What Are You Living For? // I Made it to Colorado!! (Story 13)

As my cross country trip in my unconverted Skoolie comes to an end, I think about where I'm going. We like to live in this illusion, of knowing where we're going. To see our lives decades into the future. Five year plan, ten year plan, career plan, retirement plan. It's all planned. It's meant to bring security, stability. Which don't get me wrong, are wonderful things. But what do we lose by resisting the unknown and the unstable? And why do we view the unknown and unstable as bad in the first place?
I make an unexpected pit stop in Kansas to visit with some fellow nomads, then finally arrive to the Chrome Yellow shop in Denver where I will be building out my bus with my good friend Charlie Kern. I feel so lucky to be here, and welcome the journey ahead. Cheers to the unknown.
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[@DannyPops]

Anyone else going through an existential crisis enjoying these?? Thank you for sharing your life for us who are a bit too frightened to make drastic change.

[@sherreeharris419]

Me

[@Shawnerr]

Me too!

[@fu4616]

This ol' guy too.

[@js77z]

Always.

[@stevehughes7765]

"I refuse to live a dull life for the illusion of safety." - Regretlyss so insightful...I love it! Have fun in Colorado beautiful girls!

[@bobrouse8634]

I'm not giving in, to security under pressure Rush - The Enemy Within

[@lancesudberry209]

@Eidelmania some of us were born quiet and old,some loud and forever young,some never stop blooming ,,a wish to you oh wisdom one

[@u2cancatchme]

I agree

[@MamboMikeWellnessCoach]

Your story telling is such a gift.

[@got2flynow]

Can't wait to see this premiere... Really looking forward to this one. Lyss, the answer to your question is fear. Generally, humans are not very good with NOT knowing exactly what is going to happen in the near future... let alone the future 5 years from now. However, when you realize this, and address it for what it is... FEAR - False Evidence Appearing Real... then you enter a paradigm shift and everything gets a lot more chill. ✌

[@roam2beborn323]

Amen girl, wish I had been able to start traveling younger, but we can't look back we got keep looking forward. From one old dude I hope your build is exactly like you want it

[@cjg8822]

I can’t wait either and love your narrative blogs! They make you think 🤔

[@curtbrown7967]

You have a talent for expression and film making

[@jimross7648]

A little bit of philosophy, a little bit of a travel log, and a lot of human and dog interaction and some dog days of summer on your journey. It was a great video.

[@livingdeadgirl4894]

Happy Sunday with Regretlyss!!!!

[@moses777exodus]

Glad you made it to CO. Your friend and his shop look perfect for your build. Best wishes.

[@vampireslayer1989]

Welcome to Colorado! Our state brightened up as soon as you got here!🙂

[@TranscendExistence1111]

I truly love your heartfelt videos! I’m looking forward to seeing you soon! 😀

[@dangerouskoin4874]

As someone who did vanlyfe, carlyfe, packlyfe and even just flat out being homeless off and on since 2014 I can say that while I miss roaming and the freedom and exchange of a different kind of stress (and fun!), it does get old after a while. In the end, I want both. A home base and a home on wheels. Because things constantly go wrong on the road, and while you make friends all over the place and get help from random strangers most of the time, sometimes... you don't get the help you need. I also don't have a family to lean on so it made it more risky for me if I did have a major failure. Now I'm 37 and my body is really slowing down, so I have to build a self reliance base. I still crave that adventure, but not the risk. I wouldn't completely forgo the life plans, just ensure they are flexible. Stability is still important. Best wishes out there you are doing awesome!

[@jules9628]

… some of us are doing it still-at 60. Feels weird to have roots. The longest roots for me are 5 years, twice, 2 to 3 years somewhere here & there. The biggest issue is letting “stuff” go. Once its gone, seems ppl give you more “stuff” they dont want or need, when you stay somewhere a while. Then you have to get rid of all or most of it when you’re on the road again..And now stuff feels cumbersome. I love plants, books and funky things, but have learned to let MOST of it go…we have to choose to have it all and stay somewhere, or let it go… and move on. UNLESS, you are fortunate enough to own a spot of your own and have “stuff” there waiting for your return…But then, it ends up being more of a storage unit when youre away.

[@dangerouskoin4874]

@@jules9628 Yeah it's easy to have stuff pile up when you have more space. I stay pretty mindful of that and even now that Ive been apartment living for a bit, I could be out in a day. Minimalism is definitely a practice lol. A shop to do repairs, some living quarters, and a small garden would be perfect. I wouldnt want to be there all the time. But it would be there when Ive had enough of the road, or the road enough of me haha. That can be a lot for some, but it would bring me a lot of peace personally.

[@martini426]

Almost everyone falls into these plans, careers and schemes about how to live life. Nothing wrong with that just don't forget it's all premade scheme and you don't have to follow any of it. Enjoy your life!

[@sherreeharris419]

You are such a precious soul. Loving your new journey with your beautiful Rio. You are a fabulous "storyteller"....could listen to you for hours. You are wise beyond your years dear and are very thought provoking and inspirational. Your ending statement.. What are you living for? Begs to be answered. God bless you!!💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏

[@drevildruid]

I like your narration. It's well thought out and easy to understand. Lots of other KZbinrs will ramble on about stuff without considering what they're saying. I like the music montage at 3:58 as it's reminiscent of Fleetwood Mac's "The Chain" which ties in nicely to your previous words.

[@sidneymartinez5752]

And it's always nice to see a smile on your face every time you will appear to see the ones that you love and that been there for you

[@divinegraphicdesigns]

Needless to say... The dancing part was my favorite... Let us all rejoice and dance to the sound of crickets! Lol

[@markymarkcutler7962]

Awesome insight into life. Remember the acronym F.E.A.R. False evidence appearing real. It has helped me to break the pattern of living on autopilot. Sending much respect and love from Worthing United Kingdom 💟🚐💟🚐

[@eddie5407]

Excellent video! The sights, sounds, narration and message…Top notch!

[@ddelben4386]

I couldn't stop laughing at the 9 min mark when the announcement came on about the weather cause all it did was remind me of the song Chop Suey (Grab a brush and put a little make-up Hide the scars to fade away the shake-up).

[@adventureawaits5003]

Enjoyed the contemplation of life's plans and the direction we choose. Glad you made it to where you were headed. Thanks for sharing.

[@GaryNichols50]

"We like to live in this illusion of knowing where we're going" and your elaboration on that is being very perceptive and aware, especially for your age. I'm a new sub and found you through Cole. But I like how you think and I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos.

[@scotegertson2300]

I appreciate the messaging that you put into your story telling, all with a touch of fun thrown in. Well done! Thank You

[@jerrybrady9103]

Looking forward to your new build and just want to say its great to see that big smile on your lovely face

[@RodRuth]

"I'd rather befriend the unknown, live in harmony with it, rather than pretend like I can limit it's impact on my life by watering down my day to day existence. ....I refuse to live a dull life for the illusion of safety.." I have nothing to add to that. I am with you my lady, of a different capacity. yet very similar......

[@deastover898]

I live for sobriety and my children. Grateful for both and greatest joys of my life 💞 thank you for some how always reminding me of this!

[@davidbaron6647]

Your dog is just so stressed all the time. LOL cant wait for your next video.

[@simplybeingme]

You are a writer! Yes! I love your videos and watching your life! I too find a lot in common with you! Recently moved into my SUV until I find a bus as well!! However I’m still working full time but def not something that I will do anymore than 5 more years God willing ✊✊ God bless you beautiful!!! Love your journey! You are authentic! Love it!

[@tomlatenite8348]

We also stopped at that rest area and made sandwiches instead of fast food, on our way out west. It was great, I remembered the NOAA weather on the speaker. Thanks girl, stay safe!

[@tavanurses]

I am a nurse in Al and enjoy your vids I was a nurse traveler for 10 years but home now with the aging parent responsibilities. Enjoy your travels and thanks for taking us with you.

[@StoopsThereItIs]

Thank you for your insight. Lessons learned. Adjustments made. Hope to see you in Colorado. BTW; I’m living for the adventure that awaits and the lives we can touch.

[@sidneymartinez5752]

And also it's always beautiful to see a pure face with beauty

[@LetsPlayRideandSeek]

A dull life is for the daring that never turned to themselves and said, I dare you. -Nat

[@sidneymartinez5752]

Like I said living on the street for four years and finally got two puppies that I'm happy to have

[@sherreeharris419]

God bless you Sidney and your fur babies

[@exbassguide]

I found your channel not long ago! I like your content and I am Subscribed. My 2019 transit conversion is nearing it's completion! In about two or three weeks the adventures begin and I go on the road full time for about 7 years! I will restart and rebrand my youtube Bass fish channel into living my vanlife my way. Next year exploring Alaska for 6 glorious months! Roger The ExBassGuide

[@HarmonyExpressSkoolie]

Awesome storytelling... You're awesome. Hope the travels and conversion go AWESOME!!

[@WyeExplorer]

I just came across your channel and not by chance I feel. Great story - it's got me hooked. Making up plans as we go is freedom. You know in the moment. Hope you van works out. I'm sure it will. All the best. Mark UK

[@Disabled_Vet_72]

There are a lot of KZbinrs I find "entertaining". You dear are not one of them.....I find you "enthralling, mesmerizing and enchanting".....oh and you are ridiculously attractive even when you just woke up 30 seconds ago!

[@wandarios1711]

Can’t wait to see what your future holds with your Skoolie!!! BLESSINGS!!! Wanda Rios

[@tommynikon2283]

Tomorrow....because at 65 I know a few things: Every day without a tag on your toes is a good day. And....No Expectations, No Disappointments. Life is full of them, so your ATTITUDE towards them determines your "altitude".

[@LandCloudAdventures]

I love these 10 to 15 minute breaks to my day that can get me thinking about everything else. Well done, you are getting really good at the editing!

[@rogeriorodriguez1212]

Nice

[@HeavenlyMama1]

Lyss if you do lives there are people who will send you money through KZbin and help you with your bus build financially. Just thought I’d let you know. Hugs💕

[@Samtzu]

Evolution has given us fear... I mean, check out wild animal "fear" on down the evolutionary chain to see where ours came from..... HOWEVER, with contemplation and self determination we can choose a different reaction to something new in our lives. We can choose to suppress fear and move forward.... HOWEVER (#2)... Fear is still important. The right kind of fear keeps us from getting struck by the wrong kind of Karma on the Road of Life. There is a balance.... also, you're doing great and like everyone else, I can't wait to see what your Adventure Path will be.... oh, and Welcome to The West.... the discovery's out here are fantastic!!!

[@Wanna.Wander]

Subbed to this nice channel💜💜I enjoy the buzz again and againlovrly dog and bus

[@jacobsonleland]

I will say to be careful of the pickle parks ( Rest areas) in particular they are Dangerous more so than people think. Travel Centers formerly known as Truck Stops are also but usually better lighting and more people around. Anyways enjoy I have a sister in Colorado it's Beautiful there for sure.

[@joshuapereira3787]

GOOD MORNING BEAST ALYSSA KZbin VIDEO CANADA ONTARIO MISSISSAUG 🇨🇦🇨🇦🍃🍀🌱🌱🌱🌱🌱🐕

[@janebrommet7942]

You asked the question... What am i living for... I am on the same road... The security of house, job, big money, i never felt that... And hoe, age 72, i live in my gipsy wagon tiny house and i need no shit from the outside world as judging me that i have no kids, family, big house, lots of money... I am So rich as they will never be... I have my freedom❤ living with my ponys, chickens and cat... I still struggle with oud patterns from my childhood, but then are ok and they fade away as time goes by. Follow your hart, listen to your depression... It has something to tell you...its ok to not be ok, als Lee told us... Take time for your soul. I love your video's, and think Rico is a hunk ...

[@Johnrider1234]

My son adores you. We have a homestead KZbin some homesteads. Like. Wild wonderful off grid. Or outdoors with the Morgans. We have 84 acres. 10 acres of organic gardens. 20o fruit trees 🌳. We have. Cats. Dogs. Two cows. Two ponds. The largest fresh water way in the world. Do you want a forever man

[@christinedavison7604]

Hi from the UK. I just love watching your videos, in my mind you are the bravest young woman I've seen in a while. You are living the life that I've secretly always yearned for. I love witnessing your inner journey and search for your own truths, and absolutely living in the now. Take care and keep safe lovely lady. Your little companion Ria is so adorable, her eyes are astonishing. 🚌 🐕 😎❤

[@Scot_WestTexas]

This girl is based (and beautiful). I wish I was 30 yrs younger, but I’ll accept being grandpa. So if you need a grandpa let me know 🥰💕

[@nancym3267]

Thank you for being honest and so spirit lifting!!! God Bless you and your journey!!! Love it ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

[@justinmiller8]

I stumbled across your videos and being 100% honest I only clicked on it because you look exactly like my ex girlfriend. An actual spitting image of her. Anyways, clicked on it and I love your content. I just I can’t get enough of you. I wish you well and I will continue to follow you and as soon as I can I will be supporting your journey. And maybe if you ever come through the Clarksville Tennessee area I’d love to meet you.

[@davidmueller980]

So I follow Off Grid Skoolie and watch Transcend Existence so I am ahead of your story but didn’t know your story and don’t know what happens in Colorado to make the other story happen in Kansas. I’m so confused. Fill in the story soon for me young lady......thanks!

[@markhooton146]

glad I stumbled upon your channel. I'm allready a fan. You're gifted in in interacting with your audience. you're doing a great job like taking the viewers along on the trip with you. Besides Colorado especially western Colorado is beautiful. Also check out the mighty 5 national parks in Utah. Happy and safe travel's to you. I'm a fan of your channel.

[@breakfree2154]

Hallelujah women Let's become more comfortable with the uncomfortable. It has help me find my strength Stay true to my values, principles, integrity and I'm all in Question: Why do van lifer's skoolie lifer's video themselves brushing their teeth? What is up with that?

[@bettyjolly4573]

🐾hi Lyss & Rio 💖🐾OMG YOU & BRITNEY cd be sisters!!! Nice guys too👌😆good friends are hard to comeby😉🤘💖🐾

[@thetravellingtokers6385]

BIG RESPECT from the UK 👍🏻😎👊🏻💯💚

[@leslieservantofgod8601]

I have to say that if I wanted to explain my existence out here I would direct them to your videos because you speak what I'm living more than just a life I feel like I'm really living thank you

[@mollydior]

Love this! So true everything you say..👌💜Enjoy your life & travels now...Adventure is better than the illusion of stability 🙏

[@chrisgentry7195]

I'm sitting at work on 3rd shift, 12 hour days dreaming of my bus build. What I'm doing I would not call "life". However, my wife and kids have stability and that matters. But soon the debt will be paid, the bus will be built, and I will get my chance at life.

[@montyfinch5695]

Everyday I make new memories to replace the horrific memories of Iraq. It's working, watching yours and other videos is helping me to achieve that. Thank you Lyssa! Peas!

[@JaSoLuV]

Should get your windows tinted. Awesome 👌🏾 👏🏾 👍🏾 channel.

[@truthmarshal6627]

I have never heard what your profession or trade was prior to Covid. I have just heard you have postponed for time being. I am seeing more and more of this lifestyle today. I have no issue as long as folks can support themselves. I’m,obviously attracted to it myself, because I watch many videos of such and off the grid living/homesteads. I lived the grind for my entire life, because I had responsibilities, a career, family and children to raise. Now I’m 60, debt free, healthy, fit and children have their own families. I tell them to live simply and that material things have little meaning in life. The more you own, the more you have to work, the more time and money it takes to maintain. Stress. I’d like to hit the road, but my wife has no desire. So I feel stuck at the moment. Thanks for the ride.

[@checkingoutgypsymike2075]

I live for spreading the Word of God, and glorifying Him. There is nothing to fear if you have salvation, and ig you read the bible you'll know by looking around that the world doesn't have much time until the rapture followed by the tribulation. Enjoy every day and get closer to God while you can, while telling others that true peace and eternal life in God's Kingdom is the only way to find eternal happiness. God bless!!

[@sburns3814]

Catching up with all your videos and love the deep introspection of oneself, which we all need. But in all my years I’ve learned that I only need to please myself and no others but my puppies, because it always leads to disappointment and disillusionment for those around me for not meeting their standards or expectations.

[@rayrobbins4625]

Here is my answer to your question . I am living for PEACE HAPPINESS AND LOVE .

[@teresitajimenez0428]

i am truly amazed of ur bravery and sense of independence.. just love it! how i wish ur mind set now is my mind set when i am ur age.. now im living alone.. not on the road tho but i like what u're doing.. may i know how much u spent for this bus' renovations? hmmm.. been watching ur videos for 2months already.. sending hugs to u and rio.. nice dog.. a variant of huskies i guess.. ciao.. ciao❤️

[@impactradio]

Just found your channel. Binged your old one and now this one. Your story telling is amazing and is bringing my own inner crisis into view. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@bobkeller8383]

It's funny. I live in a small town in ks. I have a stable life. I own my home, a manager of a local store, my family and friends are here, I have a shop full of tools for all my hobbies, my 3 dream vehicles.....but for some reason for the past couple years this care free style of living has been calling me. I can't explain it. I've often thought of selling everything except the bare necessities and buy a bus and head out. I don't want to do it by myself and not sure how to fund it all on the road. Plus the security and everything I've worked for my whole entire life I'm not willing to give up. It's a constant struggle. I enjoy your build videos very much. Thank you

[@jc18512]

Interesting and captivating first video I’ve seen. I subscribed. Looking forward to other videos. Jim and Sara from Arizona

[@davidsowens]

Life is whatever we make it to be.....Once we step out of our comfort zone new opportunities and experiences present themselves. After living on the road for a while we brought a 50'yacht. Lots of work getting set up right but we love living off grid and on the edge.. My wife often reminds me, "normal" is only a setting on the dryer

[@lamarnewton157]

Its so good to meet you.glad you love to travel too and live free.i do the same .right now I am in Georgia. Hanging in my 1973 chevy RV.its called patches .I painted it native American style. Hope to meet you.love to talk to you sometimes.my name is WhiteBear. Ok stay safe

[@LOTStreets]

Wooohooooo CO!! that's fantastic! Glad you made it there safely. I suppose it's time to get to work?

[@eduardonieto2355]

I bate with his help your motor vehicle it will look usome and pretty. Take care and my Gid Bless❤🙏🇺🇸.

[@rexwerking7063]

For your new bus build...another cool divided light window door? Always liked that feature on the Lucky Bus. Made it look unique.

[@Justsimplybee]

I have family that lives there! Was there just 6weeks ago. On my Triumph motorcycle ride! 🥰

[@ShadeTreeKennyT]

Most people want security and stability out of fear. The unknown is too much for them, so they stay in the predictable and complacent rut of safety. Routine, dull and and sometimes lifeless existence because that's what they can control. But even that "control" is an illusion. None of us ever have full control.

[@marciwhitton6351]

Hey, are you going my way? Any chance I can get a ride along the way? New subscriber here. Just love your motto. From Tasmania Australia.

[@miketierney7510]

Our feeling nature is the secret to being human. Don't want to end up like Mr. Spock in computer land, as much as I am addicted to them. Maybe it's just to meet someone like you.

[@josephblair3958]

your brave doing this as america is not a safe place to travel alone imagine it was the 1970s and Ted bundy had just escaped and u bumped into him charming chap but a phsycho it doesnt bare thinking about but i salute u .from a self employed travelling window cleaner from the city of Edinburgh i have been up and down ladders for over 30 years and what a life let me tell u

[@jreno6619]

Please check your tire pressure (your front passenger tire looks low -- your tire should not be collapsing like that). Be Safe!!

[@golflouis52]

" I refuse to live a dull life, for the illusion of safety"... i guess Rio agrees with that statement🤣 , or maybe that's the last need she intend to fulfill; keep on rolling to Colorado sweetie 👍 🤸‍♂️

[@JustAGrl007]

Can’t wait to see what you do with this bus! And I’m sure you hear this often but you remind not of Jenna Duwan. Took 13 episodes to figure out why you looked familiar 😆

[@rathernotdisclose8064]

I like how your bus is basically just a closet with a mattress in it haha... Not even being sarcastic. The zero fucks given mentality is appealing.

[@docsmallblock6584]

I'm in, the lifestyle, the attitude, and the hotness don't hurt! Where do I sign up??? Sell my home and roll! Gotta take the race car along though!!!

[@lcrr700]

I love this. May I ask how you fund your passion? I've worked almost all my life to live this retirement but it's hard to make ends meet, let alone live free on the road.

[@tofferarvid6589]

The stability found with planing is an illusion because we are not able to see what kinda battles will come.... Stability is only found when confronted with diversity and change that is where our true power and courage is found....

[@brucel399]

Best thing I can say is, Welcome to Colorado. CHEERS from Colorado

[@despiertahumanidad6715]

When the hippies of the era of peace and love were looked at as escentrics and today they all do the same ... lol ,,Humanity is waking up at last, because life is something else... I bless you beautiful...

[@TheMrmark61]

I watched this episode again just now. I think it’s one of your best. It gave me an idea for a name to go where “Lucky” was on the old one. I think the word “ Forward” would do nicely. It says it all.

[@travelsfromdoodah949]

You went to wichita and didn't stop by to see our van? Lol 😆 safe travels

[@JohnWick-mx2yn]

I would never expect a Ladie to be nothing more than here self and do what makes here happy and joking laughing acting silly all those qualities are what makes people beautiful .

[@frog382]

You have all it takes to explore the unlimited possibilities of dry fasting. Just by listening to your thoughts i can tell you need to clean your body to be happy and find yourswelf. Ofcourse, its just a opinion of a stranger

[@jozsefjamesofficial]

What a trip we used the same song in our recent videos. Love your narration by the way.

[@juliocesar-rt1ik]

You are beautiful, you are not afraid to move alone, greeting from Argentina🥺😷😁✌

[@ChhayaEang]

I REFUSE TO LIVE A DULL LIFE FOR THE ILLUSION OF SAFETY. Hit me in my soul. Bless up.

[@Johnrider1234]

I spent 3 years. Homeless. My son 27. Owns half this farm. We have a homestead. Do you want someone that will be forever

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