Rejection is better than regret

I get a lot of comments and concerns from my viewers and students about rejection and how men get rejected more than women do. Overall men should experience more rejection when it comes to dating but that doesn't mean that women have it better than we do. I explain why with a couple anecdotes.
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[@toothdoc8206]

rejection stings until you talk to the next girl.... regret can last a lifetime...the what ifs can kill you... I dont remember the times I got turned down, unless there was a funny story that went along with it.... I can still remember the times in high school or college that I didnt go for it with a girl I liked....

[@SPACEDOUT19]

100%. that girl you have a crush on and never talked to always stays in your mind. I tried forgetting her, but she just refuses to leave my mind.

[@my3rs307]

​@@SPACEDOUT19i second this!!!

[@KyleConnell-if3zn]

Rejection can also last a lifetime. I agree that people that were rejected are happier than people who did not try but I disagree that that means they are happy with there life.

[@Mike-fg9tx]

This is a guy I’d love to hang out with over drinks.

[@TheSingleGuy]

Haha I"m pretty chil

[@unique7988]

Rejection is better than regret. Preach that quote every day!

[@scaboi]

No it's not.

[@Stormcloakvictory]

Not with a crush no, but try some more girls whom's energy you like from the get go. It's not as bad, they generally don't wanna be harsh and the ones that are, well such people don't deserve you anyway 🤷

[@moderndaylifestyle8321]

Damn man this brings back memories of a recent vacation in Costa Rica... A really really cute girl kept making eye contact, but I was too scared to take action. It still haunts me, and probably will for years

[@TheSingleGuy]

Just capitalize on the next opportunity!

[@scaboi]

That's better than getting rejected by a crush.

[@myawoo3992]

@@scaboi leave her for like 3 monthes and comeback to her trust me it will work remmeber : being persistent without being needy is a win

[@Hans1994yout]

If you look at a girl you'll know instantly if you are sexually atttacted. In that moment you know that you have to act. Listen to your gut man! If you practice cold approach often you will succeed the next time you get such an obvious sign!

[@Stormcloakvictory]

Damn was this super cute girl (atleast to me she was) At a concert, she kept looking at me, I kept looking at her, we crossed paths like 4 times that night, and everytime we catched eachother's gaze, I thought about stepping up to her. At the end of the concert I saw she was with a guy so I didn't talk to her but in hindsight she didn't seem to be close to him, could have been a brother. And yes, I very very much regret not atleast trying..

[@ScottsThoughts]

You're 100% right that regret is worse than rejection. A few months back my friend and I were at a restaurant and this gorgeous waitress was flirting with me, and even kept eluding that she wanted me to ask her out. And I was so not used to attention like that I froze and did nothing. Regretted it ever since.

[@fuzzypanda1684]

Damn, I've never had a waitress flirt with me, even a little. I can understand why you froze, I'd probably do the same thing, or assume I was being punk'd.

[@connrmusic]

Go back on the same day

[@KNiko9]

“To ask may be but a moment’s shame, not to ask and remain ignorant is a lifelong shame.” - Kano Jigoro

[@Awkwardoceans]

I know you do advice to guys but I’m a female and it’s helps me to. This guy just rejected me and I’m happy I did all I could because regret is the worst feeling !

[@33jenkin]

i recently got rejected myself but the regret of not saying anthing was worse. i have a sense of freedom now. im more happy about my attempt then the regret i was feeling.

[@Awkwardoceans]

g-rab Son glad we are in the same boat

[@tastybrownie7448]

What did you do to get him? I often find out from friends that a girl that currently hates me used to be attracted to me and blames me for not talking to her. That usually frustrates me because I've been rejected a million times including some very brutal public shaming type rejections. My life experience makes it very difficult for me to believe that any woman would ever have feelings for me let alone one that look pretty good like the ones that tend to friends of friends. This is something that women will never understand.

[@chrissinha3931]

So true. I used to think women had all the power in dating but that isn't true. A woman can only take what she is offered at the end of the day and walk away and in reality ALOT of women have problems holding a man's commitment. A man is the master of his destiny, although we may face ups and downs, we are in charge.

[@initiatorhater0688]

specifically, what does it mean to be the master of your destiny?

[@chrissinha3931]

initiatorhater0688 you focus on what you can control. Be aware of what you can control and try your best. Don’t just coast through life and take whatever situation comes your way. Find out what the world is all about. Take educated risks. Don’t play it safe.

[@lasfinezt]

You do Jiu-Jitsu and pickup! I need more friends like you that have the same interests as me.

[@TheSingleGuy]

They are out there man, just keep getting out of the house and you'll find them

[@Stormcloakvictory]

I wanna start doing both lol

[@miguelvillar2044]

I don’t think he does pickup. Pick up is a scam. He just gives people advice and helps them find their way. Pick up is a bunch of dudes that try to manipulate women by not being themselves and get rejected 95% of the time. This channel is more about making yourself happy and then finding the woman that’s right for you. Stay away from pick up.

[@user-cq3kg8uc4z]

@@miguelvillar2044 explain why pick up is a scam

[@miguelvillar2044]

@Max Gill if you're getting rejected that much, then you're definitely doing something wrong. It's normal to get rejected frequently, but that much is not normal.

[@abrahamkentton3017]

She told me she's not interested, but hey, the grass is always greener on the other side. I'm glad I did it.

[@Nobodyss21]

Really great speech man. Guy will always be better the older they're, meanwhile girl will lose all of their charm when they hit 25++ more. Just dont be afraid to do something. You'll fail, you'll get rejected, you'll frustated. But in the end, there's must be something we can learn, we will be more brave and strong the more we fight. Just be strong man, dont be afraid. I wish u all the best my brothers

[@Pezzy-Boy]

I fucking love you brother Lloyd! I've watched a handful of your videos over the last month and can tell you're a real genuine dude! The familiarity to your stories is a reminder that myself and all these other guys, are far from alone on this journey to fulfilment. Cheers man!

[@fredrsibri5737]

He is speaking the truth. I need to fail more. I been unlucky with women right now.

[@Rafal_BreV]

best picking up channel, cheers for knowledge

[@msizimanqele2811]

If you have never been rejected in your life you're not maximizing your potential 💓

[@trendysixmlg9079]

That’s why I am on semen renttention I learned that relapse is worse

[@gambit_toys6554]

Women deal with the pain of waiting for the right man, since they don't approach. My female friend has been on 60 to 100 bumble dates with dudes and shes still hung up on her ex. I saw these dudes pics and was not impressed. Meanwhile I've approached 384 times and I'm going out with fine girls.

[@bdgregorybd]

Damn dude, I love your channel. Needed all of this while I’m in quarantine.

[@tonesofhappy]

Best advice I can ever get. Totally made my day. Love you bro🙂

[@yuriportes2606]

The most valuable lesson I learned as a BJJ white belt is survival/resistance. Now Imma brown belt and I can say that I really really hard to tap. I do fall into americanas/kimuras, I dont fall into straght foot locks, Im defend most chokes and armbars really really well.

[@yuriportes2606]

You were superficial with her, dude. Being in shape is relative. Pheromones, man. Smell. Love and chemistry is all that matters. There are super hot girls that are attracted to me that im just not into them. I only have sex with girls that give me a bonner when we kiss. Thats chemistry.

[@vibewithdipen8473]

this was actually a real chill ass video loved it

[@TheSingleGuy]

What are your guys' thoughts on this topic?

[@alvarofranca235]

Girls get to choose but they also carry the burden of a good or bad decision, and bad decisions can cause suffering long term. Also society judges women more than men when it comes to sexual relations, so they got to be choosy and careful with their choises, which leads to less acceptance.

[@TheSingleGuy]

@@alvarofranca235 exactly Alvaro!

[@nobodysperfect06]

Men can obviously choose who to approach, but those approaches mean nothing unless the woman consents to it, a good example, is we can choose which job we want to apply for, but at the end of the day, companies do the hiring, I feel that's a very good analogy

[@handsupent_7919]

I'm sub

[@chrisjfox8715]

Álvaro França agreed. I always look at from the standpoint of centuries of human female instinct...that is, a woman instinctively knows that any man she sleeps with may get her pregnant. She has to be prepared for the possibility that he could abandon his responsibilities as a father or be a nightmare/annoying to deal with for the next 18+ years. Bottom line, girls are choosy because they instinctively have to consider the needs of a baby (that they *relatively* have no choice but to stick around for). So the guy needs to 1) have personality traits that would make for a great father/head of the household, and/or 2) have great genes to pass on to the children; even a ho is instinctively turned on by these things and turned off by their opposite.

[@manuelalonsodominguezvazqu2145]

Have you seen those old men warding off their yard from kids? It comes to a point where regret turns into pure bitternes.

[@gambit_toys6554]

I'm at 795 approaches now, I need to leave Houston

[@aleksandroleynikov8849]

damn dude you're good ,i bet u make a damn good inspirational wing man, not that i need too much help but just to brush up on few things and feel better about yourself, your speech helps build that little confindence that you somehow tend to gain or loose quickly depending on your current situation like loosing a job or moving to another state

[@TheSingleGuy]

Haha I'm an incredible wingman ;)

[@just_adhenz1284]

inb4 this gets recommended to everyone, also thanks for the talk and wisdom, really needed that, you're pretty epic ngl, keep it up!

[@angloaust1575]

He was despised and rejected A man of sorrows And acquainted with grief!

[@Bentoto97]

It has big, especially huge regrets of people who are very old equally painful as prisoners who are locked in prison for the rest of their lives? Is the answer YES? Or NO? Or is one of these more painful than the other? Do you know?

[@Bentoto97]

Living a life full of regrets vs being already locked in prison for the rest of our lives, which one of the two is worse?

[@thomi77]

Women have power between age 18-30

[@initiatorhater0688]

I have had this mindset for a few years now, but as its commonly said, that as women get older and their mating value declines, I like to think of that as nature, evolution's way as karma, for women not having to deal with rejection as much as men do, being able to get away with being shy and awkward, and their passiveness in the mating game

[@papawuise6820]

Im litterly watching a video to boost my confidence just to ask "what did you get on your paper"?

[@narc440]

Did you ever find out?

[@mattschipiour8166]

The video I never knew I needed

[@YouNoub1]

Damn! This is cringing me out! I'm being reminded of not going after beautiful girls in the past that had shown signs of interest!

[@alvarofranca235]

Nice format man, keep up the good work.

[@R2023-NV]

Awesome video. Really puts things in perspective for me.

[@TheSingleGuy]

It did for me

[@cyrusjohnson6050]

I disagree that men always get rejected more than women. I think it goes both ways, there can be girls who are unattractive or unappealing and they never get chased by guys. Sure, when it’s a guy who women find unappealing, you can call yourself an “incel” but what about women on the same side of that spectrum? I feel like they are overlooked

[@andrewmontgomery8428]

Rejection is like getting stabbed. It hurts but it will heal in time. Regret is like a deadly slow moving cancer. I don’t have to tell you which one is worse.

[@Bentoto97]

Which is worse? Having regrets when people grow very old? Or people who are already locked in prison for the rest of their lives?

[@Bentoto97]

Regrets are more painful than rejections but which one of the two is more painful? Living a life full of regrets when people get old? Or life in prison? Or is living a life full of regrets more painful than life in prison?

[@victorsuarez3]

Rejection is fuel for me.

[@Bentoto97]

Since regret is more painful than rejection, which is more painful? Live a life full of regrets when people grow old? Or life in prison?

[@Bentoto97]

Are people who grew very old that live in regret which is more painful than rejection because they never took action and the fear of rejection have always stopped from them approaching and talking to girls and women as bad as the same to be locked in prison for life?

[@KyleConnell-if3zn]

Rejection better than regret, but that does not mean rejection is a happy place to be in. Two options where one leads to a place that is pitch black and the other is just dark.

[@Bentoto97]

Are regrets of people who are free in life and prisoners who can never be free ever again in life because these prisoners are already locked in prison for the rest of their lives equally painful? Or is one of these more painful than the other one of these?

[@Bentoto97]

Is living a life full of regrets equally painful as life in prison?

[@Bentoto97]

Are living a life full of regrets and life in prison equally painful to live?

[@johnercalisanga5300]

His driving and that is awesome//.

[@idiotrun1997]

Could you elaborate on the part where men and women experience pain in different ways?

[@TheSingleGuy]

Because men get better with age we experience more rejection as we improve. Women don't get more desirable with age usually and so tend to experience more regret.

[@jesusyessir1304]

I need to talk to a coworker . Same job but different positions , so I only see her once a week , twice a week if I get lucky , but I don’t know what to say , she doesn’t even notice me . . I don’t know what to do

[@phoenix6209]

Ask her what she did this weekend or ask her what she's going to do this weekend. Then go from there

[@Bentoto97]

Are people who grew very old that live in regret which is more painful than rejection equally painful life to live just like people whose lives are over because they are locked in prison for the rest of their lives?

[@MrPistolon2]

If we all stop asking maybe they will start asking.... Think about it once you ask a woman something she has the power and final say...

[@bobbysayer5801]

did u wat h the same video i did?cause that sure aint the point

[@VikingsIl]

I wanna talk this girl in my class, but I don't care if I get rejected but if I do its gonna be awkward after.

[@darthclone7]

Well did you?

[@papawuise6820]

I asked a girl to be my valentine and it blew up in my face. But i was super fucking happy that i even did it.

[@BigMoney21]

Just subscribed Thank You Brother I was talking to this girl yesterday I knew she was in to me so I asked her and she said she had a boyfriend and she was smiling at me All the time I really didn’t care I. didn’t get the number because yesterday was my Birthday so I felt great that I went for it who cares if she said no it’s part of the game I am grateful for you and your Channel because it’s helping me getting out of my comfort zone as a shy man and this is great Thank You and to any other guys just go for it! ☝️❤️✌️😊❤️❤️❤️❤️🦁🐯🐯🐯👊

[@TheSingleGuy]

Awesome man keep it up!

[@kelvinoke6414]

Thank you so much 💗💗

[@charliedavidarnott1537]

Great video!

[@curtwhitaker7665]

This is actually off topic, but could we see a video on how to effectively end things with a women? Maybe how not to burn down bridges when doing so? It’s just a recurring issue I keep having to deal with and it just seems like there isn’t much wisdom to offered on this dilemma from KZbin.

[@TheSingleGuy]

Good question I briefly covered this in one of my previous videos. Its entitled "How to end a short term relationship without hurting her." It is very old though. I think I need to re-do that one.

[@janovin]

Camera man should be a surgeon with hands that steady

[@Bentoto97]

I have a question, if we for example get accepted by a woman or a girl of our dream and that woman or a girl loves us, then we get married by becoming husband and wife or boyfriend and girlfriend, then let's for example the next 10 years being together, we find another woman or another girl we love more than our wife or our girlfriend so much that we will divorce our wife or our girlfriend which will cause to hurt our wife's or our girlfriend's feelings, then let's say for example, the next 5 years something happens that we will regret divorcing our wife or our girlfriend who is by then gone from us after we divorced them then is it in that time rejection is no better than regret?

[@Tweaky853]

Good luck getting rejected guy

[@Jdog305Cubanito]

Highly agreed with this topic for reals mane smh 🤦🏾‍♂️ we got do all the work eh..💀 females be having it too easy

[@gambit_toys6554]

Men get rejected more applying for jobs too

[@Stormcloakvictory]

Dont males also apply for more? And yes currently there are companies sadly hiring to achieve a minimun female quota, but these are still the exceptions you see in social media.

[@firestarterman6889]

Hi! I just came to report.... aaaa SUCCESS! (well, it's a success for me) from this afternoon. So long story short Because of years of living in isolation and being a loner and later because of work which basically gives me a few months in winter to have free time, especially free nights.... and me deciding to contact some of my female acquaintances back from HS days, and my first (best, epic, wildest) ex ... it all ended up in me discovering going out and clubbing last winter, met a bunch of new people, but havent kept contacts with any of them, because I kinda wasnt ready for all that. But the good side from all that is that it got me accustomed to want to be among people and to be able to withstand crowds. ... Although, I still cannot function, at all, like on formal dinners with my coworkers, Im too anxious for that, because we differ way too much, like two different worlds, so I cannot be my true self with them. (ok lets make this shorter) I think, from my previous comments, its already known that for some reason I can shed my anxiety off and function only on the techno dance floor, if its dark and crowded enough and nobody knows me there... and thats the best I can do for now, in area of social anxiety. But today's success has to do with something else. The above mentioned forcing my self into social situations was to be exposed to chances of hooking up, after years of not being physical with girls in any way besides a bit of a lap dance, cuddling and kissing during my HS days. But at least all this going out (and before that, a whole year spent in the gym) made me think that I am ready to be sexual, and that girls interest me in that way. - But in recent months, ever since I got my own apartment, which struck a blow in my weak financial situation but I had to do it, and then a cosmetic issue that popped up, which would require a couple of full salaries to fix. All those made me completely loose my mojo in terms of being attracted to women sexually, and I want that good old eager me back on the horse. Meantime, this whole lack of interest, developed into an inability to even talk to girls and I used to be way more confident than that... Which all came in the worst possible moment, now when In the city, I constantly have chances to go out and girls are constantly checking me out (which is a huge tease) ... Instead what I do is go out for a coffee and just stare at the screen... Anyway... I said, enough of that, Im going to do something about it, figure my self out. Why do I have all these inhibitions to talk to, why do I have sexual inhibitions and unable to desire intimacy... - So it was a sunny day, almost noon, got out of the bed (because I was out all night on thursday) .... Oh wait, Thursday, yes the dinner with coworkers, in a fancy resto in the middle of freezing nowhere. There was a girl at the lobby who stared at me, in "that way" ( but she also did it to my colleague) Anyways, back to the story; This afternoon, I was pissed off with my inhibitions, I went for a walk by the beach for a few miles, and then suddenly I run into some amazing hot chick: Black jacket, tanned, black hair, Sandra Bullock face, braids, sunglasses... and she totally smiled on me, and that... that thing right there, got my male instincts back in the game! I didnt believe how simple the whole thing actually was and how easy it was. I gave her "the look", smirked, checked her out, ... andddd walked off. So after 100 meters Im looking back, cant see her.. then after 2 minutes, I looked behind me and somehow she was there! Right behind me! ... So I said to my self... come on, got to talk to her, I have to, whats the worst that can happen! So I did! ... I said "hello, how are u enjoying your walk?".. She didnt hear me, so I tapped her to take off her headphones, and repeated.. She was like, all smiley and just happy that I talked to her, told me to have a nice walk too.... and walked off slowly... Well... Now I remember I could have done more, at least tell her my name, but yeah, didnt remember that, I forgot how I used to do all that before, have to re-train my self. But yeah, its practice. I realized the only way I can build courage like that is with little small series of successes.

[@papawuise6820]

This is a long story short?

[@waltersmith6005]

I tried to talk to some ugly girl with a kid today and, she ignored me and, cause I never try was to embarrassed to try I never try and, you're right i stuck with regret instead of trying cause certain girls blow me off right off the bat and online anymore don't get shit I'm good looking and funny but don't let it out cause I been socially isolated for 10 years and people really don't like me so I'm afraid to be slightly pushy and, try harder and, I only wanna try if their cute cause attractiveness drives the approach so, I agree I gotta face this hardship if I'll ever get out of my comfort zone cause all I wanna do is work and stay inside and, booze everyday feeling sorry for myself.

[@alenygam6048]

I agree.

[@leoneltronco8208]

I needed this

[@roopealho1515]

I'm gonna put "rejection is better than regret" on my wall, but I want the whole alphabet. For example "apples are better than apricots", any ideas?

[@brown_recidivist]

I rather have a broad reject me straight up and me sitting there wondering years later saying what if lol

[@Bentoto97]

I think living a life FULL of regrets for the rest of our lives is More WORSE than life in prison, if I'm wrong then please prove to me why living a life full of regrets for the rest of our lives is Not worse than life in prison.

[@kenchino0161]

Screw the fear of rejection, Today i am taking my shot at this girl in her workplace lol.... 👑

[@voiceofmoderation9810]

I respectfully disagree. Rejection hurts worse than looking back and wondering what could've happened because getting rejected is an insult to who you are as a person. It's saying you're not worthy enough. It makes you question your own self-worth and can send you in a black downward spiral. Some people never get out or even commit suicide. There can also be a ripple effect of drama. For instance, every time you see them again the feelings can come back. Or you might refuse to speak to her ever again for having rejected you which can lead to further drama & gossip etc

[@hzskillz1721]

This shit is like the matrix

[@arealious25]

Dating sucks...period lol. I push myself more and more as I'm getting older. And it seems to be the same outcome over and over again.

[@TheSingleGuy]

How are you pushing yourself?

[@arealious25]

Going out more and talking to more people. I don't do it every night because it getting expensive.

[@arealious25]

@Alex Morales True. However Ive gone to parks and usually no one is there. 33 and going to a mall, all I run into is underaged girls lol.

[@arealious25]

@Alex Morales I also work at grocery store. I talk to a lot girls there but I always get the "oh I'm already seeing someone" line.

[@arealious25]

@Alex Morales lmao

[@susielee8101]

You have a lot to learn about women, Baby!

[@warchiefv5207]

rejection is better because at least you know

[@greenlizardballs]

When she gave you a kiss on the cheek you should have patted her on the back and left. HAHAHAHA

[@roopealho1515]

I'm 24 and I'm after 22/23s.

[@Tweaky853]

What about easyship?

[@fuzzypanda1684]

Rejection is definitely better than regret. But regret is better than being kicked out of a place, having your membership revoked, or getting blacklisted, all of which are totally possible in this #MeToo world if you talk to a girl and she isn't feeling it. In the past, you always talked to a girl you liked, because the worst thing that could happen is she says no. Nowadays, the worst thing that could happen is you get asked to leave, get your membership revoked, or get ostracized from your social circle because she's not into you and reports you for "making her feel uncomfortable". There are real world consequences to approaching girls that never existed before, and the likelihood you'll get a positive result is lower than it's ever been. Tread lightly guys, the odds are not in your favor.

[@thenamelesshammer8633]

You must be talking to low quality women then

[@fuzzypanda1684]

@@thenamelesshammer8633 Haha, why do you say that? Usually less attractive girls will talk to you because they can't believe a guy is approaching them. The more attractive ones are the ones more likely to complain, in my experience at least.

[@greenlizardballs]

haaaaa love this dude

[@roopealho1515]

10 years later damm

[@SPACEDOUT19]

Now imagine you are Jimmy Fallon and you dont notice Nicole Kidman is hitting on you

[@GentlemanxStyle]

Urgent help guy. I have a date with my ex on Saturday, but tonight we texted and she told me she is in the club with her boyfriend. Should cancel the date? Please,, urgent help

[@Iamlewis93]

Duh yes cancel especially if she's with her boyfriend come on now you got to have a brain just ended a move on block as well

[@Oliver-id3bl]

Don’t be that pathetic. Respect yourself. Walk the f away.

[@ivantheterribler8346]

What's ure rank in jiu jitsu, lyod

[@TheSingleGuy]

I'm barely a blue belt

[@marketerexplore]

you going a lil fast buddy

[@Thebobbyjonesmonster]

4:40 😆

[@kimbo5409]

I think that high school stories are a bit irrelevant because most viewers would be out of high school and dealing with complete strangers.

[@TheSingleGuy]

It was meant to illustrate how men get better with age and so experience more rejection initially. Women do not get more desirable with age and so experience more regret. It showed how things change over time.

[@gabez8]

Lloyd-you're not suggesting it's ok for anyone to get rejected are you?

[@TheSingleGuy]

I'm not suggesting its ok, but it happens.

[@poojithaiss9467]

I've never been accepted once. I must be a man. Trans people get more accepted than I do.

[@TheSingleGuy]

what makes you think you don't get accepted?

[@Stormcloakvictory]

Be honest, no point in lying to yourself. With me it's hard to accept that I need to go get my teeth fixed a bit better, and mostly I need to get out of this unemployed, depressed and uneducated state 😬 It's hard to admit, but as is, I can't support anyone really well, so I guess that's also holding me down in even trying to go out. It's a steep long climb, but I can see the path atleast 😅

[@damlurker]

Every-time I sub someone in BJJ (been doing it for 3 years so kinda decent at it now plus as a power-lifter with 15yrs of experience I normally have the strength advantage) internally I'm like lol you just got tapped by a 34yr old kissless virgin, u mad bro? :D although on the surface i'm quite chill and often give advice on beating me if they are really struggling because people at jiu jitsu are really nice to me (unlike women) lol oh yeah and it's particularly satisfying subbing people while their GFs are watching.. haha

[@TheSingleGuy]

Nice man. Yeah I'm getting obsessed with BJJ

[@nobodysperfect06]

Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, is it a good martial art?

[@damlurker]

@@nobodysperfect06 I think it's the best one out there for self-development. But it's hard to get into because your ego will be crushed over and over when you start. :D

[@nobodysperfect06]

@@TheSingleGuywho was the 34 kissless virgin? The one you were referring to to

[@kamil4197]

Bjj sucks some sweaty dude just put his hands on you and tries to choke you or you pull guard and it looks like two gay dudes fuckin its for idiots

[@Thomaschapmanbfc]

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