How to NEVER be needy with women

[@SzuesS]

For all the busy guys: 1. Have more options 2. Be on your path/purpose 3. Meditate everyday 4. Practice stoicism 5. Practice gratitude daily

[@TheSingleGuy]

Haha thanks man just put the timestamps in. It was late and I was tired

[@optimalsenpai9470]

I am 17 and not busy, still appreciate it tho

[@optimalsenpai9470]

Nvm dont understand the things by words, lloyd needs to explain xd

[@cathd5675]

@@optimalsenpai9470 work out

[@optimalsenpai9470]

@@cathd5675 I am 19 now and I wish not to be busy

[@JeremyBarbell]

If y'all aren't meditating, you're missing out. Meditation is the one thing that's helped me the most, with life in all aspects.

[@leoq305]

Trying it

[@sebastiansmith5524]

Anything new age is satanic. meditation is opening your body up for demons to invade you.

[@jimmybeanchugger1832]

@@sebastiansmith5524 prayer is meditation bro

[@leandrotech6742]

Put your needy as on the gym! Thats the only thing you need!

[@ysammo214]

Currently on a binge watch with your videos, you give great advice man. Keep it up I hope your channel gets more recognition because you definitely deserve it

[@TheSingleGuy]

Haha I can tell man great to have you. What're your goals with dating and women?

[@ysammo214]

@@TheSingleGuy having women who want me and reciprocate my effort, and also knowing how to act as a man and not be so goofy or corny. Knowing how the seduction process works also. Too often I jump straight to sexual flirting and kill the vibe, or I don't flirt enough and seem shy. A lot of stuff to learn obviously but your channel seems great at breaking a lot of that stuff down so thankyou 👍

[@SuperBaby11]

I'd say talking to 2 or 3 girls is chill. 5-10 just sounds confusing and time consuming lol

[@johnfowler3125]

Was gonna comment this too. 5 does not work imo. At all.

[@ryo1549]

Here because I have no options. First tip is to have more options... Welp that was fun.

[@diegoscalanti]

Bro. Just keep going. Be resilient. Don't fall apart, and if u do then pick up the pieces and keep going again. If u can do that, that's the difference between success and failure, and that applies on everything. And anyway, failure doesn't even exist if u learn from the chaos and use the hard times on your favor, cause a big "failure" is going to lead you to a big success if you let yourself do what you need to do

[@kyle-nv7so]

Same bro lmao

[@retractablehybrid6110]

I cant handle texting to many people at once... its draining

[@Colt-eq1vm]

Exactly

[@D-Loop6]

Word!

[@parisphotodavid]

You're truly assertive Lloyd, I admire you so much bruh. Thanks for all the valuable tips.

[@leobarros98]

You are smart. I ve been watching your vídeos for some months now and I gotta say, it's difficult to find somebody that deals logically correct with relationships, since it is a very emotional topic, most people don't think straight. Thankfully I already apply some of the concepts advised here, it's great to hear from somebody more experienced that my mindset is right. Thanks for the excellent work, keep it up!

[@TheSingleGuy]

Thanks Joker! Just remember to use your new powers for good!

[@wilfigs9705]

@@TheSingleGuy great!

[@markvargas449]

Well I was with that one girl, so of course I'd be focusing on that one person but yeah true

[@massimiliano_mogetta_bartolini]

The background noise makes the content more effective as it seems Lloyd is speaking fighting against the elements. He is putting out some truth that God wants to stay hidden 😁

[@calvinm3054]

Your name sounds like an olive oil brand bro

[@Boiled-Egg-254]

Lmao

[@markvargas449]

But there's a difference between being needy, and caring or clingy or caring some mistake that as well

[@TheSingleGuy]

Yeah there's definitely a difference

[@VikesHike]

thanks for the help. i understand what neediness is and i understand you want to avoid it. but a lot of women never (or rarely) initiate any contact. in other words, they'll give their number to a guy--but they never start a conversation with you. you never hear from them UNLESS you message them first. then when you message them they take 5 hours to respond and when you try to contact them again "you're being too needy"

[@TheSingleGuy]

What you described is definitely NOT neediness. I'm not a needy person at all and I have no problem initiating contact and keeping it going with a girl I like. Texting isn't needy, but getting pissed when she doesn't respond is

[@VikesHike]

@@TheSingleGuy thanks lloyd. i guess the girls just lose interest in me or whatever. its funny how girls in general are so bad at texting. anyway, i'm gonna focus on getting more options. most of the times, i don't have many options, so when a girl disappears, i don't others to turn to. but i know having many options helps your chances with girls

[@lazowens246]

May God bless you abundantly for making me know these things

[@wilfigs9705]

Raw confidence that you will get the same type of woman you want!👍👍👍

[@justingayle7299]

True! Great practical to the point advice. Important topic too! Thanks man.

[@TheSingleGuy]

Ey what's going on Justin! Thanks man.

[@arealious25]

What if you dont have time to talk to more woman? I think having options is great. But theres a saying that if you chase too many things at once you will catch none. I'm paraphrasing of course. But it has been reiterate that you shouldnt focus in too many things at once. In order too be successful in life one has to focus.

[@TheSingleGuy]

I agree I've found that I can be talking to around 5 women at a time. If I am consistently seeing or sleeping with someone I usually will only do one or two. Whenever I've had more than that I usually end up losing all of them in emphatic fashion. However only talking to one girl when you are single is still a mistake

[@richardvargas3308]

#4 Woke me up

[@TheSingleGuy]

Yee me too

[@triplejudy]

Be careful; being too much of an asshole and ignoring her will make her walk; it's a fine line between being needy and caring. Use your judgement.

[@dinocha0s]

I say this on every one of your videos when i finish watching it 'fuck, this guy gives good advice'

[@nishantkumar6960]

Kindly make a video on loneliness and for those who are living alone in a big city.

[@hagdore]

Maybe you should grow a pair and learn to be a man.

[@damon5127]

Charleston Pinto it’s manly to admit you’re lonely and are in need of advice. Unlike you hiding behind a YT account. Work on yourself and your toxic insecurities

[@hagdore]

@@damon5127 Um, no, it's not manly. Real men sort out their shit BY THEMSELVES. Get advice on things like finance, purchasing a new vehicle, real estate, etc. But when it comes to your own feelings and state of mental health, only real men are able to navigate their way through whatever obstacles they face and come out the other end as a true survivor, instead of asking other people to "kindly make a video". Sounds like a god damn pussy.

[@shadowjfd]

@@hagdore maybe you should just fuck off

[@DivinityHades]

@@shadowjfd truth hurts, right?

[@DanielTopG]

I am better glad I found this channel is super beneficial for me considering I am a little constrained by a phenomenal situation called RELATIONSHIP Thank you for your work

[@afrofoodie2697]

Great content 👍 looking forward to more of these

[@TheSingleGuy]

Thanks homie. Yes I'll be coming out with more!

[@Drop_The_Mic]

hey man, whats up. im sure you get this a lot but i recently discovered your channel and i have to thank you for making those videos. i went to malaysia for university and i have a hard time making new friends because its been a long time since i made a new friend cuz i had same friends for as long as i can remember. im currently watching your videos and they are helping me a lot. thats why i wanted to thank you.

[@TheSingleGuy]

Thanks man, yeah these are meant to be as helpful as possible. If you are looking for some 1 on 1 coaching that is the best thing to help you accomplish your goals. Otherwise best of luck to you and let me know how it goes.

[@sbshaunb95]

Sounds like you're in a wind tunnel

[@chrisrosa7443]

Hey do you have any good meditation videos I an watch to get through the day @TheSingleGuy btw your videos are really insightful ! :)

[@ryana-6762]

So I believe more men should go less for looks and more for successful hardworking women

[@alexforce9]

why

[@franklujan8304]

Stand you're ground and stay positive and stay in you're frame...Stand you're ground as a Man...

[@Lightflames85]

I think you should teach people to value them self more then other people and teach people to be okay on there own. That way if it goes wrong you can say to your self you did your best today. this game is very hit or miss and if you look for approval from others then your gonna lose every time. Make it about you instead. Also try to see it as a game its not personal unless they attack you first.

[@RajveerSingh-xw4nl]

Nice vid brother, I always like your videos. I always wondered who the best pua is and always thought it was Julien from rsd, who are some of the guys you look/looked up to now or when learning and resonated with?

[@nimkal]

Great advises!

[@nicross5000]

Man, you are the best

[@ItsRaitisLV]

Valuable advice bro as always, thank you!

[@ianbunch9721]

So something I want to bring up I'm a totally normal dude, I surf, drum, hang at the beach, do photography for work. I do have a short term memory loss problem due to a brain injury from a survey at birth. Therefore, meeting people is hard as I often forget meeting them, so much so when they approach me a couple days later or a week two, I am confused and in my mind 100% sure we've never met... When I do want to pursue someone, I have to make a note, about their name how we met any plans etc. They usually will start by texting me that info too, but then it always fades out. Typically I either see them later on and they say hi, and I have no idea meeting them, then they're usually mad (even though they're the one who ghosted me)... Or I never get a response from them. Any advice?

[@mondemngadi8236]

bro, you spitting facts!!! i hope guys listen

[@demonhalo67]

I made this mistake early on in a short date I had with a girl three years ago and she flaked on me on the third date. It wasn't going any other way, I was texting her too often and trying to move things on too quickly and she bailed out. Learned the lesson.

[@khyberw]

Stoicism, yes thank you

[@TheSingleGuy]

It's the shit

[@ryancentnarowicz]

Also make sure when your talking to multiple girls at once make sure they are not friends. Because they will talk to each other about a guy they have been talking to and that same guy could be you and it never ends well. Those girls will now think you are a player and avoid you.

[@demonhalo67]

Correct. Girls don't like players becouse they don't like getting played. The best players are the ones that don't look or act like one.

[@Slimcaseohssupermarket]

Thank you for this 😁😁😁😁

[@jespinosa44]

Great advice ! Appreciate your content

[@TheSingleGuy]

Thanks homie, anything else you'd like to hear about?

[@philosopherpsycoligistlife9635]

Man you're my favorite PUA

[@williamfry4461]

The point I’m seeing is to learn to situate yourself to better pretend that you are not in need. Anyone in search of a partner is likely lonely and in need. It simply makes sense. The irony is that women often say they want someone genuine, but end up falling for the smooth talking guy that’s good at playing the game. This is why I dislike the pursuit of women. I feel like I have to be untrue to myself in order to entertain some random women that I don’t even know.

[@alexforce9]

Go watch the videos of coach corey wayne. You need it. But in short - No one likes needy people. Even women who are looking for a relationship are not needy - they dont jump on the first guy they like. They always have options and thats why they are in no hungry no hurry state. Just like you must be. Its not a game if you really live that life. Thats should be your end goal - to have a life of options.

[@evelic]

5:50 I implemented this and it helped me a lot. I think it was the single thing that helped me get out of suicidal thoughts.

[@dolphins_and_manatees5960]

forreal? do you think i should start doing this?

[@evelic]

@@dolphins_and_manatees5960 Try it, you have nothing to lose. I just listed 3 things I was grateful for in a journal every day. Seemed to have helped.

[@Tangentbordsblues]

Wow was that the rain, awesome!

[@veron7003]

Dude I just wanna say don't stop making vids cause of u I'm a pro dude,thnks

[@TheSingleGuy]

yeee making pros everyday. Awesome man

[@zeliph]

I guess I'm in the right direction as I did some of the advice you've provided without even realising it until now. :)

[@TheSingleGuy]

Awesome man! Don't forget there's always room for improvement

[@christianvaldez755]

Also in the morning after you wake up, dont look up your fucking phone and social media. Start the day well taking action right apart on your purpose.

[@BrainForce95]

Bro thanks for the vid, can you link me your other vid where you talked about your past and your beginnings, especially your time in south east Asia

[@TheSingleGuy]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqDGh3-DpJhlnLs for traveling and kzbin.info/www/bejne/ioW4mmuooJx1ibs for how I got good. You can also search for terms on my channel to find the video you want

[@1tappwilliam365]

i think she’s gone off with me but i’m not sure why because i treat her nice we have banter i just think i’m caring for her too much and it seems to be a problem. got any advice as to why she’s not acting the same because before she was clinging to me so much and i don’t even know anymore

[@alexforce9]

go watch the videos of coach corey wayne.

[@Cassidyy88str]

Am i the only one finding tip number 1 very hard? I mean, when you date different girls, there is a high chance that you will like one more than the others. That means that you value her higher over the others and can still easily become needy with her.

[@jke387]

NEWS FLASH: if you have the [blank] to have other options, then guess what? You're needy!! Texting 5 different girls out of this neediness is (from the route) insecure, and it's immoral. There's girl A for example. She's the one this is about; the one you really want. You go talking to all these others. Girl A finally shows interest (for whatever reason). Whoop! There goes all the other girls out the window. Say girl C really liked you and now she's getting ignored for girl A. You just wasted her time and f*ked with her feeling. Not cool! Just having interest in one girl is not a recipe for neediness. Have other sh*t going on with your life. You can live great w/o a woman! Let her just be the one to add value to it. And bam, u living good, great chicks will be drawn to you anyway, so girl A shouldn't be hard to begin with! Then you don't gotta worry about being a needy loser that has to text 5, 10, however many different chicks, to feel better about himself.

[@alexforce9]

Are you a retard? If you only talk with one girl do you really think she is talking only with you? phahahaha . Women are being hit on ALL THE TIME. Well congrats- now if she chose someone else over you - you have wasted days and weeks. But if you talk with other 5 girls - you can just move on the same day. Women are inconsistend as fuck. Its far more likely that you are wasting your time talking with her, than she is talking with you.

[@jhonwayne1003]

Always good content!

[@TheSingleGuy]

thanks man anything else you'd like to hear about?

[@jhonwayne1003]

It seems there are so many rules to this new age dating game. Freindzone,orbiters,using you until her ex wants to be bothered with her. Don’t know where to start, looks as if staying single and us men worrying about us is the only way to be.

[@TheSingleGuy]

@@jhonwayne1003 It might seem complicated but if you watch my videos I frequently repeat similar points. There are basic principles and the rest is just different names for different situations.

[@mumbus272]

He mentioned crocs ...hahahaha.real shit

[@49495lwbrmoxybe]

the storm💀💀😂

[@foofy14]

Does anybody know any good self improvement IG pages to follow?

[@overcomerdavinci1150]

Great advice

[@russhaight3225]

What do you think are the best places to meet women besides bars/clubs?

[@TheSingleGuy]

I'm going to do a video on this exact subject but I need to put more work into it. Here's a short list: - volunteer groups - intramural sports - group fitness classes (crossfit) - salsa/dance classes - improv classes - outside the bar or club Hit up a couple of these a week and within a couple months you'll have a girlfriend or solid rotation going

[@jhonwayne1003]

The volunteer group is definitely a good one.

[@russhaight3225]

@@TheSingleGuy Thanks! By "outside the bar or club" do you mean like the street directly outside the bar where people are chilling/smoking, etc.

[@TheSingleGuy]

@@russhaight3225 yup. Good luck out there Russ. Lemme know how it goes

[@jeffmoss118]

The best way is to have to ability to be alone. Don’t ever become complacent or codependent

[@TheSingleGuy]

That definitely helps!

[@lizhuynhkenny]

Because of these tips now we have men who run around like headless chicken and women thinking men are so immature and unreliable. And vice versa. Smart women don’t like to be played and so are smart men. What happened to genuineness ? You are needy because a) you probably have unresolved trauma that you may not be awarded of or b) you lack self-awareness and or self-love and c) some mental health conditions could make a person much more susceptible to loneliness, people pleasing tendencies, rs.. or you could be an empath you need more deep connection. Don’t make it out as if it s wrong to have emotions. True, when you don’t respect others boundaries it is a turn off, but most women actually want to see men make the initiative and show more caring. Videos like these just show that a lot of people just lack maturity and want easy fixes (that are bad for everyone) instead of taking a good look at themselves and the problem/s. Urhgg.

[@arthursimsa9005]

You make absolutely no sense.

[@alexforce9]

You are wrong on so many levels. Just ASK men what was the result when they showed their emotions to women. I can tell you. "Im not ready for a relationship". " Im confused". " You are sooo good, and you need someone better than me". " I need to work on myself". Men want relationships to be easy - and when we are open and honest - WOMEN REJECT US! . So have some humbleness and try to understand WHY men watch videos like this.

[@sebastiansmith5524]

You’re doing the triple six in the thumbnail bro…

[@dannyramirez2574]

Wow that’s rain 🌧! Sure ur not in Houston ? 🤣

[@TheSingleGuy]

Haha I'm in Oaxaca Mexico

[@richarddavis6060]

How do you suggest going back to a chicks place, instead of your own

[@TheSingleGuy]

I would ask her where she lives and make an excuse to go back there instead of mine. Reasons include: she lives closer, has some cool attraction like a hot tub, has a place to eat or after party near her, or I would just tell her that we can't go back to my place because of xyz reason.

[@harun7450]

More than one is confusion my girlfriend she's more than 5

[@anotherlifeO2]

10:55 🤣🤣🤣

[@Annamelese]

I think that ,if you have to text 5 girls at same time that extremely needy!!! You have big problem!

[@alexforce9]

Thats coz you are hypocrite. Women text with at least 3 men at the same time ALL THE TIME. You are being hit on daily basis, if one guy ghost you, you will just talk with the other 4 who have being trying to get you on a date.

[@trevinormandy14520]

Sounds like his house is going through a car wash

[@viennep]

You’re like Russel Brand with an American accent.

[@ExplorewithSvetlin]

Sounds like the end of the world:)

[@keropaci]

You dont know how many people you helped

[@cjgokuhomes10]

Pankha kyun de rkha mic me.

[@80skid83]

Get a job. Job done , no time to be needy then

[@TheSingleGuy]

Getting a job could certainly help

[@jackrippers8526]

that some serious shyt u unloading there... ⛈is appropriate...