Relaxer Day | Healthy Relaxed Hair | How I Relax My Hair Now That It’s Longer

Hey, guys! In this most requested and HIGHLY anticipated video (or not), I finally give an update on how I relax my hair now that it has grown longer. From the prep to the shampoo to the final finish, it’s time for me to show my full relaxer day - kit and caboodle! So, if you’re ready… I’m ready. So, let’s go!
Enjoy and thanks for watching! ♥️
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[@EbuniMisses]

Your relaxeer days are so simple in comparison to others.💕 You wear your hair out and it is still long and I never see you trim barely anything off outside of the 'cut it to the white meat' situation you had eons ago. Everyone else has 50 different products, co-wash, protein wash, over proteined washes, underprocessed (texlaxed) routines, grease downs, braid outs, 10 month stretches, and their hair is struggling, they end up with 'set-backs' twice a year, or they don't/won't wear their hair out and happy. What is the whole point in the relaxer if you are gain to struggle for 6 moths and waste your weekend away dealing with two textures (and primarily the unrelaxed portion)? WHY!!!? I swear your channel is underrated. I have seen the proof. It is not supposed to be that hard for someone who doesn't have a license. Pretty hair as always, ma'am.

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, EbuniMisses!! 😂😂😂 Your list had me cracking up! Too funny! lol Yes, I just feel that simple is best and it just works for me. 🤷🏾‍♀️ And I so appreciate your kind comment regarding my channel. Really do. Thank you. ♥️ Have a wonderful rest of the week!

[@mrsd2375]

Totally agree with all that you said. It should be a simple routine.

[@DolceDawn]

@@mrsd2375 ♥

[@mrsd2375]

Simple relaxer - no fuss, no frills and the hair is gorgeous as always. Thx for sharing x

[@DolceDawn]

Thanks so much, Mrs D. I’m happy you enjoyed! ☺️♥️

[@kalishajnz]

When I saw the thumbnail and the video being 10 mins I was like oh this must just be the application process, lol. This was great editing. You showed the whole process. 💜

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Kalisha! YAY! I’m glad you liked. Yeah, I definitely wanted to finesse it so I could show most of the process without it being two hours long… lol 👍🏾

[@0tismadaline]

I love me some relaxer day,l finally posted mine too😅your hair looks healthy and long ❤nice routine

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Otismadaline! I’m so glad you enjoyed! Now I’m going to go take a look at your relaxer day vid. Thank for the heads up! 👍🏾☺️

[@lalarose9907]

Hi Miss Dolce! I've been requesting for this video, Yes ma'am! Thankyou for doing it! It ain't no thang to you, no matter what length, you do awesome with putting hair relaxer in! You are a pro! I'm gonna re-watch this whenever it's time for my next hair relaxer. 😄

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Miss Lauren!! You are so welcome! Yeah, quite a few of you requested this one, so I’m happy I was finally able to deliver. ☺️♥️

[@judyniles565]

Good evening Dolce. Perfect outcome. So lovely! I agree with your comment: "simple is best" I've seen my best results ever, by simplifying my hair routine. Have a nice week!

[@DolceDawn]

Good evening, Judy! Thank you!! Yes, ma’am - gotta K.I.S.S. Works for me. ;0) Have a wonderful week!

[@sandrae4470]

Hello Dolce !!👋🏽 Nothing like a successful relaxer day! Your hair is looking mighty good.❤

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Sandra! 👋🏾Thank you so much!! 🤗♥️

[@debracausey7375]

Hi Dolce I’ve been waiting on this video forever and I’m so grateful you shared it with us. Your fingers know exactly what to do. I wish I was this good in putting in relaxer. Your hair is so beautiful and healthy. Thanks again for sharing. I know I’ll watch this one again before relaxer day 😊

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Debra! Sorry for keeping you (and others) waiting for so long. I’m very happy you enjoyed the vid. Thank you so much for your patience (and kind words)! ☺️♥️

[@debracausey7375]

@@DolceDawn you’re very welcome

[@eleganceevolved8328]

Wooooow this gotta be the healthiest relaxed hair I’ve seen😮🙌🏾 I’m never going back to relaxer but I can admit yours looks great! ❤

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you so much!! 🤗♥️

[@beeznhoney4323]

Your routine has worked well for you over the years. Good job!💆🏾‍♀️🤩

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you so much, BeezNHoney! 🤗♥️

[@ndjobet]

Good day Sister Dolce, I pray that all is well with you. You always do a great job on your hair. It turned out beautiful as always. Stay blessed and have a wonderful week.

[@DolceDawn]

Good day, Sister Djobet! How are you? Thank you so much!! 🤗 Hope you have a blessed week as well. 🙏🏾♥️

[@AbsoluteMdot]

Your hair looks so good!

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you so much! ☺️♥️

[@238dwen]

Unique technique and beautiful results

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you so much, ms. chelle! 😊

[@christines1821]

Yes I was scared at first for you I was noooooo how is her hands not burning but love the results, as a natural who only does blow outs and flat irons I always say do what works for you and your hair and clearly your technique is different but it works

[@DolceDawn]

@@christines1821 Thank you!! ♥

[@MissNolver2]

I like looking at relaxer videos. Beautiful outcome, as expected 😉🖤💣

[@DolceDawn]

Glad you enjoyed! Thank you so much, MissNolver2! ☺️♥️

[@MissNolver2]

@@DolceDawn You're welcome! 🥰

[@debrasmith4623]

Girllllllllll you got it going on 😊

[@DolceDawn]

THANK YOU, MY DEAR!!! ♥️♥️♥️

[@melink4349]

That’s the cutest logo I’ve seen in a while… D.D. is an artist too? 🎉😊

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you, Mel! Well, I do dabble here and there… lol 😉

[@BionAvastar3000]

I'm curious, does the relaxer not burn your hands? I've only ever seen people using gloves to apply. Very thorough and precise application. Well done! Love how you styled the bang in this one.

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, BionAvastar3000! Thank you! Outside of my nail temporarily turning slightly yellow right after application, I’ve never really had an issue with the Mild version.

[@AmberU]

I was without relaxers for 15 years and im back! We know so much more now about how to keep hair healthy relaxer or not so im rolling with it and want to keep it healthy and get my length up !

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Amber! Welcomes back to the “relaxed” side of things. lol And you’re so right: with all the hair knowledge we now have to keep it healthy, and with consistency and patience, you WILL get that length up! Yes, ma’am! ;0)

[@yaamo]

Love your relaxer day❤ videos. Like the other commenter said, you keep it really simple; which is refreshing. One shouldn't have so many hair products....definitely learning that. I'm currently on relaxer break but you best believe that I'm taking notes. I'm given myself a few months and then I'll start relaxing again. Do you use chelating shampoo occasionally due to the no lye relaxer? Curious, did you use any reconstructive treatment after the shampoos. I can always go back to your other old relaxer videos. Thanks!

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you so much, yaamo! I’m really happy you enjoyed this. I never had an issue with my no-lye leaving any type of residue or calcium build up on my hair, so I haven’t found the need to use a chelating shampoo. And the only “treatment” I use is Olaplex No 3 a week after I color or relax.

[@margiemorales4095]

Thank you Dolce. You make it look so easy with all that hair healthy hair you have. I have one question. How do you store the rest of the relaxer for the next use. 👍🏾💖

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Margie! Thank you! And I just keep the unmixed/unused portion in its tub, under my bathroom sink until next use. ☺️👍🏾

[@margiemorales4095]

@@DolceDawn thank you Dolce👍🏾

[@medaherf9462]

Your video is tempting me to try self relaxing…..did you use a neutralizing shampoo at all? And what conditioner?

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, medaher! Yes, but not a traditional one. I used Paul Mitchell Awapuhi shampoo as a neutralizing shampoo as it doesn’t strip my hair dry. I also used y Theorie Helichrysum rinse out conditioner and Lacio leave-in conditioner.

[@debrasmith4623]

Yessssss Mammmm ❤

[@DolceDawn]

🙏🏾♥️♥️♥️🤗

[@MH-hw4uh]

It's the chemical on the skin I'm referring to really. Also, it would either and burn my fingers. I use that flat rubber with the long tail. Since, using it it's a game changer. U R doing a great job. The best I have seen. 🎉❤

[@DolceDawn]

Yes, I know you’re referring to the chemical on my skin/finger. 😉 So when I say I never had an issue, I mean with my finger being damaged/burned with the relaxer (which is mild). ♥

[@MH-hw4uh]

@@DolceDawn Long-term effects I'm referring to. Down the line…. You know those things have chemical that can cause cancer, over time? Just not wise using the finger. They package it with a glove Gloves 🧤 for a reason and you know they aren't thinking of us. Just getting their product sell. 🥲

[@angelathompson3749]

Great job! Love this relaxer day.

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you, Angela! ☺️♥️

[@allthingsdyniesha4126]

I can’t find their mild relaxer anywhere around me, only super 😢 is this the only brand you use? Also, how long do you keep the relaxer on?

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Neisha! I know! Not sure if you tried the Amazon link I have in the description box, but even online, it’s hard to get a hold of. Very frustrating… And I leave it on for about 25mins, give or take. 👍🏾

[@medaherf9462]

@@DolceDawn25 mins from initial start to finish or 25 mins after fully applying

[@tanyas1644]

Beautiful from start to finish 🎉❤

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you mucho, Tanya! ☺️♥️

[@lovelite6737]

Gone wit yo BAD self! I enjoyed this video! BEAUTIFUL all the way😂

[@DolceDawn]

THANK YOU SO MUCH!! ♥️♥️♥️

[@TRichards1]

Hey Dolce!! Looking good. What is your total processing time before you wash out the relaxer? Have you ever timed yourself recently?

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you!! Total time is about 25mins - give or take. ;0)

[@bokuwatoki5983]

Amazing walk through! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I’ve been waiting for this video thank you! Your hair looks healthy and gorgeous ❤ did you flat iron so get that finished look?

[@DolceDawn]

I’m so glad you enjoyed, bokuwatoki5983! And, yes, I used my ol’ trusty flat iron to smooth it all out at the end. 💁🏾‍♀️😉

[@darlenej8755]

Beautiful, love the process ❤

[@DolceDawn]

Thanks so much, Darlene! ☺️♥️

[@audreyphillips6504]

You and your hair is beautiful as always ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you so much, Audrey!! ☺️♥️

[@neishachambers2719]

Honest question how do you feel about the lawsuits and recent connections of relaxers to ovarian cancer, thyroid issues, and other health issues? What encourages you to continue relaxing?

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Neisha! I appreciate your question and did a reaction video regarding the recent study regarding hair straighteners if you want a more detailed answer, but I felt the study left more questions than answers and looped in relaxers along with all types of hair straighteners with no distinction. And after 10+ years of the study, they acquiesced that “more research is needed” as they STILL didn’t have impeachable proof connecting relaxers to cancers. After TEN YEARS?! Now they’re looking to get those products with formaldehyde in them banned - which they should. But these, they say, mainly involve keratin-based hair treatments, not the typical relaxer/box relaxer. So, since there has yet to be a concrete connection, I will most likely continue to relax. However, I am curious how the recent lawsuit(s) turn out and how it will shift the whole hair industry- if at all.

[@marquitad7112]

Have you? Ever did a wet roller set on your hair before?

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Marquita! Yes, I tried one yearrssss ago and it was an epic fail. lol

[@hrhsophiathefirst4060]

I mean the results speak for themselves! Do you wear your hair out when you are not filming?

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you, girl! Yep, I wear my hair out about 99.9% of the time. 💁🏾‍♀️☺️

[@angelicafilyzevrain5892]

Heyy, would you recommend the ultra precise relaxer on sensitive/dry scalp ? Thanks :)

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Angelica! Precise in Mild should be fine to use, but you could always test a small patch in the back before committing to your whole head.

[@eleganceevolved8328]

I remember self relaxing my hair for years and I never thought to do it this way! Do you do it this way to feel your new growth? I never liked relaxer on my hands cuz it felt so weird after. They have this thing called a finger cot. It’s like a plastic glove for the finger. I wonder if you could use that and still feel the texture of your hair. Just an idea!❤

[@DolceDawn]

Yes, I do it this way to feel the new growth and be more precise with my application. But I like the idea of having a “glove” for just my one finger and will definitely look that up. Thank you so much for the recommendation! I appreciate it! 👍🏾♥️

[@monique2731]

I’m glad I read the comments. I’ve never heard of finger cots. Found some on Amazon. Thanks!!

[@eleganceevolved8328]

@@monique2731 👌

[@eleganceevolved8328]

@@DolceDawn 👌

[@eleganceevolved8328]

@@monique2731 👌

[@MsStarryNights]

Hey! I am not sure if you addressed it already but what do you plan to do once Precise is no longer available? I ordered it from Amazon and now they’re out. Drove to 3 beauty supply stores today and they don’t sell it anymore. Last year I ran out of precise, couldn’t find it so I tried motions and ors…and my hair has been breaking ever since! I just realized it happened once I changed so now I’ll use precise again since I was able to grab a box but I’m worried about when I run out again.

[@DolceDawn]

I KNOW!! It’s been really touch and go as far as being able to snag it online. I’ve been thinking about trying Avalon if I am no longer able to purchase it, but… whew! The struggle is real!

[@DH301ify]

Love the video..what brand of flat irons do you use?

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you, DH301ify! Right now, I’m using a flat iron from the brand Theorie. But I’m going to be trying one that I just received from NuMe soon, so that video review is coming soon.

[@DH301ify]

Thank you for the response i can't wait to see that video on that brand of flat iron. i just ordered some flat irons yesterday and sometimes its a gamble whether they are inexpensive or expensive. Alot of these brands are just a name and they don't deliver like you expect.​@DolceDawn Have a wonderful week.

[@DolceDawn]

@@DH301ify You are so right. I remember going through several irons before settling on the one I have now. So hopefully this new one will work out, too. Will definitely do a “show and tell” soon. Hope you have a wonderful rest of the week, too! ♥

[@twinklestar6942]

Fantastic Job!

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you, Twinklestar6942!!

[@twinklestar6942]

@@DolceDawn what are the numbers 6942?

[@DolceDawn]

@@twinklestar6942 That’s how your name shows up now in the comments - “@twinklestar6942”. Did you change it recently?

[@twinklestar6942]

@@DolceDawnNo it’s been awhile sorry

[@DolceDawn]

@@twinklestar6942 No worries! I’ll just continue to call you Twinkle. 😉

[@kimberlyhudson2106]

BRAVO BRAVO BRAVO!!! 🎉🎉🎉

[@DolceDawn]

THANK YA, KIMBERLY!!! ☺️♥️♥️♥️

[@debrasmith4623]

Hello Beautiful Lady glad to see your face and your Beautiful hair ❤

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Debra! 👋🏾 Thank you! I appreciate you for stopping by! ☺️♥️

[@Purplebutterfly93]

Do you flat iron your hair ?

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Purplebutterfly93! Yep, once a week.

[@luniejoseph4531]

your hair looks strong is it by nature or you use a special treatment?

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Lunie! Thank you! Other than using Olaplex No 3 once a month, I don’t use any other special hair treatments.

[@luniejoseph4531]

Okay

[@kellag8079]

​@@DolceDawnwhat kind of conditioner do you use after the olaplex and how long do you leave it on? Do you cover and sit under a dryer? TIA

[@DolceDawn]

@@kellag8079 Hey! After I use the Olaplex #3, I wash and condition as usual with my normal conditioner, leaving it on for just a few mins (maybe 5 minutes) and rinsing it out afterwards (no sitting under a dryer). If interested, I have my detailed hair routine vids listed above that you may find helpful.♥

[@___Victoria_sunny]

Thank you so much for the updated relaxer routine, it is a complicated process, you have to be quick and in addition you needed to pay attention to the recording. Good results!!!

[@DolceDawn]

You are so welcome, Victoria! I’m happy you enjoyed the video. Thank you! ♥️ Yeah, it was a lot to juggle, but I made it through. lol 😂👍🏾

[@mcdonaldtiphange3151]

Boom🎉

[@DolceDawn]

👊🏾💥

[@traceylennon1204]

Wow no neutralizing shampoo?

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Tracey! I don’t use a “traditional” neutralizing shampoo, but use the Paul Mitchell Awapuhi Shampoo instead. 😉

[@traceylennon1204]

​I have that shampoo now!@@DolceDawn

[@DolceDawn]

@@traceylennon1204 Awesome! Do you like it? I love it! 😍

[@traceylennon1204]

​@@DolceDawnYes ma'am!! 😌🫶🏾🙌🏾

[@latonyabibbs8062]

Hi, what's a good relaxer to use since precise mild relaxer discontinued?

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Latonya! Precise hasn’t been discontinued, but it seems to be limited as far as where you can find it. If I end up not being able to get it anymore in my area, I may try the Avalon relaxer. But I’m hoping it doesn’t come down to that.

[@latonyabibbs8062]

Ok thank you

[@DolceDawn]

@@latonyabibbs8062 You’re welcome!

[@alexcyabasilio8547]

How long do you go between applications?

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Alexcya! I relax about every 8 weeks…

[@latonyabibbs8062]

Hi, where do you purchase your relaxer?

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, Latonya! I bought mine off of Amazon. They go pretty quickly, but I believe I have an Amazon link to it in all of my Relaxer Update videos, if interested.

[@latonyabibbs8062]

Ok thank you

[@DolceDawn]

@@latonyabibbs8062 You’re welcome!

[@Scorpiehibiscus]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@DolceDawn]

🙏🏾☺️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@LawanaHawkins]

Perm my hair for me . Witt

[@DolceDawn]

😂♥️♥️♥️

[@rjmami8508]

I know you probably said this in a previous video, but how often do you relax? I think I might do my next relaxer with my finger, cause those gloves be giving me the blues sometimes. You taught me something new, I never saw anyone start at the front before. Maybe I should try it lol.

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, rjmami8508! I relax about every 8 weeks and I feel the same way about gloves, which is why I ditched them yearrrssss ago. Do others that you’ve watched apply their relaxer starting at the back?

[@MH-hw4uh]

You need a gloves dear. 😢. Watching you is really therapeutic. 😅🎉❤. Great job ❤

[@DolceDawn]

Hey, MH-hw4uh! Thank you! And I know it looks scary, but I never really had an issue while using my fingers. Someone did suggest using a finger cot, though, so I may check that out! ☺️

[@Ali-xg2ts]

Your hair looks great... but it didn't look like there was enough new growth to relax.

[@DolceDawn]

Thank you! Oh, it definitely was enough to relax... I just do a great job in flat ironing my new growth when it comes in. ;0)

[@trylenecarr8854]

Your hair does not look dry, Woman.

[@DolceDawn]

I stand corrected. Thank you! LOL