Responding In the Moment To Break Undesirable Patterns | Mindset

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[@IAm_DylanJames]

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[@xpaperxcutx4588]

SOrry to hear what you’re going through a lot but I want to tell you that all Dylan’s teachings are in his videos. Even though you can’t book a session right now, just watch his videos and learn to stabilize your being. Remember that your words, whether written or nonverbal, have magick and writing negatively can affirm them to your reality. You have the power to stabilize and create your reality. You did not give up your power as you can’t give it away unless you consent to it being given away. Turn your thoughts around and you will have the results you want. Best of luck!

[@bchefyasmr2496]

Dylan I listen to your Nightly Affirmations 🥰 COMMUNICATION with my SP is off and on. Should I reach out? Or keep working on my Stability and Beliefs?

[@lorelei_j_w_333]

Dylan, you are amazing. Just amazing. ❤

[@cherrypie1173]

@@bchefyasmr2496 keep working on your stability and beliefs

[@savithripoovanna2806]

Hello Dylan, please make a vedio about manifesting good grades, entering desired University the mindset that we need to have, things we need to tell ourselves wen in doubt , also about compitition during exam( thoughts like what if others hv studied more e than me , will I get best rank if I don't study as much as tey do etc ) please Dylan it would be of soo much help.. ✨ you are my favorite, I would love to hear 💖 you talk about this - so it gets straight into my head😅

[@CHRISTCONSCIOUSNESS101]

Once I stopped trying to manifest my “past” Sp back in hopes that he would come back the person I know I deserve to be with and started to only focus on myself and the love within me, my present boyfriend came in with everything I ever wanted in a relationship plus more. I found out that it’s truly not about the “SP” it’s about me and what I truly believe about me and then more of that showed up in my life. Love you, honor you, be secure with yourself and watch how things fall in line! ITS ALL ABOUT YOU! 💯

[@nenamajstorovic2990]

I just can't figur it how to do that. I am going to creazy🥵🥵🥵

[@elizabethbell8872]

How did you get to that place

[@CHRISTCONSCIOUSNESS101]

@@elizabethbell8872 Make it about you! Love you! Be ok with you! Look in the mirror and appreciate you! I prayed a lot and turned it over to GOD! I’m now married to my best friend! It’s amazing!!

[@caliweba97]

same happened to me! feels too good to be true

[@Flootist1]

Dylan’s teaching is golden!!!! It’s all about self- concept and stabilizing yourself. I now realized where I failed in my past relationships. I seemed to put them on the pedestal, and looked for things in these men that I should have been creating within myself. I now affirm daily, I’m always treated as royalty. I am chosen. I am loved. I always get exactly what I want. I am a woman who has it all.

[@DaimonSmith]

Feel this so hard. Currently going through this right now with someone who I have on a pedestal. Dylan’s teachings make the most sense to me, but it requires a lot of discipline that I’m still finding the strength to apply

[@matthewisthebest8152]

@@DaimonSmith it's a process mate of going through layers of resistance Dylan speaks about this why it's important to be gentle with yourself

[@SelfActualizer8]

Wow your comment really helped me!

[@surbhisurana3638]

Dylan James, thank you, I don’t know how to tell this, but being from victim mentality and now being so confident that I know what’s mine is mine. I have been so doubtful when I started your course but now after learning how important self respect is I don’t let any circumstances affect me. I am sure soon everything will be showing in my 3D also! Thank you for giving me my confidence back.

[@JasmineLajeunesse]

I couldn’t have said it better myself 🙏

[@jackiek4159]

Same here girl! His channel is life saving! Wishing you the best! xx

[@MichelleNagir]

@@JasmineLajeunesse Same here, I feel the same way. It’s amazing how we could focus on everything but ourselves. I still struggle with it.

[@surbhisurana3638]

@@MichelleNagir imagine your manifestation as a T shirt, you already own it, so if You own it you would never check again and again if it’s in your wardrobe right? It’s done it’s yours so now go focus on yourself and fuck the circumstances! PERIOD

[@sristi111]

@Surbhi Surana which affirmation tape are you listening? And from how many days?

[@taykhamilton]

I realized I was still subconsciously using a lot of these videos to manifest my SP back. I’m giving up on that desire and idea completely. He’s not even worth it and I don’t want to desire it anymore. Going forward I only want to use these for my own healing and shifting my mindset so that I can be stable for myself without even expecting anyone to come back as a byproduct.

[@MyLaura999]

I’m doing the same, also building my confidence that nothing outside of me is going to make me complete, working on being the best version of myself, so glad to have this opportunity to know how to love myself, not needing anything

[@taykhamilton]

@@MyLaura999 I agree! We can and we will do this and move on to bigger and better things 💙

[@beyond_words_dance]

Boom! Xxx so true and you are so worth it

[@gwen8718]

@@taykhamilton you got it my man! Best of luck to you! ❤️❤️❤️

[@MandyJRoss]

If you're reading this I'm praying something amazing happens for you today. 🙏🏻❤

[@christytube1111]

My SP is really a sweet and genuine person. I do feel like he really has feelings deep down but we both have limiting beliefs that are keeping us apart. I’m still working on my SC every day and I don’t feel that neediness towards him anymore. My brain automatically tells me that I’m the best choice and that he loves me above every one. I don’t feel like I’m not good enough anymore. I know he wants to be with me and will ultimately choose me. I’m no longer micromanaging the circumstances anymore. I’m just letting the universe do the work.

[@no-gc6xd]

Atta girl. Excited for you!

[@Karmathevisualizer1908]

This

[@finddeepshikha]

Same exactly. .. same.

[@YappyTurtle]

For anyone out there doubting here's a bit of inspiration. Very cliche but very true tell yourself this If it works for everyone else, it will work for me too.

[@Dreamsareareality]

Yessss

[@scurryfunge9581]

❤🥺❤

[@cinnamonsalblyss3952]

Dylan!!!! I have been watching you for less than a month and listening to affirmations at night less than 2 weeks and you are amazing. I have grasp so much - you explain LOA so well! Success story- so, my SP and I have not talked in over 3 weeks- at that time I felt like I had totally screwed things up🤦🏾‍♀️ This past Saturday, I binged what you for about 2 hours and fell sleep. When I woke from my nap- it was like something clicked and I said “it’s done”. We are together, he’s in love with me and we’re getting married… Next day - text messages with banter 💘 Excited about movement 😎

[@saintashaj]

congratulations!

[@Karmathevisualizer1908]

Yes

[@misspretty2861]

dylan i woke up this morning missing my sp-- i immediately heard ur voice-- its done!

[@BaebiDoll]

03:40 being concious creator, is you leading your life. 06:16 victim mentality, how you mirror your reality. 10:50 instead of judging, labeling others directly, step back and look at yourself. "that's why life is not happening to you, its happening THROUGH you" 13:13 when you are in a low vibe, step back to your concious(internal and external awareness) creator mode (you are not ignoring ur SP or anything), you are stepping away from Reacting so you go back to Creating. No-contact = manipulate certain circumstance. 17:07 relax your self, your nervous system, and just know you already getting what you want, stop fighting it, or "trying" to attract it. "i am attractive to anyone, money, food" dx

[@jackiek4159]

Kings and Queens, we are no longer victims of our reality and we are worthy of success, love and abundance! Sending lot's of love and light to everybody! 🙏🏻💞✨

[@adriennecarvalho2526]

He posted hes in a relationship and saw all these posts about what a wonderful time they are having...I still say its done and that this will all change

[@tiname1805]

Don't look at the posts. Focus on how you're a catch and how he cannot resist you. It is an impossibility. The timeline in which he can resist you simply doesn't exist. Now, stop the nonsense. You're it.

[@khushboobatra5900]

I love this video! Before watching Dylan's content, I was sure on the fact that my sp will be the one to reach out to me and as a result of that I would obsessively affirm, visualize and whatnot. I was so attached and It felt horrible because I felt anxious all the time and was looking for results. After watching you dylan and following your advice, I have truly let go. Now my day consists on doing things that make me happy, working on my self concept. I feel amazing! My take on breaking the no contact is to relax, how I now approach it is: whatever happened between me and my SP happened because of my old self concept. Now that I am consistently showing up for myself, I know that everything That I want is done. So I don't have to do anything. I don't have to reach out, I don't have to force him to reach out to me. I just have to relax. The bridge of events will take place on it's own where perhaps I'll reach out to him, or he'll reach out to me, or we bump into each other. The possiblities are endless. But it will all be inspired, because right now I'm not desperate for that text or call because I'm happy where I am , I feel whole and complete. Having said that it will happen, and when it does I won't even get to know because I have truly surrendered❤

[@ashley__c]

18:40 🙏🙏✨🧡💛 stop trying and step into yourself ✨ I’m worthy, I’m deserving, I’m confident. I’m stable. I’m secure. I’m creating an amazing routine for myself. I’m balanced. I’m healthy. I’m radiant. I’m glowing. I’m doing things that feel good for me. I am attractive. I’m attracting what I want to me. I’m not trying anything to make happen anymore. I’m feeling whole and stable within myself.

[@zayxoxo]

I really appreciate all your comments on all his videos with the time stamps. Hope all is well 🙏🏾

[@ashley__c]

@@zayxoxo oh wow!! I’ve never received such a beautiful comment! 🥺💗💗😭 thank you so much! I’m so glad someone appreciates it! I always do it mainly for myself so whenever I go back to the vid there are these important things as a reminder. And people like them ☺️But what bothers me often these scam people with WhatsApp numbers are often ruining them haha. I don’t get it! They weren’t here in this community like two years ago. But you made my day really! 💗✨

[@zayxoxo]

@@ashley__c thank you for the kind reply! I’ve seen your comments for the last couple weeks and was always grateful and appreciative. Take care and stay good.

[@ashley__c]

@@zayxoxo 🥺🤗thank you! same goes with you!💛

[@rashondamiller2904]

I always heard the phrase, “you can’t love others until you first love yourself,” and Dylan breaks this down fully 100% in all his videos! It all finally makes sense! ♥️♥️

[@lupinnlockwood]

Dylan, I have to share this! I’ve been listening to your 8h tape for a week now, applying your advice too. I’m at the point where my old beliefs don’t affect me the way they used to but not yet completely gone, and my new beliefs have become stronger but they aren’t yet my core beliefs but it’s really close to becoming core. So earlier today I’ve noticed that I’m angrier than usual and my old beliefs are being triggered, for a moment there I was scared I won’t make it and that it’s not actually getting better, but worse instead. However, even tho I’ve been feeling uneasy I kept telling myself I got this, not giving those old beliefs energy, saying I’m not my old mindset and belief system anymore and that I got this. I calmed down so easily, which is new for me, before I’d just become more anxious over my thoughts but I didn’t let it bother me and I gotta thank you!!!

[@Diana-kt5gc]

I can really see how stability is important in the process. I am in a situation where I have been hurt and my person has also caused a great deal of emotional damage to himself. So I find myself constantly watching this other person to see if "they love me and want to be with me or not". Its dangerous. Because they have their own ups and downs and I have let myself be dependent on their stability for my stability. Its a bad situation. I realize after watching your videos I have to be my own stability.

[@rekharose1809]

Partial success story lol - Something really interesting that I've been experiencing - I gained a lot of weight during 2020, one of my manifestation goals is to be back to my healthy weight. I'm the biggest I've ever been in my life. But lately, I suddenly feel really attractive. Over the weekend I shot some film with friends for a project, & even though I looked "huge" on video, I saw myself as beautiful. It's such a new, weird, interesting feeling. I'm taking it as a sign that things are unfolding in the way I want.

[@ciggytwiggy]

Dylan! You're really amazing. So finally after 2 weeks, I managed to sleep through the whole 8h limitless meditation. I felt so good after I woke up and went about my day, feeling stable, feeling content. TWO persons I was having a good connection with reached out to me at the same time. It's crazy.

[@bluesapphire7458]

I'm started to manifest really 1st ..after understanding about self concept.. Thank you..today I manifested a new dress though ..I just scripted it & then drop it ..can't believe I just did this once 3 days ago..❤

[@basicbase749]

Excellent example! Self respect and security comes first before we expect others to take us seriously

[@kaylap.3746]

Dylan! This morning I felt like I went in this with the hopes of my SP but now I’m in a state where my mental health is so stable, THATS what’s important to me and boom! SP showed up to my work today. I said “hi” so unbothered! This is real ya’ll!! ✨✨✨

[@abiodunakinde1360]

The being vulnerable ànd authentic really sunk in for me.

[@dbsk06]

3:25 leadership - managing stress, being non reactive, holding a vision 13:49 being a conscious creator is choosing how to respond on a moment to moment basis rather than reacting 15:50 withdrawing from relationship vs no contact. TRUST / knowing

[@elma4702]

because of your videos and other law of assumption videos i manifested my lost keys and bank card without doing anything or telling to my parents. (im 16) so now they dont have to be dissapointed in me! and i learned that i have to keep them safe better! I just didnt focus on the problems at all and did fun stuff

[@lollyjune6576]

I wish I knew you earlier, before the discord came up with my sp and got us into separation. It would have avoided so much pain. Now I see clearly how my insecurities triggered that situation with him and how he responded to my inner fears and me to his. Taking ownership for the situation is also enabling forgiveness without which no solution can be found. Thank you so much for everything you put out there, it’s a blessing ❤️

[@salinabhayani9547]

Our stories are so similar! I wish the same as well! Where was Dylan before shit unfolded? Focusing on self-concept now every day! Feeling the shift!

[@lollyjune6576]

@@salinabhayani9547 That’s great you’re feeling the shift ! You’ll manifest fast. While I feel the shift in other areas of my life, I still have a lot of resistance when it comes to my sp and have a hard time detaching

[@mimijay3355]

My exact situation! We triggered each other and caused each other pain. I dont regret it though, I needed to go on that journey and I am glad and lucky to be here learning

[@salinabhayani9547]

@@lollyjune6576 it’s okay. Just keep affirming that you’re shifting and have zero resistance. I have good and bad days, but that’s when I just remind myself that I’m a spiritual being having a human experience. Give yourself grace and keep persisting. Reminding myself I’m the God of my reality def helps me shift. You got this :)

[@salinabhayani9547]

@@mimijay3355 I feel the same way! I know it had to happen otherwise I would just keep creating the same shit in my life. My new story is it had to happen so that SP and I could have a more fulfilling and lasting relationship. I like the person I’m becoming and I know everything is working for me.

[@taysoslay]

this video made something click in me. i just realized why i felt like i was fighting with myself over this. i realized that i had a lot of pent up resentment for my sp and the things that took place but i realize that it was only like that because i assumed it would be that way. wow. i’m seriously gonna work on forgiving MYSELF for what happened instead of finding forgiveness for him. thank you Dylan

[@MandyJRoss]

Responding versus reacting is a GAME CHANGER.💎 Another video full of golden nuggets of wisdom Dylan. 💫💛

[@OMGeeGee]

I've heard the saying "your beliefs create your reality" for years. I must have heard that message a thousand times. But for some reason, while watching your video, it all clicked. It's so easy to see why things have manifested the way that they did for me due to the beliefs I was carrying around. It seems so obvious now. Why has my weight loss journey been so slow? Because I BELIEVED it had to be. Why do I keep manifesting guys that don't value me? Because I BELIEVED I wasn't valuable. It's just a simple flip of the switch now. Thank you for sharing and creating this content. Even if it feels like you're repeating it a thousand times, it's the 1001 time that will make it click for someone! Much love

[@Aheart4sims]

I haven’t watched the video yet as I’m working but I want to thank you Dylan. I didn’t realise till 2 nights ago how useful your teachings are. I went through 2 traumatic events last year. I was triggered 2 nights ago which made me do something stupid with my SP. What I noticed is that I felt it’s fine, whatever I’ll still have what I want regarding my SP. But my priority and top concern was myself! Your teachings helped me to process that I will be okay because I’m prioritising myself. This anxiety will be gone, and my well-being will prosper. I look forward to your videos because they’re almost therapeutic for me because I, like you, value self love & respect so much. I’m truly grateful for you. Thank you :) 💕

[@tati79ana]

Every time you record a new content, it gets better and better.

[@amydesilva9743]

This video reminded me about something I heard about the definition of the word "responsible". Being responsible or "response-able'' means using all your self-control, skill and knowledge to take care of yourself, even when it's difficult. We are responsible for everything we say and do, and we are in charge of ourselves and our own lives. This works when we are self aware enough to take the feedback that we are getting (I.e. repeating patterns, people not showing up the way we want) and be willing to respond differently, in order to see change. Thanks for another great video!

[@gwenwen5005]

Whenever I am feeling down I come to listen to you. You help me take ownership of whatever is happening to me.

[@lovelyghost100]

I’ve only been watching you for a couple weeks. It’s definitely a process. And wow dude…your subscribers are climbing rapidly!! Good for you!!! You deserve it.

[@ankitha3320]

Thanks for sharing the business/corporate example. I have a very strong professional life. And you’re right, my beliefs/the way I react in my professional life situations are Very different from my personal life. I don’t stress in my professional life despite how CRAZY things get, I literally don’t have any emotional response to negative situations - I always just accept with a knowing that it will all work out and figure itself out and I will come out on top. I need to bring that mindset into my personal life. WOW

[@jolamakulik4803]

Dylan thank you for everything you’re doing for us I think it’s the most important message in my life. It changes everything it changes how I see myself and the world. The biggest take away is that people are not responsible for my self concept. First of all cause I create it first and it’s reflected back but also I’m responsible for myself and my life. I need to practice feeling being seen, heard, validated, wanted within myself. I would love so much coaching with you. All the best for you and your family. You’re just life changing ❤

[@linnor8346]

This resonates so intensely, I’m just soaking up every word

[@jsalt3800]

Dylan, I left you a long message on your IG where I described my current circumstances with you. But since writing the message and the present, I’ve been consistently listening to the nightly affirmations, promoting happiness daily, and most importantly doing the Wim Hof breathing method. The breathing exercise is NO joke. I love it! When I finish with a session, I feel a powerful feeling of control and energy that meditation has never brought me before. I am still working on my resistance of my main limiting belief which is the need for external validation. I’m pretty sure it’s on the subconscious level because in the initial moments of negative thoughts, I have problems controlling it. Although, I have no doubt in my mind that if I continue on the path I’m going I will be able to accomplish anything!

[@ner5620]

I Just discovered that i have “Catastrophic thinking” i thought i just had trust issues. Totally can relate to this pattern, thank you Dylan for enlightening and helping me be aware of my issues for me to fix them. This video has also answered my question on your previous video about “Resentment”. Thank you so much!

[@nicoelle]

You hit several nails on the head with this one, Dylan! 💜

[@kali697]

I am heard seen and validated I am cherished valued chosen wanted loved adored I speak with poise and confidence I want to feel pursued. I don’t want to be the first to be vulnerable. I’m affirming my SP is blowing up my phone and pouring out his heart to me.

[@mindsetwithmarian8600]

Perfectly said! So true.. it’s not about the should I contact or not it’s about your state, about what you are creating in that moment. Responding vs reacting 👏🏼

[@jensen5668]

When I learned we only have control over how we respond or react in life. It greatly helped me to let go an life began to simplify

[@chloegober4124]

I’m starting to realize that no one can make me a priority if I don’t make myself one first

[@jodilynn1945]

The abuse was valid and real. AND ownership was THE way out. Blame and shame are THE GAME of abuse. Ownership of internal state isn’t a negation of the fact of being a victim, they are paradoxically linked. Self esteem, integrity, and dignity is essential … (as you go into the school teacher example). Diggin your vibe and the way you convey Dylan. Glad I stumbled on you

[@Gottagetaway31]

Are you saying the way out of abuse was the other person taking ownership or you taking ownership and changing your internal state and changing you then changed all the red flags into green in your relationship and your SP stopped being abusive or hurtful or manipulative? I really would love to hear your reply as this would help my current situation tons.

[@jodilynn1945]

@michelle oh I had to give up the fantasy of them taking internal ownership, and then take my own internal ownership to that update with reality. I took ownership of my internal state of continuing to victimize myself unnecessarily through the fantasy of them changing or matching the empty words I was being fed.

[@jodilynn1945]

@@Gottagetaway31 they didn’t stop being abusive. I left the relationship, and eventually filed a restraining order - which was the pinnacle point of my healing and holding boundaries.

[@jodilynn1945]

Saying no. Enough is enough. Then holding to that and not caving to the fantasy anymore. It took me avout 7-8 months to come to terms. He was a sociopath, but I held to the hope for months that it was just an insecure attachment style. I hope in your case it’s the latter, but either way I had to put myself and my well being before the relationship. I hold an open heart, if they came through some miracle healing, I would have a conversation with them. But while the manipulation remains, so do the barriers. I’m not available for manipulation anymore and my ability to see it is so much sharper now. I move away without blame, I pray for those caught in the cycle of manipulation because ultimately as the one in the victim role I knew what it was like to be so hurt that I operated from believing it was the only way to get my needs met. The hard work of holding true to my self concept has been and continues to be worth ot

[@tchaney3777]

Think of the most striking operas: dissonance goes with every harmony and makes it so soulful.

[@kittyticklehips]

the student doing hard work vs ‘relaxing the rules a bit’ example is brilliant

[@hallow_yelloww2874]

I keep checking Dylan's website everyday for a week now to see if I can book a session. Waiting for Dylan to be available 😁

[@nadiasmith4477]

I literally found a shirt that says “BE THE CHANGE” without looking for it just browsing the Tees at five and below lol

[@sujoitamukherjee4361]

Wow after attracting whatever we want that's where the action comes into play...just wow...and Yeah DJ u always say and teach everything confidently and u always know what u say perfectly and that proves ur teaching (action) is also always inspired or guided from your self belief that u always know what to say when to say how to say...yes DJ u r living what u r teaching...thanks a lot....

[@starsilvia]

This video is super powerful and explains so well and easily how to manage ourselves!! Thank You Golden Angel Dylan!! 🙏🏾💖

[@beeruiz5972]

So I guess it wasn't the best thing to tell my SP that I'm just not feeling the connection we had anymore because he was not being consistent and showing me he didn't care about me and that I never wanted to talk to him again. Lol oh well, I reacted to my own perception of my reality. Let me just work on my self concept and be consistent and love myself. I'm not worried, he'll be back. It's impossible to mess up my manifestation. Everything is working out exactly how it's supposed to. Here's to all the fast reactors working on how they show up and building a unshakable self concept that's confident af! Lol

[@tnt01]

Apologize and let it go.

[@beeruiz5972]

Update: after completely letting it go and not thinking about it at all. He ended up calling me today (which is weird because he never calls me) - which is how I know Dylan's teachings work because I literally was just focusing on me and it came out the blue but I didn't end up answering because I knew I wasn't going to respond properly and I was emotional. Instead, I waited until I felt stable and apologized with love and understanding and I feel so liberated. I don't even care if he responds at this point I just feel high off life right now. At the end of the day I know I'm worthy of every desire I have and it's already done.

[@heyyourebeautiful3867]

Thank you for the video. I got in a low state today but I implemented my coping methods to move myself back into a stable state.

[@Lauren-jg9fm]

Thank you, Dylan. I really appreciate how you emphasise personal stability, as it’s something I’ve really only fully understood (and have been consciously working on) for a few months. But it makes such a difference.

[@Dianne327]

You are such a blessing!

[@taniaswain-williams1379]

Thank you for this video Dylan. Perfect timing for me. My self concept has, shifted and i woke up this mirning feeling so worthy

[@Spiritualheight]

Hi Dylan! I have been following since you started and now I come to realise that all the concepts you are trying to put through is all what nichiren Buddhism also preaches. You have helped me calm me down during my low vibrational state and trying to align with my SPs vibrations to manifest. My old belief system has been there for years. My manifestation has worked for certain things and not all.😒

[@silvermoon1051]

20:18 this makes so much sense

[@cherrypie1173]

DYLAN - W O W! I found your channel about a week or so again. I’ve been listening to the tapes at night and watching at least one other video a day. I have tried so many therapists and my life and this is the only time I finally get it. I always saw myself as a confident person, but turns out I often victimize myself and have high reactivity in tough situations. This amount of drama and unhappiness/instability in myself caused me to loose my relationship. It has been 5 months of loose communication with my SP and yesterday he told me he wants to get back together! :) I never did that “no contact” bullshit thanks for touching on this. I now feel so confident, worthy, chosen, and happy in myself. As soon as a doubt comes in my mind, or a bad situation, my subconscious immediately kicks in with your positive affirmation videos , it’s really working !! Thank you so much for all of your videos , it has totally changed my life. I will continue watching your videos as long as you make them. This is a life long practice in all areas of life not just relationships. Would love to chat sometime you have coaching back open

[@mel835]

The timing of this message is just 👌🏼🌠

[@mothoughtspoetry]

Dylan!!!! All this information is confirmation The changes that is happening within me is priceless

[@ASeasonInSidewinder]

11k views and 1.1k comments. I was supposed to watch this. I feel like you always upload exactly what I need to hear for that given day it's crazy.

[@rahulsomvanshi5543]

Dylan you took that bottle, opened then closed again & kept back!! Haha so cuteeeee of you 😛❤️ That’s how our focus should be (no matter what comes in between) there’s constant positive shift (trust) ❣️❣️

[@julianamarinova3241]

Yesterday I wished there was a video about communication, and here it is…❤️Thank you, Dylan!

[@neetarenner4442]

How are you so life changing? I am grateful for your channel!

[@lillianchen7239]

Dylan , you have the best explanation about “non contact “ concept ! Can’t agree with you more !

[@lenarecollet3747]

thank you, needed this today, almost had a moment and reached for this video

[@AikiraBeats]

I find myself getting in touch with my emotions especially when I allow myself the time to cry and feel. I usually bury my emotions till the end of the day but now I feel myself becoming aware of the pain that I’m holding and I’ll just start crying and giving myself a mental break. It’s super helpful knowing that I can handle my emotions.

[@mercyalvarado991]

Thank you for this 💛💛💛

[@millennialaffirmations8119]

the body language got me. i act so so so awkward around my crush and so does he. we need some more confidence

[@scorpiomorph120]

I’m trying so hard not to react to circumstances. I was doing good until my sp said he was going back home (in another state) for a while. I’ve been crying. The interesting thing is deep down inside I know he’ll be back for me. I know this is temporary. I know he loves only me and I’m gonna use this time to solidify my self concept. This circumstance is going to make us stronger. Everything is always working out in my favor.

[@scorpiomorph120]

Omg. I look back at my post and cringe at myself. I’ve been listening to the affirmations for 19 days now and I swear to u it’s like a light bulb just turned on in my head. I just had a sudden urge of confidence and certainty that I am a bad a**. I know for sure now I will not react to any circumstances because I decide what I want in my reality no matter what shows up. It will change because I will change it. I am the creator and everything will conform the way I want it to. This is all my old story and will push through until my new story conforms. I AM WORTH IT!!! 💪💡🤯

[@Karmathevisualizer1908]

This is so helpful and it like you talked straight to me. I deserve my sp I am chosen I don't react to 3 d because it's done he's my love and husband and it's done and I'm so greatful for your help. I'm grateful for this love I attract this love in my life because it's done it's always been done. And nothing can stop what's meant for me😊

[@pookieshark523]

I love and relate to everything you say, you have been such a huge blessing in my life. I am so grateful that you exist and that I have your videos to turn to whenever I need guidance. Thank you a billion times over! ❤

[@spiritualt2004]

I’m having dreams of my SP for the past 4 nights

[@katherinemccubrey9230]

Wow!! I’ve never felt heard, seen or validated 😵‍💫…when I was a kid or in my 25 yr long marriage. Will be listening to this one several times!

[@derrickdee7074]

Love ya Dylan, u must have a lot of energy like a positive linking energy cuz when I’m watching ur videos I will get text messages from people I’ve been thinking about at the same time ur on my phone screen

[@Mary_Rivas__]

Wow this came in handy because i feel like crap!

[@karochan8627]

Wow thank you for your amazing videos! I’ve been in a funk for a long time feeling anxious about my manifestation, watched ton of videos but it were your videos that were a real eye-opener for me. I felt really bad as I felt growing resentment towards my sp and I couldn’t shake it off no matter how many affirmations I said....I don’t want to feel any resentment...I’m done with it....I’ll focus now to feel good within myself and stop negative thinking about myself as well as my sp. Thank you so much again! ❤

[@heatherlove8771]

I know you state that dropping the thing, person or situation when your finding resistance; then seek the belief or assumptions we have placed on self. That we should feel-know are worth. What about while working on worth, confidence, security…. Deserving and you have the resistance?? I believe that wants I have that as my absolute I will see the limitless power and all these other areas of my life will indeed manifest. Do you have something to add to grounding and knowing and feeling those? ❤️

[@roshniranglani760]

Everything is coming from inside of my mind only

[@johnissathorpe4807]

Video liked before seen, cuz I know is one good content

[@Nash_Aurora]

Right now my mood is: talk to other ppl cuz I'm a queen I don't chase

[@samhathaway3323]

Whoop whoop 🙌 ! Again sooo good. 💕💕💕

[@onesoullove1111]

Dylan you mirror exactly how I feel love your content

[@brookebenton8192]

I was doing great until my pms hit:/ I'm working hard to re focus. It puts me in such a negative space mentally. Hormones can be rough! Lol

[@joanbrown5823]

Good job Dylan......thank you so much you simplified soooo much for me. Thanks again.

[@jamberia255]

Hi Dylan, I wish you were around when I used to work with my Twin Flame. It would have been interesting to see what a difference it would have made in that situation. However, since I started using the Self-Concept Limitless Manifester audio, I've seen more signs than ever of her coming back. I've definitely have been noticing positive changes in myself and others as well 😊 Thank You So Much!

[@anonymousb430]

Can i just say you are making my life better with all these videos that you post thank you xx

[@user-zy1co9hy9m]

Your channel is amazing!!! Thank you Dylan!

[@renee8906]

love you SO MUCH DYLAN

[@baddiexcharts]

Dylan you’re amazing ✨🕯

[@catherineli2651]

Can you please make a video on how we should deal with things in our past? For example, do we revise and say that it never happened and think about our past as if we were who we are now or do we try to completely not think about anything that has happened? What do we do if we feel as if we are the ones that have messed up and hurt our SP?

[@IAm_DylanJames]

I dont suggest revision, this is just my personal approach: I suggest identifying the beliefs that created the circumstances and using the past experience to build a new you that can materialize a new result. I touched on this, in this video.

[@catherineli2651]

@@IAm_DylanJames So if you keep on talking about how you were an undesirable version of yourself before but how you are the best version of yourself now that isn’t reaffirming past assumptions?

[@IAm_DylanJames]

@@catherineli2651 no. You look at the circumstance once, pull out the beliefs, lessons. Then focus only on building the beliefs and stepping into that version of yourself. You’re not going to keep going over it. You pull out all the useful understandings, drop the circumstance/let it go and use it to build the new self concept. You’re not going to dwell or continue to think about it. You take what’s useful, drop the rest. Sounds like there needs to be forgiving yourself that comes into play because if you feel bad for something, it’s going to be really difficult to drop it.

[@MARIAMIRANDA-xl6dj]

Thank you ! I needed to hear this.

[@malinagruen7523]

Thank you, Dylan! :)

[@Ang.143]

I needed this today. Thanks

[@junebug_8976]

Gotta take ownership!! Very important! 👍🏻

[@vanessadisco6643]

8:20 Complete and utter truth. All of it.

[@maxstress7341]

I've asked this before, but I'm still here: if the other person has a poor belief about themselves (ie. they're not worthy of real, true love), plus they were experiencing untreated depression for 2 years, and then one day they wake up and break up with you after 4 years, how does their own self-beliefs NOT play into that? I'm not perfect, but I'm also not young and I have actually done a lot of this work on myself already and I am so confident in how I showed up in that relationship; I'd give myself a 97% as far as what you tell us we should be doing. But if he believes those things of himself and has for 30+ years, and he sabotaged the relationship because that's what his brain tells him he has to do with something good, I don't see how I could have done anything differently to change his own beliefs 🤷‍♀️. For the record, I am aware of the things I could have changed within myself, but there were literally only maybe 3 things, and he was the first to say it had nothing to do with me or anything I did, because he believed I could do no wrong.

[@Nash_Aurora]

You have to believe him as the person you want. The lovable, devoted,healed lover. It all comes down to the mind

[@spiritfreedom3020]

You are a saint, I love you 😂😂💘