Reframing the Story

[@judithprins7132]

Dearest Colleen , Jonathan is beautiful. I never knew Pastor Swindolls daughter went through severe domestic violence like me....thank you for sharing. The church also judged me when I wanted to get out of the marriage. He eventually was able to use the children as weapons of war and I went through parental alienation. There are no words to explain the depth of the pain of the groanings. You validated this. The CPTSD took over my life. God had his hand on me. He opened doors in very high places only HE could. I worked at the UN fior the YMCA of the world in Geneva as a delegate for Violence against Women and my eyes were opened...today I am confronting legally and criminally my country and an Ambassador for sexual.assault I also experienced to make changes and confront systems that protect perpetrators. God never wastes our pain, but it has been very difficult, but I was always able to carry on with God's mercy grace and strength. He never abandoned me like my church family and country did. Thank you sister .You encouraged me.Your Dad also was my Dad who helped me so much from afar with his books and sermons.. You're amazing!..Thank you Jesus

[@Deba7777]

This is the second time I've watched your story and I'm so touched by it again! And I'm so encouraged by it, I haven't had the type of pain and loss you have but I've sure had my own version of it and see what you've gone through is just encouraging to me to know that God is faithful and that our walk is meant to just keep getting up and keep fighting all the adversities in his strength! God bless you!

[@mindyjackson2451]

What a raw yet beautiful collection of your life pieced together... bringing glory to God through the roughest of circumstances! I'm touched by your vulnerability and transparency! Thank you for sharing! I too was a Pastor's wife, in a similar situation. I will write to you more in a private conversation. We share some common struggles and heartaches in life! I agree, it's the hardest when you have no one to share with...and the church can be brutal. I am so sorry for your past struggles...yet I only "know" you because of Reframing Ministries. I am so thankful God has used you in such a mighty way! Out of the ashes....you're His beauty! There's more to come...I'm sure!

[@reframingministries]

Thank you for your tender words. I am so sorry you have been hurt and are enduring trials. Please reach out when you desire; you don’t have to endure alone. Also, I pray that you are not wounded even more … ministry, as you said, can be tragically brutal. I often refer to a book written years ago by Gene Edwards called, “A Tale of Three Kings”. It’s been retitled, but can be found under the author’s name. Also, my book “Reframing Life-Focusing on God when Life Get’s Sideways” is a calming read, has places for you to journal, reflect, and encouragement as you ‘reframe’ what you are enduring. You can find the book here: store.insight.org/p-1705-reframing-life-focusing-on-god-when-life-gets-sideways-emby-colleen-swindoll-thompsonem.aspx . Sending prayers your way my friend. - Colleen

[@RevPev13]

A Tale of Three Kings was life changing for me. What a great book to recommend. I’m sure we all learn different things from the story. For me it was David’s commitment to trust God with providing Justice. David did not attack mad king Saul tho he had many opportunities. He trusted justice in his life to God. God is the one who put the longing for Justice in our hearts. He promises it, ultimately. Colleen, I have so much admiration for you. What a tender heart you have for others. For you ladies that have survived this abuse from the very one who was to be the Shepherd of your family AND your church makes me applaud your bravery and compassion even more. He will not forget this and your efforts will truly be rewarded. God bless you both. ❤❤❤❤

[@deborahwilcox5716]

Your words, are my life. Just recently, I have been led to start listening to your father after finding a few of his books in my parents library. This has been the road God has provided so I could fund you to hear this testimony. Thank you so much …I look forward to as many testimony’s as I can find.

[@sandysouthward3635]

I feel ripped off too!! And I think I am fighting feeling of bitterness! But I'm so inspired by you. This is the second time I've watched your story and of course once again I have cried. I'm still stuck but I find hope in your hardship. You made it despite it all!

[@daphnekivinen9482]

Similar threats to me also. I have been single, but I am the Bride of Christ since 1994. I also have my disabled son living with me and I also take my brother who lives in a foster home to the doctor, etc. He has never been diagnosed, but it is similar to adult aspergers syndrome. Verbal and physical abuse with my marriages. Now in my 70's, I am finally healing. Thank you for Reframing Ministries.

[@conniekreider6414]

I’ve got a hug waiting for you and your precious son Jonathan, when we all get to heaven❣️

[@frangordon9215]

Bless you dear Coleen! You’re amazing!

[@reframingministries]

Fran, such thoughtful and kind words. Thank you. - Colleen

[@nellehyatt2111]

Thank you. You really helped me today.❤

[@jom6320]

In 80s no one in church where I was wanted to hear about domestic violence, so when . I left in 94 was not treated with warmth no one understood but a new pastor did said h e was relieved I did not go back to that man. Divorce is not easy as saints we should practice understanding and the love of God for persons having gone through heartaches not judgement thank you so much Colleen

[@peggypyles3564]

Colleen, Thank you so much for sharing your story. God has blessed my heart so much, through it. May He bless you, today in a special way. ❤

[@reframingministries]

I’m so grateful this blessed your heart. He continues to bless and supply for our every need . . . may be at the last minute . . . but He is ALWAYS with us, providing what is needed at the right moment. - Colleen

[@peterweglarz3346]

Like your dad not a fake ..The devil tried but couldn't take ..GOD it was no mistake ..COS THATS HOW DECIPLES HE MAKES . ...amen

[@edmaramchardy7878]

Thank you Colleen, very inspiring and courageuos. Your testimonies are doing more than you can imagine. ❤

[@reframingministries]

Hi @edmaramchardy7878, I'm always so thankful to hear how God is using Reframing, is meeting needs, and providing hope. Thank you!! - Colleen

[@deborahwilcox5716]

However, I haven’t found the happy ending in my life yet.

[@Deba7777]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/hnq3pWagg6-fmKMsi=AuFWlEyaBiG4E3e0 I just found this song and it certainly does help reframe our current issues and our future! Thank you for what you shared!