Reinvent Yourself with Cues & AMA

Cues are not just about communication, they are also about transforming your presence. When you are in control of your cues you can show up as your most charismatic self. In this class, I will be walking you through a POWERFUL exercise to reinvent yourself and how to reset your presence.
I’ll be hosting LIVE from New York at 9am PT/12pm ET after my CBS Morning segment covering the cues launch. The best part? I’ll also be doing my first ever Ask Me Anything Q&A.
Here’s what we covered in the training (including timestamps!):
0:00 Intro
4:23 If you wonder what visual cues others are sending you, play this decoding game with me!
5:40 If you struggle with productivity at work, watch this
13:40 Learn what cues are, how they impact our lives and how we can identify and control them
11:41 How to read and apply this training to your life with real-life examples
16:30 Why as a young girl, I never felt like I belonged and the cues I was missing or mislabeling
22:31 5 questions to ask yourself that will CHANGE your life
24:05 Why how you see yourself determines how others treat you
25:28 Why reinventing ourselves requires accurate encoding and decoding
26:35 The 3 questions we’re always asking ourselves about others while interacting with them
27:30 How I wrote Cues and where the 17 years of research came from
31:10 The famous awkward missed cue from Tom Brandy
32:55 The door experiment. How did they not notice this major missed cue?
35:15 Why people who accurately read cues EARN more money
39:45 Let’s play… can you spot the cue? (practice your cue spotting right here with me!)
1:01:27 Is your profile photo leaving the right impression? Find out using 3 of our community member's photo options.
1:12:35 Determine what you want more of in your life. I’ll share mine too!
1:16:11 This is when I learned that YOU ALL made Cues #1 New Release on Amazon 😭 Thank you!!!!
1:23:20 My last of the 5 questions that will lock in this training for you!
1:25:00 My motivational pep-talk for you and details about Cues starts here
1:26:45 I can’t wait to give you these juicy book bonuses (including a ticket to my exclusive Cues Advanced Masterclass!)
1:45:33 Ask me Anything… My husband Scott joins me while I answer your Q’s live!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Learn more about the powerful cues you are sending to others: www.scienceofpeople.com/cues

[@bonniecook2578]

Vanessa, you are so precious, watching you go out there and succeed. I know this is older, but I hope you go forward and keep this transparency. Watching you work with your hubby is also good shining a positive light in marriage.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your kind words 😊

[@alisanina]

I misinterpret social cues because I constantly think that people are double meaning, two-faced (smile in your face, talk about you behind your back), and liars. This is due to my upbringing-seeing a parent do it to people.

[@user-fw5qm9vu4s]

It's true for me as a child abuse victim

[@shawnie2027]

I literally overheard my step Mom speaking to my step sister after I walked out of the room an she was contradicting what she said to me and how she was acting to my face. It crushed me and although I forgive her because I understand how hard it is raising step children, I have never forgotten it.

[@Night_Swim_]

First step is letting go of this. Read the book “letting go” by David Hawkins.

[@toastedtarts4044]

I got really narcissistic parents, so same with me

[@bonniecook2578]

I am sorry you went through that. Find Vanessa's decode class on microexpressions - you will get so empowered perfectin that skill.

[@Jenniferlawren686]

*"The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago and the next best time is now"* I consider this to be best motivational quote I've heard in a very long time. But motivational quotes are useless if you don't practice what you preach*

[@tomasbowater975]

I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate or crypto and stocks.

[@Charlotte13265]

Crypto is bringing a different revolution in the world economy. People who are optimistic investors earn consistently.... Others will just sit and watch!.

[@commerceusa]

@@Charlotte13265 I've always wanted to trade crypto but got confused with the fluctuations in price

[@Charlotte13265]

@@commerceusa I trade with Mr David Bryant, and I must say he makes money making seem a whole lot easier right now I'm a single parent and i pay the bills comfortably since i met David Bryant, he's absolutely amazing and I'd recommend him for any novice in crypto.

[@travis4178]

I had a bad experience investing on my own until I met Mr David Bryant, I have made over $200,000 Trading cryptocurrency, I even made a whooping $28000 on my last trade with a capital of $6000. Retiring next year with no fears!!

[@AGENT_AL007]

Awww you deserve being #1. You are truly helping all of us. Your a beautiful soul 💕❤️❤️💕

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@ajtwn]

Ive been following Vanessa for 5 years all high quality information. I love this. ❤️ i pre ordered my Cues via Audibles

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you so much! I appreciate your support, I can't wait for you to listen to Cues! ❤️

[@jenoop60045]

You are a light a blessing. An inspiration. Thank you for sharing this video 😊

[@debbiedeveau6924]

This book will help anyone who has to be in an office environment or doing web x with a group of people... I never want to work in an office environment ever again.. it sucks the life out of you. I get severe anxiety thinking about it... I'm not sure how I'm going go forward with my life but office work is not my future.. Thank you for writing this book.. your such an expert in this area.. I am drawn to people of such intelligence who help humanity by delivering something so powerful! I can't wait to pick up a copy! Join the master class.. Sending Love & Light always 🙏❤

[@Beinghopeful]

Wow! Thank you so much I’ve been watching your videos for a week now I’m learning a lot. I’m introvert person with lower self esteem. Your videos helping me to understand and inspired me to invest time for self growth. ❤

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You are SO welcome! I'm thrilled to hear this ❤

[@debbiedeveau6924]

I bought the book for this in Amazon I'm super excited to join Vanessa's Master class so I can learn how to not ever go into a office environment ever again. .. I would like to learn how to use my skills and ideas to work smarter not harder. Yippie thank you Vanessa for offering this!

[@leadix01]

Vanessa you helped me more than you could even imagine from the interview you did with Tom I’d say YOU Are my Hero/Model Thank you so much for putting your life into your work helping others achieve higher self/world understanding it goes so much deeper than just people you can apply everything you learn to every aspect of your life! For so many years I felt like understanding myself was one of the hardest thing on earth your work literally unlocked me whole!

[@richardramos5660]

Watching this recorded live session! Very informative and entertaining learnings. Got your Captivate and Cues books. Thanks Vanessa for sharing your knowledge in this matter. ❤❤❤

[@JJ-cl5wv]

smart, likeable, confident, funny, charming, well put together, cool, nice, friendly, loving.

[@debbiedeveau6924]

Good Morning thank you thank you thank you for your book! Your fabulous! Great inspiration 👏 🙌 👌this book is very important for life learning

[@hanisiryani43]

Idk why i cried when Vanessa cried. Congratulations on your amazing Cues! ❤️

[@justinschneck2012]

U are so amazing. I have already learned so much from ur videos. U have helped me changed my outlook on life, Thank You So Much.,.. 🤟🏻😘🤙🏻

[@kendrar3072]

"Happy to teach this lesson even if no one bought" My heart melted a bit when you said that! And I cant explain it.. Warm and a good heart. *cant fint the right word* Vanessa You are the coolest!!!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Aw thank you so much ❤ that means a lot!

[@Mariam-J.-Hazim]

Vanessa ! You are amazing and I watch every video of yours! I learn from watching you the most. I know that this is probably weird but believe that your book must be recorded VISUAL and not only audio. Thank you for everything!

[@HMS2]

Hearing that your book is doing so well made me tear up right there with you. It’s a beautiful thing to be recognized for your important work. Thank you for all that you do. 🙏🏻💛

[@greenlandpublishing]

Very cool. Thanks for sharing this with us!

[@Haloking440]

Thank you teacher. You will be compensated.

[@susansmedley2446]

Too funny that you discussed slowing down speech rate near the end of this video. When I started listening to this You Tube video, I had to purposely reduce the playback speed down to .75 so I could better digest all the details of this info packed video! Thank you for gifting the world your life changing work! 🥰

[@rashmi809]

Just came across this - what a Gem ! truly authentic with her purpose and gifts. What a wonderful Beautiful teacher !

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you so much! =)

[@rashmi809]

Cues ordered !

[@ScienceOfPeople]

@@rashmi809 Thank you so much for the support! I hope you love Cues and learn lots from it! 😊

[@dananashawati2699]

I just got my kindle copy of Cue, so excited to start reading.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you!! ❤️ I'm excited for all that you will learn!

[@dkp307]

I might’ve bawled at 1:35:10 😭🥹

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for sharing the joy with me ❤

[@elena-251]

I already ordered the book ,it will arrive tomorrow, thank you kindly 🙏

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you! I hope you love it!

[@JoeyStar2001]

I would love to see you make a video on how to interact with customers in the workplace! I believe people in the workforce would appreciate you making a video about customer interactions!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Noted! We also have lots of great articles on this =) www.scienceofpeople.com/build-rapport-with-clients/ www.scienceofpeople.com/customer-service-email/ www.scienceofpeople.com/people-skills/

[@JoeyStar2001]

@@ScienceOfPeople Thank you Vanessa!

[@Iamcapable4]

Power pause creates anticipation and excitement😊🤙🏼 Anticipation of what you’re gonna say

[@bonjo8165]

Yeah, I am affected by both, very good point!:)

[@danruhl8538]

I love your wisdom

[@prashantkumarparmanu]

great .I learned a lot . Very helpful in practical life and relationship.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for watching! Glad you found the video valuable =)

[@AGENT_AL007]

I really love your energy!!❤

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you so much!!

[@elena-251]

Thank you kindly 🙏

[@ShawnJonesHellion]

i speak an write n think things an they come into the world. Once I seen this it made me think it works better if I build the world that way rather than me hunting a social following to sell books to.

[@WTHPOPL]

Thank you so much, hopefully this will continue to shape my social experience. I'd love to see some of the research in action. Let me know if I can help in any way. Have an awesome day!

[@WTHPOPL]

Thank you again.

[@daniellecharming]

Hi Vanessa! I've been a listener of yours for several years and I'm excited to read Cues. Is there a benefit to getting the physical copy of your book vs the audiobook?

[@kman0120]

Your book is amazing I love your work

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you so much! So happy to hear this =)

[@russellmarvin2850]

I can see I misinterpreted cues all my life until lately. I was a very extreme introvert and an awkward person too. I wish I had learned this in my younger years . I’ve spent over 60 years relearning how to socialize correctly. With me being awkward and dyslexic I tend to shut down and instead of being outgoing. I was always looked down upon as well as used.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I hear you - I wish I had this information when I was younger too! I hope it brings you new knowledge and growth at this time in your life ❤

[@Iamcapable4]

Great clip 🔥💯

[@ArAbramov]

This is an entire class... I can't work and listen 👂 at the same time... This needs full attention... People see me as confident but not warm... I was wondering how I can practice the cues to become naturally friendly... But I have to study on weekends because of the volume of information

[@amandaforrester7636]

I'm seen as warm but not confident, wanna trade?

[@ArAbramov]

@@amandaforrester7636 I don't think you want to trade 👍 based on her book; we need both to succeed

[@JohnSmith-nl2tc]

Launguage is dynamic. What if these cues become associated with disingenuous projections. 96 is a finite number. Will there be addendums released in perpetuity? Will they be guaranteed in perpetuity as well?

[@Sabrina-kp5ii]

Is it still possible to join your masterclass? Found your channel yesterday and bought the book. I know I'm late... maybe there is a recording to watch?

[@JasonPatrick-tj4xj]

I want to reinvent myself. One decision away from a whole new life

[@Amrit_3]

What will you do after you reinvent yourself

[@ShawnJonesHellion]

whats wrong with the current life you lead yourself to?

[@JasonPatrick-tj4xj]

@@ShawnJonesHellion good question. I just wanna create more distance from my past. Im not a criminal anymore. I did fed gov prison time. I only want honest labor jobs now. No more bullshit. Over 40 a man just wants peace

[@ScribblebytesWorldwide]

@@JasonPatrick-tj4xj Have you played Night Game though? #howtoplaynightgamearg

[@H20H20]

Dude this lady is talking about FreeMason, with her book title Master the Secret language of charismatic communication. Hint secret language as in the hand gesture she is making is a well known demonic Mason hand symbol in her book cover. Learn these signs as these evil doers do it religiously in movies, media and just about anything they appear in. She is correct in there being secret languages and oaths they make.

[@glynnjohnson4307]

your awesome i do a lot of this

[@LizzieSutton]

appreciate those around you

[@vincentnyamufalila5010]

vanessa thank u mentorship keep it up and keep growing in your career

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for your support! ❤

[@JohnSmith-nl2tc]

Do I operate from an internal locus of control? Do i have any effect? If I am alone does my self esteem double or does it collapse? Is the rate exponential over time?

[@dianecosh7493]

Hello Vanessa, from New York State from new super fan, Diane! :)

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Hello!! Glad you are here Diane!

[@ligiasommers]

Already ordered and received the book 📕🙏🏻✨

[@GloriaBenaroch]

Me too read half of it and all marked up

[@picknanahgrinin664]

I’m looking up the “conversation HQ” App on apple… i’m not seeing it. Any suggestions?

[@cristi505ish]

Can we get the link for the door experiment? It didn't show when you played it. Thanks a bunch.

[@santosalaniz3204]

Good morning from Plainfield Illinois blessings

[@LizzieSutton]

Hi from Brisbane Australia 🇦🇺

[@bostonvato8138]

Well missed the opening week, can I still get the masterclass at this late date?

[@imeldapengson1974]

From Streamwood Illinois!

[@JohnSmith-nl2tc]

If we are all sitting around in a room that starts filling with smoke, should i wait for others to get up before I do? If a man in a white jacket with his hands behind his back tells ke tat I am required to continue, should I listen to him? Should I be afraid? Should I defer responsibility to someone who is not present. Should I blame a nebulous, abstract concept?

[@trishawhitehurst1900]

Just got your book

[@YungKingz__]

Wow I didn't know you drop another book

[@russellgardener126]

Vanessa - I've been working on this book for 17 years Me - about the same time that George RR Martin has been working on Winds of Winter 😆

[@RoseMarieMullins]

1:03:20 I hold my arms sometimes because my hands\fingers get sooooo cold!!

[@imeldapengson1974]

Hi, Vanessa thank you for all you do! I am ordering the book on amazon tonight.:)

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Yay!! thank you ❤️

[@JohnSmith-nl2tc]

What if we are assigned position or working solo. What if my boss sees this and he secretly hates me?

[@JohnSmith-nl2tc]

When you put youre hand to your chin, does that mean you are concentrating?

[@RegionHeat]

Speaking of hiding in plain sight". LAST SUPPER, notice how they seat at the table in 4 groups of 3? With Virgo the virgin at the right hand of Jesus? Represents the 4 seasons

[@christianmagill3829]

Is the other Cues Q&A still up anywhere?

[@Iamcapable4]

Five low hanging fruit cues one a day 🤔🏃✌🏽 So we use them and create muscle memory o my word this is huge 🔥 Who do you want in your life 🤔what do you want in your life 🤔 what do you want more Of in your life💯

[@anaaguirre238]

Some tech issues but great content! Thanks!

[@TwasWorthwhile]

the upside down mouth U is very much used in Urban Texas areas

[@dianalarsson1893]

Hi from Sweden🌷

[@e.m.8094]

What's the difference between Captivate and Cues?

[@snakeeyes6061]

❤️❤️❤️

[@user-yr2ps4ju5r]

Givingg and forgiving

[@DJSTOEK]

Thanks

[@ScienceOfPeople]

My pleasure!

[@JohnSmith-nl2tc]

Yes

[@vatekehcorlon867]

This is your third book, correct? What is the difference between all through the books? They all seem to have a lot of crossover.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Great question! Here is some info on all 3: 1) Captivate focuses on connecting more deeply with people in the first 5 seconds, minutes, and days. It is about making a good first impression and working a room. I also dive into the science of personality and how to appeal to people’s values. This helps build rapport with anyone and everyone. The link overview to Captivate is here: [www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/] 2) Cues is a breakdown of all the social signals humans send to each other. I dive into how readers can be more charismatic using their body language, voice, words, and profile pictures. Cues guides readers through how to be likable and powerful with the cues they use in professional, social, and even romantic situations. The link overview to Cues is here: [www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/] 3) As for the the Human Lie Detection and Body Language 101 book, that one is no longer in print. It is available from some sellers reselling it, but it is several years old. If you're interested in lie detection, I recommend you check out my course on lie detection!

[@AndreHypnosis]

Hey there again😉

[@JohnSmith-nl2tc]

What about people with neurological disorders?

[@ruthpamela2024]

Hello from Uganda

[@user-qf4fq6mf6f]

🙏🏻❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@nodozhit]

Present, pitch, or propose- just know what you're doing and what you're saying and what you want.

[@Itfeelsmoist]

Wait is this the audio book uploaded after some of us actually bought it? Hmmm

[@JohnSmith-nl2tc]

How do i get live?

[@JohnSmith-nl2tc]

Ok gratitude

[@RachelRanosa]

❤️

[@frankdelahue9761]

Are you familiar with Spiral Dynamics?

[@kenzulumovski892]

very good

[@danruhl8538]

Trying to gain back self-esteem

[@AGENT_AL007]

Wild and crazy

[@JohnSmith-nl2tc]

Source?

[@rolandobradley8572]

Your books on Amazon?

[@ajtwn]

Its on Audibles. I hope this is not the book for free online.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Yes! It is on Amazon, here is the link to order: www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/

[@leeklass3907]

I've got a manager who can't accept me for being for the being the person I am he dose not know or understand how to work with introverts

[@frankdelahue9761]

Have you been discovering personal freedom without harm to others or excesses of self-interest?

[@moh8589]

How best clue to give the person you see that you are eager to kiss them

[@laschell59]

Understand that I use "many "different body languages to communicate with the deaf and hearing. I am very much physical with my gestures and I get misunderstood. I used to feel that deaf/hard-of-hearing people were mean-natured. We need to try to use these in the hearing WORLD. Just learn sign language and you'll see these different facial movements.

[@eastbaycommuter]

Strife !!! ...

[@TienNguyen-oe7sr]

U r so cute. But my English is not good enough to fully understand. So I try to find orginial book in english to read but not able to find in VietNam.....crying .....

[@trishawhitehurst1900]

Oklahoma here

[@LizzieSutton]

A B and D

[@GoldzenJuLz]

24:40 😂🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 24:44 😅❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤love you THANK YOU

[@doniahalema58]

💕💕💕💕💕💕💕