Relationship UNCENSORED with Dr. Dharius Daniels and Shameka Daniels

Dr. Dharius Daniels and his wife are going to talk about relationships and how to make them strong and happy. They will share their own stories and what they learned from the Bible to help answer questions you might have. They will talk about the good and the hard parts of relationships and give advice
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Dharius Daniels is a cultural architect and trendsetter for his generation. He is the Founder and Lead Pastor of Change Church. Change Church is a vibrant ministry that impacts people of all ages, socioeconomic classes, and ethnic backgrounds.
He holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in Political Science from Millsaps College in Jackson, Mississippi, a Master of Divinity degree from Princeton Theological Seminary in Princeton, New Jersey, and a Doctorate of Ministry degree from Fuller Theological Seminary in Pasadena, California.
He is married to Shameka Daniels, and they are the proud parents of two sons, Dharius Seth and Gabriel Micah Daniels. Visit Dr. Dharius on the web at www.dhariusdaniels.com.

[@pj3291]

Here's the list: I GOT NEEDS!! 1. Affection 2. Sexual Fulfillment 3.Intimate Conversations 4. Recreational Companionship 5. Honesty and Openness 6. Physical Attraction 7. Financial Support 8. Domestic Support 9. Family Commitment 10. Admiration I believe i got it all down. I'm not married yet, but some parts of this teaching is still applicable to platonic friendships and preparing for when the married season comes around. Enjoyed this very much, thanks for sharing. #ThriveTribe!!

[@deede929]

Thank you!

[@tsekotk]

Thank you ! ✨

[@BRiGHT-CHilD]

Thank you for sharing. God bless you!

[@atypicaltoo]

Thanks PJ! That's right, be ready and not have to get ready when the time comes! But definitely useful in all relationships.

[@blaqbuttafly9683]

Thanks for sharing!

[@bestkksser]

If u are reading this there’s a reason No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone else is desperately fighting for theirs🇧🇸❤️

[@TDJ8329]

❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank You for the Reminder!

[@sheilawaddy3184]

Amen

[@mariemuhammad7983]

We want the world to be BETTER because we got together. 🏆🏆

[@amonmayoyo304]

Affection is not sexual ❤

[@amonmayoyo304]

Trust is built in droplets it's lost in gallons ❤

[@niecysongz89]

“Emotional health doesn’t mean nothing wrong with you, it means you know what wrong with You”

[@azulgato7]

Screaming!!!! My. God.

[@dariahutchinson2262]

… and you work to do something about it…

[@mariemuhammad7983]

You have to give your partner permission to have needs you don’t understand and needs you don’t have. 🔥🔥

[@TG-et9ns]

This is blessing my SOUL! I've been married for 9 years & in the season of needing more. Praying we can use the tools I'm learning to elevate our marriage.

[@mariemuhammad7983]

God resurrects relationships and you can be fruitful, flourish and fulfilled. 🎉🎉

[@Ghanaman93]

“Well how much is milk?” 🤣🤣🤣 PD is a fool, I love their chemistry. Thoroughly enjoyed this!

[@wcroom]

Although I am single. I thoroughly enjoyed uncensored relationships!❤

[@mariemuhammad7983]

We will not settle for less than what God showed us. 💜💜

[@kariukijames128]

It's the transparency for me. I love you guys.

[@amonmayoyo304]

She said conversation is foreplay for me😂❤

[@amonmayoyo304]

She said shamika you also have needs that need to be met too ❤

[@amonmayoyo304]

Its important to have friends so that l talk ro rhem about the less important staff so that when l get to him l talk about the more important staff ,this woman be wise ❤

[@joer8273]

An amazing hour if you’re in a romantic relationship or in a season of preparation for such a blessing.

[@Mrudula...]

1.Fruitful🔥 2.Flurishing🔥 3.Fullfillment 🔥 Nobody runs to what frustrating... Love bank 🙌 Avoid little foxes spoiling the vine🔥 Every interaction making positive deposit or a negative withdrawal 🔥 Study your bank account 👍 I'm expecting stuff from you which I dnt communicate. That means you read my mind 🔥In Kingdom marriage you not saying yes to the row but you are saying yes to the responsibility where you cannot get from any other person 🔥 Meeting your needs which you get only from me will be my highest priority 🔥 Trust is built in droplets but lost in gallons 🔥🔥🔥 Ability to identify is it Peter or Judas...Care what matters to her...Care enough to listen n engage in conversation...I want to know I'm admired by you🔥 If "That" is the only way to get to "This", I would...🔥 God resurrects relationships. Amen 🔥

[@sarahzeno7893]

Magnificent!

[@MobileHomeGeek]

"You must give your partner needs you don't understand and needs you don't have." My Lord

[@amaragrace94]

Right! So profound. I am just like her with the physical affection. I want a kiss good morning, good night, hello, goodbye, and in between. I want hugs, cuddles, hold my hand or offer me your arm to hold, dance with me. I couldn't handle a man that had to basically force himself to do these things. Like imagine trying to hold hands and they pull their hand away. Feels like a dagger. My cup is now empty sir 😂, so don't bother asking for intimacy later🤷🏾‍♀️. I have experienced that one time and one time only. Never again is all I'll say. Gotta remember not to minimize each other's needs or make them feel they are asking too much. Serve each other. Keep filling up that cup the entire relationship/marriage.🙌

[@mariemuhammad7983]

There are some needs that only I want to fulfill. 🔥🔥

[@amonmayoyo304]

She didnt want me to care about the greens she wanted me to care enough to listen about her care about greens ❤

[@geraldinearellano6281]

What books on marriage would you recommend?

[@MiquelDancy]

this is so powerful

[@carolinagirl71]

This has helped me immensely! ❤

[@Proudme04]

Ok I don’t know if you will see this but, ***PLEASE MORE OF THIS** I don’t have any married Christian friends so this is a good one me and my husband enjoyed a opportunity to reflect and watch

[@denisechambers3446]

EXCELLENTTTTT talk-teaching!!!!!🎉🙌🏾❤️👍🏾❤️🙌🏾🎉👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 THANK YOU AND MAY GOD CONTINUE TO LEAD & GUIDE YOU BOTH AS YOU LEAD HIS PEOPLE INTO THESE TRUTHS!!!🤲🏾🙏🏽🤗

[@marthawooden9176]

THIS IS SO VERY GOOD!!! LOVE TRANSPARENT COUPLE DISCUSSIONS. GOD BLESS

[@TryceleDotson]

One of my favorite couples. So grateful to be under your leadership!

[@gemrae709]

I’m grateful the Holy Spirit brought me to this video, I am still in my singleness season but things I will carry in my heart and value. I am very grateful!

[@tinamalone88]

This was AMAZING. They were authentic, funny, relatable, and honest. Although I’m not married, I found this to be incredibly insightful and useful for my future marriage. Thank you both for being amazing leaders. We are lucky to have you as our pastors.

[@heathmangum4630]

Not assuming a role but accepting a responsibility! WOW!!

[@SarahRose-u8x]

Thank you for sharing! Dr. Dharius I have been listening to your sermons for 2 years. I live in Wisconsin. It is beautiful to see 2 married people in love, in intimacy, and active pursuing each other. I appreciate your guys vulnerability of short comings. Affection is something I have not known long in life either. IE: I cried on my Mom's shoulder the first time at age 27. Only my dad hugged me growing up. But Jesus changes everything now my Mom comes to me for hugs first. I was impressed by the respect and esteem you 2 hold each other in. Not competitive but genuine and supportive. I hope to have a relationship with similar chacteristics one day. Thanks again for all you do and share. God bless

[@michaelgarciajr3207]

This is so good! 🔥🔥🔥

[@safi.4537]

This Pastor has a Pastor. What a foundation. This is so helpful for me, wish my husband would hear this, so we can…together. Praying he can say yes to any type of couples leadership.🙏🏾

[@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L]

" TEACH ME HOW TO LOVE YOU " ... GREAT TALKING POINT 👍🏾🌄💯

[@mariemuhammad7983]

I want to be wanted. 🔥🔥

[@Stefanie-b5w]

This is everything!!! Thank you for this! Wish i would have had this when my marriage was falling apart and ended. I am open and healing for a second chance if it’s God led 🙏🏽

[@niecysongz89]

THEY THAT WAITIED🙇🏽‍♀️🙇🏽‍♀️🙇🏽‍♀️

[@njdivaT]

My husband and I enjoyed this. It gave us more insight.

[@T2X-XOD]

This was a blessing! Thank you all you do for the kingdom. May the Good Lord continue to bless your union and may He use it to encourage and strengthen every couple under your authority and shed light to every single individual waiting for their person.

[@lauriezollicoffee-neal1994]

AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!

[@terrancel1786]

Wow, these two are the cutest couple ever.

[@amonmayoyo304]

He said these are memories that she wants to make do you want her to make them with someone besides you ❤

[@89Platinum]

I so wish I had the vocabulary, teaching and instruction that is available today so many years ago. I had the requirements which in and of itself was ahead of time, but not the criteria. Don't know who GOD is getting me ready for or when but I have laughed like Sari (Sarah) laughed. Haven't had a relationship other than sister friends, in 26 years. Yes that bad, traumatic unto death.

[@mpaul8798]

This is what this generation needs. Thank you!🙏🏾

[@songofsolomon03]

If somebody does wrong, there's NO EXCUSE for wrong--- I HEARD THAT!!

[@sheritajohnson9819]

Thank you for being so transparent and sharing the Word of God with us. May God bless your marriage and ministry abundantly!💍❤️💍❤️

[@thulisiwelushozi5230]

I love my pastors sooooooo much. This is GREAT!!!!!!! We want MORE! We want MORE! We want MORE! The hour is like 1 minute

[@Thelucky23]

He’s a real man and she’s a real woman and I ain’t even watched more that 5minutes. But this is marriage… 😅❤❤❤

[@samanthamather1050]

So thankful for this ministry - every single teaching is life changing 🙏 My boyfriend and I sat together and watched this and loved the authenticity, the jokes, the gold nuggets of wisdom - the entire vibe!!! God bless you Mr and Mrs Daniels ❤️ Ps: when are you coming to South Africa? 🤔🤭😝 But for real though... When?

[@danawpl4094]

I loved all of this! The transparency was EVERYTHING! It's such a blessing to have Pastors willing to have these conversations.

[@_humblekay7075]

Fruitful, flourishing, fulfillment

[@sarahzeno7893]

This was Magnificent. I am a Widow.

[@teenspirit9837]

Thank you… this helps me be prepared for my future husband. God keep giving me wisdom… and please give my husband (whomever he is) wisdom as well…Amen 🙏🏾❤️💪🏾

[@shondanicole8603]

This was so very enlightening. I'm not married but I am trying to be intentional about the way that I date... and mindful of how to know who to choose. This is some real guidance right here 🥰. God bless yall and your unique union 🙏🏾 ❤️ ✨️

[@mariemuhammad7983]

Teach me how to love you. 💜💜

[@_humblekay7075]

Fulfillment has a formula 15:36

[@carolinaladybug9302]

Thank you for sharing this after 23 years these spark plugs are just what the mechanic order. Looking forward to continue to hear from God through you and your wife ministry. 🥰

[@katrinasmith6135]

I'm not married, however, this was so inspiring and beautifully done with an anointed pastor and his beautiful wife🔥🔥

[@mariemuhammad7983]

I wouldn’t want to relive it again but if that was the only way to get to this, I would. 🎁👑

[@sheenajackson934]

The Daniels are my absolute favorite 😍 love love love you guys Thank you for this ❤️

[@mariemuhammad7983]

🎙️Emotional health doesn’t mean there is nothing wrong with you, it means you are aware. 🙏🏽

[@kb4640]

For them to be honest is not necessary for their success and they do it anyway. Props

[@grateful1010]

This was a beautiful video. So many good gems 💎 and new learning. Thank You for sharing ❤

[@tiffanywhite4076]

OMG I love y'all as my Pastors even more now after watching this!!!! So real, so open and honest, our culture needs more of this type of Black Love! 😂👏🏾❤️

[@ladytracy68]

They are no longer married. He's married to someone else now. Divorce is tuff.

[@tiffanywhite4076]

@@ladytracy68 Who? Dharius??

[@ladytracy68]

@@tiffanywhite4076 yes. He's now married to Shaquille O'Neal's ex wife

[@tiffanywhite4076]

@@ladytracy68 I think you may be referring to Pastor Keion Henderson. Pastor Dharius is not re-married and is with his wife, Shemeka Daniels.

[@ladytracy68]

@Tiffany White OMG! You are so right! I had just watched him and got them confused. I was wondering why this was just posted recently. I was so lost! I was so sad because it was so good. I'm so glad I was wrong. Thank you so much for correcting me. I'm so glad they are together still. I'm so sorry.

[@thebookoftilencia]

I’m so glad you all reposted this. I’ve been waiting at tha doe!

[@atypicaltoo]

Oh, and I need that list of needs! 😁

[@shayshiz]

👏🏾MORE 👏🏾OF 👏🏾THIS!!! This was so practical and it was a lot of fun! Thank you both for letting us in tonight.

[@JTlifecoaching]

Imma need to save this to watch it with my future wife ❤

[@deshondalanier4948]

That's a awesome transparent moment. I pray God blesses you with the queen of your dreams 🙏🏾

[@JTlifecoaching]

@@deshondalanier4948 Amen and thank you 😊 🙏🏾

[@isabellelouisjuste2730]

OMG I absolutely love this. You are my online Pastor. This was very informative and enlightening. My sister and I are definitely coming to visit your church when we come to Atlanta.❣👏❣👏

[@sheilaturner6667]

Pastor Shameka understood assignment😆❤

[@COOKING-101]

I love this and need to see more of these videos . Very helpful guys, thank you!

[@DST2003]

This was EXCELLENT!!! Thank you both so much for your transparency. Learned A LOT. Wishing you all continued Blessings for a marriage that is Fruitful, Flourishing and Fulfilling 🙌🏾💜

[@SBReddy2003]

15 minutes in and already blessed!!!🙏🏼❤️👏🏼

[@preciousbonsu7336]

If I had a tribe...you guys are it 🤩 Keeping it real, aiming to thrive in relationship and in pursuit of excellence in Christ ❤ I recently came across your channel...so glad I did.

[@wandamoore9582]

I really enjoyed this!🎊🎊

[@shessparklingcases]

Yessss been waiting on this 🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lifeisatripenjoytheride]

Looking forward to part two of this.

[@_humblekay7075]

Wrongfully you can interpret relational needs as needy because if your upbringing. You must give your partner permission to have needs you don’t understand and needs you don’t have. 23:45

[@MichaelJ843]

I am so grateful for you two, so very rich. Thank you. Love that image of Atlanta in the background.

[@kenjones8139]

That’s good. Every interaction is a deposit or a withdrawal

[@amonmayoyo304]

You don't always have to understand her needs❤

[@atypicaltoo]

I so needed this. Thank you both for being so transparent. Thank you Pastor Shameka for modeling a true woman of God.

[@ThisHomeLife]

Thank you for speaking you saw relational needs as needy because you didn't need what she needed. Give you spouse room to have needs you don't understand, and that you don't have. Love that!! Its hard for most men to understand that woman do operate, think different , and even explain things differently. There are emotional needs women want from her husband, not any other friend. Yes, we have Jesus. But, on this earth we got married, and also have needs from our marriage. It's important to have a marriage where you feel free to openly communicate you feeling and emotions; even if the other person think you shouldn't have those thoughts. It's healthy to be able to express to your spouse.

[@emilycarmichael5466]

This is my second time you and you guys and I love this interaction and this intimacy that y'all are showing not just this room or a conference room or a room in a house that love can expend all borders...

[@MilanRouge-o1l]

I love this

[@EAZYJAMZ]

Pastor Darius and Shameka, this why you my Shepherds for life. Endless gratitude for keeping it real and puleeeez continue to do so. 🙏 (P.S. I never judge you)

[@yahnadavis5323]

The timing is so crazy 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you PD and First Lady ❤❤

[@floydgentle9766]

Wow! you are not saying yes to a role, but you are saying yes to responsibility. I am taking notes

[@cpittman1527]

One of the most authentic, candid, transparent and joyful teachings not just for couples but single parent families for this season. Thnks Pstrs D & S. Favor and blessings!❤

[@princessreesepieces]

Okayyyyyy....I like this for edification of relationship goals...Emotional intelligence 💞💯👍🏼

[@deedee6854]

Affectionate foreplay starts when you leave each other’s physical presence. Words matter and trigger. “You’re my lunar and solar system. My world.” We don’t see God but we communicate and worthship him spiritually and intellectually.

[@kimlove1591]

I am not married, BUT I LOVED,LOVED, LOVED THIS!!!!!!!!

[@preciousbonsu7336]

Watching from UK....you guys are such a blessing!

[@amonmayoyo304]

You have to give your partner permission to have needs that you don't understand or don't have ❤

[@ashwinsikenares7022]

Thank you, Pastor Dharuis & Pastor Shameeka. God bless your hearts!!!

[@tiffany7384]

Need a part 2 whew that was good❤

[@shunwilliams6180]

Amazing ❤❤❤

[@Ninagaloree]

I am so ready for this small group!!!

[@cameronmartin679]

Dooooctor D, this was soo much fun‼️We had a blast in the live chat lol Can't wait to rewatch this. When is round 2?! Thanks for your continued revelations🙏🏼 It was fun learning about you and Lady D😊 I cried laughing because I guessed u were the one who waste food on your clothes🤣

[@delphineiracyadukunda4608]

pure gold💯💯