Remembering Leslie Jordan: A Lifetime of Laughter & Loving Service

[@JaimeMesChiens]

I sobbed through this entire video. I’m a Registered Nurse, and I was a new RN, in LA, during the AIDS epidemic. When it began, it didn’t even have a name. It was, for a while, HTLV. Does anyone remember remember that? That was when-and-where I met Les Jordan. I don’t recall if he introduced himself as Les, or if that’s just what we called him, but I did not know his name was Leslie and didn’t know his surname. He was just Les. (When he first became quite famous, on Will and Grace, I did not realise he was our sweet and gentle Les. I didn’t watch Will and Grace, because I was a second-shift nurse, so evening TV was not part-of my life. I did, however, see bits-of-the Emmy Awards. It was on in the nurses’ lounge. Imagine my delight when angelic Les’ sweet face and voice showed up.) He visited end-stage ADC, AIDS dementia complex , patients, and he softly sang to them, and he stayed with families during the end, and stayed after their loved one was gone. And he cried. Now, we cry. How we love him!

[@susankeith326]

❤❤😢

[@danielkoher1944]

I had a RN friend now deceased she worked SF General and was sympathetic to everyone. What a true nurse takes their oath for. So many ignorant people quit ‘any’ healthcare job. Because it was a ‘moral sin’ and people were toxic. All the gospel talk shows, the news, and politically motivated misinformation. Being from a tiny village I personally took care of Friends. AIDS being constantly referred to as ‘Gay Cancer’ and God’s punishment for a Biblically condemned ‘lifestyle/choice.’ She had babies being born with AIDS, babies have no choice. Anyone and everyone who could benefit financially did. At the expense of other’s lives. It was/is disgusting and wrong to be mishandled for advancement of a hateful agenda. I see it turning back to past hatred within the past 7.5 years. No health crisis or global pandemic should be politically motivated. I personally know several people that lost loved ones to both.

[@louisel.sinniger2057]

Hey there, yes I remember those days. At the hospital I worked at I WANTED to take care of the aids patients because no one else would. I met some wonderful patients that looked out for me. Leslie Jordon was so great and funny. I miss him

[@Nurse-Addison]

That was beautiful. He will be missed. It was hard NOT to cry through this. Thank you and to the other nurse on here for your service. I myself am a nurse. 💖

[@janina8559]

Thank You so much for sharing your experience with us. It’s so nice to hear a personal story about him beyond the great things in this video. I wish I had met him because he was such an inspiration to others!

[@DCMarvelMultiverse]

Leslie doubted his dad's love, but it was his dad who created a literal safe and private space for him as a kid. The things we miss while growing up.

[@moniqueengleman873]

That is so very true. The older I get (63) I think often of my mother whom I adored. How did she do all those things. I am barely able to do my own dishes. I now see my father's contributions. How he sacrificed his time and was our protection.

[@Dragonflylane77]

He's the best ❤

[@micparker2235]

God, I cried so hard while watching this. Leslie was such a gem, and I wish we'd had a few more decades with him. He will be very missed.

[@PDComicBookNetwork]

Me, too. That story about the AA meeting just got me.

[@maryjablonski9712]

Seriously, his videos got me through the lock down.

[@acommon]

I'm only now finding out about him, and I'm bummed out I didn't earlier. I think I was a little too young for Ellen or Will and Grace

[@sinnsage]

we all gotta go friend, a few more decades would have been quite painful physically to live through for him! he blessed our world with a lot of joy, let’s be grateful we had that gift!

[@sirenskisscosplay784]

I cried watching this too

[@joyous7777777]

He was a lovely man. I had the privilege of sitting next to him in a piano bar and singing with the crowd. Wonderful voice and so sweet. We were both sober, gay and singing from our hearts. So grateful for his Light!

[@spookyvegan1402]

What a sweet memory ❤

[@WorldOfTess2024]

Oh, joyous, how LOVELY! Thank you so much for sharing, and KEEP SINGING!! 💖

[@Erika-be9hq]

This sounds beautiful and perfect 😊

[@believeinyourself7511]

Leslie Jordan is still serving others even while he is in Heaven. He opened my eyes to what my gay son went through while growing up. Today my son is moving from California to live with me.

[@JeffTiberend]

@@believeinyourself7511 That's wonderful. I hope all is going well.

[@sdl1ishappy]

I hope every straight person who loved Leslie and saw him on Ellen or any other show, learns that little boys like Leslie are perfect just as they are and a blessing. What a beautiful legacy!

[@obatalaosun2222]

THANK YOU

[@lakotadarkclouds8222]

What beautiful human being. We were all richer for having him in our lives. May he rest in peace. Gigantic oversized loss.

[@kimmmwest4641]

Some of us straight people never had a problem with boys or girls being exactly how they wanna be. 😮‍💨

[@charitysghost1207]

This comment should be pinned.💖

[@tabbymoonshine5986]

Hope you're doing well Roo! Keep that head up

[@NN-om2qv]

Being terrified of straight men is the hardest to let go of. It made me lie, pretend and hurt so many people just to stay hidden from ridicule and reliving my childhood. To all those who can find the strength to be themselves and help others, thank you.

[@bostonteaparty3926]

I don't particularly care to be around straight men - it is not because I am scared of them - but we have nothing in common. If the conversations always surround females - I am totally out! However, I do get hit on by a lot of married men - all the time. They find something about me that they like. I am always surprised that they are married. I am like - why in the hell did you get married if you are not happy - did you do it just because society says you should! I feel sorry for them!

[@williamzondersen]

Great comment.

[@NN-om2qv]

@@williamzondersen Thx

[@Caseys2Cents]

@@bostonteaparty3926 Personally I feel sorry for their wives. They are the ones being misled and lied to just because a man is afraid to be who he truly is.

[@johnkimber2509]

Fk their wives... their wives are probably making their husband's lives a living hell

[@micheldumont292]

This is my 25 yr of being a out gay sober man in a small city , being of service to others has always helped me as well. Thank you for this i have a couple of tears of joy and sadness

[@4dooky]

**hug**

[@KamalaHarris2024]

Enjoy!!! 😊

[@jcrosby1301]

CONGRATULATIONS Love!! So many beautiful souls out there.💖

[@kittyformanrn9268]

Love from Kentucky!😘

[@1997100juan]

I love you, you are strong 💪🏽 ❤❤

[@jmiller92027]

Hearing him tell his story, makes me remember a little boy I had my first year teaching preschool over 30 years ago. He was the youngest kiddo in our class, the tallest of all, and the first thing he did each morning was put on the brides dress 👗 in our dress-up area. He was everyone’s best friend. I would hope that he continued to grow up in a school and community that loved him for his gifts and talents.

[@teganlyons8169]

As a younger queer person who grew up in a small town in east Tennessee, I am so thankful for Leslie being an elder gay who left our area but didn't leave his accent behind. It is so comforting to me, as someone with a thick southern accent that I spent years hiding, that he was camp and effeminate and didn't leave that part of himself behind when he left Chattanooga

[@chestyvulva]

Trust me, at least half the married "straight" men you live around are closeted gay men. Lol

[@dawnreneegmail]

Wow melancholic, bash much⁉️🎉yay Leslie‼️‼️🥰

[@michaelangelo-the-singer-br549]

Why do you have call yourself Queer. The last words many of my friends heard before they were bludgeoned to death were, die you fuking Queer! Stick to Gay we have enough of an alphabet for evangelicals to use against us.🌈🌈👀👀

[@ASHA-jk2pf]

💚🫶🌈✝️🌎☀️🙏💎🏞️

[@lasuvidaboy]

@@michaelangelo-the-singer-br549 100% true. I’m a GAY man. Not queer.

[@mancheeks64]

I am a 58 year old Black, Gay man I am getting a deeper appreciation for Mr. Jordan. I always thought he was funny, but because he is a part of one (or more😉) of my cultures, I began to think of him as hilarious and a genius. I did not know half of the things your video educated me on. I look forward to checking out more your videos as I am now a fan of yours. 👊🥰💞

[@AlexPeterson-vw8kw]

Hey trhere

[@mancheeks64]

@@AlexPeterson-vw8kw hello.

[@AlexPeterson-vw8kw]

@@mancheeks64 Nice to hear from you. Where are you originally from?

[@mancheeks64]

@@AlexPeterson-vw8kw California. And you?

[@AlexPeterson-vw8kw]

@@mancheeks64 Okay, I am in Minnesota. You got partner?

[@4dooky]

So messed up that so many years had passed before he knew how much his daddy truly loved him. But... it's so heartwarming that he finally found out! (You go, Mama!) So glad he was able to become comfortable in his own skin 🥺🥰

[@m00k61]

The story about his dad and the doll had me tearing up. Two great men. RIP

[@nibel13]

I am a straight man, but I was born without arms and short thigh bones, so Im writing this with my feet (Im a musician, watch my ch to see how I do stuff). I L O V E your ch Matt and Ive watched every video you have uploaded. I have always related strongly with gay people and could see myself in many similar sociatal struggles. But hearing Leslie talk about being afraid of groups of straight men/ and gay men, something sparked in my brain... I have many of the same thoughts Ive come to realise. AND using humour to de-weaponize interactions. I now am 32, but I realise that I have alot of things that I have not dealt with. I have also hid myself in different addictions. This video (like many other of yours) have hit me hard. I think you, Matt, are doing great stuff here on youtube. I wish we lived in the same place so we could be friends, I cant tell you enough how good your content is! With all the love this swedish, disabled, straight man can muster

[@Zaihanisme]

As a gay man who's faced bigotry and prejudice, it always pissed me off how both invisible and caricatured the disabled are made. I hope you find the strength and wisdom to deal with those issues you speak of, and thank you for sharing how kindred you felt with Leslie

[@f.michaelbremer-cruz2708]

Wow, what a truly heartfelt and empathetic comment from a true ally of the LGBTQ community! Thanks for sharing these thoughts, you seem truly wonderfully brilliant with a big heart, IMHO. All the best wishes of success in your musical career.

[@gaywizard2000]

wow, you sound amazing! All the best!

[@ojifididitsimpson]

I subscribed to your channel. God bless you!! You rule man! Thank you for being you.

[@AnxiousGary]

I rarely describe people as allies but you're obviously one of the good ones. Thanks for being an understanding person, and best wishes from Florida.

[@DiamondGirl333]

How could you not love that man? He stole the show in everything he played in. He made me laugh till I cried. He was such an inspiration for all of us. Rest In Paradise LJ.

[@RonnieStewartJr]

I’m not kidding, as soon as I heard him say “he adored you,” I BURST out into ugly tears.

[@eagander]

Me too! I never heard that from my dad. 😢

[@ninaschust3694]

I really wonder why his mother told him that story so late in life. It's so wholesome ❤.

[@joey4691]

No, beautiful tears...

[@maidcafejenifer]

The fear and tension in his voice when he repeated his AA meeting confession, it really choked me up. He went through so much struggle while focusing on everyone else's struggle to help them, what a beautiful soul. The world is a bit colder without him, RIP.

[@victoriataylor6741]

Leslie is from my hometown of Chattanooga TN. I remember him in the very early years when I would run into him at one of the local bars. He was a beautiful human & he is missed.

[@kaydublin5164]

You are indeed very luck to of met him.

[@ashleyhall6098]

Do you remember the way people treated him back then?

[@victoriataylor6741]

@ashleyhall6098 yes. He was very popular in high school & well liked in the local bars. He was a very likable guy & always had that great sense of humor. I didn't go to school with him but several of my friends did.

[@richarddcvamd]

I lived in Chattanooga in the 70's, went to Leslie's church, Central Baptist, and sang in a church group with Leslie's sister. I came out in 1976. I moved to Atlanta in 1979. I understand everything he was talking about!

[@shawnstanton2443]

I have been sober since May 30, 1992 And we used to have a conference here in San Antonio called Briding the Gap for bringing the straight and gay communities of recovery together As a straight man it was a joy to encounter someone like him new in recovery and say " we are the same and you are welcome and loved " Thank you for putting this up

[@louisachalarca6494]

Congrats on the sobriety it’s the time of my life! Struggling with drinking so it’s inspiring and needed. Like woah seriously congratulations what an accomplishment 🎉

[@searchingfororion]

As someone in SA, that certainly sounds like something we still need. I wonder what it would take to get it kicking again...?

[@angelogolde4035]

Whew 😥 your comment made me tear up. I appreciate the straight men that make us gay guys feel welcome no matter what walk of lives we come from.

[@cliftonbowers6376]

Yes we shared that for sure but me 95 ..he and where close also during covid I was his sounding board and vise versa ..

[@shawnstanton2443]

​@@cliftonbowers6376that is wonderful....we all want to be loved

[@adelucas4824]

I adored Leslie and was always happy to see him in anything as I immediately knew it was going to be brilliant. He was a shining talent taken too soon, and the only consolation I can think of is he died knowing he was loved. Millions of people worldwide adored the tiny, camp, energetic force of nature that was Leslie. He went through things that would have destroyed most people and came through it a strong and authentic force for good.

[@cdd4248]

Nicely Stated.

[@TheoRae8289]

I just happened to be flipped channels when I ran into one of his Will and Grace appearances. It immediately felt like I'd known him my whole life. Probably because some part of me felt connected to the queer Tennessean without actually knowing we shared a home state at the time. Leslie was how I got into the show.

[@ASHA-jk2pf]

💚🫶🌈✝️🌎☀️🙏💎🏞️🙌❤️‍🔥💥💕

[@marifeely1694]

Well, well, well.....always made me laugh.

[@christinewahl3470]

Thank you Matt. What you put together here was beautiful. I am not gay, but I have Cerebral Palsy & Osteogenesis Imperfecta. I grew up in the '60's,'70's and I endured my fair share of being bullied. So,I love hearing Leslie talk about his life.I just wish I could have seen all these interviews when he was still with us.

[@Sabrina_116]

The story of acceptance by the group of straight men in AA really brought e to tears. I'm so happy he got that moment of love and acceptance. I can only imagine how wonderful that felt for him. ❤️

[@thoughtfortheday7811]

Yes, that was a highlight of an excellent video. His openness was courageous. Brought a tear to my eye too.

[@turtleofpride4572]

I grew up in AA, am also a former member. I never felt totally comfortable to come out. But the amount of love I've received. Even after ten years of in an out they have been nothing but loving. People still ask about me. It's an amazing fellowship.

[@thompkins6796]

The only requirement is a desire to stop drinking, everything else doesn't matter. I cried because I know that feeling of fear and shame being overwhelmed with love and support in those rooms, it's truly magic stuff.

[@JF-NYC-NJ-Girl]

That made me cry...the AA fellowship is UNCONDITIONAL

[@loriharding2023]

same here.

[@jbmaitre5758]

I was so depressed during covid... I started watching Leslie's videos he truly helped me get through it, made me laugh and even replied to one of my comments which made me so happy... I am devastated to hear he died in a car accident, and I truly miss him!!! ❤ ❤

[@childless-catlady8255]

I believe he died of heart desease, but he left this mortal coil far too soon. ❤

[@jbmaitre5758]

@@childless-catlady8255 Oh... I thought it was a car accident for some reason!! So in actuality, he had heart failure which caused him to have an accident - well thank you for letting me know Celeste take care xxx

[@jenniferhalliwell416]

I adored this man! I am sure when he left, his Dad was standing there waiting for him with a doll in a wedding dress with the biggest smile on his face. Leslie probably pissed on all the Angels at the sight of it! Gosh I am gonna miss you Leslie. Thanks for giving us so much...thanks for your service!

[@sallyversace]

I somehow managed to not cry during the video but this comment did me in. So sweet and very true.

[@marifeely1694]

LOL I hope so!

[@AuthorCertifiedGoof]

KZbin has been telling me I need to watch this video for a couple weeks, now, but I held off because of how painfully his death hit me. But he’s a man to be celebrated, not mourned, and you did a fabulous job here!!

[@euansmith3699]

"He played a monkey in a sake commercial with Boy George..." Well, there aren't many of us that can say that, are there? What a lovely video. Thank you.

[@susanvaughan-schiele210]

He was so wonderful in Will and Grace. Great comic timing and presence.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I was devastated when I first heard the news. A comedy legend.

[@sharksport01]

So sad he Died Suddenly. I'm sure his mother is devastated .

[@Mrstigger747]

@@sharksport01 his mama passed in May 2022 😢😢

[@loveClowns8]

As a European person I didn't see Leslie Jordan until I saw him in AHS season 6. And as soon as he opened his mouth I loved him. The more I learn about him the more I love him! Rest in peace you absolute legend! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@bethanyhanna9464]

As the parent of a gay son, I completely understand his mom's reaction to him coming out. It's very different from not accepting your son. It's recognizing the reality of the world around us. I've known, accepted, and loved many homosexual family members and friends my entire life. I had recognized the signs periodically since my son was born. That part was never an issue at all. But, because I'd known so many people from earlier, less safe times, I also understood the different world my son faced from that I did. I personally never suggested my son live quietly. In fact, he has never changed. He's just him, and his sexuality was only as much a part of himself as it is to me, or anyone who isn't "different" from the "norm". ("Norm" referring to the statistics, which remain an overwhelming majority. Being truthful about who and what makes you you isn't shameful, even if one part of it isn't statistically "normal". Everyone has something about them that isn't "normal" in some way. So please understand I'm not being phobic, or offensive here.) But I can very much understand Leslie's mom wanting to protect the son she loved from a world where being openly homosexual could literally get you hurt, or even un-lifed. People throughout history have shifted their acceptance levels of people who are different from them in extreme ways. What is completely OK one day, becomes "evil" without warning. As a parent, you never want your child to face the part where what they are isn't accepted. You just want them safe, and happy. 💜 I will forever love, and remember Leslie Jordon for being brave enough to be his true self, in a time when that was something that actually took bravery to openly do. I hate that he had to struggle, and feel ashamed of being something he had no choice in being. But through his experiences, and the way he handled them, my son, and countless others will continue to benefit. And that's all on top of the incredible talent he shared with the world. He was always so memorable in everything I ever saw him do. He never ceased to entertain me. If I saw he was in something, be it a movie, a TV show, a stage production, or whatever, I knew (at least his part) it would be good. In these final years, especially during the Toilet Paper Apocalypse, I found hope, and a reason to laugh, watching his TikTocks. And he MADE Call Me Kat. He always seemed authentically Leslie, a man of fascinating layers. He will be missed. But for generations to come, he WILL be remembered. RIP

[@biguy47905]

Mama Bethany, I love that you're so full of love - truly a beautiful lady. ❤

[@petradonovan5161]

Amen

[@mikeyfrederick1232]

Sending you love and positive energies Beth..people like you give me hope...thanks for sharing your story xoxo

[@y_fam_goeglyd]

As a mum to an autistic asexual son and a bisexual daughter (and a straight son and daughter), I know exactly what you're feeling and how you fear for your son. My youngest son - I'm more worried about him coping with life in general because of his Asperger's. He's also 6 foot tall and built like an outhouse. Not fat, just "well built" as they say, so nobody really wants to pick on him. My "baby" daughter, however, is barely over 5' tall and lives in a big city. I worried about her leaving home to go to uni, but her eldest brother informed her that she was to choose his uni (he was doing his PhD there by then), so he could keep an eye on her. He's always been overprotective of her. Everyone's response to her coming out was pretty much, "And?" It wasn't a complete surprise but I was still proud of her for telling me, even though she knew nothing bad would happen. Like with you, I'm just more worried about other people than her sexuality. Fortunately she shares a flat with a guy who she, and a few others, shared a home with at uni for a few years. In other words, he's an "adopted brother" and therefore one of my extra sons (I've lost track of the number of extra sons & daughters I've had over the years! My home is now a refuge for my younger son's trans friends, so they can come back and visit friends & some family without needing to stay with parents. Hubby & I are used to their comings and goings, and get a lot of pleasure in seeing initially cautious people let loose and relax. They're a bunch of adorable loonies for the most part lol.) As it turns out, she has a serious boyfriend and it looks like marriage might be on the cards. I wouldn't have minded if he'd been a her, as long as my girl is being treated well. He's wonderful and doesn't give a hoot about her sexuality, so she can keep him! Much love to you and all your family. Your son is a very lucky man to have you as his mum x

[@corkycobon1481]

Mr. Jordan was and forever will LEGENDARY!! His humanity, his compassion and his heart were just too damn big for his frame. He fought on the front lines in the 80s when AIDS became the scourge that it is. He is and was a tireless and extremely vocal cheerleader for the LGBTQIA+ Community. He was a tireless human rights campaigner and an advocate bar none. He is iconic on so many levels and the world lost a truly real one when Mr Jordan was called home. May He rest in eternal peace. Thank you, Mr Jordan, for being the most authentic version of yourself. Long may your life and example be a guiding star for those in need of love and compassion.

[@kirstena4001]

Let's all raise a refreshing Lemon Drop to this amazing person and actor 💜

[@marifeely1694]

"This is a gay bar?" LOL

[@ThePetspock]

I worked with this beautiful man . He was so wonderful!!! I love him forever from our first meeting. What a genuinely superb man !

[@rachelgarber1423]

That story about his father was so touching, unconditional love

[@johnjohnson3709]

What he said about being service to others has really stuck in my brain. Now I’m looking at things differently.

[@ramblinentertainment1922]

I’m from Tennessee and Leslie is so much like my older, very southern, gay “uncles”. It was so cool to see someone living their truth in the public eye and people loving someone like the people I love. Rip Leslie 💔

[@kathymichael7224]

I remember first seeing him on Murphy Brown as my favorite hire as Murphy's assistant with the worst luck ever. I loved him from the start! I enjoyed his performances on everything I saw him on. He was a natural comic actor. As a Sunday school teacher with a Progressive Christian rebellious streak, I teach my kids that we can't judge, we're just to love. I adored his Instagram posts. I'm glad Leslie felt loved. I miss him. I had no idea of his life story. It's rather like my play brother's whom I also miss very much. I had no idea we were born the same year!

[@TheBizzle1984]

He was so open hearted during the pandemic, it really meant a lot 💗

[@haroldjordan7286]

Every time he would say hello fellow hunker downers. I started to looking forward to his pandemic posts. He is truly missed. 😪

[@marmichaux7520]

His "Well..shit" into each video chat was the best. I loved it.

[@Clasped003]

As a straight man who is on the verge of marrying the woman he loves, i can only say that i truly love and appreciate what Leslie Jordan did in entertainment. Seeing him on Call Me Kat was just a treat. I sincerely cried learning of his passing. It's actually very difficult to describe how much joy he has brought me and my loved ones in his show appearences. I wish the world wasn't so cruel to people. I really wish the pain people are put through wasn't so strong. I cried when i learned of Leslie's passing the same i cry when i learn of anyone else's. Why can't people just accept love? Ill never know. ..

[@postmodernfreak]

Cus it's not just about love. Love and sex are the last thing people are ridiculing. That's what's complicated. Its about the distinct way of presentation, the voice, the camp , the theatrics. Bullying is an absolute evil because it isolates and forces disconnection.

[@joyceshiver6622]

This little man was one of my heroes! Such a icon! You changed the world Leslie, your dad would have been proud! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@petradonovan5161]

He may have been little physically but he was a tower of a man in every other sense.

[@RedRiverMan]

Praise God for Leslie and his inspiring life! He makes me proud to be a southerner, a Christian and Gay man! I hope more gays hear his story and everybody! He recorded a gospel album before he died and God has touched a lot of folks with his music and his refusal to be put out of anywhere-the South, the faith and the film industry! Rest in power brother Leslie I know you dancing with bells on in heaven!

[@queencerseilannister3519]

I still can't believe he's gone. Of all the people, this seemed so out of the blue. I will miss his beautiful light and energy.

[@michellehill4148]

I am just two years younger than he was and I can tell you I knew I was "different" at a very young age. I know exactly how it felt and I came out in 1974. Tough times but worth it in the end. Thank god he had the support of his family, as I did. Edit: I truly love this man. He was a beautiful person in so many ways. I know I learned a lot from this man during his daily messages during COVID. So sorry to see him leave us so soon😭

[@carolinea3899]

Man I’m crying so hard right now, especially with the story about his dad and the doll. 😭❤️

[@FWIRG]

Me too

[@meo21626]

Me too! ❤

[@lavip.9838]

Me too

[@tomdaley9154]

Im a straight man, Marine, Combat Vet. And man i wish i was in that group he was so scared of. I wish i could have told him its ok yo be himself and he shouldn't feel that way about himself. It breaks my heart to know he suffered so much his whole life, just because he thought it was wrong to be who he cant change. Its so sad. Im glad the latter part of his life was full of acceptance and love from society. What a wonderful man and its so unfortunate hes gone

[@sandrafaith]

This is the first I'm hearing of Leslie's story and I'm in tears. What a beautiful man, and what a loss.

[@roberthansen9294]

I loved him so much. His humor, his talent, his passion, and his wonderment , proving again that the best thing in this world is being yourself

[@megancasner5837]

I’m from Chattanooga. Leslie was a local icon. He’s actually getting a street renamed in his honor. He makes me proud to be from TN.

[@chrisallen7911]

Thank you so very much. What a truly beautiful tribute to Leslie. I have just come to the same conclusions Leslie did at age 50. I lived exactly like him in TN in a deeply religious family and have been terrified and ashamed of myself for being a Gay man my whole life. At 51 years old I have a talk to my home Church family and like Leslie I could not believe the response of genuine Love and support by my fellow Male Church members and their wives. What a blessings God has given me! Leslie I can feel you as I type this. Love you guys and like Leslie said, SERVING OTHERS and LOVING OTHERS is the one and only Answer sent from God above. ❤

[@picahudsoniaunflocked5426]

I’m bawling right now Matt thanks so much I needed this after ClubQ. I needed to remember we survive as much as we can & we help each other thrive to raise us all. It’s been an overwhelming sad scary day, & I needed to hear someone good can + did overcome, & I’m a sucker for a 3rd Act Phoenix Arc. Thank you Matt I needed this. Journey well, Leslie. Thanks for your service, Leslie-you served, you served.

[@VeracityLH]

Ah, sweetheart, I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. Hugs and much love to you. May brighter days be ahead. 💜

[@nycava0520]

What a sweet soul. During the pandemic I followed Leslie on Instagram. He certainly brightened my day. RIP sweet Leslie ❤

[@julianmorrisco]

Will and Grace was my first experience of Leslie - I wondered where this force of nature had come from and enjoyed every moment he was onscreen. To hear his story of struggle and to find out that it had a positive ending is wonderful. I have always had gay friends - one of my proudest moments was being best man at a friends’ wedding the week after gay marriage became legal where I live and there was always a sense of solidarity with gay people where I grew up and homosexual ‘acts’ were illegal. It infuriates me how we treated gay people and I’m glad it’s getting better.

[@marifeely1694]

It infuriates me too.

[@kmo2959]

It hurts, it hurts so damned bad to know Leslie is gone. The news of his passing that morning hit me like a ton of bricks, as if I had lost my own family member. I am still struggling with it. I never met the man nor ever came within his presence, but I feel I've known him forever....funny how some people get to you in that manner. Leslie will always have a place in my heart....and he damned well better hang out with me when I get over the rainbow! 🌈 We have a lot of talking to do girl! Love and miss you much. 💜

[@shanetrent8799]

R.I.P Leslie. Small in stature, big in all other ways. You will be missed.

[@ultracurious]

Leslie was such a lovely, funny, talented, precious man. The world is a less beautiful place without him.

[@RaymondHng]

This is the most comprehensive memorial I've seen on Leslie Jordan.

[@johnniepatrick6537]

I miss him so much. He always brought a smile to my face. Such a ray of sunshine.😢

[@alderoth01]

I'm in sort of the same boat at the age of 42. I went and got sober after my father died. He still saw me as a junkie, and a thief. I never told him about how I liked everyone either. Men, women, transexuals, aliens, anything that I could have an emotional connection to. Even now, after 3 years of therapy, talking to my psychologist, being off the needle, and pills, I still don't say it, or act like it in person. I've pretended to be straight for a long time, and even when I tried to tell people it felt like nobody cared, or as long as I didn't act too gay, or talk about men seriouly, then there was no issue. I do have to admit the only time I talk about it is online. I've grown comfortable on the interwebs, but you see my picture. Nobody knows who I am unless they really know me. I hope one day I can just live like Leslie did. He was always so funny no matter what he did, and seemed like he had no regrets in who he was. I loved that. I had no idea that he had been through so much though. Hearing his story definitely made me want to use because of the similarities lol. It had a good ending though. He will be missed, that's for sure.

[@yessumyecrad]

I hope you find the strength and support to be yourself openly. Know that there are plenty of people who would love and hold you dear after getting to know the real you and feel honored for you to feel safe eough around them that you reveal you true self.

[@AnxiousGary]

You're gonna do great out there, I believe in you!

[@gazepskotzs4]

Awesome man, who cares what fools think of you, you're better than those narrowminded people out there.

[@lawrencebaker2318]

You be you! The mirror is the only person you have to have the approval of. (Not that I am so great at taking my own advice!)

[@itsjustme4848]

Just try to be your best self. What others think doesn’t really matter because they don’t really care. They’re too concerned about what others think of THEM.

[@FluffyMI6]

Im glad his family supported him. Not everyone has a supportive family

[@enerioffutt1881]

I remember always wanting to cuddle Leslie, not in a sexual way. I just wanted to wrap him up in a soft, fluffy blanket and be with him in a place of beauty and joy, where we could be happy and make each other laugh. He was always such a special person and made me feel good inside.

[@don_actor_improv]

This was so wonderful to watch. It actually made me cry when I heard Leslie’s sponsor’s advice to him - - to show up and serve … to help him while working as an actor. Also, I remember the first time I spoke about my homosexuality in front of my 12-step group. I was nervous as hell, afraid of judgment and rejection, just as Leslie was when he got up to speak. No one ran screaming from the room, and the experience was exhilarating. It was a key step on my journey to self-confidence and acceptance. God rest him.

[@MsKaz1000]

when I saw him in Will and Grace I knew his face from many guest star roles I'm glad he made peace with who he was and got to be happy and had a full life he deserved it all

[@luckyguy71]

Leslie Jordan helped me through the darkest times of isolation during the initial Covid lockdowns. I would watch him everyday he posted on his Instagram channel. "Hello fellow hunker downers!" His greeting made me feel like things would get better soon and his stories or his antics would always make me smile.

[@EJSmith145]

I actually was unfamiliar with his career (I really only knew him from his Instagram) but man...his story resonates with me so much. The ending of this episode, with hearing about how his father really felt, left me in tears. Moving on from shame and loving who you are really is everything. Phenomenal work as always, Matt 💖

[@Im_Laura_Jones]

Y’all know that part in Steel Magnolias after Shelby’s funeral, and you’re bawling your eyes out along with M’Lynn, then suddenly your bursting out laughing when Clairee offers up Ouiser-“here, hit this!!”…that was my experience while watching this video, hearing Leslie’s story and listening to him speak firsthand. Just crying and laughing 😭😆 What a wonderful soul…very glad I’m finally catching up on your channel, Matt. ❤

[@TimothyCollins]

I am actually devastated… I just found out Leslie Jordan is dead. That guy has somehow been in around 80% of the tv and movies I have watched. He was a constant. He was that guy I saw everywhere and lived seeing every time. RIP Leslie, you’ll be sorely missed.

[@Teresia12]

I loved him so much. I'm a Tennessean. I am very proud he was too. My Mama died in 2000. Everytime I heard Leslie say "Well shit" I could hear Mama again. He was a true gem. He was only one year older than me. We came from the same Era. He thought he wasn't supposed to be gay and I was taught I wasn't supposed to like and respect gay people. We both just couldn't live that way.

[@Love1nOther]

The story about his dad made me cry! Everyone should feel loved❤

[@RobertLienthang]

The way his dad cared for him despite everything 😭 He made sure he is happy😭

[@JoeBardales]

Losing Leslie so tragically and unexpectedly last month was heartbreaking. This video really lifted my spirits and reminded me of how much he gave us on and off screen. I hope I can be half the man that he was. And at least one quarter as FABULOUS!

[@gaylegoodman9097]

It’s been a long time since I cried watching a video, but, this brought me to tears. Although I was crying already, when I heard about his dad buying the doll and his mother saying how much his dad adored him I cried the most. Throughout the entire story, I just wanted to give him a hug. He was wonderful. R.I.P. Leslie. You are missed 💜🩵❤️🩷💙💛🧡!!!

[@michaeld.williamsiii9026]

Just got into him in the recent years as a millennial he was such a talent. Along with extremely comical and often made me laugh, when needed. Great video Matt, may Leslie Rest In Peace always his passing was so shocking along with now Jason David Frank. From the Power Rangers; my childhood, lots of sadness lately. 💔

[@mimibuckles]

This had me in tears. What a beautiful human. Thanks for bringing Leslie Jordan into my life. I’m not a sitcom watcher so had never heard of him. Blessings to all watching this. ❤

[@Melissa-tw2gp]

Hate that he got taken from us. I know how painful it is wonder if a parent is ashamed of you. I hope he felt loved and appreciated at the end of his life. Thank you, Leslie, for all you gave us.

[@vivandav67]

What a national treasure he was...I'm crying thinking about what he could have done the next 20 years...however, he would probably say that he brought laughter and love to a lot of people, so that is enough...rest in peace, sweet Leslie...

[@j.leeedwards2780]

What an amazing man. He had such a beautiful heart. He will truly be missed.

[@andyandcallie]

This man was adorable! I never really knew who he was until after he died. Then, all of a sudden, I recognized him and now, post-mortem, I just love him!

[@BigGMonsterMan]

I adored Leslie Jordan. I unfortunately have no recollection of him before Will & Grace. I learned so much about him after his passing and, of course, from this video. I had never realized the parallels of his life and mine. Both born in 1955, small town (Missouri for me), being ridiculed for not being "like my older brothers" and getting away to a big city (Kansas City for me) to live our lives. One main difference was that my drug of choice was co-dependency and getting involved in one-sided relationships. Luckily, I went into therapy after my last big break-up and found myself again. And that led to a true relationship that has lasted 23 years. The story his mother told him about his father also hit home. I remember asking for a Barbie (the first one) for Christmas and everyone telling me that little boys didn't play with dolls. When I was 6, I was out with my dad at a Ben Franklin store and seeing a knock-off Barbie-type doll. My dad took it off the shelf and let me look at it. He asked if I really liked it. I said YES and he bought it for me. After I came out in the 70s, he was the only one who really accepted me. My mother had passed away when I was 15, so I never knew what she would have said. But whenever we would talk, my dad always asked how my boyfriend was. He's passed on many years now. But I have those memories, and many happy memories with the close friends I gained in my life. Thank you so very much for all of your videos; this one in particular. ❤❤

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

I was a HUGE fan of Leslie Jordan’s, and I was so sad when he died. If I was feeling down, I could watch his lockdown videos, because his “well, sheeeet” greeting would make me smile and laugh. Thank you for this wonderful video, Matt. You do a wonderful job with your videos.

[@merlinsclaw]

This was a wonderful tribute, Matt. Thank you for posting. 💙💙💙

[@angelaholmes8888]

Yeah it is

[@PeriLyons123]

What an inspiring story!!! I was so lucky to grow up in a queer friendly straight family- my grandparent’s friends Uncle Bob and Aunt Howard.. Thank God LGBTQ kids now have role models and societal support and PRIDE. There’s NOTHING in the Bible that “forbids” homosexuality.. but there is everything that says “love not hate.” Leslie Jordan was a secular saint, and I’m so grateful for this fabulous show about him!

[@WadersInAlaska]

Leslie is my favorite little guy of all time! When I heard are seen he was starring in a show or movie, I knew he would make it that much better. It broke my heart to hear of his passing. There needs to be more Leslies in this world. What a loss..... RIP Leslie!!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤❤

[@kaisa6849]

He talks so casual about it, i feel comfortable listening. I wish i get to hear him talk more.

[@millennialfalcon8958]

I saw "Sordid Lives" for the first time not long before my coming out process started in 2009, and I watched it over and over and over. I have memorized most of the dialogue haha. I too was raised Southern Baptist in Appalachia and I don't think it's possible to put into words how much Leslie meant to me, how much of myself I saw in him, and how much I looked up to him. I had tickets to see him at Play in March of 2020 (we all know how that turned out haha) and I would have loved to just be able to say a quick "thank you for having the courage to be visible, it meant a lot to me as a little gay boy in eastern Kentucky." But, now even more of the younger generation know what a joy of a human being he was and for that I am grateful.

[@richardlee2642]

If you get the chance, watch Southern Baptist Sissies. It’s on KZbin.

[@JennyJeong425]

I LOVE Brother Boy.

[@crealizecoaching]

In Europe we do not get all the news so to learn Leslie had passed away last year was a shock. What an inspirational man and an example to us all to embrace who we are. Will be dearly missed, rest in peace Leslie.

[@argusfleibeit1165]

He was my age. Listening to his story, it occurred to me that he was part of a time in our history, where many more people were allowed to find acceptance, and to thrive, and share whatever gifts they have with the world. Some people now are trying to go backwards, and gin up all that resentment, rejection, fear and hatred. Let's NEVER let them win. There is way too much to lose.

[@Mr5150Sarge]

Leslie Jordan was a classic. He was himself and didn’t let anyone get him down.

[@catherinecrawford3058]

while the church he was raised in was not welcoming to him, he was faithful to a life of service. Well done, good and faithful servant.

[@dawnreneegmail]

Church got it wrong: love thy neighbor, all of God's creation is perfect whether we understand or not... Jesusian and gay here, RIP Les

[@devans00]

Thank you for the loving and informative tribute to Mr. Leslie Jordan. I still miss him daily. I’m happy he lived long enough to blossom into his true self and know that millions of people around the world appreciate him.

[@pdlbean]

I was so sad to hear of his passing. I hope he knows how much we all loved him.

[@lynnjones9265]

I'm so happy he was able to later in life embrace himself and find happiness. That's the most important thing. I'm glad he got that.

[@72PRODIGALSON]

Matt... This was, by far, the greatest most heart-wrenchingly, devastating, video you've done yet... I, actually, cried for this one. I miss Leslie, severely. I am, and always will be, a proud straight, heterosexual, ally to the gay community.

[@alfiemarie]

i am obsessed that you really took the time to compile all of these clips, and piece together Leslie's story, and share it with all of us. THANK YOU SO MUCH!

[@lordsxman]

Matt you truly do the Lord's work. Thanks for honoring Leslie Jordan. I look forward to your videos.

[@donnyshathaway1981]

Thank you so much for this Matt! I'm doing my internship in addiction counseling, and working with an outpatient LGBT group - tomorrow we're talking about practicing acceptance - Leslie's story (and the way you put it together here) is just perfect! Thank you for all you do :)

[@AmyLou733]

I feel so sad that I didn't know what a treasure this man was until after he was gone, but damn if I'm not thrilled to get to know him now, through his work and the people who loved him.

[@Granny73]

Me too! Our loss but he left behind s-o-o-o many memories that we can go back and look at.

[@djbille4283]

This is the second time this story came up in my feed and although I had already seen it, I watched it again. A very touching story that brought many tears to my eyes 😢 again . He really was a gem, especially on Will & Grace 😌

[@NHT2]

Matt, thank you for making me fall in love with this man all over again. Growing up in the 90s he was one of the few gay role models that existed. Back then, it was enough that we knew others existed, but he went further and shouted it from the roof tops. He was so amazing and I'm sure we will all feel the loss for some time.

[@bobnbutters]

Our chorus actually opened up for Leslie. It was a fund raiser for the chorus and he was also touring in support of his Pink Carpet book. I am not tall at all, 5’ 2”, but he made me feel tall in comparison. He was so tiny! But what a huge heart and caring person he was. It’s a Southern LGBTQ+ chorus too. He was very supportive of the gay community. He is missed by so many people. His words of service are so profound . I have had this mindset for years but not as consistently as I should. I am happiest when I service others. What a wise, good man.

[@virginiapaigelove5307]

Thank you for making this video. Leslie Jordan lived in our building for a while (it's difficult to remember the exact year because we lived there for over 14 years) and he was the nicest, sweetest, most down-to-earth neighbor you could ever ask for. My husband and I were crushed to hear of his death. The world is a less joyous place without him. May his memory be a blessing.

[@paulschneider9286]

What a wholesome and sincere man he was. I didn’t know he’d passed away. I didn’t even like him for a long time in Will and Grace. He really does have my respect, and admiration having watched this video. Thank you!!