Guys, What Makes A Girl INSTANTLY ATTRACTIVE?

[@DrDolan2000]

A general sweetness. Wipes the dirt away from your face, asks how you're doing/if you're okay after something happened, hugs and kisses, and compliments you She may not always agree with you, but she respects your beliefs, work, hobbies, privacy, boundaries, and you as a person She is quick to listen, slow to judge, apologizes when she acts out, and appreciates help She takes pride in your presence, not embarassed to call you hers, or talk about you with friends and family And compassion. Lending an ear/shoulder to cry on in your time of need

[@HaesungKim8291]

Similarly to the first story, i had an experience like that. She made everytbing so much fun, loved the same games, and loved the same music. Hell even the same shows. She had an appreciation of nerd culture, much more than i, and i sidnt think id ever meet someone like that. On top of that, shes gorgeous. It fell through, but like that guy, i cherish it too. Ive never clicked with someone so quickly like that

[@pain.497]

A professional fumbler lol

[@HaesungKim8291]

@pain.497 professional is an understatement, im the ronaldo of fumbling

[@pain.497]

​@@HaesungKim8291 loool das crazy

[@jom1718]

Don't have to get into details, but I have a very similar experience lmao. I fumbled it too. To be fair I didn't have much time to approach her but still, the pain... I never wanna make the same mistake again.

[@jom1718]

What I'm saying is for more minor crushes being a bit passive is fine but if you really fall for someone, you really just gotta do anything (socially acceptable) in your power to not to lose them or suffer immensely.

[@patrickanderson3373]

Story 1 hit me in my soul. I had this sort of connection with a girl. We constantly laughed and smiled together, had similar interests, did everything together. We'd just look into each other's eyes and smile more and more until one of us just started laughing - purely out of joy. She was also one of the few people I've met who listened to the music I made and genuinely enjoyed it. But circumstances and family conflicts made our relationship impossible. And now I will probably never see her again. It hurts every day knowing that the absolutely perfect soulmate for me is someone I can never be with.

[@Cerulium]

Did you talk to her and see how she feels about it?

[@hungrymusicwolf]

4 things in reverse priority: 1. Being hot 2. Motherliness / feminine caring for everyone around them. 3. Being warm and loving to those around them. 4. Being sincere and having the opposite of a self-conscious and self-centered attitude. If I don't have to be worried about what I say around you can turn someone I'm not interested in into someone instantly attractive (as long as I am not disgusted with the idea of sex with you).

[@Martyn_Wolf]

12:29 "don't tell me you haven't drank a wee too much" Challenge accepted... I don't drink so yes I can tell you I haven't done that before 😂

[@Wendy_O._Koopa]

I don't typically drink, but I thought I'd try to find my limits one time. So I ended up drinking two 8 ounce glasses of Brandy because that's all we had left. I could still walk in a straight line, I didn't attempt driving because that would be unethical, and quite frankly illegal. Anyhow, I didn't find my limit, and since I didn't get a hangover or even a mild headache the next day, it wouldn't meet the ill defined definition of "too much."

[@yukotrey9422]

One thing that’s super attractive is when they are interactive for a lack of better term. There’s one girl I know where if I ask how her day is she talks about the hilarious things she seen. If I bring up any topic to her she mental latches on it like she’s been a nerd with it for like 20 years even if I know she doesn't particularly care about said topic. It's so mentally comforting to have someone where if you said anything, they will validate you for it. She’s good people and she deserves the world.

[@Ohem1]

"Work on yourself" and "Be your best self" are bad advice. Yes, if you let insecurities get the better of you, you have to work on that-but when your best self isn't helping you find someone, then what? I didn't reach out to anyone for 20 years, didn't help me. I reached this year because I want to be a dad, and no one bats an eye.

[@jom1718]

It's funny because I already like the way I am. I already feel like a pretty good version of myself. I don't actually think women have impossibly high standards like many guys these days think. And if they do have impossibly high standards, fuck em.

[@Ohem1]

@jom1718 I feel the same way, sure I have weight to get rid of but that's on my own accord. As for everything else, I like the calm and peace I already have, but I would like to have that company to enrich it - but I'm also not very outgoing, figuratively and literally, and that's not really an approach that works for most people.

[@ReaIHuman]

Being able to have laugh about childish things/ not taking everything so seriously.

[@hqrrducvt34530]

26:00 story i do not go months or years without compliments lol

[@Frostgnaw]

I regret being a coward and lacking the confidence to ask her out. I waited too long and, although I'll never truly know how she would have responded had I been more forward, she rejected me. Jyll was a coworker who I had also gone to high school with. I had thought nothing of her at the time and only remembered her from my gym class. She was quiet and reserved, but the real her that I got to know at work was kind, caring, quirky, and funny. She accepted me for who I was and added me to her friend group. I will never forget the day I fell for her entirely. I was having a bad day and when wrapping up, I was in a pissy mood - just angry overall. I told her to go ahead without me because I didn't want to drag her down with me. She stayed by my side while I finished up and we left together. Just something about her not leaving me or just her silent support... god, I wish things had worked out. I hope you're happy in life, Jyll. You deserve it.

[@JohnReyes-yv5gw]

I like to find her, not be stunned by her. I like the less outgoing, a more shy female. I've never been for the 8's, 9's, or 10's. I've always looked for the wing girl. For me, they are nicer, easier to speak with. They are not always looking over your shoulder at the next best thing. Also, they don't have the attitude that the aforementioned ladies do, because they don't get hit on as much as the others do. They also tend to not be as mean. Give me a 7 or a 7.5 all day long, I don't need a 9 or 10.

[@guitarlover567]

I agree 100%

[@aaronzimmer9825]

A great smile can go a long way.

[@pain.497]

What makes a girl attractive to me is when she's in tune with herself by being confident, smart, trustworthy, kind, & has good integrity overall. It also helps to be fit with a nice butt and a good face card.

[@ZerotheWanderer]

Outside of looks, definitely somebody that doesn't take themselves too seriously Aunt doesn't have to dress like they're showing off 90% of their body anytime they go out. Looks wise, redhead, freckles, pear shape

[@sambo92]

I'm gonna say something rather unconventional. I like when a woman is standoffish with other dudes but open and nice with you. To me it shows she's untouchable to other dudes and only wants you. Very attractive to me.

[@moistfist1054]

I feel like no one is answering the question and just dilly dallying to seem positive. They do realize that’s they’re answering everything EXCEPT the question.

[@ghostbl33d65]

Talk about the rise and fall of the Holy Roman Empire. Yes, a way to a mans heart is that simple ladies ☕️

[@whocares8584]

For me theres a few things 1 is being able to hold a convo. It sucks when a hot girl can only say things like yeah, uhuh, me too or nothing much. However if she can add to a conversation or start a conversation its an attractive feature. A sense of humor if a girl can joke around & laugh at jokes & not be too serious it makes a girl go up a few levels on the hotness meter. Another thing that makes a girl attractive is if she can express herself without being toxic

[@ilovemygeo3093]

litterly 98% of men will agree on 10th story

[@maniac_mike6062]

I 100% agree with that one story when I was younger as a teenager I definitely thought I had a type of girl but now that I'm older my type of girl is one that likes me 100% LOL I mean there are personality traits that are deal breakers of course but overall I agree

[@ac6367]

A nose like a sundial. If you wear size 13 boots, you know.

[@violentheart8060]

What i get from most of this is.... At least 70% of guys like only thin or fit women. Around 15% like witty, funny, confident women. 10% men like simple women who give them attention. 5% of men like unique, strong, smart and interesting women who pay attention to them on a deeper level than physical.

[@VegetaHimself]

Not being judgy.

[@CannedShrimp]

Is willing to get over herself and talk to me. Chances are since that's only happened once my whole life that you could be 30+ years old and fatter than holy hell and you'd stand a small chance provided you have no kids or dogs. I'd likely just assume you were making fun of me though and ignore you or just go along with whatever you're saying to me while making it obvious my guard was up. Also not good at talking to girls. Patience maybe? I'm not Chad and your not going to warm up to me in 2 weeks, or whatever ridiculously small time frame you've prepared. During this time you'd have to behave yourself and stay single, regularly text me, if we hang out at all you'd have to tell me I'm not to propose it. Basically I'd treat you as though you were one of the few friends i have until you could prove to me I'd be safe to try to make it something more. I repeat all this time you'd have to behave yourself. Do or say anything to make me uncomfortable and its over which is very easy since the main thing everyone seems to like to talk about (sex) makes me uncomfortable especially when women do it. Just having ever had sex is enough to dissuade me from wanting to even be your friend if your a woman. Now take into account I'm not a Chad in looks nor am i in my 20's anymore (which apparently lowers my worth and right to respect of that of a geriatric bedridden old man) Also keep in mind I stubbornly refuse to settle for anyone not in my age of attraction unless by some miracle you're a virgin. I'll wait for the line of exactly 0 women to show up now.

[@abbywolf9701]

Yeah pretty obvious why women don’t talk to you, mate

[@TESI303]

Prefer hands to feet. And straight long hair to hair buns

[@Wendy_O._Koopa]

Definitely prefer hands to feet, I don't know why so many people are fixated on feet... it's absurd.