Respond Instead of React

It’s imperative that we teach our sons how to rule their emotions, so that they can respond instead of react. #WagingWarWithin #JasonWilson #MrjasonWilson

[@mankind8807]

Random stranger: *pats me on the shoulder* “Hey do you know the directions to the-“ *Instantly gets knocked out cold*

[@jamesha175]

right? or your mama puts her hand on your shoulder

[@nw3877]

That's where you don't get the lesson. You need to be so much in the moment that you know it what's danger and what's not. Get out of thinking and feelings of excitement, laziness, anxiety or over alerted. It's the art of fighting with no fighting.

[@JM-kr3sy]

That's what I was thinking

[@slamjackmonicker3067]

Facepalm comment.

[@aaaaaaa4821]

Or Preacher asking if he wants to come to Bible study Wednesday night🤣🤣🤣

[@evano4578]

Shit, I wish I had a coach like this while I was growing up. This guy is not only teaching this young man how to control himself in the ring, he's teaching him how to control his emotions. What valuable life skills.

[@Soulful_Chaos]

YES! Exactly.

[@nathanielruffer5132]

We all needed a father like this, someone who to train us to be better, not build us into the same person they are

[@winterwarden]

his understanding of the sport is so deep he connects it back to everyday life. true understanding.

[@undefeatableyt7]

@@nathanielruffer5132 Yea, we need him but do we really deserve him?

[@HussainBarajaa]

How did you become immortal?

[@JDNicoll]

There is nothing on Earth more valuable for a young man than this. I mean that literally.

[@kisswriters]

Yes-wish I would’ve stuck with it in my teens… devoted all my time to basketball and books but this is so needed to help young boys manage their fears and anger…

[@rovhalt6650]

Yup. So make sure you stay married and that your kids don't get involved with bad groups outside your home.

[@jesuslovesyou7130]

Your absolutly right

[@jesuslovesyou7130]

@cDb this is more valuble then a Dad

[@bluemystic7501]

@cDb I was thinking the same thing, lol.

[@SippingVino]

A Reaction is something innate and primal that you don’t think about, a Response is a carefully thought out method of evasion for best accomplishing each obstacle

[@OCDlosp]

man you got the big brain

[@BoredomandVanity]

Sometimes you can’t always think something out carefully, you just gotta react first and think later.

[@Bean-vj1lf]

A reaction will occur but it’s how you respond to the situation. He’s teaching him to remain calm in the moments of adversity. We react with our emotions instead of using logic so I get it

[@krane15]

@@Bean-vj1lf On the other hand, can't logic dictate a reaction?

[@krane15]

But what about a reflex?

[@JGComments]

What this brought to mind for me was Proverbs 16:32, “He who controls himself is better than one who captures a city.”

[@jareecousin4062]

The word of God is on your mind ? Wow what an amazing thing. God bless you on your journey and may you always trust in the Lord even when everything around you is falling apart.

[@notrelevant4540]

amen

[@jeremiahjones4224]

Amen..

[@JGComments]

@@jareecousin4062 Thanks! It already all fell apart, but the Lord got me through it! Doing great now. Blessings!

[@jareecousin4062]

@@JGComments blessings my friend ❤️❤️

[@BRACIAKSERO]

This is not just a combat or martial arts lesson. These are the lessons of life.

[@raamyasharahla535]

No truer words, You can’t stay in fight or flight. Combat Vet Hooah!

[@kpec3]

This man's training and leadership is so important, some of these boys have self-esteem issues, which is usually not their fault. Mad props!

[@kpec3]

@black king shredda Yeah but it's not worth it. Better to use self control and avoid reacting. Always remember that the things people say only have the power you give them. If you let it go, it dies along with the anger and consequences.

[@T4I2I0]

MAN WHERE WAS THIS GUY WHEN I WAS COMING UP... MUCH LOVE KING ✊🏾

[@mrprosperity4897]

Probably was young like you

[@T4I2I0]

@@mrprosperity4897 OH THANKS! NEVER WOULD OV GUESSED 👍🏾

[@samuelpaz3218]

@@T4I2I0 😂

[@truthbtold9794]

All young men should take a form of combat sports. Not soo much competitively but for the confidence building and discipline that comes with it.

[@Superman-um9pd]

I'm considering Kung Fu

[@leanmeanmenace1744]

@@Superman-um9pd nah that's for the dog eaters, boxing is where is at my guy.

[@user-fz3ip3ke8p]

@goat vegeta tf that mean bro why do you have this hate in your heart?

[@leanmeanmenace1744]

@@user-fz3ip3ke8p I mean kung fu is for the Chinese. Boxing is for blacks.

[@asr.10rohal82]

@@leanmeanmenace1744 but how do u know hes black

[@TheMezmeriZe]

Dude i needed this my whole life. My father is a good man but he was barely with me ever since y grew up. I always thought I didnt need something like this but now I certainly feel I do. I father figure that teaches you to be confident and calm.

[@syriouskash537]

Welll...... you have him now. Just watch the videos. :-) Thats why he is doing this.

[@bruhmomento9093]

Watch Jocko Willinks channel he’s like a rough and tough father figure

[@achingwoody4306]

Same man.

[@blakejames9743]

@@syriouskash537 He's talking about the physical one on one with the guidance, you can't replicate that with videos. Best advice would be to join a gym/dojo and find some older role models. Get you ass kicked a few times, it'll humble you.

[@DaDoubleDee]

A beautiful demonstration to distinguish the two. Clear the muddy waters !!!

[@jonvon2044]

Grandma puts a hand on shoulder to say hello, Shmack! Lol. But jokes aside this is great for kids and adults.

[@sthabisozibani]

🤣🤣🤣

[@jacob.6127]

remember, this is the kid that didn't feel confident in himself, look at him now. Keep that head up king, 🥊 were rooting for you 👑

[@amoththatthinks]

everyone is growing up...

[@dlmabinmarwan6626]

Thank you sir for this lesson. Our prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) said: (The strong-man is not one who wrestles well but the strong man is one who controls himself when he is in a fit of rage).

[@steviet3995]

Muhammad can't save you friend. Only Jesus Christ, can save you. Those who call on the name of Jesus, will be saved.

[@mehmetguler2838]

@@steviet3995 It's your belief

[@steviet3995]

@@mehmetguler2838 It's the truth friend. The word of God. All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Jesus Christ died for our sins, and through our faith in Jesus,we are justified. Our faith saves us.

[@mehmetguler2838]

@@steviet3995 Bible was changed.Why do we have different versions of it?It is not sacred anymore

[@steviet3995]

@@mehmetguler2838 If you die in your sins friend, you will go to Eternal Damnation, that is what the word of God tells us. I hope you do your due diligence,as your soul is at stake friend. Faith in Jesus is our only hope of being saved from Eternal Damnation. The Bible tells us , that the wages of sin is death, and we have all sinned, but if we believe in Jesus, God counts it as righteousness, and will give us everlasting life.

[@huemungus1491]

Mom: hey son (taps shoulder) Son: react (elbow to the face) Mom: oh nah yo didn’t Son: hears narration “ this is when I knew, I fu***d up”

[@moonbeam7815]

THIS COACH / TRAINER ROCKED MY WORLD! He gave us so much (more) to think about! THANK YOU, COACH! THANK YOU so much! I understand this video is about "the lesson", but gotta say it: YOU ARE FREAKING AWESOME!!! (Don't give me extra reps for the bad language! Take my word, it IS a compliment!)

[@selalik360]

These kind of experiences are more than invaluable, thank you King for your mentorship

[@mostbased]

Every martial artist needs this at a base level

[@ponderatulify]

Beautiful. Feel the emotion, make the man aware of the emotion and its strength. That alone does magic.

[@CREEDO.]

Staying in the moment while being in a threatening situation is a State that WHEN you put yourself in, feel so powerful and every single surrounding feels more clear, and you truly feel like you're yourself, at 100%

[@KINGDAVID7]

God Bless this Man for being a mentor to these young Men!!!

[@happyswim1836]

Wow! Very powerful. He is learning great lessons that will serve the rest of his life. Excellent teacher. He is building character. A true leader.

[@jirensentry7609]

This is the kind of man and father I wish and hope to be someday. Instant subscribe button push!

[@rayhanna8707]

I really admire how you teach your students! Such amazing life lessons. You are changing lives for the better. May God bless you and keep you on your purpose!

[@itsjennyfromtheblock333]

This lesson is so valuable especially to the youth. I’m healing from a kickboxing injury but this made me smile and helped me shift my perspective and it was nice living thru you guys 🙏🏽💞

[@jeremyhanson9646]

Love to you and your students. You are being the change you want to see in the world!

[@MohamedMohamed-ep1xm]

Looking at the subscription rate of this channel compared to other forms of non -beneficial entertainment shows where our priorities lie as a society! Brother Jason is a blessing to our community! Keep up the good fight brother and like you have taught us, don’t forget the 4 Rs!

[@loganthekid7390]

Thanks for being a great father, and your kindness toward your son. Thank you Lord for people like this!

[@jamesalvarez890]

This man is a blessing showing our youth these valuable life skills .

[@baconapo3990]

Wow, he's really grown up. This is the same guy from the "How to respond when your son cries".

[@HenryWagnerA]

You can see how his form and facial expressions become more calm and fluid in one video. What an awesome teacher.

[@konjebyron4251]

These life lessons are invaluable...Geeshshshshshshssssshhhh!!!! GOD bless you and thank you for showing us a template of what it means to have the FATHER's heart....

[@davidbrucemusicvideo]

What in the hell is this amazing video that I just stumbled upon?! I love the vibration coming off of this mentor, as well as his Padawan learner! I’m subscribing!

[@miamaccdoll951]

He’s a great student because she listens! New subscriber!!!! Love what you’re teaching BROTHER ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@eimdeima]

When his crush sees him up ahead in the street and thinks this time I will talk to him.....😂😂😂

[@raymondcromwell6380]

WOW!!!! I remember the first video I saw of you and your son when he was learning to throw his punches and he cried out of frustration because he thought he wasn't getting it. You stopped the exercise and spoke with him to calm him down and regain his focus. Now look at him. YOUNG MAN!!!! BEAUTIFUL!!!!!! #ENJOYYOURJOURNEY

[@Superman-um9pd]

Teacher told me to never react, instead respond and I never ever regret doing that, it has been of massive help in my life

[@RickStewart1776]

This is something that so many teachers don't give their students. Any fool can show another fool how to put knuckles in someone's face. Learning about when and why, and how to control your emotions during the situation is WAY more important. It is of vital importance to practice the feelings of anxiety and how to overcome it. Man, I love Brother Jason. I just wish I could go to his school.

[@josephross3926]

I love to see Kingdom Teaching/Building of Father Kings to Son Kings. Train up a child and when he is old he won’t depart from it. Keep Pushing Thru all of it Young Kings💪🏿👑

[@kylechiverton1058]

Love it!! Yessi!! Keep empowering our young black kings!! Day has come we need all Jahs soldiers ready!🙏🏽

[@eztvlight1202]

A lot of people on here needs to hear this man talk

[@robeasy13]

So much to be learned from a great coach. 👍🏽

[@davidcostes9927]

This is along the lines of what I want to do one day. Incorporate life lessons into martial arts instruction. Philosophy is more holistic when the body is involved.

[@vaushawnbrown2110]

This is powerful! All men needs this a some point in their lives

[@robertoenamoradoakaroberto5654]

Love love this! Thank you Brother for passing along to the future philosophical and physical tools to live a better life ✌✌✌

[@CD19755]

Mr Wilson, I've only ever seen you through video, but I wish there were 10 million more of you! This world would be an amazing place again!

[@openplanliving5685]

Later on that day, everyone who taps him on the shoulder gets bows to the face. 😂😂😂

[@idk...3196]

Idk know about your training but the way you talk makes me relax

[@manethdulshan9449]

I love to practice with these type of coaches man ❤️

[@Live-Life-Freely]

Boys without fathers become lost, hopeless, and dangerous. I don't think that's his son, however there's nothing better in this world than the love of a father.

[@flowplug5416]

Huge respect man. Definitely going places

[@JR-gp4fn]

You're on to something unique and strong !!! HOLD ON BROTHER

[@travisrogers1465]

We need this right here. 🙏🏽

[@icyBulls]

Its simple changes like this that make the biggest impact

[@user-user-user-user.]

Most people don’t understand how combat sports, particularly boxing, can help you in all areas of life. This is particularly true for young people: How to breathe deeply, and fully, and calmly, even when you are full of anxiety. How to approach extreme stress and extreme tension with a relaxed, focused mindset. How to overcome yourself; push through boundaries and barriers that prevent you from completing/succeeding/being. How to overcome others; physically, mentally or emotionally. Boxing is called the “sweet science” for a reason because mastery of oneself, and mastery over another, requires that you walk into conflict with philosopher-scientist mindset and the body of a combatant.

[@priyadarshan4577]

Thank you for this sir.I use my body movements when stress factors in.The stress leaves when our brain finds the new attention through body movements. I become free.

[@gypsyjessye]

Excellent advice, excellent life advice too.

[@buenitatate6708]

MAN I NEED THIS SOOOOOOO BAD!!! I LOVE THE WAY YOU TEACH!!! I HAD NO GUIDANCE IN MY LIFE AND NEED A BETTER UNDERSTANDING. My DAD NOT IN MY LIFE ! FAMILY GIVING ME HELL IM JUST TO THE POINT WHERE I HAD ENOUGH AND THIS CLOSE TO GIVING UP!

[@joelm2692]

Love it! Great education n great response to learning

[@Milan-oq3xx]

Warmed my heart ❤️ much love

[@mr_0n10n5]

Getting in combat sports or group training for any sports with a great coach is something I will always recommend for anyone

[@ToccaraTomorrow]

WOW.. GREAT TEACHER & GREAT STUDENT👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@danielbroos6874]

I'm a white guy from the west end of Louisville KY. This video reminds me of my old boxing trainer James "Biscuit " Roberts. Basically I grew up in the hood. Biscuit was a cool old black dood that trained me in the amateur and professional ranks of boxing for close to 15 years. He was always there to sit down and talk to me if I needed to which was a lot. There is a lack of men in this day and age to mentor our youth. Glad to see someone filling that role. Men if we want our sons to be men we need to teach them how to be.

[@marcusantoine4769]

thanks so much sir for such great lesson

[@seanjohn4499]

GREAT VIDEO MAN LOVED IT ; THIS IS PART OF BEING A MAN IS RESPECTING YOURSELF AND GAINING RESPECT FROM OTHERS .. I NEVER HAD ANYBODY TO SHOW ME THIS OR TEACH ME STUFF TO BE HONEST ..GOOD VIDEO MAN MUCH RESPECT TO YOU OG ! AS A FATHER ITS YOUR NUMBER 1 DUTY TO SHOW YOUR KIDS WASSUP BUT TBH ITS ALOT OF BS PEOPLE OUT HERE

[@chachaalston1698]

I love this trainer excellent work👍

[@actuallyalgae1072]

Jason Wilson literally is on the same level as bob ross and mr roger. This guy is absolutely immaculate

[@johnsmith9817]

Raising a young American man to be proud of there sir! Good job and keep up the good work!

[@KingMally89]

🙏🏿 you are the truth brotha!

[@orionpax9749]

I got a coach in karate but he left. After that I never learned karate. If I was near him It will a honour to get taught by him 😊

[@danr2652]

Student sitting behind him at school taps him on the shoulder. "Hey can I borrow a pen?" 0:16

[@davidlanier2290]

Where do y'all train? Really love what you're teaching these younger ones.... How to control yourself... Much respect.

[@tbitzer84]

He’s gotten so big and great at what he’s trained to do. My son is a mma fighter. Love seeing videos like this.

[@stevengreen7484]

This man is a Guru!!

[@LuvLight44]

I needed this THANK YOU 🙏🏾

[@ikechukwumlionelel9364]

Much appreciated!

[@CharlesWakefield]

Role models are spiritual minerals, vitamins and sunlight for humans.

[@hannahbahtyaqov9319]

That hook was perfection.💞🎉

[@ARTGOON369]

I'm telling yall this kid will be the new number one boxer I just have that feeling

[@02337755]

Thank you for teaching these boys how to be MEN. So many of us had to learn it on our own and some never do.

[@paulrevere2928]

Cultivation of emotional intelligence and self control is essential for survival and success in all aspects of life.

[@cawa2576]

Very good teacher.

[@andrecummings13]

That’s what a lot of these black young men are missing today and older ones are father figures.

[@eternalspring6520]

I love your channel big bro. Salute to you!!

[@spit777]

For a summer I boxed at the age of 15 with an OG, best experience ever, I’m 22, still training just for the sake of how much it helps

[@iamrobot1c]

This is a good instructor. 🙌

[@silenthashassin8912]

Great teacher.

[@sigendymion]

WOW I wish I had a martial arts teacher like this when I was a teen.

[@hairylarry1097]

This is that kid who was crying saying he's not confident in himself

[@marcusantoine4769]

I have a zeal that some day I will see you and I will have a meaningful conversation with you sir

[@davida1679]

He’s in a situation where he’s been tested about flight or fight. That’s easy! The real test is being woken up from a deep sleep with something horrific right in your face. Speaking from experience!

[@BobbieDraper]

what did you see? your mother waking you up for school while wearing no clothes? a spider dangling in front of your face? I need to know David

[@bzi9935]

This young dude will be ok with a mentor like that👍👍

[@blessed37]

I said if I have a son I would teach them to box and wrestle. Someone asked, "What if I have a daughter?" Same thing.

[@krane15]

What about teaching here how to be a lady? Or has that become obsolete?

[@marcusantoine4769]

may God bless you exceedingly more sir for your help care for this generation

[@businessscalers6076]

Brilliant, good work coach

[@eazimhr5796]

When someone tries to jump line in a queue.

[@a.b.7826]

When you come across a video that’s just right on time.

[@djsunnysideup23]

That's the great thing about combat sports. no one ever became a champion just by purely being angry.

[@cameraGHOST]

This is beast

[@mandirarai4939]

TO HAVE DAD LIKE HIM IS NEED.