A bigger penis ≠ more pleasure (unpopular opinion) ft. Dr. Laurie Mintz

Does Penile Length actually matter in a sexual experience? What exactly is the Orgasm Gap? What can contribute to a great sexual experience with your partner? How can you help your female partner achieve better orgasms? All these answers are answered in this video interview with Dr. Laurie Mintz! Be sure to watch until the end, and be sure to check out her book!
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Dr. Laurie Mintz is a feminist author, therapist, professor, and speaker whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, joyful-and sexually satisfying-lives through the art and science of psychology.
As a tenured Professor at the University of Florida, she teaches (www.drlauriemintz.com/human-s...) the Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students each year. She also teaches and mentors graduate students in both their clinical and research training. Dr. Mintz has published over 50 research articles (www.drlauriemintz.com/human-s...) in academic journals and six chapters in academic books. She has received numerous professional and teaching awards.
With this same goal of providing scientifically-accurate, sex-positive information to enhance female pleasure, Dr. Mintz also writes a popular Psychology Today blog (www.psychologytoday.com/intl/.... She also gives presentations and workshops (www.drlauriemintz.com/sexuali... professionals and lay audiences and is often quoted in national and international media (www.drlauriemintz.com/mention....
For over 30 years, Dr. Mintz has also maintained a small private practice (www.drlauriemintz.com/sex-the..., working with both individuals and couples on general and sexual issues. One of her greatest honors is supporting her clients during difficult times, as well as helping them make positive changes and reach life goals.
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0:00 Intro Card
1:42 What is the Orgasm Gap?
3:26 What can contribute to this "Orgasm Gap"?
4:42 How does the Female Anatomy play a role in this?
7:04 How can men get more involved in Clitoral Stimulation?
8:57 How long does lubrication typically take?
11:25 What is mindfulness and how does it contribute to great sex?
14:08 Is pornography still safe?
18:35 Does Penile Size actually matter...?
21:27 Are Sex Toys a replacement? or an aid?
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[@geedubb2005]

I’m thankful I had a girlfriend that told me what felt good and what triggered her. She taught me a lot in my younger years that helped me through life. I should’ve married that girl!

[@ThePrivateGamer19]

Why and how did you broke up?

[@dafrog491]

Its her loss. Haha

[@Mr1Tanker]

"triggered her"? If she's someone who gets "triggered", you dodged a bullet!

[@geedubb2005]

@@ThePrivateGamer19 I wanted to do more things in life and didn’t want to be tied down. Was in our 20’s.

[@geedubb2005]

@@Mr1Tanker actually, I literally did. She didn’t take it well and there actually was a gun involved. She went from heartbroken to pissed off pretty quick.

[@jcgamer888]

I've learned a lot from this talk. Thank you to both doctors. It really helps more if people can communicate without the fear of taboo or condemnation, but with honesty and trust.

[@62ejo]

Good Communication is Good Sex.....

[@Competitive_Antagonist]

It's interesting to note that use of the Hitachi wand in this way caused a big stigma for the company, so they eventually cancelled production of them. All that exist are clones now, unless you can find their old vintage model.

[@Martin-my1py]

​@@Competitive_Antagonist21:32 🎉🎉

[@LunarVixen]

i love this.. its not a commentary on men... its a commentary on culture!!!

[@michaelrivera1750]

Great content Dr Malik hit a home run with this one by calming the fears of a lot of men

[@ffggddss]

I wish there were some way to give this video 1000 upvotes. It is truly a fast and furious fireworks show of good, solid, vital information. Congratulations, both of you, Drs. Mintz & Malik; you hit it outa da park! Fred

[@adamblack8024]

Extremely informative, thank you ladies so much.

[@kebedegunjo9]

Thank you both for revealing out all our hidden feelings & anxiety. I'm greatful.

[@arnoldtallhammer1720]

Thanks for confirming things I've been thinking, all along I've felt that way and it seems I've been around so much negativity about size I stayed single for a very long time afraid to put myself out there, even though I've had some good experiences and know what to do despite being below average, the negative comments I've continuously heard over the years really took a toll.

[@sunofpeter2]

Hey man just some unsolicited observations. Be secure and confident about what you got even of youbhave to fake it until you are. Never show a lack of confidence to the woman. Learn to be(if you are not already) a good kisser, really good at cunnilingus and foreplay. Learn to build up tension in the woman, tease her, take your time. Foreplay begins in the mind, flirt and tease. The more you build it up the better it will be. Don't sleep with a woman right away, stretch that out as long as you can, esp when it comes to the actual act of copulation. Tease her , eat her out, make her orgasm on your tongue and fingers. Be confident in your body and skills. When you finally get to the act. It's in the hips, move in circles like a dancer, not just in and out, move you hips like a girl walks , side to side and in circles. I have been with girls who felt very tight and some very open. When they feel very open I had to use every trick in the book to get them to orgasm, but I did it and so can you. Women look for security and that lies outside of the bedroom be that man

[@muon537]

Excellently described. You are a real source of knowledge on that matter. Thanks

[@philemon8597]

Awesome 👏 thank you. I just bought the book because I need to learn more. Excellent questions and great interview Dr. Malik.

[@nickmcnellis3937]

Love love love Rena! Just an incredible woman and doctor!

[@defariase]

Outstanding video. I've taken notes on everything you've talked about here... Thank you so much for sharing all this great info. You both rock!!! 🙂

[@carlmattice6468]

Thank you Rena for educating me so much. From a woman’s prospective is important.

[@smithsmithy7980]

Let's be honest. Does size matter alone? No, but it more helps nearly all the time. No woman will choose a 5inch over a 7.5inch with the same relationship qualities and sexual commitment. Just an honest viewpoint

[@amerhamad4577]

Studies were done using 3D models of different size penises and women were asked which size is the most preferable. 6 and a half inches thick was picked the most. The second size was 7 and a half. The third was 8 inches. The fourth was 9 Inches. After that it was average size.

[@stevethea5250]

@@amerhamad4577 thick ?

[@loueynlv1]

THIS …. Is an Awesome conversation ! So many topics to consider. 👍🏻

[@studogable]

I love the creative titles for books like this.

[@stephenhanft1226]

Great video. Thank you for having an expert guest on your show. She really covered everything and set the record straight on all of the sexual topics and issues. Very important information. People need to be more sexually educated. Sadly, the problem is too many people are not. That needs to change.

[@hank2973]

I never had a girlfriend in my life I never had sex I never got to injoy anything like that because I was always to quit and shy to do anything like that

[@dannyking748]

I've basically watched everyone of your videos and I just want to say they are very informative and they have taught me so much. I also want to say thank you, you have helped me feel better about myself and my body.

[@key39762]

what a great interview. even better Dr. Mintz's book is free for amazon prime members.

[@johnsonkayusminus4167]

This topic is very important and meaningful to both man and woman to know their own body movement to serve with full satification

[@crbkqw]

Just waiting for the doc to hit a million subs. Thanks for loads of valuable information!

[@kennethcarter2798]

I have really enjoyed your review of this, to me this is why foreplay is so important in a relationship.

[@warrenpaul5995]

Great information! Thank you doctors for the insight.

[@scottbellagio]

Doctor Malik, Thanks for proving the world with your guidance by educating us. Your topics are very informative and educational. Your classic approach to all subject matter is impeccable. Sincerely, 🤓thank you for being you. 👍🏻👍🏻. Have a great day. 🎊 🎉

[@larryweiss2035]

Every time I watch one of your videos I learn something. The saying your never too old to learn something new definitely applies to myself

[@dr.knight5985]

Full knowledge in one video...you did great Rena😊

[@douglascarducci6977]

It's amazing to me that guys need to be told this stuff...I get off on her getting off even more than myself most of the time. I was lucky enough to be married 23 years to my my late soulmate and we had total open communication with no judgements and total trust to do the right thing and being mindful of each other's feelings and responses.again I was lucky and blessed...these videos are indeed necessary though and it's a great thing you're doing them and taking the awkward away

[@fjfarkas1]

my thoughts exactly.. I feel for the woman who have these ignorant insensitive men in their lives 😢

[@neilbeech4093]

I am glad you & your friend explained this

[@Conundrum191]

I think you brought up a good point about those of us who are longer -- it isn't the be all and end all, and in fact can cause issues with some. Average is designed to work with average, and when you are longer it can cause pain for the receiving end, and also can cause us to have to hold back so we don't cause our partner pain. That said, there are things like the ohnut that can be used to help limit depth when needed. Also as I have said before, communication, communication, communication.

[@danielmccarty5979]

My wife is 5’0” tall and 100 lbs. very petite. I am 6.5” long. It makes it painful to do certain positions.

[@dandiaz19934]

Thank you so much Dr. Rena for being a good source of education, especially for the young boys out there whose first exposure to sex is through pornography and the terrible expectations it sets for everybody.

[@lawyercat]

I never knew the dangers of anal sex until know!

[@musicpipe]

Ugly women talking about orgasms is like old women supporting abortion. In other words female equivalent of a sad man !!!

[@brucekilby9957]

It does help if the lady your with will tell us what they want,it does help. It's not that important,but.🤫

[@tidefanyankee2428]

@@brucekilby9957 I would say a woman telling the man she's with or about to be "with" sexually what she likes is VERY important. They say that men are like microwave ovens, we heat up quickly. Conversely women are said to be like crockpots or slow cookers. It takes them awhile to heat up. I would say women are like crockpots with combination locks. What drives one woman wild with pleasure will annoy the hell out of another. Example: One woman I was with LOVED direct clitoral stimulation (fingers, tongue etc...)...she couldn't get enough of it. But another woman I was with didn't like "direct clitoral" stimulation, she liked indirect stimulation. So, ladies, giving the guy you're with some information is a good thing not just for you, but for us as well. Not every woman knows how to give a man great oral sex the first time you're with him, you weren't born with this knowledge and guys aren't either with what pleases you. None of this "he should have known" stuff either, that's childish. We are all different. So, tell him.....TELL HIM!!!! Trust me, the guy will do pretty much what every you ask if he knows it will get you off. Oh, and if he doesn't do what you ask, then you'll know you're with the wrong guy....2 birds, one stone. You're welcome.......

[@brucekilby9957]

@@tidefanyankee2428 Thank you. You must have lot of time on your hands.🏆🥎

[@be643]

Buying my partners a toy always lead to the relationship ending. They were too ashamed for their partner to know they did it.

[@faisalalhoqani6151]

Very important that there is a need for online content education about if we can name it ethical sex. As you mentioned for example I was having so many problems and misunderstandings about sex but I found some online education content that covers, clear, and solve them like your KZbin channel. Finally thank you for clearing up the misunderstanding about sex and keep it up.

[@sarahamaris5383]

Wow!!! I first started following you when you had 300 subscribers. It's been a minute since I've watched a video but it's amazing how you're almost at 1M!!! You deserve it. This channel has made me consider Urology as a specialty, I'm currently an M1 student. Best of luck in reaching 1M!!

[@MrGuitar1458]

Wonderful video, great topics discussed. Thank you both!

[@josephfernandes5809]

I’ve learned so much from your videos. Thank you!

[@scotchbarrel4429]

Hi Rena, your videos are fantastic, ive done a binge these last few days, very informative, ty 👊😎

[@distantfear1250]

This was a well organized; put together vid. Really enjoyable and very educational. Thanks

[@ericjohnson8001]

In my experience most women won't tell you what they like, then blame you for not knowing what they like. Can't win. And I make it a point to try to find out what they expect or prefer- the most successful lasting relationships I've had were with women who weren't afraid to tell me wheh I was doing something "incorrectly".

[@AccentBwoy]

Agree

[@Jukeboxxxz]

exactly!!! You can ask them... and usually they won't show or try to explain it... catch 22 LOL

[@loblowry6282]

just buy them LV and Coach. They will tell you what works!

[@pedrocols]

That's because they don't know what they want.

[@smoowear]

Unfortunately, with lack of experience, you aren't able to show or tell. Also, if she has told you and despite that, your performance seems to get nowhere and she realizes that you aren't able to replicate the feeling she wants, it's a mute cause. To much direction and men get angry. It's a catch 22.

[@alanmoore2197]

I think this is still rather simplistic - many women are not just comfortable with the loss of control over their bodies they experience in orgasm and are therefore hesitant to relax and allow it to happen. In older women with latent or occasional bladder control issues this becomes a much much bigger hesitation/rejection issue. As a man who cares and tries hard its quite dispiriting to realize the woman you are trying to pleasure is actually trying her hardest not to experience orgasm through will power and eventually physical rejection (pulling away etc).

[@D.Verdad]

I'm so glad I'm in that 7%. Is not the size. Is the energy. The personality. The experience and the care for the other. The love, regardless of the type and length of the relationship or encounter. Sex and love, deep love are the same. Once we connect to that energy, we are transparent, healthy, lovable and full of passion. Try it. Don't be afraid to Be yourself. Freedom is sexy!

[@tyresesylvester2058]

This video deserves an A+ y'all covered everyyyyythigggggg. I love it. Love how y'all talked about intimacy and communication which porn doesn't have it's all about penetration and male dominance.

[@ricardochaveste7367]

Woah she's amazing when comes to this topics, Thank you Doc and our sex therapist very well said,,I'll been Married for 26 years my wife and I we always enjoyed our making love time and always asked her, I can wait to see us go again and again. That's why important for us to keep it real and understand each other's feelings and needs....thank you again...you two are amazing 👏..

[@winstoneverett4140]

this is a great video Dr Malik very informative lots of love ❤❤ keep up ur good work beautiful lady.

[@AbhishekYadav-ky1jp]

Oh my gosh.. I found these comments so engaging even more than the video

[@dolphinfan65]

This is way sexual education and communication is so important. I had 3 encounters with older women in my younger days that changed my life from a sexual perspective. I learned to communicate better, to not be afraid to try new things and most importantly to keep my business to myself. Even today when I see them, I give them big old hugs. GREAT SHOW

[@rogerjordan7544]

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[@80s_Boombox_Collector]

@@rogerjordan7544 ??

[@PawpiChoolo]

Bro

[@israqhassan7214]

Have you any instagram account?Lets chat about your story

[@damienoloughlin6068]

I like how you say encounters like they were some sort of side quest in an rpg

[@DanFromPensacolaFlorida]

Well I learned a lot that may have saved some past relationships. But this has definitely took away some insecurities I had, thanks doc!

[@zekayman]

To be fair, if the sexual component of your relationships was the making or breaking point, they weren't worth being with anyways.

[@jstevenj1]

Hey Doc! Great title for Laurie's book, effective marketing for sure...

[@thomasgronek6469]

One should never leave a partner frustrated, always go the extra mile, and read some books men, we're not all that we should be.

[@dariansantos5577]

As a man and as student to women, I definitely have been watching Rena's videos to understand the female anatomy.

[@johnboy5905]

Great lessons here. Thank you

[@MiltV121]

Very educational information for us fellas. Thanks Doc

[@stephenharvey5289]

I agree. Ask and you shall receive, because I want you to enjoy this as I do. But ladies first!

[@guahangarage]

Now I’m going to be looking at ear rings haha. Dr. Laurie is always ready. Great video! Love how the topic of sex is becoming more of the norm instead of being one of the shameful topics. It’s about time. Can’t wait to ready the book and for more videos! Thank you for everything you do!

[@mobileterminaluzer1858]

The bigger the hoop, the bigger the hoe

[@f.osborn1579]

Thank you for the great video! I love the vibrator commentary and the mindfulness discussion. In my past experiences, having a vibrator (or two or more) has been very helpful...also can be fun to watch...

[@f.osborn1579]

And or a tongue

[@pedrodebarros4949]

Great video thank you ladies,agree 100%

[@windinmyhair4290]

Thank you for posting this

[@stevensmith5366]

Great video sisters, much appreciate it

[@LuisTorres-le3xz]

Thank you both for that great interview. There is so much valuable information that you both have shared! I really appreciate! Dr. Malik, I congratulate you for what you are doing and encourage you to continue. I think it is a great contribution to our health! Again, thank you so much! God bless! 👊🏼

[@cherylmarshall840]

After 8 years of marriage me and my husband talked about what is working and what is not

[@bobburch2151]

What a amazing video. Thank you so much

[@keithmonahan909]

Thank you Dr. Rena and of course Dr. Mintz !! Another excellent video !!⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ From all of my experience in life, my partners pleasure and satisfaction has, “always,” been paramount. I’ve always have taken things slow getting to know my partners (likes & dislikes). I’ve always been mindfully vigilante of her desires and satisfaction through clitoral stimulation, G-spot, etc. Allowing an enormous time for foreplay is key, along with great intimacy and romance. I’ve always been a romantic person so I’ve never been concerned of my size, because I’ve always received “rave reviews.” I think I’ll get Dr. Mintzs’ book. I totally agreed 105% with everything that was mentioned in this video. Thanks again 🌹🌹 - Keith

[@beyond_the_infinite2098]

Took a couple years before my wife (then girlfriend) would tell me what she liked and wanted and what I was doing right and doing not so right. I was not offneded at all. In fact I was relieved and the sex got better and she had more orgasms. Women need to be open and honest and men need to pay attention and forget ego.

[@michaelwaninger3155]

You are lucky most women never do. Then become more and more frustrated, take it out on the man and then divorce him.

[@crystalthow5533]

Thank u for reminding the guys on that ego part lol

[@intermilan9731]

Ew dude. Stop with the orgasm talk.

[@warrengomez67]

@@michaelwaninger3155 sounds about accurate lol

[@Virenss4]

Nah bro, we gotta be mind readers XD

[@johnsharkey4006]

Nice to see you doctor 💕

[@darksavior1187]

There should be some talk about the sexual effort gap, because in more than a few of my relationships (Straight), it feels like all effort comes from me as the man. Effort during foreplay, effort during intercourse, and its lopsided in that regard. Men very often do all the work to get themselves to orgasm during intercourse, and all the work during foreplay for hers. Men are considered selfish if they don't want to, or know to put the work in during foreplay, but its almost fine or completely accepted as normal that many women just show up and lay there.

[@neechee5150]

Good point. When Dr Mintz gave the stat about orgasm gap the statistic has no meaning until you compare the effort gap/work/preparation and attitude gap. I wonder why she does not touch on the very crucial topic of effort. These two female doctors seem to have very little knowledge of or respect for the male perspective and experience. Men are required to put in a lot of effort and men judged by the amount of effort they put into the sex act. Women tend to get a free pass on their lack of effort.

[@BirdDogey1]

As I remember it just about 90% of women did absolutely nothing but be there.

[@luigibenni3449]

You are both awesome, thank you for making another good and educative video

[@dandrefalcon3963]

Just subbed! 1 million right around the corner! Congratulations 🎊!!!

[@Valkyri3Z]

I think also part of the reason men have the insecurity is because a lot of the times women blame men explicitly for their penile length. It closes any path of communication as it puts the man in a vulnerable position.

[@clydebermingham121]

LovePlay is Key = MINDFULNESS How someone is made to FEEL comfortable ‘Get Loose’ with a certain someone Genuine personality & character ( meaning , what one is really made out of inside …,in their heart &/or mind ) How one make some one feel as a person

[@CMP719]

All I got to say is shout out to these wonderful women giving men their self esteem and confidence back

[@user-vw7qe1cf9x]

What planet are you living on? Critiquing a man, what he does and how he does it is not the beginning of a healthy relationship. Good luck with that one...unless you want him to wear skinny jeans and split the bills with you. Perhaps he can stay home with the kids and do laundry/make dinner while you go out and earn more than him. Totally normal, right?

[@CMP719]

@@user-vw7qe1cf9x 😂😂 wtf are you talkin about clown WTW WTW

[@kneets8680]

Thats a fcking cap lmao

[@shoveljunk-americanpatriot7603]

My cousin said something I alway knew. “Girls don’t coach us”. Up until recently the responsibility has been mostly on men.

[@Demobius]

It's like they expect men to be mind readers. Would it kill them to at least make a noise when you do something they like? Every woman is different. Some like a light tickle on their clit, others like you to really rub it. Some can't orgasm unless you stimulate their nipples at the same time as the clit. Others like the equivalent of a full body massage on their genitals. Discovering her responses through trial and error leads to a lot of mediocre sex, even before they start sending bad signals. Some of them act like they just want to get it over with; pulling you on top of them when you know they are nowhere near orgasm.

[@tlewis84able]

Yes, we play the game and they are the judge.

[@mabe2551]

Here is a pro trip: Care about your own, prolonged pleasure. Use her for that like a tool. Works like a charm. And don't comment before you have tried this a few times and were able to take a huge amount of pleasure out of a woman's body ;)

[@williamlackey6212]

​@mabe2551 I get pleasure out of my body from putting pleasure into a woman's body. I actually give a damn about others in general. The way you say take pleasure from her body or whatever morbid sh*t you wrote, reminds me of a dirty rat or that guy who steals from his own friends.

[@michaelbiecker5498]

I am so thankful to mrs. Robinson for teaching me so much. I would have married her if she wasn’t already married.

[@sasoltero]

This is great info - thank you!!

[@YeahhDan]

What a fantastic video, Dr. Malik!

[@JKVisFX]

Thank you so much, Dr. Malik, for this video. You confirmed so much of what I thought was true. I love going down on my wife but, she is kind of shy about it but, I am usually able to get her off quite well anyway. I did buy her a toy but it took her a bit to warm up to it now, she uses it regularly and loves it. One thing I really wish is that there was a "private page" or perhaps an "Only Fans" kind of page that does real sex education using couples to demonstrate different sexual techniques and ways for the partners to pleasure each other for all of us to learn from.

[@Allan_aka_RocKITEman]

I do NOT now remember exactly how this conversation came about, but MANY years ago I heard a woman say: *_"I'd rather be tickled to death than stabbed to death."_*

[@johncaban4310]

Great video. Very informative!

[@mikefahlenkamp9084]

I have not finished this video but will say I always approach sex the same way I would approach manners in general.... my mom always said "lady's first" . She was a smart woman...

[@douglaidlaw740]

I learned about being present during relaxation massage. I got no results until I applied a technique I learned in yoga; I placed my awareness where the masseuse's hands were. That was the key.

[@jameslopez958]

Great Knowledge You Share With The Information 🤔😁❤

[@motfc8]

Thank you! The one caveat I would like to suggest is, to clarify the difference between ejaculating and orgasm (very different), I didn't have my first orgasm until my late 30's, and I had a significant number of encounters. hence the difference between men and women pleasure, might be closer.💖 And, are your earrings, little Hitachi's? 😆💖

[@matt_valentine]

What an excellent interview!!

[@gimmesomesugar]

Every woman I've been with is different, some orgasm easily, some take more. Be adaptive and pay attention to the signs. Thanks for the video!

[@ytenl]

Hi, thank you for the great content. It looks like you are recording a few sentences at a time and that makes for a jarring video. Please try and record longer sessions at a time. Thanks!

[@MGMusicProductions]

Thank you for this. I believe that as a male this isn’t just a video for us but for females to so they can get a understanding as well. Because they as well have unrealistic expectations. Especially when it comes to the pain part where females believe pain is a good approach

[@LunarVixen]

YES!!!! Sexual Education for us all!!!

[@sulaimandaud2696]

Good for beterment of famaly life.😂😂😂😂

[@BackFocus11]

Dr. Malik rocks!!! Men’s health champion

[@ericmiller5642]

very well stated. amazing that women come back for more. sad that many men aren't aware thier companion was unable to orgasm. not much of a commentary on couples ability to communicate.

[@seeker995]

I love the guest speakers earrings 😂😂😂 they’re literally amazing

[@kitemanmusic]

She can hear herself coming! (Linda Lovelace)

[@timothyshandor9953]

Finally someone tells the facts. Bought books from your guest and read the mans section. Brilliant, I had to figure it out for myself over 40 years ago with a lot of self doubt and shyness. All this should be a primer in 10th grade if not earlier, along with how to budget etc. Great books on pleasuring a woman and what a penis is really for. Went through some of your other videos and need to watch more. Tks for debunking lots of myths.

[@SalehAhmed-je2dn]

Amazing video Very nice guest Gorgeous personality Beautyfull voice Dr.Malil

[@cliveblenman7147]

Hi great show love the info.

[@erichkupec154]

I love your speech! Madams you are welcome! It's an issue about typology.

[@wolfdaddy2841]

In my personal experience , it's all about communication , I have noticed that women can be very bashful about saying what feels good to 'her' , as an individual .

[@shaiknoorulla4957]

Very good Rena Malik you've provided good info 👍

[@billgussy6099]

Very educative topic indeed

[@srodden4481]

Great video Rena. I’m a very sexual guy. My partner’s pleasure I think is just as important if not more than mine . I’m bummed when she doesn’t climax even though I’ve tried hard. She recently had breast reduction. I’ve reluctantly pushed past it. I’ve always been a toe and boob guy. Definitely have learned and enjoy your videos.

[@richardcesarano9724]

My wife's pleasure was always first and foremost. We have been married 47 years, and always experimented. So we knew this for a very long time. Men are easy. That's why we always learned her. Both of us together. Keys should be unselfishness, communication, caring. Harder part is to keep it exciting, the other side of menopause. That is where romance should be enhanced, and foremost.

[@deejean344]

Ya and she has a guy outside who does the job

[@nicynu6202]

i agree, with my ex wife i would always make sure she always had an organism first, sex was always best when we both were fulfilled.

[@cflip7452]

Bet y’all relationship is boring😂

[@kny.heartz]

@@cflip7452 That’s just rude. You can’t say you think someone’s relationship is boring bc of one comment on a yt video.

[@redbeardseance2366]

Yawn.

[@Dnizzle25]

Very informative and educational

[@daviddavis8446]

Thank you for all the helpful information I am a small man I only five foot one and I think my penis size is normal for my size what you discussed in this video makes me feel a whole lot more confident

[@enriquezvlogs.kaeatlog]

Very interesting topic👌👍

[@esefavour9734]

This is so educative ❤️ May God continue to bless your work Pretty