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@RebeccaZungEsq3 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to meet you there!
@dawn19133 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything you say, but as long as he has my children i remain scared and almost paralyzed in not knowing what to do anymore. the courts won't listen to me and anything he says is gospel without allowing my evidence-TRUTH. no contact with my children over 9 years. i wish i had an attorney like you 10 yrs ago. thank you for your insightful channel.
@zitazita6873 жыл бұрын
@@dawn1913 That's the problem they appear so believe able,because they are professional liars &know how to say it .I'm married to an absolute total narc,doesn't put a foot wrong outdoors so how can we get people to believe us.Im at the end of my rope now because I stupidly tolerated my narc for toooo many years.Blessings to you.
@dawn19133 жыл бұрын
@@zitazita687 well aware! i hope you don't have small children with him, they really work their magic in the court room. i wish you well.
@zitazita6873 жыл бұрын
@@dawn1913 Hi dawn,my son is grown &married &thanks to my narc I don't have a good relationship with him sadly.You have my deepest sympathy Dawn &I wish you everything you wish for yourself. Xx
@staywellandstrong41993 жыл бұрын
To me, the most powerful and loving people are those who don't Need to make others feel small, scared, and insignificant.
@justaroot43153 жыл бұрын
Amen...
@alayne99293 жыл бұрын
@@trengenius8024 this account is one week old. It appears to be an impersonation account.
@lindasharpe70393 жыл бұрын
Amen
@karenrussell14223 жыл бұрын
I love that. Uplifting, for me.
@pokerqAK472 жыл бұрын
Nope. Sometimes you need to fight fire with fire.
@lynniekaye75133 жыл бұрын
1. Fear you more than you fear them 2. They are the most scared 3. They have no sense of self 4. Fear being exposed the most 5. Fear that you're gonna fight back 6. They don't want you to not need them - want to be in control of you. 7. Fear that you no longer think they are relevant 8. You no longer think they matter 9. Fear the most that you are able to completely remove them from your life
I think the narcissist that I was with had the fear that I was going to expose him for what he was. He used to always tell me promise me that you will not say one word about what we're doing together to anyone because it would destroy my life.
@TheLeedeerod3 жыл бұрын
I’m so over it & I’ve BEEN READY!!! I’ve lost 3 family members & been to zero funerals. I’ve always been present & supportive, even when they didn’t deserve it. I now have family who ignored me calling & I’ve flipped the script. I don’t want to talk to them!!! I’m living my life like it’s golden!!! 🤗🤗🤗
@deborahhoffman73943 жыл бұрын
Ditto. It hurts for family to reject you because you dont meet their standards somehow. Ticks me off. I finally dumped my family.
@b_re_ake_free_NL2 жыл бұрын
You so deserve it beautiful soul that you are. Love and light to you 🙏💯❤
@georgiafain37472 жыл бұрын
My heart is broken but I have to do that with my flying monkey children.
@evelina7872 жыл бұрын
“A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing people’s true colors.” - Karla Grimes
@peterlearner85942 жыл бұрын
Yes but narcissists have a martyr complex which none of the online shrinks mention. It's not fake to guilt trip you, they definitely feel the victim. They feel so entitled that when one of their ploys doesn't work to get you to give them something they feel totally betrayed. They don't see that they were only trying to manipulate you, you failed to reciprocate when they gave you something cynically designed to to get something. They go around with a look that says I can't win, why are these people so mean. They cannot out themselves in the other person's shoes to see that what they are asking for is unreasonable.
@evelina7872 жыл бұрын
@@peterlearner8594 yes so extremely true Wish i knew what the @nswer is They're impossible generally God bless you Hope you're away from the mdness now😔🕊️🍀🙏
@Real2k253 жыл бұрын
I believe it if u fight back they will run bullies only pick easy fights
@deepdarkcocoa79563 жыл бұрын
That's it! I like this comment.
@1010QUEEN73 жыл бұрын
But I am soooooooo tired of all his bulshit that's what he is all about 24 7 365 60 plus years
@1010QUEEN73 жыл бұрын
@@rsbrinkman9168 i see you have met my husband
@jontoering77923 жыл бұрын
They run away like cowards and when they can't run they will shut down
@coryanne90313 жыл бұрын
I had the complete opposite, when I fought back, It was like all hell was let loose at me. Myself and the kids barely got out with our sanity. We all carry damage.
@alastairwest52002 жыл бұрын
"They're just a gnat flying around" - that's when you know you've truly moved on... 😊😎
@evelynmason66283 жыл бұрын
I’m ready! Finally releasing fear of this person. Learning to stand strong.
@christianpulisic77843 жыл бұрын
Evelyn Mason,You are beautiful 🌹🌷🌹,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
@susangeorge53993 жыл бұрын
Mine put an unfounded restraining order against me. His flying monkeys to my place of employment trying to talk to me. Filed for divorce this week.
@cheri97573 жыл бұрын
OMG same thing happened to me too. I go to the hearing this coming Monday. I have NEVER been afraid of this narc. They were always afraid of me. Why at first I never understood. Later in it, they were just totally afraid scarred spineless person that yes with their flying monkeys and yes new supply thinks they are all this. Good. I honestly can care less and in my opinion it is what it is. I cant wait for this crap to finally be over and move the hell on away from this psyhocpath onece and for all. Good Riddens. Dont have time for the drama nor the B.S.
My ex threatened me with a restraining order. Narcs will try and weaponize the cops and whomever else to indulge their sickness. This is known as stonewalling. Don’t take it personally, you are dealing with a sick person, look at a restraining order as a huge blessing, good luck, know that you are loved
@cryptcryptici80043 жыл бұрын
I have also experienced this, I was in the hospital when the neighbor and her monkeys went to court and lied about me being violent. I am extremely disabled and I tell her constantly barking dogs to shut up. I have called the police and told them she told me to go shoot myself. I have never been depressed or suicidal. These people turned everything around like narcissist s do, I am getting a counter restraining order against her soon. Our apts. Finally got a security guard and the police wave at me, so things can change for the better. Thanks for the positive messages from your videos.
@ohnonotthevampire71913 жыл бұрын
Too true Rebecca! Freedom from toxic influence via self-governance and a strong, unshakeable sense of self is true liberation. Toxic people realizing they are unable to push your buttons, sway your opinions, or drive you crazy is like garlic to these vampires and it's fun to watch them squirm after every one of their failed cowardly attempts at attacking my self esteem.
@jeanniecossey2002 жыл бұрын
It's baffling how they are cowardly and diabolical at the same time.
@more444store63 жыл бұрын
I'm ready to move on completely. Done and done, and no longer intimidated.
@fruitsandspiceschannel22353 жыл бұрын
Im married to an Italian and now living in Rome with my Mother in Law due her earli Dementia, my Sister in Law is a Narsistic and my husband and I really struggling with her, Thankyou for sharing it is help us (my husband and I ) we need her to afraid to us. IM ready
@deepdarkcocoa79563 жыл бұрын
My husband baby mama is one, so I can imagine the struggle honey. She HATES me but I can't stand her neither.😒 Pray for me and I'll pray for you.
@narcfighters44343 жыл бұрын
Not all Italian, luckily, are like this as not all brits r like this...
@fruitsandspiceschannel22353 жыл бұрын
@@deepdarkcocoa7956 Thankyou for the support and prayers, it means a lot to me, sending you positives energies. Lets have our chin up and educate more so that we all can be survived and handle well the situation.
@fruitsandspiceschannel22353 жыл бұрын
@@narcfighters4434 it is very true not all Italian... we are all surrounding by Narsistic person everywhere in this world.
@pointsbeingmade79963 жыл бұрын
👏👏
@momikal22383 жыл бұрын
Rebecca, the Wizard of Oz analogy was spot on! I didn’t realize what this was. I was living in fear snd didn’t realize it. I’m not usually a fearful person. I’m an overachiever, but why am I not getting past this? Fear of these scared and simple minded people?! No more. ❤️ You rock! Thanks very much for your help.
I’m ready!!!! I got used, harassed, made to live in fear, had my self-esteem pulverised, made to feel unworthy and less-than. I am worthy! I have a life after them and I am strong! Nothing they do will elicit any of those feelings from me anymore. They are pathetic, sad individuals!! Thank you Rebecca!
@tanyagamble34323 жыл бұрын
This video gives me great comfort . Thank you for your time , it must be horrible to live life as a NARCISSIST.
@E7L1L3s3 жыл бұрын
I didn't know what a narcisist was until a cpl months ago. June would have been our 50th wedding anniversary. Shortly after the 10th, I took my 3 little girls and left for a weekend, then separated for life safety reasons. I could no longer trust him to tell the truth so no possibility of reconciling. Had to wait 3 yrs. for divorce. Found I could not pay a lawyer to present/defend our truth so represented myself. Fortunately, court counsellors and an excellent MD @ the children's hospital they fast tracked me to saved my children from overnight access before the court hearing! The youngest was under 2 yrs. when we parted so I spent the next 17 yrs. being dragged into court on one illegal/unnecessary lie after another. There was a showdown when the eldest turned 19 & he would not release her financial investment. The judge also ruled in such a way as to protect the children's money from the gov't Welfare Dept. ever taking it when I had to depend on them due to injuries/job loss. My girls each worked fulltime by 15yrs. and the eldest @ 47yrs is still in the career she began fulltime @ 161/2. I homeschooled them thru highschool & some elementary. The middle one earned a 4 yr. degree in 3.5yrs. & Grad with Honours in USA while we lived in Canada. She still works in her career @ 44yrs. Their father would lie against me to church ministers behind my back in both countries which cost me one night not knowing where they were in a fireign country. I'm just thankful I'm not dealing with courts today as they are very corrupted/politicized!!
@Godisfirst213 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the free therapy. I now know what I'm dealing with after 10 years. WOW, have I ever turned the tables. I am FEARLESS. He is now fearful.
@clutch7473 жыл бұрын
I am mostly there... I grew up with Narcissists... This is my first year learning about this. I found the key. Thank you!!
@b_re_ake_free_NL2 жыл бұрын
Big hug dear 🙏💯❤
@cymbolichuman4333 жыл бұрын
Horrible experiences are traumatic and damaging to the soul. I think that's their goal. I am hoping to one day find strength again from the mental abuse I ran from.
@lazydaisy4113 жыл бұрын
I’ve been doing a lot of inner work. Not only am I no longer afraid of my narcissist husband (working on getting papers signed for a divorce), I’m no longer afraid of anyone with ill-wishes towards me and have become more willing to communicate my outlook and less hesitant to make decisions.
@crystalanamericaninsicily3 жыл бұрын
SHOW NO FEELINGS OR EMOTIONS...when they try to hurt or belittle you.
@pokerqAK472 жыл бұрын
Just hurt or belittle then 2x more. Worked for me. Finally got rid of that trash
@crystalanamericaninsicily2 жыл бұрын
@@ladyhanny7395 Perfect answer. Then smile. Whatever someone says to Belittle you...say the same thing to them.
@ladyhanny73952 жыл бұрын
@@crystalanamericaninsicily yes i recently had this thought as well. What happens when we mirror them. Giving the exakt same answers, excuses...like oh your so sensitive, it does not matter, i got things to do, i dont always want to say hallo when i am here because you are busy, or you were not there (not true) or i only want to help, I feel sorry for them, i can only do what is in my capacity, are you sad? I helped so many people, i can not taste your cake you made for my bithday, my tooth hurts, you are crazy, arent you cold?, you look so pale, are you ok? (When in reality feeling really good and happy and having had so many compliments about lets say a dress from people), from recently you are pretty balanced, i am proud on myself about your achievements...to name some. Or how about the differnt masks? From toddler, to a so caring person to arrogant and busy to a devil in human form to the copy of the opposite sex. 😀
Exactly, but we sane folks need to start spending less time figuring out what makes narcissists tick and way more time figuring out what makes us tick. Cut your losses ASAP. Get the heck away from them and never look back. Keep working on yourself, and remember, be strong, build yourself back up, and be happy! Life is short!
@AJ-kb9hf3 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you.
@deannarounds32952 жыл бұрын
Depending on how long you were with a narcissist it becomes just your life. Stay long enough and you will eventually believe what they say. I did not even realize what was happening. Left after 22 years - hardest and best thing I ever did.
@nads__novic4 ай бұрын
When you get rid of one another one pops up, best bet is to know what they are, education is the key to freedom, once youre educated you can see them coming..
@laurihaney11743 жыл бұрын
"you're not meant to be small" - WOW! felt that!!
@Peaceforall201113 жыл бұрын
The moment that you let go of of your fear and have confidence when you know you should, it changes who you are and you will never go back. That’s one genie can’t put back in the bottle and you won’t want to
@willjacks7682 жыл бұрын
Hi Rebecca! You have, in this one video, brought the last 28 years of my life out into the light where I have now been able to get a good look at it, and WOW!!! I've been a literal pawn to her every manipulation, her gaslighting (Yes, I even had made up my own retort to her ever present, "No it's not!" I would shoot back "Call the sky purple every day, when I look up it's only blue!" My god, the hell my life has been and never knowing why, actually thinking I was really cursed. It is the emotional abuse which over the last year has begun to manifest itself into physical abuse, with her denying and laying out evil plots and plans as to why it is hopeless for me to even try to do anything about it! I used to be a very outgoing, positive, nothing I can't handle or do kind of guy, responsible and always willing to help, lots of friends and others seemed to always genuinely like seeing me, talking with me. About five months ago, I was feeling completely wrung out and stressed and very unhappy with myself, my normal state. I don't know why, but images and sounds and even smells all came rushing into my thoughts all at once and the feelings along with them. I remember saying to myself, out loud even, and thought it was someone else for a second because of how weird my own voice sounded, "I don't even know who you are anymore! I don't like who you've become." I was losing my mind and had begun to have episodes of depression and hopelessness and the occasional suicidal daydream began playing out in my mind unprovoked. I'm going to watch every single video you have here, probably more than once! You're the miracle I needed to illuminate every dark and depressing corner which was my entire life!!! I UNDERSTAND WHAT'S BEEN HAPPENING AND I FEEL HOPE INSIDE MY SOUL ONCE AGAIN!!! THANK YOU!!! I know, it's 11 months old, but it is new to me today and extremely powerful! I feel like I just won th lottery and the grand prize was Control Of My Own Life Again! Absolutely priceless!!! ❤
@steelcityshoeshine_service2 жыл бұрын
Me too . Recently been love bombed and ghosted.. I was in hospital suffering a stroke from emotional stress of my wife , marrying me and taking everything then demonising me to everyone around me . This has now been a pattern for over 20 years and 2 convictions for " domestic violence" which I admitted out of fear for my children and custody.. I'm now fighting my wife in criminal court against false aligations. I then 11 months later have my now ex partner love bomb me , move him out and me in to his house and his children.. I fell for all of it again .. until friends of hers next door felt sorry for me after I broke and she left and ghosted . It hurts .. I could literally drop dead from the stress and yet she still continues to try and hurt me like all my all my ex partners did . I feel very stupid, alone and beaten by the world . I'm male 39 and could face prison at the hands of one of these women. I'm very open and genuinely believe in allowing myself to be vulnerable or how can love be real and life worth living? I've realised that not knowing these traits has left me as a sheep to slaughter all my life . There is no help ! For the last 12 months I have and the professionals involved in my care have tried to get it but the waiting lists and lack for men . In all honesty these relationships have taken my children, hurt my family beyond repair and damaged my mental health serverly over the years , since I was a young boy .. my mother being the first perpetrator, allowing my step father to serverly abuse me physically. All these years, and what I now face for my lack of awareness . I always blamed myself, because I would break in the end and be so confused and broken, I made threats at myself and shouted , asked what i can do , felt responsible, never violent .. this is how they use the UK laws to manipulate justice and ruin so many men with genuine hearts .. keep hitting a dog with a stick it bites ... When we raise our voices as men or act out of emotion because a person has twisted us , we are blamed, demonised and disregarded by everyone around us . We are still human.
@alayne99293 жыл бұрын
I was already ready. It's already done.
@highplainsdrifter6993 жыл бұрын
FEAR....Makes the wolf bigger than he is... German Proverb
@sousababyonSquidoo3 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how many people you are helping. I studied a bit of workplace bullying and it amazed me to learn that bullying works in favor of the bully ~57% of the time. They NEVER work alone, those flying monkeys and the illusion of consensus are some of their main tactics while they hide behind titles or institutions or "policies". I am so grateful for your videos because you explain many more ways they are manipulative. It's always about "winning" at all costs.
@irenemcnamara96993 жыл бұрын
I have failed in the fight with my 2 narcissistic sisters! I let them have the bulk of ou father's estate. Now they have power over me psychologically. "You are nothing," my sister said. They truly believe that, although I dont. Thank you for your wise counsel.
Don't you EVER believe someone deliberately trying to devalue you/hurt your feelings Ms. Irene 😢😚
@irenemcnamara96993 жыл бұрын
@@crencottrell7849 I will try to keep that in mind in the days ahead. I am just glad I broke off from them. I doubt that they will be back, because they know they have done wrong.
@krisc76183 жыл бұрын
I’m right there with you. My sister stole from parents, convinced them I did it. Abused them, it’s all awful! Im praying for you!
@sb75ification3 жыл бұрын
Can you please make a video on how to crush the narcissist that you have a six year old child with. She knows my daughter is the only love in my life, so she always used her to get back under my skin. Threatens to take her, threaten to file false police reports that I’m “crazy” “unstable” “unfit to be a father” etc. All things I know are not true, nor does she have any shred of evidence to back her claims, but her ability to manipulate ANYONE, keeps me terrified of her. Help!!!!!
@frederickcollins45342 жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving so much, Rebecca!
@ladybutterflyeyes3 жыл бұрын
I AM READY!! Most definitely! 🙏❣️
@addiedn3 жыл бұрын
Needed that motivation to stand in my power, thank you
@julielambrix10243 жыл бұрын
And needs to go. Busted earlier then u thought.... SLAY
@judithdavy62442 жыл бұрын
So true, Rebecca....Strong! & Strenght Thank you...x🤗
@Shakinwithlisa2273 жыл бұрын
This was spot on. I'm going through a divorce right now, 20 yrs. Moving out Sunday!
@karinbliek34253 жыл бұрын
Ready to stand strong finally. It’s only taken 8 months no contact to realise what I was dealing with. Thank god for Sam Vaknin.
@oscarwilliamson11282 жыл бұрын
Karin Bliek,So happy 😊for you
@mariafihn6874 Жыл бұрын
Who’s Sam Vaknin?
@johnmoran79962 жыл бұрын
Rebecca,this is by far the best video on narcissism I've seen you do.i was never scared of shoshanna.i played her too and beat her at her own game and her friends.shes not been seen around the complex lately and I don't care.
@staceywilliams88472 жыл бұрын
I am SO READY! Beyond READY! Thank you so very much for all you’re doing! I’m still in the divorce process. My to be ex-narcissist was served 3+ months ago and still has not responded. This video has helped me understand why. Again, thank you from the bottom of my heart!
@janiebutterfly52512 жыл бұрын
Stacey My heart goes out to you I'm so happy that you are divorcing the narcissist I'm sending you love and light and many blessings stay safe and well asking the Angel's to wrap their wings around you and give you everything that you wish for 🙏🙏🙏💝💖💗💕💐🌹💐🌹🌹
@mariafihn6874 Жыл бұрын
If served in Nevada anyway they only have 20 days to respond or the else ! If they don’t the other party wins
@mariafihn6874 Жыл бұрын
Check your state and attorney
@Wandiasinfo3 жыл бұрын
You are so on it!! It's taken me so long to start understanding the principles you are so eloquently articulating. You cut right to the heart of it. Wish I'd found you ages ago. It would have saved me so much time and energy spent floundering. Thanks for being so generous with your brilliant insight!
@catherinewiget4763 жыл бұрын
Oh my God! Thank you! Thank you! My mother in law is a covert narcissist! Me and my husband are in therapy now! It is so hard….my husband, his dad and his brother are so codependent and I’m the bad guy 😢…this helped me so much!!!
@Jmg3542 жыл бұрын
I'm ready, Rebecca, thank you Had enough, point of Had enough, of all types Of abuse, when I can't Think anymore about anyone or anything else, for 20 years, I'm ready now....
@brianolson_music3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Powerful. Ready. You never know how much time you’ve got. Well said
@dancindebs13 жыл бұрын
Fear. The AA fourth step. Fear paralyzes. You are helping me reclaim me
@maramabdallah54793 жыл бұрын
I am ready ! I don’t fear him anymore ! Thank you 😊
@@rebeccazung8530 I don’t know how , you might be surprised , but I am being honest with you, I wish that one day I can contact you and talk to you , I need it so much . Thanks to everything you do for us ❤️
@georgecudworth61342 жыл бұрын
I recently figured it all out after 6 years of total chaos and repeated physical and mental abuse by my soon to be ex wife! I am a master woodworker and after her keeping me at a very suppressed state I finally got back in the game and landed a 750,000 dollar project. This is when she went off the rails and did everything to block this and then convinced all of our friends that I was horrible and abusive. After doing some research it got me that she couldn't and wouldn't be able to let me gain back the status that I once had! I left her one morning without saying goodbye and I'm never going back to that toxic life ever again! It's my life and I will live it the way I want!
@josephsnisky18512 жыл бұрын
After watching this video I realized we need a movie staring Rebecca as the lead star the Narcissist Slayer. Lights , camera , action !
@margaretryles58702 жыл бұрын
Many women get involved with narcissistic men. The emotional damage is pretty severe and takes time to recover. Cutting them off completely is the way to go. I shut down my FB, changed my phone number and email so he wouldn't have access to me post breakup. It was the right decision. Will pray for him and the other women he gets involved with.
@kellishymka61323 жыл бұрын
I am so ready!!!! Your channel is COMPLETELY helping me!!!
@londaroque73002 жыл бұрын
I'm so ready!! Thank you girlfriend!! You helped me so much ! 🙋🏼♀️
@lenaberch74022 жыл бұрын
Is Just so true.One of my narcissistic person was my mother.I suffered enough from her behaviour to the point I don’t care any more.Means whatever she say or do.I have my issues to work and no time for this what she do.Thanks for that video.
@SunShine-xp7mn3 жыл бұрын
Im ready! at last i was free from this kind of toxic relationship with this no soul person , a fake!
@terrycato26703 жыл бұрын
You can BET the FARM on this, CATCHING them on CAMERAS, (security and the tiny dashcam in your car) when you remind them to SMILE for them. The feeling you have afterwards is GOD SEND
@marilynchapon3573 жыл бұрын
I have been in and out of the revolving door of a toxic relationship that I now understand was a Narcissist abuse relationship. I feel free for the first time in a decade. I really don't care. He doesn't live rent free in my mind anymore!! Or my house for that matter!
Holy Texas Tornadoes! Beautiful Empowering insights on cracking those slimy life-sucking nutshells keeping you from sharing-life-forward. so spot on! Keep calm, Awesomeballs on, y'all.
Thank you for your very inspirational message. This channel has been very comforting to me while healing from being involved with the Cluster B personalities and their abusive toxic spirits.
I’m so ready. Iv had no contact for almost 2 years and he still getting people to ask me questions. I’m lucky people telll him they can’t get in touch with me, lol cx
@dwighthurst58103 жыл бұрын
the best weapon against any narc , toxic ,selfish person is too stop caring. the look on their face is priceless. especially when you realize they never cared about you from the start. funny how the table turn
@APRADOGY2 жыл бұрын
Im ready, Im actually looking forward on confronting this person on Wednesday. My plan is to expose them by giving them examples of what they’ve done to merit my discomfort with the friendship.
@preetiaggarwal43463 жыл бұрын
Superb ending...Living in your power....!!
@Postulatedstate3 жыл бұрын
She's so gorgeous and bright
@johnkeatsin Жыл бұрын
I am ready!
@deniseread72783 жыл бұрын
"I'm So Ready!"
@My1AgenT2 жыл бұрын
Great content. I wasn't afraid of "my narcissist" because it's "home" for me, my childhood with mom was the training field*. I'm actually hoping for this person to show up again with new deceiving strategies and new material for me to "need him" BUT I'm aware that he just can't. He's not coming back because he has no means to self-actualize the empty shell
@lucyinthesky79233 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on mother in laws or people you can’t physically remove from Your life. A video on how to detach emotionally from narcissism in families.
I’m getting to know a relative of mine this way. It’s like reading why they are the way they are, why they made me feel the way I felt, and why I naturally just got tired, exhausted of their charades. I had enough. I even started losing weight!!!
@mikeriolo77343 жыл бұрын
Rebecca. I never want the other side to retain you as their lawyer. Great video.
@StewartPollard-fc7im2 жыл бұрын
I’m ready and I’ve already done all of this they really are nothing to me it’s like who they really don’t exist for me I feel great I’m who I’m truly meant to be I’m shinning so bright I make a diamond look dull
@rafsanachoudhury34232 жыл бұрын
10:30 is a fantastic point. Thanks for highlighting what life SHOULD be like.
@Real2k253 жыл бұрын
Would never thought she be scared of anything
@lisakaler41213 жыл бұрын
It's all a facade, they are very weak cowards behind their mask.
@csouthern86923 жыл бұрын
They can never get over being exposed to the public
@Calidore13 жыл бұрын
Great last couple of lines to sum up great talk. The power!
@danherrmann87553 жыл бұрын
Education on this subject is so important. I can see why my significant other is in the shape she is in. The doctor feed drugs of Opioids has made this person worse. I could work with her in a relationship but when the drugs are taken and the vodka drank. This person is in pain. Bid time. A lot of woman are on these drugs. And it is not good.
@brianwenzel87913 жыл бұрын
Knowledge is key. Learning to deal with these insane delusion people is a daunting task that can wear anyone down. On top of too many docs pushing too many prescriptions for personality disorders of mentality ill patients. Adding alcohol just multiples the intensity of pills especially when the dose is way more than recommended. Mood swings turn into psychotic behavior, then false accusations fly. Hurtful Lies to smear, drag down, to ruin another's life and reputation seems to be the goal to suck the soul out of you. It's truly Demonic. Until now, I've never dealt with this crazy stupidity ever before. It's just unbelievable how someone can have so much Evil in their heart and mind towards others. Just Pure Evil. God Help Us All..
@queenburse7582 жыл бұрын
I'm Ready
@hrguillory19793 жыл бұрын
I'm so ready
@christianpulisic77843 жыл бұрын
Hollie Guillory,You got a lovely smile 😊!!
@jamesdouglas73452 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your empowering poscasrs
@teresacatherine16202 жыл бұрын
Been deleting, cutting narcs out of my life .The peace is wonderful I should've done it years ago 🤗
@heathercataldi-zoffoli20802 жыл бұрын
Nobody seems to understand how I am afraid of him, because he comes across so charming, but he is scary because he can make impossible things happen.
@fortunatemathelele37012 жыл бұрын
I'm ready to not be afraid of them
@taikarauseo51602 жыл бұрын
Omg😱 this video was an eye opener Thanks 🙏
@diddlediddle09272 жыл бұрын
I'm so ready.
@linagreco5602 жыл бұрын
Awesome work u r really helping me wirh my narc brother
@wardahmarshall2959Ай бұрын
I'm ready
@claudiamaguire36412 жыл бұрын
I’m ready! I divorced the my Ex Narcissistic Sociopayh 4 yrs ago. He put my our 3 kids against me and has gotten away with everything. It has not been an easy journey.
@michellehoyle54002 жыл бұрын
They seem to riggle out of everything and get away with it.
@preetiaggarwal43463 жыл бұрын
I'm ready!!....So so ready!!👍
@amberrolson51292 жыл бұрын
I’M READY!!
@loismcdonald14782 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work!
@stellavaladez51723 жыл бұрын
I like your change be bold love it now
@susanthepowerseller3 жыл бұрын
ready for the change
@gayleaddis53273 жыл бұрын
I'm NOT Afraid of Him ANYMORE!!!!!
@barbarapadilla4462 жыл бұрын
I'm ready I'm not so afraid as I'm in denial of what he is I know he will never change I have actually witnessed is behavior with other women
@danschmitt24903 жыл бұрын
On point for sure! Thanks for making a great video! Your videos sure shine a light on behaviors of the narcissist! Keep doing your thing! ;)
@traciewalker28302 жыл бұрын
This explains why they try to devalue you.
@bradparks34823 жыл бұрын
Your advice is intentionality confrontational and frankly seems to be not only wrong but predatory to the victims of narcissism Hope you get paid well to make people feel good about building failed relationships then paying you.
@joesaccone93662 жыл бұрын
Wish you could be my attorney Rebecca since the law in this country (London) doesn't have a clue about malignant narcissism, also they held a certain level of corruption within their system. My children have no one to turn to when abused. Since we were separated ten years ago under serious false allegation's that the judge ignored despite been presented with police evidence. Please help me to help the boys if you can any way will do. At the age of 14 my son was put on antidepressant. No one here understand the virulent surrounding the boys are in, or just don't care, the only thing they are after it's money. Also took ten years for me to recover from this horrifying experience. AL thought is all clear to me now but I'm still looking for a way to help my son's. God bless.
@sallyeverts26512 жыл бұрын
Dear Rebecca, the narcissist is my daughter. She holds my granddaughters hostage. Everything you have shared is right on. Please help me.