Shameka Daniels: Not wanting to be a pastor's wife, remaining who you are & teaching healthy love

[@stynk24]

Harvey is an excellent interviewer. She doesn’t attempt to out-talk the person and she listens well.

[@ruthmercedez3390]

This woman is giving life to those of us who are in this position. Thank you

[@Dwilliwonka1]

This episode was a strong and profound one. I agree she should jump into the Podcast arena. Ms. Harvey is articulate, has perfect tone and diction!

[@305heat_]

She was able to submit to a real leader. How refreshing. 💕💕

[@WWEENETWORK]

YES..SOO TRUE....except she is very wrong about what why most women are still single and what they are not willing to do. .LOTs and would even say most.... OF WOMEN WILL SUBMIT AND GIVE UP THEIR INDEPENDENTLY SINGLE LIFE IF THEY MEET THEIR EQUALLY YOKED PERSON....

[@sheilapaul1553]

I think Ms.Daniels is giving life to All women. Women were so confused about how to navigate being a strong, independent, successful woman that you know God created you to be and then witness women being told to dim our lights to have a loving committed husband, or successful business life around men. The Truth has set us Free!!! We get to be ourselves!!! We get to partner if we choose to. We get to choose our own path. We can get comfortable in our own skin....and allow God to lead us into a Marvelous life!!!🙏🏿❤☺️

[@velvetvoiceartist7733]

I love what Shameka Daniels stands for and her commitment to emotional health. I'm a former pastor's wife who is single again 9 years, after 30 years of marriage. I've been loving God for almost 45 years and it thrills me to hear Shameka's heart and to see the leadership she is providing. I've only been familiar with their ministry for 1 year, but I can hear her healthy influence on PD. Thank you for this candid, uplifting conversation. You each are beautiful inside and out. Keep using your voices to help others! Health and peace... Ms. Alicia

[@Shepherdess9868]

Thank you for your transparency. I’m a PW for 20 years but married for 33 years. Recently I’m questioning if I should stay due to recently finding out about some infidelity.

[@velvetvoiceartist7733]

@@Shepherdess9868 My heart goes out to you, my sister. I'm very sorry you are facing this right now. It's heart wrenching. Transparency is long overdue in the house of God. I'm a pastor without so much as a church home right now. I believe many crisis and pain can be overcome when a man truly "gets" the reality of his actions and beliefs. When he takes responsibility to do all it takes to heal himself and his family. He can do that from a distance if he means it. It's hard, but it's possible. My husband left me no choice. When a man won't acknowledge his own toxicity or get help, things become dangerous really quick. I took on too much responsibilty for the marriage and everyone around me let me do it with no encouragement to take care of myself😔... all in the name of covenant and submission. Meanwhile, he was cheating, lying, very calculating, very strategic, hostile, and fraudulent to the nth degree. He told so many lies about me to smear my credibilty so the women would feel sorry for him. Yes, I said women, as in plural. I eventually found plenty of evidence, culminating in his "then girlfriend" coming to MY home. She and I had a heart to heart. I sent him packing and his true colors emerged. 3 days later I had to call the police to escort me and my family out of our home of 26 years. A protective order followed for my safety and sanity. Days after the hearing, I had to be hospitalized. I almost died dealing with the stress of the mind games, the neglect, abandonment of responsibilities... the deadly pressure.🤯🤯 6 years later, my stepson, my first child in heart, passed away from a post Covid heart attack. My other kids and I devastated. My mother was also hospitalized at the time with major problems in palliative care. The man chooses to try to tell me he still loves me at our son's funeral when I had been "No Contact" for 6 whole years. That was 2021. Just this past July one of our daughters got married and wanted him to walk her down the aisle. After listening to him talk when evetything was over, HE STILL DOESN'T GET IT!!! 🤦🏽‍♀️He has minimized all the pain and suffering his choices brought into our lives, as a few mistakes he made in an effort to provide for his family. He tried to tell me he said things that I know he did the exact opposite. He's still trying to manipulate me, but when he had the AUDACITY to ask if I would date him again...🤢😡 This man has no regard for me. I told him absolutely not!!! I have fought for my life and he is not entitled to it! When I begged him to get help 10-12 years ago, he played me off, got angry, and cheated instead. I told him I will NEVER find myself with a man who doesn't SEE my pain, HEAR my pain, or FEEL my pain. And when my children were hurting and STILL struggling with some things, I hurt too. Why??? Why would I risk my life again? Jesus is the savior who died for all, not me. I'm no messiah. I have finally begun to come home to myself. I'm finding lost parts of me. I won't let anyone take that away from me. My dear sister, I say this with a heart full of love and hope because I still believe in love, marriage, and gentle men who want to be committed to one woman. Whatever decision you make, make sure it's YOUR decision, not anyone else's. No one will feel the impact of an unhealthy decision like you will. You are the one who will walk the steps. It hurts to stay and it hurts to go. Which direction will lead you to healing and wholeness for yourself???❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 I'm truly pulling for you to do what's best for you first. It's not selfish and it's not a sin. If he truly is remorseful AND repentant, he can work his way back to you after working on himself. If he's not, or that's just not what you need to be whole, then do what's best for you. Either way, it's YOUR choice because it's YOUR life too!! ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹💜💜💜💜 If you haven't heard Dr. Dharius's current series, "A Letter to My Enemies", then please watch it on KZbin. He makes some valid points on Christian relationships (www.aliciawilliamsvo.com ) Feel free to see what God and I are doing now! Sending love and support. You have me, too, on your team now!!💜

[@keishagulley8076]

​@@velvetvoiceartist7733My God your testimony is already blessing people 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 🙋🏾‍♀️

[@keishagulley8076]

​@@Shepherdess9868I'm not married so I can't give any advice. But I do know this decision has to be yours bc only you will be living with that choice. I pray that God continue to order your steps and comfort you as you make the best decisions for you. Be encouraged 🙌🏾 🫶🏾 🙏🏾

[@mianicole723]

I adore her even more. So grateful to have her as a 1st Lady. Great interview Ladies❤❤❤

[@danilaroche1156]

First Lady is not a biblical principal. No first ladies in the word.

[@imtiffanyonpurpose]

Shameka Daniels is one of my favorite humans on the planet! She is a high quality lady and a gift! I loved this interview!

[@NMahlangu-v5i]

Brandi, I must say, how you engage your guests keeps the viewers involved. I watched the interview with Cindy Trimm, and you came prepared. Your follow-up questions are on point _ you are so present. Wishing you well

[@shes_ah_truckher7716]

The transparency of this interview was amazing and much needed ❤

[@Kei-selfcare]

Thanks for having her on. I watch every Sunday for years. Thank you Shameka for sharing your story. ❤ I grown so much from them

[@MonicaMLBH]

Brandi! Girl, you are gifted. I participated in your Bible Study, years ago…absolutely priceless! I love your spirit. Thank you for being you.🤎

[@DigitalJada]

Love love love the portion about getting in physical shape as well as mental! Accountability is key for growth in any area. That's not easy. Shout out to her. This was so good!

[@LW_Lady376]

"SAFE PEOPLE" is a book that everyone, especially women...should read before they go into any type of relationship whether it be friends, mates, marriage...maybe even jobs...a very good book.

[@SouthernTay]

Thank you for sharing I am going to check it out

[@shannelnewton9236]

Living disciplined has a look… you exemplify this for us.

[@sajibola6329]

Truly enjoyed this episode. Mrs. Daniels is so calm and collected. She really spoke to me about the sacrifice for a husband. As an independent woman I sacrificed to get my husband. I trust God to help me keep His perspective.

[@keenyah1218]

Thank you Shameka for saying, "I want to help women outside the church arena". I'm a Sunday school teacher and an adult returning student. I decided to join the AKA sorority, many questioned the choice. I believe in being a servant leader this type of leadership goes beyond the church walls.

[@karolboyd2470]

I keep trying to understand how joining a sorority with the secret things that are related to demonic spirits is okay for someone serving a holy God.

[@smileyperlishia]

This woman has class!!! True standards for her friend circle!!!!! Love it👌🏽❤️❤️

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

[@AmyliaCarter]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@AmyliaCarter]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@AmyliaCarter]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@soulconsciousness_tlynn]

“Living disciplined has a look” was the 💎 I needed to hear today. Yes, Lord!! Great interview!! Galatians 5:22-23 ESV But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

[@shannelnewton9236]

Just love PD and Pastor Shameka for how you both lead us.🔥🙏🏾🙌🏾💃🏽💃🏽

[@shannelnewton9236]

I love meeting Pastor Shameka, you are genuinely so kind and asked me my name. My favorite show. Thank you Brandi… love you Pastor Shameka. ChangeHer. Love my Change family.

[@balenciareed4854]

I have loved her for years.. she's a woman of so much wisdom, grace, and down to earthness!!!! This was a refreshing interview!!

[@StringBean666]

Brandy, you're amazing ... your skill set with interviews are top-notch & unmatched!

[@ninath13]

Awesome Conversation!!!!!

[@fredandnakia]

The perfect interview! Shameka is truly an inspiration.

[@traciesplace]

Amazing! This is the first time I’ve heard this woman speak- great information for a wife and women in general 💗

[@shannelnewton9236]

You’re helping me and so many others. Our mothers didn’t know how to grieve so they couldn’t teach us.. so many things I had to learn to break generational curses for my children. Oh my God, so many things I can relate. I started to do,my work in my 40’s. Arise, I need to get it. Thank you Lord for this… oh my God. You are so many of us. 🔥🙏🏾🔥🙌🏾🙋🏽‍♀️. Freedom.

[@kayegordon6206]

Steve Harvey should be awfully proud of you ❤❤❤

[@shannelnewton9236]

Let’s go. ChangeHer live podcast. 🙋🏽‍♀️👏🏾💃🏽🙌🏾🙏🏾🔥

[@traceycrawley9220]

Omg she just bless my whole soul thank you so much ms daniel im so grateful transformation in progress

[@shaunikasellers3006]

Brandi is fire as an Interviewer! Her future is VERY BRIGHT!!!

[@katracysullivan3768]

This was timely for me. As a pastor’s wife, I can relate to her in ways I haven’t been able to voice. It encouraged me and pushed me forward. Thanks for doing this. God bless you both🩷

[@lbassett526]

Great, great sit down chat with Shameka Daniels. What a powerful message Shameka sharing herself and giving hope and tools to upgrade self. Thank you❤❤

[@laportiamitchellpresents]

This is good her health journey alone is worth sharing !!!!!!

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

Thanks for interviewing Pastor Shameka!! ❤

[@mightyisis6620]

This is right on time. I literally just was talking on the phone with a friend and I was supposed to go to a memorial of another dear friend. Decided not to go!! Too much!! So I am working on the family business and turn on KZbin. I see one of my Pastors being interviewed and decided to listen and now I know why I don’t like going to funerals because I don’t like feeling, the grieving part of it. It really depresses me. Thank you for this video is very enlightening and definitely right on time. It really just confirms that I’m at the right church with the right pastors at the right time in my life love love love the DANIELS family.

[@ChicagoPheonix2220]

I love all yall Brandy Harvey Shameka Daniels Leticia Gardner Today was a good day… 😢 Thank you Lord I felt like I was sitting with my friends…❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@shenquejames7598]

I love her transparency!

[@kimberrlyjohnson-byrd8781]

This was an amazing interview. I inspire and continue to pray to have these types of people in my life. Driven!

[@tarastoney6130]

Thanks so much Mrs. Daniels for your transparency and your wisdom. Brandi you are a great interviewer

[@92emilyjane]

What a gem 💎

[@Terry_M_]

New Love for Shameka…so calm ,poised & elegant…enjoyed this episode ♥️ I love how you introduce your guests Brandi 🌻♥️

[@DecorByFaith]

Love this! Thank you for ministering to me. I’m in a transition currently and this is the reminder that I needed!

[@latonyaholt5052]

Awesome interview..Both ladies are amazing

[@MrsB565]

I really enjoyed this interview! Pastor Shameka speaks with love! I resonate so much with what she speaks. I’m so big on working through acceptance. Thanks for being an example Pastor Shameka!

[@rcclleo]

This was so good. Just clicked on the video and was just blown away by this interview! There were so many nuggets and prayers answered through her words!!!

[@mishak5078]

Being consistent no matter what! 🙌🏾💜

[@brendadeleveaux5600]

Thank you Lady Daniels for this enlightenment

[@briggettmumphrey3226]

No drama ❤I love it

[@stephanieawuah]

Found the book: Safe People! Cant wait

[@shannelnewton9236]

Emotional Health is necessary. Upgrade 2024, I begin with hold myself to the highest accountability in my life. My Faith, family, fitness, finances and educational and vocational. It’s getting better. Love my church and the transformation.

[@alesiasled4253]

Nice story. Enjoyed, Shameka Daniels honesty on her life experience.

[@VaultEmpowers]

She's such a truthful woman!

[@refreshstreams]

Bless you sis Shameka Daniels.

[@bsolwazi2712]

Coach Shameka❤❤❤ Great interview, love the transparency! The Daniels are the Real Deal🔥

[@BPink-ke7jy]

Great interview. I really needed to hear this on so many levels

[@sequoia4631]

Thank you for your vulnerability, self expression, cautionary tales to help us have greater understanding in our individual journeys of improvement and life as God intended, which is abundant life. This platform is such a great environment for people who don’t get to see it in their everyday lives. Thank you to the host and guest.

[@Barbara-h5q]

This was a wonderful interview. The hostess is good. I am looking forward to tuning in the more.

[@tiffany79]

Loveee me some Shameka Daniels!

[@VaultEmpowers]

She's amazing!

[@aprilbomar7086]

THIS! Was a Blessing! 💚 Thanks Coach Shameka and Brandy! Hugs & Love

[@Rev.MaryWashington7998]

THANK YOU FOR SHARING 🩷 PASTOR SHAMEKA DANIELS 🌷

[@sonyacovington1285]

Awesome interview!

[@hunnyghold1507]

Well done. Thank you for introducing me to her!

[@marlenerobinson2747]

Fantastic such a genuine woman of God..great interview ❤

[@tatianagold3423]

Thanks!

[@shunwilliams6180]

Brandy your interviews are amazing ❤❤❤

[@patriciahamer1526]

Brandi Harvey is a great interviewer.

[@dawndenice]

This is so good Shameka!!!!

[@charitasmith324]

Wonderful interview and really inspiring. 😊

[@elizabethhargrove5950]

Journaling ❤❤❤BEST decision of my life🥲

[@StyleAndGrace7]

This was good. Books saved in my reading list and a few in my cart.

[@Diana-sh6qr]

Amen Mrs. Shameka Daniels. It was for you but he benefited from it.

[@deshundrameeks4209]

This is was an amazing interview🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️ Pastor Shameka dropped the Big Gems. Definitely will re listen and take more notes to implement.

[@tammycovington3288]

Wow she is wise and real…. I like her a lot👏👏💯🤗

[@tkbeauty7529]

I really enjoyed this interview!

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

It’s very important to meet each other’s needs, it’s not all about me. ❤

[@myraarrington9431]

This interview was awesome. Thank you

[@kimberlywright4988]

I totally really enjoyed this.

[@wynekat]

I totally enjoy this episode, it was so authentic and empowering. I’m excited about the new reads. I can identify with the picture piece this happened to me like a month ago and listening today gave me insight on where to start. Thank you ladies 🩷🙌🏾💎

[@theonly1258]

Shameka always looks amazing…sounds amazing…gives an on time word to women…..🙏🏾❤️🔥

[@lynettejohnson8418]

This is an Awesome Interview! 🙏🏾🥰

[@anickiabrown9730]

Love this episode. So much good information!!!

[@VaultEmpowers]

We're so glad you enjoyed it!

[@simply_nikisha]

Oh gosh consistency 🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@TraciHudson2024]

Inflammatory diet is what I’m going to look into thanks sis

[@hope-miracles]

Great Interview! Thank you for your transparency 💛

[@purpose2grow764]

Great video. I loved your transparency. I like when you said..."I want to be a disciplined woman... A disciplined woman has a look to her🎉 👏

[@bridgeoverwaters]

This interview was so good!!!

[@VaultEmpowers]

We're so glad you liked it!!!

[@wandadenson9546]

Awesome interview

[@la-pruenlightenment]

I just love 1st lady❤.

[@bettyburr5427]

Amazing! I've learned a bit more about Shameka Daniels during this great interview. We'll done, my sister ❤🎉

[@gemsj1]

Consistency...l love it❤

[@jackiehughes7919]

Great interview. Very interesting and helpful.

[@shannelnewton9236]

Learning H7….. Believing God for Grad school to own my therapy practice, at an HBCU.

[@smileyperlishia]

Awesome interview ❤️❤️❤️

[@jsanders2004]

This woman of God truly understands feminine energy

[@shawntelmonroe3338]

I have to rewatch this!❤

[@mewa5798]

OmG she just helped me so much. I have been going back and forth with my weight for a while now

[@MS_2MUCH4YA]

Another Great Episode ❤️

[@VaultEmpowers]

Thank you so much!

[@Neny1913]

Ooh this was everything!!!! A new subscriber!

[@lejoycemccalister4517]

Enjoyed this video ❤ Thank you for sharing 😊