! I've never seen the other side of the "liberated women" discussion and this shed light on a lot of blind spots that can be had when you fall into polar opposites. Thanks, Pea. Fantastic job! And the sunken chest comment made my stomach hurt when I laughed!

[@paulligatto8476]

Yeah, this video was so strongly against what I hate about American dating that it seemed like a trick. Like, it somehow comes across as video brochure in Total Recall.

[@josephjones836]

Yep

[@caucasianafrican1435]

​@@paulligatto8476Great reference!

[@andrewwatkins1561]

“They’ve been sold a lie…” You’re so honest, and I love that about you! Keep speaking the truth, Pea:-)

[@youngsavagefury7138]

She right so many American women kill themselves in their 30s and later ages

[@gumdeo]

@@youngsavagefury7138 A lifetime of negativity destroys their will to live.

[@defcon1734]

Not really, Western women are more independent and wealthier therefore they can be more picky (although they're not my type). The vast majority of Filipinas who marry foreigners are poor and very simple girls with little education, work experience, travel or knowledge. It's an escape from a life of just sitting at home on their phone doing nothing. Many Filipina women have multiple foreign men on the go but most Western guys I met when I lived in PH were staggeringly naive and believed everything their girlfriend's said.

[@OanhSchlesinger]

@TheOriginalBigShot are you referring to western women? Clearly your choice in women has not been good and your opinion of western women rests solely on your misfortune. I am half Asian and half American. Ironically it was my white father who taught me the value of independence and the right to choose a career path that was closed to women in his era. It is that type of free thinking that shaped me into a strong believer in myself. Call it entitlement or whatever word fits. I just hope that when/if the opportunity comes to mentor someone whether a child or significant other your very narrow belief system doesn’t hold her back from a bright future.

[@OnealEddie]

This woman is Red Pilled! Very wise!

[@catherine8499]

I am a filipina and my bf told me that he's happy with me for i value him and love him unconditionally as compared to his past relationships with western women.

[@lahitman]

Absolutely wonderful

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

There is no comparison. The Western women don't even know what they are competing with. Not to say Filipinas are trouble free, not even close. But still no comparison, even though the wrath of all women can be a terrible thing.

[@nickanderson55]

Thank you as a man appreciate what you do for your boyfriend I hope he marries you I have my own Filipina girlfriend who I’m trying to bring to the states

[@philhigginbotham5706]

I'm convinced too. I have found someone that I want to be with also but getting her here is not easy.

[@theodethomasa6358]

@@nickanderson55 Don't take her to the states unless for a very short visit. Otherwise, she will become Americanised and you will lose her.

[@johnscomments9854]

I am in my mid 50's and just got back from a trip to meet my Filipina for the first time, she is early 40's. You are 100% spot on. The age gap is perfect, I can tell you no one could possibly fake the attraction she has for me. She only got mad once, when she perceived another Filipina to be flirting with me. To an average Joe American it is shocking how "in demand" I am in the Philippines even to woman half my age. I could write a book about my experience, but I'll say it was not just about money for her. Prices were so cheap there compared to my USD I was willing to buy anything, but she refused time and time again. She also never left my side, always wanted to hold my hand, treated me like a king. I did my best to treat her like a king. The only downside is now I am missing her so much, can't wait to go see her again.

[@loncopeland8343]

As an American man, this video illustrates well why more & more of us in this internet age are looking overseas for love.

[@joannasmith1640]

I've got my all seeing eye on you! Lol 😎😀

[@johnp3430]

I have been divorce about13 years or so and i would love to met someone in your country. but don't no where to start . I'm a born again Christian and need to find a caring wife.

[@GenXPerspective]

I don't think I've ever heard a more honest analysis of the relationship dynamic between the sexes. This woman tells it like it is.

[@CarsonBoyd]

As a man who spent much of his career as a professional public speaker and educator, I'm impressed with your ability to distinguish and make cogent points. You helped me to see this topic more clearly and I appreciate that.

[@EienNiKenJa]

I had a Filipina girlfriend before I deployed to Iraq in 2004. She was the best relationship I've ever been in, for the short time we were together. I'm definitely interested in settling down with a new Filipino lady at some point in the future, especially after watching your videos. Modern women and me just don't mix.

[@robdonell9915]

Married 35 years to my Filipina. She’s three years older. God has given us the opportunity to raise two bright kids, their spouses and our grandkids.

[@dragonrln]

You called it exactly right about Feminism robbing women of their core values, and damaging men in the process. Filipinas help to right the balance for men. Hope your Tourism officials open the PI up soon! Thank you!

[@johnmolina3284]

You must be unfamiliar with Camile Paglia.

[@ragheadand420roll]

I will never get a vaccine

[@maxyl12]

whY, your hoping to get a filipina wife?

[@bhing1483]

@@ragheadand420roll its this sort of thinking that keeps covid alive and well.

[@dominicjohnson310]

@@bhing1483 you really believe anything and everything your government/media tells you.

[@nukejr555]

This has nothing to do with Filipinas. This has everything to do with reality. This girl GETS it! I love it when people are not afraid to tell it like it is. Great Job!!!

[@americansfirst1095]

As long as gougle (communist) appoves of it.

[@PeterPeli]

This has everything to do with Filipina women... It's buy a Filipina, about Filipinas...it's Filipino.

[@stevec3892]

@John M2 I just met a Filipina in the US through a friend . All I know is this , she cleans , cooks , affectionate as hell without even asking . Who knows if she cheats when she’s not around me but all I know when she comes over she does everything lol

[@user-lv8cv8sv2f]

It has EVERYTHING to do with Filipinas.

[@user-lv8cv8sv2f]

@John M2 you don't want a city girl, you want a province girl.

[@MsStoryJoy]

As an American woman dating a man for 7 years, I agree with this. I've been trying to master the art of femininity, but because I am still unmarried I feel I am doing something wrong. So each bit of knowledge helps.

[@gregmullins6927]

My advice to you is,appreciate the little things your man gives you,don't take him for granted,treat him well and expect the same in return,surprise him sometimes sexually and non sexual too,walk and talk like a woman, don't try to be like a man and don't put up with too much rubbish from him either,men don't communicate very well so find out things from Google or a male friend when things get confusing.

[@darryldanzinger9996]

Just by you recognizing it is a huge plus for you! If we were a couple I would be happy to help you become more feminine.

[@ronaldfitzsimmons9902]

Simple get rid of Modern Day Feminism and family law courts.

[@JT-cf5ol]

Mark Gungor (Pastor/Comedian) has plenty of advice via youtube videos to assist you.

[@Lync1111]

@@ronaldfitzsimmons9902 I don't think they want to hear what you are saying. What's happened in our country was on purpose and millions of women want it to stay this way. Us men have no choice but to look away from where we are born for true companionship if we are smart. I hear and understand what Story Joy is saying. However do she and others like her understand what's happened to create our divide and willing to reverse it before it's too late.

[@williammiller4464]

I can honestly agree with everything you have said. I have witnessed it with my own eyes. I have many friends who are married to a Pinay. Most are 20-35 years older than their wives. I can honestly say that once some of the culture shock fades .... I have never seen an unhappy man with a pinay. The only down side I have seen is they are still quite young when they lose their mate. I'm closer to the age of most of the wives of my friends. Guess what? They just add you to the family. Here in the US and there. I think that I have 50+ Tita , Tito, Nanay, Lolo , Lola and more kuya and ate than I can count. I keep saying that you don't have Filipino friends. Just a huge family. Just knowing that can bring you happiness beyond your imagination. I go to the Philippines , I have people to see from Cotabato to Tabuk and everywhere in between. For the guys , you are not just getting a lady... You are getting a culture and huge family. Enjoy the blessings brought. Ingat ka and God bless Pea

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much for sharing your story, William! ❤️👍

[@secretagent86]

wonderful comment !! thanks so much

[@stefangeavlete2103]

That's right is true

[@wmjohns881]

@@TheFilipinaPea the reactions I sometimes receive from American white women surprises me whenever I tell them I am not interested and that I am going to find an Asian woman to someday Marry after the Pandemic. Some (including my ex-wife) act offended that I would want an Asian woman and value them over an American woman. In summary it seems like some western women are threatened by Asian women and make sarcastic comments about them and their motives. I don’t blame any Filapina for wanting a western man whom can give them some financial security in addition to a stable relationship. Most western men want a woman whom is loyal and loving. It’s really difficult to find that in American women. All of my Asian experiences have been with Thai women but I am beginning to lean toward full time retirement in Cebo. Pea’s videos are very informative and always have a fun ending. 🙏🏽❤️

[@gregmertz1202]

Great

[@paulstan9828]

“She was never yours, it’s was just your turn.” You are wiser than your years.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’ve heard that so much, I thought I’d add it in there 😂

[@paulstan9828]

@@TheFilipinaPea I’ve found that to be the truth. 😁👍

[@behindthen0thing525]

@@TheFilipinaPea yup

[@dondanana9573]

Red pill talk

[@michealdopemeal9445]

That sounds disgusting. Marrying a virgin is the way to go.

[@denrizza]

My dad told me about a situation where a friend of his married a Filipina woman and as soon as enough time passed she left him. I've been happily married to a Filipina woman for 21 years. So, yes the relationship you establish between each other is important.

[@Stefanburakov]

Nice.. Thats variance, some realstions Hold some dont whatever country she is from.

[@damiens6465]

Thank You for this from the USA! I’m getting my passport- Youre video was Spot On.

[@deepshotone]

A lot of truth in this video. Especially how the government has taken the role of the husband. Spot on! Well done Pea!

[@hephzbah1130]

Thank you so very much for making well thought science based comparisons between western and Philippine culture. I left US women alone two years back, I married a woman from Ghana. I’m very very happy now. Eastern attitudes prevail in Ghana too. Again I love your comparison. Thanks so much😊

[@Nghilifa]

Good choice my elder! I must say though, even in Africa, western culture is much more pervasive now, so women in their early-mid 20s, especially those who live in cities and thus have access to social media and the likes are much more similar to "western women", at least in some instances.

[@CV-br1eu]

Its nice to see that there are still cultures of sanity around the globe.

[@CoolGent87]

Amen to that

[@radrook2153]

Yep! Sanity is exactly what certain women don't have.

[@the-based-jew6872]

Clearly you havn't heard of the npa communists recruiting and brainwashing children In the phillipines.

[@GeistInTheMachine]

Thank you for giving me hope for actually finding love after a broken heart! My last ex (Western) was awful. I would love to date an Eastern woman with more traditional values.

[@johnc4757]

Trust me my friend, you will make the best choice of your life if you find a sweet Filipina woman to marry. I have been to the Philippines. The Filipina Pea is not exaggerating. She speaks the truth. Filipina women are gentle, strong, beautiful, loving, and kind.

[@johnscomments9854]

All I can say is go where you are appreciated. It really is that simple.

[@Strider311]

If only I had heard this 8 years ago. I need a beautiful Filipina to save me from my terrible marriage. Everything she said is true.

[@lourdes86179]

My hubby escaped when he divorced his American wife..at first he was sad but when we meet he is happy we been together for 8 yrs here in the US we jyst got narried last year. We both live in Georgia.

[@johnscomments9854]

Life is too short to stay in a bad marriage. I know you will possibly think you can't afford a divorce, what you really can't afford is a unhappy life. Just wrapped up my divorce and met my beautiful, kind, and loving Filipina last week in Palawan. I have never felt so optimistic about life. Wishing you all the best

[@inlovewiththailand]

This video should be an advertisement for a relationship agency. Wow, you're blunt and so straight to the point and correct on every single point. I loved it.

[@choopes]

This by far the best Filipino Pea video to date. Take it from an American happily married to a Filipino for over 27 years. You hit the nail on the head, driving the point home perfectly. Your words flow quite eloquently, saying many things I have thought but could not put into words. You speak the truth. Keep up your good work. Thank you.

[@swayp5715]

So refreshing to hear the truth. "They have been sold a lie" You are a treasure Pea. All so spot on 👌

[@timorhydrogenwilliams2730]

Damn pea you hit the nail on the head with one shot I'm going to start calling you professor pea and you graduated from the University of Truth bomb man I love this girl 😊😊😊😊

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, and yes I’m a graduate of UTB 👍😂

[@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement]

@@TheFilipinaPea Graduate of humanity you mean :O

[@SuperVictorEE]

Professor Sweet Pea.

[@SteamAllchill]

@@TheFilipinaPea the most passionate women

[@woodspirit98]

I like the way that sounds. Professor Pea.

[@francisterloo9148]

After some dissapointments with Western women I married a Filipina from the provence 35 years ago and I didn't regret it for one single day although at the time friends and family thought I was getting crazy. We are still happy together after all those years although we are different in many ways. I hope we' still have a lot of years together and like in the video we are indeed with a 10 year gap. I could not ask for more in a relationship and I always consider myself very lucky. Respect and love for each other has always been our priority. Thanks for the video.

[@AlizeeDefan]

My favorite video yet I watch it at least five times to bring up my self-esteem and deflated ego to water Western woman just a bit. Thank you Miss pea for letting Western men it's not really them it's her! It's worth the trip to the Philippines to regain our manhood again

[@vyan7258]

actually, it's not her, its you.

[@volkusa5808]

@@vyan7258 in

[@thomasbaird4200]

Brother, it's difficult as a white man in the usa. Were hated by some minorities and the left wing party which instigates hate towards white men. White men are portrayed in a bad light here in US. That should not change a damn thing about who you know you are. If you have morals, values, and a principled man you are weight in gold to many Asian women. The white woman neither likes or supports in any meaningful way the white man. I never found the white women attractive in a meaningful way. I always loved women of color since I was a teen and specifically Asian women from the Islands. Happily married one 20 years ago with a wonderful son. "Yelow or brown fever?" You are damn right!

[@jennivelez7777]

Does seeing Western women being favored negatively BOOST your self-esteem?😰

[@jennivelez7777]

@@thomasbaird4200 A LOT to unpack here, but I am sure you're a great person. Leftists point out what is racism and White Privilege in America. Don't paint us so negatively. Hey, all my exes live in Texas, hint-hint.😀 Glad you found happiness.🙏

[@nursesteve2004]

everybody I know that has met and married a Filipina has never regretted it. Having spent a month on the PI years ago when I was a young, wild, and naive soldier stationed in Okinawa, I wish now I had tried a little harder when I had a chance to meet and interact with the Filipina women I met there. But I was really shy, virginal, and still unsure of what I really wanted and expected from a woman with whom I would want to spend the rest of my life with.

[@stoneagedjp]

I have to make two comments: 1. Holy crap! If any western women watched this, you've made enemies of at least half of them. Very good 👍 2. You did not use the word "love" even once. Also very good 👍

[@jasonbourne1596]

Of course, because they don't like the truth, but if they want it, then this would be a good video to find it on.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Stone! I promised to leave the mushy stuff out of it 😂

[@ryanjones7543]

@the phoenix reborn those people treat women like crap anywhere they are.

[@dovoso5685]

@@TheFilipinaPea Pea, mushy is one thing, but years ago there was a famous saying in the USSR = Love is a capitalist scam to get free sex.

[@ohboynothimagain]

@the phoenix reborn That because These American men are seeing them as sex symbols and not loyal and heartfelt that what happens when you dont do your research

[@10MinutestoRouletteFortune]

As a psychologist, CONGRATS..........this is the best run down I have ever heard on relationships. Very Well done!!!!! You are very wise and well written.

[@JT-cf5ol]

yup, women want money, men want intimacy .

[@Sakhara256]

Truth. This is a wise young woman. I've watched several of her videos and I've learned quite a bit. Her videos have given me insight that I didn't see coming. I never thought I'd want to go to the Philippines, but she's made some compelling cases.

[@joesixpack4673]

You're the best, no BS nor sugar coating, just facts. Thank you ma'am !

[@nazmoking3171]

Wow, does she really understand the motivations and mindsets of the men and women in this video. Very enlightening and sums things up very accurately in my book. I think she's right on almost every count here. Good for Western men to hear and understand this.

[@johnscomments9854]

I just met my Filipina in person, she is amazing. One thing that worries me confirmed by this video. In the USA I am just an average Joe, but in the Philippines I am a "hot ticket". I of course like this, not that I am not happy with my girl, but it's a good feeling. If I bring her here, the tides turn. She will be the hot ticket and revert back to average Joe status. It's going to take a long time to build trust to overcome this for me to bring her here. For now, I just enjoy the day and plan my next trip to see her.

[@time4jesus]

As a gu from a first world country, if you're gonna marry a woman from another, less affluent country such as the Philippines, you're much better off going to her country than bringing her to yours. Get to know the culture and values as well as her and her family personally. Family is of great importance to these women. You're not just marrying her, you're marrying into her family. By going there, you are able to prove yourself in her environment. And if things don't work out, you can always go home. But if they do work out (and I hope they do!) you'll have the time of your life.

[@antidoteforlife9460]

This is true I spent a year living with my girls parents and that's exactly how you prove yourself, plus willing to learn different language and culture is like you said a perk

[@josephkeleher8488]

You really make me laugh! My last girlfriend was a Filipina and, while our relationship ended, I can say from experience your comments are especially "spot on". Thanks for sharing and helping those curious about The Philippines, your culture, and the sometimes crazy-mixed-up pursuit of international relationships.

[@ht3oldnavy]

love the truth bombs, we need more of them they really hit close to home and reality. When I was younger my father used to say " a womans enemy is another woman, a womans worse enemy is a younger woman". I never thought about the part that everyday lots of young girls turn 18 and officially become competition.

[@GabrielGarcia-bd4bf]

You are spot on! I would never imagine to actually find a girl talking about this. You gave me hope, lately I am so depressed because of what is going here in Quebec (Canada) that I thought I would never even have kids or a wife. Long-term dating and values in relationships are dead over here in the West. But, after seeing this video I have a new objective : making money, finishing my degree and going to live in the Philippines, you are so right and very very smart over there !

[@MakaiIELTS]

I hope you find a good woman. Good luck and just hang on there.

[@rlong967]

Gabriel, you are NOT alone! Many of us are experiencing this along with you!

[@paulligatto8476]

So you are saying Canada dating sucks like American dating?

[@raphaeldias5502]

Hard too see an articulated video like this. This channel will blow eventually. Good work and all the best!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well I’m still waiting for it ……. 😂 Thanks 👍

[@dkdisme]

Pea....such insight and wisdom in a young woman! And what a sales pitch! You have built an indisputable case.

[@david8905]

I have listened to dozens of your videos over the past year and I think this is your best one yet; a philosophy and tradition of value.

[@brandonvirgin2799]

I have been highly considering going to the Philippines to find a wife. And I’ve heard it’s a very beautiful country. Thank you Pea! You are very beautiful!❤️

[@onestep4ward1965]

do your research before you go , advice find one that has never been married before as there is no divorce in the Philippines only annulment and that process could take up to 10 years and a whole lot of $$$$$

[@jasonjames4254]

@@onestep4ward1965 Sagely advice Sir!

[@defcon1734]

@@onestep4ward1965 Of greater concern should be finding out whether she's hiding kids in the province which so many of them are haha.

[@williamonderlinde5068]

@@defcon1734 So true. In my younger wild days, I was stationed there. I "Dated" a girl/woman who as in Angeles City, right outside Clark AB. Of the three girls I either seriously dated or lived with, she was the best all around; esp. being kind, sweet & nice personality. I could have married her--YES she had at least one kid back in the province/boonies, and she did tell me so. Not even sure now what/if the husband status was. Next thing I know she's gone back home; just earning some coin I guess. I don't miss her, just a fond memory, that's all.

[@onestep4ward1965]

@@defcon1734 yes that too .good point !

[@reviewswithdouglas]

I've had many relationships with westerner women. Been married twice and divorced twice and all of the women I've been with only wanted me for what I had in the bank account then when that started to run thin they would cheat on me with another man. I'm excited about my relationship with my Filipina girlfriend who is 11 years younger than me and I already love her with everything I am

[@aaron3009]

Whoa... slow your roll player 😂

[@georgetompkins4561]

Been there, done that, so true!!

[@reviewswithdouglas]

@the phoenix reborn I met my Filipina on Facebook in a group called Filipinas looking for Foreigners

[@mattivirta]

true have philly woman can wait 10 year and live together whit you but someday if you has forget you bank account,car,house papers open at home woman take all sell all and go far and fast. newer not again see this woman. thats have true 99% all philippines womans can do you.

[@marcelleorton95]

That's a shame you picked the wrong women. I guess I picked the wrong man. I could say the same thing. Mine went and found a new widow to live with once my money was gone. I'm beginning to think the problem might be, men think that women only want money so they wave it in front of their faces to impress them. Once that's accomplished they want to believe in their minds that the woman really loved them but in reality the relationship was based on what you waved in her face. Just like most Filipina's. They are impressed and infatuated with what you have to offer. You need to present yourself not what you have to offer financially. You'll know if she's for real or not.

[@michaelschaffer9165]

I've been watching and listening and evaluating your videos for a few months now. I've decided you're a pretty smart cookie Pea.

[@Scruffers2011]

I've been married to my Filipina wife for 15 years. I met her when she was 18 (I was 35 at the time). She's an amazing wife, companion and mother of our children, willing to go to hell and back as long as she is at my side. After 15 years, we still hold hands everywhere and enjoy having a good laugh. We look forward to having more adventures in life together.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Best of luck to you both 👍❤️

[@AdekunleLawal]

Beautiful. Wish you all the best. ❤️❤️❤️

[@arkhsm]

Same here, I found my Rosey in Mindanao, and her family are all good; that she so adores her simple honest parents, is a thing of beauty !!

[@nevionnejoseph4156]

@@TheFilipinaPea where can get a woman like this lol

[@ianharman9499]

Me also

[@georgehopkins6342]

Wow, mind… officially…blown ! I fell in love with the Philippines when I was there 40 years ago. After two marriages with American women I now know what I was missing. This video was an epiphany. I have a better understanding about what I “felt” to be true but never had it put into such succinct context. Well done! 👏maraming salamat po, Ate !

[@frankmosses9121]

You just described my marriage. I toughed it out for 33 years but I finally figured out that life is too short to stay in a bad marriage. So now I am single and while very late in the game I ain't dead yet. As soon as the Philippines open up I'm on my way! Just won't take the jab, I think it will happen.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

33 years? I’m so sorry …… 😔

[@ariefraiser140]

No jab no entry. And I don't blame a poor country like the Philippines either. They literally can't afford to have unvaccinated foreigners coming in while they're trying to fight this virus. Your choice I gues.

[@frankmosses9121]

I was at first staying for the kids then it was just because I was a coward, after my brother had a heart attack I decided I didn't want to be miserable any more and die next to a woman that didn't even like me anymore. So I jumped, leaving behind too much and loosing more but now I'm free to try and make a new life. Please open the Philippines with out the jab and I'll be there, probably for life

[@kevxsi16v]

@@ariefraiser140 you may wanna put a chemical in your body but it should be individual choice unless your a commie. As long as you have negative test I don’t see the issue.

[@patrickexiler9255]

@@kevxsi16v of course it is your individual choice to take or not take the jab. But then it's also the individual choice of the Philippines to not let you into the country. It's not a colony, it's a sovereign nation.

[@aquarianfirehorse667]

So far, this is the best video content Ive ever watch

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, Fire Horse! I hope you like my other content as well 👍❤️

[@kennithburger7037]

I personally will never date an American woman again. They put the man below them and treat them bad in many ways. I don't think they realize just how bad they even are. I look forward to going to your country as soon as possible. Thanks for the show Pea.

[@turhanf]

hi kennith women are the same here in the uk . they treat men as if they are an inconvenient stepping stone. they use the sexual discrimination card when ever they are not getting what they want. they also promote the attitude that they are owed everything in life. sorry The Pea’s video is so on the mark. just in tune with your comment. it’s a shame good guys pay.

[@mikeburns6603]

You won't regret going there. I went there for 6 months and loved it.

[@marcusc1512]

Facts

[@daveduffy2292]

It’s not only in the USA brother. Well said

[@namvet1968]

@@mikeburns6603 May I ask where you lived? Did you rent a house or condo? Retired recently and thinking about moving to Cebu.

[@rickhilton2447]

That’s what happen to me after 26 years of marriage . Headed to Cebu when it opens.

[@gregd.88]

I was married to a Filipina for 30 years untill she passed last year. She was awesome. Her values and the way she saw the world was far diffrent from the way I saw the world. She taught me so much. Would I do it again? Only if Miss Pea was an option! ; )

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s so sweet of you to think of her in that way, Gregg ❤️

[@fretworkband3204]

I understand your position. I lost my first wife (Filipina) 5 years ago to cancer. I still miss her but realized that time waits for no man. So I began to seek companionship in PI after giving myself time to grieve. Luckily I found a woman 8 years my junior. She has truly been a blessing. And I never considered a western woman when I began to date again. I wish you well.

[@mattivirta]

normal philippines have sweet and marry and wait when have possiple scam men all money, i know many phiully whore who marry foreign and live together many many year but not true happy only fake, and when husband make fail, mean forget bank book, and credit cards and car papers etc, open in house philly whotre take all and sell and go fast and far thief all men money and broken men life. i know some thief who has sell husband house too and card, thief all bank account money and fly back philly and newer not can found she again.thats made many many philly normal, 100% all phillys do thats if can do, marry 7 year or one men i know marry 20 year but first time forget bank book and papers open and go out wife take all and sell and fly out usa.

[@272global]

My Filipina Girl Friend and I have been together for over 8 years. OMG Everything has been so beautiful . The only reason we are not married yet is because of U.S & Philippines Immigration. We Have been in the process for 2 years now COVD did not help the situation. I always say we should have completed our marriage papers in South Korea in 2017 when we were there. Overall Pea You hit the NAIL ON THE HEAD. You keep up the wonderful work You are doing. Your information you provide is priceless and so valuable.

[@myendlesslove5120]

Any update?

[@robertward503]

You hit the nail on its head. I was married 20 yrs and was a good provider, husband, and father willing to work through the hard times, but it wasn't enough. Now I'm 52 and don't feel that I want to risk loving another western women. It seems even Filipinas in the west can be quite the same as other western women once hear too long, but Filipinas still in their country can be the best kind of woman a man could ever meet. A true blessing, a start to being a better man, because of what they bring to the table. I have real experience getting to know them and what I always wanted in relationships with a woman, I can find in a good Filipino woman. They are both strong and loving, smart and humble. When I marry again, it could very likely be to a wonderful Filipina.

[@bilalmega3349]

She definitely did her homework on this one.

[@andrewbrennan4311]

Funny, cutting, but lots of truth there Pea You nailed it a lot. Value in a relationship is a way I never looked at before. I still think some elements of loving a person are being contented with each other. Growing old together and loving each other more each day. Committment. My filipina taught me what love really is and while sex is maybe a common thing in the west, I think men are coming for some appreciation. So, yeah, I guess that makes you even more right

[@Foreigner_2024]

I have struck up an online friendship with a much younger Filipina, and you have given me hope that it can work. Thank you

[@zacstephens8106]

It has been a very very long time since a seen a video of a girl caring about men in anyway at all. This video is a gold mine and makes me still believe their are women out there that still think about more than themselves. Filipinas ang maganda! 😍

[@alanwall961]

Had a friend who went to the Philippines for a holiday, loved it that much he sold his business and moved there

[@jeffsan2321]

I married a Filipina 3 years ago and that was the best decision i ever made!!! #thankgodforflipinas

[@gumdeo]

Good for you, sir.

[@davidmatthews7288]

Filipino women, are the BEST!!

[@heartbroken715]

How long did it take ? How much did it cost ? Im still saving fer one :(

[@craigsmith2755]

@@heartbroken715 Do not buy and import one. Go over there yourself and watch your value rise.

[@blackspitit]

Do you live with her in the Philippines or in the west? I have heard that if you bring them to the west they change as they don't need you to provide security for her any more?

[@kennethfranco778]

I love your educational and well thought out videos. Unlike many KZbin videos that I have seen, your presentations are well reasoned, logical and precisely articulated. Great job!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

THANKS, Kenneth ❤️❤️👍

[@tommygunn1671]

Her:I'm not gonna sing the praises of Filipinas Also her: Spends 15 min explaining why Filipinas are better in every way.

[@ralphstewart4025]

Wow, Pea, the first five minutes of this presentation is spot on, "The World According to Pea". You are such an awesome sociologist. I'm your biggest fan. Lets see what else you have to say in the rest of this vlog, "finish me, Pea".

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha Well Ron, the last time I got that request, I think it had a different meaning 😂

[@ralphstewart4025]

@@TheFilipinaPea Ralph, not Ron. Freudian Slip? lol

[@eelenavarguss]

@@TheFilipinaPea Isn't it rare for a Filipina to have a "dirty" mind like....

[@BenjaminGib]

@@TheFilipinaPea 😹😹😂😂😂❤️

[@MrWaterbugdesign]

When a relationship becomes living together it's much more a business relationship than romantic. You want a good business partner.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Absolutely! 👍

[@michaelsears5016]

yeah, I kinda like a business partner that cares about the business and wants to make sure it doesn't fail. Unlike greedy partners in the west that just want 1/2.

[@twalker8020]

This sounds like advice for selfish and tight self seeking individuals.

[@petertherock7340]

I must agree with you 100%. I am an older American man who is married to a younger Filipina woman for three years now. We are a 'blended family." We are blessed with three children so far. My wife and I were married in the Philippines, in the Catholic Church with a priest who officiated our sacramental wedding. We were married in the presence of my wife's entire family in a crowded church years ago. It is my goal to retire in the Philippines with my wife one day once our kids are raised and educated here in the USA. Marriage to a woman from the Philippines (regardless of her age) is about having a "family." Period. If you decide to do it right, get married in the Church. You won't regret the extra expense and trouble later. Salamat!

[@Stefanburakov]

Nice to hear.. think its a Good idea leave US.

[@jennivelez7777]

1. Once kids are raised and educated here in the states? *What national values do you think they'll learn but American ways of thinking?😳 2. Get married in a church. * Was someone not worth her dowry? IOW, in "The Philippines" were you too cheap to live up to the dowry most families there still demand for their girls?😏

[@the-based-jew6872]

@@jennivelez7777 you sound like a bitter western. Based on your comments here today. You are right about the eduction in the usa, it's a cwncer for young minds to grow up on that tripe. Oh and Dowry is more of a Indian than Filipino thing.

[@seraphthegatekeeper]

@@jennivelez7777 1. Homeschooling and being involved in expat Filpino communities can help inoculate against some of the worst excesses of American culture. 2. What does a dowry have to do with this? You're just pissed off at a stranger on the internet.

[@jeremywheeler8417]

"Filipinas know that their youth is fleeting".... But you ladies seem to look great well into old age. Are you sure you're only 30? Because your wisdom goes well beyond your years. Do you feel that your opportunities to live in the west have changed you much? Thanks for another great video

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Jeremy, and my exposure to the west has changed me profoundly, yes 👍

[@Mottleydude1]

Dude…Filipinas follow the international law of female aging. They stop having birthdays at 29. ;-)

[@schneider9615]

@Mike Tummon bingo 🤙🏾

[@AdekunleLawal]

You’re very articulate. All you’ve said is so true. Relationship is all about fulfilling needs. And sad to say but marriage in the west is no longer what it used to be. Even as a younger man i really appreciate the values of Filipinas and see them as potentially better wives. ❤️❤️❤️

[@briane173]

No question. I'm not even sure why most Westerners bother with marriage if they're going to be so cavalier with the vows they took that they'd break them for the most transient reasons. It's quite apparent that the focus is on _their_ needs and not their partner's, which is the one thing that defines what love _isn't._ My Filipina wife was raised by strict parents with old-world conservative values where it concerned marriage and family, and so I knew from the outset that she would be a superb mother to my children -- and she was, along with being a very loyal and devoted partner and companion to me. God graced me beyond measure and it was the best decision I've ever made in my life.

[@OanhSchlesinger]

@@briane173 I agree with most of what you said. Putting all western females in the same category is not being fair. I am guilty of doing the same thing on occasion and need to remind myself that it’s not right. There are good respectable Christian women in the US that probably won’t be in a bar or on a dating app. Looking in the right place and finding the right one takes time. Can I ask where / how did you find the one you married?

[@guyandre4946]

Companionship and value, you nailed it again Pea! 😊 and yes, not only a Filipina makes sense, but also She is by far the only best ever wife a man can wish for 🥰 ! And so incredibly beautiful 😻 You have demonstrated those so obvious facts with realism and witticism, as per usual , thank you so much dear Pea ☺️ I can’t wait 😍

[@guyandre4946]

😘 Thank you Pea

[@jazzdemblues]

Some fairly profound observations Pea! An excellent assessment of some of the dynamics of Filipina/foreigner relationships!

[@maxhammertruth]

Western women are unbearably ENTITLED, my Filipina wife is so Golden Hearted. What a Prize!

[@davidmatthews7288]

Sexual market is only when a woman is young value!!

[@israelkanz]

i agree

[@richardtuffnell9886]

Married a filipina, one of the best decisions ive ever made. Willing to meet you halfway in a relationship.

[@faranger]

@@richardtuffnell9886 My wife never listened to a damn thing I told her about. Building credit nope she decided that getting 4 credit cards and maxing them out was great. Until we went to get our , my house. I bought the house for $170,000.00 NO money down with pristine credit because I am a dumbass and don't know what I am talking about. I tried to get her to take one hour off to sign the paperwork on her car NOPE well now the loan and the car are in my name. She pays the loan.

[@wunlymshim7768]

unbearably!!

[@bryanhaysom5026]

The cat bit at the end is the most accurate representation of the women in America. I don't want to hate on them but I've seen it from start to finish in my short 35 years on this planet. Now that I sound like an alien, I'm going to bow out of this discussion. Keep being real. It's very attractive and you know how to hold an audience.

[@mrjohnklake]

I like how you approach the topics with rationality and logic. I have had many broken relationships. Thankfully I am attached to a Filipina who is thankful for my presence. You have given me many things to think about in this relationship.

[@liscohallmon647]

This is an excellent video and that is a beautiful waterfall in the background.

[@dr1742]

I don't think I've seen a more accurate assessment and effective sales pitch as this in some time. Also, I obviously agree and may need to consider moving to the Philippines for a better life and a worthwhile relationship since everything here in the U.S. is going cuckoo. I have very little hope for great, stable, reciprocal relationships with a female unafflicted by psychological disorders and overcome with pride here.

[@LuisDiaz-ep4kh]

"Companionship" what a concept! Thank you Pea, you are right and beatiful... as always!!!

[@markmedeiros6584]

Very well said . I lived much of what she said at the beginning with my wife who left me after 30 years of marriage. I vowed I’d never marry again but must admit if I found a God fearing Filipino gal I would consider it again. I actually know a Filipino gal who is interested in me . Trust is the big issue for me.

[@robertm.9633]

Mark, sorry to hear that brother. Most Filipinas are God fearing, so you’re good there. Get to know her and see where it goes. I married a Filipina. Best. Decision. Ever.

[@uglycasanova4240]

After 22 years I'm a scared man. I was so loyal I would never give another any attention which made me seem odd.. Now after she left, I feel like I'm cheating when I try to now..ugh

[@ImCopperBear]

I’m in the same position. I’ve been talking to a Filipina lady for a couple of years. She got a work visa and is on her way here soon. I have major trust issues because of my ex. It seems too good to be true that a woman half my age is interested in me. We’ll see how it goes when she gets here.

[@davidberenblit4338]

@@uglycasanova4240 I know the feeling! Been there done that! Married to a Filipina on the 16th 🎉and it’s like inner peace has finally found me. Now it’s up to immigration and time. Good luck! Go get one!

[@johnscomments9854]

@@ImCopperBear I just met my Filipina in person, she is 40 me 54. I was skeptical as well. How can this younger beautiful and fit woman really find me so attractive as she claims? All I can tell you is if she is faking it, she blows Meryl Streep away as an actress and performs 24/7. She always showed me affection, always wanted to hold my hand, looked at me longingly all the time. Commented on my eyes, hair, nose and Western features. She was particular fascinated by my nose and eyes. I would literally wake up with her staring at me, she would look at me while I am sleeping. If she is faking it for money, she is the best in the world.

[@twotallz144]

Thank you Love! I can't wait to visit your country and I really do hope that finding true love has not gone by the wayside.

[@rdland2985]

Another perfect video! It is like you have your finger on the pulse of folks and what information they are looking for with no pulled punches! Thank you Pea!

[@Ddog785]

wow Pea you are amazing !! You hit so many good points and are right on target !!!! :) :) In the west for many of the reasons you mentioned marriage has been the lowest now in recorded history because at this point the way the laws are, marriage benefits a man in no way. 50 percent plus divorce rate, 80 percent of the time the women files and wins cash and prizes. I myself have stayed single and would only consider marrying a fiipina for the values you have in the east.

[@liquidlightsurfer]

You’re brilliant Pea. I really appreciate how you unpacked this. It is natural.

[@justingoodnow851]

Amazing as always

[@joebyrdmusic]

Wow, finally hearing it straight from a grounded woman!

[@johngalt6708]

I totally agree with everything you’ve said - with one vital warning. As wonderful as that Filipina is in her country, when you take back to yours, you run a very high risk of her becoming corrupted by western “values” and treating you no differently to all those women you vowed you would always avoid. A good one is a blessing, a bad one a curse, wherever they’ve come from.

[@bobbruce4135]

Truth at 13:48 It's because in the PH the man can just walk away with no financial consequences. They marry foreigners for a better life, not love. Peace.

[@davidsiemer7578]

Good commentary Filipina Pea; you are well aware and have practical advice. Yes my wife and I are 19 years apart and we are happy & compatible together. Our foundation is God’s Word so everything else in life follows with that priority 1st

[@rivb2314]

Hello, I am very happy for you. I am a woman of mixed race. My mom is Pinay and my dad was in Irish immigrant to the US. There's a 19 yr age gap between them. They've been together for 50 years. Dad is now 88 and mom is 69. If you ever watch Everybody Loves Raymond they are like Frank and Marie 🤗🤣🤣🤣🤣 Drives me nuts but they love each other. Many many blessings and happy years to come to you and your wife 🙏

[@daveriley6310]

If ever there has been someone who deserves their success, Pea, it is you. As many of your videos as I have watched, one might expect that I would be tired of them by now. But no, the opposite is the case. The combination of wisdom that you dispense, thoughtful advice you give and incisive humor that is directly aimed at educated Westerners, is simply amazing. Your pirate skit was priceless. I don't know if you intended it, but at the 1.25X speed that I listen to your videos, it appears to be a dead-on impression of Bush Barbie right down to the gestures and rhythm of the speech.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well thanks for that, Dave! That’s very kind of you to say 😊

[@ivankamau2846]

Wow!!! I have never heard things explained this way. I've had 3 relationships...2 African-American, and 1 German- American. But I've always felt a strong attraction to Asian women and especially Filipina women. I'm older now and after these failed relationships, I just want a good, loyal woman that wants to be with a good, handsome, romantic, protector like me. Thank you so much, and I look forward to seeing your upcoming videos!

[@mrwalle4u]

Values and integrity are the foundation of a positive growth - Good Video

[@nullpointer6792]

As a HENRY, my biggest fear is that I would prefer to bring her back. While I am on path to retire early, I do want a family sooner rather than later. You always have me on the fence. Maybe you should do a video on how to keep a Filipina from becoming to westernized. But amazing vid as usual.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

If I could figure out how to keep a Filipina from becoming too westernized, I’d write a book! But as a very westernized Filipina myself, let me give it some thought 😂

[@nullpointer6792]

@@ColonelHoganStalag13 Seems like solid advice. If you don't mind me asking did you do LDR? And I fully agree, even though I consider myself to be agnostic, that secularism does little for building healthy relationships.

[@nullpointer6792]

@@TheFilipinaPea You're western in the fun way! :P

[@tchalla9917]

Avoiding westernization if EXTREMELY difficult so I would recommend retire early and move to Philippines 🇵🇭👌

[@gary4451]

Henry, if you bring her to the West, then you will be fighting an uphill battle. The feminist, jealous guys, haters, and westernized Filipinas will do their best to ruin her and your relationship.

[@DefendUSA1776]

There is a certain magic in the Philippines. I cannot really describe it. It is an internal joy that shines through all of you. Is it something you get from living in paradise or is it something the west has lost in pursuit of comfort and entertainment? I am not sure, but for all the problems the Philippines suffer from it is a magical place.