Relationship EXPERT reveals Secrets to Connection: Dr. Sue Johnson

I got the pleasure to interview one of my heroes in the Relationship world Dr. Sue Johnson. We talked about our own struggles in Relationships and how to we moved from disconnection to reconnection through emotional responsiveness and vulnerability.
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[@laurielorenz-glantz1034]

I feel privileged to hear Dr. Sue Johnson one last time, as she died on 4/23/24. Thank you for having her on. Her contributions are emormous. May she rest in peace.

[@grzehooo88]

Big lost, RIP

[@LaCompagnieDesLunes]

Amen ...😥

[@cottagekeeper]

💔

[@spiralpower2795]

Implementing Sue’s work over the last year has saved my relationship and made it stronger than I could ever imagine.

[@NT-ub4cd]

Sue Johnson is brilliant. Thank you for this interview! Your videos are so clever and sometimes so funny! You're a natural comedian, and so insightful. Congratulations on providing such meaningful and truly helpful content.

[@TimmyDahitman]

WE NEED MORE OF THESE VIDEOS ASAP JIMMY

[@thoughtfullymary]

"Protests are over emotional disconnection" is so BANG ON! Sue is an amazing pioneer in couples work, thanks for turning the spotlight on her🎉. So many gems to be found in her books! Also, when I saw this pop up, I felt real elation for you; I see how you have worked so hard on yourself and reconnecting within your own relationship, and then how you have thrown so much effort and passion into sharing with us the truths and learning that have been impactful to you in creative, funny, and easily accessible and digestible ways. In turn, you are guiding so many people, myself included, to follow the path to emotional connection and lighting and lightening their journey too❤. Interviewing Sue is a testament to all the goodness, information, and change you are putting out into the world, and I wish you many blessings in your work.

[@josephpark1582]

"You can have your cover or you can have an intimate relationship. Youbcantbhave both." Love this statement.

[@Jeannine117]

I am a 64-year-old divorced woman, and while I was married, my husband and I did study various books on relationships. Gottman's books, Harville Hendrix books, etc. We still couldn't make our marriage work. After our divorce, I continued to study relationships. First of all, I am so impressed with the knowledge and wisdom that you share on your channel, Jimmy. I have subscribed to your channel, and I don't subscribe to too many channels. Second of all, the best gifts I have given to others are when I share that I did something really stupid, and it really hurt me in some way or other. And I don't want others to do the same as I did. So God bless you for sharing that you had an affair. Your willingness to be open and vulnerable is such a blessing. Third I have never seen this woman and I am very impressed with her work based on watching this video. This is the best video I have ever seen on relationships. And I have seen many. Thank you Jimmy. I will be sharing this video with several other people. Again, you are a blessing. I hope you read this comment! 😊

[@EvaCFricke]

So even after studying all the books why couldn't make your marriage work?

[@positivevibe7684]

​@hereim5648 I could be 💯% wrong, but maybe they were looking in the wrong places. Maybe they needed to do internal work...which involves working on their inner selves. I am 60+ years young. I've been married over 35 yrs. I thought about leaving several times. I found myself being angry with him..long story. However, I realize I had internal work to do. Counseling and listening to Abraham Hicks videos helped a lot. Also realizing he has ASD. I learned a lot about being on the spectrum. It was a big piece of a missing puzzle. I am at a much better place within my self which has made my marriage better. I'm still a work in progress but filled with joy and much more wisdom these days. Being married to someone with Aspergers is not a picnic in the park. I am blessed that he's a pretty good guy. If he could he would give me the moon if I ask for it. ❤

[@Jeannine117]

I had a difficult time identifying and expressing my emotions and my husband was vulnerable with me 2 or 3 times during our 26.5 year marriage. When he was vulnerable with me, the person I was seeing was so new to me, I had no clue how to react. Looking back, I could have encouraged that vulnerability more, but it is fine as I got out of a relationship with a very toxic man and haven't looked back since!

[@smith899]

Two of the best books we have read are: Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt - Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples AND Willard F. Jr. Harley - His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage!!!

[@lospinos52]

​@@EvaCFricke reading and understanding are different terms

[@Jeannine117]

I want to add a comment to my previous one. I am now in a relationship with a 72-year-old man who is very strong both physically and emotionally. He he is willing to be open and vulnerable with me, and it is wonderful! ❤

[@kirstenkreativ3078]

Oh no... I just looked up Dr. Sue Johnson, and found out that she died only 6 days ago 😢 May she rest in peace 🖤🌹

[@vickibazter3446]

"Love is a science. Intimate relationships are our lifeline and our survival guide." It's much better to calm the Vagus nerve with love, than it is to trigger cortisol with abandonment, isolation and threat.

[@shellygraham2194]

"I protest because YOU ARE IMPORTANT!"

[@JimmyonRelationships]

Yes!!! :) loved that

[@laurieannstratton5176]

Spread the word to this old world 🌍 Thanks for all you do! It works if u work it! BEST EVER 🎉

[@nunyabb]

@@JimmyonRelationshipsdo you have more on your story and how you and your wife pieced things back together….?

[@ahhfshealthandwellness3056]

Thank you for being vulnerable in your content. Great video. Thank you.

[@JimmyonRelationships]

Thank You for this!! :)

[@idkwhodos2840]

Agreed 👍🏼 Your sharing your story makes you so much more relatable and trustworthy.

[@mjosheehy]

Does this therapy only work with people who can self reflect, or are emotionally mature? My ex never admitted he had responsibility for anything.

[@TheTish]

I was tying to say this and couldn't articulate, but you did it. Thank you.

[@ohflippityflapjacks]

Jimmy, I just wanted to say thank you... I unexpectedly am dealing with my husband deciding on to suddenly separate as our relationship has not been well in years, and I am learning now we were asking for the same things but not in the right ways. I have been watching your content nonstop over the last few weeks, and this has been so helpful. I am holding out for reconciliation, but I don't expect it to work out... but this has been so good to help towards a better me.

[@joanamontenegro4641]

You’re not a therapist or a coach but you are a thoughtful caring human and what you say matters.

[@Alexaelokin369]

You should be an amazing coach and therapist!!!! You are brilliant! Have you seen the work of Judith Richards? The Richards Trauma Process? She is a dear friends and her work has saved thousands of lives… but she is NOT a therapist or coach either(; tell her I sent you. Alexa Elokin. ❤

[@veritas1177]

I keep finding people who are untitled that are unbelievably amazing in the field. How you come to grow your gift simple happens. And we're blessed for it..

[@classactracing]

Vulnerability is the driving force of connection. It's brave. It's tender. It's impossible to connect without it. But it seems society has turned it into a weakness. We’ve made ourselves ‘strong’. We’ve toughened up, hardened up and protected ourselves from being hurt. You can feel it when someone is not being real with you. Energy never lies. Time is too valuable to be wasted on anything less than love, good vibes and happiness. Specially with no guarantee of tomorrow. Connect and grow❤

[@HelloTuuuurdz]

Beautifully said 🙌🏾🫶🏽❤️

[@trueUncleJunior]

I am heartbroken to hear that Sue has left us. She has been battling cancer for the last 3 years but has given such great interviews.😢😢😢❤❤❤❤

[@ittt6339]

Start teaching empathy at an early age and continue teaching it all through high school. It's so easy. Someone said to me, "You can't teach empathy - either people have it or they don't." WRONG! The problem is not teaching empathy at a young age.

[@idkwhodos2840]

I remember watching a child development programme years ago and they said that empathy is largely a learned emotion. A naturally non-empathetic child can learn it by example - but sadly a naturally empathetic child can have it beaten out of them (physically or emotionally). Early years nurturing is so important ❤

[@BeautyForAshes-h6w]

This protest polka describes engagement in the typical “mismatch” of attachment styles between and anxious and an avoidant. It is SO important to distinguish between this and the reality of a relationship riddled with serious narcissistic tendencies in one partner. It sounds so close to the same, but it is QUITE A DIFFERENT ANIMAL.

[@Noemi-u2m]

Could you make a video about men not asking questions on dates (and in general)? It's really hard to find men who reciprocate conversation.

[@christinekitchiner66]

Absolutely! I often leave the date wondering are they even interested in me in the sense of my thoughts feelings, beliefs wants needs etc...

[@elizabethfindlay5752]

I want recommend the book "Hold onto your kids" why parents need to matter more than peers by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and Dr. Gabor Maté. It's right up the alley on this topic!

[@punyashloka4946]

Oh please, parents themselves are fucked up as hell.

[@brynne77]

Dr. Sue Johnson says 'you have to teach empathy in schools.' That could be a great idea. But I have noticed and read something about empathy and Smartphones. I read that if young and older people stare at their phones a lot, the phones can actually ruin the part of your brain that develops empathy. I can believe that because I have noticed how people (usually young people) have become more mean, irritable and hostile after they've spent a lot of time looking at their phones. So if teachers and parents start making students put their phones away more often, these students might be more likely to develop more empathy because their brains will be allowed to develop it.

[@theprodigalson4003]

Idk about all that. People were pretty apathetic back in Victorian era, I don’t think it’s a thing about phones but could be wrong. Pretty sure it’s the stuff they’re consuming on the phones rather than the act of looking at the phone

[@brynne77]

@@theprodigalson4003 It could be both. I can believe it. I know my generation (I don't know how old you are, but I'm in my 50's) were much nicer and more respectful and we didn't have Smartphones or social media.

[@jenniferfuertes2668]

Seemingly so simple, but SO BRILLIANT & PROFOUND! The light bulbs were going off like crazy. She def needs to be front page NYTimes! It woulda been a perfect Valentine article!❤ thank u for finding her and sharing her, Jimmy! I totally appreciate you too. If folks could just have a few ounces of the open minded self awareness you have, so many arguments could be avoided.

[@gretchenoswald6934]

Jimmy, this was an amazing interview. Im running out to get her books. Thank you for sharing your story. Im learning so much from you and your videos. And your skits are very visually helpful. You found your gift, thank you for sharing it with the world!❤

[@BeautyForAshes-h6w]

I LOVE the analogy of relationally isolated people and a fish out of water! Starving for air (connection), we thrash around and do all sorts of weird things. So good!

[@cellosong]

You cheated and you took responsibility for it. I'm sorry you had to live through such a mistake, but you have obviously learned a lot from it and I hope your wife can fully forgive you. Thank you for all the wonderful laughs and insights you share in your work. You are making a positive difference in the world for people who really need your content and humor.

[@alexleggett6270]

great interview! You guys are absolutely correct about the fact that kids are not taught emotional intelligence in school but we need to learn trigonometry

[@kicsms_science3729]

I can't speak for any other schools, but the ones I've taught in absolutely address social/emotional learning (SEL) through counselors & advisors. Some of the pushback comes from parents ("Why are you wasting time on this?!? This won't help them get into UGA!") and the students themselves ("OMG, why are we doing this AGAIN? We, like, already know all this!")

[@TheBubbleob]

@jimmyonrelationships Your point about how people comment "why should I take advice from someone who cheated?" Brings to mind a parallel of 'the same reason you listen to drinking advice from the guy with a 20 year AA coin" if that makes sense.

[@ESK_Kowald]

Sues work helped save our marriage ❤ forever grateful and everyone 💯 needs to hear her work and know these things! Thanks for sharing this ❤❤❤

[@slavenanikolova6260]

By the way Jimmy, I love the thirst in your eyes to learn and discover the golden nuggets of wisdom and enlightment the conversation has to offer.

[@helenalderson6608]

She's fantastic! So are you. Helped me recognize a bit of work I still need to do on myself😮

[@theprodigalson4003]

58:40 I think I just realised why “families” control a lot of wealth. It started with one person. Emotionally starved. With trauma that ran deep and shaped him, and he wasn’t as lucky to have someone like these two to help them and guide them onto the right way. So they go deeper into their beliefs. And eventually start a family foundated on those beliefs. And they get passed down. Emotionally starved people unable to love, become parents to same kinds of children. It probbaly turns more vile along the way to the point a family does criminal acts, in order to control their wealth. We wonder how these kinds of people can control the world how they could do such things, but is it really that hard to comprehend, if they didn’t have love in their life as a child, and without the internet, was all they’ve ever known. It makes perfect sense to me

[@maggiemills2098]

Good job with the interview. Such difficult subject matter, I too know these skills that were discussed could heal most relationships. Hard to do by oneself. But I press on, very encouraging.

[@shellygraham2194]

Bought the Kindle version. Looking forward to learning more. We have both voiced we don't feel heard & we don't feel safe and neither of us intentionally hurt each other.

[@crfeeding6514]

I am single but fully intend on getting her book to learn and better equip myself for future relationships.

[@TrentGoss-f3h]

Hugs are great. Used to be the hug fairy for my friends when I was a teen.

[@GinaK687]

Love your channel Jimmy; thank you for providing us with this helpful interview and for being so candid about your past, as well!

[@L_W748]

Rest in peace Sue! Us therapists and relationship advocates will carry your legacy and keep love alive just as you would have wanted!

[@MellowBellow1]

Jimmy. I absolutely LOVE Susan. What an inspired interview. Thank you. I’m not sure if you have seen any recorded sessions of hers. …? But the earth moves. She’s a total LEGEND.

[@KatieB33]

Everyone does need to know this! I’ve had two failed marriages but it’s my relationship with my adult children I’m trying to heal. We constantly do the polka and get no where.

[@jackiemorris8027]

Thank you👏❣️🥰❣️👏 My husband was conceived and grew in a mother that had extreme grief from losing a son to death as a small child while riding in his red wagon 😥 Then-raised in a family the same parents affected by dad’s alcoholism ghosting for months and months in and out , moody ,etc He ghosted me in 2020 after I asked one during lock down / Covid experiencing nothing but silence why he could not talk time yet had o problem initiating sex🤔 I was hurting and wanted connection and actual colaboration🥰 He has never returned and never responded to any way I have tried to communicate and stay in contact saving our relationship💔😥💔 Yes I am starving desperate and broken He is now on heart medication and meds for Depression He totally avoids conversation and conflict He hits the road on his Harley and lives now alone in a RV in some one’s back yard in Texas close to his siblings states away from our home and kids in Ohio 😥

[@AaronCCorbin]

So sorry to hear this. I hope things work out well 🙏

[@Ribas_darkkissa]

He has most likely a fearful dismissive avoidant attachment style due to the chaotic family environment he grew up with. Learn about it and send him prayers, love him from afar, because most likely you are the anxious codependent attachment style that just pushed him away, dismissive avoidants run away from anxious emotionally dependent partners. So focus on your own healing and your children! ❤️‍🩹 I have the same relationship dynamic but we are always close because my children’s dad is fully committed to being in their lives. Your husband will probably come around when his life really falls apart, his health already started to do that.

[@lindaaugust3109]

Jimmy, you are the Jay Shetty for relationships. LOVE all the help you are providing. 😊

[@Dd94949]

She's so funny and cool. RIP Sue.

[@SolsticeOnAnOdyssey]

This is so good. I definitely had an ah ha about my ex husband and hopefully how to do it better with a future relationship. Thank you Jimmy for making this possible and your humility

[@lightbeingform]

dr. johnson is brilliant, and so straightforward and earnest

[@luvbabybella]

Did she say "chocolate covered people"? Did I hear that incorrectly?? 🤔

[@wildrose5357]

Can’t wait to listen to this! Having Sue on your channel is great testament to your dedication to help couples. Great work!!!

[@slcollazo.2911]

Jimmy, I love this content. I’d also like to see you talk on understanding God’s love for us as our Heavenly Father and how important it is to embrace. When we don’t, (because of our past dysfunctional relationship with our biological father’s), looking for love in all the wrong places to fill that void happens. I speak from first hand experience in being a trauma and abuse survivor in very toxic relationships. It led me of become a CCLC to heal from the stress I endured and I wrote two books on my healing journey, (working on my 3rd). Once I began to understand how much my Father God loved me, the void was filled and I went on to heal this very deep seated wound. 👍

[@pixiepianoplayer114]

Hoping this resource can help relationships, especially in young couples before they commit fully. Thank you Jimmy and Sue, you're legends. ❤ All I can do is use the info for self healing and future relationships. 😊

[@javieraguirre9135]

Strength is about see, understand and process our vulnerabilities not about vulnerability denial That's important to understand to those "macho" and mostly bad called "alphas" a real alpha knows who he is and is not afraid of being vulnerable cause he knows how strong he is

[@dr.florence]

I literally had this experience with my new guy yesterday!!!! exactly that!!! 🧡

[@sayusayme7729]

Brilliant and wonderful work. I’m learning so much. My willingness will allow me to create better relationships with others as I accept the intense challenges. Going to be brave and open. Never married at 63, okay and grateful as I wasn’t ready, really. Sometimes round hole, square peg. Thank you

[@sayusayme7729]

“Emotional music”, love that. Taken it easy. Wonderful work, thank 😂

[@seropia]

I wonder how much of the emotional disconnection is because of the forced interactions between workers and customers. People can tell when an interaction is authentic or not, and our world is predicated on inauthentic interactions. But I wonder how much more we crave connection from those strong ties because of how weak those weak ties are? There's an obvious issue when one partner doesn't have friends of their own, but I also wonder about the lack of meaningful connection in daily life affecting our intimate relationships.

[@onefitgrit14]

I want everyone to know about this!!! What a great interview! Thank you both! 🙏 Here’s to more love and understanding!!🙌

[@lishlovesyou]

I'd love to hear what the next steps for couple #1 is, because as it was left we have a wife who still isn't getting what she needs/is asking for and now has to tiptoe around her partner's feelings.

[@idkwhodos2840]

As a working class cockney I can confirm we are well 'ard!😅

[@clearinnerfocusmindsetcoaching]

Awesome interview. Congratulations for securing it and facilitating such a helpful conversation.

[@MaikeDreuth]

Dear Jimmy Thank you so much for this video. ARE - accessible, responsive, engaged -> Yes, that's it! I grew up with people who were not able to do that. I worked with people who were not able to do that. I met so many men who were not able to do that. The result is a nearly unbearable pain. Could you do a video on that? The impact of not being ARE? It is huge and so often gets cut off. I am sure many people would feel seen and heard in their pain. ❤

[@kellyoneill189]

She's such a treasure! Thank you both.

[@magicmegan4290]

This is exactly what I have thought about the school system! We can learn all the math & science but if we can't communicate, or have good relationships it doesn't matter peryou can have all the knowledge in the world but if you don't have love it's all meaningless. We can't assume kids will learn this from their family because because many families are dysfunctional. The whole point of having a public school system is to raise a generation of human beings that will be "functional" members of society.... Yet we neglect our very human nature of how we function!!!!!!!

[@linzletitbe3796]

Love your honesty and you are vulnerable with your audience and I think advice from you is priceless

[@seanhenry6216]

epic... this is the result of your effort to create lots of good content, which then sets the foundation and demonstrates quality for these great laborers to come and share It seems like they are able to see (whether they knew previously or not) or feel the uality and let loose like this and give us such amazing insight.

[@NUCLEARMAMA1313]

Oh man...I just got a slap in the face...so my ex would actually ASK for a hug...and I told him I wasn't a hugger...and I was the 1 in the relationship wanting that sex all the time 😢 My eyes are opening to the error of my ways 😔

[@slavenanikolova6260]

I love your content and always felt that no one teaches us in life, what we really need to know in life, love and creating human beings around us, not only children but partners and friends.

[@abc111xyz]

Thank you so much 💗☮️💞 26:15... great picture ... not see the ball ... instead see the whole game ... reminds me how we played in childhood badminton on the street until dark... we counted the succesful hits ... win win for both .... and both childs where in a really joyful flow and forget the world around 💗☮️💞

[@punkysullivan5538]

So if I am angry but me being angry is legitimate in the situation but my anger makes my partner feel bad how am I supposed to feel all my feels and if my partner is the source of the anger (frustration) so if they didnt do X, I wouldnt get angry and then they wouldnt be upset.

[@Jeannine117]

4287 views and only 400 likes? Listen peeps! This video is spot on as someone said earlier!

[@melikasajadian3166]

Thank you Jimmy for this interview! Your content is already brilliant and gets better everyday ❤

[@katyjk6301]

I love your KZbin clips, Jimmy! Thank you Dr. Sue Johnson- feels like a lot of friendly reminders❤

[@HelloTuuuurdz]

I LOVE her spirit! Everyone does need to learn this! ❤

[@CuttheCrazy]

Thank you Dr. Sue Johnson for taking the time for us!!

[@soydansogukcesme470]

I call half way CAP and BS.. i mean ofc she hase a point.. but show me woman who will behaive that way and will not choose a handsome 6,2 foot guy instat of a man who will be emotional available.. all of a suddon the woman who understands that is 28 or 36 and halfway old..

[@TrentGoss-f3h]

Wonderfully explained

[@marijo287]

29:45 looking for love that won't blow off our covers. We can't have both love and a cover

[@angelagriffiths8032]

‘We do it anyway’ because we are still attached to our mummy and daddy ‘s version of love. This will never be the same as Gods version.

[@angelasnedaker1999]

My husband and I recently finished a class based on Sue's "Hold Me Tight" book - it was a turning point in our marriage after 24 years. I had been ready to call it quits. It changed EVERYTHING! Having vulnerability in our communication created a deeper bond than I dreamed possible. I am so grateful for the work you both do. ❤ Favorite moments: 38:31 Cutting the lawn doesn’t make up for emotional distance 26:27 How do you know how to hold when you've never been held? How do you read someone else's emotional cues when you've always felt completely unseen? How do you know how to talk about your emotions when you don't even have names for them? 39:19 Couples in demand/ withdrawal patterns are starving emotionally. 47:00 conversation on damage of emotional isolation 1:00:00 Even if you don't learn about it, you will be affected by it 1:01:20 the best predictor of how physically healthy you are is the quality of your relationship

[@idkwhodos2840]

Oh that bit about mowing the lawn really got me too! 'Well it was written by a man so...'🤣🤣🤣

[@angelajones4470]

Excellent interview!!! So much to process!!

[@jeannemoreland7466]

Empathetic language is hard for me. Many times I don’t have words for what I am feeling. I was not given life tools. I was not given the knowledge on boundaries, self’s, any of it. I need to work on myself but don’t know how to. I need help but can’t afford it. I am willing.

[@rclearlyseen1113]

Sue's book Hold Me Tight has a chart listing many different root feelings. I showed this to my husband (who is like you) and asked him, "were you feeling __, or ____, or ____ from that list, and he was able to identify it easily that way. I recommend getting the book and looking at that list. I sure hope it helps you as much as it helped us. 😊

[@fryxguy]

Thank you! This is a wonderful interview that I needed to hear.

[@takekammuri]

"Well a man wrote that book". Shaaaaaaaaaaade. Mr Chapman must be feeling the burn.

[@Ana-do8yq]

Well that was incredible. Thank you Jimmy

[@joannegild8001]

He says he doesn’t ever initiate physical affection, but he responds if I initiate it.

[@user-rj5ld9gk6u]

❤Thank you for this upload it's so needed.

[@TrentGoss-f3h]

We celebrate our successes together, idealistically yes.

[@bethra.flowers]

❤❤❤ So Good! Thank you!

[@anthia007]

Thank you, this was really eye opening.

[@Linda-wv7ck]

So grateful that I found you and that I also got to hear Sue Johnson!

[@ry2yb]

Thanks Jimmy!

[@shellygraham2194]

Absolutely loved this! So needed 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@angelagriffiths8032]

I’ve danced the protest polka in my marriage of 30 years. It harmed my husband and myself in large ways but it harmed our children in huge ways which I regret massively. All of my so called ‘polka’ was my childhood trauma surfacing as addictions to avoid them. ‘Real healing is loving myself so no one else has to’ Jesus.

[@angiem9116]

You rock Jimmyyyyyy!!! This is amazing!!!

[@destinybrown7823]

Jimmy, what if my partner has succeeded mostly dropping being defensive as a response when I share how I’m feeling or more specifically, how their actions contributed in some way whether intentional or not in the hurt of my feelings… HOWEVER, they just say “I understand.” “I get that.” “That’s fair.” And that’s all they say? I find often I’m trying to have conversations where he engages more than only acknowledgement. It isn’t enough. I’ve explained to him how I need more engagement than that and asked why do you think you have so little to respond / the short responses? He said he doesn’t know. Well, if you don’t know why you do something or why it’s happening , how can you correct it? Leaves me in a weird place. I want that engagement, curiosity and to get my needs met, while also creating a safe space for my partner… but if he can’t find the words or doesn’t have them, that continues to deplete me of the emotional connection I’m craving. Any advice on this one?

[@kirstenkreativ3078]

Thankyou for an amazing conversation. I'm getting to listen to all this helpfull wisdom again ❤❤

[@Mimimia306]

That's it! I've been doing the "Protest Polka" Now I have a name for it, I can find a new way to dance! Looking forward to reading her book. I'm so sorry for the loss of such a beautiful and knowledgeable woman. 😢

[@DonnaRigsby]

I love this. It makes so much sense.

[@chrisP78]

Great, insightful interview. Thank you both for your work! Jimmy, I wish your content would be in German so I could share it here. Your work is a blessing. Danke. 💚

[@Jess-wk5jo]

Hi i have question I have question for you over affairs. All i what know if i can have affair without having no sex? What type of affair would be just romantic without having no eww sex . Texting Meeting up Talking to them on phone Hugging Kissing Holding hands Watching films Laughing with stephen who i am seeing behind morgan back Watching high school musical that got Zac Efron in it that me and Stephen like . Is emotional and physical affair without having no sex or friendship What type of affair would be

[@joannegild8001]

I am 84 and I’ve been dating a new guy for two years. I never expected to date again after my husband died 4 years ago. He zeroed in on me in the bereavement group. He’s so great in so many ways, but he’s the first man I’ve ever had romantic feelings for who is avoidant. It’s an education!

[@HeavenestStCyr]

Your motivation at 19:00 is passion