The Lies we Tell Ourselves (story 5)

[@ericnater6307]

I am much older than you. Old enough to be your Grandfather. I had never really gotten on KZbin except for how to do instructions, but when Covid came, I started exploring sites like yours and Dan. I think you both made the right decision, and will both grow from it. I also follow other People who lead similar lives to yours. Some young Women alone, like you now, some married couples, even some Gay Couples. In many I see what I see in you, and that is an amazing self awareness an intelligence and desire to grow as a person. Also extraordinary strength and braveness. I am real concerned of our current younger generations, with problems, and weakness too detailed to go into now. But with you, and most of the People on similar journeys as you, I see strength and hope. I had my own business, and traveled much of the world by conventional means (plane train, boat etc. I also did a lot of Camping Hiking, etc. I miss that, and your adventures, and others on You tube have gotten me to the point where I have purchased a travel trailer and I am waiting for my new SUV to pull it. Not to do what you are doing, and living in it full time, but for seasonal travel to see the Country like you have, and do a lot of Boondocking, and much more comfortable Camping than I did Years ago.. I can not tell you how happy and awe struck I am to see that there are People like you in the mostly scary younger Generations. You and your family should be very proud. I live in the Mountains of North Carolina. an area you might want to look into some day, as I think Dan will be hiking by me just a few miles away soon.

[@NinjaBooKitty]

I'm in NC planning on getting on the road in an SUV. I'm going to Florida all the way up to Maine and across to SD to establish new residency and hopefully never come back to the East Coast. Hope to see you down the road. ✌

[@BobWileyAKA52Blue]

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[@lancesudberry209]

Nice I too share your views and awestruck I'm in-between ages and so lost and stuck on can't get right I so would love to pack up a few things and take my sweet baby girl Monkey (saved cat) and go down the road of adventure and forgiveness and loving myself and meeting others that are just like me to connect and have a sense of community that idk if I've ever felt or noticed before. God bless you sir,brother and enjoy it all!!! Thanks for your comment 🙏🇺🇲💙♥️⚜️🪶

[@lancesudberry209]

My truest desire is take a old beater party barge the aluminum bottom kind and build a modest hut to bring it up north and drift back down slowly and peacefully with just a solar bass boat drop down 2.5 hp

[@got2flynow]

Alyssa, YAAAZZ! THE KEY STEP to awareness..."Think about what you are thinking about." At first, it is very hard. Our mind takes us to all of these emotional places before we know it...primarily fear based. Most people live their lives in what I call "The Sea of Emotional Chaos". They are adrift in a little row boat of life, going from one emotional wave to another...never seeing beyond the next wave, and never finding firm ground. They have oars, but don't know how to use them. It's because they haven't found this key you are talking about. Some people find out about it, but don't want to do the work. It takes a lot of energy at first. It scares them. But, just like anything in life, the more you practice it, the easier it becomes...until one day... you are doing it most of your waking moments. Don't worry, you can't fail the course, but you may get to repeat 3rd grade until you develop those muscles. It is a wonderful journey. I know that yours will be really fun to watch. Thank you for letting us come along to learn. Til next time. Mitch... Still working on my mind muscles. ✌️ P.S. - Oh yeah...there's a bus, and Rio, and an island in this story. Sorry... I got lost in your thoughts. Told you I'm still working on my mind muscles. Jekyll Island... A lot of decadent American history there, but interesting to see. I like St. Aug more. I used to live in Jacksonville.

[@judithrandall4690]

I give her mother credit for raising a beautiful daughter who is also kind and sweet and smart and caring and funny, and interested in learning about many different things and other people.

[@charliestrickland6194]

This was just what I needed. Thank you. I started vanlife because I lost work..due to Covid. It's the best thing I've done for me. Just me. I want to get a dog but have been telling myself all the reasons it would be impossible, living this lifestyle. Well, guess what..lies keep us from joy. And joy for me is to have a dog again. Peace to you.

[@rayladd856]

it is so easy to get caught up in other's inconsiderate actions and be drawn in to their selfishness and self-centered actions, be strong and do not let them draw you into their misery

[@jonc1866]

The title screamed at me when it popped up. The stories (lies) we tell ourselves are always the most distructive. This video was perfect timing! I sold my house last week, closing my business Friday and answering the lifelong call to roam the land and "experience" life as I have never done before. And yes, a breakup was also part of untangling my soul from this life I have created. To be free and have the time and space to question the "lies" I have come to accept as truth. I cannot wait any longer for someday! Thank you for sharing your life in all of your videos. It's been a breath of fresh air for me! You are admired and appreciated! From one soul searcher to another...press on!

[@NinjaBooKitty]

Do you have a KZbin channel? Or IG?

[@jonc8179]

@@NinjaBooKitty I do not have either. There must be a story behind your username. Yep I'm curious

[@itsanorristhing3825]

I always feel so much better after watching your videos! ❤❤

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Carla what would I do without you on this channel.

[@wendytaylor3270]

I loved this video! How many times do we not see the truth about things because of the lies we believe about ourselves? My lie goes back to my childhood in not being good enough. Such a destructible lie!

[@LetsPlayRideandSeek]

You have a lovely way of speaking your truth. The familiarity is eerily needed. Also. The wheel of fortune clip fur lifeeeee. Toodles

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Needed this affirmation. Love you friends!

[@budemmett]

Loved watching you and Rio running on the beach… Rio constantly turning back to make sure you were still there! You too have a great connection!!!

[@marissaalden2757]

Just found you today ... now I'm on a "REGRETLYSS" MARATHON. Thank you for sharing your life and your thoughts with us. You have truly helped me feel good and more hopeful that I'm on the right track. Watching your videos (which by the way are great, you have no problem editing) helps me get off, break away from my ever conscious, consistent heavy load. Reminds me to not let the past and worries for my future take away so much. ☮

[@DeborahLong7777]

The beach is my happy place!!! My element!!! Washes everything away and gives you peace ❤✌

[@navmoon22]

Your videos are giving me the energy I need right now 💜 Thank you gorgeous being, for sharing on your journey

[@markwaalkens817]

Man... It's truly an inspiration and a sense of, I don't know.. maybe the word I'm looking for is confirmation? Because everything you have said is so on point to me. I'm on my own journey and it's just good to hear someone else say many of the same thoughts I have. I don't talk to people about things like this. Mostly because I feel nobody understands. I started watching some of your more recent videos and decided I had to go back to the beginning and I'm glad I did. Your videos, your shared thoughts are a comfort.

[@ziyadfrancisco3643]

Same here, Mark. I had to go from the begining ! And man, am I happy 4 doing that !! Only few of people would understand or appreciate others thoughts & feelings. Lyss has got this depth and logic in her words, I mean I can feel it with every sigh.

[@RodRuth]

"Of simply being alive is not deserving of happiness.".........Yes....... you got it....💖

[@BigRedUS]

You are such an old soul. This a true rarity. Thank you for sharing your life with the World.

[@NinjaBooKitty]

That is the single best explanation I've ever heard of how a spiritual practice and inner awareness can shatter ego (ego being the stories that we believe about ourselves whether true or not that cause suffering) and bring peace and happiness. This is exactly what is meant when it is said that only we control our thoughts, feelings, and perspective. I just randomly found the breakup video a few minutes ago and now I'm following you both. I daresay maybe this experience couldn't have happened unless you were alone. What a great example of why people need and deserve time to grow personally before trying to grow with someone else. I plan on getting on the road hopefully next year, following exactly this path up the East Coast, so I'm excited to see where and how you go. Happy travels and thank you for sharing your journey. 😊💖✌

[@magicalmary2706]

Great video! Yes, my mind is sometimes the most dangerous place to go. I have many stories. Breathe and being in the moment will give you the most joy.

[@susandunaway8290]

You nailed it. Our minds are always chattering with a story that translates into an emotion. Change the story channel, change your whole outlook. 😉

[@paulbishop7320]

I believe that your spirit is fulfilling your journey and flyinging to new heights and I enjoy being along with you on your journey thankyou alliasa

[@Leons_camper]

Beautiful words from the soul. Happy travels.

[@bgonz3599]

I just love to hear you think! ❤ it's crazy but it feels therapeutic. Some of the things you say hit home. I can visualize the things you say, it's freakin amazing! We are conditioned from early childhood to create all these anchors that the older we get the more we are held back! Just as you said you have to reconditioned your mind to do the opposite and that you are doing. You have created the least amount off weight to carry around and therefore you are free. Free to own yourself. Thats freakin incredible! You are proof it can be done!

[@ldn0224]

I am 30 years on you and it still catches me here and there on world around me. Just be focused on being good, responsible and being free.

[@richforrest6983]

Congrats on your healing time , can see that your face and conversation is where you want it be , enjoy the moments good and fullfilling , your story has not all been told the chapters await your doing, xxoo RC

[@rick1862]

you bring out the thought that it is okay to have different feelings (sadness and anxiety, frustration and guilt). You do a great job of stopping long enough to identify what you are feeling and maybe even why you are feeling that way. Feeling our feelings is an important step in learning how complex and how simple we are at the same time.

[@lisakeatingyoga]

How awesome! This is truly the most amazing video 🤗😎🙏💖 thank you for the realness an for sharing beautiful presence 🤩you rock this 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@kathleenday990]

She does it again!! Your videos create a peace in me. Keep speaking your truth♥️

[@jackiecat101XD]

I think it’s also important to acknowledge that the bitterness you felt was empathy. You were upset because a member of your community was wronged. It’s okay to feel that for a little bit, but you are right, it is important not to take on other peoples anger and hold it. We can feel for others or even our own frustrations, and then release them. ❤

[@bamagalforever]

The story that my mind constantly tells me is to keep being bitter and sad all the time... 💔

[@SuperJM2013]

I love these video clips over your narration. It’s rather dream like. Thanks for inspiring ❤️

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Thank you so so much. I feel like I'm just starting to get the hang of things. Your reassurance means a lot. Thanks for watching

[@gianinni2002]

I enjoy hearing your thoughts regarding present moment awareness and on the “retraining” of your brain. I have been on that same spiritual plane for some time now. Our lives...our thoughts, and our feelings! We truly are as happy as we make up our minds to be!

[@andrewbedford7255]

You made it, I watched 3 weeks in 5 minutes. Awsome. I am on the west coast waiting for a new rv. I'll be back on the road soon. Like you, with zero baggage. Just a dog and a disire to live in peace. 😁 Good luck with your travels, be safe😁🤙

[@tiffaniw8270]

Watching your videos has bring me a sense of peace and made me evaluate my life. I've literally watched the 5 episodes today as a new subbie. You mentioned tour career being on hold, how is the nomad life funded?

[@BeeKay4444]

Your mindset is refreshing. What a damn awesome way to be in your 20’s. I am 49 and look back at SO MUCH WASTED TIME. Sadly time waits for no one. I got old but forgot to feel every moment when I had the chance. Good for you that you are enjoying, exploring and FEELING IT ALL.

[@imaloserdude7227]

Beautiful visuals and deeply personal and powerful words supplemented by background music. Excellent! I really liked this one and look forward to more. Keep being in the moment as often as you can, and try to get out of your head when you feel the negativity, advice to me as much as encouragement to you.

[@darryljohnson6664]

you go girl that helped me alot thanks

[@gerardosegata4817]

Our destination is never a place, but rather a new way of seeing things.

[@r.p.mcmurphy6623]

Great Henry Miller quote! You should attribute quotes. 🤨

[@Smittypie86]

Really happy for you! I hope this clicks for people that aren't living in the present. The feeling is unrivaled.

[@kstepk5003]

Wow, this is one of the most relatable things I’ve seen and yet thought no one else felt. Thank you for sharing. I feel hopeful.

[@Outfun]

Wow I needed to hear that. Thank you.

[@charlesharris2749]

Be Here Now is a book by Ram Dass, in print since its initial publication in 1971, and has sold over two million copies. It was one of the first popular yogic books in the US. You might enjoy it on your journey. Thanks for another great video.

[@Parkitloveit]

I’ve just found you and I understand why KZbin lead me to you. 👍You seem to enjoy your time 👌I’m also having some creative projects and I’m leaving my country for 11 months. I wish you a great day 🍀

[@hahaha9076]

Yes... Our brain, subconscious mind, runs a narrative of it's creation based on what it has seen from our past. How those scenarios have played out before. Our primal mind trying to save us from anticipated harm. I've become aware of this in recent years and it is my experience also. To find myself in an anxious or as you say bitter state because of one trigger. I find those triggers generally come from any negative narrative that easily rubs off. Once I have the ahh moment that I've been drawn along, I have a little chuckle. Then I'm fine, until it happens again. 🙃 I'm recently alone, alone and I've found it so much easier to stay centred because there is less outside noise. Eg: the article about the policeman... I even vet my KZbin as though I'm searching for community as well as the experience/lesson. I find wonderful people in the content creators and the comment section. New neural pathways are developed and strengthened in your subconscious creating a different overriding narrative over time. We are able to master our own mind in many ways. Joe Dispenza has a really good run down of how this occurs. It is a science based fact that monks and others have known for age's. This awareness is becoming so wide spread, I have a great optimism for our human family. We are ancient animals with a looong history or narrative. All of which is just that, narrative.

[@terry4265]

What a great Video and so honest and down to earth. My mind is my worse enemy . So many mistakes and lost wealth & now a life I don't really enjoy at all but with that said. I am working everyday at putting the past behind me and working out a life that will bring me Peace with Simplicity. Its not easy but one step at a time. I'm so glad your finding yourself. Thanks ;)

[@Michellebbarton]

This vlog was beautiful. Thank you 😭❤️

[@alight4090]

This vid helped me a lot today. Thank you.

[@ziyadfrancisco3643]

Felt and noticeable honesty with every word and every long look. Be well Lyss.

[@brentfrench752]

I guess I get what you’re saying about the mind telling you stories, just never thought about it. Wishing you continued good health and happiness always. Enjoy the ride of freedom!

[@Itsarianaimani]

I totally yelled out the Wheel of Fortune with you. 😂

[@justlooking4202]

Pretty much summed up the mainstream media and why you should avoid that poison at all costs. It's much better to be uninformed than misinformed.

[@NinjaBooKitty]

True but we also hear these stories from society in general - friends, family, school, church, social media. Everyone has ideas about who we are and what we have to do and be to be deemed worthy or good. When these beliefs don't align with who we are, we suffer.

[@mmsmits2868]

For me, I found that the best way to deal with the stories in my head is to put them on paper. Twist them, turn them, flip them, and they become stories that others can read. When my parents died (too young) and they didn't appear as guiding lights in my life, I wrote a novel about what it means to be alive. It was incredibly therapeutic. I know everyone works differently, but that was what worked for me, because keeping them in my head was far too heavy. Thanks for sharing your travels.

[@robaylmer2450]

I get that totally Lyss, and you have explained it so well. It's good to stop and smell the roses and watch a little life go by. as you say just "be". enjoy the road - life is a journey. form a sunny and warm Broadstairs, Kent, England 👍🥂💖🤗🥰

[@vinayaksaikia7346]

Awesome video and always great to see another F.R.I.E.N.D.S fan !! 🙂

[@la4813]

I appreciate and learned from your insightful transparency. And your videography and soundtrack is relaxing and beautiful - thank you

[@Bluponi]

I am envious of you, young lady... I'm 45 years old, successful, but I still haven't found happiness in my life...

[@davanachase2372]

Still trying to answer that for myself and I'm an old woman....you're on the right track though.

[@tomb374]

I enjoy hearing you share your experience so candidly. It's very therapeutic. Just first listened to your videos today... love the dog by the way... what a character ;)

[@sidgrover8628]

Thank you for being you and your inner self the way you express your thoughts are amazing I look forward to your future travels and awareness it gives me insight into my own life be safe 👍😎✌️

[@user-cw7fq1pf9h]

Your epiphany has me wanting to go eat lobster rolls in Maine right on the coast watching the waves. Thanks for living

[@REGRETLYSS1]

hahaha now doesn't that sound like a beautiful evening. Perhaps you should! Thank you for watching Bob.

[@brandoncooperr]

Old bus vibez. Awesome to see your journey. Thanks for the video.

[@deb_ellen9733]

I read something the other day “don’t believe everything you think”. And, as I’m typing, what scrolls by at the end of the video? Those exact words!!

[@barrybegley5379]

If we can learn to perceive the simple Joy of life, as so many of our pets have demonstrated, would we then not infuse our being with peace and those indescribable moments in time that "Sparks Joy" in our lives. I find that your videos resonate with me. Each one is a treasure. Thank You for sharing your experiences and travels with the world. Greetings from Ontario, Canada.

[@kathrynb4683]

Solo too. You described so beautifully the exact thing I do when in a rich touristy place. Bitter. Yes. Resentful a little wondering if those people really get it...life as I am experiencing it. Appreciation is the key. Those that are thankful do. I am in Central NY. You are welcome at my summer base cabin anytime. Just love your perspective. Drove school bus 32 years and was amazed at how quiet that bus is on the road. Catching up on the rest of your stories. Glad to have subscribed. Safe travels.

[@BeeKay4444]

Oh and I have absolutely falling in MAD LOVE with Rio.

[@charisma-hornum-fries]

I am in the process of connecting with the world after disconnecting for 2 years. It’s hard to become part of life. And I recognize the instant bitterness you talk about.

[@wallacehurt806]

I have felt and judged people why they arent like me, but learned that is everyone was like me the world would be so strange, so I learned after many years just do you, that is my motto for myself and others :)

[@micksmusicchannel]

A lot of truth in your words 👍

[@karennewberry2598]

I'm a 66 yr old grandmother,I raised my 3 children by myself for over 30 yrs,an I'm still single,I choice to me,it's slot easier for me,I'm a lot like you when I was young,indepent an pretty,but my kids came first,now my youngest is 30 an I still rather be alone I love myself,an when I'm a couple I'm meserable.hope you all the luck an be safe,if you ever come thru Western Kentucky ur more than welcome to stop in.its a small town an very safe,

[@lisaann3840]

Get out there a do it, girl. 💪 🔥

[@DanaDana-tm2mo]

I'm just starting my own journey. Waking up to the world is often a change a of scene. Except it's personal, I can't think of anything more worthy of the time that comes from simply being. Be safe out there.

[@1963tjc]

Soooo WISE!!!!

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Thanks for being here Tim!!

[@gregorybiggs2068]

I think no one likes to be blind-sided by bad news, so we try to anticipate bad events. Looking for the bad in tomorrow unfortunately can become a nasty habit. I suspect we can be the other extreme too - too "airy-fairy" or "sweetness and light" I like what you said about being free of accumulated or self-generated bitterness. It is better to simply experience an event without preconceived notions, positive OR negative.

[@limitlesscoker6669]

Last time I was there was just a little before Christmas they had all the lights up it was so beautiful. There are deer all over the place about dusk. It is an amazing incredible place to spend time. At one end there is all the driftwood. At the other end there’s a waterpark. In between there is shopping and things to do. Such an amazing place

[@elizabethorr9372]

Lovely video that makes one think. Love how much you stand up for your ex.

[@robinp9047]

Sometimes it’s ok to leave a place right away if you don’t feel comfortable there. Sometimes different areas don’t feel right and the best thing to do is not eat there, pack up and leave. Land has memories in it and it’s good to know when it’s time to move on and protect your heart and mind ❤️❤️❤️

[@REGRETLYSS1]

That is absolutely true robin. My intuition is my greatest gift. Understanding the difference between intuition and mindlessness is important. In this case I realized my mind had simply gotten away from me.

[@SoulfulPlayground]

You should start a Patreon page. I would support you on there. Great footage.

[@josephdappa1340]

Regretlyss/Lyss: I am watching and seeing you everything. Am I wasting my time watching you? I love seeing you because I ❤ you. I hope your philosophy does not cancel me out. I love you, my sunshine. Joseph

[@rhuffines13]

Jekyll Island is a beautiful and mysteries' , i was there in 2017 alone but i was married you get the idea

[@jeffharris7777]

Some day I'll quit my 2 jobs and hit the road. Meanwhile, I'll live vicariously through you. No jealousy, just gonna enjoy your story👍 Be safe.

[@REGRETLYSS1]

What a beautiful day that will be! So glad you're here Jeff. Thank you for watching.

[@robbarnard5310]

The ground you cover is really beautiful. I wish I had the chance to travel the country like you

[@rbmh]

Fantastic Video and Excellent Channel, Will Grow.

[@elineblind348]

Awesome F•R•I•E•N•D•S shirt!

[@alanthompson1083]

Hey!!!! You were in savannah, Ga. And i didn't even see you. Bummer. I could have put a new sealer around your door caseing. Oh well, maybe i'll see you next time. Oh, by the way, i'm a happy go lucky old man that loves life and enjoys it as much as i can. You be safe on your adventure. Next time.See ya!🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹☕☕👍👀😎

[@bobyhic]

Yep the best time in your life for all of this! Do it and do it unapologetically! Only thing you may want to describe the places more. The last beach looked like Edisto in S.C. Suggestion: As summer approaches try the very Northen tier states. The trip to the very top of the U.P. of Michigan is unworldly.

[@gayemarianesfox2405]

Your channel is great. You do great in filming and editing! Have you filmed a tour of your bus?

[@murraywhalen6523]

Hi there. I know how that is when your mind takes over and makes its own narrative or Reality. I have depression and so it happens more often to me. But when I had a dog it helped me so much. If you watch your dog and take a page from his or her book it helps so much to let go in your mind. What I mean is the dog has know concerns. It wants to be with you it wants to explore and eat and drink. The rest dont matter. You have each other to love and you get to explore what more do you need.. Thats enough who cares what others think? Their thought dont control your life unless you let them.

[@emmaflack6986]

Hi There Im commenting from the Scottish Highlands🙂...I have just started watching your videos from the beginning and loving them so far...I too am on a journey to re connect to the real me after years of emotional trauma...I am loving getting to know the real me...looking forward to watching more ❤

[@Catlady003]

Love your schoolie 🌞

[@melizabeth908]

This is a good video... Thanks for sharing

[@Benjamin-tv2xd]

Be the author of your own happiness everyday.

[@paularandall2798]

I love Rio. She is so good for you!

[@4BetaMale2]

3:38 I like the rig. Motivating you to be continuously working is so corporate America can make as much money off of you as possible. So enjoy what you enjoy not what they want you to enjoy.

[@motleydesign]

Just as Rio is doing, Let your self be 🥂🌴

[@maulananurushobry]

I’m wacthing and listening

[@davidwayne9982]

You don't NEED to "meditate"-- just go BE---wherever you are, whatever you're doing- just BE.. don't forget if you're up through the upper east Tennessee, southwest Virginia area as you go north or south- you can always stop in and see "grandpa".. and I am one that will NEVER advice, judge, or in any way try to influence whatever you are .....in any way. I might, if you're interested, teach you a perfect technique that will help you clear trash and center really easily. You have the clarity- it's just covered. Michelangelo said the statue if David was already there in the stoner-- he just had to remove what didn't belong- and that is what you're doing. But- as i said- I have an extra room- it's just me and two cats-- and I'd welcome your company and discussion- if you feel like talking- or if you don't you can stop and visit and never say a word! Let me know if you're going to be around here any time. You always have an 'extended family' here..

[@Catlady003]

Just subbed this morning 🌞🌞🌞🌞

[@franksantos4680]

Lol I’m suffering from this Chinese disease called.... Young no mo!!...life’s to short , I want to live every min and every day if I get far just to be myself and be happy with the little I got , what I don’t have or can’t get now. Alone , happy and love what God has given me I think that’s nice !! That’s what my mind is telling me and it’s okay 🙏🏽❣️you asked ? take care my friend out there...cry , yell , shout that your happy don’t get yourself sick listen to your body ya .

[@Chefsantatravels]

Good video, 👏👏 Unfortunately my mind's been telling me the last 4 years a fiction story but I think after tomorrow and I get these papers signed that I need the stories gonna change from fiction to reality. Sweet lady 🌻🌻stay safe, stay strong, stay healthy god bless and enjoy life sending a big Santa hug.✌💖💪👨‍🍳🎅🚌🌈

[@mouse-junkie]

You are becoming wiser than your years.

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Thank you Mouse. This life has taught me so much. Eager to continue growing.

[@njautonomy3355]

Okay where did you get this wisdom? How do we make it contagious? Maybe that is something you could consider as a path in your life? Helping others connect with this understanding of consciousness, awareness and presences. I guess you're doing that now. Agree completely but I'm older and the voices from the system I was born into were so loud Coming from my family, friends, co-workers and even strangers It drowned out my own for years. Connecting to your voice, intuition, energy is so valuable especially when it different from others.

[@elainepowell5768]

I totally understand your frustration with Jekyll Island. Several industrialists vacationed there and started the Federal Reserve right there at the Jekyll Island Club.