Transforming my dads cluttered and chaotic kitchen into something cozy and clean

In this video I clean my Dad’s kitchen, and we have a chat about my childhood, neurodivergence and being “naturally messy.”

[@remiclog]

Guys…I am very aware that I talk extremely fast in this video. Something to bare in mind is that I am still a relatively new creator in the grand scheme of things ( even more-so when I created this particular video) And it takes time and practice to perfect any kind of craft! When it comes to voiceovers, I am still learning about timing and spacing and trying to improve with each video. I transitioned over here from TikTok, over there the tempo is extremely fast! And that style of voiceover doesn’t necessarily translate well to long form. It can be quite strange (and cringy!) to look back on old videos and see just how much my voiceovers have already improved. Ultimately though, it’s I still stand by everything I said in this video. The topic means so so much to me.

[@reneechristensenpillow8373]

You are doing very well. Practice will improve anything.

[@amandazte1412]

This video made my day ... I am an absolute perfectionist and have laser-focus in my working life, but my kitchen often looks like this one despite me giving myself regular pep-talks about not letting it slide. I absolutely loved your voice-over and it made me feel less judged and a bit less rubbish about myself ... thank you so much!!!! xox

[@Sunshine-hv1eu]

I LOVE your voiceover and timing!! I find the pacing of many creators is too slow for me-I get frustrated and fast forward or change the playback speed then usually stop watching/listening. Yours is refreshing and easy to dive into and engage. Please keep doing what you’re doing! It’s inspiring and empowering as well as enjoyable! Thank you so much!!

[@helenmcdonnell2585]

You're pace is just fine for me, you're videos are giving me strength to go fix up my relatives house, only just found your videos the other day from that nice bloke who does the Midwest Moose videos. He's a sweetheart who cleans homes for free with his lad. Anyway, thanks for your input , wishing you everything of the best love from Derry, Northern Ireland.

[@danagantt4841]

You're doing great and I am learning a lot from you. Thank you for sharing. ❤

[@SweetShaymaa]

Best narration on KZbin 👍 who else agrees ??

[@remiclog]

Wow this is the biggest compliment! Thank you so much! ☺️

[@kelliswatson950]

I love listening to her!

[@susansalter566]

She like a therapist❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@susansalter566]

Talks with pure love understanding and profound wisdom💚💚💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@missunknownunknown]

She is so sweet and lovely 🥰 to listen 🎧

[@user-xk1rl1ob6p]

Came for the cleaning, stayed for the wisdom, empathy, and beauty of language to describe what so many are going through but struggle to explain. ❤

[@kathrynmcnerney6490]

I know, she is wonderful ❤️

[@beenajacob4020]

Your Dad raised a beautiful heart - his best creation is YOU. Great job...

[@laurawrona7961]

You maybe the best therapy session i have ever had. Bless you.

[@remiclog]

Wow, what a compliment, thank you! ❤️

[@anne_tlc]

This lady must be protected at all costs. Remi, you have the sweetest soul, if only everyone in the world was as kind as you it'd be a magical place❤

[@pamelap.123]

I came for the cleaning but stayed for the wonderfully articulate lecture on neuro divergence! I really enjoy listening to people who do not have "fillers" in their speech and can verbalize with such a fluid style.

[@mariaoropallo4224]

Same! And shared with others who cheered our girl on.

[@robingirlwonder5067]

You just explained my life to me... I am astonished! I can do things for anyone else but when faced with doing simple tasks for myself I freeze when I try to figure out where to begin!

[@leorasotto9587]

I'm a therapist with 40 years of experience, and, waw, did I enjoy this video. I'll subscribe, definitely, you're full of love, so insightful, so articulate, i thought I'd just see another person cleaning something but you're so inspirational, especially with the way you can analyse people without being judgmental. Thanks!

[@TheMoodyHouse]

Your transparency is amazing. You may not know but this video will help a lot of people including me.

[@rebekahbarker7594]

This is more then a cleaning video, this is a therapy session. You have such insight into your family’s gifts, talents and struggles. I love how real you are.

[@mellinac1841]

The world would be a nicer place if we had more people like you xx

[@remiclog]

That’s very kind of you 😊

[@WalburgisLuppus]

Obviously Dad is far from lazy if he works so many hours at his job. You are a wonderful angelic daughter for helping him, thank you ❤️🙏🏻

[@christinachandler1687]

Dear Remi, it is Chrissy from Australia here. My darling girl, you are a pleasure to listen to. You are a bright light in this dark world . Everything about you is so sincere and honest. Don’t ever change, and don’t let anyone make you feel that you need to. God bless you and your lovely family. ❤

[@marytolmie2358]

I agree Chrissy! Remi I loved both watching your work and listening to you. Your insights into human nature are fascinating. You are bright and articulate and inspiring! Your dad must have been so pleased with your gift of time! ❤

[@hollyyoung2850]

I like a tidy house but if I worked from 5am till 4pm, my house would look a lot worse than this. I love your narrations, you’re a thoughtful and emotionally intelligent person, the world could do with more people like you. Great job💪

[@remiclog]

This is a lovely thing to read, thank you 😊

[@barbaramcminigal9966]

Just listened to your video and your explanation of neuro divergent and other social situations are just amazing xxx your dad sounds like a very creative and intelligent man and extremely hard working and he's extremely lucky to have a wonderful daughter like you ❤️

[@khm9879]

This video is pure therapy and what a lovely take on how just because people don’t keep a clean house doesn’t mean they aren’t taking care of themselves - some folks, even if they desperately want to tackle everything, know that other activities that others would consider “side quests” are deeply important to their mental health. I’m sure he’s absolutely thrilled to have someone put so much love and help him with this particular part of his life. It looks absolutely gorgeous and thank you for the motivation from a fellow neurodivergent!! I hope you also get great encouragement and satisfaction from knowing how much positive this does for not only your dad but all of us viewers around the world! ❤❤

[@remiclog]

Thank you so much for this!! You have made my day with this comment ❤️

[@vivianholliday4338]

Definitely not, why are you just getting around cleaning his home.peopmr are so one sided,not me,look all around to understand,or see the worst of a situation 🤔,such as the daughter and father situation not smooth at all.

[@khm9879]

@@vivianholliday4338 way to take the time out of your day to spew vitriol on the internet. I hope you never find yourself in need of help in a tough situation - based on your comment I doubt you are able to maintain the kind of loving, genuine relationships that are required to show mercy to others which will inevitably exclude you from also receiving it. Try using the rule- if you can’t say something nice (or aren’t in a position to lend a hand) don’t say anything at all. It’s not difficult for most of us. Also, who watches AND comments on videos they don’t like???? That’s like turning in the TV to watch commercials all day and then writing letters to stations that nothing good is on. 🤣

[@vivianholliday4338]

@khm9879 this comment is boring and to long, I didn't read it all.i say what I please, don't hate you sorry hypocrite 😐. He is lazy,why you take so long to help him,she's pathetic and a hypocrite. Anything else please texts me 9879.you're a pathetic also.

[@greekgirl9897]

The loving care and understanding you show for your whole family and especially your dad brings tears of joy to my eyes! With all of the horrors swirling around us these days I can't tell you what a pleasure it was to meet you today. You have brought a light happiness to my heart and I feel love for you Remi. From a Greek girl.

[@robinreid3467]

My granddaughter is going to marry a man who is autistic and also has ADHD. I feel like I learned more about how to empathize with him so much more after listening to your family journey. I really appreciate your honesty and openness. Robin

[@corriegilbert3635]

You’ve done a great job with your dads place. I love how you’ve been able to understand yourself and work with your frailties and issues. I applaud you xx

[@lilyrose7624]

Never thought I'd be reduced to tears via a cleaning video 🥲

[@vivianholliday4338]

😢 tears because your 🏡 🏠 is a mess to and u r lazy also.

[@ashleycloud_]

Wow, you have explained my ADHD in a way that I have never been able to put into words. Maybe because it's one of those things that only us ADHD folks can understand yet have no way to explain to the neurotypicals. My ADHD manifests in executive dysfunction, hyperfixation, task paralysis, and rejection sensitivity disorder - so you summed it all up. The bit about failing your school exam because you were so late... absolutely bonkers to hear someone else talk about these sorts of experiences. Thanks for being vulnerable it makes us NDs feel less alone.

[@remiclog]

❤️❤️❤️

[@if_you_only_knew]

I absolutely love your zero tolerance of disrespect for your dad! Also, your thinking is very logical and I appreciate you sharing your knowledge!

[@mariestreeting4213]

Oh my goodness, I’m a 66 year old lady and I’ve learned so much about me and why I’ve been the way I am. I thought I was just going to watch a cleaning video……wrong 😆 I love your family, Dad seems an amazing person and tell your brother his strengths may lie in doing computer work or a job where you don’t have to interact with others except maybe on the Phone. Biggest hugs to you and the Family from Australia 🥰 🦘🦘🦘

[@Schiffon]

Biggest hugs from every country! ❤

[@zoefrancis2846]

Remi oh my goodness. This was your best voiceover yet! You are so insightful and intelligent, with so much heart and humility mixed in. I’m sure you’ve heard of the social model of disability. It describes how people are not disabled by their condition or neurodivergence, but they are disabled by the world around them, that is not set up for people like them. I loved hearing about your family and I feel inspired by your pearls of wisdom. I’m looking forward to more and more videos and I hope you’re getting as much out of the process of making them as we do watching them. These videos are such a gift. Thank you !

[@InspiredbyBNatifu]

Very loving daughter. May God bless you for your service towards your dad.❤ Not many kids care for their aging parents.

[@SPadventurOUS]

Ive never heard anyone else explain how hard it is to do what for others is a routine thing (brushing ones teeth) so well. I honestly didnt know anyone else besides me struggled with that in that specific way. thanks for sharing.

[@rarejem12]

My goodness, you are an incredibly intelligent young woman!! Such a sweet thing to help your father, all while giving people such knowledge on neuro diversities!!

[@marlaandrews8344]

You are a remarkable wise young woman.

[@MCP1992]

I love listening to your storytelling while you clean, it feels like a podcast. Despite the difficulties you faced while growing up, you refused to let your issues define your life. Good job ❤❤❤❤

[@annesanger1019]

Great Cleaning. Lovely Daughter. BRILLIANT CHAT

[@jarcha4200]

You are an incredibly talented public speaker as well as a level headed, intelligent, kind human. Thank you for sharing your family’s story with us.

[@AlisonRachael90]

You’re so wonderfully articulate. My son has autism and you explain things so lovely. Great job. You’re a fantastic person xx❤

[@user-zf8dg7ee5x]

You have the best voice , you are incredibly inspiring and down to earth , I wanted you to know how comforting positive and supportive you are I love the way you promote being non judgmental and acceptance of different personalities and I have found other videos difficult to watch but yours are just really easy , you inspire me and I'm going to put this on as I'm doing my own cleaning clearing 💖 THANK YOU your parents did a fantastic job

[@remiclog]

Thank you so much!!! This means the world! 🥺❤️

[@user-zf8dg7ee5x]

@@remiclog you are unique and you can really advise people who struggle mentally , that takes real heart & skill because of you I now am back on to de clutter I had given up tbh ! 💝 Thankyou

[@user-ux4kb7kk6v]

Young lady, everything you said rang a bell with my life. You are wise beyond your years. Thank you for this and helping your dad. There is another cleaning video, its name is Midwest magic and the manhis name is Mac. You and he need to talk. Love from Florida in the USA

[@debbiestott3651]

You are one amazing daughter. Be careful when using a lot of chemical sprays, don't want to be inhaling too many. Fantastic clean up. X

[@chrisvalley5776]

Remi - I'm always astounded by the amount of wisdom you posess at such a young age. I never fail to learn something from you with each video you release. You're a lovely mum and an outstanding human.

[@kristiegoddard3922]

You are such a lovely person. I'm sure your dad is very proud to have you for his daughter. He sounds like a very nice man and we know you are a compassionate and thoughtful daughter!!

[@galleygalva.546]

Young lady, this was so amazing and informative. As I listened to you, I began to see my daughter-in-law. She is an amazing mom but a terrible housekeeper. Thank you for opening my eyes to the issues behind so many things. This was my first time watching, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I'm in the US and loved the accent. What a blessing for your dad.

[@vickichapman2715]

Bless its so good for you to talk like this you will help so many people ❤

[@MeadowsMiniFarm]

I got teary eyed when you mentioned groups of parents you avoid. I do this so much at family functions. It really takes a toll being around so many people

[@remiclog]

It does! You’re definitely not alone. It takes days to recharge my battery after going to certain events

[@cindysams9832]

Same here

[@racheltreherne5607]

In every way on every day you are doing yourself proud. Thank you and please continue, helpful and compassionate. 🙏😎🤗

[@remiclog]

This is so lovely of you! 🥺 Thank you ❤️

[@francestheron8752]

Remi I love your narrative voice overs! Also, you help me mentally. Your take on the world and the struggle to be a human with faults and challenges, never judgemental, really comforts me and lifts me up. Thank you!

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

I was almost in tears watching this. Everything you said completely resonates with me, my life, my personality, my struggles. You and your family are amazing.

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

I keep my toothbrush and toothpaste on my kitchen windowsill, so I brush my teeth when I put the kettle on.

[@juliewilbur647]

I'm almost 70......just figured out i like my kitchen clean and my bed made......never too old to learn!!!!!!💖

[@kuura37]

I came for the cleaning video, stayed for the narration. That was amazing and so captivating, I love the way you told us about your family. And it was very relatable too. I'm undiagnosed autistic myself, and I recognized so many things you spoke about. Living in a world that's not designed for people like you can be so damn hard sometimes.

[@user-zz1hj7ws6r]

AMAZING! Your dad sounds like an incredible man! What an honor to hear about him, thank you for sharing rather than playing music in the background as I've seen in other videos. I'm turning 30 in a few months and I have a 2 year old son and a 7 year old daughter and I believe I have ADD. I'm not hyperactive, but I am struggling so much to stay on task and get cleaning done. I end up going on tangents and giving up 10 mins after I've begun. I can't seem to get out of this funk ever. I know I need help in some way. I appreciate this video so much it's motivated me to go tackle my kitchen. Thank you for helping out your dad he will be so grateful and so pleased by everything you've done here! Absolutely wonderful. Blessings. ~Miah~

[@kmr9230]

Love your narrating and sharing your history in a very relatable way - thanks

[@terryc1445]

The love, respect and admiration for your dad came through in your video. Good work.

[@vivianholliday4338]

Are you serious,love,respect,caring,finally why is the home like that at all can someone answer that,u definitely can't u all r hypocrites.

[@terryc1445]

@@vivianholliday4338 sorry you feel that way. As Thumper said in Bambi, “if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.” I think you are the “pot calling the kettle black” as the old saying goes when you call us hypocrites. You have left nothing but negative comments on this channel. If you feel that way, don’t watch it! There are thousands of channels you can choose instead.

[@vivianholliday4338]

@terryc1445 Terry silly, don't every feel sorry for me,I will definitely say what I fe,just like you so that makes you a hypocrite, and stupid. If you don't like what I says,then you should keep scrolling away mrs. Pathetic hypocrite.people put there business out there for you & I to 👀, now do u understand anything clearer or r u still dumb and stupid.

[@charlyheather1822]

I only found your channel yesterday, and am 3 videos in and I love it and you. Your commentry is so kind and heartwarming, and I love how you interact with your loved ones and teach people about neurodivergent struggles. Thank you so much!

[@remiclog]

Oh thank you so much!! So pleased you’re enjoying the videos, what a lovely comment to open the app to this morning! 🥰

[@alessandrajennings3308]

I’m a happy new subscriber. This is one of the best things I’ve ever watched on KZbin. I could say a lot of things about you because I’m so impressed by your understanding and your character. But what I want to say that I think encapsulates everything is you have an incredible capacity to love and from that love flows such compassion, empathy, sympathy, lack of negative judgment and so many more things that we desperately need in greater abundance. You mentioned that your mother saves lives and I want to tell you so do you. Well done.

[@beckyhowarth4359]

Love listening to your “rambling” as you call it Remi. 😂 You did an amazing job. Dads kitchen is so nice too btw! Like you said you’re helping out someone who helps you out. Your hero #family 🫶💕

[@OhHeyItsShey]

Neurodivergent or not, your parents raised an incredible thoughtful, kind, and caring woman. You are such a lovely breath of fresh air and you just have something so peaceful about you. I love the elements you bring to your videos and the voice over. It breaks my heart to hear of you and your families struggles, but just know you are not alone. ♥

[@Sophia-hj3ko]

Sweetheart, I've got so much from this video: the satisfaction of seeing the chores done so well, your energy, also your kind, clever, brilliant way of how you interpret the neurodivergent tendencies in your family. This gives a great example of how to handle it really well, what brings closure. Subscribed and feeling blessed of meeting you on the internet. You are an amazing, healthy-minded, gracious human being. Your dad would be so proud of you!

[@lynmcmillan8655]

Wow you are one awesome non judging kind woman, I’m learning so much from your videos. Thank you for your honesty it’s very refreshing

[@nicoleblake9266]

Ur such an understanding daughter who obviously loves her dad and parents very very much. Thank u for ur videos. I went thru my fridge while watching this one. I thoroughly enjoyed it. Thank u also for sharing part of ur life with us. It got me to thinking and asking myself sum questions. I appreciate how ur influence helps make ppl a better person or version of themselves. I struggle with keeping my house clean as well. ❤

[@antonella4946]

[…]”and our morals don’t hinge on whether we’re tidy or messy.” ❤ You’re extraordinary, Remi. Thank you for your words.

[@elizabethjohnson4006]

I have just discovered your video and what a joy! I have never heard such thoughtful and articulate commentaries. I can recognise myself in some of what you say, a wonderful few minutes! You are a treasure!

[@sherribuehl4412]

You are very wise. God bless you and your service. I love to clean because I enjoy seeing the outcome. I thrive on watching beginning to end. Your family is blessed to have you.

[@bearfog07]

Wow, Remi, I can so relate, lack of affection from parents, overly critical mother, a long time in an out of hospital as a kid. The awful, crippling shyness which I never had until I went home to mother. People misunderstanding me as being snobby when I was actually a pretty nice person, so I kept to myself and still people would pick on me. I DID have friends throughout my life though, once I broke through the shyness. Great job on your dad's house. I remember cleaning my dad's home when I went to visit, so this video is very close to my heart.

[@barbaralupole3416]

Thought I was was going to be watching a before/after cleaning video. Well, I saw that and a compassionate, intelligent woman sharing her life story. You have an incredible outlook on life! Take care and God Bless.

[@naomihovey50]

Thank you for your voice over! I have 5 ND children and am ND myself. I have forwarded your video onto my eldest to help her understand herself a bit more. Fantastic work!! Please keep it up I loved it

[@righteousbyfaithinChrist]

Im 69 and i have never heard what I have experienced my whole life spoken so clearly. It's like pieces of a puzzle being put in place. Well done, young woman.

[@xXiadoremusicXx]

Well, you just obtained a new fan here. I admire your very compassionate, empathetic and honest output on how and why you do what you do. The way you express about the people you help aid for the viewer to understand that the person behind these scenes are truly human, as we are all flawed, and this really helps to understand the mental health issues that most of us are too embarrassed or overwhelmed to even mention (at least in my case). Your way to narrate your experience really shows love, compassion, empathy but also the awareness that you carry on your person. "A way with words" if you will. I share the liking of listening to true crime audio/podcasts while cleaning or doing other activities that require some kind of background noise that is interesting. Highly recommend to anyone struggling with focus or drive to maybe try to find a type of podcast, audiobook, or something similar that can ease with the overwhelming thoughts that lead to dreading a task or process. Might not be the solution but trying it may open a new way of coping for some. Anyway, I'm really enjoying your content. I enjoy the narration, the emotion, the exemplary attitude towards people and the motivation. A complete package that also helps heal some scars and pain along the way by informing and guiding.

[@Schiffon]

xoxo ❤️❤️🤗 Many thank you’s for the insight and self compassion you share with us all. I’m so proud of your accomplishments and hope to add your enthusiasm to my needed cleaning chores, dear. ❤

[@lindaleeupton5984]

She made me a fan too. I have a son and his mostly grown kids that all have ADHD and one has Asperger‘s. I get so frustrated with the way their house looks! She helped me understand their brains just don’t work like my OCD brain. She’s amazing.

[@dorothywatson4440]

Hi Remi.......How touching to hear you speak about the members of your family with so much love, understanding and empathy. You are one of the kindest people ever. Keep on keeping on with the splendid work you are doing. Fondly, Dorothy.

[@lisarittel280]

I so wish I could have found your videos when my kids were younger. Please keep doing what you do. You may be the only therapy some people will be able to get.

[@lmclaurin2]

I agree. Especially when people who don't have neurodivergent issues judge those of us who do.

[@ColemanRG]

I want to hug you for your loving tribute to your family. You are a marvelously empathic person. Thank you for sharing this story and satisfying result.

[@elenalatici9568]

I hope you appreciate how brilliant you are. Seriously, you explained complex concepts with immense clarity. Your empathy is stunning. Rather than focusing on what can be seen, you dive down to the roots of dysfunction lurking beneath the surface that others see and judge harshly. Your generosity in your descriptions of your parent and siblings is unlike anything I ever witnessed. Much respect and admiration. Please, if you read the comments, don't think twice about the negative ones. There will always be people who are unreachable. I've subscribed to your channel and lok forward to getting to know you BTW, my house is a disaster, though very much less of one than it was a week ago. I found this video to be incredibly helpful, especially with the hard task of letting go of some of the shame. 🙏🏼❤️😘

[@lisanetgark415]

I enjoy cleaning up other peoples houses. Why? It is faster and I see it differently from my own mess! 😂🥰

[@lisabyers2992]

I totally I agree. I have cleaned many of my family members homes to the point of sparkling. Then I don’t feel like cleaning my own home! 😂

[@lisanetgark415]

I know! Funny isn’t it. 💕

[@rebeccaoprea9917]

Cause us adhders work best with novelty, deadline or reward.

[@sallyedmondson9275]

So true ! Why can’t we see our own mess the same ?! 👍🏼

[@debc7341]

Amen!!

[@missychrissy060]

oh man it is so refreshing to hear you talk about social anxiety!! your story of skipping the exam was so relatable - i used to have a similar fear as a teenager. i was in an extracurricular orchestra, and was frequently late. it was so embarrassing to interrupt the rehearsals and unpack my violin in front of everyone, i would just sit outside the room, consumed with anxiety, until the conductor announced break time so i could sneak in. social anxiety is SO paralyzing, it’s so awful to hear people minimize it as “just being shy”

[@lisaf3840]

Your description of not wanting to be observed, is what I’ve felt all my life. I never heard anyone else articulate this attribute. I thought I was the only one. My school pick up is the same.

[@hattyflame3889]

Your a very smart and caring young lady!! Good for you and best of luck with your channel ❤ sounds like a very hard working family 👪 ❤

[@rocker76m88]

You're a wonderful daughter helping your dad 😊

[@fredanddino1]

I can relate on so many of the things you said. I wish, I would have known earlier, what is " wrong with me", never really " fitting in, always struggling and fighting to be like the rest" . But, better late than never 😊

[@Riyuaemam510]

Such a perfect daughter ❤ well done Remi… you are working, raising 2 little kids,and still find time to clean your daddy’s home… you are charming and a role model for others and myself. Thanks

[@deniseedwards7536]

You are a gem😘. Wise and very loving daughter who shares her love. Well Done!

[@Krampus360]

Your father's face when he saw the metamorphosis must have been delightful and satisfying to see! 🌹❤🌹Congratulations and best wishes to both of you. He is not the only hero in his house. ❤ You are truly a dynamo and a guru. 🌹

[@greenfish6447]

What a wonderful job you did, Remi - the finished kitchen looks terrific! Your voiceover was truly fascinating and I learned so much from it. Thank you for your honesty and compassion, and for having the courage to speak so frankly about the things you have found so hard in your life. Respect!!

[@lucindalincoln2956]

What a wonderful daughter ! Great work.

[@Relaxwithnomes]

I'm a new subscriber & I'm 47 and I struggle with my house the same as you. I got diagnosed with ADHD when I was 37 after a lifetime of losing jobs, being called lazy, making others around me frustrated with my lack of motivation or even feeling paralysed into complete inactivity and the guilt & anxiety that comes with it. I became a 1st time mum at 38... And I can only do my housework when the walls are caving in on me, then I have to use timers... I love listening to your voiceovers. They resonate a lot. Thank you. 🇬🇧❤️🇬🇧

[@le-netteleveston6835]

You are a great daughter. There needs to be more like than complaining. Thank you for sharing your love.

[@frugalhousewife9878]

Beautiful work, Remi. What a lovely, welcoming kitchen to come home to. I appreciate hearing your story. I can sympathize about trying to explain to "normal" people who just don't get it. I myself am probably neurotypical but have persistent depressive disorder and maybe a dash of some kind of anxiety, maybe mild OCD, I'm not sure. Other people who fall down or go through a rough time just do not understand how I feel on an average day or a bad day. And that's great, actually, that they don't have depression! But I think if you don't have anything you're constantly dealing with it can really make you unfeeling and prejudiced towards others. Anyway, you're an angel for cleaning your dad's home and I look forwards to the next videos!

[@lizvillegas6603]

I was already enjoying this video because you were doing the cleaning from such a place of care. But then you started talking about ADHD/neurodivergent struggles, and I just felt so seen and understood! Thank you! 💖

[@thealleytalk3661]

This was so informative and lovely. You are an absolute star ❤

[@mallymakings2853]

I cried through this. Not because of anything you said was offensive but because you *understand* and I don’t feel so alone. My son is 17 and Autistic and has crippling anxiety and ocd. I’m like you were I have to leave everything to the last minute because I’m incapable of doing a bit at a time. I’m under the dark blanket of grief (I’ve recently lost both parents to cancer and my best friend and hubby had cancer but thankfully he’s now in remission) and depression and I’m holding on by a cotton thread and my house has gone to 💩 and it’s been over a week since I bathed or put a brush through my hair. I can’t function atm and although I’m spending my days either sobbing or staring in to space I keep telling myself that in my 48 years on Earth I’ve somehow gotten through the tough times even when I didn’t think I could. I thoroughly appreciate you making this video. I’m grateful to your Dad for allowing you to film and I’m ever so grateful to *you* Remi for being so passionate and supportive, transparent and the most beautiful soul. I got so much from this to sit and think about. Thank You! xxx

[@sarahholland2600]

That sounds really hard. I lost my parents at 19, so I get it. Anti depressants for a few months & free grief counselling thru Cruse Bereavement Care charity were lifesaving.

[@lizwallberg859]

no judgment except for you, What a wonderful giving daughter.

[@vivianholliday4338]

No she's not,why so long to clean,r u out of state.

[@samc5877]

What a lovely video, and such a nice way to talk about your dad 😊. Neurodivergence is a thing a lot of people deal with, but not many people talk about. And the way you talk about it is almost poetic. I almost forgot about the cleaning, but great job on that too! ❤

[@SherryRector]

Excellent job of discussing the hardships in your family’s struggles with medical problems. You’re a great daughter and an awesome cleaner.

[@AylienYu]

You're wonderful. My mother clearly has adhd and my father clearly has autism, and I have both. Right now I'm procrastinating on some very important things. Seeing someone else get things done is inspiring. I think I'm going to clean our house tomorrow!

[@tcslife4794]

I could listen to your "ranting" all day. What you're doing is amazing. Not just cleaning motivation, but the life lessons. Thank you!!

[@dippycatlady]

In my household, we have one person who is ASD diagnosed, 2 who vibe in a very similar way and 1 person with PTSD. We all do things in different ways, (each to their own) and I thoroughly enjoyed your conversation today. I like to think of our differences as little creatures that accompany us on our journey through life and I like to try and cater for those creatures as much as for my family members as themselves. In knowing someone's disability, difference, little creatures, this allows us to show compassion, empathy, understanding and to work with all those things to make life happy and comfortable. Your Dad is a talented, hard working man, you are a wonderful supportive family member helping him as you have in this video, this way everyone feels safe, loved, cared for and supported and that's what's important. Sending you so much kind thoughts and wishes.

[@damilolavidean2999]

Friggin heck you are blooming amazing 🎉💐❤

[@revk8611]

You explain conditions with such knowledge and compassion. I just love your videos and you are a sweetheart. Love from Canada!

[@liaw3994]

It's not hard to make things tidy, it's hard to keep things tidy. Great video 👍

[@sallyrubio3127]

Darlin, you are such good therapy for this ailing world. May God bless you.

[@debibrown5568]

So young and so much wisdom! New subscriber here. So impressed! I usually don’t like a lot of talking and people sharing their wisdom which are not really wise, but you had me so caught up in your story and opened my eyes to understanding! Kitchen turned out so beautiful! - watching from Lake Wales, Florida

[@julier1616]

Remi...it’s beautiful. I came for the clean but was drawn in by the voice over. Neuro divergence. I know nothing about it. But I see myself in so much of what you said. I struggle every day to complete daily tasks. School was hard. Thank you for these videos. You’re not just helping your dad clean, you’re helping the community that watches and listens to these videos ❤️🇨🇦

[@ageautistic6957]

Maybe seek out an assessment?

[@inhairitancestudio6108]

What’s funny is that his work station is pristine! lol! There’s his passion. And it’s beautiful the way you speak of him. He’s as fortunate to have you as you are to have him😊

[@remiclog]

❤️

[@bethhusted1111]

Amazing Daughter!!! I did the same thing until my health went downhill. It makes me happy to see you help your family like I did mine. Keep up the great work.❤❤❤

[@TramAiKhanh]

You are an angel 😇 God bless you and your dad ❤

[@elizabethsavage9108]

What a beautiful human being you are , god bless you for being so kind and giving 🎉