My dear brothers, I take God beg you, if she says no, MOVE ON. Talk to God, He has other daughters. As for the ego part, humble yourself before God and before your wife. Be a leader yes, but let her play her role as a help meet. Accept help. I enjoyed this. Thank God for these great women!
@ruthudoka92705 ай бұрын
😂
@oladunnijosephakin3415 ай бұрын
Wow, thanks to the TED I'm getting values to build my home. My marriage will thrive, Amen ❤❤
@simeonadu89325 ай бұрын
How should a brother get prepared to receive a 'no' as an answer from a proposal to a sister?😂 This one sank in my head.🤣🤣🤣 But I'm really blessed.
@Oluwanifemi_Marvelous5 ай бұрын
This episode is insightful and powerful 🔥. Never journey with someone when they've not made their intentions known. Kai, that's powerful. Thank you for being passionate and intentional about us. God bless you, Mama Darasimi, Mama Tolu, Mama Ella. I love you❤
@mitchelnwaokolo2695 ай бұрын
I just shazamed the intro song: "JayMikee - By My Side" - What a beautiful song! I always wondered where the soundtrack came from but never really shazamed it. God bless you all ❤
@AdeoluwawumiAjiboye5 ай бұрын
Thank you. I've been looking for it
@koredestephen97635 ай бұрын
Who else sees D-baba in how Darasimi talks and gesticulates??😂
@moladeye65 ай бұрын
Well done with this episodes to add perspective on the topics bring in 3 matured men(brothers) with different experiences as regards to relationship 1. Brother who has never been in a relationship before or had no female friends around while growing up. 2. A brother who has had failed relationship in the past before his marriage. 3. Lastly a brother who got married on first attempt with a sister. That will add perspective to the discuss that's if they'll be willing to share or answer some of the questions why some guy do what they do. It's like guy trying to analyse women or ladies they may get some facts right but not indepth. Thanks for your helpful insight of the do & don't.
@uchennajideofor5 ай бұрын
Today's for the brothers 😂. May God help us all. Thanks TED!
@emmanuelbolajoko5 ай бұрын
Tolu is looking different Hope nah wetin I dey think Safe delivery in Jesus name I miss you, your pics and that smile especially
@Specialgift94215 ай бұрын
God bless you mamas! My brothers must hear😊
@adeosunopeyemi15815 ай бұрын
Darasimi is so full of wisdom!.. I have learnt a lot from the experiences of others that she shared. Never journey until intention is made known clearly God bless everyone of you in Jesus Name. 🎉
@rachaelaber60885 ай бұрын
This is a great episode surely Wooow!
@gloriakasunmu63165 ай бұрын
May God bless you all and more anointing in the name of Jesus amen❤
@joginahlesetja35505 ай бұрын
"A woman appreciate your efforts..... As a man don't be passive"
@rjayspeaks5 ай бұрын
Very good teaching! God bless you Sisters!
@dawnekeomaunaji94214 ай бұрын
Dara understands when the question Ella asked "How should a brother say no?"
@amyamoah6795 ай бұрын
Thank you TrueTalk with TED! Enjoyed this message, especially with the part on prayer 🙏🏾
@kehindepeter87775 ай бұрын
I was massively blessed GOD Bless You Ma's ✌️
@boluwatifeadeyina18465 ай бұрын
Thank you so much mas. This blessed me. More Wisdom mas in Jesus name.
@HEAVENHOME_TV5 ай бұрын
God will also take care of marriages that springs from His hands and there not be divorce. That does not necessarily means that there will not be challenges or problems. But the truth is when they come, they cannot win.
@oluwatayooyarinde24895 ай бұрын
🎉🎉it's so good to be back here🎉🎉i have missed True talk with TED ❤❤
@mariammartinendoyela5 ай бұрын
Tolu, you will be missed in Abbatoir 😮😮😮
@EstherAdeoye-hd7uc5 ай бұрын
I think she's still coming back😂
@sylviaadaeze33735 ай бұрын
@@EstherAdeoye-hd7uc😂
@Kayblackconcept5 ай бұрын
How will dey wed without the present of there parents
@Techwithernest5 ай бұрын
@@EstherAdeoye-hd7uc She’s not rambo now
@EstherAdeoye-hd7uc5 ай бұрын
@@Techwithernest But I still feel she will come back to life...let's just cross hands and see
@RosemaryTambala5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much TED❤ for another set of Wisdom God will continue blessing you ❤❤
@teeconcept22255 ай бұрын
One month is the max I can go, it's cruel to keep someone waiting for too long, you know that you're mature to be proposed to, you ought to have been praying before anyone even come to you...and you should have your preference of the person you're looking forward to, which aligns with God's purpose for your life...praying for three months after i came to ask you out shows you're not serious 😮
@dennisasare25095 ай бұрын
Very insightful. God richly bless you
@onaolapoolufowokan5 ай бұрын
I was blessed!😊 Thank you! 😊
@AdegbolaOkemade5 ай бұрын
God bless you all my beloved sisters for this programme for highlighting us
@samuel_akins5 ай бұрын
Thanks for shedding more light here Sisters 😊 It's a privilege to learn these ❤
@kingsegunakindoyin22865 ай бұрын
thank you for this episode. on the matter of sisters saying no, where does a brother draw the line, because sometimes we hear that a sister says he didnt even persist when i said no, why do sisters have to keep complicating things and saying what they dont really mean, a brother also doesnt want to be seen as a person who doesnt here word or sturborn
@samuel_akins5 ай бұрын
True talk bro!
@wordsfromheaven5 ай бұрын
Great question! You can go back to God and if she's still the one, ask God to convince her. Still greet her, be kind to her. Don't impose physically. Impose in the place of prayers. Fire her there😂😂. If it's the will of God, She'll come around. If you're persistent, do that with the understanding that God is still involved in it but don't be a stalker.
@simeonadu89325 ай бұрын
@@wordsfromheaven You are right 👍🏿. May God help us.
@phoebehindanmpama5 ай бұрын
A godly sister shouldn't say a fake no to stress somebody's son. With that out of the way, you can go back to God in prayer and stay as brethren. If she is not ready, God will guide you to another viable daughter.
@zenithhro5 ай бұрын
If she says no, pls believe her oooo
@eli-stringz86565 ай бұрын
😂😂 that look at 21:10 is priceless..
@joginahlesetja35505 ай бұрын
😂
@Emmanuel_Abada5 ай бұрын
😂
@ChimaHenry-qi8gx5 ай бұрын
Nice topic right here. All are commentary are well noted.. Thank you
@estherafolabi60833 ай бұрын
Tolu is so funny😂😂😂
@faithdekolo4 ай бұрын
Tolu at 21:54😂
@paulabraham65105 ай бұрын
A prayerful lady gave me a NO after 3 months of telling me to wait as she sought to seek the Lord. God does not go on a sabbatical! I am not sure she was really praying the whole time. But I have learned my lesson... once she's beginning to take more than 1-2 months to decide, I will decide for her...
@narteyobedbaah85675 ай бұрын
😂
@zenithhro5 ай бұрын
Please once you decide for her, let her know so she will stop praying
@adeleyeiroyinayo36775 ай бұрын
😂😂
@Officialmercyatamuno5 ай бұрын
😂😂 your last statement cracked me up 😂 😂 Don't worry yours will come in time. Please don't use the past to judge the next
@teeconcept22255 ай бұрын
One month is the max I can go, it's cruel to keep someone waiting for too long, you know that you're mature to be proposed to, you ought to have been praying before anyone even come to you...and you should have your preference of the person you're looking forward to, which aligns with God's purpose for your life...
@fadaemmanuel67415 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this! God bless you
@MensMechanic5 ай бұрын
The later can never be leaser than thr former 🎯
@timmyxamm60495 ай бұрын
This is great. More grace
@OziomaVictory-rz2qs5 ай бұрын
Wooow!!!! Thank you so much TED. I really learnt a lot though I'm a sister 😂😂😂
@samsonokeseni35575 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing ma
@Footballhighlight07105 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ma (s) TED ❤
@ayotomiwaomidiji25395 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this episode. I Love you Mamas ❤
@HeleeenTalks5 ай бұрын
21:07 That side eyeee
@adebayobosede4845 ай бұрын
You are here for us am ready for you ma'am 💖 love you all
@allaboutyou30575 ай бұрын
Great information Thank you so much
@Oasis_of_Peace20245 ай бұрын
This is so interesting and insightful. Thank you for this episode.
@ilerioluwaakinbade99885 ай бұрын
God bless you, TED! 🙏
@Toluwabori.A5 ай бұрын
Someone once gave me a month to give an answer and didn't even say hello or hi until a month after to check in on his answer ..in the most unfriendly way possible. It screamed RED FLAG😂
@adekunleifeoluwa92155 ай бұрын
probably he was doing so to give you space to pray without affecting your emotion
@faithosarugue54905 ай бұрын
I agreed with you. He probably was giving you time in order not to becloud your reasoning and the likes. I would not take it for red flag.@@adekunleifeoluwa9215
@promiseekanem47805 ай бұрын
@@faithosarugue5490Not a single hi for the whole month?
@omachiimmanuel31235 ай бұрын
@@promiseekanem4780 yeah, I think it's better to give the lady space to think and pray with a clear mind.
@graceoluwadunsin5 ай бұрын
The fact that he gave one month is already a RED FLAG. Lack of patience is not a fruit of the spirit. This is not to say ladies should delay too, but brothers are not supposed to give you deadline for response. The Lord help us all o
@joyceayata56705 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 thank you my beautiful sister's TED
@gracebanda71805 ай бұрын
God bless TED
@jamalashu22695 ай бұрын
God bless you all
@dadadtriples15035 ай бұрын
More grace
@dawnekeomaunaji94214 ай бұрын
Her gesticulation says it all
@vernonsessoms78595 ай бұрын
Great content!
@olamideoladoja6345 ай бұрын
TED when are we having dami and Joshua on the show?
@CrownA-sf2qd5 ай бұрын
Dami and Joshua are truly long overdue to show up on the show
@Mavis-lm2fb5 ай бұрын
Please sisters when are having dami and Jaymikee on the show
@victorynchendia93025 ай бұрын
I agree. When?
@oluwatosinolowookere70465 ай бұрын
Why are you eager to see them🌚🌚🤪
@olamideoladoja6345 ай бұрын
I just felt I have never seen them on the show that is why I am asking?@@oluwatosinolowookere7046
@TIOLUWANIJoseph5 ай бұрын
Thanks, I am blessed
@olanrewajuside93405 ай бұрын
Am blessed ❤❤❤
@HEAVENHOME_TV5 ай бұрын
Brothers should always know that, God created the garden of Eden before creating Adam. 2. God made provision for Adam before before bringing in Eve. 3. Eve was not a problem to Adam as long as she had all she needed in the garden until she broke boundaries by going after pleasure. Genesis 3:1
@dinangakizito9035 ай бұрын
@@HEAVENHOME_TV but the society has changed, so rules of engagements are now different. We cannot always refer to Adam and Eve as a good setting in modern time dating.
@toluwalogoademoye80195 ай бұрын
AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
@dawnekeomaunaji94214 ай бұрын
See Titilope's eyesssssssss
@liliannwafor13625 ай бұрын
First to view this video 😂😂😂😂
@ehime91825 ай бұрын
i wish some brother will listen
@imaobongbright57055 ай бұрын
I love this episode. Please what should a brother do if he has received "NO" for an answer twice from different ladies at different occasions.
@zenithhro5 ай бұрын
Keep trusting God for your own. Also, keep developing yourself.
@adedoyinolamide62665 ай бұрын
Now I know it's a general thing. They don't like "no" as an answer. Lol😊
@christiansalvationist23245 ай бұрын
let me comment before i watch, i am certain it will impact me
@factsandopinions5775 ай бұрын
Brothers accept NO and move on.
@KulwaMasalu-pr9cc5 ай бұрын
Praise Jesus, I greet you in the name of Lord Jesus Christ. Ive been a club member for sometime now and i got a question but its on Ladies side. As a 25yrs lady Christian and Fully engaged in knowing the will of God in friendship and more😅 between a brother and sister, I find it hard to open up to a brother and tell him that IM STILL PROVING MYSELF AS A WOMAN WORTH OF MARRIAGE. How do i deal with that while knowing that He is the One? Your beloved sister 🇹🇿
@fomenkykelly9655 ай бұрын
I think we’re never fully prepared for anyth (by our standards)- but God is our perfector.. take a step with the knowledge you have.. trust God all the way
@Friday-gy2qe5 ай бұрын
How long can a relationship last before marriage....? I suggest you discuss on this as well.... By the way, Thank you so much, I've been blessed
@oangulu5 ай бұрын
Ladies you need to have another edition of this topic handled by married brothers.
@adewuyioyin80615 ай бұрын
Yes.. exactly We want an edition of this topic with Mr Dami Bamiloye,Mr Joshua Bamiloye and Pastor Oyor please...let's hear from the married men too for an all around knowledge. Thanks dear sisters. More Grace
@factsandopinions5775 ай бұрын
So what you are saying is you want to hear from married brothers so you can agree with what they are saying? Are yoy people not the one always complaining about how they only focus on the sisters and they should also talk to the brothers? There are different programs held by men, go and watch those ones or yoy want this one by TED and digest it.
@AjayiEmmanuelademola5 ай бұрын
Most times we do not know maybe it is science culture or not yes so if I me include . I will say is of no need telling us the place
@tamarabebedenyefaogunuku5 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@AdenikeBlessing-x8r5 ай бұрын
Please TED How can I relate with someone dat love to seeing me be Sad, They don't like seeing me being happy or doing fine, What can I do to dis cand of people. I use to live in darkness and sadness before since long time ago, but Jesus revival me now! I have peace in Him. But to dis cand of people, I don't know what to do. Please help me out
@phoebehindanmpama5 ай бұрын
Someone had proposed to me and before I even started praying, the friends were meeting me one by one to congratulate me. 😮😮😮. Of course my answer was a no at the end of the day.
@OnohJosephine5 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@jeremiahogbadu5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Ebun10115 ай бұрын
28:24 Did your entire family prayerfully see the issue with your brother? Let’s be careful and sensitive because the brother in question was he living in holiness? Sometimes family members can be very wrong in misjudging their intended spouse based on their bias….
@Jeshuron29045 ай бұрын
I am also here
@osenioluwadamilaresakariya47855 ай бұрын
Lol.... I reserve my comments
@tosinflorence62695 ай бұрын
What about if the Brother go back to God and tell God please help me to convince her, if you are the one who truly say she's the one.
@dinangakizito9035 ай бұрын
We are not living in an angelic world.
@EnitanJegede5 ай бұрын
If you and a guy aren't in a relationship and he his giving a green flag but as a lady your intention are pure ,is it proper to collect a gift from him especially on valentine's day as mentioned?
@oladejoeunice51725 ай бұрын
Is like pe we will have to invite our brothers (your husbands) to give us some enlightened in part 2 of this 😂😂. Thanks so much mas, more grace and more wisdom in Jesus name
@peteratim21115 ай бұрын
The No is not always a straight way out, one of my fathers in the Lord received a No and for the second time, she still said no but later came to ask him whether he still had her in mind and they got married.
@adebisiemmanuel48435 ай бұрын
What about when she likes me and wants our friendship it to move to next level and am not in to that what should I do
@zenithhro5 ай бұрын
Let her know and give her a lot of space
@atikekeresoladamilola5355 ай бұрын
It's not ancient time ooo, in my church if you want to propose to a sister you must meet her spiritual head.
@KounouOnana5 ай бұрын
Even in mine and personally I think it is the best method
@Jeshuron29045 ай бұрын
😂😂
@isaiah_Ojo5 ай бұрын
😂
@maiisaac17145 ай бұрын
I know a father that had to keep going for about seven times, before the mummy gave him a yes. All those while, it was a no. They are now married for over 25yrs. What do we say in this case.
@WhiteConcepts5 ай бұрын
Mummy And Daddy Bamiloye, with all due respect ma and sir. Please I need your help in terms of finances for my studies and feeding sir
@kingsegunakindoyin22865 ай бұрын
stop begging....these people have been investing in lives for decades for free, send money to them, not ask
@WhiteConcepts5 ай бұрын
@@kingsegunakindoyin2286 thanks sir but if not necessary I won't ask sir.