Respect - Why We Must Earn It - Masculinity and Mental Health Awareness

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Bjorn Andreas Bull-Hansen

Bjorn Andreas Bull-Hansen

Күн бұрын

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@LordHarv
@LordHarv 5 жыл бұрын
My opinion on this is: Everyone deserves a base level of politeness/tolerance. Not everyone deserves respect.
@orphancharmander1168
@orphancharmander1168 Жыл бұрын
And yet the people slaving & running the show, ore even pay for the show, dont get any, only the BAD people get it 🙄🤡
@korpakukac
@korpakukac 5 жыл бұрын
If you have to demand respect you are not deserving of it.
@ShiftTheMatrixGaming
@ShiftTheMatrixGaming 5 жыл бұрын
Unless the other thinks they are high and mighty.
@whoodunit1789
@whoodunit1789 5 жыл бұрын
@@ShiftTheMatrixGaming that means they are demanding it. So they don't deserve it. Be humble, he respectful, and you'll be respected, like our you tube friend here.
@tomcolton5662
@tomcolton5662 5 жыл бұрын
There's not enough respect not too much
@whoodunit1789
@whoodunit1789 5 жыл бұрын
@@tomcolton5662 you don't understand then...
@tomcolton5662
@tomcolton5662 5 жыл бұрын
@@whoodunit1789 what don't I understand? If you respect yourself it doesn't matter what other people do.
@galis4383
@galis4383 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks to you, Bjorn I've started to hike in the forests recently, did 20 miles last weekend and just got back from a short, 7.5 mile hike. I just wanted to thank you very much, it really helps to relax after whole week and helps to appreciate every moment in your life.
@marythompson9222
@marythompson9222 5 жыл бұрын
It's the best medicine for the spirit I know of. If I ever met you somewhere in the woods of course I'll wave and smile. It's a calm you can not get in other places.
@leroylowe5921
@leroylowe5921 5 жыл бұрын
@Travis Rabble O.O
@Coldfront15
@Coldfront15 5 жыл бұрын
Travis Rabble The FBI still knows about your feet fetish. You can’t hide those pictures!
@crspcritter
@crspcritter 5 жыл бұрын
Galis yup !!!-
@dreadpiraterobertsii4420
@dreadpiraterobertsii4420 5 жыл бұрын
Travis Rabble once I burn my evidence I add the ashes to water and drink at as a smoothie, then when it rains I pee at 4 different locations all at least 3 km apart
@metsatroll
@metsatroll 5 жыл бұрын
I always say that "respect is earned not given." Love your point on this.
@tdunph4250
@tdunph4250 5 жыл бұрын
@Peter Slogan If that's all you can say about this video and the affect it had on someone then obviously you are just out here to troll people. Stick to video games, that's your future.
@tdunph4250
@tdunph4250 5 жыл бұрын
@Peter Slogan Just joking with me that your this Heyoka or whatever that is, you've lost the fight and lost my respect. As you were...
@tdunph4250
@tdunph4250 5 жыл бұрын
@Peter Slogan interesting....are you by any chance incarcerated right now?
@sosteve9113
@sosteve9113 5 жыл бұрын
True words respect do you have to earn,and don't obeying respect
@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen
@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@daspiper8941
@daspiper8941 5 жыл бұрын
~I give every person I meet my full respect. They can only lose my respect. ~Now Trust is a different issue. I trust no one. They must earn my Trust.
@samgraf6200
@samgraf6200 5 жыл бұрын
Your comment on respect captures my view as well. The difference between your view and the view expressed by Bjorn is quite important, I think. But this is probably not the venue to deliberate over the difference.
@Coldfront15
@Coldfront15 5 жыл бұрын
Give everyone the same respect you expect from them. If they fail to meet it then you adjust as necessary. Trust no one until they earn it, and never respect someone more, or as the same as yourself.
@mello6311
@mello6311 5 жыл бұрын
I like to think that trust is respect. Cuz I am the exact same. I will be as nice as can be when I meet you and interact with you, and I will make sure you enjoy my company. But the moment you start getting disrespectful and trying to tear me down or just ruin my day with a bad attitude, then you don't get any respect back. And you definitely don't have my trust.
@jimkaris648
@jimkaris648 5 жыл бұрын
I think of respect as a score between 1 and 10. I give most strangers a default score of 3. They earn extra points if they prove themselves civil and honorable. They lose points if they are rude or foolish. A score of zero is fight-or-flight mode. Scores above 6 are reserved for long-time friends and family members. A score of 10 is reserved for role-models and heroes.
@gglarke7709
@gglarke7709 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with most of you. Respect I give until it's lost. Trust you have to earn.🌷
@WoodlandsArchive
@WoodlandsArchive 5 жыл бұрын
Theese days Im old. But I do remember my younger years. As an ex-army officer I was once a cadet, being trained to become an officer. My mentor, at the time, always told me -rank is what you wear - respect is what you earn!
@Michael-kg8ef
@Michael-kg8ef 5 жыл бұрын
As a 32 man born in a city i can tell you , these cities are absolute jokes with no morals , values, and a weak entitled attitude , i have for years yearned for a secluded , natural existence in the woods / wildernes , i am making efforts towards that daily.
@Michael-kg8ef
@Michael-kg8ef 5 жыл бұрын
@Dean Human hope you find your peace asap my friend, take care 👍
@TheWoodsman661
@TheWoodsman661 5 жыл бұрын
Luckily, I have the ability to disappear into the woods whenever I feel like doing so. It's a great thing to do. Getting away from the bs, drama, and all the bitching and moaning of society is truly a great blessing in itself. I wish you luck on fulfilling your wish for solitude when you most need and want it.
@Megan-ir3ze
@Megan-ir3ze 5 жыл бұрын
This is one of reasons why my husband and I moved out to the country.
@TheWoodsman661
@TheWoodsman661 5 жыл бұрын
@@Megan-ir3ze I hope you're enjoying life in the country!
@Rockcroc2000Rm1wE3erWmNfkL
@Rockcroc2000Rm1wE3erWmNfkL 5 жыл бұрын
I've felt that same way for years, but where I am, you get fined by the city council because they think they "own the land". It's a difficult path to freedom.
@blackadder5346
@blackadder5346 5 жыл бұрын
People seem to not understand that common decency and respect are different things.
@robmillle
@robmillle 5 жыл бұрын
Blackadder hit the nail on the head there
@alvideos2145
@alvideos2145 5 жыл бұрын
So what the fuck is the difference? This just sounds like people having excuses to be disrespectful cunts.
@blackadder5346
@blackadder5346 5 жыл бұрын
@@alvideos2145 respect is something that someone earns either by being wise, virtuous, disciplined or principled. You don't necessarily need to like someone to respect them, they just do or say something with strong moral beliefs or do something virtuous. Common decency is just treating someone kindly and being well mannered, treating someone kindly doesn't mean you respect them and that's something a lot of people get confused about these days.
@thecryinglennyface166
@thecryinglennyface166 5 жыл бұрын
Blackadder Man well said. That was beautiful. I hope you have a good day.
@spbeckman
@spbeckman 5 жыл бұрын
Your comments about the phone as an impediment to communication is correct. As someone that works with young people I can say that the new generation hate to talk on their phones. They are always on their phones, but never talk on them. Sometimes when I'm talking with them about their projects, I'll suggest that they call their teammates to discuss their work, and they almost cringe. It's very funny how this works. Their phones are for communication, not for talking to people.
@alfrealtier6486
@alfrealtier6486 Жыл бұрын
Greetings from Chile Mr. Bjorn Bull Hansen..... Thanks a lot for your insight... 🤠🤠🤠👍👍👍🇨🇱🇨🇱
@CorneliusFahey
@CorneliusFahey 5 жыл бұрын
Why should I respect anyone who violates the NAP (Non-Aggression Principle)? I don’t respect NAP violators. At best I tolerate them. Great video! Thank you for posting it. 👍🏻
@jbelme1
@jbelme1 5 жыл бұрын
I have noticed that those who “demand” respect are often the most disrespectful people. I’ve thought that they didn’t understand the concept. Thanks for the chat Bull. Respect/ disrespect can take many forms. I have watched skraelings litter in my neighborhood. No one who lives here does that.
@spookysenpai7642
@spookysenpai7642 5 жыл бұрын
Hard times create Strong men Strong men create Good times Good times create weak men Weak men create hard times. And the cycle returns over and over again.
@HebrewsElevenTwentyFive
@HebrewsElevenTwentyFive 5 жыл бұрын
Replace the first two "goods" with Strong and "bad" with hard and it will be perfect 🤙🏾
@spookysenpai7642
@spookysenpai7642 5 жыл бұрын
@@HebrewsElevenTwentyFive Fixed it.
@HebrewsElevenTwentyFive
@HebrewsElevenTwentyFive 5 жыл бұрын
@@spookysenpai7642 Perfect
@ShiftTheMatrixGaming
@ShiftTheMatrixGaming 5 жыл бұрын
And it's been done on purpose not accident
@zufex2029
@zufex2029 5 жыл бұрын
Every generation blames next generation... I bet your parents' and grandparents' generation called you weak too while thinking they were strong.
@Life-on-the-Edge
@Life-on-the-Edge 5 жыл бұрын
Bjorn I could see that was a hard thing to ask us to follow you on other platforms, I understand that you are a man of integrity, I just want to thank you for your work and I appreciate where you are coming from.
@bentimberfalling
@bentimberfalling 5 жыл бұрын
"Tolerance and apathy are the virtues of a dieing society" ~Aristotle. One does need to have patience at time but tolerance for blasphemy and sodomy are the last thing we need.
@PeterBoddy
@PeterBoddy 5 жыл бұрын
You have the right of it. Respect people's basic human rights, but make them earn your deeper respect.
@golagiswatchingyou2966
@golagiswatchingyou2966 5 жыл бұрын
Yes respect human rights, sadly not all people are humans, they deserve human-ish rights. Respect is waring a uniform and pointing a gun at those you demand respect from.
@margomaloney6016
@margomaloney6016 5 жыл бұрын
It looks like the small pond you show in the video is a result of the old granite quarry. Very nice surroundings and thanks for your wise words!
@kravist518
@kravist518 5 жыл бұрын
First, it’s been a long time since I’ve gotten a notice from KZbin that a new video posted! As usual like being with an old friend around the campfire enjoying coffee and just talking The only automatic respect I give is like you said Bjorn their basic human rights, beyond that respect is earned
@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen
@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen 5 жыл бұрын
Good to see you here! I am sorry about the notifications problems, this is YOutube...
@kravist518
@kravist518 5 жыл бұрын
Bjorn Andreas Bull-Hansen I am on Patreon now too so I get notifications from there also thanks for the great videos
@daveyjoweaver5183
@daveyjoweaver5183 5 жыл бұрын
Thank You Bjorn! Respect is lacking these days because people don't respect themselves. If you don't respect yourself you can't respect others. You see trash and litter everywhere. That's disrespect big time. I remember as I was growing up in the 50-60s in a small town, it seemed everyone had respect for one another, helpful and truly concerned about how you were doing. As kids we shoveled snow for the elderly and didn't expect pay. But they often paid you a little in gratitude and respected you for your help without being asked. People have grown so mistrusting in modern times but again, respect themselves very little or not at all. Every step we take should be with respect for all Creation. And as you live your life and spend much time in the natural places, you live respect by your actions. You walk your talk. You are a good example for everyone. Respect create happiness. Goods travels and all the beauty nature holds! DaveyJO in Pa.
@bladehoner3185
@bladehoner3185 5 жыл бұрын
Too much undeserved and unearned respect for sure! Good message, Thanks!
@rebeccahenderson5342
@rebeccahenderson5342 5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you don't have many if ever any commercials during your vids because I listen to them when I'm out in the woods when I get lonely.
@vladdracula5477
@vladdracula5477 5 жыл бұрын
I love ancient woodland! I live in the American Midwest and own an oak forest full of huge old oaks. A forest in winter is one of my favorite places to be!
@brucemartin8435
@brucemartin8435 5 жыл бұрын
It runs so much deeper when considering even people taking commitments seriously or simple things like being in time
@FraDonaghyMusic
@FraDonaghyMusic 5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear you are unable to visit your local forest because of a threat to your safety. I'm glad you are safe for now however. Take care Bjorn.
@sonofodin9201
@sonofodin9201 5 жыл бұрын
1000% agree! You have to earn respect! It's not just handed out! Take responsibility for your life and earn some! Dont expect all things to be handed to you!
@cowboy4378
@cowboy4378 4 жыл бұрын
My grandfather has been shot at 3 times in his life. Once from a machine gunner in the city (his work van was misidentified as a rival gang member’s). Twice in the forest. The last time the hunter tried to get the hounds after him thinking he was a deer. When he came back he was completely calm and brought it up laughing, he may have been terrified on the inside but that is one of the many reasons I respect him. Because he was so calm and never showed a sign of panic. I can’t verify the 1st forest time as I wasn’t alive, but for the machine gunner he still has the police report and pictures of his riddled van, for the 3rd time I heard the shot and I knew he was walking in an area known for hunting. I have never known him to lie which evidently is another reason I respect him.
@mdh6977
@mdh6977 5 жыл бұрын
I agree wholeheartedly with your observations... this was a common debate between my Opa and I while he was still alive... I love and miss him, and have total respect for the man... however, he grew up an old school German and fear, to him, often equated to respect... my position was always that you may be shown what you think is respect, but really it's just someone submitting to you, not actually holding you in high esteem... I dont really know if he understood my position or if he was just testing me, and teaching me... he was a great debater and actually a very thoughtful man (for an old square-head)... I think we both loved those interactions, as heated as they could get... God I miss that man... anyway, Bjorn, thank you for another great video discussion
@Omarra67
@Omarra67 5 жыл бұрын
I love your "take" on things, your perspective.
@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen
@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@tdunph4250
@tdunph4250 5 жыл бұрын
My son and I enjoy, contemplate and discuss your very thoughtful and interesting videos here from Ontario, Canada. Thank you for making these videos. They are helpful and honest!
@terjesvensen8393
@terjesvensen8393 Жыл бұрын
Excellent that you bring up the topic about True Respect, Bjørn thank you !
@karmaclanton5544
@karmaclanton5544 5 жыл бұрын
Earned not given!!! True believer in that. Thank you!!!❤👍😀
@JimRodgers
@JimRodgers 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like what you are saying is that we need to be polite and tolerate others, but respect has to be earned. I totally agree, many people think they deserve respect and don't have to earn it.
@martyfrench9235
@martyfrench9235 5 жыл бұрын
You are correct. Respect is very different from fear, and tolerance. I enjoy your page on this platform.
@BangMaster96
@BangMaster96 5 жыл бұрын
Respect is earned, not given. Offense is taken, not given.
@SolidStateSoul
@SolidStateSoul 5 жыл бұрын
I just discovered your channel yesterday. I like your channel a lot, but not for the bushcraft. I'm not saying you aren't good at bushcraft, however there are plenty of bushcraft channels on KZbin. I can learn that stuff from many sources. The reason I like your channel, is because of your mental health videos. You have a very calming voice, and listening to you talk by a campfire feels intimate in a sincere way. I hope you continue doing these mental health, and philosophical videos - in tandem with a little bushcraft going on in the background. Just maybe you were a Viking philosopher in a past life. We need such men today.
@carl5381
@carl5381 5 жыл бұрын
My mrs. Is from Bærum and recently turned her onto your channel. Love your ideas and candor. For those not in the know, this man is quite like most Norwegians which is why I have fallen in love with the country. I hope one day to find work and move there and full integrate with the country. It reminds me a lot of home (American midwest). Skål!
@toilandtrouble8797
@toilandtrouble8797 5 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more. Respect must be earned... if it isn't the word has lost all its meaning. Thank you for these well-reasoned and quite simply, straightforward videos. Insightful and enjoyable stuff here! Take care.
@theoracle1945
@theoracle1945 5 жыл бұрын
I wish I lived close to forests, especially ones I could camp in. The closest forest like camp site to me is an hour from where I live. You've inspired me to rediscover my love of nature. Thank you!
@peter.24.7
@peter.24.7 5 жыл бұрын
13 seconds in and I see a sign directing Bjorn to Valhalla! WTF????, time to re-read it. Joking aside, brilliant video sir and thank you. I always have such an amazing sense of peace from watching.
@lotek5825
@lotek5825 5 жыл бұрын
a hit man for the mafia once told me "never confuse kindness for weakness"
@patrickbrennan1317
@patrickbrennan1317 5 жыл бұрын
Mistake too frequently made.
@elvispresley7529
@elvispresley7529 5 жыл бұрын
You heard that from a movie right?
@aussiegardener5703
@aussiegardener5703 5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you answered about the Granite existing there. was my first thought at the beginning when I saw the cut granite blocks like that lol
@shaneferris6742
@shaneferris6742 5 жыл бұрын
You are one man l have great respect for Bjorn. Keep up your excellent work. And it's good to know you are branching out. More will hear your words of wisdom.
@attilathehun2537
@attilathehun2537 5 жыл бұрын
Respect them that be respectable, tolerate them that be tolerable, the unrespectable and untolerable are one in the same its best to make them slightly nervous.
@patrickbrennan1317
@patrickbrennan1317 5 жыл бұрын
Preferably afraid of you so they watch the way they act towards you. With these types it's better to feared than loved.
@golagiswatchingyou2966
@golagiswatchingyou2966 5 жыл бұрын
@@patrickbrennan1317 I too am a fan of the dark enlightenment and "the prince"
@margaretneanover6066
@margaretneanover6066 4 жыл бұрын
It's hard to earn in a squash scene. You are correct about topic and also a dejavu thought that connects those running and those stopping to respond. Don't be chased too easily.
@tanja8907
@tanja8907 5 жыл бұрын
Respect is earned, keep to your word, always look people in the eyes when you talk to them, know when to speak and when to listen.
@julianwild8556
@julianwild8556 3 жыл бұрын
I always enjoy your thoughts and points of consideration, and I do absolutely understand what you mean with the changing of the meaning of our words in language - whatever the language. The traditional and historical evolution of language must be - dare I say - respected. Appreciate your commentary as always. JW
@bluesman7119
@bluesman7119 5 жыл бұрын
reminds me of Northern Ontario, I use to love going up there and just being with nature, those coffees are amazing ,love your channel Bjorn
@NFT2
@NFT2 5 жыл бұрын
Bjorn I only came across your videos recently, but I'm glad I did. Very wise words from you.
@claychristensen5885
@claychristensen5885 5 жыл бұрын
“Never respect a man who doesn’t respect you, but always give him the opportunity”
@swhedge71
@swhedge71 5 жыл бұрын
Great perspective of respect Bjorn. I, like you, and many other people with high morals, have become intolerant of today's society of disrespect. There are too many people that are self absorbed, with a sense of entitlement, that think they should have respect without having earned it. There are too many examples to mention, but, respect and integrity is not a given, it has to be earned. Your words are wise, and wisdom is almost implausible in today's society when there is so much falseness and untruthfulness on media and social network. Keep posting your videos, as they are refreshing, but very informative! Skål !!
@Spockfucious
@Spockfucious 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct. The latest move to respect everyone undermines the development of personal responsibility and moral, ethical behaviour because people expect acknowledgment without earning it. As far as tolerance is concerned, I do not totally agree-we should not tolerate those who seem to be deliberately undermining the very fabric of society. They should be treated with contempt because they are intentionally destroying decent society and the structure of the family and men’s roles in it.
@MalXcontent
@MalXcontent 5 жыл бұрын
Respect is something I feel is very important. I think that it is confused with other aspects of social behaviour. Being polite and civil is linked to respect. However you can not respect someone but at the same time be polite and civil to them. So when people say that everyone should be respected, what they really mean is that people should be treated politely and with civility. Respect is earned and earned by integrity in a person’s intentions. Yet then again, sometimes this isn’t enough. Some people are incapable of being respectful. Cool stove btw.
@golagiswatchingyou2966
@golagiswatchingyou2966 5 жыл бұрын
Respect is when you admit someone els has an ability or power that you don't have or understand is important for society and your own family. Like a gun or an army.
@praszu
@praszu 5 жыл бұрын
I respect you because you walk the forest a lot and because you talk in a calm manner. I respect people who are able to remain calm.
@auldreekievaper5394
@auldreekievaper5394 4 жыл бұрын
Very true bjorn if there is one thing I learned in life is that respect is the same as trust they are both earned and never given 👍
@sethr.c1065
@sethr.c1065 5 жыл бұрын
Extremely important distinction which I didn't quite realize I've been making. I give an extra dosage of tolerance to my elders, to women, and to other cultures, but they do not command a granted share of my respect unless they've earned it. I allow people who have differences with me some extra tolerance because I know I do not always understand nor empathize with them on the same level as my American male piers. That does not mean I hold them in more esteem for being born in some time, place, or gender.
@elizabethhestevold1340
@elizabethhestevold1340 5 жыл бұрын
I agree Bjoern. My late husband, peace be with him. We choose paths in life, and need to own it. Not pass it on to other generation. Likes you much, God Bless.🇩🇰🇺🇸🇮🇸🦅
@rampantmantis2788
@rampantmantis2788 4 жыл бұрын
Having some chocolate coffee now as I watch this! Cheers and respect sir. Thanks for your views and videos. Food for thought.
@bgurtek
@bgurtek 5 жыл бұрын
Bjorn, I think you're right! We also have to tamp down disrespect by, as you say, through proper toleration.
@terrywoychowski8681
@terrywoychowski8681 5 жыл бұрын
Well said. Thank you. I love the small stove. Could use one of those on my morning coffee hike
@MsSteveroth
@MsSteveroth 5 жыл бұрын
Had a coffee with you as I listened. Your talks are full of wisdom and common sense, thank you.
@hakage8517
@hakage8517 4 жыл бұрын
You, have earned my respect, I am binge watching all of your videos.
@dritz6936
@dritz6936 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the look at that beautiful forest. Even if the rocks are not natural formations they are very interesting to see. Stone adds a great deal to the ambiance of a forest.
@PMPCMining
@PMPCMining 5 жыл бұрын
I personally believe you are spot on with your statement about respect. I believe we give and are asked to give respect to often. Respect has been confused with tolerance. Respect has to be earned, tolerance is given but both are not guaranteed.
@SolarCowboy
@SolarCowboy 5 жыл бұрын
As always. Thank you for sharing.
@RATCHRIST
@RATCHRIST 3 жыл бұрын
just found your channel. its great. thank you from denmark
@georgechambers5896
@georgechambers5896 5 жыл бұрын
people should never demand respect it must be earned and you Bjorn Andreas through you videos have earned my respect and the respect of all your followers on KZbin
@davidohmart1336
@davidohmart1336 5 жыл бұрын
Iam in the city waiting for my wife Just watched some of your videos on respect integrity the climate mens mental health masculinity very refreshing Love your channel keep up the good work Thank you for all you share with your viewer's
@mamachar1
@mamachar1 3 жыл бұрын
Earned Respect is a Gift to One's Self and to all others you touch.
@alexsandoval796
@alexsandoval796 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right on the twisting of the word respect. With arrogance, resentment, and deceit they attempt to bully and if you cave to the start of their dominant master role then you are respectful other wise they will do their best to ruin you without physically touching you. They try to redefine bullying as only physical violence because if they can punish those unwilling to be their slaves without physical violence then they consider themselves more righteous.
@cacaomonster
@cacaomonster 5 жыл бұрын
Completely agree with that assessment. Far too often the language gets misused and it’s time to understand the words you choose to use people.
@Romy-kh4pd
@Romy-kh4pd 5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos and the wisdom you always provide in them.
@Icebreaaker
@Icebreaaker 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. I have to get one of those Bushbox Stoves - they look so efficient.
@keithprice7119
@keithprice7119 5 жыл бұрын
I enjoy these videos as I've entered a stage in life where I am starting to struggle with a lot of conversations that I have with people. At times I find it hard to deal with what I hear from friends and some family. Everybody is slowly becoming soft and unwilling to express true opinions. A close friend of mine started to work in the movie/TV industry in his thirties. He'd never been afraid to speak his mind and be straight forward. Now after a few years in the industry he gets defensive every time I even ask questions about things like gender fluidity, inclusivity. Recently I wanted to talk to him about Greta Thunberg as I've been a bit dubious as to how quickly she's gained international fame and wondered if there are other factors at play in the background. Just me asking questions prompted him to say to me 'it's ridiculous to attack her...for god sake she's doing something important...she has a right to be angry...' etc. Questions are attacks now. I can't even get into the mind of people now who think that everyone should be included in everything and be made to feel good about themselves at all times, never questioned or criticised otherwise you're sexist/racist etc. I've just become a father and luckily I have moved out of Europe to Indonesia. My wife wants to go and live in the UK but I'm honestly worried about him growing up in that environment. He'll be seen as a villain if he doesn't conform exactly to the latest movement. I want my son to grow up to be a man, a real man who has integrity and will stand up for himself no matter what. In the UK he'll probably have that drained out of him year after year.
@johnathanbrekle5957
@johnathanbrekle5957 5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! They help me reflect on some issues I am currently dealing with. Thank you for the knowledge that you share.
@DrawingTechnical
@DrawingTechnical 5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos, today I decided to go out into the woods to explore like a big kid, and I took my young boy with me. It was such a peaceful experience, nature is so calm and mentally relaxing. I have taken some footage of the forest and the trees and am going to incorporate it into my next technical drawing video. Also my boy had a good experience with exploring the woods, I think it's really good for his mental and physical development. Keep doing what you're doing, I'm looking forward to going again next week.
@ShiftTheMatrixGaming
@ShiftTheMatrixGaming 5 жыл бұрын
There is amazing energy in the earth
@TomokosEnterprize
@TomokosEnterprize 5 жыл бұрын
Respect, both given and received is upmost in my life. Without that we have very little in our lives my friend. Great post bud.
@stevenwinnen9104
@stevenwinnen9104 5 жыл бұрын
Enjoy soending time with you and listening to your thoughts on all sorts of subjects. I am 100% behind you on RESPECT. Respect is earned it is not guven. I spent many years in our Military and I had gained in Rank and Respect came with the Rank Not the person. I had to earn that with those who served below me and those above. Yes I respect everyone Rights granted by our God and by our Constitution. But now days it seems that alot of people are forcing you to Respect Them otherwise you will hurt their feelings.
@TheRenekruse
@TheRenekruse 5 жыл бұрын
Great video, I have had this type of conversation many times, with many people, who seem to lack the basic understanding of the true meaning of respect. There are even people who say they respect everyone equally, to which I have said If you respect everyone equally your respect is equally worthless. Any person who would ask for respect should earn nothing but contempt.
@harmonicamanrandy
@harmonicamanrandy 5 жыл бұрын
My existence on this planet is not to serve the egos of others.
@harmonicamanrandy
@harmonicamanrandy 5 жыл бұрын
@star dome That had absolutely nothing to do with what I said.
@rigohook1160
@rigohook1160 2 жыл бұрын
You are a far more wise man than appears under that grizzly bear looks. And you have the ability to put your wisdom in words, wich i for one lack completely, even the poor little wisdom i've earned over the years
@acidtrungpa4760
@acidtrungpa4760 5 жыл бұрын
Great channel, you are one of my favorite thinkers. I'm hoping to see your book on audible read by you.
@jamessamuel1255
@jamessamuel1255 5 жыл бұрын
I think there are two types of respect. Respect for humanity, the fact that someone is a person with their own opinions, they may be different to you or they may be similar, there is basic respect that someone can be different and still human. I think that is very close to tolerance although I think tolerance doesn’t have quite the right connotation and there is probably a better word for it out there. And then there is the respect for a person, this is earned. To gain the first type of respect all you have to be is human. To lose it you would have to do something very dehumanising and truly horrible. Whereas the second type is for the values that someone holds, something they've accomplished, etc. This is the kind of respect I have for this man, the same respect I have for my mother, my father, a few of my teachers, etc. This is the respect that means that I will make sure to listen to something that they have to say, I will value their leadership and guidance and I will treat them with respect. There are many people out there that I do not respect. They have not earned it so there is no expectation for respect or any special treatment beyond courtesy and observing their basic human rights.
@lidgeacreery7766
@lidgeacreery7766 2 жыл бұрын
My exhusband didn't respect me, treated me badly. He told me I had to earn it. I asked him how? He couldn't think of an answer. I realized, it's really a gift one gives to another. I left him.
@stevenfong1928
@stevenfong1928 5 жыл бұрын
Well said. Appreciate your effort to preserve man is kind and we can produce men that are kind and in touch with his good nature. Hail to a leader at the genius of how powerful a simply said but deeply thought out delivery is most key and requires little convincing over and over... You honor men all men in a Mr Rogers neighborhood like way but a Scandanavian version. Cheers...
@jakobegger5007
@jakobegger5007 5 жыл бұрын
You are such an amazing communicator. Keep at it, I love your videos.
@brunnerdg
@brunnerdg 5 жыл бұрын
Since that first type looks to be mostly if not all conifers, they may want to look at ways to manage it. Because if there is no or very few young trees, or trees of different age, it will die out. Love your videos, and your ideologies.
@KelikakuCoutin
@KelikakuCoutin 5 жыл бұрын
All humanity, all humans, every person, not just deserves respect. We need it. Honor is another matter. It is honor that must be earned. Respect goes without saying, but honor is only due those who show they can handle it and they have done the actions required to garner it. You sir, are an honorable man. I can respect someone without honor. I cannot honor someone without respect. Great content. Keep up the good work. Stay vigilant. בס"ד
@Trailmixmascot
@Trailmixmascot 5 жыл бұрын
The guitar music in the background of your videos always remind me of Nick Drake
@MrInsaint
@MrInsaint 5 жыл бұрын
Takk Bjørn🙏 - I'm taking my kids out for a walk in the woods now. They must also learn respect for the forest and nature itself.
@Louis-zc7im
@Louis-zc7im 5 жыл бұрын
Another great video sir. Learning a some valuable info.Keep up the fine work.
@reemontel8036
@reemontel8036 5 жыл бұрын
I somewhat agree however I would say the confusion at the moment is between having respect for someone and being respectful to them.
@SwitchingRooskies
@SwitchingRooskies 5 жыл бұрын
Right. Having respect for someone(generally) and showing it(for a specific action) are two different things. It's a shame that Bjorn could not provide any examples of this in 11 minutes.
@digital-designferrante336
@digital-designferrante336 5 жыл бұрын
Respect at a higher level should always be earned, however I do feel that we need to have a basic level of respect for strangers we don't know, to be a nice person to someone we don't know, Yes sir, thank you sir, thank you mam, please and thank you...some common courtesy and manners...until the point that person is rude and doesn't merit our respect and still be respectful enough not to be rude as well and just go on our way.
@ShiftTheMatrixGaming
@ShiftTheMatrixGaming 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@susiadler7484
@susiadler7484 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful ! Respect for all life ! Thanks Best greatings
@213spaceforce
@213spaceforce 5 жыл бұрын
An overlooked aspect of being out doors is grounding yourself,shoes are insulated bare feet to ground do more a lot for the body’s cells
@misty671
@misty671 5 жыл бұрын
Wonderful landscape and great filming. Respect always to be earned.
@timothycalhoun7626
@timothycalhoun7626 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes when people say they want respect, they really mean they want admiration.
@MNkno
@MNkno 5 жыл бұрын
I enjoy your videos very much. You have a healthy calmness about you. I am not Japanese but am currently living in Japan, a country that is very respect-conscious. As a foreigner here, I can ask a lot of questions and ponder the answers. One person explained the very basic structure of respect here: You recognize that the other person is not an extension of yourself - each person has a degree of separation and are working on their own life, you do not own them or even know all there is to know about them, so you treat them gently and do not invade their space / environment / mind / life... This is the most primitive, basic level of respect. Perhaps you are thinking of the respect that comes from being in a hierarchy, with one person above the other person in some aspect or another that creates admiration. That is the kind of respect that must be earned. But this level comes after recognizing the other person is a separate person who you may not know everything about, and you need to give them space and dignity.
@Prestonesfpv
@Prestonesfpv 5 жыл бұрын
I mostly grew up in the streets, there you learn, very quickly the difference between - accept - respect and fear..... most people could benefit from being forced to live for a while in such an enviroment, it makes you humble in some ways
@clintontkelly
@clintontkelly 5 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your wisdom of natural life and sense. 🙏
@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen
@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@naomiburn8386
@naomiburn8386 5 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you mentioned about the granite industry because I was wondering how you found such a level rock surface.
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