Retirement க்கு பிறகு வாழ்க்கை?! மஹாபாரதம் காட்டும் வழி | T.K.V Rajan | Guru

[@shanthis6370]

நடைமுறை வாழ்க்கையின் எதார்த்தமான பதிவு அருமை ஐயா தங்களுக்கு என் மேலான நன்ற 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@pathy631955]

So the best advice is that never react to anything and never expect anything after retirement.

[@indiradayananda9798]

Nice and valuable suggestion to retaired people thank you

[@dinkernrao9140]

Knowingly or unknowingly I am following the Vithur's advice since two years. Very happy.

[@rajus6270]

வணக்கம் தங்கள் பணி மேலும் தொடர மனமார்ந்த நல்வாழ்த்துக்கள், ராஜு

[@dallas6satha11]

இது பழமையான கதை வயதான முதியவர் இழப்பினால் இளையவர் வாழ்வார்எனில் இறக்தயாரான முதியோர் நிறைய இப்போது இருக்காங்க சிந்தனைகள் மாறி விட்டது

[@geethakannan2640]

உண்மை சார் என் அப்பா அவருடைய ஓய்வுக்கு பிறகு எங்களுக்கு மற்றும் சுற்றத்தார்க்கும் நிறைய உதவிகளைச் செய்து கொடுத்தார் 15 வருடமாக இன்முகத்துடன் அவர் இறந்த பின் தான் அவருடைய பணி எத்தகையது என்பதை உணர்கிறேன் அவர் இறந்து 7 வருடம் ஆய்விட்டது இன்றளவும் என்னைப் பார்த்தால் எங்கள் அப்பா அம்மா இருவரைப் பற்றி ஆதங்கம் படுவார்கள்.

[@venksheramana5836]

Thanks a lot ji really motivates

[@swamigand7103]

மிக. மிக.அருமைநான். அறிந்து.கொன்டோன் இது. உன்மை உன்ைமயான பக்தி. பாசம். அண்பு. மறியாைத. யாரிடமும். இல்ல. நனறி. வாழ்க. வளமுடன்

[@k.prabhakaran5504]

Beautiful short and sweet stories for life after retirement from Mahabharata by Shri Rajan were crisp and sharp and shows the truth and preperation for leading our life.

[@asokanasokan5145]

நன்றி மிகவும் நல்ல பதிவு அனைவருக்கும் பயனுள்ள விசயம்

[@krishnakumarytheivendran503]

பகவான்கிருஷ்ணனிடம்சரணாகதியடைந்துவாழ்ந்துஇறுதிக்காலத்தைகடந்துசெல்லுவோம்ஸர்வம்கிருஷ்ணார்ப்பணம்🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@selvarajm7311]

சர்வம் கிருஷ்ணார்ப்பணம் 🙏

[@santhig4909]

Excellent sir thank you

[@trvasudevan3699]

Super sir I am age 72 with wife.after covid all my work do my self only including preparation of food also. Another thing I am stroke person my left hand not function. No pension income. But I am doing catering services support my wife also. Your advice very importan of everyone lite. Thanks lot❤

[@umaraviiyer7557]

Superb will power

[@svasudhasarangapani7678]

A very practical and interesting talk. Thank you Sir.

[@shobhajayakumar6952]

Beautiful. Thank you

[@mathivanants935]

அருமையான பதிவு நன்றி நன்றி

[@manivasagamm3080]

100% REALISTIC GOOD SUGGESTION .PARTICULARLY be ready for next/ another LIFE.❤🙏🙏🙏 T.K.V.RAJAN SIR.

[@dhanasekarant4527]

ஐயா அவர்களுக்கு நன்றி உங்கள் பதிவுகள் மிகவும் அருமை

[@jayanthidissanayaka9121]

மிகவும் பயனுள்ள தகவல்கள் 🙏🙏🙏 மிக்க நன்றி 🙏🙏 ஓம் சாந்தி

[@ravivc2952]

Useful Thanks Sir

[@rajagopalanmanoharan2380]

Sir After retirement,nobody respect To me,including my wife,and daughter, because of money It is punishment life Daily lam doing yoga, this is My peaceful life R.manoharan

[@seethalakshmi561]

Ú

[@seethalakshmi561]

🙏🙏🙏

[@ganesanr736]

I am a Retired person. என்னை பொறுத்தவரை இறந்தால்தான் அடுத்த வாழ்க்கை அடுத்த ஜென்மம் என்பது கிடையாது. இப்போது வாழ்ந்து வரும் வாழ்க்கையின் ஒவ்வொரு க்ஷணமுமே ஒரு புது ஜென்மம்தான். எனவே எப்போதுமே உற்சாகம்தான் - ஆனந்தம்தான். எனக்கு மகாபாரதம் என்றால் என்னவென்றே தெரியாது. தெரிந்துகொள்ள விருப்பமும் இல்லை. என் புத்தி சொல்றபடி நான் வாழ்க்கையை புரிந்துகொண்டுள்ளேன். வாழ்ந்து வருகிறேன். நன்றி.

[@thiruchchelvimanivannan3698]

அது நீங்கள் புண்ணியம் செய்தவராக இருக்கலாம்.

[@ganesanr736]

@@thiruchchelvimanivannan3698 புண்ணியமெல்லாம் இல்லை. அதெல்லாம் எனக்கு தெரியாது. யாருக்கும் ப்ரச்னை கொடுக்காமல் எனக்கும் ப்ரச்னை இல்லாமல் வாழ்ந்து வருகிறேன்.

[@balushri09]

Read or see the all episode of Mahabharata along with bagavat Geetha,you will be refined further bcoz you are unpolished diamond now. Time is short,think of it.

[@ganesanr736]

@@balushri09 தேவையில்லை. You are only unpolished and need to understand. You are a Big Zero in understanding as "There is No Time"

[@krishnanpitchai2563]

​@@ganesanr736😂

[@chettuppattubalaji4464]

Excellant. Indeed required this advice

[@sakthiganesan5133]

🙏 அற்புதமான உரை, அனுபவத்திற்கே வழி காட்டும் வாழ்வியலின் எதார்த்தம். புரிந்து வாழ்பவர் நிம்மதியான காண்பார்.

[@mrs.murugan7092]

Very good 😊😊 Essential.advice😊😊

[@sarojar9844]

Hello sir,first time i heard u r speech, it was really wonderful words,i will take u r words.even iam retired person. Tx u for the motivational.

[@ramanujamr2030]

200 percent true be isolated. From family without harming anybody 18:46

[@revathi1412]

Dear Retired persons, The above suggestions are may also useful to certain people....where as, as long as you are mentally and physically fit you can live even in hell....first of all we have accept the changes whole heartedly and love unconditionally and plan your daily life...love your spouse even if she/ he is out of your way....if you get time to do public service without any expectations...apart from the time you have to spend to your family .., love yourself....go out to see the God's creation and man's creation....love everything..the see...sky is your limit ...Last June 2022, I got Retirement...ADR

[@ramachandrannadar374]

அருமையான பதிவு

[@sasikalababu8816]

So nice

[@jayanarasimman6425]

Excellent message sir

[@ananthanarayanans8262]

Excellent ஜூன் 30 என சொல்லியிருக்கலாம்

[@subramaniamayyadurai7149]

Excellent advice 👍

[@vijayalakshmiramakrishna3441]

Thank you very much.

[@natarajanbaradwaj3560]

I retired 3 years ago very happily after 41 years of service in private sector. I continue to live in the same home with my family. I chose to learn Bhagavad Gita chanting along with learning the devanagiri script. Sthitappragnya was the first catch word that appealed to me from the Gita. My normally very independent mindset has only strengthened further upon learning the fuller meaning of this word. Luckily I have full mental support of my family to fill the gaps where I felt my independence may suffer. It gives me a great sense of pride in taking care of my aged parents' (both in their 90's) day to day needs though from overseas . I share my time between my family living abroad and my parents living in India by travelling to and fro a couple of times in a year. Retirement has so far been a great blessing for me.

[@balajiramanathanfeellikebe2874]

Really motivational

[@chandramohang8342]

🙏

[@mohammedazhar4320]

அடுத்த வாழ்கைக்கு தயாராவது. அது பயனுள்ளதாக அமைய வேத நூல்களை படிக்கலாம். இறைவன் யார் ? அவன் எங்கே இருக்கிறான்? அவன் நமக்கு என்ன செய்தான்? மரணத்தின் பின்பு என்ன நடக்கும்? விடை தேடுவதற்கு வேத நூல் குரான் மொழிபெயர்ப்பையும் வாசிக்கலாம்.

[@ramahsridharen4331]

சிறுவயது வாழ்க்கையை அனுபவித்தவர்கள் ரிடையர்டு ஆகி கடந்த கால சந்தோஷத்தை நினைத்து மீதி வாழ்நாளை தனியாகவே தள்ளலாம். ஆனால் சிறுவயதில் கஷ்டப்பட்டவர்கள் மனபாரத்தோடு கடைசி மூச்சை விடுகிறார்கள்.

[@raghavanragupathy480]

எல்லாம் சரி ஓய்வு ஊதியம்(CPS) பெறாதவர்கள் நிலையில் உள்ளோர் நிலைக்கு பொருந்தரமாதிரி அமையவில்லை என்பது என் கருத்து. அதற்கு பதில் தருவீர்கள் என நினைத்து பதி விடுகிறேன். நன்றியுடன்.

[@kumaresanambika9347]

நான் அரசு பணியில் இருந்து ஓய்வு பெற்றவன் எனக்கு வயது 62 பிறக்க போகிறது எனது மனைவி என்னை ஒரு குழந்தையை பராமரிப்பதை போல் பார்த்து கொள்கின்றார்.எனக்கு இறைவன் அருளால் அவள் கிடைத்தது.

[@seshadrisampath8435]

Arumai

[@rkrishnakumar7141]

Avoid "Expect" and apply "Accept"..whatever Comes or Goes...to handle life peacefully till the end...This must be REAL and all others are REEL....

[@jayanthimugundhan8100]

Arumai .

[@Mani-u3g]

Super thought

[@SsureshSethu-ym3jq]

எனக்கு ஒரு தாத்தா இருந்தார்.அவருடைய ஒரே மகன் இறந்து அடுத்து மனைவியும் இறந்து விட தன்னுடைய தங்கையின் குடும்பத்தோடு வாழ்ந்துவந்தார்.தங்கையின் பிள்ளைகள் திருமணமாகி பிள்ளை குட்டிகள் ஓடு வேறு வேறு ஊரில் வசித்தாலும் 80 வயதைக் கடந்த தன் தாய் மாமா மீது பாசமாக இருப்பார்கள். தாத்தாவைக்கண்டு யாரும் முகம் சுழிக்க மாட்டார்கள்.தாத்தா அவ்வளவு அன்பாகவும் பண்பாகும் இருப்பார்.80 வயதைக் கடந்த பின்னும் யார் வீட்டில் தங்கியிருந்தாலும்.அவருக்கான வேலையைச் செய்வார்.கிடுகு பின்னுவார்.நார்க் கூடை விளக்குமாறு ஏதாவது கைத்தொழில் செய்து சம்பாதிப்பார்.அதை அங்குள்ளவர்களுக்கே கொடுத்து விடுவார் .தனக்கென்று வைத்துக் கொண்டதில்லை.அனைவரும் அவர் மீது பிரியமாய் இருப்பார்கள். அவர் 90 வயதை நெருங்கும் போது இறைவனடி சேர்ந்தார்.அவரை இன்றும் நினைத்து பெருமைப் படுகிறார்கள்

[@happytalk8428]

As he is getting pension he can use part of amount as pocket money buying coffee while going for walking nearby hotel or He can prepare for his own need. Only these two ways .

[@parvathiuma7098]

Excellent

[@balasubramanianh6843]

My family says i am more jovial after retirement. I enjoy with friends - school, college, walking and company . Lead your life simple with minimal expectations. Don't stress yourself and chase things. Let go things. Nothing is permanent including your wealth or worries

[@balachandranduraiswamy3860]

Very nice but it will differ from one person to another for reasons. Balachandran

[@muthukrishnankrishnamoorth3338]

மிக பயனுள்ள கருத்துக்கள்.

[@sundharvn8081]

Ivar than kezl Ulla paniyalargalidamum, manaiviyidamumum eppadi nadanthu konadar? Sinthikkasollavum, athu Maru magalidam reflect aagum.

[@raguiyer5247]

Thank you.

[@venkatasubramaniann2688]

Thanks

[@yogiadityanathabhimani]

Save Hinduism in t n

[@agniswaransattanathan4257]

Very nice @ Excellent 👌

[@subathrasanthanam2207]

Sir u are correct. Those in govt job get pension , what about private employees, who are the majority of our population

[@MultiZmd]

No retirement problem, because no retirement.

[@kaliappanpillai6258]

Yes, I am a retired person from private job with a small pension of Rs.1587/ But my sons are taking care of us very well, we lead a peaceful life as we take things as it come and expecting less some time nothing at all

[@Panda-cn5jk]

Whatever you mentioned is right for situations before covid. But after covid situation is different, in the name of working from home we are all partially practicing retirement life. Since we are home all the time, majority of the couples are either hate each other or they give up and live like sanyasi. Husbands are going to grocery stores, sometime act like Uber driver and drop off wife at their shopping malls…. So people who are retiring 10 years from now will be well prepared for retirement and in fact they might even start to enjoy their life.

[@araamudhansrinivasan350]

😊

[@araamudhansrinivasan350]

😊😊

[@ramachandrankrishnan7681]

well said. Most of the people are not only work from home, they work for home also.

[@murugesanchennai2360]

உண்மை

[@giridhariprasad6704]

Om namachiwya

[@soundherrajt6329]

புலம்பல் மட்டுமே.. திட்டமிடல் இல்லை.

[@saradha.shanmugam7284]

Thirumanam nadakaahabaradhathil theervu irkungla sir nan enadhu magangaluku aga nenga sonna story la mathirayay na sapduven uruthuyaga solgiren

[@kumarm8169]

Sir can I get original sorry book of mahabharath in tamil ?

[@murugesan8183]

Very good information, keep it sir. Vaazga Valamudan

[@indumathi8553]

If we do not depend on others especially food and cooking for themselves half of our problem will get vanished

[@jayanthidissanayaka9121]

It's true 🙏

[@ambujavallidesikachari8861]

After retirement, I registered with a school for vision impaired people and recorded books for their studies. This lasted for more than 10 years. Only during COVID time I withdrew.

[@jeganjeyabaskaran3895]

Great work !

[@sarojadevi8830]

We have two daughters. We are sure our children will take care and provide all comforts.

[@shobithamr466]

❤ very nice explanation 😅

[@rajasekarank9570]

Very nice explanation

[@sakunthalabalu7446]

ரிட்டயர்ட் ஆனவர்கள் அவர்கள் நன்றாக இருந்து கொண்டு மனைவியை துன்புறுத்துகிறார்கள். மனைவி தான் எங்காவது செல்ல வேண்டும்

[@radhikanatarajan617]

100/ unmai than After retirement they simply sitting and eating. Extra cups of coffee drink panni kittu wife ku velai than extra. But no retirement or care for wifes. Nimmadhi ye illai

[@radhikanatarajan617]

This is my current situation. But no way to go . Life end only true

[@ganesanr736]

@@radhikanatarajan617 Ask him to do Kitchen work Madam. I am Retired. Daily I am doing Morning Cooking. Rice, Sambar or Rasam, Kootu or Vathakkal,. Just one hour Job. Happily I am doing.

[@radhikanatarajan617]

@@ganesanr736 Idhellam en lifela eppa vum kidaiyadhu. 37 years married life.After return from work only smoking and full rest. Mercyless heart with him

[@venkatesansc7577]

Afterretirement no body care us

[@thiagarajannarayanasamy1571]

Listen to Srimad Bagvatham discourses by Brammarishi Nochur Venkataraman ( for example) you will get to know self and Brammam and subsequently to get rid of the cycle of birth and death by surrendering to Sri Krishna the pramathma .

[@balajiramanathanfeellikebe2874]

Nochuranna discourse standard is literally ph.d. v can't expect all to understand his philosophy. V r blessed.

[@malathyrajaraman7559]

Your explanation is good. But not applicable for all. Bcoz late marriage people, late issue people when money s 100% neccessary retired person could not take rest. So some retired people experience their karma till end.

[@senamuttiah2146]

திருச்சிற்றம்பலம்

[@baburajv3075]

வாழ்க்கையின் எதாா்த்தம்.

[@rajendardeo]

31.05.2022 retired from local body (Namakkal Municipality,TAMIL NADU) till date (10.06.2023) not received pension nearly 1 year 1 month how to run my family and My sons education expenses how to solve?

[@kavithanaidu3476]

Pray the God, higher being definetly will help you. Hope positively

[@venkatramana236]

When you were about to retire, you should have contacted with the pension department in the last few months, You should have checked if there is any problem relating to your service records... Should have planned about your future and should have made little savings... Move the High Court to get the retirement benefits at the earliest...

[@rajendardeo]

Local fund office,Chennai Office staffs no fund allowed for new pensioners till (14.06.2023)

[@ramahsridharen4331]

ஆனால் ரிடையர் ஆன சிலருக்கு வயதான தாய் ,தந்தை இருக்கும் சூழலில் அவர்களுடைய தேவைகளை பூர்த்தி செய்வதே பெரிய கஷ்டமாகத்தான் இருக்கிறது..

[@senthamaraishanmugam5771]

Enakku koncham kooda pidikkamal poivittuthu

[@jayathubaratham3815]

மொத்த மக்கள் தொகையில் எத்தனை சதவிகிதம் பேர் அரசு வேலையில் உள்ளனர் எத்தனை பேருக்கு பென்சன் கிடைக்கும் ஐயா

[@ananthakumarkasiviswanatha590]

There is no life after retirment. This world only look upon people who have power and money.

[@drramakrishnansundaramkalp6070]

#Many suffer from #Yayathi_Syndrome During or After Retirement Im Dr RamaKrishnan Kalpathy Sundaram Researcher in Clinical & SanathanaDharamic Psychology

[@subbalakshmisubrahmanyam4207]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@drv.ramanathanveerasamy3471]

மிக நல்ல கதை! நானும் ஒரு ஓய்வு பெற்றவர் தான்!

[@SakthivelSakthi-mu3je]

Vanakam

[@ravindranchandra4751]

Super sir excellent

[@geethapriyasv9364]

Retired life is not addressed.. pure male dominance

[@chandrasekaran4479]

So then don't get married 😂

[@sunrays472]

Let's throw away the western culture, language, ideas, knowledge etc., (Remember, Christianity is the basis for western culture and civilization) and everything that was brought in by the Missionaries. Let us follow our own Vedic culture and practice the principles and rituals taught in our scriptures. Following western culture, and their way of life will pollute/distort the positive vibes and the pure energy field created by our mantras , rituals etc., making our religious practices ineffective. Moreover, it will predispose us to accepting Christian values and encourage conversion. (Conversion is very high in westernised nations like China, South Korea, Taiwan etc., but nil in countries like North Korea, Laos, Cambodia etc. Even in India, our culture and religion are strong and vibrant in states like UP, MP, Rajasthan, Bihar, Jharkhand, and Odisha, where the western influence is minimal.) Even the anti-conversion laws and the hard work by our deshbakth Organizations won't be able to prevent this worrying trend. 2. Make use of our own ancient wisdom, to make our nation great. Let us stop and reverse westernization and follow the Vedic life style. Our ancient wisdom is far superior to western knowledge and science. It has answers for all the problems plaguing the human race and has the power to make us strong, powerful and prosperous. 3.By harnessing the amazing powers of yantras, tantras, mantras, poojas, yagnas, tapas, sacrifice, rituals, yoga, astrology, vasthu, sathru samhar(for safety and security) and other ancient technologies, our ancestors were able to achieve unimaginable results and attain greater heights. Let's make use of these god-given technologies and follow the letter and spirit of our sacred knowledge to make our nation great. The Government should take immediate steps to teach this sacred knowledge to our school and college students. 4. All the other scriptures were written by humans, but our Vedas, puranas and the other sacred literature were received as vibration, from the gods,through the tapas of our rishis.That is why the eternal, unchanging principles contained therein are known as Sanadhan Dharma. Christians boast of the bible as the basis for the constitution and jurisprudence of the developed and many other nations. They credit it for their prosperity and all round development. Islamic nations like Pakistan, Iran, Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan etc. have their constitution based on the Quran and even our neighbouring Srilanka has its constitution based upon buddist principles. We should strive to transform India into a Vedic society by following these timeless principles and basing our constitution and jurisprudence on it. 5. To maintain purity and high levels of cosmic energy, follow our scriptures and avoid traveling overseas. Because the alien Vibes will pollute our energy field and drain away the cosmic energy accumulated through the poojas and rituals. (For this very reason, our saints like the sankaracharyas never travel abroad.) Avoid physical contact with foreigners as far as possible. 6.We should diligently observe the rituals, poojas, yagnas etc. and follow the socio-economic order mentioned in the scriptures, to make India a shining example for others. 7. 'Vedam' means 'Knowledge for enlightenment, needed for attaining Moksha'.The Christians openly distribute their vedham and even the Muslims do the same. We should make our vedhas and religious literature freely available to the population, so that they could know the right path and receive the knowledge to attain Moksha. This will also put an end to conversions. 8. The Puranas and Idhihasas are the glorious history of our nation. Let us teach it to the children in our schools and colleges, so that they are proud of their heritage. The character and life history of our gods like Shiva, Bhramma, Vishnu etc. should be taught to the children to inculcate moral, ethical values right from their childhood. 9. Our ancestors named people and places, based upon the time tested Vedic principles, to create positive/beneficial vibes and energy fields. But now a days, we don't give importance to this matter. Even the name of the religion has been changed by the white Christians, without consulting the religious authorities. The time has come to give a fresh look into this matter. 10. Our nation can prosper, only if the Brahmins are looked after well. Special efforts should be made by the governments, to ensure the Brahmins enjoy a respectable standard of living in the society. Brahmin advisors should be appointed in all Government, semi- government and other organisations/departments. 11. The Christian Britishers outlawed many of our centuries old religious and social customs and practices under the guise of equality (of all communities), women's liberation, rule of law, democracy, universal education etc. But their intention was to spread their religion. We need to seriously think about this and see what we can do to bring back our lost glory. 12. Let us make it a people's movement, under the leadership of the Deshbakths and saints, to get this message across to all our country men. This is the best way to establish a Vedic society. Those who support my views please give a like 👍

[@paranibhaskaran5058]

இது சரியான பதிவு அல்ல, மஹாபாரதம் சொல்வது தன் மரியாதை இல்லை என்றால் அடுத்த கட்டம் தேடுவது பற்றி சொல்கிறது, தம் குடும்பம் உடன் வாழ்வதை சிரமம் என்றால் இதுவரை வாழ்ந்ததில் அர்த்தம் இல்லை, அப்படி இருந்தால் அவன் இதுவரை வாழவேயில்லை என்று அர்த்தம். நிம்மதி என்பது வரும் கஷ்டங்களை எதிர் கொள்ள வேண்டும், விலகி செல்வது அல்ல. தவறான வழி சொல்ல வேண்டாம்.

[@kanthimathi1000]

👌👌👌👏👏👏👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Subbu297]

Retirement kku piragu time pass kku nalla story Ramayana & Mahabharatam..youths should not waste their precious time on this..

[@balushri09]

Wrong advice,youth should read and understand the epics. Then their life would be great and easy to go ahead and can tune their kids in right path.

[@subbiahmuthukumar1844]

ஜூன் 31 ஏது?

[@ganesanp6766]

இதுதானய்யா உண்மை

[@kalamahendran5967]

ஏன் இந்த ஆண்களுக்கு தமக்குரிய முறையில் காப்பி கூட தயாரிக்க தெரிவதில்லை.

[@ChandraChandra-dw6sm]

I have energy to work and earn money but i have no option to work society look upon me as old age person.

[@kanmaniramamoorthy3730]

June 31 ?

[@thathvabindu4846]

Just a slip of the tongue error.

[@senthamaraishanmugam5771]

Enakku 65.avarukku 73

[@girijaganesh4291]

No sir srantha பதிவு

[@murugan21958]

ஜூன் 30 தேதி தான் 31 இல்லை

[@murugesan1696]

Mahabharatham oru karpanai kathaithan.ethulla nee vera urutturiya uruttu.

[@muralidharan2796]

தமிழகத்தில் பணி ஓய்வு ஒரு வரப்பிரசாதம். மிக மோசமான அரசாட்சி கடந்த 55 ஆண்டுகளாக தமிழகத்தில். பணி ஓய்வில் ஒரு விடியல்.

[@omvetrivel]

கையாலாகாதவர்கள் பேசும் பேச்சு😂

[@ravidhamodharan439]

உண்மை.

[@tribesindiachennaicooptex333]

@@ravidhamodharan439 u

[@qweltq623]

அடுத்த வாழ்க்கைக்கு தயார் ஆகுங்கள் என்று சொல்லிக்கொண்டே இருக்கிறார் ! அடுத்த வாழ்க்கை - யார் கொடுப்பார்கள் ? நம்மை கேட்டு நம்மை படைக்கவில்லையே ?

[@essaar1956]

நல்லதே நினைப்போம், செய்வோம், நல்லதே நடக்கும்.

[@usharetnaganthan302]

I retired when I reached 65, now I am 69. I planned for my retired life, downsized the house which could be easy to manage. My husband is three years older than me. I planned my retirement life to help my daughter's family, who was living close to my place. I used to go there by the time my grandsons return from school, feed them, clean the kitchen and make their dinner, after my daughter or SIL returns I come back to my place. Everything was going good until Covid-19 hit the nation. Both of them started to work from home, moreover we had to isolate, so stayed home. But unfortunately my daughter and Son in law started unnecessary arguments, because both of them were working from home they didn't get a break from one and another, both of them got their own ego finally she decided to get legal separation, didn't want to listen to me. They sold their house according to family law split the money, I already told her that I wouldn't accommodate her or don't expect financial support from me. But she was so arrogant she said she doesn't need any support she could manage. But whatever it is when things ended up I was so worried about her and her son who was 13 at that time, so I said she could stay with me for one year until the final settlement of their separation, but it is a temporary place for her. But once they moved in she went through severe depression had to go for medical treatment stay away from work for almost four months. It was such miserable time for me. My husband is an alcoholic, you know how alcoholics make excuses for their behavior so most of the time he was drunk. By God's help and medication she gradually got back to normal this January she got back to work now she has bought her own apartment and she started moving from here, end of this month my Grandson's schooling will be done, so end of this month they will be gone. Her older son Started his University last year was staying in residence at the campus, for this summer holidays he is working in the bank where his father works. All these days I was cooking for them, packing their lunch laundry everything for them. In fact I wanted to live relaxed peaceful life, but no peace of mind at all. Since she started this separation business I went through so much of agony. Thankfully my son and daughter in law were so supportive during the bad time, my son is the one who took care of his sister's medication and so supportive. My daughter in law doesn't even belong to our community, but still very understanding and supportive. Hoping to have a peaceful time from next month, but however get to struggle with my drunked Husband. He is 72, taking medication for BP, diabetes and colostrol, but he thinks that he is perfect. I am also taking medication for all those problems. My son advises me not to take it to my mind let him do whatever he wants, worrying will ruin my health. Just admit the fact that he is a drunked and mind my business, we will deal with the effects when we face it. However it bothers me I get irritated when I see him drunk, we are in Canada for the last 32 years, getting reasonable income to live a decent lifestyle, but because of people's behavior going through such a miserable time.

[@abiramisankar24]

Each and everyone have their own problems.. without problems no one is living in this world.. Don't worry.. Pray God.. everything ll be shuttle.. God bless you a peaceful life further😊

[@usharetnaganthan302]

@@abiramisankar24 Thank you for your supportive words 🙏.

[@kaliappanpillai6258]

I appreciate you as you had planned well everything, despite your plan and efforts, things gone out of control due to the ego and not heeding your advice. I also fully admire you son and daughter in law.God has blessed you with an understanding, responsible and helpful son and daughter in law

[@usharetnaganthan302]

@@kaliappanpillai6258 🙏 Thank you sir.

[@princejeyaseelan9313]

😂😂😂😂

[@sampathiyengar2091]

அற்புதமான பதிவு

[@shanmugamkrishnasamy283]

அருமையான பதிவு.

[@thathvabindu4846]

Very nice

[@Someone31569]

அருமையான பதிவு 😊

[@saraskabalikabali4705]

Thank you very much sir

[@selvaranirani9411]

நல்ல பதிவு. நன்றி