Request-Women Contacting Me Now That I've Turned 30

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Agree. It's because at around 30 there is an intersection on the SMV curve. Men are worth more then women around that age. Did a video on my channel about this recently.

[@riffsfromtheabyss666]

Entrepreneurs in Cars name of video brother?

[@kichigaisensei]

...and a man's value is increasing while a woman's is decreasing. It gets even more intense at 40.

[@dtosmanm4743]

Men are worth more at 30? Don't be delusional, the gap closes but men are still nowhere near a woman's SMV

[@mhead81]

true around 30 single mom's wanna find some donkey. when are young looking for wanna be gangsta but after look for normal men

[@kichigaisensei]

...when it's too late, Michael d.

[@semperoccultus1969]

This happened to me when I turned 31 and got married. These were all ages of women, from 20 to 50. Ex girlfriends, college girls, married women, my female professor, etc..all now suddenly interested and they ALL knew I just got married. Women are trolls.

[@LetsPlayPC]

This is a reality. Don't go expecting women who shot you down or dumped you in your 20s to necessarily come crawling to you, but somewhere between the ages of 30 and 35, you will notice a shift in the dynamics of dating. And boy does it feel weird. You don't truly realize how heavily the deck was stacked against you at 24 until you hit 34. What a weight it is lifted off of your chest when women start competing for you as hard as you compete for them.

[@Rambo-lv9hu]

36 and been single all my life because of this crap. now i just use them, pump n dump everynight. nothing more! lol

[@OmegaRedFan]

Here at 29...Most women I knew have some doucher's kid(s) or got married or not on the pill or lesbian or fat or worse dirty drug addicts or all of the above or some 😑

[@trap4dafu2k0fit]

upon turning 30, a man or an mgtow, if you will, given he didnt fuck up, will most likely be attracting the 19to 23 crowd, im 26 and already expereincing this, as long as your in decent shape and at least look like you got some money, theres no need to pay attention to women your age or older anymore

[@Atlstreetpodcast2.0]

facts!!!!

[@timmybailey4989]

trap4dafu2k0fit I'm 21 and I'm only able to attract older women, hoping to see the reverse effect when I'm 30.

[@Weaseldog2001]

I'm a c++ Engineer. In High School in the late 70s, I was teaching myself computer programming, and computer architecture. This was a real killer for getting dates. The girls I associated with, didn't want to date a nerd or a geek. My interests in their view was stupid. And that certainly turned around later.

[@infinitespace9479]

Do you make good money doing that?

[@Weaseldog2001]

@@infinitespace9479 a lot more than I made doing factory work.

[@infinitespace9479]

@@Weaseldog2001 dang I’ve been wanting to get into this kinda stuff, I just don’t know where to start

[@Weaseldog2001]

@@infinitespace9479 pick a part of the industry you want to work in, and start working. Do it on your own and learn the tools and the concepts. I spent a year teaching myself and building a codebase, then went and found work. I had something to demo then.

[@eli-huyasharal3913]

It's amazing when girls hit the wall.

[@rally_chronicles]

XEA. Parker lol yes what a beautiful turn of events.

[@jarrad347]

Had this happen to me a few months ago with a girl who rejected me at 19, now Im 31 and she contacts me on facebook. Checked her profile and she's got 2 kids. I choose to ignore her!

[@kinglito93]

Ive seen girls hit the wall at 23...

[@bladelazoe]

Some of the chicks who were a year ahead of me in High School who are now 25-27, You can already tell their looks are fading fast and the late-bloomers are beginning to shine beautifully. it's truly is the ultimate revenge from our 20's

[@rowsdower12]

draco6543 lol. I love that metaphor. too funny.

[@nickkuiper32]

As a man with the age of 32, I can convidently say that women of my agegroup are totally clueless to the concept called life and almost all have became those "this is the universe tellinh me something" or "im finally healed from narcisistic ex boyfriend" kind of girls. Girls that are younger and more appealing for the eye are as stupid as a rock thinking it can float in water. Long story made short: I dont deal with women other then those behind the register of giving my order what I would like to eat.

[@BEERNBBQBYLARRY]

I had the exact same experience when I was around 30. The women that wouldn't even consider dating me in my teens and early twenties and hasn't seen in years were suddenly very interested after bumping into them years later once they learned what I did for a living. They were largely single moms and or divorced looking for a way forward in their crappy lives.

[@chuckiechuckster349]

What do you do for a living?

[@BEERNBBQBYLARRY]

Chuckie Chuckster at that time, was an engineering consultant.

[@kaidsin]

They want to ride the strangers dick then come back to the stable mature guys when they are used up, too bad we don't want em. lol so much truth here

[@kichigaisensei]

Facebook has exacerbated this. Now you're suddenly back in touch with people you haven't seen in 10 or 20 years.

[@optimusprime8543]

Huh. Well, men probably don't care of them anymore.

[@marianomanto]

33, close to buying a piece of land to build the house I always wanted. I have my own biz with my brother who is also single and childless. Life is good, days are long and full of time for me. Went to a party a couple of weeks ago and saw a couple of girls from high school and college who rejected me. They are fat, focused on their careers, without kids, dressed as men. They constantly asked questions about my financial position, my projects, if I am single. Finally man, after all the loneliness, rejection, and heartbreak, the tides start turning in my favor and I am happier and happier every day. With more opportunities, more freedom. Being a man is so easy these days, competition is so low, and most men at my age made the mistake of marrying too fast and having a bunch of kids with women that are sometimes even older than them. They didn't even take the time to realize their potential, they are already commited "for life".

[@julesraven7941]

You say "Sorry, that thing is all worn-out, nowadays I can get a high quality barely used one". Seriously, any woman that throws herself at you is a woman you don't want in your life.

[@joeproblo]

Julio Cesar V L wooooorddd brooo... holy shit you just preached. So many hoes man smh

[@e.l.norton]

It's a fairly common pattern. I've had a number of women re-establish contact with me post-30. They all have variations of the same story...single and used up, single and used up with a kid, or divorced from the "wrong guy" with a kid and "looking for the love of their life" at 35 or 40. Most are still reasonably attractive but fading. I thank God above that I'm happily single. Never been married. No kids. No baggage. Nada. I'm blessed to be attractive, and work to stay in good shape, look a good ten years younger than I am, and draw interest from all kinds of women, most of whom I don't want, and when I choose to date I date the 20-somethings. And, I'm happy! That's something they key in on, like a parasite hones in on a host. I entertained the contact out of courtesy, but had no interest in taking up with any of them for obvious reasons. They all try to play the same sympathy card and lament that there are no good men out there, and why aren't there more men like me out there, yada fuckin' yada. Then, once they realize that I'm not responding or interested in "White Knighting" them, they evaporate like a fart in the wind. These chicks WILL continue to re-circulate from the back of life's closet.

[@wendysbrian1]

I can relate to this same exact experience. My ex-fiance tried reaching out over social media once I graduated college and she saw me building. She had the nerve to get upset when she got no response. I told her to kiss off with a threat to contact the police if she ever spoke to me again. Before and since, I've gotten a deluge of "hey stranger" messages and contact attempts. They won't hold your hand until they're hanging off of a cliff.

[@nomadictow3011]

I remember being 28 when this video came out, after about 5 years I can honestly say this is the truth, I never had past women hit me up, but it is funny, once I hit the big 30 I had all kinds of creepy desperate women with kids in tow or in bad relationships try to hit me up, just keep in mind guys if you have your shit together as you get older its akin to being a light in the dark that drags moths to the flame, the moths being the women you don't want, always ask yourself why is this women bothering me, 9 times out of 10 they have a screwed up life and they want you to be they're soft landing because you emanate stability, I'm in the process of starting my own business at 33, don't do it and try to achieve great things in your life, avoid these loser women, there traps, there destroyers of dreams and ambitions and your bank account.

[@charlesd4572]

I don't understand women. When I was younger none of them would give me the time of day until, in my early 20s I found myself a great gal and we started dating. Then all of a sudden all these women, including the ones that had no time for me, started hitting on me. I admit that a few times I fell prey to temptation - yes I was piece of shit. In the end I came clean with my girlfriend and stopped doing it. But women, what is going on in your heads?

[@shingles4947]

"I hope you don't get a paper cut whist having sex with your masters degree!" haha!!! ah there's always a nugget with your videos Aaron - brilliant. Thank you for what you do man - you always manage to make me laugh as well as dishing out solid honest advice. Cheers Bro.

[@aaronclarey5870]

Shingles no problem dude

[@shingles4947]

up yours, you imposter!

[@TheCombatmechanic]

As a Man of 46 years of age. and a successful military carrier behind me w/ no wife, or kids, I came close to F*ing up a few times when I was younger, but some how made it through. Now, I can pretty much do what I want in life. I would differently suggest for young men... to look before they leap. I see smoking craters were some of my friends life's use to be.

[@chuckiechuckster349]

TheCombatmechanic How did you come close to messing everything up?

[@TheCombatmechanic]

Giving up on long term goals in exchange for short term gratification.

[@giantdad1661]

TheCombatmechanic Oh hey, I'm going to start a military career soon!

[@duckeducator6873]

Be careful. I met a lot of single moms in my Army Reserve Unit. Luckily, I never ended up slipping one by the goalie.

[@taraswertelecki7874]

The whores, single mothers and bitches and other women you should avoid will come out of the woodwork the moment they get wind of you. They will come at you abroad as well at home, they want your military bennies and pay, not you. Don't give in, serve out your career and plan for the future where you can use your skills for gainful employment after your military service. By then you will be in a position to pick and choose who you will be with, if that is what you want.

[@CounterStrikeLover10]

Oh , I had a girl literally begging me . Literally pleading for me to have her . Just crazy stuff man, but she was awful , she had nothing . She was not worthy of my attention . It may be hard for the soft hearted , but you gotta hard NO them . Its something that has to happen.

[@ghollisjr]

It's such a bittersweet realization to see the countless broken women with broken lives chasing around the men who were the real deal all along. On the one hand, it serves them right. On the other hand, they are living breathing testaments to wasted lives and wasted potential. No self-respecting man would settle for a woman who wasted her youth when he didn't waste his. Although, I wonder if it is precisely the children of such broken women who would undo the woes of modernity? If a woman really learned her lesson and submitted to a man who knew shit from shinola, then her kids might actually be raised to be proper. But, I sincerely doubt that many women who found a branch to cling to are in any way sorry for what they've done, and instead are happy to avoid paying the price for their mistakes, and will thus teach their daughters to do the same.

[@Weaseldog2001]

Later in life, you'll encounter a an occasional widow that managed to a 30 year marriage. These are an example of your unicorns, if they haven't decided that they missed on the carousel. At least with age, we have the benefit of being able to look at woman's resume. When you're young, every woman is like a new hire. You don't what you're really getting until you've spent enough time with her, for her real personality to come out.

[@wanderingman8921]

20:45 Perhaps you mean... "He who lies down with dogs will rise up with fleas." -Benjamin Franklin

[@TheRealCaptainFreedom]

Wandering man “Bitches ain’t shit but hos and tricks.” - Immanuel Kant

[@CadillacVideos]

Ditto guys... this literally happened to me in the last two weeks.

[@Solotv84]

VintageGamer.com care to tell the story mate

[@rally_chronicles]

VintageGamer.com same here. pumped and dumped. it was glorious.

[@phunkadelic1159]

Regardless of their studies...why would they take out massive loans if they knew they weren't going to finish? That's just stupidity taken to a whole new level...

[@MAG-hv9qj]

Phunk Adelic The average person....

[@mizukagematt1186]

Revenge is so sweet can't wait for this to happen to me

[@rally_chronicles]

VisualSoccer oh it is sooooo tasty

[@MrNckissfan]

While women tend to gravitate towards men with bright futures men place a similar value on a woman with a healthy past.

[@Xanatos_Clutch]

I'm about to be 30 in literally a week and I'm prepping for the faux appreciation from a bunch of bitches who gave me shit back during their "glory days". The only conundrum I have is figuring out which ones to pump-and-dump and which ones to just flat out ignore.

[@chuckiechuckster349]

Xanatos Clutch I d ignore em all.. that would be the sweetest revenge

[@johnwatts3862]

It’s not that he turned 30, it’s because she turned 30

[@sirg-had8821]

A lot of that happened on my 30's. Now that I'm 42, not even the stragglers bother with me. Life is peaceful.

[@patrickbarnes9874]

How in the world does a guy accurately realize that women who thought he was dirt are not wanting his money, and then consider getting with them? That is just bizarre to me.

[@chuckiechuckster349]

Guys!! Please listen to Tom Leykis' episode about Poindexter's Revenge!

[@rally_chronicles]

Chuckie Chuckster my life to a tee

[@dylanjones9354]

Perfect comment. Came from that video to here

[@joimumu]

Tom Leykis have often said that he loves to go high school reunion and letting everyone that look down to him in their prime that he is richer than all of them combined

[@manmanman4825]

20yo girls were even too imature for me when I was in my 20s and I was obviously too mature for them as well. Was looking for a good girl to build a life with for a long time. Been single all my life. At my peak SMV right now at mid 30s. Wouldn't touch 30+yo with a stick. 20yo yeah, if they're an easy lay and good looking. Beside sex women have no value to me at this point anymore. Absolutely none.

[@jangosweat8689]

The wall is real ladies. Best to have the seat belt on before you hit it. IE a good man.

[@ThiefKingofLegend]

I just turned 25, so in only 5 years this could start to happen? Dang doesn't seem too far off. I know my purpose and what I want to do.

[@johnny5896]

just remember it takes 2 to dance, there is no guarantee that the other person knows their purpose, should you choose to get involved. Most are mental due to social media and miserable friends' influences, they on some type of meds and totally never ever get to evolve mentally and philosophically.

[@lorddevonshire3279]

I first noticed this phenomena after my 15yr high school class reunion. If college had reunions I'm sure there would be even more single moms to choose from. It's unfortunate, I spent my 20's and 30's being the best man I could be and never got a second look or I'd briefly date a girl I thought was great, only to be broken up with so she could ride the cc. I did end up dating someone from the past, that I never was interested in back then. She's held onto her looks, has a good job, and never asks me for much of anything even after dating for a year and a half. Doesn't want to get married or have kids. She has two kids already that she takes good care of. I didn't have much experience dating single moms until her because one of my rules is that I'm not interested in her if she treats her kids like shit. I don't want marriage or any kids of my own so it works for me. It kinda sucks getting the consolation prize after spending years wondering what the fuck went wrong. In my opinion, if you want to date have high standards. If she doesn't meet those standards then stay single, she's not worth potentially ruining your life for. Don't fall in love and don't cohabitate.

[@chuckiechuckster349]

Lord Devonshire Second prize gets a modern woman.. first prize none.

[@johnny5896]

she's just playin it cool to instill comfortability and lower your guards, but the marriage will eventually come up.

[@lightschunk]

I think he means Fallout 3 and he's talking about Three Dog calling people children on Galaxy News Radio. There's a Fallout New Vegas but not Las Vegas.

[@Weaseldog2001]

I'm 55, and there was not much in the way of social media when I was 30, but I did have women hitting me up. Most had kids from more than one baby daddy, that they couldn't afford.

[@adrianparis5236]

The comment on this video are priceless lol

[@MAG-hv9qj]

Adrian Paris Frustrations, rejections, we win at the end ;)

[@chuckiechuckster349]

Sounds like a Mastercard commercial.

[@JohnnyRebKy]

I’m 38 and have never been married. I decided long ago that divorce was something I would never experience. I’m not marrying the state, which is exactly what legal marriage is today.

[@kichigaisensei]

It didn't happen until I turned 40...but it happened. These college girls are VERY into older guys. It's insane. There's no way in Hell I'd even give a woman my age the time of day unless she SERIOUSLY works out and keeps herself up.

[@johnkkkj]

Careful buddy they are looking for sugar!

[@kichigaisensei]

@@johnkkkj Of course they are! LMFAO. These girls will give you a BJ minimally for just buying a pair of heels.

[@johnkkkj]

@@kichigaisensei Had a run in with a hot blonde in a bar. A quick chat and it's real that she has dept from college. She went out of here way to giggle and be sweet but I passed. Better be safe then sorry, we all know there is no such thing as a unicorn, hot yes unicorn no 😃

[@kichigaisensei]

@@johnkkkj Pump and dump, my brother.

[@johnkkkj]

@@kichigaisensei Yes brother, we all need to understand now that we are brothers! Pump and dump but be careful! Best wishes!

[@rocklee619]

Huge Fallout fan and appreciator of videos like this that guide men. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@felixyusupov7299]

This video is great. Definitely something to make the PC police head explode. It is amazing how some of those bad boys in high school turned into total losers when they were in their 30s. It is also funny how some of those attractive girls went to sh*t in terms of their looks and overall life situation. I don't think is a good way to predict looks. The ones that had attractive mothers usually turned out the same but not always.

[@TheGruntski]

The fellow featured in this video really seems to be getting contacted by the super losers from the old high school crowd, but, yeah, in my late twenties when I was debt free, had landed a good job, was saving money and so on, I found myself being pursued by a little clutch of ladies. They weren't losers by any means, but yeah, I doubt they'd have dated me in high school. I wouldn't be so hard on the girls though. First of all, the biological clock has kicked in, so that's an incentive for them. Secondly, remember that they have to go solely on a guy's image in high school, and even in university. It's not until real life kicks in that they get to see the difference between image and reality. Let me give you an example. I know a guy who was the quintessential revolutionary when he was in university. He really turned on the girls with his Che Guevara schtick and all his chatter down at the student commons coffee shop. So, years and years later, it happens my daughter wants a chunk of land cleared behind her house. So I get myself a couple of chainsaws, and start clearing the land, and it occurs to me that a little help would be nice, My son and I both work so we were getting overloaded. I put out the call: hey guys, help with the tree felling and bucking and you can haul away as much firewood as you want. It turns out Che Guevara is afraid of things like chainsaws, stump grinders and such stuff. How is a revolutionary going to man the barricades if he can't build one? Heck my daughter runs the smaller chainsaw on anything ten inches or under. Images burst like bubbles for the girls, usually in their early to mid twenties.

[@jamid87]

Gotta be like 50 Cent when these girls come to you: "Damn homie, back in the day you was the man homie. FUCK happened to you?" LOL

[@MoltenMetalGod7]

Any time after you’ve settled in and started getting life together 30+ or earlier is a great time to go ghost mode on women. otherwise it’s a fail we all know why they come callin after late 20s early 30s. i’m just a normal guy so if it hits the point where i’m getting looks yea it’s over…

[@harbingertheheretic3541]

The Slingback Effect! Can you tell that I came here from Terrence Popp's channel? Haha.

[@GrislyAtoms12]

I think the saying is, "When you lie down with dogs, expect to get fleas"

[@jabba0975]

Don't be someone's second choice.

[@fancyaristocrat7450]

You're a good guy Aaron.

[@briandrake6881]

Father Time is the equalizer. He built the Wall. The Wall is invincible.

[@aleterra]

Aaron, I love your content. I just wanted to tell you I noticed you are coughing in all your videos. I think you should see a doctor.

[@garrettjones8017]

Fall out New Vegas is the shit haha and you're shows pretty Godamn insightful too Aaron!

[@DividendFiend]

Girls started taking interest in me when I was 24 and started lifting a barbell, to be honest I got pretty upset by this

[@kinglito93]

MGTOW

[@TriforceOfTheGods80]

Wait can those guys in their 40's go to another (non-fem) country to find young single women?

[@blueseanomad7435]

Damn it, I can only give a video a single like.

[@barsoom43]

Dude should get off social media and change his phone number.. He should not answer these women..

[@colossicus555]

Lots to look forward to in my future

[@jimlevenstein7227]

One of them came at me when she started getting health issues lol

[@cityman2312]

Yes, obviously women start to become desperate as they get older. You guys are advocating being frigid to them, but I'd say rudeness is only warranted if they have personally rejected you at some point. I admit that I accepted a woman who was so desperate that she had become a green-skinned night-hag (that was rumoured to be the fate of fallen women in old Scandinavian folklore) and came in through my window at 3 AM to plead for me to accept her proposal. Should we get married?

[@dexterbarnes5249]

Fuck no

[@kiwin111]

you should normalize your audio. it's too quiet.

[@dylanmorrison3252]

Hell to the no

[@MrBranboom]

3 last month, two are married.

[@DenshaOtoko2]

Same like 14 or 15 girls are coming out of the woodwork after a certain age.

[@courtellis3565]

mr clarey, i would like to know your opinion about telling someone about my recovering alcoholic father's past. before i pursue someone i know im going to have to bring this up and ive been avoiding it for years. i am his only daughter. ive made my own way since high school and have not asked him for anything. because of this my mentality of men has been dont ask him for help he's too busy, he doesn't need me for anything serious. he'll be alright without me.

[@travisjohnson2232]

Stopped chasing women after 25 now I'm 30 and women chase me still looking for a good one though but now the cards are in my hands

[@kevinharvey8971]

Hi just wait til you own property

[@ericweis9771]

Yep happened to me and I don’t even have a house!

[@kevinharvey8971]

Hi just wait till u own property then they really come out of the woodwork

[@dodopoopinpoop]

Tom Leykis said it best. "Women can not predict the future especially as well as men can. They can not foresee the next million dollar idea or see a man who will become a doctor. Even you can not imagine how good your life will get. If you bust your ass as man in your youth, you will always get the last laugh."

[@OmegaRedFan]

Hugging their degrees in bed 🤣🤣 yup I've seen that too! #metooboy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LegoSwordViedos]

lol I live in wyoming. And sadly it's true.... It's all true... Please help me! I can't escape!

[@kiwin111]

am I screwed if i don't have a college degree? I dropped out of college after 1 semester. I'm still 18, so I can go back if I want to as well as do other things.

[@MAG-hv9qj]

kiwin111 No you're not screwed, but you need a plan B.

[@kiwin111]

I've been trying to come up with one. Currently, I'm working at a restaurant, trying to be at least a little productive. Long term, I'm thinking of joining the military, or going to a trade school(or community college).

[@chuckiechuckster349]

What were you studying before dropping ?

[@DoubtingThomas333]

just get a government job, (defence forces, police, firefighter etc) or go to trade school. especially if you're not interested in studying.

[@AbcDef-s7r]

it needs to be normalized that guys who worked on themself trough their youth, that they get to have first pick at young fertile virgin women because im not interested in taking care of another mans leftovers girls do have sex in their teens, so whats the problem if a man in his 20s or 30s marries one? theres actually no problem at all in that, it is actually the best for both genders and all of society

[@bud7707]

Ring a ding ding

[@travisstorms9951]

Glad I never joined facebook

[@TheSmashingDoc1]

there are these chicks that want to ef me what should i do? aaron: really? well, then ef em. THE END

[@professionalfacepuncher8361]

13:23 sounded like bill burr

[@HoGraz]

This one was good.

[@philo441]

This is so good lol

[@markw999]

Wait until you go to that 20th High School Reunion. LOL. Reject them right back. 19 year olds will date 35 yr old guys. Really.

[@greensmurf221]

New Vegas is best Vegas

[@AnnLaustsen87]

I have a good job and no kids and am 29. I'd like to date a guy around 35 or 40. But it's so hard to find a guy that doesn't have kids and has his shit together to reasonable standards. I'm just saying that it's not just men that have this problem-- there are a lot of shitty people in the dating pool :-(

[@mitch20003]

I am 32, no kids. Decent paying career . Its hard find single women in their late twenties and up with no kids.

[@AnnLaustsen87]

Do you live in the Seattle area?

[@mitch20003]

Nope, would be nice. Moved to mobile alabama for work. Im from phoenix , AZ

[@AnnLaustsen87]

You're overweight and divorced with a kid, so you're hating on me in order to compensate for your own shortcomings.

[@AnnLaustsen87]

You're overweight and divorced with a kid, so you're hating on me in order to compensate for your own shortcomings.

[@boogiemcsploogie]

How do you handle it? You ignore them. Tell them "sorry honey, if you shit the bed, you don't get to complain about the smell"

[@MissCatherine1100]

2 minutes in and my brain is screaming, "Stay Away!!!!"

[@josiahjones5293]

.2 secs of that photo I'm like hell no.

[@WESDEANEMARTIN]

Exact same thing happened to me, starting around 32. Every girl I took an interest in back in my twenties shunned me and dismissed me out of hand. Now (with their kids in tow) they see what I have accomplished with my life and want a piece of the pie. My advice is to tell them all to get lost. Life is fantastic when you have all your time and money to yourself. It's even better watching them from a distance as they seethe with jealousy and resentment while you turn your back and walk away..

[@chuckiechuckster349]

W MARTIN Would you recommend pump and dump with anti-natal measures or just staying away entirely?

[@clutchboi4038]

@@chuckiechuckster349 stay away entirely. The fact that they get dick makes them think they are a worthwhile commodity and thus they feel more valuable than they really are. This causes other women to not care about becoming single mothers themselves because they see other single mothers not suffering consequences. Don't let these hoes think they are worth something. They should have to be stuck alone or with other single dads.

[@wendysbrian1]

@@chuckiechuckster349 I'm not W Martin but that depends on who you ask. It's VERY easy to get roped into fatherhood whether you're sperm-jacked by a woman who flips the condom you failed to flush inside-out and self impregnates (See the 2002 letter the nba issued to players who were having this done to them by opportunistic women), by a woman who takes your sperm into her mouth, then runs to the bathroom to self-impregnate, or in some parts of the west and in some states, you can be hit up for child support simply for your involvement in her life, even if a DNA test proves you're not the father. Know your local laws. I think it's just best to stay away from all of them all together, but that's just me. Pump and dump is always a risk. Some pumpers get vasectomies and are tested regularly to make sure they're shooting blanks. That's not for me but it is an option. Also know, pull-out method DOESN'T work, condoms aren't 100% reliable (break, leak, slip, she poked a hole) and no matter what, and I do mean no matter what, you can never, ever believe anything she says about (It's okay, I'm on the pill, have an IUD, can't get pregnant according to doctors, etc). They lie, they don't take their pills correctly, the pills aren't affective if their dosage is for a 100 lb woman but she's 150,.... there's just way too many factors for her word to be relied upon. Men have NO reproductive rights in this "equality" hellscape and if you do/don't want to be a dad, it's not up to you.

[@daneprywatne3342]

I met recently a girlfriend that dumped me and left heartbroken in the age 21 for the other guy, when I was planning to marry her. I know she is now a 44 yo single mother of one, no real career - just uni manager (and her IQ is like 150 - taking about misspent talents!) .. she pushed at me her business card, wanted to make a contact .. I made sure she noticed I written down her phone number then - never, ever called her. That is my revenge, and it is sweet.

[@hannesproductions4302]

Nice one

[@isellcatlitter]

from an OLD GUY.... they are looking in their year book from High School...doing a google search on you... then, calling you, perhaps they did a background check on you....

[@Weaseldog2001]

Ah, that's how I dodged that bullet. I never appeared in my High School Yearbook. I played hookey every time, and the faculty was fine with that.

[@asdggghjhh1321]

Lots of women are like this now, they waste their teens and 20s on Chad, Tyrone, Pookie, and Ray ray and then they want the good guy when they are hitting the wall, let them spoil and rot on the vine

[@briandrake6881]

They want you to take them to Disney Land with Bey-Bey's kids.

[@patrickx9409]

29 years old, and I turn 30 in July. Instead of finding a woman, I am going to focus on a career. I plan to make at least 50,000 a year and plan on enjoying that single. I got shot down by so many women in my 20's and been single most of my life, so I'm used to being single. Any woman who rejected me in the past, won't get another chance. They reap what they sow. Single mom? Too bad. Desperately want to marry? I require being in a relationship for at least 5 years before I go about doing that, and I will make sure that I don't get screwed over. So many women in their late 30's have hit the wall, and are trying to be nice to get what they want, whether it be the "married with kids social status", or simple companionship. Either way, I'm going to enjoy my life single, and if girls I don't know yet want to date me, we can do that. If you are a bitch, I will dump you on the spot. I just need to make it where I make enough for myself to thrive and do what I want.

[@mitch20003]

I am 32 .I only make 48k. I may not make much and I drive an 2006 altima. NO debt and I have savings.

[@patrickx9409]

That's all you really need for a single guy. $35,000-$40,000 is reasonably doable. You can visit other countries, and travel. That's the American dream.

[@patrickx9409]

Exactly. Make needs come before wants.

[@gregoryromero6856]

PatrickX I'm like you 29 years old turning 30 in July and have been single most of my life. I will not settle for a female who doesn't want my kids all because she wanted and has kids already by the player with his genes in them. What is this? I'm not good enough for her to have my kids but I'm more than enough to raise her kids. smh That's f**ked up!

[@feliperodriguez6885]

I'm 48 never been married no kids, I make 35k a year. No crazy ex wife or fucked up kids or hateful ex in-laws. You are just beginning the best years of your life, the older, wiser and successful you get the more attractive you are to young women. It's not a bad thing, work on yourself read learn search for meaning in your life the women will come. Remember focus on success not women, once you've achieved your goals you'll be knee deep in pussy. Just don't marry them, don't give up.

[@davester1970]

As a man who is 46, single and childless, most of the available women I run into either has a house full of kids or a house full of pets. Sometimes the problem single ladies with no children who have the house full of pets is that they are emotionally unavailable. That is because they have substituted the love of humans with the love of animals.

[@wk3818]

I don't consider either of your examples (available)

[@seephor]

The media and Hollywood pushes this garbage to the youth where they make prom, sex, dating a jock, partying etc as the norm in school and learning a skill so you have some value in the real world is never even talked about. In fact, it's made fun of and mocked. So most in school think these worthless, sometimes destructive behaviors is how you get ahead in life. People like me who ignored that garbage and instead sat behind a computer 12 hours a day learning how the internet worked, learning to program in several different languages all of a sudden realize that we are worth more than the jock who was number one in throwing a ball into a hoop. Why? because we have a skill that many don't have. We have something to offer than many don't so based on the basic economic supply and demand, we win. I always tells guys who think finding a good women is about looks or how much attention you can provide to reassess. I tell them to stop chasing women and instead put that energy into your success. Once you have success in life, you'll have so many women flock to you like a magnet that you won't know what to do with. Not that the women who flock to you are all gold diggers as some might be but you will have an EVOLUTIONARY advantage. Because the ultimate human drive to form sexual relationships has everything to do with reproduction and survival of offspring. A woman is naturally subconsciously attracted to a man who she will have the best success of raising children and survival. Forget all the feminist bullshit. Feminism is a learned shallow social construct. Human evolution is millions of years of natural selection. Use evolution to your advantage.

[@darthabrams85theghost39]

I'm 31 it's happened to me and i said no to every one of them

[@taraswertelecki7874]

Good for you!

[@yanisb.1061]

Fucking based.

[@randalfsteward707]

The thing about women with a child is that the child can do all kinds of selfish evil things and if you don't let them get away with it; the woman will take their side. This causes all kinds of confusion and failures in the family. If it's your own child, you can correct them and she won't have a problem.

[@atomicpunch7649]

If she is asking about your job she is very likely sizing you up, they are basically looking at you like mining or oil project. They want to extract resources from you.

[@adashiell1]

Wait till you are in your 40’s! It gets even funnier

[@rally_chronicles]

Tell me more.

[@SoulKilla1000]

Just go MGTOW and leave women all alone with their cats.

[@taraswertelecki7874]

Yep, let them have their cats, anti=depressants, vibrators and each other! LOL.

[@Americus22]

John Gotti GOAT.

[@AnabolicAsylum]

I'm 29 & I've already noticed this happening.

[@acewilliams7917]

that's the cycle. It's an insult to a good man.

[@Worldtravelerr78]

Terrance Popp did an excellent Video on this topic called “The Slingback Effect”. You should check that out.

[@triad6425]

I have actually had a girl stop me mid conversation to say "You are going to starting throwing out all these economic and capitalist facts. So this conversation must end now and I ill still believe we need a $15 minimum wage even with inflation."

[@chuckiechuckster349]

triad6425 Please tell me you didn't treat her with respect after that. Either ignore what she said and keep going or just not say another word and walk or just start laughing at her hysterically?

[@robotguy]

It wasn't about the numbers for her. It was about the feels. She wanted to feel like everyone had enough, so that she wouldn't have to feel bad for anyone. The number she chose wasn't arrived at by calculating some optimum, but a number chosen by someone else that she's parroting because it feels about right. Thoughts of secondary consequences get in the way of feeling like she's doing the right thing by pushing this particular issue. She feels like she's helping and you're harshing her buzz. You can only battle rational arguments with rationality. You cannot win an emotional argument with better rational points; you instead need better emotional points: "Wouldn't it be better to train a poor person to be a welder so she could earn $43 an hour and work less hours and spend more time with her kids?" (It doesn't matter what welders actually make in this case, because it isn't about the numbers, it's about the emotional content - the words that followed the number). I think this is why guys like Clinton and Trudeau got elected. They knew how to win emotional arguments and women responded. And it drives conservative politicians nuts because they're baffled as to why their superior reasoning and rational arguments aren't getting traction.

[@megacide84]

triad6425 I for one will be very happy with a $15/hr minimum wage since it'll ultimately lead to automation, mechanization of existing facilities. Freezing labor costs and ultimately lower prices and better service.

[@workingshlub8861]

woman can never think logically ..its always based on the emotion at the time.