6 Ways Narcissists are Like Toddlers

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@patricehoward9831]

@@RebeccaZungEsq We want to know more about how you're a lying fraud, Rebecca. We want to know more about you preying on strangers, violating, exploiting, targeting, abusing, defaming, and enslaving strangers for years.

[@WinterWarlock261]

One MAJOR difference: Toddlers are adorable. Narcissists are disgusting.

[@flash_flood_area]

That's exactly what I keep saying! A toddler is adorable; plus, they will eventually mature and learn, so the adults have that to look forward to.

[@afolabiadebajo6489]

Great observation!

[@mabogayderousselle832]

I totally agree 💯 narcissist is worse than any toddlers that I raised 🤚

[@patricehoward9831]

Rebecca is the fraud who has preyed on strangers, violated, exploited, defamed, abused, and enslaved strangers for years to promote herself though. She doesn't stop when addressed.

[@nokotose7127]

The narcissist that I know was never traumatized as a child, she was just very spoiled as a child and had wonderful, generous parents. They gave her everything she wanted and treated them very disrespectfully back. She takes narcissistic rages and is still very demanding, greedy and selfish as a senior citizen.

[@PaigeSquared]

The incident usually happens before the consciousness is developed and recall memory begins, most don't remember. The trauma can also be a little t trauma; and is completely based on the infant's perception, which is already limited. It isn't always about what happened, sometimes the wound is more about what didn't happen for the person; emotional neglect is pervasive. When we grow up in a toxic system, it can be very difficult to pick up on certain behaviors that are red flags for dysfunction. Perhaps the person that came to your mind had an excess of material goods, but that was the only way her parents knew how to love (likely one of her parents). There might have been no physical positive touch nor comfort, no emotional safety, maybe being angry or sad wasn't allowed, or the kid's emotional needs were totally ignored. Look in the family for alcoholism or addiction in other forms, the system that produces narcs is the same or similar to the alcoholic family system. I noticed that the majority of older generations' parents had very brutal policies regarding raising children. Ignoring a child all day and letting them scream in a crib until they gave up home was quite normal. Showing affection to a baby was considered spoiling. Many older folks believe they had normal upbringings, but when you dig in, were quite obviously traumatic. I noticed that many of the narcs I personally encountered had a vet as a grandparent or great grandparent, and the vet had illustrated PTSD symptoms after they came back home. It's my personal theory that the world wars created a lot of dysfunction in American families; trauma that was left unaddressed and passed down via emotional unavailability. It is sad.

[@suejohnson535]

Ignore - silence!! Animals have more empathy then narcissistic do . Animals love you unconditionally , when you hurt ,sad animals want to comfort you . Thank you Rebecca for you being here with all your videos & Thank you all survivors here with all y'all's comments here and I hoped you all to have a wonderful lovely blessed 🙏 evening/ night. Happy 😊 New year everyone.

[@brooklyn6680]

JUST IGNORE THEM.. THEY HATE IT, BUT I LOVE IT....

[@patricehoward9831]

Rebecca has had 24/7 access to a stranger's life for years to promote herself and doesn't even acknowledge the boundaries set repeatedly by that stranger. She wouldn't have ever been able to prey on strangers, violate them, exploit, target, defame, and enslave strangers for years if she did like any normal person would do and "ignore them." She doesn't ignore, but she has lied about strangers for years to benefit herself, and she only says "ignore them" because she doesn't want to acknowledge her actions. She doesn't want her audience to question her either. So she can sit up here and lie about people she doesn't know for years, but when her actions are addressed, she says "ignore them." It's another way to silence the people she abuses, and then she continues.

[@j2muw667]

Narcissist learn as toddlers that throwing temper tantrums allows them to control those around them and get their way.

[@RamsAries86]

They have the audacity to break my boundaries which gets no reaction, no contact, and ignored. NO SUPPLY

[@truthseeker9355]

My toddlers were always more mature than the narcissist I dealt with in the past.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@valerieoconnor4210]

This is so hard to say... my 35 yo daughter is narcissistic! My son who is younger always says she "flighty" & blows off her behavior. But I spent Christmas crying bc she couldn't even pick up phone to call her mother. She intentionally 'forgot ' my Christmas present when she saw my son over holidays. She intentionally posted on social media that she traveled hrs to see her father (my ex husband) & step mother then hrs in another direction to see friends for Christmas. But ive seen her once in 4 yrs! She just keeps doing things to slap me in the face. Yes, my 5 yo grandson acts more mature than my daughter. Ty Rebecca.

[@peterknyk1942]

They pout a lot when they don't get their own way...😟 then the tantrums....🤮 subsequently it all turns into viral abuse...😱

[@loissuch8022]

I 👍 agree or text abuse because they can't get their way.

[@peterknyk1942]

@@loissuch8022 I didn’t think of that one! So true!

[@patricehoward9831]

Being preyed on, violated, exploited, targeted, abused, defamed, and enslaved for years by frauds who have 24/7 access to your life doesn't translate to "a narcissist not getting your own way" though. Rebecca is the person who has gotten her way, and she has benefited doing this to strangers for years, for no reason. This has been viral abuse for years already.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@jeanettecook1088]

Recently, Dr Sam Vaknin states that the emotional age of narcissists is about 2 years. At first I didn't believe this. After listening to your and other KZbinrs' videos, I am starting to understand. It's just amazing.

[@patricehoward9831]

Just because frauds say things like this doesn't make it reality though. There are many frauds, including Rebecca, who say "narcissists act like toddlers, like 2 year olds," but they leave out information on how they have preyed on strangers, violated strangers, exploited, targeted, abused, defamed, and enslaved strangers for years and have 24/7 access to that stranger's life. They go out of their ways to abuse for years calling the people they abuse narcissists, when it's a lie. When their abuse is addressed, they say things like "narcissists play the victim," and then they continue abuse. If you get angry about their incessant abuse, they say things like "narcissists act like 2 year olds, like toddlers, and throw tantrums because they don't get what they want," when people are asking for basic boundaries. It's a gaslighting tactic, and they are lying. They just blame others anyway they can and omit their actions. They have benefited from these lies for years.

[@jeanettecook1088]

@@patricehoward9831 They were referring to the basic emotional maturity level of a narcissist, which is different than their capacity to abuse. You're right, they do continue to abuse, and their emotional maturity level can still be very small. It's a factor in understanding the disorder, and I don't think any of these presenters intend it as an excuse for abusive behavior.

[@flash_flood_area]

I've been generous, I've been saying 5 or 6 years old. I used to say 10 yrs old, but I soon realized I was giving them wayyy too much credit.

[@gloriadonahue7241]

My narcissistic husband wasn't traumatized as a child at all. He was 100% over indulged.

[@annaburns2865]

It’s so frustrating when they are you parents because you cannot punish them like you would a toddler.

[@daynapeterson9033]

Wait till you see an 88 yr old narc mom throw a temper tantrum in your car because you turned down a different street than what she dictated. She yelled "you just don't want to be CONTROLLED". That said it all.

[@Lupo32]

Who wants to be controlled ? I'm a Hedonist myself.

[@yukio_saito]

Toddlers' tantrum is a normal part of growing up. But narcissists never become mature. Just ignore them!

[@gloriadonahue7241]

Since I don't have my own you tube channel and I don't have to worry about advertisers, you tube contracts or offending my audience, I will GLADLY say it ~ "Narcissists ARE babies. They ARE toddlers." ABSOLUTELY.

[@thrutherhythm44]

I just read a scientific article about the connection between lack of sense of smell/have damaged olfactory systems and the arrested development of the limbic system. I was researching this wondering if it contributed to the personality and behavior of a narcissist I know. Now it’s sounding like there are either multiple causes for his toddler-like brain, or the original childhood damage done was bad enough to completely destroy his sense of smell. His sense of smell is completely nonexistent. I feel like, chances are, there are multiple causes for his limbic problems. This creates a very scary environment for anyone around him. Everything surrounding him appears as collateral damage. He used to tell me many times in the past, during the idealization and love-bombing phase, that he was “rotting from the inside out.” Strange how he was honest during that time. Everything got flipped around. My anxiety has peaked to a level it’s never been close to, and I am preparing to finally rid myself of this rotten empty energy that is this individual.

[@jeanettecook1088]

Be careful trying to find out the why. I know it's natural to wonder, but the truth is that narcissists are the same, and will be the same, whether you're there or not. The only things that will happen when you leave and go no contact, are that in a very short time, the narc will get a new source of supply, and you get your life back.

[@thrutherhythm44]

@@jeanettecook1088 At this point, I’m nearly praying he already *has* a new supply. I’m afraid of him, and any distractions from tormenting me are welcomed. I feel for whoever that new person is, and sometimes I find myself hoping they are like him and can show him what it’s like. This is an internal thought. Most times, though, and the energy I project outward, is compassion. I try to be a good person and draw from my loving heart. I’d rather give this energy to ones who truly love me back, though.

[@izawaniek2568]

I totally agree. Ignore the narcisists and keep silence to keep your energy intact❤ Thank you.

[@alethiasingleton3109]

Empaths go thru fight and flight trauma to but the only difference is the empaths don't let the trauma change their true self loving, caring and forgiving but the narracissit cannot do.

[@Nanajsiuz]

Empaths stop loving themselves after narcissistic abuse.

[@Pr8053]

Oh My! Yes, toddlers!!! Add that up with HFASD and very selfish attitude! Just went again throu one of his many tantrums but I was able to handle it better this time or so I think. It can be draining...Hope everyone that goes throu this remain strong before going nuts. There's a time for everything.

[@Jackgritty28]

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[@jamespimentel1794]

When a narcissist offers you crumbs don't take the bait just say this its huge just say [NO I DONT WANT TO DO THAT FOR YOU!!!]

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[@courtneymcgregor3417]

My sister has actually used my mother's horrible death late October to go on one of her narc revenge attacks on me.

[@doreenp4841]

Just ignore them!

[@jaimhaas5170]

Yeah trying to tell my 40 yr old wife "no" ...would trigger it. She wouldn't accept that answer for ANYTHING she wanted.

[@patricehoward9831]

Telling Rebecca "no" means nothing. She has preyed on strangers for years to promote herself, has violated, exploited, targeted, abused, defamed, and enslaved strangers for years to promote herself, and she does not stop no matter how much she is addressed. She has gotten a lot that she wants over years doing this, like attention, supply, praise, significance, validation, and money.

[@joshuaanzalone2060]

Ignore them

[@armoncakes7318]

What a comparison! IGNORE them!

[@snoopy4802]

The only day my narcissistic ex fiance cried was when we were at the surgeons office. The surgeon asked what I wanted done and my reply was. Ask him he wants me to have this done. The surgeon said who's the patient and I said me. The surgeon then said to come back when I wanted it done. When we got back to the car my ex first lashed out at me. I stood my ground and said Did I lie to the doctor.. I took my ring off and he cried like a baby. Not because I took my ring off but because he did not get his way. Wasn't funny at the moment but it is now. So glad I left.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@rgboyte]

Wow !

[@Eli99505]

Hi Rebecca, can you please make a video about narcissistic MIL and grandmother? It’s hard to find videos about the narcissistic grandmother and how to protect the children from her especially if the spouse doesn’t see that the mother is a narcissist.

[@florence7897]

Ignore them!

[@doreenp4841]

Got out of a narc relationship and moved. Guess what? The roommate is a narc. They always lie and manipulate to get their way. Looking for another place. DOUBLE YUK

[@tiffanyb.7596]

The narcissist I was with was being told by a banker his check couldn’t be cashed. He literally stomped his feet, I could tell he wasn’t even aware of his big boots stomping as he argued with the teller. 😄 The bank guards approached quickly. Poor baby had no choice but to leave without his money. ( I was secretly smiling on the inside). 😄

[@GPDuchess]

I fainted on my stairways, my 4 year old kid didn't know how to tell my husband I wasn't well, he just went in and screamed ' mommy is upset'; comparing narcs to toddlers is an insult to toddlers 🙄🤣

[@Snizzle_Fizzle]

Haha yes

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@kattmeowmx420]

One of the craziest things I've ever witnessed was a 54 year old full grown adult have a 3 year old tantrum. I'm talking jumping up and down freaking out crying. I didn't know it at the time. But damn I do now. Thank you Rebecca!!!

[@rachana777]

Same!!! My mother in law cries all the time if she doesn’t get what she wants!!!

[@grantaugustyniak6667]

My sister-in-law for sure - seen it with my own eyes - 2 year tantrums all the time - it’s one of the ugliest things you’ll witness in life

[@hopperhelp1]

Ha my father. When I was ten and he was 50 I saw him throw a tantrum like throwing himself on the floor and screaming at the cashier over a dollar. God it was so embarrassing. I had to give him a dollar afterwards so we wouldn’t be permanently kicked out of the store.

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[@grantaugustyniak6667]

Adult tantrums are one of the ugliest things you can witness in life ! Seen it ! It’s ugly! Walk away & don’t go back .

[@judi2176]

Ignore them!!!!!!!

[@colleenmiller3300]

Ignore them! 🎉

[@kevinprovenzano6678]

Just ignore them… omg yes they even pout like toddlers when you don’t react, it’s creepy

[@kimberlyhinson3791]

Just ignore them!!!

[@mommaboombam3764]

Perhaps they are stuck in their childhood traumas and take on their pain into adulthood. Their stuck and afraid of being confronted and dealing with their issues. They are stuck in their minds. God help them and keep them away from me. They only want to use me to fill their painful void and suck my empathy. They can't grow up mentally so I choose no contact to protect myself. Thank you Rebecca 💛

[@rogerlampe1374]

Rebecca's still the Best. how she teaches is equal to what she teacher as far as importance . She miraculously breaks it down using a foundation base so she allows you to build off it so it's much easier to remember for dealing with life down here. So her incredible teachings and sharing sort of becomes you and you just.know it. But yes sometimes we must go to know. But sharing in word picture sometimes is how she takes us along making her teaching style most special because she's with us teaching.I think she actually cares. just sayin

[@patricehoward9831]

Rebecca is a fraud, a predator, a pathological liar, extreme abuser, and enslaver who has benefited for years.

[@carafloydpresley6584]

Just ignore them

[@infichif]

Narcissists walk around like toddlers these days. Everyone has to watch out for them and get out of their way.

[@wesjohnson934]

The tantrums are energy draining and will put your health at risk! The anxiety of not knowing when it will happen. People do not stick around for the behavior to change, you are wasting your time.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@gabecouncil1001]

JUST IGNORE THEM!!!!

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[@OddJaxx900]

They definitely are toddlers

[@sheilathedford7581]

What if they dont have all these issues? Like controlling tantrums but needing to be in control of everything...

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[@suziex4190]

OT - way to rock the highlights & Layers Rebecca! It looks nice. 😁 Appreciate all your content, thank you & happy New Year!

[@robertscottmcmillan4881]

Like Toddlers AAnd Teenagers, 😳….but no further… 🎯☝️

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@sondralee8539]

Adult Toddlers blame everyone else for their own Psychological problems. Walk away from them.

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[@judywiley4171]

Just ignore them.

[@johnjohnstone9805]

There is a Funny (not funny) You tube video illustrates this pretty well called "Linda, listen to me" Linda tries to engage toddler and goes nowhere. Lesson in ineffective parenting?

[@stevenzinn5029]

Looking absolutely stunning today counselor 😉 Ig naw them

[@eddygonzalez7174]

The Narc that I know just said she likes acting like a toddler. She even watch cartoon shows for toddlers.

[@lesterstone8595]

Ignore who? --That was me ignoring them. 🤣

[@CanadianBear47]

tfw they dont get it. well just talk to them there is nothing to talk about. well just give them an opportunity to manipulate u again nah im good. well them im gona mad at u cus that my fear. cus i am like, no those are not good options for me. i am free.

[@barryevans8823]

At least toddlers grow up 😅

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@metaphysiiickz]

Why, does, she, talk, so, slow, you, realise, we aren't, toddlers right?

[@mangetout7846]

Stop. Tallllkinnnng. Like. That............... It. Is. Very. Annoying.

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[@anthonyleveille1]

They remind me of that scene with Stewie (from family guy) when he's calling his mom numerous times as she lays in bed and he doesn't stop until she turns in anger and yells "what!" Then he laughs and runs off. /They get a kick out of annoying you, they'll keep poking at you, doing passive aggressive tactics, they'll intensify the annoyance when you ignore their desperate need for you to react or show frustration, and the moment you react then they become quiet. I go through this with stalking neighbors plenty of them get together and use noise harassment that shows I'm being illegally watched and is intended for mere harassment. It's like they want you to care so bad about them and why they're harassing you and keep your attention fix on them just to drain your energy. And when you show you don't care, they get upset and will do things repeatedly to make you care, then you show a hint of care then that's their chance to act like they don't care. Sigh* #targetedindividuals view my Instagram @tsktskteaser

[@juliaamundsen3550]

Just ignore them!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

TOTALLY!

[@shelanel5348]

Just ignore them!!!

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[@KQMcKinnon]

Just ignore them

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[@davidhinkson8856]

Just ignore them!

[@erinvance-brown6726]

Just ignore them!

[@mitzijones3333]

Just ignore them

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[@_Sp3cialisT_]

Just ignore them

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

TOTALLY!

[@anthonyleveille1]

Just ignore them

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

TOTALLY!