RELATIONSHIP REAL TALK growing pains, inner work, dating, breakups, friendships & family Q&A

[@leahsfieldnotes]

It’s only been 2 years but quarantine made it feel like 5 😅 thank you to everyone who submitted their personal questions to my Instagram story! I want to do a career/life path/school pressure real talk next since we’ve both gone through our career pivots from what we studied in university to what we do as our jobs 👀 so stay tuned for that IG story to submit questions!!

[@leticiasaraiva212]

i would be glad to have some uni advices for those who's still struggling with it :') such an amazing topic to talk about leah!~ i'll look forward!!!!

[@td6220]

I'm really happy to see this video, it's crazy how some things come when you needed it the most. Thanks for putting this video out here, I'm looking forward to the next one. Academic year is coming and it might be helpful to see it. Have a nice day ☀️🌻

[@sarasgarden7364]

Yaaas i would love it, I'm in this moment where i start to become a real adult with age and maturity and this process of choosing what i want for my life is stressing me out lmao

[@medkip]

yes please!! i'm going back to school this fall after a 2-year mental health break and my school/career plans have changed immensely in that time ;-;

[@mercyduran5529]

I loooved this video 😍😍😍♥️

[@zoeunlimited]

You are the most authentic and genuine couple I’ve ever seen online 🙌🏻 also Leah breaking down at the boba shop bc of too many options is TOO PRECIOUS🥺❤️

[@elena-lp2fx]

omg zoeeeee never expected you to be in here. Uwu my two favourite KZbinrs interacting at each other

[@Eliiiilulu]

Zoeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 🥺🥺

[@sonialasong7465]

@@Eliiiilulu 11

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

My heart is melting

[@usc_thehubz1446]

momi...

[@nicoleguevara1107]

they broke up

[@HitomiMochizuki222]

I am absolutely in love with this video. So aesthetic and so real and sweet 🥺💞🥰

[@anahelena405]

my two favorite KZbinrs at the same place. is this heaven? :)))))

[@yeyzee]

ily hitomi

[@bhavyakum4r]

pls i love both of u sm

[@dianalein.]

Damn, Leah! Hitomi is here 🦋😳

[@jaeeponde3508]

I relate SO HARD to Andrew's upbringing!! My parents never agree on anything and just shut each other out which has so evidently seeped into the way I handle conflicts not just in relationships but even friendships and stuff. It was so cool to relate to someone and be like DAMN SAME THOO

[@grog_]

SAME

[@chloevanluu4011]

you’re not alone, same here as well

[@angadbawa4302]

[@anya-yn8qf]

Same here

[@bahar-ox1ln]

seeing such a healthy and happy relationship just makes me so happy.

[@lyalya6860]

Yayyy it gives me hope lol

[@sena1899]

Same

[@jamilly8670]

yesss

[@sridevisudhahar309]

really and truly...wishing that you all will find what you're looking for :)

[@bahar-ox1ln]

@@sridevisudhahar309 you too

[@SB-jx7go]

It helps to reframe COMPROMISE into COLLABORATION. You’re building something together, not fighting for territory.

[@leahsfieldnotes]

THIS!

[@enzogalvao9054]

40mins of leah & andrew WE WON!!!! 💖😭💖

[@eatscherries]

as someone who's gone through the strict parent experience, talking maturely was not an option and what worked for me was just simply growing up, becoming my own person making my own decisions and I had begun blocking out my parents from the decisions in my life, time and especially body. so boundaries and distance was the solution when it felt like any conflict might have permanently damaged our relationship

[@gabrielanuncio2345]

same! eventually they will understand that y'all are different persons, or maybe they wont... but you have to make peace with it

[@Janedottie]

I totally agree with you.

[@thebeesycorner]

Reading your comment felt like a weird out of body experience. I’ve had strict parents too, and we were really close; but last year I’ve started to feel like growing quite distant from them and we have quite a conflictuel relationship nowadays. We are trying to find solutions and trying to talk about it but reading about people having that same experience made me feel better somehow. Thanks !

[@loftybirds]

this inspired me to talk to my partner once they wake up…. just to REALLY catch up

[@phosphenevision]

Haha this sounds menacing

[@loftybirds]

@@phosphenevision It wasn’t it went really well actually 🥰

[@rashirashi04]

@@loftybirds thats awesome!

[@gabimaza780]

The reason this relationship works is because you both want it to and you’re willing to meet each other in the middle and that’s love.

[@caratrinidad4317]

(i've literally never commented on a yt video before but i just had to say) super agree that you're a product of the people you surround yourself with! i'm also really picky about who i follow online because i know it directly influences the type of person i wanna be! having said that, leah's one of the few people that's obviously a positive influence and we're all privileged to somehow "spend time" with her (andrew too!) thanks for just being you!

[@catherinepeng5028]

AGREE SO MUCH!!! i used to follow very different people online (compared to who i follow now), and i realized that they were not the kind of person i want to be. it's really important for me now to really consider the media i consume, because even if i know i'm seeing something that's bad for me, it'll still have a subconscious effect. it makes me happy to know that i genuinely love the people i interact with online.

[@adyfern]

[@patronofthearts]

I was in a toxic relationship for 3 years, when it ended I thought my life crumbled (even though the relationship was mutually abusive). I learnt a lot from that relationship, and swore I’ll be better and never act like that again. So when I met my current partner, I tried to be a better communicator and learnt to love and care for someone (and myself) unconditionally. We’ve been married for a year now and everyone tells us we are the happiest couple. If you just came out of a relationship, don’t give up, something better will come for you:)

[@meemeelipota]

Hey I have a little personal question, don't answer if you don't want to! But when u broke up with ur ex, did you feel a weight lifted off ur shoulder?

[@patronofthearts]

@@meemeelipota hi I was in a lot of grief at first, there was a lot going on like moving his stuff out, so it was more burden than relief. Once I recovered from the situation, I recognized how much I wanted the breakup and asked myself why it took so long to happen.

[@Kiwikick238]

@@patronofthearts sorry to keep this going it’s ok if you don’t respond I have a question too. If you ended the relationship ship what finally clicked in your head? I have a friend who’s I’ve a toxic and abusive relationship and they just “celebrated” their 3 year anniversary. Our close circle of friends have seen her brake down multiple times over their breakups and get back togethers. She’s told us she doesn’t love him anymore but she doesn’t know how to live without him... idk sorry lmao we just don’t know what else we can do for her seeing her so hurt

[@patronofthearts]

@@Kiwikick238 I have friends who are in similar situations, but there is little you can do other than being there for them when they need you (because I can tell you are a good friend). I can’t speak for her, but I can speak from my own experience, hopefully it could provide some insight. Sometimes our perspective gets warped when in an unhealthy relationship long term, for example, when things are difficult, it becomes “a testament for true love”, or romanticize it, like “misunderstood love”. When others objected or criticized the relationship, it made me want to revert to the familiar (the relationship/partner), and would make up excuses for the relationship to try to justify the bond, almost like Stockholm syndrome. What your friend describes sounds like separation anxiety, it’s very scary leaving what you regard as a source of love and care and comfort for 3 years, even if others disagree. Once you lose your perspective, it’s easy imagine dealing with the current unhappiness (familiar), than dealing with the uncertainty, sadness and loneliness which could be long term. I felt it in so many ways, such as the fear of heartbreak, the stress of moving him out, the frustration of searching and dating…I would rather face the arguments every other day, than the doomed prospect that I imagined. The thing is heart break is temporary, the feeling of independence is freeing, and falling in love again is beautiful. To answer your first question, everything clicked but only after it was over, my view was so clouded and probably so is hers. Considering she has a group of amazing friends like you, she sure is worthy of being loved by someone better. She just have to see it, and none of us can make her.

[@AlliVera]

This is incredibly helpful ! Having this insight on another relationship & what works for y'all is giving me new ways to see how i can be more considerate of my partner & how to avoid potential conflict like Andrew saying he knew a storm was coming, i feel that too sometimes but don't prepare for it 😫 Also me & Dylan have been together for almost 7 years and id like to know how to keep things sexy aswell lol, we're sooo comfortable with each other!

[@athenaclark222]

so fugin sad now they have broken up :(

[@adyfern]

😔💔

[@shellyylovesGod]

I'm still healing from a breakup and been feeling crap about life lately, but this q&a really brightened up my day 😊

[@ianov4273]

Time heals, everything will be okay soon! Stay strong!🤎

[@leahsfieldnotes]

aww sending u the biggest hug!

[@n.niharikaaaaa]

Everything will be okay. ❤

[@amaliaowl]

:(

[@alexwillens6772]

I love Leah but damn I love hearing Andrew talk so much more than usual. He has such a calming masculine energy. All the ideas shared in the video were great, guys, such emotional maturity

[@SupChristineNguyen]

As a new therapist, this was such a great watch. Not only were these really great questions but also you guys answered them so thoughtfully. It's evident that you guys are self aware and try to communicate effectively in the relationship. And its so clear that you both care for each other very much. Big love for you two 💕 -christine

[@blossomtrees271]

you honestly communicate with each other on such a gorgeously miraculous level, it’s incredibly mature and I’m so glad to be able to witness it. I hope your younger viewers watch this video and the other videos where you have spoken about making relationships work, communication issues, not necessarily agreeing or enjoying everything that the other person has opinions on or does and really take in the honesty, integrity and genuine kindness you have for each other

[@konaevans9428]

I still watch this video every year even though I know that you guys split up, but the interaction between you 2 was so healthy which I need to remind myself what healthy relationship looks like.

[@jjstarrprod]

I feel like I became a couple therapist for 40 mins. And I didn't mind it a single bit ! It just went by in a breeze. Confess away all you want ! It's always super interesting.

[@Lucy-gs9dx]

The moment when you discussed how the five people that are closest to you influence you and your life and how you found that watching youtubers with qualities you want to work on etc.. I felt that, but with you! you have made me feel a lot more comfortable with emotion, made me inspired to be more creative in times of blocked up thoughts and overall just made me feel comfortable in my own skin with a focus on self happiness and improvement, so thank you for being that person for so many of us Leah

[@kimsingson3477]

And they broke up..... ... 😒

[@janelfrias6796]

I learned a lot. So many mind opening opinions. Hope you'll make this kind of video too in the future. Thank you so much!

[@danayurie9876]

I would 100% listen to any podcast you guys made, you're both soooo soothing to listen to and I feel like I learn a lot from your videos! Lots of love!!

[@RabailJanjua]

Sad to see you two parting ways. 🥺💔

[@elevelyn.]

and now they’ve broken up 😩

[@Ijlallittleworld1752]

I believe they might get back together. Maybe one day❤

[@UnknownOkay-mo5nd]

@@Ijlallittleworld1752well😭

[@sofiasousa943]

i've been avoiding watching couples vids cause i just broke up with my boyfriend but u guys made me feel like i can still love and be loved and that there's no pressure to it. thankss

[@anja3221]

sending you lots of hugs and love!

[@hebaessa2913]

okay now i am crying so hard

[@doesitchan4279]

I was once criticized for being sensitive, emotional and crying too easily. That is one of the main reasons he decided to break up. I literally cried when Andrew said that he loves all of those qualities of Leah.

[@parij6722]

and now they broke up :(

[@dauriagroux-holt4028]

18:19 I do the Andrew-poker-face and it's my coping mechanism for feeling such extreme shame and guilt for hurting someone I never want to hurt. Working on it! Trying to be better!

[@rozelleroxxy]

LEAH, ANDREW AND EVERYONE ON THIS PLATFORM ARE BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEINGS. THANK YOU LEAH AND ANDREW FOR ANSWERING QUESTIONS, AND STARTING UP CONVOS WE ALL NEED IN OUR LIFE. 🤗 ❤️

[@mckinneymartin3986]

Seeing this healthy relationship that really has a good foundation of friendship too, really helps me feel a little more confident when it comes to relationships whether it’s romantic or friendships. Thank you for this video ❤️

[@wintermoon1948]

the way Andrew talks about the biking part where he fell in love with leah. that's so cute I cannot

[@Shaz-oo8lq]

7:35 "were you falling for the aesthetic or were you falling for me??" said Leah in the most diva-ish cute tone ever 😂

[@kevinyaranon6014]

andrew: i'm not sensitive also andrew: remembers the minor details 😭😭😭😭😭

[@thefitmit]

Ah! my ex had rly similar argument styles to Andrew! Similar upbringing that was mentioned, super independent, mild tempered, kind, but avoidant attachment style and shut down during arguments. He was really emotionally intelligent but not emotionally available especially as I needed more connection. I’m glad Andrew is working on it :-) it requires a lot of unlearning and therapy.

[@Cajafee]

Yaay, the perfect podcast to end my day (german time). My boyfriend and I are very similar to you two. Hearing you talk made me realize even more how I glad I am for our relationship.

[@nixifilm]

never thought I’d be into people discussing about their love/being in love. i also love the fact that i/some ppl dont envy it instead finds it warm-hearted, and its just cool.

[@linairdina270]

I’m not even 2 minutes in and I love how open and honest you guys seem with each other. Excited to watch the rest of this video. I’ve just been through a breakup and it got me feeling all sort of things. Thanks for sharing your love story here 💗

[@shriya5618]

Leah, I just feel happy watching you and andrew talk about your relationship and opinion about everything. It makes me feels like I'm listening to my friends . I love you *cries* thank you for sharing your slice of life with us.

[@sulkypigeon]

Making friends especially when you're anxious and shy is da worst but it really is just like jumping off a diving board. The moments leading up to meeting someone new or starting a conversation can make you feel like ur at the top of the board getting ready to jump, but once you do it you feel great. And every time you do it after it just gets easier and easier. Fellow shy people - outgoing people get scared meeting new people too! We can do it :)))

[@najaeriggs]

Off topic: you wear the cutest comfy clothing!❤️

[@triplechin]

does anyone know where leah got her top? i’ve been googling for a good 2 hours and i’m going insane

[@damiacarter3367]

no cap andrew just opened my eyes a bit on enjoying the time of being single, i can definitely see how it can affect future relationships and your concept of self.

[@renee5156]

been going to therapy but i dont like my therapist and he just made me feel like a disappointment. i can say that your videos are literally free therapy; you made me realize the beautiful things in life, inspired me to grow more, try new recipes, and have more self dates. genuinely cannot thank you enough leah！！💛

[@medkip]

thank you andrew for sharing that you have adhd!! i was recently diagnosed (i'm 22) and never realized how much it impacted the way i handled conflict in relationships. i relate a lot to what you said about needing to leave an argument/take time to process before responding. and talking about things after calming down is sososo helpful!! it really helps put it in perspective that it's usually not a big issue, even if it feels like that in the moment. thanks you two for the amazing and insightful q&a

[@nowaccki]

Congratulations on the diagnosis!! It was a definitely life changing event for me and I’m sure it will be for you too - no matter how difficult situations may be always remember to be kind to yourself in this journey of self understanding 🤍

[@medkip]

@@nowaccki thank you!! so far things have only changed for the better ♥️

[@shanemcinally7092]

it's nice to hear two people talk and cry comfortably over something that makes you feel super vulnerable and realize, "okay, that's something I need to work on."

[@micaela.herrera]

Okay BUT I have adhd too and accidentally interrupting people + oversharing is a def thing with the condition. It's unfortunate because people think we're being rude but we're just excited and can love someone so much we can't help but explode with our feelings and excitement.

[@micaela.herrera]

Also highly highly recommend the KZbin channel HowToADHD because its so informative

[@msanimallover56]

As for girls confessing first... HELL YA I did that to my partner and we celebrated our 7th year anniversary this year

[@veronicadiaries]

these are actually good advice. even for those who aren't in relationships! this is genuinely something that could be useful for yourself and your future relationship🍀🌱☘️💖

[@leahsfieldnotes]

Aww I’m glad u found it helpful!

[@jjchen2000]

it was honestly so refreshing to listen to you and Andrew communicate how you each approach relationships in such a real and open manner! 🥺 the way you guys talk about each other too.. mA HEART 😭❤️

[@crftieph]

Woww I didn't know it's only been two years! Ya'll seem like an old married couple already . very healthy haha congrats and stay strong!

[@alicehani]

I am currently in a rough spot in a relationship and I get so pressured with what people are telling what to do on how to handle it. After watching this, it teaches me that I should also share this with my partner so that we can talk it out and learn more about each other.

[@DarinaAugustaTertia]

As a chaotic and indecisive person, I've especially appreciated that Andrew's part when he says about the chaos he likes that Leah brings in at times. So soothing. You guys really give me hope that there are relationships where one can actually talk and understand each other, unlike in my previous relationships. :]

[@mintylight10]

Why does the thumbnail look like the cover of Asian dramas? Hahah~

[@uzzie6341]

omygosh, i’m early again!! i didnt expect you to upload at this time, it wasn’t the usual time for me(?) if that makes sense. I’ve been struggling at lot with myself, friendships and etc. and this video will definitely help me through your real talk/q&a. i love hearing other people’s thoughts 💭 take care, you guys! 🤍

[@uzzie6341]

i’m at this point in my life where i feel lost, and now i’m currently trying to reconnect and unravel everything from the past up until the present. thank you so much for this video, such a perfect timing ☺️

[@AgnesCarmela]

I was single when i started watching your videos and learned so much from your relationship. And now that i’m in a relationship, i feel like all of the wisdom I learned from the two of you are now integrated in my relationship, and my partner knows that (!) and we’re so good together. So THANK YOU LEAH AND ANDREW for sharing your story to us!! 🙏🏼💖

[@leticiasaraiva212]

40 mins for an online class: it's a no from me 40 mins of my fav couple: yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@leticiasaraiva212]

@@selfcompassionate youre righttttttt

[@audreymusk]

I've been binge watching your videos since I dscovered you about 2 hours ago. Awesome, real channel.

[@lucykuda7573]

actually you use "misiu" when talking to someone because you have to decline nouns in Polish , so the primary version of "misiu" is "miś"((singular)spelled like: mish) anyways, the vid was soooo cuuuteee

[@bluelinnmonade]

Amo a Leah y a su canal, aunque no entiendo ni la mitad de las cosas que dice :'D

[@lauraalexandratorres-skovm7715]

te comprendo;D

[@dianagarcia7042]

Se aprende de poco a poco!

[@crimoneli7642]

in my last relationship, my boyfriend was constantly talking about how we never fought or argued or had disagreements. and in my head, that was a good thing. but i’m now realizing that when i think of arguing with your partner, the only thing i can picture is what i grew up around. my parents have never been able to have a calm argument or disagreement. it’s either they hold in all of their feelings, or it turns into a gigantic, loud, overwhelming screaming match where nothing is resolved. and so when he would say that it was upsetting or weird to him that we never did these things, i was confused. i would think to myself “why would you want us to go through that?” but now i understand that arguments and disagreements and talking about your feelings is normal, and can be done in a healthy way. but MY reaction and the way i express myself is a result of how my parents have always treated each other. he never grew up around that, so to him, he just meant that he wanted me to express myself more and be open and honest with him, not just pretend everything is okay so i don’t “cause issues”. it made me realize i really need to change the way i handle and view conflict with others. because conflict and being open about things that bother you is necessary for a healthy relationship. it’s hard but i hope one day i can learn how to properly communicate instead of either being completely silent or completely exploding at the other person.

[@vanifarron]

Yeah same here. I realized that in my last relationship. I entirely avoided setting boundaries or arguing about anything, because I was so afraid of us ever exploding like how my parents did growing up. But in the end, keeping silent is what made things turn wrong. Like the banana man once said, "It's there's an instruction manual on how to talk to people, and everyone has it except me." We both didn't have good role models growing up, so it is difficult to communicate. So it's also up to us to figure out how to break the cycle of toxicity and work towards healthy relationships. ^^

[@mileycyrusfan4ever21]

when andrew said "god damn im so in love" i audibly awed so loud oh my god yall are precious

[@momomo-wc8nr]

Definitely agree with the point that we are the product of the 5 closest ppl around us. When I was mentally struggling my circle was very emotionally draining, I knew I didn’t like their energy but stuck to them because I wasn’t connected with myself to recognise I’m choosing to stay in an uncomfortable environment. Now I am filled with warm, kind, genuine people and omg once I started working on myself, like really step away from the drama and understand me and my values, I naturally attracted them and continued to learn and grow with their support :) Moral of the story: spend time understanding yourself especially your past, you owe that to yourself! No one is going to care about you when they have their own mental health to figure out. Go into a relationship being whole don’t go into it thinking someone’s going to complete you.

[@emmasplantz]

this video was great. It almost felt like a podcast. Such an honest, raw discussion. You guys seem like a strong pair :)

[@gigingie9642]

i just discovered your channel and honestly… i’m in love. i think i just watched almost all of your videos in one sitting without getting bored or tired and this never happened before so props to u!!!! oh btw LOVE your music taste/the songs you put on the videos are just ✨chef’s kiss✨ (have you ever thought of putting up a public spotify playlist? not sure if you already have one) and the fact you’re VEGAN???? like omg I can’t find one con about watching your videos! one of my favourite things about it is that whenever you do a challenge you always respect yourself and your limits! and that’s sooooooo important! i rarely comment on videos but I just thought you should know there’s someone in brazil who adores you very much! ❤️

[@almudena7646]

I really love the maturity, honesty and self awareness that you guys have and how you are willing to grow and communicate with each other. This video is really inspiring and makes me want to be a better person with myself and with others, honestly.

[@kimberley9289]

OMG a longer video??!! Leah you don't know how much I look forward to your videos weekly 🥺

[@Joyish]

amazing you two! the world needs more of this! so much love!

[@leelsbless]

I’m like writing notes from you guys!! So helpful. Waiting for my somebody to come one day :)

[@adyfern]

the thing about the 5 person closest to you hits, also really want to work on my communication skills, i want to be able to express my feelings without the fear of being judged and you inspire me a lot to make effort and to work on it instead of being passive about it, thank üüüü so much again ate Leah!! such an eye opener 💗💗💗

[@jinheepark249]

Do you thing there’s hope for relationships that are currently toxic or abusive? Can’t tell if that’s just my optimistic nature or the trauma coming through

[@_anaflavia_]

Guys, this was so so good and healing. Ugh, I’m looking for a boyfriend. UNIVERSE, ARE YOU SEEING THIS?

[@soup_111r]

Hey, long time no see. I really missed watching your videos and hope you’re doing well. :) I discovered your Channel for me now already a year ago and with it how fun it is to build outfits (I loved your outfit videos

[@jaykimjpg]

you both have an incredibly mature, honest relationship and i learn from watching/hearing your thoughts - really loved this video 🤧

[@leahsfieldnotes]

🥺💗ty bb

[@madelinerindon]

happy two years !! you guys are the some of the loveliest people on this earth 🥰😩💓

[@luvj0ngt4k]

it's honestly so touching and comforting to see you two being able to be so open, to care for each other the way you do and also being able to share advice and more personnel things with us :,> it makes me very happy, kinda feels like talking to an older sister and her boyfriend eheh

[@sosunayildiz5574]

i love listening to you guys talk so much! (and that just reminded me that i've been meaning to check out your podcast but i keep forgetting haha) thank you leah for these type of videos where you just talk and share your experience and just all of your content in general, i feel like i've learned so much just by listening to you, even tho we are (i think) about the same age. that just shows even more how much we can all learn from each other and help each other grow as people and i love that :) and i also adore lovely stranger interactions so if you should ever in the future by coincidence, for whatever reason be in munich, i can show you my fav spots

[@leahsfieldnotes]

Awww thank u sosuna! I would love to go back to Munich one day and float down the Englischer Garten with you 🤗 can’t wait to learn from you too!!!

[@sosunayildiz5574]

@@leahsfieldnotes aw 🥺 i would love that!

[@lydiagan]

This has got to be the most genuine and straight cutest relationship QnA I've ever watched

[@dramaticallysane]

never clicked on a video so fast!!! Love your content and thank you for inspiring me to make my own channel

[@afra9716]

so nice to hear you both have a genuine and a real conversation. having that person around you 24/7 must feel super reassuring and comforting.

[@fizzyissie]

Off topic, but could you share with us where your top is from? It's sooo cute!! thank you :)

[@JujulianaFan]

I think this is my favorite video yet... I love to hear y'all talk in a lovely park :) been listening to this on the background while studying for my next pulmonology exam! thanks for being my (virtual) companions!)

[@luvs7343]

WHAT'S ANDREW'S ZODIAC?!!!!!! im a gemini, dated Aquarius and Leo, currently dating a Virgo, I feel connected to my virgo boi but you guys are such goals 🥺❤️

[@ivy3420]

who else's bar got higher after this video? where are men like Andrew? com on

[@loafkey]

I clicked on the video and saw how long it it I was so exited! I knew I needed food to have it throughout so I grilled sandwiches, prepared by tea and biscuits. And as I sat back down you asked "are you guys hungry?" heck yeah I am! :D lets eat together now! This makes me real happy :)

[@leahsfieldnotes]

Awwww so cute!!!!

[@Hopeホープ]

This was amazing! I love how open you two are, you give some great advice too! The one about ‘shooting your shot’ resonated with me!! Just over 6 years ago I asked a guy from my high school, that I’d only spoken to at our high-school graduation party, to go and watch a movie with me. Fast forward to now and I’m one week away from giving birth to our first baby, and that boy I asked out is now my fiancé! 🥰 Can’t wait for your next video Leah~~~ 💕

[@jenniferxilonzochilt5321]

lol Andrew explaining how his brain was in a choke hold had me, "Tap out, bish!!"

[@tiramisoowi]

aaah!!,’ your videos are so therapeutic for me to watch and i was so happy to see your instagram story saying that you uploaded LOL, also happy 2 years !!! ╰(✿´⌣`✿)╯i hope the both of you continue to love each other more and more as years fly by and that you stay together for a looong loooooong time (｡’▽’｡)♡

[@ola-kx7ww]

you guys are really motivating me to work on myself whenever I feel lazy and unwilling to think and reflect, watching you makes me want to keep growing and learning not only for myself but also for my future partner so I wanna thank you for that

[@strongboy67]

The thumbnail looks like a pic for a romcom kdrama and I’M HERE FOR IT!!!💗💗💗

[@morganpearson8545]

In my relationship I felt I was getting too comfortable too but I found this helps! When you are able to travel, go on mini getaways together. I just went on a drive with my boyfriend of two years, to a tiny house for three nights. It created an even deeper connection and intimacy. It was amazing

[@jessdelight]

It feels like I've grown with you guys, my partner and I will have our 2 years anniversary in a month! Totally feel y'all on the "too comfortable" part lmao

[@isabellas9512]

andrew is in like the 99th percentile of men when it comes to emotional intelligence. guys rarely even think about most this stuff. this is all i want omg 😭

[@daily_hee_5]

I love these kind of video where you talk honestly about everything! it is amazing to know how wholesome relationship you have with each other

[@aleksandranadolna3492]

I need this ruffled blue top/bra it's the cutest! what is it?

[@ireinemyl]

40 min of leah and andrew. oK what is sleep anymore im watching !!!! YES YES YES

[@iriswellen]

I admire your relationship so much aghh🥺🥺 you and andrew are my favourites

[@bahar-ox1ln]

This vlog is melting my heart and im so so happy its gonna be a long vlog. I cant stop smiling