Red Flags when consulting a Healer

There are certain red flags to be cautious of when seeking spiritual help. in this video Siyabonga lists and explains 5 different red flags and why they should concern you.

[@thabiso5031]

With all due Respect🙏Baphelile abantu beqedwa umuntu womndeni!!Sikhathele with this Mentality of Gobelas hiding abantu bomndeni abathakathayo it has to come to an END!!Sifika kuzohlola sifuna amaqiniso sicela Nis'tshele amaqiniso bakithi.

[@annamodisane3729]

I also agree we should know exactly de person in the family

[@moe_ramz]

True

[@curiousmindfulness9919]

I wish I saw this a year ago Nkos Yam... Ngavelelwa langibuya khona... Bantwana BeThongo... Please please.. LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION... Phahla before you head out to see a healer /gobela... Everything you mentioned in this vid my fam and I went through recently... Kubuhlungu kuyakhathaza emoyeni.. Prevent this with all you got. Trustttt your guides. Don't be impulsive and PRAY for every intention you have as the chosen one to heal your family and others. eMakhosini 🙌🏽

[@simplyandrandomlysane8208]

Why do you feel this way? ... Did you finish your initiation la uphuma khona?(if that's what you were doing) Regardless of your answer, what are you planning on doing next? 🙇🏽‍♀️

[@nomvulanxumalo8713]

Scare tactics you can say that again. Thokoza👏👏

[@phakamantete7250]

Where have you been all my life. Thank u so much 🙏🙏

[@mbalirencken6665]

Your dad helped me ngokulungisa isipho sami sedlozi and kwalunga kakhulu but my mom was like ngintshontshe idlozi coz okwami kuhamba kahle kakhulu compared to my sister. But I'm happy that your dad helped me Bhuti coz I'm operating as abadala bami wanted me to. Abathi ngintshontshe idlozi okwabo lokho coz I asked my mom to come with me to Umsamo Institute but she refused. I'm thankful to the Mkhize family

[@mpumizulu9235]

Where is the mkhize homestead Sisi?

[@dineodihubane4367]

Hey dear, where is this place , umsamo institute please, thank ù

[@nontobekoxulu2185]

My thoughts as well. As soon as they start with scare tactics I let them know I'm not interested in that and I don't operate on fear.

[@superempath1903]

I respect you & your dad.

[@annamodisane3729]

Thank for outlying the umsamo,important of family history

[@MrBUHLEBUYEZA]

So far the greatest video with such topic! As umakhosi myself I actually agree with you! We should be fixing issues not cooking them up. I am labeled as weak and not good enough but deep down I trust that I am doing the right thing. Peace is our priority ( I agree with you, ukuthakatha is something very rare and difficult) in fact you nailing everything!

[@phumelele7222]

Some healers tell you what’s happening in your life and when you ask further questions they reply based on their opinions and not what they see.

[@gugurejoice-ri6jt]

Dankie Syabonga🙏

[@nozipholuthuli9503]

But what happens if the healer does not tell you but your dreams are vividly pointing to that? Why would the ancestors reveal that to a person if they didn't trust that person will handle it the proper way...or rather the ancestors' way? Would that mean idlozi liyaxabanisa?

[@ntandomthembu257]

oGobela always say "the problem is in the family" but my ancestors always reveal the culprit in my dreams

[@lindymhlamvu3385]

Very true.

[@nontokozophungula7419]

That's so, true I don't know what to believe anymore when consulting... How can I consult with you personally I need guidance honestly.

[@jjm.8491]

You are absolutely right

[@siyathembasiazmatshaya7074]

I respect you Siya,jhooo scare tactics heeee isimnyama Wara,Wara Wara.

[@Nomhi-vg9ge]

How can we contact you?

[@mommacare764]

So the fact that I’m still getting dreams and visions when someone is trying to do things to me is a good sign.

[@precioushabeene2974]

I experience this too I see visions and have dreams about things before they happen to myself and family and I just pray declare and decree destruction of everything and doesn't happen before this I would dream see visions prior couldn't declare and decree and things happened to me and my. family.

[@mariamoagi1759]

I love you. I hate abantu abazongithusela ngizofuna usizo.

[@noziphocebs2208]

Mina a traditional healer told me that, my brother who passed away long time ago...is coming for me anf I'm going to die very soon..2023 I'm alive and kicking 😂❤thank you siya

[@sphephelomkhize6176]

Siya what happens when you have seen many healers and they have told you that you have abantu abadala but wena u dont see the signs as such and what should I do?

[@sithembilendlovu1307]

Eyi nami sengifile abantu bekusho lokho.

[@Zama_we_afro]

Have you tried ukuphahla with candles and water for 3 days as uBab VVO Mkhize has said in one of the videos. Seek answers and take it from there. Also when you don't have much knowledge of lezinto, you tend to ignore certain dreams and even physical manifestations of ukuba nabadala. Search KZbin, Facebook, etc ukuze ubone what may apply with you. Pray for answers and guidance and you will be guided. There may be things that you think are just normal to experience but are actually not, things you may think are just part of your personality kanti they are beyond that etc

[@sibongilenkosi6577]

Don't rush them sis. Bazovela. Ungajahi coz uzoxakeka

[@sibongilenkosi6577]

Just wait.

[@KM-3111]

U dnt hv abantu abadala mayb those healers want to initiate you to pay them money.stop consulting sangomas or any prophets just accept JESUS pray,read the BIBLE.God il open ur eyes n reveal the truth to you.stop following a human being whether they dead or alive.they wil decive you n some they dnt know they r working 4 the devil bcz they r deceived themselves.

[@mdkt1097]

Thank you. So profound.

[@kwazilucas]

Traditional healing is gonna be very tricky for healers in the years to come. Kunzima ukusiza umuntu who comes with their own mentality of how they want to be assisted. In traditional healing there is no one size fits all method. So for example, if a traditional healer tells you about dark shadows and looming death in the family etc, what if they are not wrong or trying to scare you? It's gonna come to a point where traditional healers can't help or don't wanna tell people what is exactly going on cause these tips will make people not wanna listen to traditional healers and compare what was said to their lives. And all healers don't speak the same. Some are women and men of few words, some don't speak accurately etc only because of that person who gave them umsebenzi.

[@mavismpungose9945]

You didn't understand what his saying

[@kwazilucas]

@@mavismpungose9945 lol I really did. I heard and understood what he said.

[@portiakambe4733]

I want to know my enemy that eating with them in the same plate

[@kidbymuscleledu6788]

People must be aware that if something is really a matter of life and death most of time amadlozi alo muntu will ask that you curve it quickly then the finer details will be attended to later, talking as a practicing in the Isangoma.

[@policedetective4574]

awu kodwa bhuti, ubuyini umageba oqondile coz abantu abalandela lechannel odarkie and ngisho beze emlambo munye ubaba uxhumana nabo ngesizulu.angikudleli mona ngesingisi sakho.ngyabonga

[@Zintlle]

Because he isnt only speaking to Zulu people, neither is his gift reserved for only Zulu people

[@kehlambhele8695]

@@Zintlle eye kahle wena ukungiphaphela

[@Zintlle]

@@kehlambhele8695 ubani okhulume nawe? Yehlisa ukuphapha uzoba ryt

[@kehlambhele8695]

@@Zintlle ngizokuthuka wena

[@danielsa112]

@@Zintlle ey makakhulume isizulu afake ama subtitles we English!!!

[@luciateffu9608]

Interesting topic, how can I fix my family umsamo if my family are Christians coz I know my family history very well but I find that my family avoids our family history at the same time I know that my uncle frequently consults regarding us for bad reasons. How can I then fix that

[@KM-3111]

Its a good thing ur family r christans.pls join them they r on the rite path. This amadlozi are tricks of the devil(evil spirts) not our ancestor.our ancestor hv passed on n they cnt help you with anything.some were suffering with us while they were still alive so hw can they assist us now.u ask them 4 riches they did nt hv,where do you expect them to get them caz worse they r no dead.it doesnt make sense.

[@talibulimubosman8255]

Respect

[@zamn2853]

I little bit lost here. My sister died in a mysterious way. Is gobela not suppose to tell me who caused her death if she or he is among the family 🤔

[@thembimncube48]

@Zam ,condolences on your loss, How will you knowing who did it going to help you heal and mourn,rather umelaphi akunnqede nkokuvimba ukuthi no one in the family dies from it again ,a Lungile umsamo then whoever is Involved in the family or outside of the family, ashayeke,bese without having to point a finger at anyone then there is hate emdenini.

[@siyandamazibukoonlife3611]

@@thembimncube48 but that person will be close to you, what happens if they resort to poison you.

[@moe_ramz]

@@siyandamazibukoonlife3611 That’s what I don’t get. I don’t like healers who don’t tell you what you need to know to protect yourself.

[@khanyisilehlubi2060]

Eiy ngyadidekake manj' kanti siyokwenzani kogobela vele' si consulter ini kubona ukuze sisizakale kuph makwenzenjan' ugobela kahle kahle usiza uma kwenzenjan' ikuphi okumele sikulalele sikukholwe okuphuma emlonyeni yabo' eiy mina angisaqondi kahle🤔

[@ntokozohlatshwayo165]

Khabazela

[@zanelengcobo4351]

Uyazi abasho ukuthi kuvelaphi ukufa nami ngezekekanjalo wathi isilwane esibulala I zingane sekungenze kawu 4

[@godsfavourite6134]

Azizinhle izingane zamathonga even abafana bakhona baya glower 😩 ngapha khona thina amazumba 👺

[@Dumezulu]

Thokoza. Kutsakatsa is like karma. It's ancient and follows a person. And some kutsakatsa is about 'vibes' that u have for example from someone intimidating you. Yes, Don't get scared but understand kuhlola. Take ur time. Lastly, if they are mean or overly nice, leave. :-)

[@terencemasilela9339]

Vey true my guy

[@patriciazwane1096]

Ngicela ukwazi ukuthi zingakhi izimbuzi okufanele ngizithenge ukugeza mine nomntanami ukuphunyelwa izisu Kanye nobabami ongasekho kufanele sigeze futhi ngenza njani makunjena na

[@nomangesinthala8948]

💔💔😐

[@beautymellz5600]

Hesssess umuhle

[@MrAttorney-khumalo]

But your father is too quick when consulting coz he see more than 90 patients a day hence he rushes and time to ask is too little... 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@nompilozondi1204]

Nami ngiqala ukuya I was so confused ukthy why beshesha kangaka I couldn't get time to ask😥😥but ke I was helped ke

[@lorramokoka7778]

How much does he charges

[@LeeNqubs]

Mthobisi Khumalo how does one contact them for consultation?

[@letalwandle4553]

90 patients, quality vs quantity.

[@SydneyD28-6]

Thokoza Mkhulu', with due respect, you are still young and yet to learn a few most important things as you spiritually grow. 1. I completely agree with you when it comes to 'scare-tactics'. 2. Your take on African spirituality is Eurocentric in approach. You are trying hard to be ACADEMIC in how you articulate these all important aspects of our(African) lives. #KhanyaLeratoKgotsoleBophelo

[@TheEnergyHealingCoach]

Nothing is wrong with his approach

[@HoneyBeeBee]

Yoh! Why are you people so afraid of education?!