Relationships in the Philippines/What was her Married Life Like in America?

Relationships in the Philippines/What was her Married Life Like in America?‪@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234‬ Did this Woman Marry for Love? Or for a Green Card?I have a candid conversation that both entertain and inform you about this age old question

[@davidkaiser810]

This has to be the best video on KZbin regarding taking a Filipina to the US. Nothing better than first hand experience

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you David

[@woodspirit98]

I We just got married in October. She's 53 and I'm 65. Dated exclusively for seven years. We're working on her visa now. I'm not worried about america changing her. Well stay here for around five years and sell the house which is already paid for and maybe get a small place somewhere in the US and go to the Philippines for half the year. Who knows. Probably just rent there and go to different places each time since neither of us has seen different places in the Philippines. We are both traditional in our lives. Neither of us like going out and crowds etc. I live in a rural area here and she has never driven and never will. She won't even get on a bicycle. We both love the simple life. It helps to really know the woman you marry and it's just as important that a Filipina know the man she marry's.

[@rod1147]

Yea I agree because most expats who got scammed you don't hear from them out of embarrassment, you only hear. But also I respect her because she's probably gonna get heat from her friends back home 😅

[@woodspirit98]

@@ForAndroid101 she doesn't want to be around filipinas in the states. Her choice.

[@davea3329]

@@woodspirit98 I think the risks are lower the older the people are . I think once she is above 40 the risk goes down a lot . I was married to a Filipina American and engaged to another. Once they are second generation they become much more American even if raised by first generation. The younger the Filipina and the larger the age gap , the higher the risk , just my observation but haven’t done research on it . Some of the endearing qualities get lost by the second generation. Actually hearing that a lot of developing countries are becoming more American like , where the young women no longer know how to cook. No big deal but simply an observation. Times are a changing .

[@MrWoowootila]

Complete respect for this women, great interview Paul, probably your best. Woman tears up feeling bad for the men that were manipulated by woman from her own country. This guy married a class act.

[@davesrvchannel4717]

At 13:00 she is teared up for guys that have been hurt by women. Have you ever seen an American woman show compassion for men in general like she did? I didn’t think so. What a beautiful soul. High five to her husband!!!

[@happycook6737]

Yes I HAVE seen an American woman tear up over how foreign woman rip off American men! I'm an American woman and one of my close male friends got stomped on by a Japanese woman who used him for a visa. When he recovered from that despicable woman he gave his heart to a Filipina who did the same trick. I think there are nice foreign and American ladies but he didn't find one. 😭

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you so much for watching the video.

[@geotraxrobultimategeotraxl7662]

@@happycook6737 I’m one of the lucky ones we talked for two years before we met and she waited for me until my surgeries and work retired me early . One thing is make sure they are not too fancy show off party girls . We have yet to go to a club and she has a 10 year old that is our priority in life . And we are 28 years apart . No issues love my wife and she recently became citizen works part time and we have Filipino girls w husbands and kids our fun is family together so basically we are homebodies . But of coarse we do Disneyland and all the other California attraction as well .

[@petrovicpiotr1128]

Good luck finding a woman like that in the west.

[@gregdixon5848]

Lovely lady. She is a blessing to her husband.

[@Macjohn1419]

Your friend is spot on. I brought my wife to the States and she loved every minute of it. Yes, she became Americanized, but she kept her core values. I watched her grow into her new life. She partook of every opportunity that came her way. We were happily married for 36 years until she passed away 2 years ago from Covid. I dearly miss my Sweetie Pie.

[@patrickmanley4943]

I’m very sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace sir.

[@davea3329]

sorry for your loss.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Really sorry for your loss John. I wish you all the best life has to offer.

[@Macjohn1419]

@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234, thank you. It’s been hard, but I’m managing.

[@BuddhaWho777]

RIP to your wife my friend

[@johnnydamaged7117]

I felt this woman. She made me cry. Whoever you are Jeff you better be good to her. She is salt of the earth. This is one of the best interviews you've ever done .

[@normanlee31]

What a lovely girl both inside and out. She is the first Filipina I can honestly say that I like from the whole bunch of you tube channels!

[@RonKris]

I've heard ALL those same complaints from my family and friends before I brought my fiance to the US. They all said, she'll take everything from you and you will have nothing. I laughed and said well, my first two American wives did the same thing, and if she *my filipina* did, it will be a great 5 or 6 years while I wait for the hammer to come down. The naysayers were wrong. My wife and I have been married for 14 years.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Really glad to hear that! Thanks a lot for sharing. thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@lastplanehome]

Excellent, brilliant 👏 Thank you both. I told my Ex fiancee in Davao PH . Don't matter where you come from, Park bench or Park Avenue. We all are God's children. Everyone has a purpose and heart. Honesty is always the best policy, so no one gets hurt.

[@faronray5765]

She is spot on Paul. My Filipina wife spent over 11 years in the USA with me(K1) and we have been married for 14 years and now retired in the Philippines. Over half of the filipino community that we hung out with 50% of the young filipinas LEFT their older husbands to find new younger American men. During our time in America, the Filipino community is not perfect by any means. The experience that I had with over 12 filipino/American couples that we met, seemed that the older the Filipina, the more she stayed with her American husband. Each Filipina is Different with an agenda, motives, and goals. Their main purpose is to WORK to send money back to the Philippines for their family-------bbbbbbbut there are other reasons. I seen some horror stories that I could share, but it would be a BOOK. If I could do it all over again-------------in my experience----------I wished I would have never brought my Filipina to America but that is MY opinion of my situation.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I agree Faron

[@jon15711]

Loved the comment and agree with the statement expressed. The only difference is I haven't found the same percentage in the filipina group my wife hangs with. They all seem to care about who they married. Some of the ladies in my opinion stay out with their friends a bit later then I would like for my taste. Seems to me some of the husbands the ladies are married to here cause that late night mentality to happen by not treating their wifes as equals. IE the women have their money and the husbands have their own money.

[@jacked6]

​@@jon15711 i think it's too be expected everywhere. If a Filipina finds another younger guy her age especially if she makes decent money and he is good looking and also makes a decent living which many younger guys do now it seems logical she would much rather prefer the younger one.

[@josedelnegro46]

The American mind says this happens because of money. What if it is more than that? Flip side. I take you to the mountains. Mga Bondo. You can take as much money as you want but you can never speak English again. You have money but you can only eat off the Land. Then you have to stay in a Bamboo bahay Kubo with 7 other people. And thé mountains are in Zambanga del Sur with the Abu Saya still running around. Money is a factor but it is not the only factor as is explained in thé vidéo.

[@devildoge9623]

Absolutely outstanding video Paul! The young lady is a treasure! Her husband is blessed!

[@thaimaxcan]

This woman is pure gems. She so natural and inspire confidence. I wish to all to find one in the 50 % that are real life partners.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really agree with you on that. Thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@scottsdialyadventure1338]

Important topic to carefully consider. Since the 90s when I first brought my fiance to USA. I quickly learned about Filipina interaction, they love to hate each other and backbite. To a workplace with 10 or more Filipinos, all competing who got the new jewelry to got the new car. Major fights to-the-point the boss had to take one of their guns away. I don't really see the value in indoctrination of your Filipino to other Filipinos, I quickly viewed it as destructive and more drama than our marriage could handle. My wife being young and bossed around by a senior Filipina it was ridiculous. Very jealous small-minded and telling her to go home and change clothes because she was too sexy. I noticed the older Filipinos were much more loyal and would stay with their eighty-year-old husband. Well three out of three couples all of them dumped their original husband, replaced with younger more money and taller American man. Three out of three that I know and includes my own X. The bottom line is it really depends on your Filipina but after what I've seen I doubt if I would bring Filipina to USA🙏🙏

[@davea3329]

Interesting. Sorry you had to experience that.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I am really sorry to hear that! I hope you will find the happiness life has to offer. Thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@noahcount7132]

Excellent, informative interview, Paul! Any man from the USA or Canada who is considering finding a bride in the Philippines and bringing her back to North America to live, definitely needs to watch this presentation and take it to heart. 👍

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you so much for watching the video.

[@Friedbrain11]

My brother has been married to a Filipina for over 30 years and they are still a happy couple. She has become a US citizen and I couldn't be prouder of her. She is a great sister-in-law and a really good person. I wish American women were more like her.

[@davea3329]

wondering what their age gap is, maybe not that big if they have been married 30 years

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Best wishes for you Robert! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@eddale8325]

@@davea3329 Not to be a troll or ugly what does the age gap have to do with anything? As I have said, we were together for 45yrs, I was 19 and she was 28.

[@eddale8325]

@@iluvmoney6767 It would go without saying if they are together 30 yrs now, their age gap wouldn't be too large, hence why the need to ask what it is. Obviously she or he wasn't 20 and she or he wasn't 50 when they met or got married.

[@eddale8325]

@@iluvmoney6767 I agree with you on the younger ones (hate to generalize) usually marrying an older foreigner out of desperation or effort to just move up in life (as Paul and her discussed). Far as the "spoiled fruit" would depend on if it is love (real love) they would get married no matter what mom said or co-habitate and have another child (his one would presume) and then situation changes since mom now has a "real" apo.

[@georginasawyer6524]

what a lovely young women you are .... all the best

[@everyonehasadream]

If you love your Filipina, bring her to America and set her free. If she doesn't come back, you can always find another Filipina! 🙂

[@happycook6737]

The problem is you will be court ordered to support her for 10 years. Your idea is not risk free.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I respect your opinion Alan. Let us just wish everyone will have a happy marriage. Thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@everyonehasadream]

@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Yes, wishing you and Baby Mae a happy marriage! 🙂

[@user-nr5ut2hc9y]

I heard that it depends on the girl. If she is pretending...

[@patrickdarrellobrien1381]

Very good video. Been married to my Filipina for 26 years and happy as can be. If you get a good Filipina you have hit the gold mine. The tears shows a wonderful hearted woman. Jeff is a lucky man. Again very right on video.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Really glad to hear that Patrick! Thanks a lot for sharing. thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@scotthummer1319]

Wonderful interview and great infoformation

[@PaulClaypool-hr4qj]

Great interview Paul and a lovely guest. I was smiling all the way through.

[@pierrepoirier7821]

Awsome interview

[@jones4334]

Maybe one of your best interviews. Love to hear a truthful answers to very difficult questions.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Appreciate that! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@LakefrontLife]

Excellent interview, great questions. Woman was honest, her %s seemed spot on. She is a honest and genuine good Philippine woman.

[@kayaksail67]

Cool interview....nice.... Life is love, ...

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you so much for watching the video.

[@stevehayes8755]

Paul this is one of your best guests , such a genuine honest caring lady who has held her values and been true to her upbringing . I loved it keep up the great work

[@davidjackson7715]

Well done , good interview

[@stephanegosselin2861]

Great interview as always! Salamat

[@dwaynekeith156]

Very Good interview

[@Francisco-Gumbs]

Great lady

[@gordonanderson816]

Thanks so much for sharing

[@jujjeelf309]

Excellent conversation, Good environment for an interview, good audio, interesting topic.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Appreciate that! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@Banjovi62]

This lady has a good outlook on life and a beautiful attitude. I wish her and her husband all the best. Thanks Paul, nice interview 👍

[@TruthFinder7839]

Great interview, its very nice to see and hear they are doing very well and have the future together well under control to do anything they choose together as their option of choice.

[@wilfredocordova494]

Great interview Paul. What an awesome young lady.

[@delaluz4634]

An amazing story Paul, thanks for sharing...

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Glad you liked it! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@edjames6141]

Excellent video as usual beautiful lady lucky guy that found her.

[@stevewolfe1768]

This was a really good showing of all sides ,no fluffing either side .wish more vloggers would present these topics with a touch of real life like this video .

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really appreciate the support Steve! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@Ty-dt8xv]

What a outstanding wonderful woman and a really great interview Mr Paul 👍👍👍

[@AidaJof]

Hi Paul, what a lovely interview with this delightful young lady recounting her life and how she ended up in the US and how her life progressed through the years with her american husband. A refreshing approach and one that is not heard very often. More importantly, Paul, an interview with a North American perspective. Thank you.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really appreciate the support! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@michaelcudby787]

I am thinking here, there is a common factor. It comes down to how good the person is, inside. ie.morals, & respect, count for a lot.

[@1951Roy]

Thanks for sharing, those numbers sound about right. Enjoyed the conversation and topic.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Appreciate that Roy! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@TheLoper5]

Good one

[@devildoge9623]

Absolutely outstanding video Paul! One of your best interviews! Fabulous content and the young lady is an absolute treasure!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really appreciate that! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@questlife8724]

Loved this interview...

[@pcabraham2580]

This is I think one of the best interviews you have done. Good going!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thanks PC!

[@jspice-kl2wc]

Super great interview, no one has covered this topic before. Thank you for sharing. 👍👍👍

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thanks Joe, I was excited to get a female point of view

[@flcircus2009]

Really enjoyed the video. My wife and I, she's a Filipina, have been happily married for 17 years. We have lived the vast majority of that time in the U.S. We have two teenage boys. One was born in the Philipines and one was born here in the states. She has adjusted well to being here and has her own career. When we retire we would like to spend more time in the Phlippines. Possilbly retire there. For now we are here in the U.S. until our kids graduate from high school and college.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thanks a lot for sharing. I wish you all the best! Thank you so much for watching the video.

[@12B4Christ]

My Goodness... a real woman with character and sincere emotion. What a lovely, beautiful lady, noting that very few today are given the title of "Lady". Self reflection: "What would I give...?" As always, thank you, Paul.

[@samuelmartin707]

Great video Paul!!!! 2 thumbs up my friend!!!!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really appreciate the support Samuel! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@kevinkennedy6875]

Excellent interview, Paul. You really asked sharp questions. And what a sweet and lovely woman!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Appreciate that Kevin! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@Connor_Dempsey]

Great show. She seems like a beautiful person on the outside and the inside. ❤

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really agree with you on that Conor! Thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@k9companion231]

Hey Paul and Guest! Great interview. It appears it could have a part 2. :) Maybe with discussions of money (purchased power/rich American), shopping, cleanliness, was church involved, children, pet care, family borrowers….. so much more. Thanks for sharing and God bless!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Great idea, I would like to continue the conversation also k9

[@Filipina1984]

Good interview!!!

[@timcollins2255]

Awesome video Paul Thank You

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Glad you liked it Tim! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@rednegsnartevoli5737]

Great video Old Dog .. honest & very informative ..

[@javiermccurdy7929]

This was excellent topic.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Appreciate that Javier! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@rodmasters9093]

Her story is so close to my wife's story other than!!! Out of the say 25 Filipina / American couples we know only about 4 or 5 didn't make it. We have recently gone to 4 high school graduations just this year of close friends with a child graduating. Many long term marriages. Very solid couples.

[@rayray2076]

we only met 1 that didn't make it out of over 25 couples

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thanks a lot for sharing. Thank you so much for watching the video.

[@halburke9115]

Great interview and exchange info.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really appreciate that Hal! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@jennymark7403]

Great interview and finding the facts was real well done paul

[@jeffs.7412]

Jeff is a very lucky guy. Best wishes to both of them.. Great interview Paul, thanks again and hello to Baby Mae.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really appreciate the support Jeff! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@markmeenaghan934]

Great job Paul. Best interview

[@richardsiviter4180]

This was a wonderful interview,Thanks so much

[@markpurcell1488]

Excellent video Paul. Thank you..and God bless..😇

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you Mark

[@larrywilson1783]

This is a great video !

[@TheOUboy]

Great video glad you met her to be able to inyerview.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Appreciate that! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@mtkidbigsky7230]

Great interview! It was a fresh perspective on relationships that has given me a little more understanding. Excellent!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Really appreciate that! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@billharrisjazzbluesandmore7948]

Really awesome interview

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really appreciate that! thanks a lot for watching the video

[@Niftynorm1]

She is a lovely lady and very well spoken. Her husband is a lucky man. Great and informative interview Paul.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Appreciate that! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@painrick]

What a lovely lady, a genuine person, her happiness says a whole lot about Jeff also, a successful relationship ! Wish all bets were as sure as Paul & Maes relationship surviving the big test of the US.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really appreciate the support Rick! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@spaniardinthephilippines]

Love this video ! I can tell she is a great person and trustworthy !

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really agree with you on that. Thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@cary5864]

Great interview Paul. Nice to hear from an expert.

[@user-ij7xv5xi4n]

Good interview Paul

[@robbymacklin]

Cool interview Paul! Very interesting to hear her experiences. She is very sweet and genuine.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thanks Rob

[@rayo7114]

great video and what a lovely lady thumbs up Paul👍

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you RAYO

[@nicker103]

God bless her. A good woman...What we all search for. Blessings for her future...

[@BlackAnonymou]

This is a GREAT interview. Wonderful perspective of a good Filipina. Her husband found a good one, just like I did

[@PinayFuzzions]

It's nice to hear a good stories of mixed race marriages like hers. Her story is good and sounds like she is successful with life being married to American . In reality, not all Filipina are looking for a foreign husband or Bf. I am born Filipina and married to an American, I've lived in America since in my teens, and yes I am very Americanized as you would say. But, my heart is still Filipino and respect the culture there, and I go back at least twice a year to be with my Filipino families and friends. Respect and learning the boundary works for any foreign marriages, it has nothing to do if you are Americanized or not. What makes it bad for Filipino are those foreigners who exploit them. Thanks for the video. Aloha from Hawaii

[@edic2619]

Hi, Paul, your guest today is very nice. I sounds like she has strong marriage beliefs and family values that she has held onto since her youth, awesome, great interview.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really agree with you on that. Thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@barrypress3704]

Great video about this subject great insight from her

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Appreciate that Barry! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@mortonkelsey7125]

Wonderful interview, I have been married for 11 years to a wonderful Filipina. So lucky I married a real honest and sweet woman. So happy

[@charlesphilhower1452]

That was a good interview. While some American women feel entitled there are good and bad among any race or nationality of people😊

[@juancarlosvaldes4538]

Great interview with a Filipina who has the experience and sharing her story!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Appreciate that Juan! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@JimmyRiordan]

Frea (sorry for misspelling) is a wonderful human being. Absolutely lovely and someone I would like as a friend. Great interview Paul.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thanks Jimmy

[@AutoCrete]

Great video with a lovely guest looking at relationships from the Filipina side. Thank you Old Dog!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you for watching!

[@garymoody1448]

A wonderful interview of life reality. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you so much for watching the video Gary.

[@gerry2345]

I like this vid. Good insight from the womans perspective.

[@fredross3176]

Good Video Paul! You have the gift of the Gab

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you so much for watching the video Fred.

[@michaelbelnap6112]

Love it, Paul. Your topic and your source are golden. Very informative. As always, you capture my attention.👍

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you Michael

[@AverageJoeDoh]

good video!

[@tonybishop8590]

Love to see you and The Philippina Pea have a conversation

[@mervinperson2887]

Excellent interview! Men need to take the time and really get to know the woman and her character

[@DavidSmith-db1mk]

good video you do good work Paul and are so laid back

[@veveysan]

I commend you for acknowledging that problems in Fil-Am relationships can't always be blamed on the Filipina. There may be reasons behind the stereotypes, but the exceptions are numerous and we shouldn't be too hasty to generalize. My Filipina wife and I have been together for 44 years. She has only sparingly sent money back home since our marriage (much less than I would be willing to), and I have tried to "Filipinize" myself in language, culture, and food as much as she has Americanized. Cultural fusion is great when it's a mutually respectful effort.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really agree with you on that Ken. Thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@Jazz-tv7jr]

Yeah I agreed that 💯

[@garyburgmylifeandtimes6354]

GREAT interview Paul. Great insight!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Appreciate that Gary! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@jloren4647]

What a great and beautiful lady! Havent seen a lady with such empathy for men in forever.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really agree with you on that J Loren!. Thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@seattle40]

Loved this vid... Good job ..

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really appreciate the support! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@johnclark1469]

Wow. Great raw facts interview w an expert on this subject!!! Perfect subject to address the often asked US question Paul and you asked the right questions for specifics. and didn’t leave out the man factor. Great Job! Best review on this subject of anyone.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really appreciate the support! thanks alot for watching the video.

[@artspalding5167]

My fiancé is as true and loving as this lady. Thank you for your time, great interview ❤

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Really good to hear that! thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@u.spatriot6469]

Very informative video and it helped change my views on bringing a Filipina to America. Thanks Paul!!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you US Patriot!

[@u.spatriot6469]

@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Welcome!!

[@bergmanst]

I met a Thai lady here in the USA last August. Her husband passed a year before we met. She's a Thai cook at 4 sometimes 5 restaurants. She sends nearly all her money home to Thailand. We have quite a story. How we met and how we are now.

[@graguitar6493]

Does she do a good Kæng kheiywhwan?

[@man4YAWEH454]

​@@graguitar6493 😅 Priorities.

[@graguitar6493]

@@man4YAWEH454 lol. Bit rude to ask about the main priority don't you think. Plus having been with a good 200 of them I can guess it's a yes 555

[@bergmanst]

@@graguitar6493 She want me to move to Thailand with her. She sends a lot of money to friends and family. Say's she buys farmland and had family work her farms. She was married to an older guy who passed away last year. She is in a struggle with husband family with the estate. She tells me her husband didn't like to help her with sending money to Thailand in tell just before he passed away. She lives at a house with 2 others from Thailand right now. She doesn't speak English very well. and she is on the phone a lot all the time. She talks to Thailand even overnight here. So she don't get much sleep everyday. I tried to see if she would spend the night at my house and she agreed to do that. But she would not agree to turn off her phone overnight. So she said to take her home. We been seeing each other since last August.

[@stub4958]

Great interview. It was nice to hear her talk about what she has seen. I've been around a lot of Asians, both here in the US and in their native country. I would say the big thing is to get the right person, for him and for her. Too many times, I have seen one take advantage of the other. The nice guy being used by the woman that wants the green card, or the nice girl looking for a good man being used by the guy who just wants to play. I've seen both, and people can play the game for a long time to get what they want.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really agree with you on that. Thanks a lot for watching the video.

[@martinpeacocke8968]

What a lovely lady!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

I really agree with you on that Martin. Thanks a lot for watching the video.