How To FORCE A Narcissist Who Is Driving You Crazy into Panic Mode

[@asmrtistfox3844]

It’s really sad how much work is required in order to deal with these demonic beings. Shut them down & shut them out! ✌🏼

[@TNTUXO]

I've wondered if something evil is involved too. The lack of empathy from my ex, was just mind blowing.

[@smtberry01]

This evil spirit is the reason I filed for annulment from my narcissistic husband of 3 months. I'm so aggressive that I know I absolutely could not deal at all!

[@titanium8182]

@@TNTUXO they can be sociopaths.

[@titanium8182]

@@smtberry01good you do what you have to do to keep safe and sane. Nice job🎉

[@Dr.Sharron]

Exactly. That is what people are dealing with when involved with other people with such behaviors. Get away from these people. Speak to them with a long handle spoon.

[@scottcarder9543]

Thank you Rebecca I've always liked your advice because I've found so many people out in the past. I'm not really having trouble with an ex partner though rather toxic, rude and impulsive people. Alot of them break the law. Every time they've narked themselves into the law, get busted and they just constantly lie through their teeth. So thank you again for an informative video Becky ❤

[@carissahuffman6581]

I am living with this kind of person. I need ways to cope. I need them to want to leave.

[@carissahuffman6581]

We are already not giving in and focusing on the facts.

[@seasidecreations4526]

Never everrrrrr ever ever giving in ever again. New language! Saving #universe

[@Lionhart0067]

Turn the table

[@dukeman079]

I don't wanna be controlled by them anymore, their behavior is so atrocious I don't think you understand how violent that makes me want to be towards them ! But I don't get violent, i'm just tired of holding it in can you relate ?

[@ladyree7575]

Not giving in 💯

[@cicamaca7172]

The best way is overtake control to drive them crazy from secure position and be unpredictable for them.

[@johnpaulsawan1990]

I bought a body cam and a pen with a camera in it to document all my conversations with my narcissistic father. He stole a million dollars from me!!! Im unsure how to hide the recording devices. Should I just let him know I'm recording?

[@debrahkarper7657]

Not giving in

[@BeautifulCrazy67]

AMEN!!🎉Thank you, but I am laughing at his lies. I know I have nothing to hide!! He tried this, CALM AND SELF Sufficiency is the 🗝️😊 You are loved , you matter and you’re not crazy. Mentally ill people do something’s from being taught how to manipulate so that they don’t have to feel, so they shifted to you. be self-confident yourself and love yourself

[@vickicravener7529]

Everything is my fault! Omg i told him if we had a tornado hit our house, he would find a way to make it my fault!

[@willowbee1589]

Totally!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@guardedcitadel5837]

My Narc’s favorite movie is…… The Wizard of Oz…… LOL

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@valerieannegagnon8803]

totally

[@loafergirl3374]

When I started to push back, our relationship began to END

[@indridcold8433]

As soon as you realise a narcissist is in your life, simply delete the person. A

[@susanrobertson2922]

Same here! My now ex husband, was a boundary bulldozer. Any control he lost over me, the worse things got. He finally replaced me and drug me through six years of court, and has been on a strategic mission to discredit me to this day, almost seven years since the divorce.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@clintonnagy1662]

Amen. Same here.

[@olgadewitt9462]

My ex started moving to the divorce direction when I become smarter and his manipulation stop working on me. They just coverts

[@identification133]

Turn the table

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@burgundisands9905]

1. Brutal honesty 2. Pushing back 3. Exposing them 4. Them losing control in any way 1. Do not be intimidated by their behavior. 2. Don't give in to their demands. 3. Start putting boundaries in place. (Don't give in.) 4. Focus on the facts. 5. Withold emotional reactions. 6. Cut them off and ignore them. Six Tactics 1. Call them out when things are not adding up. 2. Don't react to their bait. 3. Get them to lie and then flip it against them. 4. Act like you don't care. 5. Creating invincible leverage. 6. Be offensive and not defensive. Ten Phrases 1. "I can see that you are upset." 2. "We can both work together on this." 3. "I hear you." 4. "I have no right to control how you see me." 5. "I'm not upset with you." 6. "Your approach is not working for me." 7. "You can disagree with me but you have no right to disrespect me." 8. "What you are saying does not align with the facts." 9. "I agree with you..." 10. "Goodbye." Top LIES All Narcissists Want You to Believe: 1. You can be vulnerable with me. 2. You can count on me. 3. Everything in their lives is your fault or your problem. 4. I will change / I have changed. 5. I would never lie. 6. No one loves you like I do. 1. Threaten their supply source. 2. Demonstrate their lack of control. 3. Live your life!!!

[@bellableu4023]

Thank you!!

[@dt7202]

Beautiful thank you

[@mtm105]

It took almost 20 years to recognize. Her step-sister identified my wife’s Mother as a malignant narcissist. Malignant? I thought narcissists were benign and liked looking at selves in the mirror. I thought that my wife was on a bi-polar spectrum. 4 DUIs and 17 listed crimes on record, 58 days in jail, she is a “covert” narcissist. I prefer Sociopath.

[@mtm105]

I want to cut & copy this list.

[@sarahcomps7553]

@@burgundisands9905 thank you very mutch 💕

[@venessatiller8939]

It's easy to panic a narcissists , learn their weakness , ignore, cut off , say no , keep records , call them out , don't care , best one is walk away

[@peterredit1305]

Yes, walk away!! This just works and removes their power…

[@KayMcGuffin-wr6gh]

I got subpoenaed by the district Attorneys Office. I testify against him. I felt I was betraying him because I always told him I would have his back. But I still knew it was time to tell the truth. I don't think his public defender told him I was subpoenaed. I know the public defender was told. My ex narc looked at me with surprise. I wasn't looking at him directly until they ask was my abuser in the court room and who is he to me. He was staring at me with dead or the evil eyes. Was he angry or thinking revenge? He took a plea and the judge put a 3 year protective order on me. The day he got out he violated because he contacted me. I hung up on him. He continue calling demanding me to pick him up. I wouldn't. Then 2 weeks later he left and got a bus ticket and went back to his mom where ever she is at. So now he has 2 warrants we're I live and one where we both r from. Both felonies and it's domestic violence me being the victim. Now if he gets caught he's looking at prison, but it's not my fault nor my problem. I do wonder if he was angry or just planning revenge on me. Because I am sure that he thinks I betrayed him

[@vickicravener7529]

Oh I'm so good at pretending I am home alone and totally ignoring! He can rant and rave all he wants and i dont blink an eye, just go about my business. I would leave but it would be hard financially and physically, as i have stage iv cancer. He is on medication now that has decreased his manic phases. And I use that one now, you are in a manic mode rt now so everything is a catastrophe. It will actually be fine.

[@vickicravener7529]

Not giving in!

[@meshugga2668]

They diminish when you walk away... did mummy walk away 😢

[@amygonzales9146]

My ex loved attention. I blocked his number and deleted it 😉 Then he started leaving letters in mailbox and following me. After all this I met him at his house with a policeman and told him to leave me alone 😂😂😂 He lost his shit and started screaming and yelling " How dare you embarrass me! He was cuffed and taken away 😂😂😂😂 He definitely got attention that day and never bothered me again 😂😂😂😂 Everyone saw him for what he was. His name was in the paper and everything lol 😂😂😂 Asshole 😂 He wasn't expecting any of that. He got his! That was 8 years ago. Never saw him again 😉😉

[@Lahijadelabogado]

❤I love it 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Mine works at the same school I do , so i talked to the superintendent and I haven’t 👂 hear anything about him luckily…. It took 2 meetings at the main office , couple of emails for harassment and 5 police reports…😂

[@FaithFilled.]

Narc slayer goddess

[@dargeo1406]

Job well done! 👏🏻

[@chocolateshake1130]

Incredible ❤❤❤

[@susangoodman2598]

Did you go for court to pay you support and deal with his property and put a lean on his property till retro active support is paid..?

[@jjdotj5028]

Omgosh, it’s the lying for no reason for me!!!!! 😑😑 The gaslighting is even worse. 😒 Oh and the victim role….let’s not forget that! 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@clintonnagy1662]

Lying about stuff that doesn't matter. Mind boggling. Absolutely insane.

[@FunUrth]

Me too and silent treatment for 1-5 days.

[@ShirleeOtt]

Plus no accountability and never apologize.

[@jjdotj5028]

@@ShirleeOtt that right there makes my blood boil!!!!!

[@LucianaRobledo-p4i]

They r pathetic 😂its exhausting

[@annemarie5273]

Don't give in. Don't back down. Remember: "they actually fear you more than you fear them". No contact. No words. Live your life.

[@bridobrien7483]

thank you I was just looking for this I cant stand spending an hour listening to someone waffle when 60 seconds or less will give the same information without the ego tripping

[@paulagould5853]

TOTALLY!!

[@indridcold8433]

I do more than no contact. I delete narcissists. I never speak about them again, to anybody. Anything given ti me by the narcissist is discarded, anything damaged or repaired by the narcissist is discarded. It is as if the personas N never existed in my life.

[@spectershore4482]

🤣🤣 you made my day!!

[@marypatton1122]

If the narcissist and gaslighter is your boss and holds the purse strings, an empath is SCREWED!

[@BillyBob-g6s]

You tell them the truth.about everything they do.and they go ballistic and blame you

[@ruthslater6364]

Yup the nightmare goes ballistic. 😮

[@nicolecarnevale3226]

Yeah. She is a murderer. The ballistic part hasn’t happened except on an emotion hijacking’s front.

[@AltonWealth]

😂💯

[@acolley2891]

​@@nicolecarnevale3226 Jesus said if you hold hatred for someone you are a murderer, so yes, they will be judged as such. God bless you.

[@Smartcriticalthinker89]

Totally

[@topneverstop]

He always said i was psychotic, a narcissist, sociopath, all the above. But God says whatever comes out the mouth is from the heart. It was him the whole time. I feel like crying from 3 years of emotional and physical abuse.

[@jen-gv7tx]

cryogenics

[@NopeNotTodaySatan]

Projection at its finest!!!

[@HS-vr9ml]

Can change from one nature to another.didnt fit in when young.

[@LucianaRobledo-p4i]

@@topneverstop u deserve to be respected and I am so proud of u

[@tommyephran-dc4by]

And when you have outsmarted them, and crippled them from supply, it tears them up, and that means , you have refused all they bait, and you have taken back your power ✊️✊️💪💪💯😊

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@andyrosefan]

Married 25 years and never knew what a narcissist was until I looked it up last year. But on my 69th birthday I claimed my independence, and no longer allowed him to control me. He couldn't handle it so he called his daughter with some sob story and they sent him a one way ticket back to Jersey to live with them. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree, cause they all are pretending that I don't exist. Lesson learned never ever trust a man that always says, "trust me,"

[@Dlzozoa]

Be careful. People with trauma see narcissists everywhere. And if you tear one up with a technique, they might be crumpling because they think of you as they did their abusive, narcissistic parent.

[@PatriciaHarrington-d3h]

Totally

[@christinajackson3461]

​@@Dlzozoamake sense

[@dermlover1]

I’m currently getting the silent treatment. And lord I hope this lasts forever. Not speaking or dealing with this person is so refreshing. I just pray he doesn’t come home today, or ever for that matter.

[@roadtrip808]

Did it last? Im getting it now as well lol it's so peaceful 😅

[@lorettaknox154]

If they are being silent it's time for you to take a vacation. Make sure you have a backup plan. Go away for a few days have some fun.

[@lorettaknox154]

​@@roadtrip808You have the right to party. Go out. Treat yourself build a whole life of fun. Put them out of your mind. When you go home carry out your night routine and if they question you give them the silent treatment.

[@acolley2891]

I just wish he would. No harm, just go away. God bless you.

[@user-uo8pp7kq7n]

If you are feeling like that.. make your plans to leave! It may take awhile but plan it!

[@lashellehardy6687]

I joked that he was a narcissist. When I finally started researching narcissism, I was shocked!! Wow! I don't want revenge, explanations... nothing. I want him out of my life!!

[@jamescoburn6789]

Me too. She exploded exactly how the definition said she would. Although I was being serious. I just didn't know how deep it was until I looked into it.

[@lashellehardy6687]

@jamescoburn6789 Sickening to discover they really have a major mental illness. It also opened my eyes to other individuals/family members with some of the same traits. IT'S WILD!

[@pamelahunter4203]

Having boundaries and calling them out on the bs is key.

[@terriekurney6548]

They are very insecure and I kept it 💯

[@skywatcher6064]

That tactic only makes a narc stronger, they dont realize what they are doing. Speaking from experience

[@coffeegirl6854]

@skywalker.....They know exactly what they are doing. 100%. 100% !!!!!!!

[@skywatcher6064]

@@coffeegirl6854 Thanks for your reply. I will agree, the narc knows what they are doing, while they are doing it. I believe that narciscism is a form of mental illness. My observation of my narc wife pertaining to our relationship shows me that she uses her narc skill to manipulate and control with negativity. She doesnt seem to be in control of herself while doing so, but rather seems to feel the need to control the narrative by skirting the issue or changing the subject slightly to frustrate me into submission , showing her strength so to speak, with irrational and unreasonable thinking, attempting to cause me to go into defence mode. And since I care about her and our relationship, I fall for it and become very frustrated and heated arguments and debates ensue. I dont back down, never did. As a last ditch effort to get her to understand she does not have to act or react in this way with me , for the last six months I have been calling her out on her behaviour, on her lack of comunication skills, on her unwillingness to agree to disagree ,etc. etc. All that I have accomplished is that she has distanced herself even further from having an intimate relation with me. Yes, on one hand she may see the logic in what I,m doing and it has slowed her negativity somewhat, but , I think her behaviour was conditioned at an early age by her abusive narc mother and later by 4 failed marriages, one of which, her husband killed her pet cat,cooked it and fed it to her . Afterwards, he told her what she had eaten. I still believe that I am paying for all the wrong that others have inflicted on her in her life. She cant let go of the past pain and negativity she has endurred. At 62, it may be too late for that to occur. . This is why I say that narcs dont know what they are doing, not only to themselves but to others . They have been conditioned to think and act in a certain way but they dont realize that this is what has happened to them. They actually believe that their behaviour is normal socially acceptable behaviour. I,ve been involved with her and her problems for 13 years, I,m not a scholar or a pschycoligist, just a critical thinker that can see what her narc behaviour has done to us, and she does not. As a matter of fact, she thinks my beliefs pursuant to her behaviour and how it affects us is absurd and unfounded. My closest friend asked me, did you ever concider that she just doesnt like you ?, I replied, yes so why does she stay with me?. He said, because she,s a survivor. He,s right. She feeds off of me for her sustainability, biting the hand that feeds her . She doesnt have to feel that way, but she just dont get it. Therefore, I still say, a narc doesnt know what they are doing.

[@genuinsanity]

Watch out , they get angry to point of violence .

[@leefrancis007]

The power struggle with a narcissist is unbelievable!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@julieutley2073]

66 years here. Been there, done that, got educated and understand why and allowed me to understand. It set me free!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@julieutley2073]

Oh, yeah. Am over that stuff many years now. But thank you!

[@allsouls5997]

When you ask them to leave. Their evil is revealed.

[@karenwingerd8929]

​@sine8811 the difference is, we're not talking about cutting out all our friends, we're talking about cutting out the Narcissist

[@karenwingerd8929]

Yes, they can rek havoc on ur entire life & those that mean the most to u.

[@existinginthegray]

100% That's when I truly saw I was NOT the problem!

[@CovetAmory]

Every time they asked me if I ever got lonely the first thing I thought was always yeah when I'm with you. When I finally said it they acted so ugly the ick Factor set in all of a sudden I could smell something nasty in the room I saw them differently stop caring what they thought or if they apologize and I really don't care what happens to them. I don't wish them any harm of course but I really wish they'd just get the hell out of here. They've been abusive in public more and more and the community is noticing and they will have to move and take on a new alias yet again. I know background check everyone a date for spend any kind of alone time with even platonically but remember some people might have criminal records and have changed. My attacker actually came up clean so take that into consideration they probably just didn't get caught many psychopathic narcissists don't get caught.

[@CovetAmory]

That being said err on the side of caution!! Always.

[@melattard2037]

I found raising My voice and swearing like I've never sworn before actually shut him down He didn't expect me to do that

[@CovetAmory]

Me too!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@NopeNotTodaySatan]

I began doing that & it enraged him so much that he physically assaulted me. He was on top of me & when he saw the look in my eyes panicked & took off. Then called my family acting like I was abusing him!!! 🤯 He did me a favor by doing that--they drove hours to come get me. When my parents saw all bruises on me including his hand/finger prints on both my arms I didn’t have to say a word. He’s been sending essays. Haven’t read them but am keeping them just in case. 4 within the last 24 hours. Now he’s sending them to my parents & children. I’m so exhausted.

[@robbiewooden5067]

It works.

[@Catmansdaughter]

I'm NOT giving in. I'm just learning about narcissists, and now it's all making sense why my husband is like he is. I'm just flooding my mind with as much information as I can. Thank you for your information!!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@Catmansdaughter]

@RebeccaZungEsq Thank you for checking in on me. It means a lot. The last few days have been rough. My pastor and his wife offered for me to stay with them. I told them I'd stick it out as long as I could. Thank you for the invite. 🙂

[@WhiteWolf-mf6sl]

It's amazing how predictable they become...

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Ilovemychris24]

I have been Married to dangerous covert narcissist. I didn’t know people like that existed. Finally got help but he has taken everything from me including kids and grandkids 7:51 7:55

[@AboveItAllDroneShots]

Finally understanding them give you back your own control. Then it is staying on top of things if you choose to stay.

[@mleecthulhu]

Oh ikr?! 😂 Like CLOCKWORK! 👍🏻

[@randyschwarz2336]

In most ways this one was predictable as can be but then another wolf curve ball I’ve never seen before.. sadly enough was enough and I chose to lose and amazing woman over her losing her respect for me.

[@maxmaximus8323]

I've been married to someone for 36 years who has this behavior, I didn't know people like this existed and thought she was just a bitch. I found this disorder out within the last few years. This is tuff stuff to deal with, but it makes total sense. Now she lives in another state with the two oldest adult children and I'm doing great and feeling free for the first time in years.

[@LisaGallantSealMUSIC]

Same, 32 years for me, and I thought he was just one of those belligerent, stubborn people, who always share their thoughts with no filter ... not so much. They are sneaky, expert at lying and highly manipulating. So sad and am glad that I too have learned about the disorder in the last few years and am in the process of breaking free, and seeing my own issues too, as I have been attracted to this type of personality for decades.

[@michelletecklenburg5950]

​@@LisaGallantSealMUSICyes, 30 years for me. Never realized the gravity of their depravity.

[@shericleveland6890]

God bless you🙏🦋💫

[@ElainePMP2008]

I wonder how many of these people are the root cause of some violent crimes. Amazing. Enough already. The worst is how they treat their parents and lie to their husband and try to take your husband.

[@fionaallen5108]

Congratulations. I love to hear men being released from manipulative wives and girlfriends. You all deserve the best love!

[@emthegreat7675]

I’m married to one unfortunately and we have kids with disabilities. He’s the bread winner and he is exactly as described in this video.

[@kimberlyasmann4053]

I am a person that won't let anyone control me, especially a narcissist..

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Stay strong! ❤

[@vanessamorey3812]

Same, always have someone, somehow, somewhere trying to get into my head and mess with my peace. 👢 hell no.

[@leonardlisa8318]

Sometimes they miscalculate the strength of people. They think you are weak and gullible and you turn out to be super strong. Surprise !!😲

[@christinajackson3461]

I wish i had gone grey Rock. My narcissistic mother was looking for a fight, looking for attention, said just the worst thing that she knows gets to me, and I caved. I argued back. I should have just never responded and blocked her.

[@JayneAlsagoff]

As soon as I refuse to supply any more. I am the worst person on earth. They shout n scream with anger n say all these bad things about me that I'm not. I am walking away. Wish I did it earlier.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@AntoniaLopez-e9m]

Narcissus do not like to write things down or message because then you have proof of what they said something else they'd rather talk to you over the phone so that they could confuse you and say you said something else or they said something else

[@nikkicbex1915]

I ended up using an app on my phone to record all calls, Cube ACR. It helped me gather more evidence of the abuse

[@dianacardenas1518]

They don’t change their mindset … no matter what

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@indridcold8433]

It is amazingly easy for me to panic a narcissist. As soon as I detect the person that is communicating with me to be a narcissist, I leave. I could be in mid sentence or the other person could be in mid sentence. I will immediately leave the presence of the narcissist, giving no reason for leaving. Aside from leaving with no explanation, I will never communicate with the narcissist again. There will be no further interaction with that person, ever again. Should I have a friend that becomes a narcissist, I shall delete that person from my life as if I never know that person. Narcissists deserve no communication, no friends, no companionship at all, not even from a pet. They are subhuman pests, no different from tics, leeches, chiggers, pin worms, tape worms, hook worms, candiru (penis fish), lawyers, and politicians.

[@ruthslater6364]

You forgot husbands lol.

[@indridcold8433]

@@ruthslater6364 Both male and female seem to drastically change upon becoming spouses. They no longer put the other first. They are cruel to each other and resent each other. After witnessing this many times, even in just boyfriend / girlfriend, relationships that have lasted 10 months, or more. I opted to cease all attempts at finding a girlfriend 8 August 2000 at 18:34. I require no cruelty, liars, users, hypocrites, fakes, nor manipulators in my existence. Thus, I require no spouse, girlfriend, friend, acquaintances. I learned a painful lesson. I will function in life alone to maximize the chances of never having to go through what I did with my last, "friends," and girlfriend. It is not even worth it to find friend or a girlfriend. If you are heterosexual female, you will find that the same is true with a spouse, boyfriend, "friends," acquaintances. Human companionship is not the beneficial institution it used to be 25 years ago. Just isolate and enjoy life much better.

[@JoeYDiMeSRaeN]

I’m gonna be honest, the separating yourself from narcissists, I understand. But that dehumanizing language isn’t productive. The truth of the matter is, these people were hurt somehow, and they hurt people. That doesn’t justify their actions, and they should definitely be held accountable, but your lack of empathy towards them is still… troubling. Your pain was a result of their lack of empathy. You can create boundaries and separate yourself from them, and still apply empathy. As someone who is just come to terms with what I’ve been dealing with, for the last six years was a relationship with a narcissist, and the aftermath/CPTSD as a result. The revelation that my ex was a narcissist led me to realize there are other people in my life who have varying degrees of these tendencies and both of my parents are included in that. The realization of this with my parents came from a terrible interaction with my father where I watched him use the tactics my ex used to use against me to deflect from how he had hurt me. We are all conditioned by our environments when we were young, and I understand completely how my ex ended up the way she is. I understand that my parents, narcissism and treatment of me conditioned me for the paradigm, just as her parents conditioned her with their lack of attention, and constantly dropping her on her grandparents. It must’ve sucked. And the narcissistic personality is constructed around that as a defense mechanism. They’re sad, hurt people. And that at least, I understand.

[@juniordunkley8284]

You are 100% right. I know one

[@blowitoutyourcunt7675]

@@JoeYDiMeSRaeN Yeah I try to avoid doing any of the '10 steps to a Genocide', (even when dealing with a narcissist) because you will eventually lose touch with your own Humanity if ya persist with nonsense like that. Good luck all! Ps to OP - Excessively strict boundaries are just as bad as pervasive ones, you should get that checked out.

[@brookevangerbig8242]

This women wants to control every thing!!! I was emotional- she told people that I as crazy!

[@samanthahague6506]

So true, they rely on you to do the stuff their afraid to do. Also because they don't want to look bad to other people.

[@ruthslater6364]

And they don't want to be bothered doing anything or everyone is beneath them . Seriously I can't understand how people can feel that way. It's pathetically so sad and demented .

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@juliaogara8794]

No 7 has been a total eternal opener. I'm married to a narcissist but only realised this recently and we've known each other 35 years and been as a couple 20 years. I kick myself for being so blind but late is better than never. Thank you for your channel

[@rogerwhoareyou]

I know how you feel, 38 years for me to finally wake up and smell the coffee, so to speak.

[@melodybergquist9407]

I didn't realize my mother held me hostage before l realized its or even knew what narcissistic was two year's ago. I'm turning sixty at the end of the month and very bitter towards her know.

[@DarkMetaOFFICIAL]

good thing u figured it out, it could have been so much worse

[@DarkMetaOFFICIAL]

6 or 7 years ago, we broke up. it was a severe one. so she messages me after the 2nd day. i pour my heart out at first, then i quit texting. so if time passes she start to realize oh man. after she chills the f out. so i respond. we basically make up. then toxic hostility almost immediately. we have mutual groups online. she starts saying bs in a room, with 30 people live chatting. gets 12 captain save a hoes believing i harrassed her, and wont leave her alone. you see, this kinda shit had already happened before. many times. this time i started documenting. so guess what, i say OH NOOO MY FRIEND. and drop 30 images in chat of her i love you baby, i missed u so much, last night was baautiful.. etc. one dude says okay HOLD UP. ARE THESE REAL? oh yes my friend. and i also have audio which both her and i knew is recorded to server history. She left the chat immediately. they banned her after that. and made me moderator after apologizing. which i did not accept most of their apologies. just a couple sincere ones. she is very cunning. clever. but im more.

[@ruthslater6364]

I know what you mean . Until there was a name for these people I just knew he's a manipulative mean cruel bully. But didn't know it was a type of personality .and they are real monsters. Now I know. It helped me survive.

[@FunUrth]

So true "why are you lying about verifiable things?" So wild.

[@ericaa5862]

You nailed it, when you mentioned that they are always sick or always saying something hurts and can't do anything but then later acts like they are not having pain. It's ridiculous annoying

[@elizasteiner7330]

Every day, he says i don't feel good. I have a headache. My stomach hurts.

[@ericaa5862]

@elizasteiner7330 exactly 💯! Like attention seekers and always finds ways to have me drop what I need to do and be all about him. Ugh

[@marlo2919]

My mother does this she always says that I am giving her an ulcer. Interesting, she won't go to the doctor and tell them. Also, ulcers are caused by bacteria a person can't make someone have an ulcer. She has been saying this 30 years, so I assume she doesn't have one, and I assume she doesn't even know what an ulcer is. It gets old she always a victim of something, but she is also a bully and mean.

[@marlo2919]

I'm going to try not to be triggered that's hard to do. I'm need to be a robot lol

[@moniqueaugustine8914]

Omg! His back hurt everyday, he tired, oh and now for 2 years, if it's cold outside, he acts like he has a chill he can't get rid of( won't wear a coat or winter gear at all in the winter) and when it's hot or summer, I get to hear him complain every day about how hot he was and how straining the heat was at work. Omg. Stfu narc husband. Dam, its always gonna be either cold or hot ! Get over yourself. Now I just ignore him and walk out the bedroom as soon as he starts complaining. I go take a hot soak in the tub so I don't have to listen!

[@jaysonwashington8787]

In my experience, narcissits often project their image on to you so they often are often fighting themselves. I've heard the phrases such as, maybe you should calm down and talk when you are less emotional... All while i said nothing and listened to her for an hour straight. All i thought was wtf?

[@TammyMason-uu2of]

😂

[@lyneadetyfitness]

Classic phrases Calm down ,Stay normal 🤣..I am like was I abnormal all this years🤦🏽‍♀️

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@ms.anderson7064]

Run from these type of people. Do not give them your energy. They will make you sick. If you can get away from them. 😑

[@kristicarr9149]

This is so true! I have never had health issues until this person (narcissist) came into my life 7 years ago. It has been a roll coaster from hell.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@aaronconners5570]

My narc wife literally treated me the worse a person had ever treated me in my life while I’m deployed constantly gaslighting, manipulating and after 3 months of marriage told me we having an open marriage and to deal with it, she thinks a weak ass sorry through text is going to solve and fix it all hell nah I’m divorcing you. “ The best apology is changed behavior!”

[@bmariafernandez1152]

I hope you divorced that woman. Don't fall for her traps again.

[@zigzzagz5732]

No bro....a narcissist CAN'T change their behaviour. Get t.f. out of that marriage immediately or as soon as possible.

[@TNTUXO]

Mine did a number on me too..crazy lies and a whore and a half.

[@fleet_street215]

Sorry you had to go through it. I’m on the down hill now.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@waynebeebe8828]

This information is totally vital anybody going through this has to listen and take it to heart!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@NehaSharma-777]

You being logical, rational and operating with evidence and reality CONSISTENTLY is what makes them panic , because they themselves are not living in reality and seeing you being in reality and taking charge and control of your existence reminds them of their incompetence and your god perfection. My dear Empaths , Light is not only Love , light is also a warrior. Even god doesn't tolerate darkness. Light expands and banishes the darkness .

[@sine8811]

Yeah you don't sound narcissistic at all.

[@FaithFilled.]

​@@sine8811says the narc lol

[@kimberlyestes3978]

My future ex husband is exactly like this. I finally left but just started divorce proceedings. He has started to be very predictable. I have good friends who have helped me a lot. Just filed today. He wants everything. Our house, property, alimony, health insurance, wants me to pay for the mortgage and he keeps the house. No! I’ve supported us for 6 years. He isolated me, told lies about me and made me look like the bad person. I have been diagnosed with PTSD, but no wonder. I’ve also been diagnosed as an empath, so. Mine is covert. He acts like a 5 year old when he’s confronted with the truth. Not necessarily with other people. The people who know him best from childhood know that he has a temper. Hopefully that will come out in court.

[@ibiminaabiye257]

This is so so true

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Greenfields-w2p]

Make no mistake the malignant narc runs over the boundaries -

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@julialynnehenry7903]

Totally. I used to live in LA for 30 years and moved back to Kansas and am struggling with the abuse of my parents and never, in a million years did I think that I would need to reach out to a woman's group. First step.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@ellaalexandrialove9963]

How did you find the group?

[@diane19456]

I have recorded his verbal abuse on my phone to play to my therapist! My husband says I can't do this but in Texas you can!

[@franco2b145]

Yes you can! Just know your individual states rules on recording. Whether it’s a one party or two party contest state. Follow the law and proceed to protect yourself by any means necessary.

[@josiahgummeson445]

My understanding of the 1st amendment is as long as you let them know you are beginning a recording and then they chose to talk after you let them know… that’s on them. You have a right to record. They shouldn’t be bleeps, but they need power & control… can you blame them? Hehe

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@SparkleWithCreativity]

Some of this advice can be pretty dangerous... I'm only half-way through the video, but I'm really hoping she puts a warning out there more than "some of them are more violent than others." If you back a bear into a corner, you better have a better weapon than the truth.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@lt827]

My narcissistic parent was so bold that she even asked me what I liked the most in a calm voice when I was a teenager. Then she immediately turned on me and said "That's exactly what I am going to take away from you if you don't do X". The change in her face was lightning fast and she was pointing at me. Talk about embarrassing to be treated like this at the dinner table.

[@Stardustpal25]

Pretty shocking. Only one should be embarrassed is her. No contact I hope. Be good to yourself That crap Does Not Define YOU. 🌹🪷🕯️

[@lt827]

@@Stardustpal25 This parent passed away last year. There were many years of no contact though. She changed very much for the better once she was retired.

[@nerobloom3614]

Same here...

[@FaithFilled.]

Did you tell her to eff off?

[@reneeboehm558]

💯 evil

[@sophielt964]

This is the only video talking about narcissistic that gives step by step as guidance how to deal with them. Other KZbinrs only talk non stop about what they’re like well, of course we know what those narcissistic people are like if we’re living with them right. You instructed us how we should act and what the outcome will be, what to expect from them which is very insightful and I’m amazed by how stern and powerful you sounded and I love it! Thank you so much For this video I’m your new sub now. 🙏🏻💕💕💕

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@susankeith326]

Dr. Romani has been on KZbin for maybe 9 years or more saying the very things we are hearing on this. I agree, the tips are very helpful.

[@kricketstrickland2851]

Thank you! Removing my emotions. I'm treated like I don't igsist. Being ignored, acting like she didn't hear me and makes me repeat myself. No eye contact. So many mind games.

[@EvieBoyleHeights]

Shoot I have a guy doing that to me omg BIPOLAR CRAP

[@lt827]

Being brutally honest with a narcissist has less impact if you are always honest.

[@dominiqueconquest]

Facts

[@TammyMason-uu2of]

They don’t believe anyone is honest.

[@colleenpeck6347]

Exactly 💯, just day it as it is!🎉

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Chantills]

Spot on. Thank you for the free therapy! You are so appreciated 💛

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@ND-or5so]

Yes, my husband would act like he has changed only to do it for 4 days, or 1 week and go right back to his moody, neglectful self. He would do this many, many time's and now I just sit back and wait because I know the monster inside him is waiting to get out.

[@cyndim8785]

It’s like a storm is coming all of the time. Then the love bombing calling me “Babe, Babydoll and Love”. Makes me sick to my stomach. I hate him and what he has done to my life. I am his prisoner with outdoor cameras around the house and I would suspect some on the inside.

[@skywatcher6064]

My wife is the same way, 13 years now, 12 of which I try to convince her that she can be happy with me if she wants, I,m out of options, feeling that I caused her problems, her abusive mother and her prior 4 husbands are also people she likes to blame . I finally started to feel insane and will not comply anymore. Sadly, what gives me support is explaining this to those that she has convinced Im a monster. They agree with me, it,s her problem, mine only if I allow it to be. Being 66 and in poor health seems to constitute a life sentence of trying to remain sane and out of trouble, neglected, targeted, and miserable. Shes actually sucking the life out of me. Ironically, she knows she depends on me for her everything , Everything to sustain her physical life, and if I leave her, she will continue her behaviour pattern and feed off another unsuspecting provider. I must do what she does, stop caring.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@jtslmmr1]

Totally! My wife cheated on me twice and on the third time I confronted her and she said that it was all in my mind and none of it really happened

[@marioharris8671]

Really sad 😔

[@robertswift6101]

even when caught red handed they lie about it or deny

[@TammyMason-uu2of]

Yup, I was crazy! My ass!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I'm deeply sorry you had to deal with a Narcissist. On a happier note, we're throwing a spectacular launch event on Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time, and everyone is included. I'm optimistic about the chance to see you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

[@ghosthusler]

Because someone cheats on you doesn't make them a narcissist. Stop being delusional.

[@yvonnewhite5798]

Turn the tables. This is my 42 year old daughter to a tee

[@jayneotterson1569]

we are dealing with this with several adult children. Its brutal

[@joe7665]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 I went to mediation And my soon to be ex covert narcissist with an retired judge.... we came to an agreement!!!!! Hopefully the end of September I will be free

[@tiffanyjennings5675]

Your videos are giving me so much hope. If nothing else, they help to remind me that I'm not crazy. B/c DAMN it is easy to forget what you know, when one's coming at you full force in "punish" mode

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Yapah.S.Da.K.O.S]

You are not alone!

[@ldo1308]

Going through it too

[@JoeHill-yy9fw]

Yes, thank you

[@zachdavis9748]

Don't let them determine your pace.

[@James-bc2oh]

I can't help myself I'm a truth teller so I expose them,they try and keep my mouth shut by threats and intimadation but that just makes me even more determined to expose these freak's

[@joannelang4412]

Im the same. I can’t help it either… I know the feeling exactly 😊

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@DavidEdwards-e6m]

They dont like facts, they will always attack truth tellers

[@lamaryoder10]

I don’t want to be in public because of all the flying monkeys.

[@jesled9559]

Oh you mean his flying monkeys gang stalking you Yup I just take pictures of them

[@Rose-dl6xg]

Hi E Lamar Yoder, I feel just like you!😔

[@summydots]

Oh, be out there all the more then!

[@paula622]

Pull out your phone and video them

[@shaniecegullison]

Same here

[@johnmccafferty2120]

I have been dealing with narcassisitc abuse for 6 or 7 years, this changed a while back when I decided I wasn't going to suffer anymore. A few things I noticed about the narcissist is that they work in patterns, do the same things, say the same things and carry out the same actions. Once the revolution is complete, they go back to the beginning and start again. One more thing to remember - narcissist accusations are confessions of their own actions.

[@visionvixxen]

lol. All true. Why do we want so badly for th em to see and understand themselves. 😂

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@topneverstop]

He keeps asking if I'm seeing someone, begging to not break up blah blah. So is be actually cheating? God showed me. I'm just really still in disbelief and so hurt by it all.

[@steph020]

that last part " narcissist accusations are confessions of their own actions." took me years to understand why he thought everything I said was a lie. Finally realized he was the liar and the one who couldnt be trusted

[@kyleefritzius584]

“why would you lie about that” YESS!!! i’m 2014 my son Cyrus passed away, born premature for placenta issues. 24 weeker fought for months in the NICU then passed away on his own, in my arms. 2018 my new healthy baby boy! dad files for custody and said “one infant has died in her care. we can’t leave him with her” my son is now 5, and I am still fighting for him 💔💔💔

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Jkellie-vo9od]

I LOVE YOU GOD I PRAISE AND WORSHIP YOU GOD IN HEAVEN AND EARTH AMEN AMEN 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@mjharris5999]

They are so good at playing the loooooong game.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@bernardabubnic2512]

They May also found How to secretly hurt You in the level of tree of life and the final fight Is not in the court But in the spiritual realm

[@drollmender]

And like he said, "You have to play with the game."

[@sherryclark8121]

When I confronted my sister/roommate/assailant/Narc about lying to me she screamed, I have never lied to you, so hard I thought she was going to pass out. I walked away thinking, Thou doth protesteth too much...

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

Back it up with proof. Tell the fool to chill. It's OK to make some mistakes or change your mind or not do what you said you're going to do. It's OK to be wrong. Tell her to just chillax and say something or call if you're held up. Life happens and sometimes we take on too much, that's no lie. Lol. Depending on your situation of course. My sibling poisoned me, is wealthy, manipulative, super covert, super deuchebag, super disappointment. He believes he's superman. He's a psycho bully. Block her, out her, call her out with evidence, record, email, document everything, then, block and dump or go extremely low contact. Be safe. Blood relatives does not mean family. Some are just after your blood as in blood money. Didn't Cain kill Able?

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@elizabethandiosa4579]

Lol. I have had a few of those freaks too. They need a smackdown. Totally bizarre behaviours. You know they have or are planning to hurt you first or third handed. Dang.

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

@@RebeccaZungEsq no link?

[@lindasue1955]

My narcissist husband says I just want to fight when I try to talk to him about spending all our money on crack cocaine and wine instead of paying the bills. We had another big blow out about it and as usual he accused me of trying to run his life. He's ruining mine. So he sat down beside me and in a calm voice that implied that I was the ptoblem, said that he just couldn't take it anymore. UNBELIEVABLE! He wasn't talking about the drugs; what he "can't take anymore," are the everyday arguments and reminders of all the legal consequences and financial bind for which I too must suffer because of his choices. Trying to hold him accountable or save him from himself is much wasted energy and I am plumb pooped. I have no choice left but to save myself.

[@firedplay]

Your first clue to get yourself to safety is "crack cocaine."

[@DavidEdwards-e6m]

If you bring up things the covert is doing wrong, they will just go quiet, stare into space like time has stopped, until you stop, then they will punish you any way they can, sublinily, like not talking, not listening, dragging there feet, start to feel unwell, purposely not helping you and usually find something to be angry about to show aggression as a threat to you of what they would do to you if you persist. Just dont bring up there faults for your own sanity and get away.

[@carparthero]

@lindasue1955 if someone is treating you that badly, there comes a point when you have to stop blaming their behavior and blame yourself for sticking around. the 1st giveaway was the crack and alcohol.

[@lindasue1955]

@carparthero I took my marriage vows seriously, which means that I didn't run at the first, second, or even third sign of trouble. But you must have ignored the part where I said it was now time to save myself.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@sophfores430]

I have gone to every agency and police but these are organized gang members who know exactly how to commit torture without leaving evidence. Thank you for your concern

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@cherylnathanodette]

There is always a way to expose a narcissist, whittle away at the flying monkeys, find them make a list, one will slip up eventually and there you go. Bide your time be patient, note everything, write it down on paper too. Everyone has a tipping point including that narcissist.

[@RobertFinnegan-m9o]

Notified immigration and blocked her totally including her new supply who likely is a narcissist himself. A retired cop.

[@NoemiWilliams27]

Smear campaigning. My narcissistic mother has told all of the neighbors bad things about me so that she looks like the victim. It is disgusting.

[@Rabswood296]

Yes i relate to that. Just get out and go no contact. Live your own Life.

[@oliveoil3929]

What if they repeat negative gossip

[@Rabswood296]

@@oliveoil3929 many people do and that's what the narc wants, to totally destroy your life and reputation. I have spent hours trying to evidence my innocence, some things I can prove are lies others I can't. The best thing is to walk away. They actually enjoy watching you try to prove your innocence. They are truly deprived individuals.

[@marlo2919]

My mother loves being a victim. I never heard her say she was accountable for anything.

[@storey2875]

I had a wife just like this. I figured her out but it took 18 years I didn't have videos like this. I had to document everything times and dates it got crazy. They do not know anything about love. They are demons they are stupid but not dumb sounds crazy but there is a difference. You have to out smart them. That's why it always seems like their ahead of you. if your married to it it's worse. You have to keep up with everything.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@storey2875]

@@RebeccaZungEsqThank you I'll be there.

[@Nolaboy17]

15 years and 4 girls for me. Once my eyes opened, I put so much pressure that she finally tapped out and left me. Such a peace of mind since she's out of my life. I still have to deal with her for the girls, but it is on a minimum basis. The best thing about all of this is that I don't have to appease her anymore. When she tries, I just say you're not my woman anymore, and I don't have to appease any longer.

[@johnathonsensing8162]

The jezebel spirit

[@Soralella71]

Currently in a legal battle with a narcissist sibling. This is helping a lot. Thank you.

[@bluedogfish2]

Let me guess…. The legal battle is over a inheritance😂😂😂😂 they just didn’t get everything but want everything and they are the trustee

[@JoeHill-yy9fw]

Blessings

[@kaydogg2086]

I have a sibling as well… its so tiring

[@JohnSmith-nc6ul]

Me too! It’s unbelievable what has taken place!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@nitacollins3645]

Exposing them fits under" smear campaign" and that can be fliped on you. so is any form of blackmail a type of control. you become a narc to beat one.

[@carolhartman4384]

I Had what I said and sent it to them n they still repeatedly kept insistingI said what the ‘thought’ I said. But I didn’t. Even in writing proof they would not accept it. Uh!!

[@iritnayden6755]

Hi Rebecca, thank you. I listened to you everyday during my divorce and you gave me insight that really helped me

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Glad I could help. You got this! ❤

[@sigridbohne]

Good luck with your divorce. My narcissistic couldn't wait was so nervous before the divorce date that he preferred to hang himself

[@dianacardenas1518]

Even if I ignore them …. It’s gets worse by being more spiteful

[@dianacardenas1518]

Intimacy ….. not! And he feels the push back… gets really mad

[@dianacardenas1518]

If someone wants something… you think they would kiss ass…. But it’s the opposite for co- Vert. Change started when I had my kids and focused more n them

[@dianacardenas1518]

Anyone - thoughts? Any answers? Or this is just how they are as narcissists??

[@TerriLynch]

Yes. I did 4 and 5 and they won't let me at the house. This is my son's girlfriend and they live together, it keeps me from seeing my son and grandchildren. He doesn't wanna deal with it so I couldn't go to the football practice since she was there. It's killing me because he doesn't see what she is. Even if he does, he has to live with it. I live with one and married for 20 years.

[@sine8811]

[ Try ignoring all your friends. You find out they all are narcissists because they get spiteful from being ignored. Kick them to the curb sister! ]

[@maureenbanks3702]

Flying monkeys might be innocent at first, before they witness the narc in action...but after a certain amount of time has passed, the flying monkey must be an incredibly dishonest individual to continue the charade.

[@oksanabuchananiregressiveh8097]

You 100% described my husband’s threats every time he explodes in anger.

[@777lucifero]

Though if a narc were to describe you after you've been gaslighted, he/she would describe you in that same very way ''he/she just explodes in anger for no reason'' [I didn't do anything, he just exploded in anger]. That was literally the start of every story from her side. I just... ''exploded'' for no reason. Never mind trying to backtrack to the gaslighting.

[@PVernettaVenkataya-o3s]

Gracious...you married him?

[@JohnSmith-zo6ir]

Just checking to see what you may have done to cause him to respond that way? Often many abuses that fall under the definition of abuse for a DVO are behaviours that are so normalised for women, they don't consider them to be abusive. If you have been abusing your husband by using those behaviours then you can expect him to respond in kind.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@mojoshazer]

Not giving in! I will not let them win😊. Great video, very informative and relatable 👏.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@darkcloudsilverglint4552]

Totally, the amazing part is that they themselves, slap you the narcissist label first, so anything you do or say validates their accusations

[@Natty183]

Yeah lol. That's happening to me now. I placed boundaries on interactions and as a group we have to get together and talk about any issues anyone is having. They can't just corner me and harass me five times a day. They were attempting to gaslight and they were baiting me multiple times a day about the things the other people in the group were doing. In this way I hope to hold off the queen narcs ability to orchestrate the tactics, because I think she has my uncle in thrall, and I'm trying to wake him up.. What's sick is I noticed all of this because one of them took their dog to have diarrhea right where I sit outside with my new puppy that I asked them to be careful of because he's still shy of being fully vaccinated. She took her dog right to where my chair is outside and where my dog has been playing Fucking psychopath bitches... Fucking absurd and I'm ashamed I'm stuck here for now. They can call me whatever they want as long as they just stop harassing, sabotaging, and gaslighting. So disgusting how jealous they are of everything and it's insane that these kinds of people exist. But they do...

[@hardware144]

exactly. I was gaslighting and I was the narc. ... people talk other people into psychosis sometimes .. its horrible.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@sophfores430]

I am experiencing gang violence Thank you Psychopathy and psychotic paranoia by my next door neighbor who is in a gang

[@jesled9559]

Go to police

[@lesleybrown1583]

@@jesled9559 they help the narc!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Sorry to hear that! Check this out - icanslay.com/ Keep slaying!

[@Angela-ph1ik]

Go on a long vacation till stuff calms downove whatever you can do

[@tamarabrady1472]

They really are all the same!

[@leolosy08]

TOTALLY! YOU NAILED IT RIGHT IN THE HEAD! I WAS MARRIED TO ONE, WITHOUT EVEN REALISING WHAT THE REALITY WAS! I'M SO GLAD THAT I'VE MADE IT OUT!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@jeffreymcarthur4518]

Well the dumbest part about making them go into panic mode is that it then also pushes them into fighting and yell and threatening mode!

[@scarredcitizen2023]

Yeah this is dangerous to tell people... gonna get women hurt.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@bridgettetraveler658]

Yes indeed! Weather it's parents fam so-called friends or lovers cut them out of our lives. When they find out we're living our best lives they're gonna try their best to get back in. We must show them the door is closed for get. Goodbye!!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@PrettyIndependent1]

Offense not defense is a great one I wish I knew a while back. They say the craziest wildest things about your character and I was so confused why they would think that about me, so I would spend a lot of time defending why I wasn’t those things. I fell right into their trap. I should have spent the time explaining why those things are true about THEM and not me. #swish 🏀🗑

[@Winner1-c2u]

They are like Pinnochio. "I want to be a real boy."

[@carenbarnet378]

Not giving in, setting boundaries. Cutting off their source of emotional manipulation. Thankyou Rebecca Zung

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@carenbarnet378]

Yes, I am holding my ground. TBI does add a curved ball to all past situations. However with "learned information " from you, I am Stronger. xx thu

[@plume1639]

Made a stand with some leverage!!! Will see if they follow through now!!! I survived it!!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

You got this! 💪

[@paco9694]

OMG I'm so grateful I found you!!! I've been out of Narcissist relationship for over a year and trying to educate and heal from a lifetime of this stuff. I had no awareness about narcissist people by name but turns out my life was full of them starting with my mother!!! It's so crazy they all have the same patterns of behavior. Still learning ❤❤❤

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@fishingdownsouth1256]

My wife called me a narcissist because I wasn’t felling well for years and was having trouble hold a job four years later I was diagnosed with primary progressive multiple sclerosis I’d be carful saying that someone is making up being sick the unfortunate thing about it is this disease can be up and down where I fell good some days and terrible the next

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

This might help you better as well slay.rebeccazung.com/home

[@cutes22]

I know how that feels. I hope you get good treatment and start to feel better.

[@MarvafosqueGreene]

I am married to one and he is not normal, I hate him, diabetic, stroke, many health problems

[@simoneshlomi3869]

Oh, I almost forgot to tell y’all. He sent me flowers first time in 38 years.....after I left!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@mic396]

So exhausting 🥺 Has anyone experienced the narc actually using the tactics we learn to deal with them , they use on you . Even this thought has my brain scrambled

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

[@mic396]

@@RebeccaZungEsq idk does any survivor really recuperate.. guess a person makes space for none sense it's such a process heal lot of it span over a person's life choices seeing patters in yr own life an relationships as narcs are not good role models why we survive make due .. having compassion for one self day by day .. its horrific damage .

[@mic396]

Thank you tho for asking 😌 imagine a narc saying they making boundaries.. still this gives me chuckle 🤭 yet nothing is funny !

[@mic396]

However to be fair what doesn't kill us does make us stronger once a person aware . What an awareness .. it's inconceivable , going through life thinking yr the issue as so many make this mistake . Best wishes 🌺

[@JERRYNELSON-c2d]

Our old man narcissist trolls shows like this to read the comments written about him😊