Relationship DEAL-BREAKERS Even If They’re VERY ATTRACTIVE!

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@raulcarrillo9861 2 ай бұрын

If they smoke cigarettes, an instant turn-off. Instantly turn unnatractive.

@liquidrock2u 2 ай бұрын

Couldn't agree more. But for me, it's smoking in general.

@raulcarrillo9861 2 ай бұрын

@liquidrock2u i sometimes smoke weed, so I have to be specific, which I'm sure I'm someone's turn off for that lol

@whanos8471 2 ай бұрын

The only exception is if they are willing to change by quitting cigarettes or at least replacing it with something less harmful like weed. No nicotine tho that’s nasty

@slipstick985 2 ай бұрын

No cigars or pipes either.

@dmrixr.a5942 2 ай бұрын

Same

@jimjamjimjam7700 2 ай бұрын

No matter how beautiful they are on the outside, it doesn't matter if they are ugly on the inside. Arrogant, narcissistic, nagging, manipulative, etc. If they are a horrible person, it will show, no matter how much makeup they try to hide their real self under. Lovely people who are beautiful on the inside are great, and should absolutely be prioritised, get someone who's beautiful on the inside AND the outside? That's a keeper.

@petrgazo5184 2 ай бұрын

ikr. the question here tries to imply that beauty is the most important trait for long term relationship. it might be important for a hook up but thats it.

@hungrymusicwolf 2 ай бұрын

@@petrgazo5184 It isn't, it's implying the exact opposite: that there are qualities more important than being attractive. The question is simply a chance for people to say what those qualities are.

@RufusStories 2 ай бұрын

Yep, beauty fades, but ugly character? That sticks around. Solid advice here, my dude.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@AloofAthlete979 2 ай бұрын

Bro nobody cares stop copy pasting this shit

@SaigneurGuerrier 2 ай бұрын

"It's wonderful to be wanted, it's terrible to be needed" I like this one

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

If a woman doesn't WANT you, you have every right to walk away as a man.

@ethang.8238 2 ай бұрын

Idk, I like being needed, it gives me motivation and purpose and makes me happy that someone in this life needs me that much. To each their own tho

@Zavonofcats 2 ай бұрын

Lots of kids, high body count, STD, narcissist.

@whanos8471 2 ай бұрын

💯

@RufusStories 2 ай бұрын

Keeping it straightforward with the red flags. I respect it.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

The funny thing is that those are the ones who are the most toxic and entitled. And I’m like: “You're a single mother with multiple children from different biological fathers, all while being ensnared with an incurable STD(s). Who are you to be so delusional, demanding, and entitled? Do you really think you deserve some Bruce Wayne-type?”

@ihatethescammys.loveyn.5979 2 ай бұрын

Agreed. I wouldn’t get with a man who has a child. I also wouldn’t get with a man who isn’t a virgin. I’m a virgin and “pure” as they like to say, thus that’s exactly what I deserve.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@adjwindu70 2 ай бұрын

I learned my freshman year to not pursue an indecisive woman. She wouldn't choose between me or the other guy. I got tired of waiting and ended it. I think she and the other guy lasted a month after me.

@ArinaSarina-v2i 2 ай бұрын

if she had to choose, dump her.

@adjwindu70 2 ай бұрын

@ArinaSarina-v2i I wish it was that easy but I was a virgin that never had a girlfriend. That sex drive was powerful and, admittedly, she had a nice ass. Fortunately I got a girlfriend the summer after I dropped miss indecisive.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@adjwindu70 2 ай бұрын

@Trenex1000 that's quite a list. Have you found someone that meets your standards?

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@adjwindu70 No, I've been focusing on my personal career aspirations. But if I do find someone, I have no intention of being the one-man clean-up crew for a woman’s baggage and poor life decisions.

@sketchywolfgrl9564 2 ай бұрын

Lying is the biggest one for me

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Unfortunately, that is too common. Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@oleg4209 6 күн бұрын

You will die alone, @@Trenex1000

@exodiatheforbid9355 2 ай бұрын

IMO, a better way to ask this question is to ask "what red flags are so inflammatory that they override the intoxication of a blind crush". The answers to this aren't going to be the worst red flags but the most shocking, and for me the most shocking red flag is a surprise wiener.

@trevinschaerr3732 2 ай бұрын

Outside of normal turnoffs (attitude towards staff, high body count, etc.) what would be a turnoff for me is if she uses tobacco and/or narcotics. This is particularly the case if they chew tobacco f-ing disgusting.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@Mystwarrior1 2 ай бұрын

.........even if they were attracted....... The problem with modern day Society summed up in one sentence....

@royalpayn4089 2 ай бұрын

Addicts. I started talking to a girl recently who revieled after a few weeks she was an alcoholic. Drank every night, talked about wanting to have drinks at my place, ect. She even talked a few times about how she was excited to go to her Christmas party and spend a few hundred dollars on booze and get super wasted. This was all a red flag but it went full on deal breaker when she cancelled on our first date due to getting so drunk the night before she needed to go to the hoslital. That told me all i needed to know. I feel sorry for these people, but not enough to risk throwing my life away for them.

@ericneo2 2 ай бұрын

Deal breakers: Body count. This tells a guy if you are relationship material, past behavior is an indicator for future behavior. Demands princess treatment. Both my parents worked and built together, I will not be someone's servant. Wasteful with money. If you want a house and family you have to save for it. Narcissist: Everything is about her and what she wants without consideration for others.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer it not too be involved at all) And few others of course…

@abbywolf9701 2 ай бұрын

@@Trenex1000why do you keep copy+pasting that to everyone?

@stevec3526 2 ай бұрын

Sadly, very true. It tells me a lack of judgement.

@angelartamesia2 2 ай бұрын

Dealbreaker: no commitment, lying, no trust, no COMMUNICATING, cheating ofc, there are others but these are the main ones Oh, also honesty.

@setokaiba6758 2 ай бұрын

Intelligence is a MUST. If you don’t know a sonic screwdriver from a hydro spanner, move along.

@Kazavop 2 ай бұрын

And don't forget about telling a helmic regulator from a chameleon circuit

@coreejacobs4780 2 ай бұрын

Intelligence is broad, sounds you want someone savvy in a certain area… be sure to be clear before you get a rocket scientist by mistake

2 ай бұрын

I went on a date with a pretty girl, the problem was she knew she was pretty and talked incessantly about it. Towards the end of the date she suggested she wanted to have sex, I declined and moved on. Not long after a friend went on a date with her. He contacted me later to warn me she gave him herpes. I was glad I thought with my brain and not my other head.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

It sounds like you dodged a bullet; it turns out that women nowadays have a pervasive STD problem.

@stevec3526 2 ай бұрын

I have a thing against sex on the first date. Those relationships never worked out long term for me.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Did this guy not use protection? If not, what was he thinking?

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@stevec3526 In many cases, they don't.

@stevec3526 2 ай бұрын

A lot of excellent comments from Reddit on this subject. Much better than normal.

@MarvinLewisPattersonJr 2 ай бұрын

Excessive piercings and loud outfits are an instant turn off for me. If you stand out way too hard, you're trying to say something subconsciously or otherwise. I learned this about myself meeting with someone I was interested in

@elderliddle2733 2 ай бұрын

Especially when they have those tacky nose piercings and not realize they were a mark of slavery in other lands.

@blackjack8480 2 ай бұрын

Strongly agree. My friend has such a girl right now and I don't know how to advice him to consider other choise. I just don't want to argue with him. But I think he is way smarter, educated, hardworking and more interesting person in general. I don't want him settle for less because his girl is just... empty inside. She's not bad but I can't call her good as well. I think that people who like those excessive piercings and loud outfits ara trying to compensate the lack of something meaningful in them. And she also smokes.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer it not too be involved at all) And few others of course…

@DarkVeghetta 2 ай бұрын

1) If I'm in her car, she opens the window on my side, and then refuses to close it if I ask her to (bc. cold). I've left a relationship over this. It shows she doesn't care about me. 2) If she ever makes a big scene in public, it's over. Not only would this be a total lack of respect for me, but also for other people. 3) If she treats staff badly for the hell of it. My future wife must be kind or, at the very least, polite. 4) Lack of personal hygiene. An exception can be made if she's fine with letting me do it, bonus points if she enjoys and appreciates it. Regular bathing, cutting fingernails/toenails, and brushing teeth would be the big ones - yes, this has been a problem in previous relationships and I refuse to put up with it again.

@JesterofRichiousness 2 ай бұрын

Attitude and Entitlement

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@JesterofRichiousness Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@NevisYsbryd 2 ай бұрын

#3 sounds exactly like the exact guy he complained about.

@Scugzerker 2 ай бұрын

Playing games (not the fun kind of games obviously), smoking, treating others disrespectfully, vain, self-centered/egoistic, not respecting one's boundaries, always wanting to be right etc. Basically stuff that indicate bad personality and childish behaviour. I'm looking for someone I can be myself with and thus completely trust. If you look like a goddess but act like an open sewer than keep walking and find something that matches your personality. I am who I am and I cannot change much about that unfortunately. Want a rich dentist? Best I can do is give you a handcrafted thing. No matter how much I'd want to, I could not be the main source of income due to a very nice concoction of conditions which leaves me nearly incapable of working in a "normal" situation. I can do crafts like forging, carving, drawing and crocheting quite well as that doesn't require much social interaction, but unfortunately there's not much money to be earned with what I can do. Ironically, one thing I do require would be considered a red flag. Certain things trigger an intense feeling of hatred or rage (misophonia and misokinesia), and no matter how hard I try I cannot stop it (bureaucracy is not very helpful either). So in order for me to actually feel at ease, you'd at least have to keep those things in mind. Though the intensity of it also varies depending on who it is, so if it's someone I truly love I expect (and hope for both our sakes) that some of those triggers won't be as intense or won't happen at all when it's her.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer it not too be involved at all) And few others of course…

@OldManMontgomery 2 ай бұрын

Deal braking condition: being stupid or very ignorant. Can't handle that.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer it not too be involved at all) And few others of course…

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Unfortunately, too many of them are like this, and the funny thing is that they think they have it all figured out.

@OldManMontgomery 2 ай бұрын

@@Trenex1000 I cannot argue with any of those. At my age, I'm pretty well out of the game. in the past, I may have made an exception for the single mother; maybe.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@OldManMontgomery Suppose a single mother is going to be a worthy prospect for a long-term relationship. In that case, she must take properly allocated accountability and responsibility for her situation, and everything else needs to check out. If she is a great mother and a great person overall who has her act together, then MAYBE. But so many of them don't fit that bill, so I recommend that men just steer clear of them.

@OldManMontgomery 2 ай бұрын

@@Trenex1000 I did say 'maybe'. That was the short version of your explanation. I can see no quibbles or arguments with your statement.

@Vipex_14 2 күн бұрын

This is probably pretty controversial but I've always said single moms

@StolenMemes323 2 ай бұрын

If she doesn't say thank you to people holding the door, bus drivers, or waiters/waitresses, it's done. She's dug her own pit, so she needs to lie in it.

@reeseseater12 2 ай бұрын

There are a few, but some major ones are how they treat people and just general intelligence. I don’t like people who think others are lower and I need to be able to have a conversation with someone to be interested

@angelgonzalez9614 2 ай бұрын

My deal breaker: Very attractive women. 2 women in my past said I was full of myself because I wouldn't give them the chance. They always wanted attention and have men hovering around 24/7. They said that's my insecurities. Yep, just like women need to feel secure, men need that also. Married 26 years old and she was the best decision of my life. Beautiful brunette. She looks the same as the day we went. Those other 2 women, not so much, and one of them is divorce twice.

@Gabranth2 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for the PSI video

@Da.Shanks. 2 ай бұрын

Aside from the standard red flags (narcissistic, over-materialistic, general b*tch attitude), I have two major deal breakers - Ideological difference is too great. - Shows signs of being unreliable as a friend

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer it not too be involved at all) And few others of course…

@usuario-dc8bb 2 ай бұрын

Nose rings Ear gauges Cursing just to curse Chipped nail polish Birkenstocks any masculine chunky shoe on a girl

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer it not too be involved at all) And few others of course…

@raggierock2848 2 ай бұрын

Trying to tear you down publicly even jokingly.Don't talk S about me in public and expect me to be friendly towards you in private. I do not do that as a joke to my partners because I view it as being that bad.Especially cause you have no clue what people around you may get from that

@TheLibroLover 2 ай бұрын

Agreed

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@raggierock2848 Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@marcusjones457 2 ай бұрын

Don't remember if it was said anywhere in the video, but negative and needy friends. If she insists on keeping friends that do nothing but complain about you and try to sabotage the relationship, then just leave cause they'll probably win eventually.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

There is a saying: “Single women want to keep other women single.”

@jasondouglas152 2 ай бұрын

Attitude, entitled, just vibes .

@Blazeboyce 2 ай бұрын

Poor emotional control, entitlement, overly loud, wants the dude to pay for everything while not doing anything, of models or anything dealing with sx work

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer it not too be involved at all) And few others of course…

@djaketech4460 2 ай бұрын

Unfortunately I fall into 2 RedFlags. I have very low self confidence so i deprecate myself and can't take compliments. And I struggle socially and get so invested in a story that I talk about myself too much. I tell the girl to please let me know because I do talk too much and I am working on it. It's not me intentionally not giving you a chance to talk I just genuinely struggle in the sense I don't notice it. Despite me making her aware. It's already caused 2 times not to be a 2nd date. I know people are going to shame me in the comments but please understand I am working on both. I never intend to make it all about me, I want to hear about her and her life.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

What matters is that you're taking accountability and are trying to improve.

@ethrixhd7081 2 ай бұрын

lil bit vain for me (ik ik), but being a (self described) "swiftie". Every single one I've met has just been a terrible person to everyone around them, and their love for you will never be more than their love for their god-empress

@linkbond08 2 ай бұрын

Unusual piercings, tattoos, any type of smoking, the use of illegal substances, anger problems, lies, childish behavior, and lack of communication, are big ones. If they are incapable of communicating efficiently, ineptitude, and way too much screen time are smaller ones that are important.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@linkbond08 2 ай бұрын

@Trenex1000 i need to print that.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@linkbond08 Go ahead...

@cultreader9751 23 күн бұрын

What is an "unusual piercing or tattoo" if you don't mind me asking.

@thegoodcaptain6620 Ай бұрын

I don't want any smokers or druggies. I also have no interest of being a parent, step or otherwise.

@ZerotheWanderer 2 ай бұрын

Septum piercing

@dark-lord-itachi-gojoofthe6166 2 ай бұрын

Lmao, I'm the opposite, I have a thing for girls with a septum piercing

@user-wl8zm2gl5r 2 ай бұрын

More for me

@user-wl8zm2gl5r 2 ай бұрын

Shes a 10, but she's now a 0 because of a little piece of metal i didn't see 10 seconds ago

@ZerotheWanderer 2 ай бұрын

@@user-wl8zm2gl5r it's never a little one

@luzelenaroli6787 2 ай бұрын

Lmao So she can be an insufferable b*tc# but its ok as long as she doesn't have one 😂

@godbearxd 2 ай бұрын

Taking more than you offer/give.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@godbearxd It’s called having extractive and parasitic behaviors and personality. Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@scorcher64 2 ай бұрын

Lying, lack of goals/aspirations, little to no intelligence, laziness, poor communication, lack of spending time together, putting so much emphasis on height and others genetics you cannot change rather than the more important stuff... Just off the top of my head.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@chibigoji5080 2 ай бұрын

Gotta a couple of my own 1. Smoker. Instant no go 2. The princess types who think just because they are pretty they deserve everything 3. Women with gender double standards, aka the feminazi 4. The ones who dont respect boundaries and get passive-aggressive when you tell them no 5. What i like to call the "emotional leach" the ones who have emotional issues and force you to deal with them instead of getting professional help

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@E.K_Official 2 ай бұрын

Talking shit behind my back. Guys, if she does that, leave. She's most likely not loyal, and will make you feel like shit. Just walk away from that. Despite my young age, I've unfortunately dealt with this

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@E.K_Official Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@doll9340 2 ай бұрын

I can agree to a lot of these

@vinceenad303 21 күн бұрын

Rufus!

@coreejacobs4780 2 ай бұрын

Saying women shouldn’t just expect things because they are a woman after men have benefited from solely being men for so long is hilarious 😂😂

@Prepper1985 2 ай бұрын

Tattoos on her chest, bad hygiene

@dontmindmeimjustthescottis1194 2 ай бұрын

how?

@Prepper1985 2 ай бұрын

Me personally, I don’t mind if a women has a few tattoos..but I don’t care how hot she is, getting a tattoo on her boobs that is seen every time she wears a low cut shirt is just trashy

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@Prepper1985 Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@Prepper1985 2 ай бұрын

@@Trenex1000 you literally describe 99.9% of women on the planet

@AbyssmalSoup307 2 ай бұрын

Is that what you look like in the first 10 seconds of the video, or some random person?

@bilaldjzniceva4872 2 ай бұрын

Someone who will refuse to make me feel special is an instant no go

@briannadickson2884 2 ай бұрын

Lol 👶

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@bilaldjzniceva4872 Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@patsypersaud 2 ай бұрын

Irreverent and ugly tattoos, I don't mind if a woman is inked but tattoos are a permanent addition to your body and should be carefully considered, turning your skin into an eyesore covered with meaningless symbols is very unattractive

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@patsypersaud Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@supermetroid009 2 ай бұрын

Thanks Charlie sheen

@Redice_47 2 ай бұрын

you back?

@RufusStories 2 ай бұрын

always grinding

@derpyderp1998 2 ай бұрын

Smoking and lying

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@derpyderp1998 Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@derpyderp1998 2 ай бұрын

@Trenex1000 what is SW

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@derpyderp1998 KZbin keeps deleting my comments and replies. So, I need to word this properly. SW stands for s**work. Examples being: - doing “bedroom activities” for money - filming said “bedroom activities” for money - dancing with a metal pole for money - etc

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@derpyderp1998 Sex Work

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@derpyderp1998 Doing bedroom stuff for money. Do you catch my drift?

@funfactsandfactsthatarefun5007 2 ай бұрын

They don’t like dogs

@cultreader9751 23 күн бұрын

My sister is scared of dogs. She's married, though.

@funfactsandfactsthatarefun5007 23 күн бұрын

@ congrats

@deshaun14 2 ай бұрын

Party girl

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@deshaun14 Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@kaos3383 2 ай бұрын

socials

@briannadickson2884 2 ай бұрын

You're on one right now.

@kaos3383 2 ай бұрын

@briannadickson2884 yeah, you are right. I'm posting shit here. Selfies and chatting people up. Getting attention and validation. Oh that's right. I jist come here when I'm taking a shit. To see how far we have fallen. You know dam well what I'm talking about.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@kaos3383 I know, right? KZbin is not the same as Instagram and Snapchat, which is a false equivalence. Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@briannadickson2884 The KZbin comment section doesn't come close to the toxic narcissistic nonsense that takes place on Instagram, Snapchat, and TikTok.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@kaos3383 Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@lodgie555 2 ай бұрын

The if you don't agree with me then your wrong mentality. What ever happened to being actually open minded to other peoples opinions? Also more of a red flag.... the collection of fake long nails, fake lashes, tonnes of make up and a stuck up self centred personality. just makes me not want to be associated with you let alone date you.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@lodgie555 Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@skylinefever 2 ай бұрын

Drug use. Yuck!

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@skylinefever Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@gianfrancopuli5448 2 ай бұрын

They turn out to be woke

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@gianfrancopuli5448 Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@SuperChaos777 2 ай бұрын

If shes a Feminist or have tattoos.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

@@SuperChaos777 Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer them not to be involved at all) And a few others, of course…

@fvardona 2 ай бұрын

Body count, being a feminist, being a materialist, and last but not least believing herself to be perfect and above criticism or accountability.

@Trenex1000 2 ай бұрын

Alright, here is my list of deal-breakers: - narcissistic (way too common) - STDs/STIs (again, way too common) - single mother (as above) - extractive and parasitic behavior and personality - extensive criminal/arrest record - socio-politically toxic (Left or Right) - substance abuse problems - extensive history of mental health problems - stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding - does “SW” (you know what I mean) - engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (unhealthy diet, lack of physical exercise, etc) - poor personal hygiene - too many tattoos and/or piercings (a solid indicator of a problematic woman) - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (seriously, why is this so common nowadays) - too focused on social media (I prefer it not too be involved at all) And few others of course…

@fvardona 2 ай бұрын

@@Trenex1000 is good, although I would not adhere to some of them cause it is not a set-in-stone sign of this person being a bad match. For instance, I'm married to my high school sweetheart, we lost everything together and we have been happily married for ten years now and sincerely don't have any complaints about it. However... She has the following: - hair extensions, wigs, long nails, and fake eyelashes (she likes to alternate her style, she doesn't use them always, but sometimes she likes to diversify her style, wigs for instance she has curly natural hair, but sometimes she likes to go with straight long black so to not damage her natural curls she uses a wig) -- engages in an unhealthy lifestyle consistently (she is addicted to caffeine, like hardcore addicted, but this problem comes from her early years, her family gave her coffee instead of milk when she was a toddler so now she drinks it almost like water. Also, she is not a fan of exercise, she is not a complete sedentary tough, since she goes to the treadmill and walks around instead of using uber, but she hates exercises.) -- stupidity, ignorance, and not willing to expand your knowledge and understanding (she is Christian such as I am, but most of the time she just reads the bible and doesn't want to really understand things, her as she says the world is simple and should stay like that cause she doesn't have the patience and energy to go beyond simple) Mind you those 3 things while sometimes can be a hassle are not deal breakers, never once this got in the way of her being a good wife in any sense so I'm cool with it.

@kinghydra5268 2 ай бұрын

1st

@TheJello 2 ай бұрын

We know your first you don’t have to state it. I don’t understand why people think being the first to comment is an achievement. Please shut up.

@kinghydra5268 2 ай бұрын

@@TheJello if u dont care about it then dont give an un needed opinion its not that hard

@RufusStories 2 ай бұрын

🍪 the haters just mad they dont get one

@TheJello 2 ай бұрын

@@kinghydra5268 I never said I don’t care. I said it’s annoying and not an achievement. You’re putting words into my mouth so you can use comebacks that aren’t even relevant.

@kinghydra5268 2 ай бұрын

@@RufusStories frr

@Davidhenry1210 2 ай бұрын

Stop calling woman your partner. Partner means you can both do the same things. Men and women are fundamentally different. This is one Big reason you might keep failing at relationships.

@ericneo2 2 ай бұрын

That's very presumptuous.

@Blupblup4382 2 ай бұрын

No, the term 'partner' refers to being in a couple with someone, that’s all; there’s no notion of being capable of doing the same things. By the way, we’re not that different apart from our genitalia and certain physical capabilities; we’re alike in many ways. Considering women to be fundamentally different from you is one big reason you might keep failing at relationships.

@Davidhenry1210 2 ай бұрын

I wish you guys all the best in life and I hope you live long and great lives.