Relationship Advice: Should I ask her out again?

[@soapergem]

I really love this video, and wish there had been more like it when I was younger. There's a lot of relationship advice out there, and most of it is pretty cynical. But I think you've struck a pretty good balance of being encouraging, genuine, and most of all compassionate. I hope you make more of these.

[@gman2015z]

There are miracles where a guy gets rejected but later tries again and then they're married for years. If the girl is really worth it then try again later if only she's single and you can name a lot of things as to why shes different from other girls. Is there a connection, great energy, great around your friends and family, inspires you and motivates you to be the best version of yourself? These are miracles for a reason though. Always focus on yourself and don't get pushy or obsessed. I get that when you think you found the best girl, especially someone at my age at 30 who's older and has been around women that just weren't for me, its hard. Its tough cuz you fall for a girl involuntary, its just happens and you can't turn off feelings for a girl like a light bulb. Its time you do things you always put off like learning a new language and new dance, or keep improving in the gym. You'll be even more confident and have a glow and aura that everyone will notice.

[@MarketerMilk]

Came across your podcast a few days ago. Definitely underrated, love it a lot!

[@eddiebatter]

My girl I’ve known for 11 years. I asked her out over ten years ago and she pulled the I don’t want to see anyone. She therefore didn’t find me attractive. Recently she called me handsome so I’m thinking about trying to ask her again. Tough decision.

[@Ironside-fz9vd]

No you shouldn't ask her out again . If she did like you, she had her chance and blew it. But when a girl rejects a guy it's almost certain it's because they don't have any feelings for you, but there are exceptions. Respect that. Look for another girl. Unless she asks out first you forget about her. The ball is now in her court. Just be friendly with when you see her. If ever she does suggest going out don't always say yes. Don't make yourself so available. Ask her if it's for a date , if not the politely tell her you want to date her and not just hook up as friends. If it's not what she wants then that's cool. But make it clear you will see her only if it's a date then move on because you can't spend forever building up your hopes on one girl. There's nothing more powerful than walking away. Be honest with yourself you don't really want to hang out as friends , do you? you want to date her. If it's only as friendship she's looking for then politely decline. Hooking up as friend is the kiss of death , you should never hook up with a girl as a friend because it's not what you really want and you'll only ever be friends. So grow some balls and move on , unless she wants to date you. Telling her you don't want to hook up as friends because you are looking for a date then moving on is the most powerful thing you can do.

[@ianbetts4435]

I think it's a good idea to say to her, I would like to hangout with you because I'm interested to get to know you more. That takes the pressure off her. If she won't even do that then forget her. If she agrees to hangout then use that time to raise her level of attention then after that ask her on a date.

[@natedogg3765]

Yea I asked her out yesterday she said no because she hasent knew me long enough to develop feeling and it's understandable I will try in a few months and me and her are still freinds

[@RuyLopezCUH]

Nah you should just move on and find someone else. Attraction is not a choice.

[@nonenone6884]

remmeber no means NO

[@nicholasrolla2937]

Good vlog... I think poker is not an attractive quality to the average woman so it does complicate things. A good extreme obscure analogy is all men loved the 1987 Buick grand national when it came out. Any man in the position to buy this car came to realize that there is no woman on earth that liked this car and best to get rid of it. Poker is like the buick but not quite as bad. I think if you do play poker it's best to balance with some type of exercise. Would be looking to meet people through an interest you have so you already have something in common. Kristy, would love it if you were willing to share some of your snack/dinner recipes. I know you are vegetarian and I am too and have been for 2 years but still eating too much of the wrong stuff. I spend a lot of time playing poker but also do run about 25 miles per week. Which brings to the last question: did you and Amo run the rock n roll half marathon?

[@TRU3_Zombie]

Can you help me

[@chahid1992]

Dang i love your femine energy your cute and wise thanks.

[@nonenone6884]

she said NO the first time.did i miss something. stalker thats all she has to say

[@alexik7356]

Go to Girls Chase for great advice. Also thx for the video Ms., Consider me enlightened

[@nonenone6884]

NO you get a record, to meet the police your life will never be the same why take that chance? i know what she is saying but she is a woman with nothing to lose . you are a man with everything to lose.grow up

[@PANTTERA1959]

The risk/reward paradigm is throw all of sorts in todays atmosphere. If she says NO again and the guy becomes famous or very successful then that innocent date proposal is tagged "An Unwanted Sexual Advance" .And he's carries the predator label.