Verbal Bullying: Never Give Words Power Over You!

Verbal Bullying is the most reported case of bullying in the United States, so it's imperative that we teach boys how to respond, not react to words. #SavingBoys

[@fletchermoore5428]

This man should be officially named as a Saint. He is doing one of the BIGGEST public services anyone could ever do for us.

[@ebonygentleman79]

I needed this 30 years ago.

[@Brother_frojd]

Now you can use it for today's children

[@darlenedeanglis8093]

Me to

[@frankieallen4900]

Beautiful video. I believe this short moment has changed this boy's life forever. Continued blessings, strength, and encouragement.

[@VincentK94]

Takes balls to say you're bullied with the bullies watching. And to stand in front of that class and verbally accept those compliments. Great show of character.

[@AZURRTIME]

They're gonna bully him after

[@jcharris6557]

Maybe, but that boy now has some tools to help him out. Bullies only understand two things: Victims and non victims. If you’re unavailable to the bully’s cries of shame, then you’re not a victim anymore and the bully moves on to find another victim.

[@sariasmith9126]

I’m not a boy, but the way daycare, kindergarten and elementary through junior high went for me…I would’ve been so lucky to have had this man in my life. Kids can be so cruel!

[@austintorrence5400]

Could not agree with you more kids are so mean now or days

[@okidoke4822]

So many people in society need to listen to this. Too many people are reacting to words, being offended by words, that they are giving power to. Unless the words are actually affecting your livelihood, your standing in the community, just let it flow off you like water off a duck’s back. If it’s actual defamation, then yeah, take the legal action, but don’t be going crazy cakes if it’s not.

[@corbandallas8644]

The idiot who hit the "thumbs down" is the one person who's trying to figure out: how to stop bullying. Thanks for the video, keep up the great work.

[@flawlessstrategy9972]

Nice. I discovered this on my own. never heard anyone else put it into words. He's right. If you were skinny and i called you fat, you would not be offended at all.

[@JA9339]

Unless you have anorexia

[@datatsushi2016]

What he should be saying is that even if you are fat and someone calls you fat you shouldn't let those words hurt you either. He's telling the kid that he's not short when infact he really IS short. Guy should be teaching him to accept that fact and not take shit from anyone who tries to bully him with it, instead of lying to him and saying "You're not short"

[@mohammedjafer9265]

Let's not use words to stop us we can over come the disease firstly mentally

[@Harrisdrew625]

Wow. I'm in tears. I wish I could have had someone like that enter my life at that age and reinforce that type of spirit and resilience. What an incredible person. Just an angel.

[@aleksanderpacho-odinson7073]

I'm not even christian but I really admire what this man is doing. Support and guide his students that are the man of tomorrow to be strong and honorable. I'm inspired by this man.

[@nomisunrider5940]

The entire country needs to watch this video

[@damibigd]

You have a follower from Italy too my man. So inspiring.

[@mikemyon3570]

And since now, from Germany too. :) Greetings to the south, man!

[@invaderzim1265]

I just gonna say brother, yall moved me to tears. PLEASE show them little young minds that manly need to be a man!!!! The boys need it now more than ever!! GOD bless yall....😢💖

[@matthewkevinobispo6582]

I am happy to have seen this in my KZbin algorithm. Martial Arts integrated with this type of teaching is incredible

[@Nerfgunsandpancakes]

I don’t how I found this but it is very encouraging to see this type of information being brought to the youth.

[@seanthomas5303]

I grew up in rough circles and was bullied all my early life, and here's the thing - it was often it's the case that what the bullies were saying was true. It was true. And that was the most hurtful thing about it, because I didn't want what they were saying to be true but it was. I later understood that the bullying was a lesson in understanding myself and what I brought to the world. Sometimes the meanest people can teach you the most important lessons. Sometimes it's important to accept hard truths about yourself in a way that doesn't diminish your value to the world. Everyone has something to offer. Find out your sources of strength and no one can ever take those away from you.

[@jcharris6557]

I wish I had learned this technique 50 years ago. Thank you for sharing it with me today. ❤️

[@sweettoothmarie7304]

Wow...I'm sending this to my little nephew. He will be 12 next year. Thanks for sharing!

[@mikemyon3570]

Shout-out to the boy! Nice, friendly and smart person with a good heart! I can sense that. All the best to him, he's at the right place there 👍🏼💪🏼

[@kenpoblack6025]

I just saw the video of overcoming bullying for the 1st time. What a great sensei and program!! Loved seeing the smile on the young man's face and what he had accomplished at the end. We need more senseis and students like these in our world.

[@yoya4766]

These videos address the majority of my problems, i.e. people. I get very upset by verbal bullying and don't know how to respond. This series is teaching such powerful skills with such simplicity and elegance. Thank you. We really need this to stand up to those that spread poison.

[@ashusharma86]

You are doing good job. I remembered my childhood and there was no one to guide like you r doing. It's great job

[@dilloneason3211]

That kid looks mad cool! I’m glad you shared that message with him.

[@suksysavage713]

This is how all school teachers should approach the education of each child under their charge, person first

[@jj-bu6yb]

I m 30 and still learning this! Wow I will do my best to not let words affect me

[@usuarioqualquer6870]

Teaching kids and even adults not to bully is very important too. Just don't say to the kid ignore it. Do something to stop it. Don't allow or participate in verbal or physical abuse. BTW bullying is not simply being insulted once, is being abused (be verbally or otherwise) repeatedly. To ignore it a few times is easy, but I never saw a single person to really stand months or years of gratuitous disrespect. We have to stop making it all about the victim. Abuse happens because we, as a society, allow it.

[@filazkeita2272]

You cant tell the world to stop bullying, but you can learn, or teach someone else how to cope with it

[@VigilantGuardian6750]

Being capable of bullying but choosing not to is more important in this world if we are talking about brutal truths here

[@gottacheckyourself]

Grateful that I can learn these lessons before becoming a parent, wish I had these taught to me growing up.

[@SA-StoneKind]

This man will be blessed even his descendants will be blessed.

[@DB-GGWW]

this makes me so happy, I’m crying

[@avance3666]

He's using his martial arts to teach values as well pretty impressive!!

[@Satsui_No_Hado]

You are officially my favorite person of 2020 and 2021, every man and child that gets your wisdom, is truly blessed , And the world is a better place with you in it, respect 👊🙏

[@aphleesegurtra2820]

God bless you, what you do as well as the most important message these youths need.

[@DagoraMC]

Thank you for everything you do for the youngs

[@REDROX9]

Thank you Sir! from the bottom of my Heart

[@7CFlo]

Making a real difference in this world. Thank you sir

[@Daniel-wy5uy]

Great video Thank you Sir 🙏🏻

[@hreshigaming395]

Verbal bullying 😭 I have experienced it. Mind hurts

[@hashutdisciple]

You're doing God's work, thank you so much

[@Fran_5]

He isn't stupid. Stupid people don't seek to correct their mistakes.

[@michellete8545]

🙌

[@aduragbemitirelola8213]

Love what you are doing in here sir.

[@effortless4588]

Thank you. Blessings

[@freedomofspeech2855]

I'am a Muslim from Germany and I like your work Sir.

[@Jane_lotus]

I’m learning stuff from these videos…thank you so much

[@isolatepurify9917]

Great question from this young man!

[@lwatsonaddict]

God bless you, Sir! Nice greets from Germany!

[@pourkin]

The worst thing i can do it to is to believe in it...and now I'm knocked out...

[@edwardmclaughlin7935]

This bloke is gold.

[@timothy897]

This Man needs 20 million Subscribers

[@aeyytruong2049]

GOD bless you Wilson Sifu🙏

[@Shmeglebop]

Yall are good peoples

[@SoNoFTheMoSt]

I was always taught that sticks and stones will break my bones but words can never hurt me, then i fell in a printing press.

[@TIRFemcel]

thank you

[@jasonvichinsky1458]

Beautiful

[@thejoshthat]

Beautiful. I'm happy to be an early follower!

[@eze4331]

God bless you

[@ERIC-rh6sf]

Beautiful lesson

[@ChikaJihyo]

Beautiful 💚💚💚

[@tonyb617]

Great video!

[@vTANKv]

This guy needs to come to the UK and do some seminars!

[@segunjay4153]

I disagree. He needs to come to do a bootcamp of 90 days for boys and men. That is what we need.

[@oddity4650]

People should only hit when they or the a friend is being hit and can't defend them self or anything to do with physical touch, you have the right to harm them or get what you had but they now have etc.

[@anointedbyjesus7766]

❤

[@oddity4650]

Exactly, something i learnt before I seen this video, by my self. I have told people if you are fat and someone calls you fat, then don't take it has offensive because you know you are fat so them saying it does not change that, if they said you are skinny but you know you are fat, then you know they are talking bs. Sure they do either as they are to honest or they do it because they are trying to trigger you. What you need to do is either any of these things - Insult them back Use banter Ignore (probably the best option, because they like attention) Everyone has an opinion like a arsehole.

[@darlenedeanglis8093]

People who speak unkind of others are really talking about themselves

[@jwjxhdjxsns]

You're the american version of Carsten Stahl, love your work

[@s.m.samidhassansazin1349]

I would feel very lucky if I get the chance to be trained by you someday 😅😇.. You're great.. salam sensei😊

[@swantise]

Kan, teach that young man.

[@Footrotflats251]

Maaan I wish I found this dude when I was in high school

[@liquiddude9855]

The thing is, when this kids follow what he say they will block EVERY critic that comes at them... and they will never improve. Lets say a kid is fat and never care that others call him "fatty", he will stay fat when hes an adult, this will bring him only disadvanteges in solcial and health matters. When you cant spell, train spelling so nobody will ever call you stupid again and not block it away

[@Classicme065069]

So, you´re saying, fat means you´re unhealthy. I thought "fat" meant 'not skinny'. It´s all in the eyes of the beholder. And why should it bring him disadvantages if he believes in himself? I think you´re mixing up different things.

[@oddity4650]

Also people need to remember (words should not equal physical violence) if one hits back because of what the others person says about them, then the person who said that thing, wins. Even if you beat them up, they got the reaction they wanted aka anger or upset.

[@oddity4650]

@Rico Master yes physiological bully still is nor physical it is still harmful though, but people have to learn to understand words are just words, if they dont they will end up having many fights just because they can't use their brain.

[@oddity4650]

@Rico Master no worry

[@michellete8545]

Haha what a cute kid!

[@camilocorrales4600]

I would like to ask: How to manage when your mother tells you horrible things? How not to think about the fact that is YOUR mother, not some fool from nowhere.

[@drawingangel2]

It's easier said than done sometimes. What the teaching is missing is that the spiritual power of the Holy Spirit is real. Flesh has its limitations, but God always has a way out. God is a source of strength when we don't have any. "Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. 29 He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. 30 Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; 31 but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." Isaiah 40:28-31 Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. 1 Corinthians 10:13

[@normalguycap]

When the teacher countered the physical touch, I don't understand what is the verbal equivalent of that. I'd like help understanding that. And I wonder how this can be applied to adult conversations in important spheres like politics and healthcare and gun control. reds and blues are always shouting at each other and accusing the other of being evil. How can we fix that? On a more personal level I am confused by the teaching in this video. I can get insulted and I absolutely know it's not true, but it still bothers me and my instinct is to 'fight back'.

[@Voracic]

This is very colourfull whatever. But simple words wont make you less ugly or less fat. Well the world has standards and the it doesnt care what you think about you, what It sees cannot be changed by words. This Is my opinion id like to be wrong

[@naturesown1807]

Beautiful