Become What Narcissists FEAR Most (Crush the Narcissist)

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Rebecca Zung

Rebecca Zung

2 жыл бұрын

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Become What Narcissists FEAR Most (Crush the Narcissist)
Are you ready to win any negotiations by becoming what narcissists fear most? Learning how narcissists react when they can't control you or how to make a narcissist fear you, or even how to scare a narcissist away seems all but impossible, but it's not! Watch this video to make a narcissist panic so that you can turn the tables on them and make them miserable.
🎓What you’ll learn in the webinar:
The 3 empowering secrets you need to take back control when communicating with narcissists.
How to develop a winning, foolproof strategy to drive the outcome you want out of negotiations with narcissists.
How to be more powerful, persuasive and confident when negotiating with narcs.
What to say in negotiation and how to say it so that you can beat narcs at their own game!
How to anticipate what the narcissist will do and be two steps ahead of them at all times.
About Rebecca Zung:
✅Rebecca Zung is one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the nation, having been recognized by U.S. News & World Report as a “Best Lawyer in America”, as “Legal Elite” by Trend Magazine, and recognized by her peers and the judiciary as AV(c), preeminent rated in family law, the highest possible rating for an attorney by Martindale Hubbell.
✅But her journey wasn’t always easy. She got married at 19, had 3 children and divorced at the age of 23. She was a divorced single mom when she decided to go back to law school. She went from being a single mom, college dropout, to becoming one the most powerful lawyers in the country at the helm of a multi-million dollar practice. She is now committed to sharing her secrets and empowering others to live their lives at their optimum level of success, professionally and personally.
✅She is the author of the bestselling books, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win and Breaking Free: A Step-by-Step Divorce Guide for Achieving Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Freedom, and is a sought after major media contributor.
✅She has been featured in Extra, Forbes, Huffington Post, Newsweek, Time, Dr. Drew, NPR Talk Radio, Good Day New York and CBS Los Angeles among others. She is the host of the popular show Negotiate Your Best Life™ which is available on KZbin and as a Top Podcast. She is also a frequent keynote speaker.
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Disclaimer: The commentary and opinions are for informational purposes only and not for the purpose of providing legal advice. You should contact an attorney in your state to obtain legal advice with respect to any particular issue or problem.

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@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 2 жыл бұрын
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@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 2 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to meet you there!
@dawn1913
@dawn1913 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything you say, but as long as he has my children i remain scared and almost paralyzed in not knowing what to do anymore. the courts won't listen to me and anything he says is gospel without allowing my evidence-TRUTH. no contact with my children over 9 years. i wish i had an attorney like you 10 yrs ago. thank you for your insightful channel.
@zitazita687
@zitazita687 2 жыл бұрын
@@dawn1913 That's the problem they appear so believe able,because they are professional liars &know how to say it .I'm married to an absolute total narc,doesn't put a foot wrong outdoors so how can we get people to believe us.Im at the end of my rope now because I stupidly tolerated my narc for toooo many years.Blessings to you.
@dawn1913
@dawn1913 2 жыл бұрын
@@zitazita687 well aware! i hope you don't have small children with him, they really work their magic in the court room. i wish you well.
@zitazita687
@zitazita687 2 жыл бұрын
@@dawn1913 Hi dawn,my son is grown &married &thanks to my narc I don't have a good relationship with him sadly.You have my deepest sympathy Dawn &I wish you everything you wish for yourself. Xx
@staywellandstrong4199
@staywellandstrong4199 2 жыл бұрын
To me, the most powerful and loving people are those who don't Need to make others feel small, scared, and insignificant.
@justaroot4315
@justaroot4315 2 жыл бұрын
Amen...
@alayne9929
@alayne9929 2 жыл бұрын
@@trengenius8024 this account is one week old. It appears to be an impersonation account.
@lindasharpe7039
@lindasharpe7039 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@karenrussell1422
@karenrussell1422 2 жыл бұрын
I love that. Uplifting, for me.
@pokerqAK47
@pokerqAK47 2 жыл бұрын
Nope. Sometimes you need to fight fire with fire.
@lynniekaye7513
@lynniekaye7513 2 жыл бұрын
1. Fear you more than you fear them 2. They are the most scared 3. They have no sense of self 4. Fear being exposed the most 5. Fear that you're gonna fight back 6. They don't want you to not need them - want to be in control of you. 7. Fear that you no longer think they are relevant 8. You no longer think they matter 9. Fear the most that you are able to completely remove them from your life
@heatherboreland7011
@heatherboreland7011 2 жыл бұрын
Just like Kanye West
@ecunningham2062
@ecunningham2062 2 жыл бұрын
I think he is 💩
@rebeccazung8530
@rebeccazung8530 2 жыл бұрын
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@harmonyspacecenter7668
@harmonyspacecenter7668 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for noting it. Very useful
@ginnydougan9664
@ginnydougan9664 2 жыл бұрын
I think the narcissist that I was with had the fear that I was going to expose him for what he was. He used to always tell me promise me that you will not say one word about what we're doing together to anyone because it would destroy my life.
@evelina787
@evelina787 2 жыл бұрын
“A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing people’s true colors.” - Karla Grimes
@peterlearner8594
@peterlearner8594 Жыл бұрын
Yes but narcissists have a martyr complex which none of the online shrinks mention. It's not fake to guilt trip you, they definitely feel the victim. They feel so entitled that when one of their ploys doesn't work to get you to give them something they feel totally betrayed. They don't see that they were only trying to manipulate you, you failed to reciprocate when they gave you something cynically designed to to get something. They go around with a look that says I can't win, why are these people so mean. They cannot out themselves in the other person's shoes to see that what they are asking for is unreasonable.
@evelina787
@evelina787 Жыл бұрын
@@peterlearner8594 yes so extremely true Wish i knew what the @nswer is They're impossible generally God bless you Hope you're away from the mdness now😔🕊️🍀🙏
@TheLeedeerod
@TheLeedeerod 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so over it & I’ve BEEN READY!!! I’ve lost 3 family members & been to zero funerals. I’ve always been present & supportive, even when they didn’t deserve it. I now have family who ignored me calling & I’ve flipped the script. I don’t want to talk to them!!! I’m living my life like it’s golden!!! 🤗🤗🤗
@deborahhoffman7394
@deborahhoffman7394 2 жыл бұрын
Ditto. It hurts for family to reject you because you dont meet their standards somehow. Ticks me off. I finally dumped my family.
@bake_free_nl8749
@bake_free_nl8749 Жыл бұрын
You so deserve it beautiful soul that you are. Love and light to you 🙏💯❤
@georgiafain3747
@georgiafain3747 Жыл бұрын
My heart is broken but I have to do that with my flying monkey children.
@Real2k25
@Real2k25 2 жыл бұрын
I believe it if u fight back they will run bullies only pick easy fights
@deepdarkcocoa7956
@deepdarkcocoa7956 2 жыл бұрын
That's it! I like this comment.
@ecunningham2062
@ecunningham2062 2 жыл бұрын
But I am soooooooo tired of all his bulshit that's what he is all about 24 7 365 60 plus years
@ecunningham2062
@ecunningham2062 2 жыл бұрын
@@rsbrinkman9168 i see you have met my husband
@jontoering7792
@jontoering7792 2 жыл бұрын
They run away like cowards and when they can't run they will shut down
@coryanne9031
@coryanne9031 2 жыл бұрын
I had the complete opposite, when I fought back, It was like all hell was let loose at me. Myself and the kids barely got out with our sanity. We all carry damage.
@alastairwest5200
@alastairwest5200 Жыл бұрын
"They're just a gnat flying around" - that's when you know you've truly moved on... 😊😎
@susangeorge5399
@susangeorge5399 2 жыл бұрын
Mine put an unfounded restraining order against me. His flying monkeys to my place of employment trying to talk to me. Filed for divorce this week.
@cheri9757
@cheri9757 2 жыл бұрын
OMG same thing happened to me too. I go to the hearing this coming Monday. I have NEVER been afraid of this narc. They were always afraid of me. Why at first I never understood. Later in it, they were just totally afraid scarred spineless person that yes with their flying monkeys and yes new supply thinks they are all this. Good. I honestly can care less and in my opinion it is what it is. I cant wait for this crap to finally be over and move the hell on away from this psyhocpath onece and for all. Good Riddens. Dont have time for the drama nor the B.S.
@rebeccazung8530
@rebeccazung8530 2 жыл бұрын
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@jordanangle9666
@jordanangle9666 2 жыл бұрын
My ex threatened me with a restraining order. Narcs will try and weaponize the cops and whomever else to indulge their sickness. This is known as stonewalling. Don’t take it personally, you are dealing with a sick person, look at a restraining order as a huge blessing, good luck, know that you are loved
@cryptcryptici8004
@cryptcryptici8004 2 жыл бұрын
I have also experienced this, I was in the hospital when the neighbor and her monkeys went to court and lied about me being violent. I am extremely disabled and I tell her constantly barking dogs to shut up. I have called the police and told them she told me to go shoot myself. I have never been depressed or suicidal. These people turned everything around like narcissist s do, I am getting a counter restraining order against her soon. Our apts. Finally got a security guard and the police wave at me, so things can change for the better. Thanks for the positive messages from your videos.
@evelynmason6628
@evelynmason6628 2 жыл бұрын
I’m ready! Finally releasing fear of this person. Learning to stand strong.
@christianpulisic7784
@christianpulisic7784 2 жыл бұрын
Evelyn Mason,You are beautiful 🌹🌷🌹,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 2 жыл бұрын
SHOW NO FEELINGS OR EMOTIONS...when they try to hurt or belittle you.
@RatedArggg
@RatedArggg 2 жыл бұрын
I just give them a quizzical look, like "Did you REALLY just say that?"
@pokerqAK47
@pokerqAK47 2 жыл бұрын
Just hurt or belittle then 2x more. Worked for me. Finally got rid of that trash
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach Жыл бұрын
@@ladyhanny7395 Perfect answer. Then smile. Whatever someone says to Belittle you...say the same thing to them.
@ladyhanny7395
@ladyhanny7395 Жыл бұрын
@@CrystalDatingCoach yes i recently had this thought as well. What happens when we mirror them. Giving the exakt same answers, excuses...like oh your so sensitive, it does not matter, i got things to do, i dont always want to say hallo when i am here because you are busy, or you were not there (not true) or i only want to help, I feel sorry for them, i can only do what is in my capacity, are you sad? I helped so many people, i can not taste your cake you made for my bithday, my tooth hurts, you are crazy, arent you cold?, you look so pale, are you ok? (When in reality feeling really good and happy and having had so many compliments about lets say a dress from people), from recently you are pretty balanced, i am proud on myself about your achievements...to name some. Or how about the differnt masks? From toddler, to a so caring person to arrogant and busy to a devil in human form to the copy of the opposite sex. 😀
@jolly7728
@jolly7728 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, but we sane folks need to start spending less time figuring out what makes narcissists tick and way more time figuring out what makes us tick. Cut your losses ASAP. Get the heck away from them and never look back. Keep working on yourself, and remember, be strong, build yourself back up, and be happy! Life is short!
@AJ-kb9hf
@AJ-kb9hf 2 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you.
@deannarounds3295
@deannarounds3295 Жыл бұрын
Depending on how long you were with a narcissist it becomes just your life. Stay long enough and you will eventually believe what they say. I did not even realize what was happening. Left after 22 years - hardest and best thing I ever did.
@E7L1L3s
@E7L1L3s 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't know what a narcisist was until a cpl months ago. June would have been our 50th wedding anniversary. Shortly after the 10th, I took my 3 little girls and left for a weekend, then separated for life safety reasons. I could no longer trust him to tell the truth so no possibility of reconciling. Had to wait 3 yrs. for divorce. Found I could not pay a lawyer to present/defend our truth so represented myself. Fortunately, court counsellors and an excellent MD @ the children's hospital they fast tracked me to saved my children from overnight access before the court hearing! The youngest was under 2 yrs. when we parted so I spent the next 17 yrs. being dragged into court on one illegal/unnecessary lie after another. There was a showdown when the eldest turned 19 & he would not release her financial investment. The judge also ruled in such a way as to protect the children's money from the gov't Welfare Dept. ever taking it when I had to depend on them due to injuries/job loss. My girls each worked fulltime by 15yrs. and the eldest @ 47yrs is still in the career she began fulltime @ 161/2. I homeschooled them thru highschool & some elementary. The middle one earned a 4 yr. degree in 3.5yrs. & Grad with Honours in USA while we lived in Canada. She still works in her career @ 44yrs. Their father would lie against me to church ministers behind my back in both countries which cost me one night not knowing where they were in a fireign country. I'm just thankful I'm not dealing with courts today as they are very corrupted/politicized!!
@momikal2238
@momikal2238 2 жыл бұрын
Rebecca, the Wizard of Oz analogy was spot on! I didn’t realize what this was. I was living in fear snd didn’t realize it. I’m not usually a fearful person. I’m an overachiever, but why am I not getting past this? Fear of these scared and simple minded people?! No more. ❤️ You rock! Thanks very much for your help.
@ecunningham2062
@ecunningham2062 2 жыл бұрын
Simple minded 🎯🎯🎯
@rebeccazung8530
@rebeccazung8530 2 жыл бұрын
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@clutch747
@clutch747 2 жыл бұрын
I am mostly there... I grew up with Narcissists... This is my first year learning about this. I found the key. Thank you!!
@bake_free_nl8749
@bake_free_nl8749 Жыл бұрын
Big hug dear 🙏💯❤
@fruitsandspiceschannel2235
@fruitsandspiceschannel2235 2 жыл бұрын
Im married to an Italian and now living in Rome with my Mother in Law due her earli Dementia, my Sister in Law is a Narsistic and my husband and I really struggling with her, Thankyou for sharing it is help us (my husband and I ) we need her to afraid to us. IM ready
@deepdarkcocoa7956
@deepdarkcocoa7956 2 жыл бұрын
My husband baby mama is one, so I can imagine the struggle honey. She HATES me but I can't stand her neither.😒 Pray for me and I'll pray for you.
@narcfighters4434
@narcfighters4434 2 жыл бұрын
Not all Italian, luckily, are like this as not all brits r like this...
@fruitsandspiceschannel2235
@fruitsandspiceschannel2235 2 жыл бұрын
@@deepdarkcocoa7956 Thankyou for the support and prayers, it means a lot to me, sending you positives energies. Lets have our chin up and educate more so that we all can be survived and handle well the situation.
@fruitsandspiceschannel2235
@fruitsandspiceschannel2235 2 жыл бұрын
@@narcfighters4434 it is very true not all Italian... we are all surrounding by Narsistic person everywhere in this world.
@pointsbeingmade7996
@pointsbeingmade7996 2 жыл бұрын
👏👏
@more444store6
@more444store6 2 жыл бұрын
I'm ready to move on completely. Done and done, and no longer intimidated.
@cymbolichuman433
@cymbolichuman433 2 жыл бұрын
Horrible experiences are traumatic and damaging to the soul. I think that's their goal. I am hoping to one day find strength again from the mental abuse I ran from.
@ohnonotthevampire7191
@ohnonotthevampire7191 2 жыл бұрын
Too true Rebecca! Freedom from toxic influence via self-governance and a strong, unshakeable sense of self is true liberation. Toxic people realizing they are unable to push your buttons, sway your opinions, or drive you crazy is like garlic to these vampires and it's fun to watch them squirm after every one of their failed cowardly attempts at attacking my self esteem.
@jeanniecossey200
@jeanniecossey200 Жыл бұрын
It's baffling how they are cowardly and diabolical at the same time.
@tanyagamble3432
@tanyagamble3432 2 жыл бұрын
This video gives me great comfort . Thank you for your time , it must be horrible to live life as a NARCISSIST.
@joziem9751
@joziem9751 2 жыл бұрын
I am ready and I'm not afraid anymore 😌
@rebeccazung8530
@rebeccazung8530 2 жыл бұрын
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@highplainsdrifter699
@highplainsdrifter699 2 жыл бұрын
FEAR....Makes the wolf bigger than he is... German Proverb
@laurihaney1174
@laurihaney1174 2 жыл бұрын
"you're not meant to be small" - WOW! felt that!!
@Peaceforall20111
@Peaceforall20111 2 жыл бұрын
The moment that you let go of of your fear and have confidence when you know you should, it changes who you are and you will never go back. That’s one genie can’t put back in the bottle and you won’t want to
@alexiss7403
@alexiss7403 2 жыл бұрын
I’m ready!!!! I got used, harassed, made to live in fear, had my self-esteem pulverised, made to feel unworthy and less-than. I am worthy! I have a life after them and I am strong! Nothing they do will elicit any of those feelings from me anymore. They are pathetic, sad individuals!! Thank you Rebecca!
@Godisfirst21
@Godisfirst21 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the free therapy. I now know what I'm dealing with after 10 years. WOW, have I ever turned the tables. I am FEARLESS. He is now fearful.
@josephsnisky1851
@josephsnisky1851 Жыл бұрын
After watching this video I realized we need a movie staring Rebecca as the lead star the Narcissist Slayer. Lights , camera , action !
@lazydaisy411
@lazydaisy411 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been doing a lot of inner work. Not only am I no longer afraid of my narcissist husband (working on getting papers signed for a divorce), I’m no longer afraid of anyone with ill-wishes towards me and have become more willing to communicate my outlook and less hesitant to make decisions.
@willjacks768
@willjacks768 Жыл бұрын
Hi Rebecca! You have, in this one video, brought the last 28 years of my life out into the light where I have now been able to get a good look at it, and WOW!!! I've been a literal pawn to her every manipulation, her gaslighting (Yes, I even had made up my own retort to her ever present, "No it's not!" I would shoot back "Call the sky purple every day, when I look up it's only blue!" My god, the hell my life has been and never knowing why, actually thinking I was really cursed. It is the emotional abuse which over the last year has begun to manifest itself into physical abuse, with her denying and laying out evil plots and plans as to why it is hopeless for me to even try to do anything about it! I used to be a very outgoing, positive, nothing I can't handle or do kind of guy, responsible and always willing to help, lots of friends and others seemed to always genuinely like seeing me, talking with me. About five months ago, I was feeling completely wrung out and stressed and very unhappy with myself, my normal state. I don't know why, but images and sounds and even smells all came rushing into my thoughts all at once and the feelings along with them. I remember saying to myself, out loud even, and thought it was someone else for a second because of how weird my own voice sounded, "I don't even know who you are anymore! I don't like who you've become." I was losing my mind and had begun to have episodes of depression and hopelessness and the occasional suicidal daydream began playing out in my mind unprovoked. I'm going to watch every single video you have here, probably more than once! You're the miracle I needed to illuminate every dark and depressing corner which was my entire life!!! I UNDERSTAND WHAT'S BEEN HAPPENING AND I FEEL HOPE INSIDE MY SOUL ONCE AGAIN!!! THANK YOU!!! I know, it's 11 months old, but it is new to me today and extremely powerful! I feel like I just won th lottery and the grand prize was Control Of My Own Life Again! Absolutely priceless!!! ❤
@steelcityshoeshine_service
@steelcityshoeshine_service Жыл бұрын
Me too . Recently been love bombed and ghosted.. I was in hospital suffering a stroke from emotional stress of my wife , marrying me and taking everything then demonising me to everyone around me . This has now been a pattern for over 20 years and 2 convictions for " domestic violence" which I admitted out of fear for my children and custody.. I'm now fighting my wife in criminal court against false aligations. I then 11 months later have my now ex partner love bomb me , move him out and me in to his house and his children.. I fell for all of it again .. until friends of hers next door felt sorry for me after I broke and she left and ghosted . It hurts .. I could literally drop dead from the stress and yet she still continues to try and hurt me like all my all my ex partners did . I feel very stupid, alone and beaten by the world . I'm male 39 and could face prison at the hands of one of these women. I'm very open and genuinely believe in allowing myself to be vulnerable or how can love be real and life worth living? I've realised that not knowing these traits has left me as a sheep to slaughter all my life . There is no help ! For the last 12 months I have and the professionals involved in my care have tried to get it but the waiting lists and lack for men . In all honesty these relationships have taken my children, hurt my family beyond repair and damaged my mental health serverly over the years , since I was a young boy .. my mother being the first perpetrator, allowing my step father to serverly abuse me physically. All these years, and what I now face for my lack of awareness . I always blamed myself, because I would break in the end and be so confused and broken, I made threats at myself and shouted , asked what i can do , felt responsible, never violent .. this is how they use the UK laws to manipulate justice and ruin so many men with genuine hearts .. keep hitting a dog with a stick it bites ... When we raise our voices as men or act out of emotion because a person has twisted us , we are blamed, demonised and disregarded by everyone around us . We are still human.
@alayne9929
@alayne9929 2 жыл бұрын
I was already ready. It's already done.
@ladybutterflyeyes
@ladybutterflyeyes 2 жыл бұрын
I AM READY!! Most definitely! 🙏❣️
@irenemcnamara9699
@irenemcnamara9699 2 жыл бұрын
I have failed in the fight with my 2 narcissistic sisters! I let them have the bulk of ou father's estate. Now they have power over me psychologically. "You are nothing," my sister said. They truly believe that, although I dont. Thank you for your wise counsel.
@repliedtrengenius798
@repliedtrengenius798 2 жыл бұрын
T.h.a.n.k.s. f.o.r w.a.t.c.h.i.n.g f.o.r m.o.r.e i.n.f.o o.r g.u.i.d.a.n.c.e W.H.A.T.S.A.P.P::::: +1•6•0•9•7•4•1•8•5•8•6::::::
@crencottrell7849
@crencottrell7849 2 жыл бұрын
Don't you EVER believe someone deliberately trying to devalue you/hurt your feelings Ms. Irene 😢😚
@irenemcnamara9699
@irenemcnamara9699 2 жыл бұрын
@@crencottrell7849 I will try to keep that in mind in the days ahead. I am just glad I broke off from them. I doubt that they will be back, because they know they have done wrong.
@krisc7618
@krisc7618 2 жыл бұрын
I’m right there with you. My sister stole from parents, convinced them I did it. Abused them, it’s all awful! Im praying for you!
@addiedn
@addiedn 2 жыл бұрын
Needed that motivation to stand in my power, thank you
@julielambrix1024
@julielambrix1024 2 жыл бұрын
And needs to go. Busted earlier then u thought.... SLAY
@Real2k25
@Real2k25 2 жыл бұрын
Would never thought she be scared of anything
@lisakaler4121
@lisakaler4121 2 жыл бұрын
It's all a facade, they are very weak cowards behind their mask.
@bake_free_nl8749
@bake_free_nl8749 Жыл бұрын
I AM SO READY. I dealt already with a high functioning narcisist (diagnosed by professionals ). I survived his torture. I am not saying that this person (a family member) is a Narcisist. But I recognize the patterns. I AM DONE MAKING EXCUSES. I called her out on her behaviour and she uses the silent treatment on me. I AM DONE BLAMING MYSELF, I AM DONE FEELING WORTHLESS, I AM DONE LETTING MYSELF GET HURT LIKE THIS AGAIN. I AM DONE TO BE HER PUPPET, but when other People are around, she is a totally different person. She told me when I called her about 3 man *that Hurt* me and her reply was; "Maybe you asked for it". More Cruel things like this. And she denies it. I AM DONE AND READY. I just want my life back. My whole family turned their back on me. I wish her the best. All I want is to break the cycle for once and for all. Sometimes I am scared that it's me that is the NARC. But I know better after years of therapy. I have PTSD. IT'S getting better. But this situation is holding me back. I don't want to hurt her. Seems like an adult closure is impossible either. Any advice? Please?
@sb75ification
@sb75ification 2 жыл бұрын
Can you please make a video on how to crush the narcissist that you have a six year old child with. She knows my daughter is the only love in my life, so she always used her to get back under my skin. Threatens to take her, threaten to file false police reports that I’m “crazy” “unstable” “unfit to be a father” etc. All things I know are not true, nor does she have any shred of evidence to back her claims, but her ability to manipulate ANYONE, keeps me terrified of her. Help!!!!!
@kellishymka6132
@kellishymka6132 2 жыл бұрын
I am so ready!!!! Your channel is COMPLETELY helping me!!!
@Wandiasinfo
@Wandiasinfo 2 жыл бұрын
You are so on it!! It's taken me so long to start understanding the principles you are so eloquently articulating. You cut right to the heart of it. Wish I'd found you ages ago. It would have saved me so much time and energy spent floundering. Thanks for being so generous with your brilliant insight!
@brianolson_music
@brianolson_music 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Powerful. Ready. You never know how much time you’ve got. Well said
@sousababyonSquidoo
@sousababyonSquidoo 2 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how many people you are helping. I studied a bit of workplace bullying and it amazed me to learn that bullying works in favor of the bully ~57% of the time. They NEVER work alone, those flying monkeys and the illusion of consensus are some of their main tactics while they hide behind titles or institutions or "policies". I am so grateful for your videos because you explain many more ways they are manipulative. It's always about "winning" at all costs.
@frederickcollins4534
@frederickcollins4534 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving so much, Rebecca!
@RatedArggg
@RatedArggg 2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you gave real-life examples!! That helps a lot.
@londaroque7300
@londaroque7300 Жыл бұрын
I'm so ready!! Thank you girlfriend!! You helped me so much ! 🙋🏼‍♀️
@heathercataldi-zoffoli2080
@heathercataldi-zoffoli2080 2 жыл бұрын
Nobody seems to understand how I am afraid of him, because he comes across so charming, but he is scary because he can make impossible things happen.
@judithdavy6244
@judithdavy6244 2 жыл бұрын
So true, Rebecca....Strong! & Strenght Thank you...x🤗
@elevatetogrow6710
@elevatetogrow6710 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your very inspirational message. This channel has been very comforting to me while healing from being involved with the Cluster B personalities and their abusive toxic spirits.
@rebeccazung8530
@rebeccazung8530 2 жыл бұрын
Plus-one-six-zero-nine-seven-four-one-eight-five-eight-six ;;;;;;;;;; W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E
@marilynchapon357
@marilynchapon357 2 жыл бұрын
I have been in and out of the revolving door of a toxic relationship that I now understand was a Narcissist abuse relationship. I feel free for the first time in a decade. I really don't care. He doesn't live rent free in my mind anymore!! Or my house for that matter!
@georgecudworth6134
@georgecudworth6134 Жыл бұрын
I recently figured it all out after 6 years of total chaos and repeated physical and mental abuse by my soon to be ex wife! I am a master woodworker and after her keeping me at a very suppressed state I finally got back in the game and landed a 750,000 dollar project. This is when she went off the rails and did everything to block this and then convinced all of our friends that I was horrible and abusive. After doing some research it got me that she couldn't and wouldn't be able to let me gain back the status that I once had! I left her one morning without saying goodbye and I'm never going back to that toxic life ever again! It's my life and I will live it the way I want!
@maramabdallah5479
@maramabdallah5479 2 жыл бұрын
I am ready ! I don’t fear him anymore ! Thank you 😊
@rebeccazung8530
@rebeccazung8530 2 жыл бұрын
Plus-one-six-zero-nine-seven-four-one-eight-five-eight-six ;;;;;;;;;; W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E
@maramabdallah5479
@maramabdallah5479 2 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccazung8530 I don’t know how , you might be surprised , but I am being honest with you, I wish that one day I can contact you and talk to you , I need it so much . Thanks to everything you do for us ❤️
@johnmoran7996
@johnmoran7996 Жыл бұрын
Rebecca,this is by far the best video on narcissism I've seen you do.i was never scared of shoshanna.i played her too and beat her at her own game and her friends.shes not been seen around the complex lately and I don't care.
@elegua9160
@elegua9160 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been ready and I have show them. Thank you 🙏
@Postulatedstate
@Postulatedstate 2 жыл бұрын
She's so gorgeous and bright
@CLHS1944
@CLHS1944 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much! I appreciate all you do and say in your videos. I am stronger for it.
@Real2k25
@Real2k25 2 жыл бұрын
Wow the malignant narcissist i dealt with threatened me
@trengenius8024
@trengenius8024 2 жыл бұрын
T.h.a.n.k.s. f.o.r w.a.t.c.h.i.n.g f.o.r m.o.r.e i.n.f.o o.r g.u.i.d.a.n.c.e W.H.A.T.S.A.P.P::::: +1•6•0•9•7•4•1•8•5•8•6
@tanawilliams7498
@tanawilliams7498 2 жыл бұрын
Mine did too. He said if I ever left him he would kill me and since he had already committed three murders and for the most part had gotten away with it I suspected he would actually carry through and he did.
@tanawilliams7498
@tanawilliams7498 2 жыл бұрын
BTW, be very careful of your other reply as I suspect this person might be a narcissist, thinking that he has more answers than someone trained to do it
@loismcdonald1478
@loismcdonald1478 2 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work!
@catherinewiget476
@catherinewiget476 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my God! Thank you! Thank you! My mother in law is a covert narcissist! Me and my husband are in therapy now! It is so hard….my husband, his dad and his brother are so codependent and I’m the bad guy 😢…this helped me so much!!!
@kambeeno1220
@kambeeno1220 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so ready! Let's do this!!! LOVE THIS. THANX A MILL...
@Calidore1
@Calidore1 2 жыл бұрын
Great last couple of lines to sum up great talk. The power!
@Shakinwithlisa227
@Shakinwithlisa227 2 жыл бұрын
This was spot on. I'm going through a divorce right now, 20 yrs. Moving out Sunday!
@donald2024on
@donald2024on 2 жыл бұрын
Love your videos, Rebecca! Thanks a lot !🌠
@hrguillory1979
@hrguillory1979 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so ready
@christianpulisic7784
@christianpulisic7784 2 жыл бұрын
Hollie Guillory,You got a lovely smile 😊!!
@csouthern8692
@csouthern8692 2 жыл бұрын
They can never get over being exposed to the public
@danschmitt2490
@danschmitt2490 2 жыл бұрын
On point for sure! Thanks for making a great video! Your videos sure shine a light on behaviors of the narcissist! Keep doing your thing! ;)
@johnkeatsin
@johnkeatsin 6 ай бұрын
I am ready!
@deepaaiyer5080
@deepaaiyer5080 2 жыл бұрын
I am ready now. Thanks a lot for this wonderful video
@erickafrye323
@erickafrye323 Жыл бұрын
I’m READY!
@preetiaggarwal4346
@preetiaggarwal4346 2 жыл бұрын
Superb ending...Living in your power....!!
@janjansen4620
@janjansen4620 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Rebecca!
@Victoresyesi
@Victoresyesi 2 жыл бұрын
I’m ready!
@taikarauseo5160
@taikarauseo5160 Жыл бұрын
Omg😱 this video was an eye opener Thanks 🙏
@amberrolson5129
@amberrolson5129 Жыл бұрын
I’M READY!!
@TimothyArcher
@TimothyArcher 2 жыл бұрын
So ready!
@karolinabraksator4522
@karolinabraksator4522 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am becoming ready!
@dancindebs1
@dancindebs1 2 жыл бұрын
Fear. The AA fourth step. Fear paralyzes. You are helping me reclaim me
@samsonsengoonzi8148
@samsonsengoonzi8148 2 жыл бұрын
This is the best video from Rebecca zung. My God, i felt so soothed watching it. 🤗👌🙏❤️
@rebeccazung8530
@rebeccazung8530 2 жыл бұрын
Plus-one-six-zero-nine-seven-four-one-eight-five-eight-six !!! W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E
@empresspizarro9616
@empresspizarro9616 2 жыл бұрын
VERY Refreshingly ENLIGHTENMENT THANKS!
@sheryllmoyer1194
@sheryllmoyer1194 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing 😊
@jsockey66
@jsockey66 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not afraid of them anymore
@AStarAlmost
@AStarAlmost Жыл бұрын
I'M READY!
@samuelsurbrook1428
@samuelsurbrook1428 2 жыл бұрын
Yes Rebecca. “I’m ready!”
@rebeccazung8530
@rebeccazung8530 2 жыл бұрын
Plus-one-six-zero-nine-seven-four-one-eight-five-eight-six ;;;;;;;;;; W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E
@yanelysdominguez9459
@yanelysdominguez9459 Жыл бұрын
Excellent. Thank you 🙏
@codedemens
@codedemens Жыл бұрын
I'm Ready!
@terriwhalen7988
@terriwhalen7988 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely ready
@dudinka777
@dudinka777 2 жыл бұрын
This is pure 🔥 gold Thank you very much ❤️ You are an angel 😇
@karinbliek3425
@karinbliek3425 2 жыл бұрын
Ready to stand strong finally. It’s only taken 8 months no contact to realise what I was dealing with. Thank god for Sam Vaknin.
@oscarwilliamson1128
@oscarwilliamson1128 Жыл бұрын
Karin Bliek,So happy 😊for you
@mariafihn6874
@mariafihn6874 8 ай бұрын
Who’s Sam Vaknin?
@cherylbagshaw5151
@cherylbagshaw5151 2 жыл бұрын
Ready to feel this way!!!
@kimberlyschauffler9385
@kimberlyschauffler9385 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been ready!
@funnyman8459
@funnyman8459 2 жыл бұрын
I’m ready and feel liberated for the first time in a long time!!
@jamesdouglas7345
@jamesdouglas7345 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your empowering poscasrs
@jennywager6228
@jennywager6228 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much for all you do to help us survive xxx
@rebeccazung8530
@rebeccazung8530 2 жыл бұрын
Plus-one-six-zero-nine-seven-four-one-eight-five-eight-six !!! W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E
@melissachambers1415
@melissachambers1415 Жыл бұрын
I'm Ready ‼️
@ashleywallis8793
@ashleywallis8793 2 жыл бұрын
I'm REALLY READY
@christianpulisic7784
@christianpulisic7784 2 жыл бұрын
Ashley Wallis,You are beautiful 🌹🌹🌷,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
@tyramsey7936
@tyramsey7936 2 жыл бұрын
I'M READY!!!
@jamalsalim4349
@jamalsalim4349 2 жыл бұрын
I’m ready!🙏Thanks
@margaretryles5870
@margaretryles5870 Жыл бұрын
Many women get involved with narcissistic men. The emotional damage is pretty severe and takes time to recover. Cutting them off completely is the way to go. I shut down my FB, changed my phone number and email so he wouldn't have access to me post breakup. It was the right decision. Will pray for him and the other women he gets involved with.
@queenburse758
@queenburse758 Жыл бұрын
I'm Ready
@JSPADED81
@JSPADED81 2 жыл бұрын
I'm ready!!!
@aurablue2707
@aurablue2707 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you🕊
@diddlediddle0927
@diddlediddle0927 Жыл бұрын
I'm so ready.
@lucyinthesky7923
@lucyinthesky7923 2 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on mother in laws or people you can’t physically remove from Your life. A video on how to detach emotionally from narcissism in families.
@rebeccazung8530
@rebeccazung8530 2 жыл бұрын
Plus-one-six-zero-nine-seven-four-one-eight-five-eight-six !!! W/H/A/T/S/A/P/P/M/E
@peggynarcsuvivor9073
@peggynarcsuvivor9073 2 жыл бұрын
Your fighting spirit care n concern means the world to us.as I soon face divorce master n perhaps a judge you have kept me fighting. Thanks so much!
@rebeccazung8530
@rebeccazung8530 2 жыл бұрын
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