Relaxed Confidence: 5 Habits To Look Like A Boss

[@onemanenclave]

He knows he's in the right, and that contributes greatly to his ability to show himself confident.

[@thetheory6159]

I mean it remains to be seen. I wish this video had been about something else, kinda tired of the trial overall tbh. The video itself is great, just... wish I could avoid that fuckin trial.

[@LinkEX]

@@thetheory6159 There's an upside to the video referencing the trial: the algorithm already shoves us down trial videos. I'd much rather have a _trial-themed_ analysis in my suggestions than another gossip video about it.

[@sgtraytango]

lol he's already been proven to be a domestic assault perpetrator in court the last time he went to court when he tried to sue a newspaper for libel. Depp's as guilty and as vile as they come, and I hate how this channel has added to his hero worship and harassment of his victim by using this thumbnail.

[@thetheory6159]

@@LinkEX that's fair.

[@davecullins1606]

He's in the American legal system. Being innocent doesn't mean he will go free.

[@PsychologyRefresh]

It is important to know there are two types of confidence: *External Confidence - which is the confidence you project to others like making friends, closing deals or seducing someone, *Internal Confidence - which is the confidence you feel in any situation.

[@markofsaltburn]

But the first isn’t a form of confidence, it’s a mode of appearance. That’s like saying that acting like a wealthy or beautiful person makes you either, or that a wig is a type of hair. Acting like you’re a thing and being that thing aren’t the same. It sounds like this is splitting-hairs, but this is important: if you put yourself in a situation where you’re appearance-focused rather than values-focused you’ll be found out, and your efforts will be unsustainable.

[@intheeyesofj7329]

@@markofsaltburn The first is absolutely a form of confidence. He literally describes “external”. Regardless of how you’re feeling, not all situations allow you to *feel* confident. In those cases acting confident to keep composure is just as critical. No one is arguing that true confidence comes internally and you can’t fake it. Like being tired at work, you hide it and show up regardless.

[@markofsaltburn]

@@intheeyesofj7329 if you act like you’re a thing but don’t feel like it, then you’re not the thing. If I’m smiling but feeling miserable inside, my smile isn’t “external happiness”, it’s just a false smile. This is how NLP works; all of your projections and visualisations have to be values-based and true or they won’t work.

[@ZascrimShades]

@@markofsaltburn I'm very glad that you've stated this. I find myself very much agreeing! Acting like something that you are not is, from the way that I see it, essentially the breeding grounds for egocentrism (if not directly egocentrism). I think it's about being genuine; when genuine, it's not something that has to be forced (therefore not truly real as you've similarly stated). If there are indeed certain instances where it has to be faked (ex: leading someone away from harming others by pretending no one is in the room so that they don't check), I think they should be the exceptions and not the rule. To use your example when it comes to smiling and happiness, smiling in order to maintain an image of happiness isn't true happiness. Smiling due to being exposed to something that genuinely makes one happy, now THAT'S genuine! That also tends to be the most radiant due to how real it is! This smile can have a lasting effect to the point that it spreads: a genuine smile based on genuine happiness and is not based on any lie! THAT'S where the substance tends to be (it also helps that humans tend to be very great at detecting a genuine smile, but I slightly digress)! A smile made for the sake of image tends to fade one way or another; it's not a solid foundation. A smile that exists due to genuine happiness will have a very strong effect! The foundation is strong and real from the ground up! Even if that smile might turn into a frown someday, the moment would be everlasting due to the genuine impact that it would have (who knows, it might even lead to some genuine smiles)! This is indeed the way that I see it! PS: Funnily enough, your comments on this thread actually made me smile and made me genuinely happy; genuineness is indeed very important to me! So, thank you friend!

[@SevenHunnid]

I review weed products on my KZbin channel as my job 🙏👀

[@johnmknox]

Amber Heard: "Pledge" and "donate" are synonymous Also Amber Heard: "Punch" and "hit" are NOT synonymous

[@FlowerChyld43]

Good One!

[@vincent_hall]

I guess in the context of a punch bowl. Did she say Johnny gave her punch in a bowl?

[@ElectricInevitability]

Haha yeah isn't that funny?

[@FlowerChyld43]

So Clever! I Love it! 😀👏

[@dsories6219]

Grow tf up. She just hit him not punch him. You're such baby. 😒

[@jackdaone6469]

“Yes, how did they know?” Gotta love Depp’s small smirk when the lawyer tried pressing on. He briefly tripped the guy up and it showed.

[@NekoAnjiru]

He's a covert narcissist. They tend to be charming and have a harem ready to defend them. Textbook case of duping delight, gaslighting, and trying to control the narrative.

[@offbeatartistry]

It's so interesting how people like you think they can diagnose someone without knowing them personally. Especially with the displays between both depp and heard, you label him as the narcissist¿¿

[@moralityisnotsubjective5]

@@offbeatartistry Especially when no competent psychiatrist would ever do such a thing. They need to meet and speak with you several times before even considering a diagnosis. They know how dangerous it can be to do so second or third hand.

[@moralityisnotsubjective5]

@@NekoAnjiru Also, it's duper's delight. If you are going to use terms you don't understand at least get them correct.

[@zbtyn]

Man that last part hit me good. I am a guy who was diagnosed with ADHD and Autism, low muscle tone and speech delay (didnt start speaking till I was 5) when I was a kid. During elementary and middle school I really struggled with women and socially. Thanks to appreciating small stuff like jokes or just nice conversations in general, I built my social skills and now I am after a successful military service, good with women, and have a bunch of friends thanks to just appreciating every small win and interaction. It slowly build my charisma and confidence to a point where I feel amazing. And if people get try lowering you for getting happy over these small wins (cause ppl will) it is there loss not yours. Appreciate these small moments ppl trust me it will get you far

[@BaritoneMonkey]

Awesome story dude! Keep telling it. People need to hear stories like this.

[@zbtyn]

@Joshua Cline Thank you for for telling me that bro!

[@zbtyn]

@@BaritoneMonkey Thanks bro! I have started openning more about it recently because I have learned that communicating to people even about personal tough things can really help yourself and others

[@BaritoneMonkey]

@@zbtyn Yep, absolutely! No better way to make a point then to show them in your life

[@zhinaamini5941]

Ecxact same story as a kid( except i didn't start talking until 6) but somehow with some tricks i had lot of friends and i was charismatic, but the thing is I've always felt lonely because i was struggling so much to be lovely and social that i forgot about myself and i was trapped in acting cycle, i do better now and i feel so relaxed but still need more practice and courage to be myself and hopefully i find friends that like me for real me

[@CatholicK5357]

I think she would have had a problem if the 7 million dollars had only been pledged to her in the divorce settlement rather than given.

[@davidpaxton6402]

Touché! Well said.

[@ElectricInevitability]

Yeah she wouldn't have used the words synonymously then. She was caught in a lie but made things so much worse by sticking to an obvious lie as it's insulting the juries intelligence. She'd have scored more points by admitting she hadn't donated it yet and given a reason why and apologised IMO

[@crazynanaailese]

Lol you win best comment

[@plsavage]

Ohhhhhh good one!

[@Amanda76767]

🍻 😂

[@captainhookk4298]

I do honestly believe that Charisma on Command itself is a positive reinforcement loop. Every time I watch a video of yours, I rethink about my day for the next couple of days and count my wins. This has been working tremendously for me for the past 3 years. I could safely say I have expanded my confidence tremendously. Thank you for all you do!

[@bgbg418]

It really makes me happy to hear people improving their quality of life. Good for you man. Here's to more wins!

[@captainhookk4298]

@@bgbg418 Thank you! that was so random😂

[@captainhookk4298]

@@bgbg418 Thank you! that was so random😂

[@bgbg418]

@@captainhookk4298 haha just made me smile to read your comment mate lol

[@aubreezily13]

"The world's still the same... there's just less in it." - Captain Jack Sparrow Thank you for highlighting this difficult time in his life, and using it in a way that helps others. I am always in the habit of apologizing for occupying space, and I am grateful for the tools you offer to combat the urges to feel insecure and apologetic.

[@anonsmith3459]

I'm sorry- did you just quote a fictitious character of his in a non related quote? What is wrong with you celebrity worshippers?? This wasn't a popularity contest nor does his career absolve him anything. His confidence was arrogance as of his career & fanatics would get him out of the consequences of his own choices. I wish I could sue my ex millions for lying which cost me money & time I can't get back but I knew he was a fkboy. That's my fault for not leaving. Throw this whole case out- neither should win a cent.

[@aubreezily13]

@@anonsmith3459 I do not worship him. Johnny is far from perfect, but I admire the fact that he is trying to do something about this after experiencing his relationship with Amber. In regards to the quote, it entered my mind when I thought about how men are not often believed in these cases due to the stigma that they cannot experience abuse. My apologies if me relating his experience to one of his roles offends you. I was also just expressing gratitude to this channel for using something that is going on in our world to help others. Whether we choose to like it or not, this is a very public case that people are tuning in to. Instead of making Tik Toks of Amber Heard crying, they chose to identify body language and tone to help others who view the video. If something is in the lime light, it may as well be utilized for educational purposes.

[@Legendaryium]

@@anonsmith3459 jezus christ, why dont you take a therapy session and see whats bothering you. Reacting like this doesnt seem healthy get some help

[@lbentosoares4]

@@anonsmith3459 Find help

[@anonsmith3459]

@@aubreezily13 He's trying to do something about his relationship with Amber afterwards? A difficult time in his life? He's not an invalid he's not geriatric or elderly in fact he's old enough to know that he was in a toxic relationship but as I said before he loves drama and he loved the drama that Amber brought until it cost him his money and his career then it wasn't fun and games anymore and now years after they divorced he wants to sue her and put out there that she was the way she was but you married her? You didn't even marry the mother of your children who you didn't have any scandals with you didn't even honor her in that way that you honored Amber so why are you guys putting him as the victim because he chose to be with her and even married her and that's not nothing to sniff at. He's only doing something because his money got affected and his career and I'm not begrudging him that he should speak up for himself my point is that he had a hand in what happened because he stayed he wanted arm Candy he got toxic arm Candy but he was all in because he loved again the drama that she brought but at his age he's too old to be in some toxic relationship when he knows how to be in a normal relationship he just wanted to feel young again and she made him feel young again by bringing that drama. He chose to stay and there are consequences to staying in a toxic relationship as I said before that could cost you even your life so it's no surprise that his career suffered behind it and his money. They both need help though because they both have demons he needs to kick his habit go to rehab she needs to go get serious therapy for her obvious mental issues and I love how we pick and choose people with mental issues who shoot themselves in the foot obviously all the time because they have those mental issues as to whether or not we empathize with them or sympathize with them and other times we we demonize and skewer them publicly for it both her and people like jussie Smollett they obviously have an issue thinking that they can get away with lies that are obvious or that can be checked out and still continue to do it over and over again despite the fact that they keep getting found out so they obviously have mental issues and I hope they get help for that but to demonize them because you so-called love their " victim " ? You don't know Johnny I don't know Johnny and I'm talking the real Johnny my problem is how people take his characters that they love and they misplaced that love on someone they don't know which is the actor. That's what I talk about celebrity worshipping you're misplacing whatever affection that you had for a character onto the person who acted the part when you really don't know that person. I believe it was a mutually toxic relationship she just did worse and the most unnecessary things like writing that story or saying that she would donate all the money knowing she wasn't going to- like people wouldn't check up on that just obvious that something mental is going on with her. And I never said you offended me about anything that you said so please don't start putting words in people's mouth to make yourself look like you're under attack or a victim . You made a public comment I responded and when you make public comments there are people who might oppose or have a much more informed POV. We need to teach each other to do and think better and take our egos or unrealistic views and expectations out of it because at the end of the day it is what it is. Do better.

[@cbeautifulworld11]

He is a master of self-control in these situations! Once, while I worked for a woman whose behavior led me to discover and research narcissistic personality disorder, I wrote a letter to her which addressed working conditions and my request for a significant raise. A few days later, while she was engaged in a trivial task, she brought up the letter, then paused. I should add here that she had been a lawyer and later a high-ranking judge with full knowledge of manipulation tactics and negotiations. When she paused, I couldn't think of anything to say in that moment yet she took it as my own ability to manipulate the situation and gave me the raise because she needed me to continue to work for her. It's funny and I will always remember it because I don't have the skill nor desire to manipulate people and was only silent due to a failure to come up with words. It was one of the only times in my life that I have been grateful for the freeze response. :)

[@TheWisdomLibraryOfficial]

Confidence is like “Show up in every single moment like you're meant to be there.”

[@turboflush]

Johnny knows his flaws. He knows what he has and has not done and doesn't have to fabricate or elaborate anything.

[@CarloisBuriedAlive]

He told his truth without denying bad behavior, and therefore had a relaxed and confident testimony. Heard put on performances that were all over the place and rarely admitted to wrongdoing unless it was forced out of her. I doubt she’s that concerned because there are already people working overtime to defend her name publicly and claim that believing a male victim of abuse is actually “misogynistic”

[@amberxv4777]

Who's defending her? Everyone here wants here roasted alive and you're still going.

[@PaolaRL]

He told the truth

[@moralityisnotsubjective5]

@@PaolaRL Yes, I am tired of this "my truth" stuff. There is only the truth and lies.

[@davidosalsero2519]

Impressive. I must be finally learning. One thing I quite naturally managed to do last week, gave me that warm feeling of a SMALL WIN, plus an un-expected FRAME, and I executed it in a SLOW APPARENTLY confident way was this. In a bank I was asked "Please furnish us with answers to these security questions" "Where were you born?". I allowed the pause, then, with full eye contact calmly said "In a hospital". Which got me a hesitational look from the clerk, I just said "Type it in". Then "What was your last school?". Pause, "Borstal". And you can imagine the flavour of the following answers. Even though done quietly and calmly, boy oh boy, did that interaction make me feel good, I walked tall out of there as would James Bond!

[@SueRosalie]

Amber Heard's overacting was hilarious. Switched it on and off like a tap, and kept checking the jury to see if her emotional manipulation was working.

[@shiny2423]

"I remember a cup stuck in the screen." 😂 Brilliant ~!

[@majorramsey3k]

The house IS paid in its entirety ...by the bank. You pay the bank back with the mortgage. She's so full of it.

[@gnerd07]

Doesn't that mean the bank bought the house? We still say we bought it tho... We all know it's semantics but the argument does hold some water esp IF some money has already been donated

[@majorramsey3k]

@@gnerd07 Yes, the bank bought the house. And they didn't just pledge the money. lol

[@misery8264]

She also already had the 7 million dollars. Why pledge it when you have it and plan on donating it anyways? If you have the money to buy a car, you don't finance it. Her behavior made no sense.

[@majorramsey3k]

@@misery8264 It makes sense in so far as she's got no indention of handing over the money. At least, not until she's run it through a few investments for a few years first and making some returns on it.

[@blincx1]

And she bought what? Public's sympathy on credit?

[@redhawkmillenium]

Would love if you did a video on Camille Vasquez' communication during the trial

[@Sam-xr8ne]

no

[@JohnnyBGoode-jm4qp]

Only if it’s unbiased. Meaning, not a video glorifying a pretty but unprofessional attorney who finds death threats amusing.

[@CarloisBuriedAlive]

@@JohnnyBGoode-jm4qp can’t be as biased as your comment

[@daisiesandpandas1218]

@@JohnnyBGoode-jm4qp Should we start with your biased comment? Or do you mean Amber's side, cos the former friend of her sister allegedly recieved threats before her video was shown in trial?

[@redhawkmillenium]

@@JohnnyBGoode-jm4qp you must be fun at parties

[@golu_badbola]

Sarcastically destroying someone should be a tagline for Johnny's demeanor throughout this case.

[@CountessOfOle]

Honestly, I think the fact that Amber Heard used SO MUCH reaction-seeking body language by CONSTANTLY staring at the jury during her testimonies was the single most damaging thing she did to her image during the trial. And that's saying something, cause she did a lot of things that didn't have a great look.

[@PurityKane]

Easier to be confident when you're in the right.

[@ameennasar2583]

Not always. Any normal person who was defamed would react emotionally. I have experience. Also guilty people can act out confidence.

[@ciaranwalsh7621]

@@ameennasar2583 If you are in the wrong accept it with humility and work on improving yourself for the future. That is true confidence, false confidence is pretending to be right or thinking you are always right.

[@InHellITrust]

@@ciaranwalsh7621 If you want to make a bowl of cereal, don't forget to pour milk. Anyone can pour cereal in a bowl, and technically it is a bowl of cereal, but a true bowl of cereal also has milk. Also, don't forget the spoon.

[@PublicSpeakingBodyLanguageVlog]

This entire trial feels as if it was as much about nonverbal communication skills and body language as legal knowledge and lawyers' favorite courtroom gimmickry ;) A perfect hybrid of all the legal shows you've watched over the years ;)

[@biblehistoryscience3530]

If “donated” and “pledged” to pay for something mean the same thing, then all we need are good intentions to pay for theater tickets to see Hurd's movies, then she won't make an actual cent.

[@effiethefey]

Even thinking that she'll be in movies after this trial ends is kinda optimistic, lol

[@marywemigwase3354]

And we can pay our rent etc w thank you

[@NM-ev7pu]

@@effiethefey She will definitely be in movies. And hopefully they will flop and all the mean men out there will be at fault xD

[@CatholicK5357]

Yes, and clearly she would have objected if the 7 million in divorce settlements was pledged to her rather than given.

[@MSeliskaZ]

@@NM-ev7pu yeah, she should do a commercial for a real bruise kit that is used in movies&theatres… and maybe some adult “love” movies&since she is a violent person who looks like she ennjo. It…may I can’t think of anything else for her. She’s done… who would want to cast someone who can’t. I saw her at the court and she’s a terrible actress. Ok, maybe thing some

[@TheBerkeleyBeauty]

Honesty and integrity have a way of boosting your confidence as well

[@GrumpySalmon]

Justice for Johnny!

[@rabronin]

I'm glad Johnny is able to maintain himself well in this trial, given all that he has been through.

[@itz_yeastic]

Jhonny literally giving me Tony Stark Vibes in the Iron Man 2 while he was in Court, LITERALLY OWNING EVERYONE OVER THERE.

[@Seeker0fTruth]

Heyyy great call. I agree.

[@wuxian1]

i was thinking that too

[@i-yell-a-lot4906]

"YES, BUT HOW DID THEY KNOW?" LOL

[@CanisoGaming]

that "Donated, pledged, donated, pledged" bit will live on as the amber meme for a looong while hahahaha

[@zhshsG7]

Something that really helped me improve point #5 (create a positive feedback loop) is gratitude journaling. It is great!

[@AvidanVlogs]

Johny Depp got confidence that wins him cases.

[@avengerscap]

I do often give relationship advice--what to say in a given difficult situation--and to let the spoken words hang in the air, without any additional words if the other person doesn't respond right away. It's their turn to talk. Occasionally I suggest that a person may want to preface their statement with, "What I'm going to say is important, and I'd like you to not respond right away but to think about what I've said. Is that something you can agree to?"

[@JohnWickPotter]

1:36 Also in body language is when the palms are up it can be a form of submission.

[@djtdawg87]

Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.

[@1w72st]

Being Johnny Depp helps.

[@tommylanigan4721]

I disagree with Amber reframing the donation = pledged. It was clear to everyone that was a lie and completely backfired.

[@Ok-wb4du]

It’s kinda embarrassing to look at the jury every response

[@mr.peanutbutter6969]

Amber Heard: 👁️👄👁️ Jury: 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀 👀👀 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄 👄👄

[@veganvocalist4782]

Confidence is so very attractive

[@PursuitofBetter]

This video went deeper than other ones have and I support it

[@andreagoble5353]

Professor Johnny Depp! Masterclass👍

[@DarkPsycheZone]

Fantastic video! These 5 habits are spot-on for cultivating that cool, relaxed confidence. I've started integrating them into my daily routine and already noticed a difference in how others perceive me. Looking forward to more insightful content like this! 💪🔥

[@Konrad111111]

I like how you analyse current events! 👍

[@AvidanVlogs]

He got court winning confidence this guy!

[@iamtehgame]

Quality content as always!

[@MuzanKibutsujii]

My dog stepped on a bee....

[@themacocko6311]

Lol

[@themacocko6311]

And the carpet is dirty...

[@MuzanKibutsujii]

Hahaha..Lol..... And I have to pee

[@bunnybabybevytv6434]

Y’all still got it

[@Tarquin21723]

"Did I read that right?" "Yes, congratulations on being able to read. You should try reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, but that might be way above your current reading level"

[@tomoakley760]

The donated/pledged angle was not a "strong frame", it was a weak excuse that only takes on the appearance of a strong frame if repeated enough times that it wins through sheer attrition. And even that's debatable since she was being roundly mocked for this worldwide. There's a thin line between "holding a strong frame" and "being delusionally committed to your own doublespeak".

[@americanpaisareturns9051]

“It wasn’t lies, Jenny. It was acting” - Neville Sinclair

[@CreightonChaney-io4xv]

Rocketeer was such a childhood gem

[@pyromusicman21]

Your channel is not something I'd usually gravitate to but I've watched a couple videos and think you have some great insights! Well done.

[@AlexaMorales]

Cool video! Question: How is this channel able to use so much footage from current movies and TV? Is it because the clips are so short? Or are these clips available to license on something like Video Blocks?

[@mrkenwu1]

Tried these tactics the other day, and none of it worked for me. Then I was reminded that I am not Johnny Depp.

[@bollyvids7337]

Amazing how such information can be obtained from a public trial. Your points were great Laughed when Andrew Garfield was shown as an example for not telling the truth.

[@zzulm]

Yeah other people call it sophistication in my opinion saying the truth was what kept him confident and his beliefs made his frame strong naturally.

[@ersia87]

Saying a hilarious answer before the real one is very funny. My collegaue does this all the time which constantly makes me crack up behind my screen. However ONLY saying the comical answer and not being able to eventually answer a serious question seriously is very annoying and frustrating.

[@aeryth77]

The pledge = donate argument was actually the most embarassing and laughable part of Heard’s attempt.. It just made her look even more dishonest and desperate than if she had just admitted that she donated nada

[@johnnydeppxd5566]

God Finally this channel made a Video on Johnny! How can you not make a video on him when your channel name is Charisma on Demand

[@Jarod-vg9wq]

I was so happy when he won, did you know he makes music for fun with Alice cooper? And Johnny helps employ homeless people at his films?

[@4theloveoftech]

Always impressed with your content.

[@YourPal055]

Ms Turd watches the video, adopts some of these ideas and adapts...

[@jennifermoriarty2188]

Your margery Tyrrell video changed my life..thank you

[@TyHarrodTX]

Thank you CoC... You have presented the best example for this topic. Your explanation is very relatable because pretty much the whole world was tuned into this live court madhouse. Freaking genius: I love it. Excellent topic with perfect examples that hit home... Grade 💯

[@guistmagik2506]

finally, a good video on KZbin.

[@tiiajogi2241]

He is the best

[@cDizzle1723]

Glad you're narrating again, Charlie.

[@patrickpedersen1576]

genius idea for a video

[@dunnowy123]

You know, I've pledged my entire wage to charitable causes, I'm not gonna donate it, but rest easy knowing I want to

[@loniwilliams82]

Small win reference loop. Love it. ❤️

[@kanjo4976]

I’ve been subbed for years at this point and still my anxiety keeps me at a distance.

[@mcmc8556]

Do an assessment on Camille Vasquez

[@YouilAushana]

Hopefully, they start making laws about manipulation and coercive actions with people who are trained in all this stuff and hold people accountable.

[@mcfrisko834]

as well as paternity fraud

[@samusfisher]

You do know he lied too right?

[@deja_vu..]

I think a bar should have a Johnny Depp happy hour: Megapints of Wine, Capt'n Jack Rum Punch, I'll-Paca-Punch, the Haymaker, & Shiner Shots.

[@toribern816]

I like it!!!

[@JennaLeigh]

Bartender here. Been doing Depp Mega Pints, and Captain Jack Rum Runners. Upon service we "cheers" and say "Justice for Johnny". It's a HUGE hit.

[@GanggsterR]

He's an actor, it was easier for him to just act confident

[@VengeanceBG]

Her bad acting really hits you hard. She is supposed to be an actress. Does her carreer really depend on looks and relationship with already successfull actor..

[@annieb7240]

Confidence doesn't mean someone necessarily telling the truth 😂😂

[@Yo-pz1em]

Christopher Lloyd was my favorite witness In this trial. He played the role of a crazy psychiatrist that needed a psychiatrist himself.

[@A-list]

F.Y.I. It's easier to be confident if you are the plaintiff (you filed the lawsuit thus you have option to drop the case) instead of being the defendant and having no choice.

[@antonboludo8886]

This is an essential skill for anyone to master in real life.

[@txfreethinker]

Excellent video! Thanks for posting this ‼️

[@Electronica27]

6:10 so what would be a good example of what JD could of said instead of attacking Rottenborne's frame. Like instead saying "traffic was pretty bad." Or "I wanted to give everyone an autograph?" idk. I hear that he was actually late since he would try to get everyone an autograph or selfie when he arrives, only leaving when his bodyguards drag him away.

[@kingcobra2858]

Framing Pledge=Donated isnt confidence, its just misleading.

[@AnonymousAccount514]

Excellent…one of your best ones…love the part of collecting all the small wins you’ve had in your life

[@caitlinvenespanol305]

Wow!! Excelente video!!! Cómo siempre. Me encanta que nos enseñes esas pequeños gestos o actitudes (de los que, muchas veces ni nos damos cuenta) pero que tienen un efecto en las personas que nos rodean. Gracias!!

[@davidmichaud6067]

Having millions(you don't deserve)to buy the most expensive attorneys tends to give you confidence....also...a person being quiet/seemingly calm...does not mean you are...people often get quiet/seemingly calm when stressed ...especially when on camera obviously....also...obviously...both of these people are ACTORS!....hello?!!!

[@Kakarott2023]

I love your videeeoos! They are so helpful and well produced

[@kloassie]

1:52 _"these _*_s.e.c.r.e.t.i.v.e_*_ glances"_ ??? LOL No 🤣

[@Kiky812]

Very good video... all of the tips though are valid if you are on the right side of the conversation/confrontation.

[@reckapple5641]

In times of pressure, be a honey badger. Blood for the blood god

[@gamerdweebentertainment1616]

God damn it that donation thing still blows my mind... Amber Heard got 7mil from divorce... all about money She did something unexpected, donated to charities Divorce agreement - Am I joke to you?

[@SadCatSad]

Really helpful video! Even tho i really dislike Amber Heard and im all for JD, but i like the way you stayed objective and took her clip explaining how to catch and refuse frames one does not agree with.

[@kyatrixxkush9312]

Hey Charisma on Command. It would be awesome if you did a podcast with Vanessa van Edwards. It would be interesting to have two charisma experts having a discussion and you would both learn from each other immensely

[@WhatsintheBottle]

Can you do an analysis of Ms. Vasquez and her questioning style.

[@liquidbraino]

Amber Turd is an actress. She's trained to get emotional for an audience. Johnny Depp is also an actor and could have done the same thing but instead chose to stay calm and not FORCE a reaction like she did. She's not even a good actress because I can TELL that her reactions are forced.

[@samharryful]

Need a video of the Gallagher brothers confidence 🤍

[@GaryTheExpert_com]

Lads, I need help… I am setting up a event. A charity event. Now, what I need help with is, interacting with dozens of people, so... I want to treat each individual that comes up to me in a well lit positive regard, how does one give great attention and joy to one person and in a matter of a second you meet another guy, and then another guy. How can one mange to be super respectful and awesome to each individual, and give decent time to them?

[@allen604]

6:11 Trying to stay unbiased as possible. I disagree with you. Answering the frame once is ok, but to do it over and over it just makes you seem deceptive. I prefer answering the frame. But if confronted, answer it directly and follow up with a reframe.

[@gamerdweebentertainment1616]

Amber going emotional on stand, I'd be like... out... come back when you're calm and collected and ready to speak.

[@misaeltoledo5944]

Very captivating videos

[@BunterFreigeist]

Just what I needed to hear. Thank you

[@whattheelle360]

I would read the tinted glasses as deceptive, hiding something if I was on the jury. But Johnny rules!