Having a child with the wrong person will make u cry more than the baby 😢😢
@parkandplaywithdorathyАй бұрын
Like it is well with our soul
@olaideadedokun9895Ай бұрын
Some men are dubious, manipulative, selfish. God have mercy on me. Thank God am not barren. Have beautiful kids
@somoyesimileoluwa2283Ай бұрын
Very true 😢😢😢
@SMar-yu6odАй бұрын
Especially 😢when you first have the baby😢.
@kisakyeolivia3411Ай бұрын
Why not be on pregnancy preventive measures. It is like we are saying that we are children who have sex as a test, to know how it feels and what happens. For people 18 years and above, there is nothing like pregnacy accidents expected only in rape cases or where someone's mind is unstable. engage get the by product.
@oluwatomithomas180Ай бұрын
Tosin, you are a powerful woman to talk about your experience. It is a sign that you are an overcomer. May God continually protect you and use you to help our younger generation.
@aSuperHeroStateofMindАй бұрын
You will see the red flags, but the wounds in your soul will urge you to continue....Powerful words. This is why I never talk about ppl who are in an abusive relationship. The only thing I would tell somebody is heal from the trauma in your past, from the things that you don't talk about. HEAL the Wounds in your Soul..❤❤❤
@myrlenecelestin392Ай бұрын
Beautifully said heal the wounds in your soul first and don’t judge
@anonnona6433Ай бұрын
Exactly. Leaving an abusive relationship takes alot.
@cleverchakabva9901Ай бұрын
Powerful words indeed
@tijjanikabir9452Ай бұрын
"The wants in your soul will urge you to continue"
@preciousmcfarland5265Ай бұрын
Powerful words!!!
@princewillokwoche6845Ай бұрын
She survived to tell her story! Many don’t make it out of the contraption
@swagservices7025Ай бұрын
It’s so easy to pass judgment when you are not a victim, this lady would be a great counselor to people going through similar issues she just explained
@daciagriffith6568Ай бұрын
Run Sista Run!!!Being alone DOES NOT mean being lonely.
@estadastarbeauty2426Ай бұрын
Sometimes it's even better to be alone and lonely.
@ikanofurepeaceАй бұрын
@@estadastarbeauty2426totally agree
@bertrandrussell5932Ай бұрын
That's belonging to the streets right😂
@gloriamakungu40724 күн бұрын
It's soo hard swety 😢
@nic_niko1003Ай бұрын
Manipulation is a dangerous thing in a relationship. You think you are compromising, but you are being taken advantage of. I'm happy you are speaking your truth. Sometimes, people never see it.
@sdcaldwell8882Ай бұрын
This is so true. 10 years after the divorce and I am still dismantling and renouncing the seeds that were planted during the marriage. 🤦🏾♀️
@helensomy2769Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this, it never occurred to me that this can still take place even after leaving the marriage.
@cleverchakabva9901Ай бұрын
God be with you my sister
@TadeMakunАй бұрын
God will heal your heart and bind your spirit. Open up to Him... BE HONEST.
@hyeldaapollos3879Ай бұрын
Lord have mercy on us. This generation is in need of light. The darkness is real. What happens in relationships is truly mind blowing 🤯🤯🤯
@rayannphillip931Ай бұрын
There is nothing new under the Sun.
@princeboateng4395Ай бұрын
It’s always the worst kind of men they loose themselves to and visit the wounds on the best men. It’s crazy
@chestchirecateyesАй бұрын
They're in need of nurturing and lessons in self-love.
@hyeldaapollos3879Ай бұрын
@@rayannphillip931 Yeah,.. But I love the fact that this is novel to me. The Bible would have us wise unto that which is good and simple (innocent) as to what is evil. (Rom 16:19) This kind of activity actually crosses the borders of just being bad... This is in the country of evil! This man clearly is into something dark! 😳
@gloryplufelpride4766Ай бұрын
That word "self love " 📌📌📌 should be ultimate/utmost importance in ones life ... @@chestchirecateyes
@matildaojeh4950Ай бұрын
I want to watch the whole episode, its so painful but thank God you came ouy stronger
@user-en5xj6lb1rАй бұрын
😮my goodness. Relationships can be dangerous to your spirit, soul and body. To get pregnant and getting rid of it intentionally is madness
@florencenyandia2202Ай бұрын
Initiation
@Tee_AfricaАй бұрын
It's sacrifice to Moloch, the guy knew what he was doing.
@cleverchakabva9901Ай бұрын
Having someone tell you the plan of getting you pregnant and then "getting rid of it", that's just evil, it's heartless 😢😢
@nkemo65Ай бұрын
Simply demonic
@LestAnyManBoastАй бұрын
Actually it's not madness, it's witchcraft, the kind of witchcraft that is found in the Apocrphya aka hidden books of the Bible removed from the modern KJV during the the corrupt Council of Nicea
@graystevens939Ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you went through this sister. A man who is constantly chasing personal gratification is a dangerous man,as a woman stand your ground. The wrong man will eliminate himself.
@ThrivewithJesusАй бұрын
Powerful words!
@ChijiubaJanetАй бұрын
I can relate very well. Experience teaches you a lot. Thank God you are free.
@emmanueludegbunam848Ай бұрын
Did you have such experience?
@NancyTetteh-pm8ezАй бұрын
That's if you were able to learn.
@enthroned_oneАй бұрын
Same happened to my best friend; Ify and after she left the marriage upon return front America; she died!!! LADIES...PROTECT UR DYNASTIES..THIS IS REAL
@LyndaDeniseJonesАй бұрын
😢 my deepest deepest condolences, I lost my bbf to a jealous spineless manchild. It's been 20 years since her passing and I miss her more everyday. Hugs to you and all that love her ❤❤
@ElsaCamus-gd7esАй бұрын
We, women, can see red flags in day one but somewhere we think we can fix through love.. some souls cannot be fixed. They need divine intervention, if you stay in wrong relationship, your divinity dies. So eventually, your survival instinct makes you leave.. On His time. Not yours🤲🏽.leaving a toxic relationship is a divine protection. ☮️🫡💕
@irenemark9219Ай бұрын
"if you stay in a toxic relationship, your divinity dies" Very powerful!
@theajcchannel1331Ай бұрын
Divinity. We are immortal beings not The Trinity
@user-lo6cb8pm3pАй бұрын
Yes my dear I thought so too but it get even worst and worst , as a matter of fact my health is been affected, I'm lost and don't know how to start all over again. But I will not give up until I get my freedom.
@SusankaayaАй бұрын
That’s why we should pray for them and with them. The devil be trying to destroy God’s people but that battle is won by His blood.
@dotgojack5506Ай бұрын
Amen❤
@ancientDna1979Ай бұрын
I understand, my late husband used to tell me I was dumb, when I was overachieving him in everything.
@FolakanbiАй бұрын
Wow!!!😮
@blandinamyinga9489Ай бұрын
Narcissistic behavior"he was angry that your shining.
@STAR-w5iАй бұрын
✝️JEALOUSY N INSECURITY OF U. N.IGNORANCE.✝️
@bukolaechue9538Ай бұрын
I have watched this excerpt more than 6times…and I’m still in shock
@fruitinspector8247Ай бұрын
Same here. She was dating a demon.
@ChideraOkorie-ls9qbАй бұрын
What a ministry
@spyksydeАй бұрын
Where’s the full video
@TadeMakunАй бұрын
Don't just be in shock, dear... BE CONSCIOUSLY INSTRUCTED.
@heavenforum9124Ай бұрын
It is called, The Power of IMAGINATION! If you can imagine it, it's only a matter of time. It must come to pass.
@Dainess365Ай бұрын
The only thing I want to imagine and come to me is winning $100 million dollars 😂😂😂😂😂
@heavenforum9124Ай бұрын
@@Dainess365 Well, the ball now is in your court. If you call see it, then nothing stops you having it. If you can imagine it, then it's all yours! Rise up and make it happen but remember me when thou cometh into thy kingdom.
@eseoghenewealthmychamber6365Ай бұрын
@Dainess365 lols.., ha! your own big oo. Mine is just 3 million naira . I don imagine tire and still dey imagine 😂. The smaller is inclusive in the greater. My dear remember me when your imagination becomes reality.
@Dainess365Ай бұрын
I’m in Australia and people have been winning lotteries lately, so now I’m waiting for my turn. So I hope that I’m next. No long ago someone won, $150 millions Aussie , another $40 millions, $12 millions . So I hope that I’m the next lucky winner 🏆
@niuniceАй бұрын
@@Dainess365it will come to pass 😊
@williamseghe4066Ай бұрын
This is emotional, I'm already liking this lady
@OluwatobilobaWondersАй бұрын
You'll see the red flags but the wounds in your soul will urge you (push you, drive you) to continue. Thank God for light.
@chinenyeorakwue6233Ай бұрын
That should have been a wake up call!
@khairakhalid6083Ай бұрын
He wanted to traumatise her for life and damage her mentally . He knew one of the worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting rid of her unborn baby.
@sosohe4018Ай бұрын
And she will forever remember him without him remembering her or being bothered, abuse and control equal narcissism.
@teresaosborne2209Ай бұрын
Wow.
@cleverchakabva9901Ай бұрын
Yes and that, 'getting rid of her unborn baby' can haunt and scar her mentally and emotionally. People are alive but carrying burdens.
@augustaukandu5838Ай бұрын
It could also be a Satanic blood covenant he wanted to make with her!!
@toidiaz5136Ай бұрын
Very true- MANY of us have experienced this on some level- ladies we are a SISTERHOOD- may not always get along or do each other right- but we can still be supportive of our individual experiences and share to uplift!! Your words may speak to someone’s soul. Stay compassionate
@koyejoolanrewaju4157Ай бұрын
Can one believe an intelligent lady like this could be a victim? You're brilliant, bold and beautiful. I'm happy that you live to share your experience.
@uduaklawrence5237Ай бұрын
This is a similar story of my friend. I ran to me for help, I had to hide her in my house till now. I pray she gets over this 😭
@ambangmongo2888Ай бұрын
Amen to spending recovery
@MywatercrystaltvАй бұрын
You go gurrrll!! Don't waste the pain!!! You're a phenomenonal woman!!❤❤❤
@uzoamakaukoh6624Ай бұрын
I love this woman ❤
@DaughterOfEncouragementАй бұрын
I thought he was gonna ask if he could bring another girl into the mix or something crazy like that, but that request was so specific, so sinister, that you KNOW it was a seed from the devil himself. Lord have mercy 😔
@SASK_M_YАй бұрын
I thought of blood covenant
@DaughterOfEncouragementАй бұрын
@@SASK_M_Y oh dang, that's right!! A requirement of sacrifice 😟
@ovedjeroryАй бұрын
@@SASK_M_YSame.
@deolakeАй бұрын
@@SASK_M_Y, it's already a blood covenant in a complex and deeper form. They both create a life and sacrifice it via abortion😢. Oh God, there are demons everywhere😮. May we be shielded always by God's light.
@tonyelegbuanya3401Ай бұрын
@@SASK_M_Ythat's exactly what I thought because such happened to me. But this particular request ? Devil dey pay ten ten for the man head, I swear
@user-rz6oq3ey2rАй бұрын
I left my husband on a beautiful day which happened to be my birthday. We woke up romantically together. Took me shopping, Gave me cash and driver took me to my work station. Instead of leaving the car with me I told the driver to take it back and that was it. He almost ran mad. It's 7 years now. I am very grateful for breaking me from the shackles. If you judge me wrongly I wish you just 5% of what I went through without mercy. Ladies REMOVE yourself and do it sooner
@miniasikusara2936Ай бұрын
What made you do it?
@billionairejumzietopbabe3304Ай бұрын
Abuse of course! 🤷@@miniasikusara2936
@Lu_cc_eeАй бұрын
It's the 5% for me 😂😂 My dear, wish them 80%
@psalmzoe3746Ай бұрын
Let them judge, believe me when I tell you it's out of ignorance they do it... They'll never understand
@OfficialDubemXBАй бұрын
@@miniasikusara2936 this question is very necessary cause I don't understand how she woke up romantically together, went for shopping and still left him that day.
@MureBeauty1Ай бұрын
I've always said it. It takes a broken person to break someone and those in an environment where broken records are playing would soon find themselves dancing to the tunes
@annhome7099Ай бұрын
Thank you for the message. Greetings from Barbados. Blessing on you 🙏🏾
@lavenderlillies8149Ай бұрын
Purposely get pregnant just to abort? What sort of sociopath is that? He's not thinking of the possible emotional trauma/extreme fear that an unplanned pregnancy and abortion/losing a child would have on you? My goodness. Thats just evil.
@Okafor_chioma6.Ай бұрын
Now where’s the complete video???
@JamesORileyMukondaАй бұрын
The things we date
@amaoparebea2990Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@henchilamcokejАй бұрын
Basic principle of accountability requires that you be accountable for your actions. People, including mass murderers, who do terrible things often have others, including the victims, to blame for their actions
@aminualiyuabbas7341Ай бұрын
Yo! It takes two to tangle. The red flag you saw was the kind of person you actually wanted. So he became that which you wanted. In every relationship, man treats a woman how he wants to be treated. So if you display bad at first. Well, vis a vis.
@arekeogbonna735928 күн бұрын
I love Tosin. Such a beautiful testimony.
@rejoicemmachukwuАй бұрын
Only people who had not been in a toxic relationship will not understand 🥹
@chiomajaneoside4157Ай бұрын
I understand Ma, I've been there. I understand perfectly, I can relate to everything she is saying 😢😢😢
@tonyelegbuanya3401Ай бұрын
You don't have to be in a toxic relationship to understand. What is evil is evil. Don't wait until it happens to you
@amaoparebea2990Ай бұрын
@@tonyelegbuanya3401ikr
@manifoldhitslunargrace760329 күн бұрын
Thanks well said@@tonyelegbuanya3401
@manifoldhitslunargrace760329 күн бұрын
I don't have to have been in a toxic shit to identify toxicity, I just have to run once I notice a red flag
@Ozmarc254Ай бұрын
And the saddest part is that she will always be bonded to him giving any guy who comes after nothing but headache
@irenedontoh9692Ай бұрын
This is so deep. I subscribed immediately the lady made her point💯✅
@joydaniel1327Ай бұрын
I'm happy you're talking about it.
@fridaledale2024Ай бұрын
Sista you are right.. Your experience is going to help a lot of people. Pls do not keep quiet. Continue exposing relationship red flags. ❤
@adadiigbomma3217Ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your bravery in being this honest. May God bless you with happiness 🙏
@zemskincare5965Ай бұрын
May God help the guy to change . I thank God for your life sister!
@tiannahmo1581Ай бұрын
I can relate truly words are seeds
@irenemark9219Ай бұрын
Yes so can I. You don't know when it's planted until you see yourself doing something you've sworn you'd never do because of a passive suggestion someone made. But how can one protect themselves from these word seeds that begin to supplant godly ideas you've always held onto?
@ghananaturals8525Ай бұрын
"you will see the red flags and the wounds in your soul will urge you to continue". phew, that's a word.
@mtp472Ай бұрын
Which nonsense wound? RUN RUN RUN... I STILL DON'T KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH WOMEN. LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. SIMPLE! IMAGINE STAYING IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP BCOZ OF THE FEAR OF WHAT PIPU WILL SAY. LEAVE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. LEAVE ABUSIVE MARRIAGE. RUN!
@joyerhabor2229Ай бұрын
@@mtp472 I don't think it is that easy to just leave and run. It is easy for many of us ( myself included) to say leave and run but we don't know what's really going on in there. I am not in a relationship and I have never been in an abusive relationship but I have seen relationships and marriages with abuse,so if the shoe fits . Sometimes these people just need push and help to get out of it while some just need God .
@2oubleDАй бұрын
@@mtp472if it was so easy to run from bad things, sun wouldn’t even be an issue and we would all be in right living with God. Ppl need healing to see the truth and until we acknowledge God and be transformed by the renewal of our minds we will stay stick in crippling situations and not fulfill our God-given mandates.
@mtp472Ай бұрын
@@2oubleD MY OWN IS THAT IT'S BETTER RO LEAVE AN ABUSIVE MARRIAGE THAN TO DIE. INFACT
@mtp472Ай бұрын
THAT 'TIME TO HEAL' MAY NOT BE THERE O IF U ARE GONE! RUN FIRST AND BE HEALING LATER. DON'T TRY TO HEAL BEFORE RUNNING. THE PIPU JESUS HEALED FIRST MAKE MOVEMENT BEFORE HEALING CAME O. JESUS WOULD SAY, "RISE, TAKE YOUR BED AND ..." PLS OOO... LEAVE VIOLENT AND ABUSIVE MARRIAGE BEFORE HEALING O. YOU CAN'T HEAL IN THE MORTUARY OOO...
@dan-jumbonengimarvy6000Ай бұрын
Yes they’ll spend years programming you to believe something. Now when the real person shows up you don’t see it. You see the programming. Thank God for saving me.
@gabrielchristiana3150Ай бұрын
They are not the programmer😢 They are the programming.
@graceoluwadunsinАй бұрын
What you just said made me think.... Thank you for saving me Lord.
@placeofalltrends7596Ай бұрын
I am so much in anticipating mode. Please release this podcast soon
@arababecca6432Ай бұрын
Staying means ready to lose your life in an abusive relationship. Leave to live!
@manifoldhitslunargrace760329 күн бұрын
I don't have to have been in a toxic shit to identify toxicity, I just have to run once I notice a red flag
@IrisAgnesАй бұрын
Wow! That program you are referring to is POWERFUL!
@_Divine1Ай бұрын
The programming is often subtle but sometimes blatant. Don't ignore red flags
@elizabethm8610Ай бұрын
Thank you for saying all this❤❤ I appreciate you ❤
@graceadoroАй бұрын
Please can we get the full video 😢
@obinmaparis3522Ай бұрын
I do like to finish it too
@lydia27xoxoАй бұрын
Asin. Where is the rest
@mrsddrakeАй бұрын
You will see the red flags, but the wounds your soul will urge you to continue.😢
@HarrietAgbenya-qs1vfАй бұрын
I have watch this a million times just today
@thereawakener9554Ай бұрын
What in the evil toxic relationship is going on here.. omgg
@NickidtytanАй бұрын
Indeed a strong Woman to pass through such experience and talks about it😊😊 , some relationships has weird things involved
@emmanuelaafari9434Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this story!!! I almost entered into a relationship I knew God was telling me not to enter! And I was finding many ways to doubt it and to be in the relationship. But it’s not God’s will for me, and so I won’t venture. At first the pressure was so much! But now I know what to do. Thank God for answered prayers 🙏🏾
@All-as1Ай бұрын
This is why virginity was cherished. Get with a woman that has those ties, and mad problems ensue. Even virgins in this time can be messed up. Virtue matters more than anything
@francesmbewe8457Ай бұрын
I enjoyed listening to this so much ❤❤
@PhilbertOtasowie-xy4ujАй бұрын
I cant wait for the full video 😢
@rubytuesday9831Ай бұрын
What an intelligent girl...so on point😢
@manfredmichaelwilliam6681Ай бұрын
God bless you for this deliverance. May God use your message to deliver many that are in such condition. Really life without Christ is crisis
@saphirwenzi5882Ай бұрын
Stay strong beautiful lady!!❤❤
@VeraAmarachukwuАй бұрын
I can relate... Loving a person or being in a relationship that draws you away from God is a red flag on its own We ladies should be careful out there... The world's really crazy God would protect us all❤
@simplyblessed1516Ай бұрын
Yes! So many people dont understand that mental abuse occurs first before any violent abuse. Manipulation and lies ... the enemy tried to plant in fertile ground.
@sourceinsightsАй бұрын
Amen.... This is truth. Live 🆓
@EgorpyАй бұрын
💯 accurate about the "programming" ❤
@dukeisangАй бұрын
He simply meant... let's shed innocent blood 😢😢😢
@modupesaibu4031Ай бұрын
Likeee! It's crazy o
@shaaperamakepeace6375Ай бұрын
And blood is involved. Hmmm. Deep!
@lovendannachi2303Ай бұрын
Your story is inspiring,. 🙏 thank you.
@MailerdАй бұрын
These words are short but really powerful. Let every woman listen and reflect on this.
@chibuikeanyadike828826 күн бұрын
Best way to learn is through your experiences, but a better way to learn is through other people's experiences.
@JustUdoroАй бұрын
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOW…this is eerily on point. My goodness. May God continue to deliver us from strongholds and false fruits. In Jesus’ name. Amen!
@user-cv8me7vw3yАй бұрын
May we have the capacity to speak up and save others
@reshaeparson7242Ай бұрын
Yes and once that seed is spoken it will definitely blossom!😢
@tosinakin2508Ай бұрын
She said my name and it took me a sec to realize she was referring to herself 🤦🏿♀️😅
@sonofokereАй бұрын
Can you please prompt me when the full interview goes online
@hilarysmartt5809Ай бұрын
Same
@TemplingRightАй бұрын
The full interview is out now. Check the channel
@TemplingRightАй бұрын
@@hilarysmartt5809it’s out now on the same channel as this short
@curtisantonieospears3885Ай бұрын
It's All About Control. Great Video. Love It.
@OGBAESTHER-jf6cmАй бұрын
this is very true!! they will think you're doing it with ur power
@SASK_M_YАй бұрын
And most of the times it takes you to free yourself and that's why people say such things. Till you come to your senses and make that intentional decision,you will continue to be programmed
@rebbybam230Ай бұрын
Yes those in abusive relationship dont ever judge them z pray theyll get out some day
@husseenaabdullah8593Ай бұрын
I wish I could find the full video 😢
@ogaminiАй бұрын
As empathetic as I'm inclined to feel for ladies like this.. It's pertinent to state clearly that we all know that women generally love the bad guys, they always choose the bad guys over the good ones coz they say they are more interesting and adventurous then tomorrow we begin to hear stories like this.. A woman will always blame a man for her mistakes even the ones she knows very clearly could have been avoided.. Ladies feel free to get offended.. But it's the bitter truth.. I hope every victim (male or female) recovers from their terrible relationships..
@nulidesignzАй бұрын
He was saying "we should do something..." but the something was going to affect only her. Kai!
@teej1055Ай бұрын
I'm so glad she made this video because I've had friends put me down for being in love with somebody and being stupid as if I'm just a complete idiot knowing that I'm not.🎉
@victoryudo4471Ай бұрын
Kaii This breaks a lot😢
@ednaekeleme4045Ай бұрын
You are brave and l am happy for you❤
@susannfatiha9961Ай бұрын
i want to watch the whole show
@ChukwubuDikeАй бұрын
Please where is the full pod. I came here from tiktok just for this but i can't find it.
@chinazaevelyn9971Ай бұрын
Me too
@yvonneasante7836Ай бұрын
Me too😢
@keamogetswekea676Ай бұрын
Will come out on the 5th July
@gideonozuluoha902922 күн бұрын
People be acting stupid all in the name of Love.
@tiffanythreatt2543Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@faithnshyiraameyaw4026Ай бұрын
I felt this!!!
@hildatee200219 күн бұрын
That request is demonic! Lord have mercy!
@Min_chrisАй бұрын
Am invested!
@NikkiDavis843Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@KLOVE-pj3toАй бұрын
Thank you for this
@Aggy98Ай бұрын
Been in that position before leaving them is not easy, but i did it and I'm still healing